5 Things You Must Do ONCE Before a Girl Will Fall in Love with You

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  • @olawoletemitope1785
    @olawoletemitope1785 2 года назад +120

    1. Slow her down
    2. Disagree with her
    3. Make fun of love. e.g. make fun of guys that fall in love to easy
    4. Demonstrate that you can walk away from the relationship.
    5. Steal her sexual prize frame: make yourself the sexual prize

  • @chrisdimis91
    @chrisdimis91 Год назад +74

    Guys. Don't validate women. If they're really beautiful and a lot of men chasing them be one that doesn't. If she's interested in you she's gonna be all over the place. You'll get in her mind. Focus on your goals and improving yourself. Don't make her a priority. The more you're not validating her and been needy the more she's gonna chase. You'll be in her mind all the time. Be there show your interest in her but don't completely ignore her. Completely ignoring will push her away. Have fun with this game. It's boosting your confidence and your masculinity.

    • @amelicasupllies8843
      @amelicasupllies8843 Год назад

      Genius!

    • @katyafaucher4468
      @katyafaucher4468 Год назад

      🤣 Great perspective! Destroy her, don’t build her up. Behind every mediocre man, there is a mediocre women. 🤣

    • @encounteringjack5699
      @encounteringjack5699 11 месяцев назад +1

      Validation isn’t the problem, it’s not respecting your life enough to control your circumstances in a way that is able to benefit you. What can she do for you, what is it that makes these fun or meaningful?
      These tips are always so basic. Simply put, learn to think for yourself. Learning how to think is the most powerful thing.
      Girls aren’t difficult. They aren’t robots, they aren’t stupid, and they aren’t without practical value.
      Best not treat the interaction like your finding a way to become her boyfriend. Instead, treat the situation like you’re building a connection. Getting to know each other, having fun, showing interest, etc..
      At the end of the day, women are just people. They need constructive feedback just as much as you do. Which is why being a simp is never attractive. There’s no reason to see you as a person or even as a desirable sexual option when you can’t do things on your own or are getting stuck on the idea of getting that person.

    • @minnaripatti-terho1275
      @minnaripatti-terho1275 8 месяцев назад +3

      So you guys are demanding woman to respect your life, but you are not ready to do the same?
      That is not what woman look for a man. If you don't give him what you demand yourself (it might not be same thing for both of you), she respects your time so much that she don't bother to waste it so much as to saying "bye" takes time.

  • @JamesGreenier
    @JamesGreenier 2 года назад +39

    These are very, very powerful. I ramp them up to borderline toxicity with push-pull. They can’t stop thinking about you when you apply these tips.

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 2 года назад +3

      yes sir the experts master the push / pull. Women get off on the emotional rollercoaster. Control the mind/ control the body

    • @legacyboss6512
      @legacyboss6512 Год назад +1

      So true 👍

    • @crystalbennett8012
      @crystalbennett8012 Год назад +2

      Damn you guys! so fkn right tho ill say it
      And grrr does it drive me mental! My gfs and I call it The Mango from SNL 😆

  • @madcap76
    @madcap76 2 года назад +23

    Would like to see you cover long distance relationships (and how to turn them into short distance) and also how to handle traveling with a gf - i.e. you both need space since you're in the same hotel room all the time - which is a unique situation.

  • @mdcmdc1
    @mdcmdc1 2 года назад +21

    The first point hit straight away. It's basically saying yes to everything she suggests and being always available. It's like cancelling other plans or having nothing else going on.

    • @keltecdan
      @keltecdan Год назад +1

      You don’t want a woman that you have to play games like that.

  • @josephmunyao6639
    @josephmunyao6639 2 года назад +18

    Be the best version of yourself and girls will eventually fall for you. Thank you Chris and Bobby

  • @dionne681
    @dionne681 2 года назад +19

    Both you guys are phenomenal. I never realized girls from different races were so much alike and these strategies apply to all women including black girls as well which is evidence its accurate. 🎯💯‼️

  • @tripleseven8361
    @tripleseven8361 2 года назад +18

    Good one! Now, if I only had a time machine….

  • @StephenSLR
    @StephenSLR Год назад +1

    As per your suggestion, one topic I'd like you to cover is girls who don't like to be touched but when alone with them you feel the vibe and you can see it's going somewhere.

