1. Find the faith: Believe everything happens for a reason. 2. Find the humor: Suck heaviness out of tough changes by finding the humorous moments. 3. Focus on solutions instead of problems: Eliminate victim mentality by focusing on how things could go right or are already going right, or what you can change. Soon you’ll see solutions instead of problems. 4. Face your fears: “The fears we don’t face become our limits”!!! Facing our fears helps us realize how little control we have and allows life to unfold as it needs to.
when you said you and Greg aren't together I got the chills so bad... I felt like my good friend was telling me her and her boyfriend broke up!!!! Sending you love sister
Oh, sweetie, I’m so sorry about your break up! I’ve been there and admire you both for doing it maturely. If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it’s yours. Just breathe and love yourself, for now
I'm so sorry for what happened but I'm really proud of you, for the way you're dealing with it. You're such an inspiration Kalyn, such a strong person who choses positivity in every aspect of life. Keep shining bright. Love you 💕✨
I needed this so bad.. Going through a break-up and struggling to accept the death of my Husky.. but I found out I got into my dream school in Japan. *There is always hope and the Universe always has something amazing waiting for you*
Audrey Hepburn once said "As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others". Kalyn, you are the exact representation of someone who has realized this. Every video you are helping others somehow and especially with this one, you used your courage to help those that really need it. You really inspire me and many others. I also believe strongly that everything happens for a reason. And if this life change hadn't happened, maybe you wouldn't have had the opportunity to help over a million of your subscribers with the same issue. You are a blessing to all on this universe. Thanks for sharing your gift. If you're still feeling hurt, I promise it will get better. Life always does💕
Ahhhhh Kalyn I wanna give you a big hug but at the same time you are so self-aware and wise that you almost don't even need it. Everything happens for a reason. Greg was a beautiful chapter in your life. Hope you're having the best adventure in Thailand! Much love xxx
I confess to be watching you after about 3 months (just busy), and my first thought is how MUCH have u grown! You sound soo positive and uplifting despite the hardships you have faced. Breakups suck... Yet here you too gave each other a gift of love. Be happy... Be blessed... Be you.
Aw, I'm glad you and Greg parted on positive terms. As always, you have amazing advice. Thank you so much for everything you do, Kayln. Seeing a notification from you always makes me smile :)
I'm so sorry to hear about Greg! But I'm sure that you, and I trust that it was for the best. Sending love and light your way, we are all here for you. 💛
Getting married is no bigger step than you make it. Especially if you were smart enough to live together and going through that possible tension before marriage. And if you have truly discussed the future like if you both want children or not and when. If you are both fully aware of your individual economical situation etc. The only difference between being monogamaous bf&gf to being married is, if you have no prenup, is that if you someday part ways it’ll be more economically tricky. I wish you all the luck and happiness;)
When you first posted this video, I watched the first couple minutes bc I love all your content regardless. But realized this video doesnt apply to me. I was in a healthy, happy, 2 year relationship. Well. I need it now. Thank you for posting this.
you are now the second of my favorite youtubers who‘se just recenlty gone through a breakup... i love your attitude towards the situation and how you live your life! keep on sharing everything with us! it‘s so inspirational and gives strenght!
I changed my relationship status, moved apartments and jobs in the first 4 months of last year. It was honestly one of the most stressful times in my life, and the following things helped me through. 1) Leaning on family and friends - difficult to ask for help, but honestly, it's kinda what they are there for! 2) Journalling - it's the first time that I had done this consistently, and it was helpful then to process emotions, and is great to look back on now. 3) Gratitude - A cliche, but so, so true! Bringing your awareness to your blessings, however small, can really shift your mindset. 4) Getting outside - Even if for a few moments, just to reconnect with nature, can heal you more than a whole day in bed. 5) Compassion towards myself - self care practices and not being critical of myself too much when struggling, is still something I struggle with today, but was definitely something that helped last year. Sending love and light to everyone navigating a journey through changes right now 💐
I will be going to America this August to study Neuroscience, and I am going alone, with no friends and no family. This is a major change for me, I am 18 years old, going to another country far away from my home. I am going to pursue my dreams, but I have been hesitant for the last few weeks. This video just gave me the strength to keep fighting, and to welcome change. Thank you so much Kalyn!
