Failing the 30’s

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  • Опубликовано: 29 дек 2024

Комментарии • 34

  • @nthabeey3267
    @nthabeey3267 10 дней назад +30

    I’m 27 and I feel so lost.!😢
    You’re not alone

  • @soufwesthoustontx
    @soufwesthoustontx 9 дней назад +11

    A lot of millennials and people can relate to things being tough and things not being where they feel it should be. Everyday is a part of the journey and the only constant thing is change. Acceptance of where one is can be tough, but we can only learn from the past. You don't need grace from anyone else. Give yourself grace as you move forward. Look at the blessings and the positive to help you move forward. I know things are easier said than done because I too am a millennial battling myself, acceptance, and balance. I hope things get better for you. ♥️

  • @HellsKells666
    @HellsKells666 10 дней назад +11

    Just found your channel, thank you for your courage to share your journey! I’m in my mid 30s and I have struggled my whole life from trauma and chronic illnesses that let to cancer, and I still struggle with the aftermath of it all. Covid was no help either, lol. I’ve had better years and worse years, employment and unemployment. This video makes me feel less alone in this messy life. Thank you and I’ll be following you!

  • @Jrslimnick1402
    @Jrslimnick1402 7 дней назад +2

    Thanks keep strong.. great name world be “ Shawn’s journey through life .“ Am 29 and currently working aviation as a ramper and is feeling all same emotions you had, but I told by an old relative that sometimes in life everything has there own timing and alignment. So am just focused on becoming a better person.

  • @perfectlyflawed1ne
    @perfectlyflawed1ne 12 дней назад +17

    Thank you for sharing your journey! I've been a long-time follower. Keep doing you! We will celebrate with you as you grow and pray when needed! Welcome back!

    • @NoItGrl
      @NoItGrl  12 дней назад +2

      Thank you so much for staying with me ❤️‍🩹 it’s definitely a journey and you’re so right it’s going to require a lot of prayer but I’m glad I have a lil community to keep me uplifted 🫶🏽 I wasn’t prepared for any responses on this so yall are really inspiring me rn 😭

  • @shamisha10
    @shamisha10 6 дней назад +1

    Hey. I’m 28 and God led me back home after being gone for 2 years and it definitely felt like a setback but there just might be something He wants you to do there. I definitely recommend reading the Bible because it sounds like you’re going through a lot of spiritual warfare and the word of God overcomes those negative thoughts. All of God’s people are going through challenging time right now but remember what Jesus said “the first shall be last and the last shall be first”. Thank you for sharing and God bless you.

  • @OPExINxTOKYO
    @OPExINxTOKYO 9 дней назад +4

    I love the transparency of this video! I made a similar video about this about feeling very listless and coming to terms with habits I had to break out of from my youth. Praying that you start giving yourself more grace because baby don't NOBODY got it all figured out lol at any age!

  • @180waves
    @180waves 9 дней назад +4

    You’re a beautiful creator, glad I found your videos

  • @soufwesthoustontx
    @soufwesthoustontx 9 дней назад +2

    The crazy thing is everyone's personal battle is different, but we all feel the same emotions when we are in those personal battles. A lot of people can identify with the stages of grief in one way or another.

  • @PittaDurum-e3c
    @PittaDurum-e3c 10 дней назад +5

    Hey, I don't know how you ended up in my recommendations, but I clicked and heard aircraft and aviation and so I watched and enjoyed your behind the scenes airline videos. (and when I travel, I've always been secretly dreaming of driving one of those aircraft pushers, lol) So I subscribed everywhere and hope to see more of those on-the-job-at-an-airline vlogs. I wish you all the best and courage and happiness.

    • @NoItGrl
      @NoItGrl  10 дней назад +1

      Ayeee that’s lit man! I’m so glad you enjoyed my videos. I actually recorded a few clips yesterday (airplanes and whatnot). This makes me so happy. Thank you for your feedback. It’s deff more to come ✈️

  • @papapaige
    @papapaige 9 дней назад +2

    You’re so brave and you got this! Everything will be okay 😊

  • @husna2615
    @husna2615 7 дней назад +1

    28 and feeling the same 😢 I have so many regret

  • @AshA94
    @AshA94 11 дней назад +3

    Girl you and me both are going thru the same .. this video is really helpful and a good confirmation for how I felt.. we’ll get through this I’m sure

    • @NoItGrl
      @NoItGrl  11 дней назад

      Aw fammmm 🥹 I thought this lil video would be loss in the abyss but actually knowing it meant something to someone other than myself makes me feel 100xs more inspired to keep pushing forward. I’ll be praying for you on your journey as well xo