  • @DatingMasteryForMen
    @DatingMasteryForMen 4 дня назад +1

    *Establishing a strong emotional bond is essential, and doing something memorable together can be the catalyst. For example, sharing a personal story or facing a challenge as a team can significantly deepen trust and intimacy.*

  • @klopossa2
    @klopossa2 2 года назад +4

    I love this one..TY.. done ✅😁 them all. She asks me about marriage often..we will. She just keeps growing and getting more marry able.. Asking her to back it off a few notches was huge. She came back so much stronger..

  • @alistairjadu8578
    @alistairjadu8578 Год назад +3

    You need to make another video on how to be the friend she falls in Love with

  • @j-star1
    @j-star1 5 месяцев назад

    Always good to have coach Chris!

  • @JohnScott-ht2jm
    @JohnScott-ht2jm 2 года назад +9

    I did at least 4 of these when I started seeing the girl I ended up marrying 10 years ago. The night I met her we were supposed to meet up at a bar where she showed up late and then ignored me while some guys were buying her drinks. When I headed for the door she chased me down and left with me.

  • @langpira1505
    @langpira1505 2 года назад +6

    These are just top tier advices for men out there. This deserves more views and likes

  • @brunomiguel6634
    @brunomiguel6634 2 года назад +5

    I would like to see something related about being a back up plan and losing for someone that is back up plan.

  • @mikewebster1688
    @mikewebster1688 2 года назад +3

    Bobby Rio coming with the knowledge

  • @Owam777
    @Owam777 2 года назад +3

    Thanks guys, so many mistakes corrected

  • @TheRumpelstinskin
    @TheRumpelstinskin 2 года назад +8

    Thank you for this!
    Please make more videos on how to spark sexual tension

  • @Yousoundconfused
    @Yousoundconfused Год назад +1

    These guys are ON POINT!!!!

  • @CarlyJo-f4n
    @CarlyJo-f4n 21 день назад +1

    Just be gentle, be polite, authentic and respectful. Be a man and we will love you.

  • @bgmigameplay1345
    @bgmigameplay1345 2 года назад +2

    Your video is depply explained the mindset…🙌🙌🙌hats of sir

  • @KevinBruceRoy316
    @KevinBruceRoy316 7 месяцев назад

    Hahaha yesss!!! I love it!!! MONDAY NIGHT RAW BABY!! STONE COLD!

  • @thetruecyde
    @thetruecyde Год назад +2

    What is to do, if she makes plans with me but if i ask her to have a date she hasnt time?

  • @minnaripatti-terho1275
    @minnaripatti-terho1275 8 месяцев назад

    Point 5. When woman oulls back in those situations, sometimes it just her feeling overhelmed her. You know, atleast you should know 'cos you talk here about it. She needs that back pull to feel safe.
    If roll over then, you actually punish her of having feelings and it might kick back to male later even that roll over works at that time.

  • @bradleyb.425
    @bradleyb.425 Год назад +1

    Sushi? B.s. - there's a reason man created fire.

  • @jamessparks5921
    @jamessparks5921 2 года назад +3

    Thank you Bobby💝👌And Chris👌

  • @amoakorichard1
    @amoakorichard1 Год назад +2

    My question is: Why do I lose all the girls I really love? I don't understand.

    • @barny325
      @barny325 Год назад

      Showing to much love maybe

  • @meteor1237
    @meteor1237 Год назад +1

    Sounds great for 20, 30, 40, etc yo guys. But what about youthful 60 and 70 yo guys still dating? Not as much time left. Same methods?.

  • @fosterasante3853
    @fosterasante3853 3 месяца назад

    KINDLY MAKE A VIDEO ON THIS:
    Other dating coaches advice that men should talk about sex during the first date whereas other coaches say the opposite.

  • @rubenTR309
    @rubenTR309 2 месяца назад

    I remember once when i was young i was on the ps. And a girl i was dating just got freaky as hell. She didnt like the idea my attention was on that instead

  • @SajalMistry-cj2yx
    @SajalMistry-cj2yx 5 месяцев назад

    How do you be sure that you are the backup guy , and not the one she is actually chasing you ? or obsessed with you?