I needed this so much! I’m moving to Australia from the USA for 6 months and I am freaking out! Change is not my friend so I’m super glad you made this!!
I never comment on videos but within the past couple months, my grandma passed away and a few weeks ago our landlord evicted us to sell our house. Watching your videos over the years and reading books you have suggested has really helped me to quickly changed my attitude around and look on the bright side. Because of this, some potential good things are happening in my life as well. I really appreciate your videos and thank you for changing my life.💕
I am so sorry to hear about you and Greg. I went through a rough break up almost 2 years ago and it still stings from time to time. Keep your head up and stay focused! Love you girl! Love your content!
I'm having a really bad period. Since my last birthday, on the 1 March, I started to feel depressed, anxious and stressed every single day. I had panick attacks, I had days when I couldn't even go to school bc I felt so bad that all I wanted to do was stay in bed for the rest of my life. Some days ago I had a really bad breakdown, but instead of tear me down even more, I started to look at my life in a different way. I have just a week of school left, tomorrow I have my last exam, and I'm here watching your inspirational videos trying to get my life together. I don't to feel sad and useless anymore. I want to start building my goals, dreams, and my future. This is what I'm going to do this summer: have the biggest change in my life. I'm going to Canada for 2 months to start build my future there, so when I finish high school next year, I can go to college in Ottawa, where my cousin lives. All I'm trying to say is that I will never thank you enough for inspiring me and motivate me so much through your videos. You really are a role model and I'm glad I can stan such a sweet girl, positive and mature girl like you. World needs more people like you Kalyn. All the love, Alex.
As someone who's been through a lot of grief at a relatively young age, here is some stuff I've learned: 1. You are constantly changing, before-event you ia different from post-event you, and this change is usually proportional to the significance of the event (Newton's law, for every action there's an equal opposite reaction) 2. You're in control of a lot of how you grow out of trauma. You can decide, to some degree, to cope healthily and cope in a way that genuinely helps YOU as a person. I was never equipped with the idea that coping will happen, so I was just kind of paused and assumed it would work itself out. Everybody's different, so take the time to explore what helps you the most. Everything in life can be seen as an opportunity if you truly want it to. There is always the first layer of your natural reaction, then second, what you decide to do with it. 3. People can be incredibly kind, you just have to let them know/help. People, teachers, bosses, friends, etc often have no clue how to deal with someone else's loss/trauma/etc, but if you advocate for yourself (the hardest part), they are often willing to make a win-win adapted situation. The flip side of that is nobody else will truly understand the degree of your loss, and that's okay 4. It is not your duty/responsibility to be somebody's legacy/continue where they left off. Be you. The things you learned from them will stay with you, do what you need to remember them, but from your perspective. Ideas live a lot longer than humans sometimes 5. Take care of yourself. Be kind, you have experienced a lot, which can put future stressors into perspective. Hopefully this helps someone 💛 again for anyone who's experienced grief, I'm so sorry 💛 what you'll learn will probably look different but I thought I'd put some of the things that help me 💛 good luck everyone have a good day
You are always there for us through hard times i really wish knew how we can return the comfort and support you give when you are clearly going through your hard times. I also wish i knew what to say to make you feel better but i don't... sorry. But lets fight though this together.
I really enjoy listening to you. I’m 42 years old and every time I watch one of your videos I take something away from it. Please keep doing what you’re doing and spreading positivity.
I thought for weeks that something isn't right in your life. I felt like something wasn't okay about you, especially in the last video, where you looked so tired and sad. I wish you all the best kalyn. I know that a breakup is so so hard, but there will be better times dear. With much love and mental support❤️
It's clear it wasn't meant to be. The fact that you both recognized that early enough to save your friendship and love for each other is a great thing. What you say about fear is so true. The incredible thing is that when you finally do face them they are no way near as terrifying as you thought. Love you.