    • @Cocochantelle
      @Cocochantelle 11 дней назад

      Yes, let’s encourage each other, together ❤❤❤ we all need it

  • @lwo._
    @lwo._ 11 дней назад +3

    i wish you would have kept them up, i LOVE looking back at older videos to see progress and growth, living with depression can definitely blind you from time to time but i promise you, everyone is still growing at any age, everyone’s on their own time line and comparison will always be a theft of joy. focus on what makes u happy in the present and the rest will unfold, focus on your wellness and routine, i promise reforming your little bubble with the right environment and people will change your life sooo much, even with depression i truly feel i can finally deal with anything life hands me but trust i put in so much work and hurt to get here. we got this love im so happy to have found your channel💗

    • @NoItGrl
      @NoItGrl  11 дней назад

      Thank you sm! I’m glad you found me too! I still have all of the videos. They’re just private right now. Maybe when I’m in a better headspace I’ll be more inclined to publish them again. You’re absolutely right comparison is the thief of joy and I struggle with that the most. Especially seeing people my age being so productive and healthy. I can’t help but feel envious but I know it won’t do me any good. Working on that little bubble now 🫧 feel free to drop tips anytime 😭 God knows I need them.

  • @ishaw9894
    @ishaw9894 10 дней назад +3

    You are so beautiful, and your feelings are valid. May you have a full recovery in the name of Jesus. You are young and full of life, whatever God wants you to do, may it find you ❤

  • @MichaelHamilton-n9g
    @MichaelHamilton-n9g 10 дней назад

    Great title 💯 ⭐... Thank you for taking time 2 share.+ Sanka

  • @leelee5593
    @leelee5593 8 дней назад

    Sending prayers

  • @courtr1588
    @courtr1588 10 дней назад +1

    Sending love.

  • @goddessyouniq7938
    @goddessyouniq7938 9 дней назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @Itsyourlifesoliveit
    @Itsyourlifesoliveit 10 дней назад +4

    7:52 At least we have this in our 30's girl. We have a different perspective and at least know where we want to go in life it is just a matter of God's timing. I fully understand the feeling of not being able to do what others can your age I'm 33 disabled and a single Mom so I feel like I am "limited" like extremely limited it can be so depressing if I think about it too much. I'm limited in what jobs I can comfortably work at without judgement from an employer me needing accommodations my other dreams would be to travel the world, show the love of Christ worldwide, start a business, buy a home so many things I can name but idk I'm in the same boat as you. When I sit and pray and meditate on God's word, I just feel the peace that he has the future in control and may we continue to pour our heart out to him and enjoy him in the meantime. Much peace and blessings to you. Btw we are still young lol not as young as our 20's but still young because trust me when we get 40 or 50 we will look back and be like wow that was still so young. May we keep the faith.🤍🤍🤍

  • @shamisha10
    @shamisha10 6 дней назад

    I would also recommend staying off of social media because the life they show you online is all a facade. No one truly has it all figured out as they’re making it seem. Try not to compare yourself with others, it will only harm you. Seek Jesus and everything else will come into alignment.

  • @alliyahaleciascott
    @alliyahaleciascott 9 дней назад

    Subscribed

  • @godschild60071
    @godschild60071 12 дней назад +2

    • @NoItGrl
      @NoItGrl  12 дней назад

      ❤️‍🩹

  • @Mariahjezel
    @Mariahjezel 10 дней назад +6

    Jesus Christ can Heal what you’re hiding. He forgives and removes the shame of our secrets and provides a Freedom that’s Genuine. Repent
    🩷

  • @Cocochantelle
    @Cocochantelle 12 дней назад +4

    I’ve always appreciated your vulnerability and never did feel that you pigeonholed your channel into one category. You were real and honest the whole way through about your personal experiences. However, i understand completely, looking back and feeling like you need to take accountability for poor decisions. I’m personally in a season of life that is similar that way. Therapy has really helped with pushing me towards self-forgiveness, grace and reducing some of the ways I talk to myself and believe me, I’ve tried everything, but going back to God, to finally surrender to him has given me more peace as well. It’s definitely been a fight because I want my plan for my life but clearly it ain’t working the way I want it to 😆. I’m excited to see whatever content you bring. Your channel has always been a true reflection of how life really is for a lot of us. I also hope that you can forgive yourself as well. 🤍🤍

    • @NoItGrl
      @NoItGrl  12 дней назад +1

      Thank you girl. You are absolutely right. I love this for you and I definitely want to get back in therapy! I’m glad that you stuck around and actually enjoyed it here ❤️‍🩹 The season of accountability is the roughest oneeee. It’s like I’m facing all of the difficult times all over again with a new perspective. I’ve been talking to God and making sacrifices, virtual church , but I know nothing does it like in person. I need to get in therapy buildingggg do you hear me?!

    • @Cocochantelle
      @Cocochantelle 11 дней назад

      @@NoItGrlI hear you sis. I believe we will have brighter days somehow. I’ve got to believe it ❤