  • @rodrigoruiz976
    @rodrigoruiz976 5 месяцев назад

    I have a gf and now I want the second one. How do I convince the first one?

  • @cheesehead6710
    @cheesehead6710 Год назад

    Man I came off as deserving no respect. There is no recovery from that. SHE flirted less than a month in right in front of me and I didn't walk away because she was my ride...It lasted about 8 months and I had to dump her.

  • @davidjason3240
    @davidjason3240 Год назад

    Do I need to have the same hair as them? That's the point I can't compete.

  • @mikewebster1688
    @mikewebster1688 2 года назад +3

    Do you guys have any ideas around a girl who wants to move in after say 3 months of long distance? topic for a video maybe

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  2 года назад +1

      well, i'd always be weary if a girl wants to move in that quickly (assuming you've only been dating for 3 months).

    • @mikewebster1688
      @mikewebster1688 2 года назад +1

      @@BobbyRio yea. I guess it’s like u like it cuz they like u enough but course I feel the same. hard to figure what’s best without pushing a good girl away

    • @mikewebster1688
      @mikewebster1688 2 года назад

      @@BobbyRio made me think a good video would be HOW TO MAKE A GIRL NOT FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU. Instead of how to. Lol

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 2 года назад

      @@mikewebster1688 sounds like you are doing just that LOL

  • @lancehoggle3638
    @lancehoggle3638 6 месяцев назад

    How do you treat a woman that’s codependent on her exes support, but he dumped her.

  • @jamessparks5921
    @jamessparks5921 2 года назад +2

    You’ve taught me to NOT fuck up 👌😂💝💝👌Thanks

  • @TshineSOR696
    @TshineSOR696 2 года назад +1

    First here before 1 million

  • @everythingui5442
    @everythingui5442 2 года назад +2

    Hello i have a question. There are some people who can answer anything with fun and humor immediately. And they are more loveable. Something like repartee and improv comedy. How can we develop this kind of Ability?

    • @hooh5479
      @hooh5479 2 года назад +1

      Learn by doing; and most of all, don't mind if your repartee falls flat every now and then. Being empathetic and a good observer helps. Reading classics helps a lot as you can get inspired by a quote, or an idea/concept that the author puts forth. But again, if the repartee falls flat, as long it is not offensive, it's all fine, and can make the other laugh a second or two after it has fallen flat. Don't push too hard, and do not take yourself too seriously. With practice it will become natural. The one rule with ladies, avoid being rude and the use of excessively strong language when you want to sound witty.

  • @uckingsley2134
    @uckingsley2134 2 года назад +2

    how can i get a girl that i love that is playing games with my mind?

  • @alhajirufokabia2404
    @alhajirufokabia2404 2 года назад +1

    I have done all this even before I saw this video. She likes me but won't give me an answer and it's been almost 3 months now. I don't really know if she wants to give me a surprise kiss to kick-off the relationship or something else. Any advice Bobby?

    • @JamesE-u8q
      @JamesE-u8q Год назад +1

      Your in the friend zone brother , walk away go for the ladies that want you. Go for the kiss within a week. No kisses I keep it moving. 🙌😎😁

  • @osmanabubakari2049
    @osmanabubakari2049 Год назад

    Pls Bobby I have a challenge at hand now with Lady who is my cousin and staying with me for more than 6 years now.
    I have been taken care of her so she fears me so much and currently she is in the university and I am now falling in love but I realized that she is pulling away from me,what steps will you give me to enable her fall in love,bcoz she is the introvert type. So it make it difficult for to win her to my side

  • @deanpatterson9036
    @deanpatterson9036 Год назад

    Women like hair gel styles, from the 50s?
    And wrist watches?
    Other than that...good video.

  • @haylamino3648
    @haylamino3648 2 года назад +1

    How do I work with you guys ? I broke up with 2 months ago her any advise ?