Haven’t started the video but already know it must be something difficult, maybe a relationship change.. not sure but whatever you are going through hope you get through it just like anyone else who is here reading this, get through it maybe there’s just a dark cloud for a little while but find some joy in it. Thanks so much for your videos and still uploading videos when you can, we love you !
this video honestly made my entire day. So glad we can relate on some level within our lives. i, too, just went through a break-up with a boy I had been with for 3.5 years. It has been very challenging but I have stayed positive and keep looking forward because there’s no point in going back! ❤️ You inspire me every day :)
Honestly, I don't think this video couldn't have been better timed with its release. I've been almost hiding from the fact that I need to leave my husband for my own wellbeing, and the fact that it's going to be such a huge change for me. I married young and spent almost all of my 20s with him and suffered a lot of my mental and emotional growth being stunted because of his abuse, even if it was unintentional. I'm so proud of you and all that you do for us, Kalyn, especially in times like these that hurt and you turn that pain into something so positive and strive to help others through their own situations.
This video couldn’t been posted in a better time! I go through humongous amount of stress right now and lots of changes in my life, that it gives me so much anxiety that it’s almost unbearable! Thank you for this video, it makes me feel way better and gives me hope everything will turn out good! You are so inspiring! Thank you again! 💚
With every video, my appreciation for you just grows and grows. You are my idol and I'm so glad that I have the chance of learning from such calm, wise, inspiring and kind person. ♥
When one door closes, another opens... its hard to accept sometimes but it's part of growing and its always, always better on the other side! Love your sensitive and inspirational soul Kalyn!
Just got out of a 6 year long relationship after living together for 2 years... I’ve never felt so broken and I just wanted to say this video couldn’t have come at a better time... I REALLY needed it!!! So THANK YOU 🙌🏻
Thank you for being so open with us and willing to share your own trials in hopes of making us feel not so alone in our own. I needed this video!! I've just moved all the way across the Country with no job, home or plan but I have a dream and being here feels so right! So I'm trying very hard to (as you said) practice faith and humor with my situation. Thank you always! 💕
I've had so much weird and scary change, a lot of that needs triggerwarnings, but the scariest change is what I'm facing right now: safety. I completed university, I'm in a loving relationship, living in a great home and I'm completely safe and happy in my life. My brain is goin haywire, trying to process this new situation but finding meaning in every little act and finding gratefulness for the bad things that brought me here today is keeping me sane. That is the way I find faith. Thank you for the video, I always watch but rarely comment
I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and a half and it was so hard. Your video really made me feel better about the situation. Thank you for that x
My husband is gearing up for a long military deployment. There is a lot of change coming my way. With two kids relying on me for everything from food, to bad dream hugs, to an example of how to handle all this in a healthy way, it's really scary. Thank you for your videos, your advice, and your motivation!
I'm so happy you are keeping Coffee Talks here too! They are one of my fave videos to watch (as well as GYST videos hahaha). Sending you warm wishes from Toronto to Thailand!!!
I have been going through a lot lately! Exams, job change, living far away from my family, being in a long distance relationship... the list is long! You’re an inspiration for every independent girl ❤️ Your videos are so motivating and beautiful ❤️❤️
m sorry abwt u nd greg and m happy tht u guys have each other's best interest at heart. I wsh the both of u nothing but the best nd happiness. LV u hun
Hi Kalyn! This is so strange how you can tell even from a RUclips video that a person is going through something when you were watching them for a while now. I had a feeling that this kind of coffee talk was coming. And the fact that you're taking this change so peacefully is the reason for all the great things that will come next to your life because you are opening the door for them right now. I know from my own experience. I had a very hard break up that ended a 7-year relationship, which I thought were meant to be there forever. And just like you I chose to focus on the positive sides, on myself, on how this whole messed up situation somehow will work for the best one day. So I set a goal to listen to what I want and go for it no matter what because I felt like for the first time I had that magical time to be there for myself and no longer only for someone else. And guess what... This determination to see a positive side and to focus on me one day very unexpectedly lead me to a person who is now my fiancé. And I'm so thankful for this past relationship because if not for it, I wouldn't be where I am right now. One day it'll all make sense! Sending you a virtual hug and strength ❤️
Kayln you are so inspiring! You make me thrive to live a better life for myself and even my husband. Your law of attraction video has changed my life girl! Thank you for being you and constantly keeping up with your videos and all the work you do! ♡
I just came out of a very long relationship and honestly dealt with the whole situation believing that it was a matter of destiny, and that there was nothing I could do about what happened, but I was still able to do something about I lived my present and my future.. now I am happier than before and embracing all the small things and opportunities that life and the universe in general are throwing at me and that I obviously just wasn't noticing before! Thank you kalyn for being always so inspirational! Life motto: congratulations, you have survived 100% of your worst days! :D
+Kalyn Nicholson Thank you for this Coffee Talk. Very much needed. I've been stressing myself out over school work. I'm going to look at the positives in my life instead of dwelling on the negatives. 💕✨
Hey, Kalyn. First, I love you to the moon and back. I’ve been watching you for over 2 years now and I can truly say that you have improved my life. Second, you said there are good and bad times since the break up and one thing I wanted to share with you is scientists think they have found the key to happiness. Gratitude. They did a study that when individuals showed gratification to the people who are most important to them in their life, their happiness increased by at least 19%. The scientists had the individuals write a letter about a special someone in their life who has influenced them the most and after writing page after page, the individuals were surprised when they had to call the person they wrote about and read them the letter. Needless to say, every individual who walked into that test felt happier after giving their gratitude.
