Btw, I found the whole body acceptance piece before surgery was really important to preparing myself mentally and spiritually for my new chest. I even had a ceremony to thank my previous lumps for journeying with me and that I had no ill will towards them, etc. I stopped fighting them and was able to enjoy the whole surgery and healing process. It was a truly profound experience I'll never forget. And I was ready to see and fully incorporate my new chest having gently released what was there before. Super cool!!!
Ah how wonderful, thats exactly how Im trying to proceed....you and I seem to think along very similar lines! The ceremony must have been interesting!!!
I know this is an old video but thank you so much for making it. A lot of your concerns are the same as mine so it made me feel much better to hear someone else say the same things.
Hey Finn, you are having your surgery the day after my surgery consult. Cool! Thanks for the prep video; it's great to hear what you are doing beforehand. As usual, you have a great support system behind you...lucky boy! Good prep for your scar healing; it can be a big deal for many! Smart to do your Christmas shopping already! Okay to fear surgery; risk and the unknown is always scary. Is Nat doing some prep for herself too? Yes, asking for help is key; it can make or break your recovery. This new venture is your next glorious step to feeling right with yourself; take it all in, my boy!
Thank you so much for uploading this video, it's just what I needed to see. I'm having top surgery via Dr Yelland in about 3 months time. The problem is that I have a mild form of epilepsy and am an anxious person so although I'm really excited I'm also so mind numbingly terrified!
my friend everyone gets nervous!!! it's normal! it's surgery! whilst of course we want the results no sane person actually wants to have surgery! so be reassured. . . nerves are normal!!! you are in the best of hands with yelland and his team. they make you so comfortable and will reassure you too. Wishing you all the very best!
That's so kind of you to ask! It went great, I am now just over 2 months post op and everything is fantastic. I've recovered even better than I thought I would. Thank you for asking, I really appreciate it.
Woot! Super excited for you! Good you're getting all prep'd. You are staying overnight, eh? Interesting the differences between procedures between countries. In the US, they kick you out right after surgery ;). Glad to hear you have tonnes of support. That's key. My sis was amazing with post-surgerical care and we had a lovely time catching up on the beach in Florida. Something about being vulnerable makes for honest and meaningful conversations with others.
So much problem with hospital infections in the US. Very happy not to have been there. One night's not a bad compromise. Silicone lube MUCH cheaper. (BTW, It's pronounced ah gav' ae. It's from a cactus US southwest--where I am. Great stuff. )
astrog8tr We have infections to...mostly MRSA but the nuffield hospital has a great record for being MRSA free.....and I get swapped for it beforehand at my pre op, which is good!! Cheers for the pronounciation tip!!
Hey Finn, I'm currently on Mr Yelland's waiting list for top surgery, I love your videos and I feel his one will be very helpful when the day comes, is there anything that you didn't add on this video that you found useful to have/to do once you got home, or anything that wasn't actually needed in the end? Thanks!
hey, since it's been a few years and I'm sure you're done treating your scars at this point, how well did the lube work as a replacer for the expensive silicone star stuff? did it make a big difference in your opinion
I used it on my arm graft and l healed really well. I made a vlog showing the healing over time which might help ruclips.net/video/zDKJxZ_waSE/видео.html
Great list, I agree on the lot of it. If anybody's prepared it's you for sure. My wife have are constantly jesting each other on the "asking for help" issues. "Oh yes, I'd certainly like some help (never please) !" And "I'll do it myself" fake tantrum, complete with a foot stomp - she's good for that protest. Neither of us even want help as we are entirely independent, or so we like to believe. It is also true that we each like to be helpful. Ah but then someone has to let you be helpful. So she says "Thanks for letting me be helpful" and I say right, or certainly or such, because I'd like her to "be welcome" but honesty at least lets us laugh about it.
Btw, I found the whole body acceptance piece before surgery was really important to preparing myself mentally and spiritually for my new chest. I even had a ceremony to thank my previous lumps for journeying with me and that I had no ill will towards them, etc. I stopped fighting them and was able to enjoy the whole surgery and healing process. It was a truly profound experience I'll never forget. And I was ready to see and fully incorporate my new chest having gently released what was there before. Super cool!!!
Ah how wonderful, thats exactly how Im trying to proceed....you and I seem to think along very similar lines! The ceremony must have been interesting!!!
I know this is an old video but thank you so much for making it. A lot of your concerns are the same as mine so it made me feel much better to hear someone else say the same things.
Im very glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching!
