Distractions Kill Dreams - Social Proof Hot Seat🔥🔥 #14
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00:00 Intro
00:02:40 Empowering women through personal transformation.
00:03:38 Different club experience.
00:10:53 My selling point is my story, my testimony.
00:11:30 Talking through relationship trauma.
00:18:50 Relationship distractions.
00:20:02 Listening to my intuition.
00:22:56 Toxic relationships and patterns.
00:27:13 Social media and self-love.
00:31:07 Self-motivation and productivity.
00:35:33 Nobody's coming to save you.
00:40:22 Not wanting to do tech.
00:43:34 Nobody's coming to save you.
00:48:29 Verbally abusive relationships.
00:51:22 Self-discovery.
00:54:42 Self-confidence and self-love issues.
00:57:28 Faith in winning.
#entrepreneur #smallbusiness #podcast #howto #coaching
Everybody thinks they can coach. Sometimes, its more powerful to be the person that sparks conversations. A podcast were she interviews real experts and learn from them in real time will be a hit.
Basically what David said.
Facts because it seems like with relationships ppl want to run to empowering ppl. Like do a lil more healing first
“You can’t save anyone else while trying to save yourself!” 😮 I felt that … David
Where u felt it ?😂
I feel like on her podcast, she should bring on people who got out of abusive or toxic relationships to tell their stories. No advice! Then the next episode she brings on a psychologist or therapist to break down all of the warning signs and red flags in the story and practical steps for what to do in those situations.
Love this episode. Love her authenticity. I see that she really does want to be a better person it’s really just a process… stay strong queen you got this!! We all been through it.. 🙂
Lately I’ve been really into understanding how our brain tricks us and I think in some way we seek to help others as a way to fix ourselves. There’s something there. Delusion.
I love these segments! David don’t listen to any negative reviews… You can develop these to become RUclips golden!!! Other podcast are not even producing content this productive!! I love this! ❤❤❤
😮 When she finally asked a question, “What do you think I should work on first?”, I thought progress had been made. Until she responded “coaching”
We have to stay away from the distractions (relationships, sex, talking to people too) Fast from any of those distractions❤
Continue asking questions sis. Write down what respect and self respect looks like to you. Accept nothing less.
This is so cringe because it mirrored my self. It’s ok though we’ll be alright. Pour into your self and your overflow will pour into others.
Love you ❤
She just has gotten good at sounding like she has something going on. I honestly don’t think that she’s in any position to be coaching anyone. If she’s going to self develop, I think that’s great but anything beyond that is a reach for someone in her position right now.
I see this so much online where people get so involved in the character that they’re trying to portray themselves as on social media, that when you start asking certain questions, you quickly see that they have no clue who they are or what they want to be.
Everybody that wants to start a business should watch this series FIRST
David, this was another eye opener. I have to face my fears. Maybe she is scared of rejection or abandonment.
I believe so, she seems to have answer for her problems but not solutions or practical solutions
❤
This really blesses me. Got my whole life together. Jesus is the only one saving me and He got me doing the work and development! You can’t get around it! Gotta build!
Seems to me like she’s motivated by the potential money than passion for helping the women she claims to serve. The reason she gave for getting on the platform was to increase her brand awareness was suspect. Not wanting to build and serve a community, lack of self-motivation in her own personal development, living in her story…I can go on. Seems like she has a lot to work out from within to try and coach women with similar challenges. Bless her heart.
This is constructive,hope she prioritize self awareness.
Honestly girly you got so much growing to do. I agree with Dave get a product or a service and grow that and continue to grow and work on yourself just stay on this self love journey
It seems she believes the online her is the real her. That’s spooky
This!
The videographer part was a good chuckle. There’s much growing for her to do…I hope it’ll come with time. Wishing her continued success.
She is not ready to help others she has to learn how to not get distracted she gets attached to ppl and get side tracked. Taking time for yourself is very important, taking a couple of years to focus on myself was the best thing I’ve ever done. I showed for myself I’ve became disciplined and consistent I’m not perfect. But I learned that I had do it all myself and the right ppl will come. Good luck to her.
This should’ve been a hot seat with Donni
I hope she takes heed bc he definitely just upgraded her plan💪🏾
Bro, this just hooked me! GOD has been leading me in such an enlightening direction, since I started to forfeit the trash for HIM to help me abandon. Baby steps are necessary. There is a process of operations for reaching that final destination, and I am so grateful for this gift of inspiration. ❤️🔥🥰
When people say Abusive then say Verbal I no longer look at them as a victim cause sticks and stones make break my bones but words could never hurt me
12:50 Daviddddddd you talking to me!!!! I am a student to many & a master at a very few!!!! No one is coming to saving me…. My issue is learning the skill but not executing in a timely manner 😢
David has done much wisdom!!!!!
You can’t learn from an empty cup. Not everyone needs to be a coach right away. Understood where David was coming from.
Unc be dropping gems sometimes 🔥🔥 the social media comment hit fr
I love these episodes and how David keep it so real!!
Awesome Advice David❤️ thank you
Great job Tamera keep pushing there's more work to be done
This was an amazing eye-opening conversation!!
This was an EXCELLENT episode!
17:50 yes it was harsh lol. But a good point because I never connected a lack of self love to inconsistency and a lack of self motivation.
I love your podcasts ! ❤️🔥❤️🔥
David trying to put her on game in a variety of ways.