I've been in a relationship for over past 6 years. For past 2 years its been a long distance and its so terribly hard. I haven't been able to focus on my studies. My grades started to sink, somehow saved my ship from sinking but now I need to get really good grades. Your videos are so motivational and get me going. I love youuuu. And thankyouu soo much for everything.
You always post videos that relate to what I am struggling with and I'm so blessed to have you to go to for a better mindset. I am still struggling with Self doubt. How can I change that??? I'm going into the US Navy and I keep doubting myself that I can do. How can I change that??? I love you so much Kalyn💕💕💕 Love, Kaylyn R.
The navy? thats amazing!!! Wishing you loads of luck!! Kalyn's podcast on trusting yourself is really good for self doubt - I listened to it on my way to work the other day when I needed a pick-me-up and it's really good!
GIRL I FEEL YOU SO HARD ON THIS VIDEO. Thank God you posted this. My life has been so crazy. My sister is getting married in two weeks and being her MOH has been impossible because she hasn't been easy to deal with at all, two days after that I leave for Nicaragua on a mission trip with my church which will be intense as hell because they are having their own issues this last week (look up an article, its absolutely insane), and aside from that I just went through a break up which happened for the exact reasons that yours did. Mind blowing. I'll be praying for you girl, seems like we are all going through a lot of struggles and changes but God is good and you're right, everything happens for a reason
I knew you had a new video coming out and somehow I had a really hard feeling that you and Greg broke up, i just knew it...don't know how...But keep rocking girl!
I literally saved this video months ago when I knew I was gonna face a big change in my life and it happened and I couldn't help but to break down for a few days. It's amazing because you might not even know I exist, but every time something difficult comes up in my life, watching your videos always make me feel like i'm not alone. and i'm so grateful to you and I hope you know how much you mean to me, because I might not have survived with you. love from Indonesia.
How are you so strong and independent that you are able to let someone you love go like that? I want to be more like that but I know I am so stubborn when I find a guy that I really want to be with. Does it just come with age?
I just wanted to say THANK YOU. I was having a mayor crisis and you've helped me clear my mind and make decisions. Truly I can't thank you enough, you just saved my relationship and my carreer, believe it or not.
Hey Kalyn, I just needed to explain why this video is so important to me. I spend most of my time beating myself up for not being good enough, smart enough, thin enough, pretty enough, etc. I constantly feel like I am useless and everyone else around me is dealing with everything so much better than me, or not dealing with anything bad at all. But watching this video, I realized that people do go thru hard shit sometimes, no matter who they are. I thought because you were so positive and happy that you just coast thru bad things and make it unscathed. Maybe you do, but there is no doubt that getting thru it is hard. I guess what I am trying to say is thank you for showing me that even you go thru hard times because sometimes its easy to forget. You help so many people with all of your videos, and I know I always feel better after watching them so thank you for that too 💜
Ironic that me and my boyfriend broke up very recently and I was so happy when I saw this video because it’s so relatable and i am sooooo glad that u uploaded this video because u are such an inspiration to me and always help me get through a hard time or get motivated or whatever it is you are truly a blessing to this world keep doing what u do because u never know how u are helping someone everyday
you're hands down my favorite youtuber. i went through a break up a year ago and your videos helped me so much. you inspired me to start yoga and meditation and i feel so much better now because i know, that my happiness shouldn't depend on someone else. So i want to say thank you! You're such a strong, independent woman and i know for sure that you'll be feeling better soon! Lots of love from Germany :)
I know you hear this all the time but I hope you know how true this is when we say it. I needed this right now. I’m about to graduate from College and i’ve been spending so much time hiding away in bed anxiously. Your videos inspire me.