  • @yuriemma9787
    @yuriemma9787 2 года назад

    Thx Bobby becoz I truly didn't know Y even if i tried being a nice guy it ended up galz running a way

  • @rachidblila5232
    @rachidblila5232 Год назад

    salve
    can you explain to me how can i use the strategy (push, pull) correctly? thanks

  • @SconHeadVideos
    @SconHeadVideos 2 года назад +1

    I'm confused. At 10:10 chris said even more point for you if you're a nice guy faking the bad boy kinda vibe. Then Bobby went on to mention how he lost the girl because she knew he was faking it.
    Should we fake it or not?
    Im confused ahaha

    • @ashishvaish2712
      @ashishvaish2712 2 года назад

      be you

    • @robdre1977
      @robdre1977 2 года назад

      There could be any reason she left. Maybe the guy didnt do it well, maybe he acted like a wanker, or maybe the chick just wanted to find a loser guy instead.

  • @HistoryUnveiled8
    @HistoryUnveiled8 2 года назад +2

    First comment bro i want to ask is it necessary that we have to buy every of your product or is it enough for us if we buy only scramber please reply thanks Haroon Ali from p☺akistan

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  2 года назад +1

      unlock the scrambler def contains everythnig you need to get the girl... other programs deal with specific things like flirting, or texting.

    • @joshsaundh4851
      @joshsaundh4851 2 года назад

      @@BobbyRio hi bobby what should I do because my girlfriend miss me so
      Much and my
      Girlfriend can not live without me and I have not seen my girlfriend in too
      Months

    • @HistoryUnveiled8
      @HistoryUnveiled8 2 года назад

      @@BobbyRio thank you so much bro.

    • @binary_mor5079
      @binary_mor5079 2 года назад

      @@joshsaundh4851 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @joshsaundh4851
      @joshsaundh4851 2 года назад

      @@HistoryUnveiled8 yech whether

  • @thesword-sapdog322
    @thesword-sapdog322 11 месяцев назад

    So, if I meet a woman for the first time and she seams so very into me and she says we should catch up again...? Should I quickly calculate that date..28 days from then?

  • @keandrejohnson9163
    @keandrejohnson9163 2 года назад +2

    I want you to provide us with some toxic traits that are beneficial to get these girls

  • @donovandriscoll1087
    @donovandriscoll1087 2 года назад +2

    Mostly we are nice guys trying to improve our chances to get the girl and make sure she’s the right girl. I think this advice has helped me become an improved version of myself. Question I have is do you have any good advice regarding letting a nice girl down easy without some ghosting tactics?? Thanks for the advice Bobby! @BobbyRio

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  2 года назад +6

      best advice is to be honest with her and tell her that you're not feeling it the way you hoped, and that you felt it was right to be honest with her instead of moving forward knowing you feel this way.

  • @MarketYour-Luv
    @MarketYour-Luv Год назад

    When you get disrespected and you tell her to phuck off, is it over at that point

    • @LongStrokey
      @LongStrokey 8 месяцев назад

      Yeah man, that’s way too reactive

  • @richardfosnough4662
    @richardfosnough4662 Год назад

    What if she already said she loved you?

  • @coryanderson1903
    @coryanderson1903 2 года назад +2

    Hey Bobby and Chris,
    Was wondering if you guys could do a video if you haven't already about what to do when she's super into but all of sudden things change and you know "The talk" is coming. I believe it was because I didn't slow things down and if I did I probably wouldn't be in this situation. Said "Yeah sure" when she said she was no longer vibing in no contact and seeing other women. Just don't want to continue making thus mistake

    • @chris-sixty
      @chris-sixty 2 года назад +1

      I would say even if she's "super into you" at the beginning, - it's still your job to slow her down. In fact, I think she secretly wants the guy to slow her down when she goes too fast. Thanks for the comment Cory

    • @coryanderson1903
      @coryanderson1903 2 года назад +1

      @@chris-sixty Thanks Chris I'm watching your guys videos religiously.

  • @annabelle_xoxx
    @annabelle_xoxx 2 года назад +2

    Ahh too cute!! Love watching these videos…gives an inside look into how dudes think. You guys understand women better than most, but I wouldn’t suggest that you take other people’s side over hers… especially if she’s upset about it. Lol

    • @Lights480
      @Lights480 Год назад +1

      even the expert male will never truly understand woman. luckily, some woman can tolerate giving advice to some poor men

    • @annabelle_xoxx
      @annabelle_xoxx Год назад +2

      @@Lights480 It's okay! I don't think women will ever completely understand men either. Just got to find a partner that brings out the good qualities in yourself and not the bad.