Don't be afraid dude, it will be fine, and it's okay to feel nervous before, but it will be fine. The universe is kind and very generous
Thank you for your kind wods my friend
Thank you @Jakob L. :)
Hey Finn, you are having your surgery the day after my surgery consult. Cool! Thanks for the prep video; it's great to hear what you are doing beforehand. As usual, you have a great support system behind you...lucky boy! Good prep for your scar healing; it can be a big deal for many! Smart to do your Christmas shopping already! Okay to fear surgery; risk and the unknown is always scary. Is Nat doing some prep for herself too? Yes, asking for help is key; it can make or break your recovery. This new venture is your next glorious step to feeling right with yourself; take it all in, my boy!
Ah I take that as a great coincidence! It is indeed a glorious step...if a little scary!!! Thanks my friend :)
Thank you so much for uploading this video, it's just what I needed to see. I'm having top surgery via Dr Yelland in about 3 months time. The problem is that I have a mild form of epilepsy and am an anxious person so although I'm really excited I'm also so mind numbingly terrified!
my friend everyone gets nervous!!! it's normal! it's surgery! whilst of course we want the results no sane person actually wants to have surgery! so be reassured. . . nerves are normal!!! you are in the best of hands with yelland and his team. they make you so comfortable and will reassure you too. Wishing you all the very best!
Thank you very much for your reassuring words Finn :)
Jacob Dunbar how did your surgery go bud?
That's so kind of you to ask! It went great, I am now just over 2 months post op and everything is fantastic. I've recovered even better than I thought I would. Thank you for asking, I really appreciate it.
You and I have the same date for surgery! I've been hitting the anxiety hill lately myself. Good luck with your adventure!
Ah thats brilliant! Whos yr surgeon??? Good luck to you too!!
Dr. Stotland in Lebanon, NH, USA. Not well know but he has good results!
Fantastic, cant wait to share results!!!!
You always brighten my day. Thank you Finn
+Ross On RUclips how kind! And now you've brightened mine!
Awesome tips Finn, I will use them for all my surgeries :)
Totally awesome !!!!
Thanks matey!!!
Woot! Super excited for you! Good you're getting all prep'd. You are staying overnight, eh? Interesting the differences between procedures between countries. In the US, they kick you out right after surgery ;). Glad to hear you have tonnes of support. That's key. My sis was amazing with post-surgerical care and we had a lovely time catching up on the beach in Florida. Something about being vulnerable makes for honest and meaningful conversations with others.
Thank you Kai! Yes its overnight here, then kicked out early :)
So much problem with hospital infections in the US. Very happy not to have been there. One night's not a bad compromise. Silicone lube MUCH cheaper. (BTW, It's pronounced ah gav' ae. It's from a cactus US southwest--where I am. Great stuff. )
astrog8tr We have infections to...mostly MRSA but the nuffield hospital has a great record for being MRSA free.....and I get swapped for it beforehand at my pre op, which is good!! Cheers for the pronounciation tip!!
Not sure what vitamins you're taking leading up to surgery, but my surgeon suggested high does Vitamin C both before and after surgery.
Hi mate, my surgeon suggested arnica beforehand. I am taking some vit C now and am doubling my dose for after. Thank you!
Hey Finn, I'm currently on Mr Yelland's waiting list for top surgery, I love your videos and I feel his one will be very helpful when the day comes, is there anything that you didn't add on this video that you found useful to have/to do once you got home, or anything that wasn't actually needed in the end? Thanks!
hey, since it's been a few years and I'm sure you're done treating your scars at this point, how well did the lube work as a replacer for the expensive silicone star stuff? did it make a big difference in your opinion
I used it on my arm graft and l healed really well. I made a vlog showing the healing over time which might help ruclips.net/video/zDKJxZ_waSE/видео.html
You will do awesome, just remember to breathe.
Do you have a link to the post op binder? I'm looking for one but don't know where to begin.
Mine is in just over a week
How exciting for you! Are you all prepped and ready?
@@FinnTheInfinncible not really
@@FinnTheInfinncible I’m so supper excited
@@FinnTheInfinncible the bandage I have to wear for 6 weeks is so annoying
Great list, I agree on the lot of it. If anybody's prepared it's you for sure. My wife have are constantly jesting each other on the "asking for help" issues. "Oh yes, I'd certainly like some help (never please) !" And "I'll do it myself" fake tantrum, complete with a foot stomp - she's good for that protest. Neither of us even want help as we are entirely independent, or so we like to believe. It is also true that we each like to be helpful. Ah but then someone has to let you be helpful. So she says "Thanks for letting me be helpful" and I say right, or certainly or such, because I'd like her to "be welcome" but honesty at least lets us laugh about it.
Lol yes sounds like us!!!! I am indeed well prepared, and have you to thank for a lot of that!!! Thank you so much my friend :)
Your awsome
And you are so kind! Thank you :)
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