I've been through alot this year, I've been suffering from an acute anxiety and stress because i've faced a big fail last summer in my studies, I passed the class but not with the grades that I worked for and I wanted.Fortunately, I discovered you this year and I've strated to be an addict to your videos, whenever I watch one of yours I feel a kind of peace of mind because all of the positive vibes that you're giving off also I've never thought that I will start doing Yoga or feel that kind of Zen I mean I've never believed in that. So, you've given me like some sort of peace,motivation and confidence to achieve my dreams, and trust me whenever I feel down and unmotivated you just post a video in the prefect time. So thank you for renewing my energy another time. :)
You’re wise beyond your years, an old soul. I find this refreshing and rare among 20 somethings. I’m 49 and know people my AHS who aren’t this zen about things
*I was recently kicked out of the career I loved and it hurts so much that I've been bedridden for a few days and I just feel like i'm beginning to get back on my feet. There are other things I've been going through--and this video couldn't have come at a better time, Kalyn.
My boyfriend and I decided two days ago that we need to be apart to make the changes we want in our lives. This video was perfect timing for me.. even though breakups (and any sort of change) are always hard, it's great to be reminded that everyone deals with it and I'm not alone.
I've been going through a lot of changes as well - along with a break up... I don't feel comfortable on here but is there a way to ask you advice on it more privately? I really take your videos to heart and we have such a similar mindset and spirituality to how I am and try to be if that makes sense. Thank you for all you do, Kalyn!! ❤ much love
Girl, I love all of your videos, but this one... I've literally been going through very hard changes I feel I can't handle for the past couple of days and this came at the perfect time. I've been feeling like I'm right at the edge of breaking and falling emotionally to a place where it's gonna be hard to get out of. You have all my respect for being positive and filming a happy uplifting video even when you're going through crap, you are amazing. I logically know we all are powerful beings and in the end, we can handle anything life throws at us. Emotionally, I'm afraid though. But like you said, we'll know what the change was good for only by looking back at it, when we get through it. That's my problem now - I'm standing before a decision that I'm being forced to and whatever way I decide to go it's gonna be hard, and again, logically, both options could be sent to me by the Universe to teach me a lesson I need to learn, it's just so hard to choose. Thank you for making this video and posting it after I've been desperately praying for advice for a day or two. Now I'm feeling so much calmer, because honestly, a couple months from now, this will be long past even being a thing. It's just hard to take a step back and see the situation for what it is when we're still in the middle of it. I'm sending positive vibes your way, be strong :) thank you for being such an inspiration to us all :)
Speaking of fears I get really really scared of clowns. If you want to know why well here it is. A very long time ago when I was really little I went to a Halloween carnival and we had a friend who was dressed up like a clown and he scared the hell out of me. My parents thought it was some kind of a Halloween joke but it wasn’t. I was really upset and very sad that I started to cry. And now today I am still really really scared of clowns
hi everyone! im kinda new here, but finding kalyn's channel recently has really helped me through so much. today i was talking to some people about how i fear and dread change and watching this video has totally given me a new perspective! so happy for the existence of such a wonderful inspirational human being and nice to meet you all! :)
Amber Morrison Thank you! 😊 Definitely explore Auckland and Wellington, there is lots to do and see. If you are into nature and scenery I would recommend taking a road trip around the South Island! It is a bit cold down there but the scenery stunning! Milford sound and Queenstown is a must! You will love it here 😁
My partner has started working away 6 weeks at a time so watching this has helped me so much. I have been watching you since I was so young!! Thank you for being you! xox
I feel like all your videos come at the right time. I am currently going through a shift .. sort of. I am still living at home with my mom who is very toxic. I am a single parent to a 2 yr old and I’m trying to balance that and still go to school. I’m 23 and I always get asked “why do you still live at home if you and your mom constantly have issues?” It’s me and after talking to my sister I realized that i am sort of scared of being on my own. I haven’t done the steps to get where I need to be and I constantly complain and wish I’m there but I dont follow through with anything. I am currently coming up with a plan to finally get out on my own and not under my mom & her sheltered ways. I had a breakdown today about all of this & I think now I’m ready to finally open that door 🚪 that leads me to where I need to be and have some confidence in myself.