  • @barzanengineer2481
    @barzanengineer2481 2 года назад +3

    I ❤️ my best teacher

  • @sifugurusensei
    @sifugurusensei Год назад

    #1 never had happened to me.

  • @doncappo1509
    @doncappo1509 Год назад

    You guys use the same barber ?

  • @wesdunbar4246
    @wesdunbar4246 Год назад

    She cancelled on plans we had at the last minute what should l do.? Think she disrespect me.

  • @candydeca8
    @candydeca8 2 года назад +4

    So he said “at least once” and the other said do it only once. So do we do it one time or more than one time?

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  2 года назад +4

      at least once, but don't over do them. Most of them only need to be done once to be effective.

    • @candydeca8
      @candydeca8 2 года назад +1

      @@BobbyRio thank you!

  • @binary_mor5079
    @binary_mor5079 2 года назад +2

    Lol thanks for this info😂 😂 😂

  • @NS-ri3cz
    @NS-ri3cz 2 года назад +2

    Hi Bobby
    Whatever you guys say is applicable to to the western culture.
    How about eastern culture ?
    Do you have any advise for people in eastern culture ?
    E.g. in India
    Friendzone is considered as a access to a girl.
    If a girl considers you as her friend it's probably result into a boyfriend and eventually a intimate relationship.
    However, girls in india are so much terrified with controls of
    Parents
    Society
    Religion
    Peers/ friends
    Etc
    Though they may actually want to be free from all of these, they don't dare to due to consequences they will have to face.
    So, what's your advice to guys in eastern culture ?
    Where touching a girl is inviting trouble 😊

  • @nicolasdrew9196
    @nicolasdrew9196 2 года назад +1

    I have a girl which am fond of but recently discovered she was double dating and not being too serious with me. She claimed she loved but I felt she is using me.Advice me on what to do in this situation to win her heart and keep her to my self for marriage cos I really do like her

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 2 года назад +3

      you are being delusional. You don't want to marry someone you can not trust. be lucky you found out how she really is before marriage. GO find a decent woman and forget about her.

  • @sergannn
    @sergannn 2 года назад +1

    okey, and what about abuse? nice guy with no boundaries always say sorry, but the woman is with him many years... why?

  • @SaintlessRex
    @SaintlessRex Год назад

    What do I do if she hasn't responded in nearly a week and I've sent messages to test her?

    • @barny325
      @barny325 Год назад +2

      Nothing but working on you. Her Behavour is the Message.

    • @SaintlessRex
      @SaintlessRex Год назад

      @@barny325 what do you mean her behavior is the message

    • @barny325
      @barny325 Год назад

      @@SaintlessRex no Response, no interest

  • @jyothishantony6325
    @jyothishantony6325 2 года назад

    What if my crush have another crush?

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 2 года назад

      Find another crush

  • @OgaugeTrainsplusslotCars
    @OgaugeTrainsplusslotCars 2 года назад +2

    I don't play games with women and I do like when women play games with me♐️👍

  • @sunnyjim369
    @sunnyjim369 2 года назад

    Groovy, ta

  • @dankogajic5619
    @dankogajic5619 7 месяцев назад

    Do you know how could I block your channel? Every while you show up, I start watching and, again, I am sorry for that. Excuse me, but...

  • @crippledmode2082
    @crippledmode2082 2 года назад +1

    Alright people of the comments I need your help this girl was super into me and everything was goin good then she started pulling back so I stupidly confessed all my feelings for her and she pulled back more and now she’s being cold with me can I recover?

    • @NamanPaulAWESOME
      @NamanPaulAWESOME 2 года назад

      just get her out of your mind rn, look out for and talk to other women/friends and reciprocate her coldness but when she comes back ( she always does ) and for example asks you out, don't jump instantly into saying yes, that'll prove her that you were playing the cold part, show her that you can move on from her

    • @crippledmode2082
      @crippledmode2082 2 года назад

      @@NamanPaulAWESOME alright thanks for the advice man If anything happens I’ll try to remember to let you know, cheers

  • @MTSLINY
    @MTSLINY 2 года назад +14

    Anybody else feel weird playin mind games with chicks, not saying these tips don’t work, but feels funny manipulating someone I like

    • @larryrubin5150
      @larryrubin5150 2 года назад +2

      For real. 💯

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  2 года назад +14

      but its all sort of the same, if she wears makeup and hair extensions and stuff, its to look better because she knows it will attract you more. Women don't want you to look better for them, they want this type of stuff.