Humble ya self my girl
Relationships are an issue for her because she doesn’t love herself to know her self worth. She keeps attracting the same type of person because she hasn’t healed. And until she does she won’t be able to help anybody going through similar situations. When you truly love yourself you have no problem be alone with yourself. A relationship should never be a distraction. That person should add value to your life. If they don’t, you should immediately let them go. But you have to love yourself and know your self worth. And she doesn’t.
How to stop I to into this stuff in a relationship: what she should have said is setting up boundaries for yourself and staying firm on those boundaries, if you’re noticing certain patterns that always happen, think about what you will do when you see it happen again you have a plain so it won’t happen again. It takes a lot of awareness
Pharrell sang "We're up all night to get lucky" stay focused fellas.
It sounds like she wants more influence than coaching, but the attention and validation that we sometimes look for will never suffice if not fulfilled by self!
I WOULD NEVER🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾♂️
The fact that she couldn’t pick up on the videographer dude says all it needs to say. She’s looking for an easy fix to her own trauma and calling it passion. Let go of the distractions and she’ll get it.
David you pulled that out! You can be who you want online
All love.. Much respect.. Thank you for what you and your cohorts are doing for us and with us.
but No cap tho 10:58 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The talking in circles nearly drove me to drink! You told her all the right things, David. This woman is regurgitating what she’s read/heard, but doesn’t have a real clue about how to help people.
This interview was so funny.
That “YA” word always mess with me 😂😂😂😂
You worked at cheetah? Word 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dope
22:16 loved that ❤
Psychotherapy is a part of personal development. She should try that first!
Dave’s face at 45:16 😂😂
She spent all that time with David to come back 360 degrees to the same place. Coaching? No ma’am. Just have a conversation and interview. No coaching.
22:35 I hate when he’s right like this 😂
20:08 she just described the evidence of a lack of self love, worth etc. because you then are able to hold on to your self so you don’t become a bag lady.
48:16 Only experience and gained wisdom will teach you what Dave taught her. Not ready at all to coach anyone. 49:18
At all. She needs more time to grow and more wisdom before jumping to coaching. I think her speaking to young girls is perfect. I just don't think she's in it.
My observation, she's not purpose driven. She's chasing a bag.
10 am lol I knew he was going to react to that
She just doesn't know what she doesn't know.
I probably was this hard headed at 26 lol
25:43 💯
How can we join the morning meet up ?
with one click of a button lol www.TheMorningMeetup.com
Put me on uncle dave 😅
I would say her first step should be to find a good therapist, stop dating and learn how to be single as you work through those emotions that surface that influence you to keep running back to toxic situations, then focus on the podcast episodes during the process.
I feel like therapy and more experience will help her help people
OMG some of these guests are really delusional ! It's almost like they want to be an entrepreneur because it is the cool thing to do, but they don't even understand the basics.
She thinks entrepreneurship is the strip club. She just run up in that joint ... show & shake her ass and get a bag of money.
Maybe she needs to just stick to that avenue as it is the easiest & most lucrative (low hanging fruit).
The fact that she had a complete stranger in her house while she sleep is completely WILD ... I wouldn't even want a man I know yet alone don't know to know a neighbouring community I live near yet alone be in my house as I sleep.
Shout out to David for your patience :) Respectfully, she sounds delusional and lazy.
David.......😯😯😯
How are you feeling being coined “Uncle Dave”?😂
Dnt ask a question wit a question!
…this was draining
The only thing I have an issue with is the fact that Dave as a business coach takes a business coaching approach to life coaching...with life coaching you're not giving them the answers...your signposting to help the client find their own answers/solutions... you're a guiding hand rather than someone that's providing the solutions.
Not feeling her attitude. How u say u danced at every club, but couldn’t name the other club aside from magic city?
What are you talkin about
David think how therapist r, u dnt think they toxic?? Vs listen to everyone??
notice how everyone says "I do ... and stuff like that" or ..."things of that nature". I feel like this all a way of not knowing what you're talking about but trying to say something to convince the person you're speaking 2!
41:32 not wrong, just the evidence
I see the potential girl… but this was rough…
I am not feeling these types of segments. However, this is your show and I will still support.
I appreciate the support. Just adding on to our normal episodes. Trying something different. Thank you for the support
Not feeling it either, it was giving Jerry Springer vibes. Am I being a hater or was this girl just stupid. It was painful to watch
I actually like these segments 👌🏾
@@catherinek3409 what does this segment have to do with what you think of this girl in particular?
@@TrunxKraft3000 At the end of the day it’s David’s podcast and these type characters aren’t very inspiring. David should focus on business and let therapists handle these type of cases
All she needs to do is document her journey. Film the process. People will watch.
U kant look from one point of view n life!!!
David vet these people more this one needs a psychiatrist
No vetting needed. That’s the point of these sessions.
I think you need higher quality guests with real business acumen. I think your podcast is about business not therapy for broken people.
I think you need higher quality guests with real business problems. I think your podcast is about business not therapy for broken people. I
Check out the episodes that release Monday and Thursday.
She don’t need to be coaching no one sorry!
This interview was going in circles. Very unintuitive
She needs healing and deliverance through Yeshua Jesus Christ. Then and only then can her mess be used as a message to others. Her tests as a testimony. She can't be used in her confusion.
The enemy will forever have her running in circles. I pray she repents and turn her heart to Christ.
I see a HIDDEN light when I look at her. I pray that one day soon, her light is able to shine bright like the star she truly is✨🙏🏽🩵
#GOD
Please refer this extremely inexperienced young Female into some type of
** Therapy**
#TEACHWHO
😢😢😢😢😢😢😮😮😮😮
I like her !
She really needs me as her Self love & confidence coach @coachingwithyaya