Like she said, look at it as meant to be. Moving away was the best thing that happened to me. You get to know yourself in so many ways. Even though leaving old friends may be hard, you all will stay in touch if you prioritate it. You gonna go on so many new adventures, and meet so many new great people, that it hopefully creates more fullfilment. Don’t hold on to the past to much, but get excited over whats in store. I hope you got something out of my rambling.
HI !!!!! like the girls said you have to focus on new relationships and not push them away because you miss your old friends or bcs you are sad.... on the contrary open your arms to new adventures and if your friends really appreciate you even if you're far away from them they will be always there for you
I'm going through a huge friend breakup and loneliness and depression is a big thing for me and as well as life not going my way.. but this video really changed my perspective and thought process! I can't wait to put them into practice. Thank you Kayln
This video came at the most perfect time for me. I've been dealing with so much incredibly difficult change lately in so many aspects of my life and I've just been at the point where I just don't see anything good anymore and am just sad and angry all of the time. Kalyn, you came just when I needed you. I swear I feel like we're real life friends because everything you say resonates with me, and it sounds crazy, but I genuinely miss you when you don't upload or post. Thank you for all that you do for all of us and for being you. We all love you and Bentley to the moon and back times 10!❤️
I can not stress how thankful I am to be able to watch your videos especially at a time like this as I am going through a very hard break up you honestly bring so much happiness and gratefulness to my life I am instantly able to look at things differently and in a positive way especially people and things that are super hard to let go off your tips are so helpful your a great person and do so much for others keep being you because you are awesome 😜
1. Find the faith:
Believe everything happens for a reason.
2. Find the humor:
Suck heaviness out of tough changes by finding the humorous moments.
3. Focus on solutions instead of problems:
Eliminate victim mentality by focusing on how things could go right or are already going right, or what you can change. Soon you’ll see solutions instead of problems.
4. Face your fears:
“The fears we don’t face become our limits”!!! Facing our fears helps us realize how little control we have and allows life to unfold as it needs to.
Alyssa Hancock thanks for this. I really needed to read this :)
when you said you and Greg aren't together I got the chills so bad... I felt like my good friend was telling me her and her boyfriend broke up!!!! Sending you love sister
You're such an essential part of my week, if I don't watch your videos I feel like something is missing. We love you Kalyn 💖✨
Sahar Achouri I feel the same!
SAME!!!
Sahar Achouri I feel this too! A mid of the week dosage of inspiration is my perfect pick me up.
Camila Cardenas me too!
Nickkey Petrucci samhere Nicky!
Having a bath, eating Ben and Jerry's (chocolate fudge brownie), and watching you. Just what I needed after a long day.
Szilvi Juhász love how you added the flavor...enjoy :)
That was the most necessary part I wanted to share, haha :D :D Thank you!!
R U Hungarian? :)
Kele Fanni yes :)
Szilvi Juhász èn is❤️
Oh, sweetie, I’m so sorry about your break up! I’ve been there and admire you both for doing it maturely. If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it’s yours. Just breathe and love yourself, for now
I was just thinking the same thing.. I wish I could handle breakups like Kalyn! :)
I'm so sorry for what happened but I'm really proud of you, for the way you're dealing with it. You're such an inspiration Kalyn, such a strong person who choses positivity in every aspect of life. Keep shining bright. Love you 💕✨
Sahar Achouri it's a bittersweet ending but it was for the best.
I’ve been going through quite a lot of stress recently because of school and your videos make me forget why
Katie Duffy me too, I'm taking finals right now and graduate next week.