    • @MTSLINY
      @MTSLINY 2 года назад +6

      @@BobbyRio your right bro, but these tactics conflict with my conviction to be honest and positive and let things fall where they may

    • @TheJedBernard
      @TheJedBernard 2 года назад +4

      alls fair in love and war....... it works both ways my man... stay safe out there.

    • @KCdurt
      @KCdurt 2 года назад +5

      Think about it like this: if you suck at public speaking, you can continue doing what doesn't work and get the same results, or you can take and use advice from someone that gives great speeches. You wouldn't then be giving great speeches because you're being fake, you'd be giving great speeches because you educated and improved yourself.

  • @abel6723
    @abel6723 2 года назад +1

    Try to be quick and to the point

  • @paulchrisman2392
    @paulchrisman2392 2 года назад

    I dont fimd single girls I would like to know where I to find girls that are open to meet me

  • @ShAlove22
    @ShAlove22 2 года назад

    Chris why you look too nervous? 🤣

  • @alan71033
    @alan71033 10 месяцев назад

    The guy on the right the younger guy must be the clone. Did you see the hair?

  • @spiritualphysicalfitnessmi5413
    @spiritualphysicalfitnessmi5413 Год назад +2

    What if you're in a shitty marriage and you tried everything to get back the way it was but you know a girl at the gym that totally takes your breath away but she is married to. I'm at a major crossroad.

  • @LincolnHawk87
    @LincolnHawk87 Год назад +1

    Nobody’s putting this energy into these thots anymore, it’s game over already

  • @burntvirtue
    @burntvirtue 2 года назад

    Bobby got new chiclet teeth or what? Something's up

  • @aryankarki7900
    @aryankarki7900 Год назад

    Buddha Teachings unattachment.

  • @LaoFarm
    @LaoFarm 7 месяцев назад

    ...assume the dude looks good to her eyes. Or else..the 5 points are useless.

  • @yeshlo3766
    @yeshlo3766 2 года назад +2

    bobby love your content but it’s hard to listen to someone speak pushing that much air out their nose. Like why choose that as your default way of vocalizing. Do women really like a nasally and emasculating basic white dude voice? Asking for a friend.

  • @Alexxf35
    @Alexxf35 Год назад

    Imagine thinking these guys, who combined probably can't bench 200 lbs, have anything important to say on the topic.

  • @coopsnz1
    @coopsnz1 2 года назад

    I talk once a week

  • @RonaldM992000
    @RonaldM992000 10 месяцев назад

    To.thr guy on the left, why do you start your commentary by saying, "Yeah, no..."?
    I can't stand how people do that, especially when they're not even answering a question.

  • @avnish.dixit_
    @avnish.dixit_ Год назад

    buddy I need your email id

  • @ShadySoldier222
    @ShadySoldier222 Год назад

    I'm being ghosted by my baby's mamma of 20 + years & she hasn't let me see any of my 4 kids & even though she just had our 5th baby on the 14th of December she hasn't let me meet my baby boy yet. 👶 Also I think she is feeling guilty about something else, I found an image online with her & another person. Im, not 100 per cent yet but I will be soon enough. 😬🫨

  • @everythingui5442
    @everythingui5442 2 года назад

    Hello i have a question. There are some people who can answer anything with fun and humor immediately. And they are more loveable. Something like repartee and improv comedy. How can we develop this kind of Ability?

    • @kylewilkinson6975
      @kylewilkinson6975 Год назад

      You answered your own question with second to last sentence

  • @ShadySoldier222
    @ShadySoldier222 Год назад

    I'm being ghosted by my baby's mamma of 20 + years & she hasn't let me see any of my 4 kids & even though she just had our 5th baby on the 14th of December she hasn't let me meet my baby boy yet. 👶 Also I think she is feeling guilty about something else, I found an image online with her & another person. Im, not 100 per cent yet but I will be soon enough. 😬🫨