So many times I found myself just nodding to what you said...
thanks for the inspiration Kalyn💫
So sorry to hear about you and Greg ☹️ but you’re a strong independent girl, and you’ll be fine 😁
I needed this so bad.. Going through a break-up and struggling to accept the death of my Husky.. but I found out I got into my dream school in Japan. *There is always hope and the Universe always has something amazing waiting for you*
Audrey Hepburn once said "As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others". Kalyn, you are the exact representation of someone who has realized this. Every video you are helping others somehow and especially with this one, you used your courage to help those that really need it. You really inspire me and many others. I also believe strongly that everything happens for a reason. And if this life change hadn't happened, maybe you wouldn't have had the opportunity to help over a million of your subscribers with the same issue. You are a blessing to all on this universe. Thanks for sharing your gift. If you're still feeling hurt, I promise it will get better. Life always does💕
Ahhhhh Kalyn I wanna give you a big hug but at the same time you are so self-aware and wise that you almost don't even need it. Everything happens for a reason. Greg was a beautiful chapter in your life. Hope you're having the best adventure in Thailand! Much love xxx
I confess to be watching you after about 3 months (just busy), and my first thought is how MUCH have u grown! You sound soo positive and uplifting despite the hardships you have faced. Breakups suck... Yet here you too gave each other a gift of love. Be happy... Be blessed... Be you.
Aw, I'm glad you and Greg parted on positive terms. As always, you have amazing advice. Thank you so much for everything you do, Kayln. Seeing a notification from you always makes me smile :)
I'm so sorry to hear about Greg! But I'm sure that you, and I trust that it was for the best. Sending love and light your way, we are all here for you. 💛
I saw someone say this: “change feels like death, because your old self is dying.”
Such a powerful quote.
I am getting married in May and this is a big change for me. Recently I feel very scared, anxious and depressed. Your videos help me to feel better ❤️
Suzana Milosevic I'm getting married next year and my nervous and anxiousness have been taking over like crazy! You're not alone!!
I got married 5 months ago and it has being challenging but also super fun to be with my soul mate ! You are going to be just fine 😘✨
I got married this past january Its was amzing and worth it all
Congratulations girl!!
Getting married is no bigger step than you make it.
Especially if you were smart enough to live together and going through that possible tension before marriage.
And if you have truly discussed the future like if you both want children or not and when.
If you are both fully aware of your individual economical situation etc.
The only difference between being monogamaous bf&gf to being married is, if you have no prenup, is that if you someday part ways it’ll be more economically tricky.
I wish you all the luck and happiness;)
When you first posted this video, I watched the first couple minutes bc I love all your content regardless. But realized this video doesnt apply to me. I was in a healthy, happy, 2 year relationship. Well. I need it now. Thank you for posting this.
you are now the second of my favorite youtubers who‘se just recenlty gone through a breakup... i love your attitude towards the situation and how you live your life! keep on sharing everything with us! it‘s so inspirational and gives strenght!
I changed my relationship status, moved apartments and jobs in the first 4 months of last year. It was honestly one of the most stressful times in my life, and the following things helped me through.
1) Leaning on family and friends - difficult to ask for help, but honestly, it's kinda what they are there for!
2) Journalling - it's the first time that I had done this consistently, and it was helpful then to process emotions, and is great to look back on now.
3) Gratitude - A cliche, but so, so true! Bringing your awareness to your blessings, however small, can really shift your mindset.
4) Getting outside - Even if for a few moments, just to reconnect with nature, can heal you more than a whole day in bed.
5) Compassion towards myself - self care practices and not being critical of myself too much when struggling, is still something I struggle with today, but was definitely something that helped last year.
Sending love and light to everyone navigating a journey through changes right now 💐
A very dear friend of mine has cancer. Her options are minimal and her time is limited. She’s in a lot of pain. Please pray for her
Savannah Sandoval My thoughts and prayers are with her and you
Update: this weekend she was relieved of the pain and suffering. May she Rest In Peace
Sorry for your loss ❤❤
I will be going to America this August to study Neuroscience, and I am going alone, with no friends and no family. This is a major change for me, I am 18 years old, going to another country far away from my home. I am going to pursue my dreams, but I have been hesitant for the last few weeks. This video just gave me the strength to keep fighting, and to welcome change. Thank you so much Kalyn!
I needed this so much! I’m moving to Australia from the USA for 6 months and I am freaking out! Change is not my friend so I’m super glad you made this!!
I never comment on videos but within the past couple months, my grandma passed away and a few weeks ago our landlord evicted us to sell our house. Watching your videos over the years and reading books you have suggested has really helped me to quickly changed my attitude around and look on the bright side. Because of this, some potential good things are happening in my life as well. I really appreciate your videos and thank you for changing my life.💕
I am so sorry to hear about you and Greg. I went through a rough break up almost 2 years ago and it still stings from time to time. Keep your head up and stay focused! Love you girl! Love your content!
I'm having a really bad period. Since my last birthday, on the 1 March, I started to feel depressed, anxious and stressed every single day. I had panick attacks, I had days when I couldn't even go to school bc I felt so bad that all I wanted to do was stay in bed for the rest of my life. Some days ago I had a really bad breakdown, but instead of tear me down even more, I started to look at my life in a different way. I have just a week of school left, tomorrow I have my last exam, and I'm here watching your inspirational videos trying to get my life together. I don't to feel sad and useless anymore. I want to start building my goals, dreams, and my future. This is what I'm going to do this summer: have the biggest change in my life. I'm going to Canada for 2 months to start build my future there, so when I finish high school next year, I can go to college in Ottawa, where my cousin lives. All I'm trying to say is that I will never thank you enough for inspiring me and motivate me so much through your videos. You really are a role model and I'm glad I can stan such a sweet girl, positive and mature girl like you. World needs more people like you Kalyn. All the love, Alex.
Do you even know how important your videos are in my life.
BTW love from India.🖤
V Goenka ikr?
nyeduoth puok Kalyn does that to us you know.
Apurva Bakshi Yesss.
From India too
As someone who's been through a lot of grief at a relatively young age, here is some stuff I've learned:
1. You are constantly changing, before-event you ia different from post-event you, and this change is usually proportional to the significance of the event (Newton's law, for every action there's an equal opposite reaction)
2. You're in control of a lot of how you grow out of trauma. You can decide, to some degree, to cope healthily and cope in a way that genuinely helps YOU as a person. I was never equipped with the idea that coping will happen, so I was just kind of paused and assumed it would work itself out. Everybody's different, so take the time to explore what helps you the most. Everything in life can be seen as an opportunity if you truly want it to. There is always the first layer of your natural reaction, then second, what you decide to do with it.
3. People can be incredibly kind, you just have to let them know/help. People, teachers, bosses, friends, etc often have no clue how to deal with someone else's loss/trauma/etc, but if you advocate for yourself (the hardest part), they are often willing to make a win-win adapted situation. The flip side of that is nobody else will truly understand the degree of your loss, and that's okay
4. It is not your duty/responsibility to be somebody's legacy/continue where they left off. Be you. The things you learned from them will stay with you, do what you need to remember them, but from your perspective. Ideas live a lot longer than humans sometimes
5. Take care of yourself. Be kind, you have experienced a lot, which can put future stressors into perspective.
Hopefully this helps someone 💛 again for anyone who's experienced grief, I'm so sorry 💛 what you'll learn will probably look different but I thought I'd put some of the things that help me 💛 good luck everyone have a good day
You are always there for us through hard times i really wish knew how we can return the comfort and support you give when you are clearly going through your hard times. I also wish i knew what to say to make you feel better but i don't... sorry. But lets fight though this together.
I really enjoy listening to you. I’m 42 years old and every time I watch one of your videos I take something away from it. Please keep doing what you’re doing and spreading positivity.
I thought for weeks that something isn't right in your life. I felt like something wasn't okay about you, especially in the last video, where you looked so tired and sad.
I wish you all the best kalyn. I know that a breakup is so so hard, but there will be better times dear.
With much love and mental support❤️
It's clear it wasn't meant to be. The fact that you both recognized that early enough to save your friendship and love for each other is a great thing. What you say about fear is so true. The incredible thing is that when you finally do face them they are no way near as terrifying as you thought. Love you.
You're such a role model for so many of us young girls, keep your head high, we all love you 💖💖💖💖
“Each time you find humor in a situation, you win” 👏🏼
Haven’t started the video but already know it must be something difficult, maybe a relationship change.. not sure but whatever you are going through hope you get through it just like anyone else who is here reading this, get through it maybe there’s just a dark cloud for a little while but find some joy in it. Thanks so much for your videos and still uploading videos when you can, we love you !
Eunice Sandoval I agree girl definitely like she’s so amazing and so beautiful and inspiring I love it your comment is so sweet amazing 💛💛💛
this video honestly made my entire day. So glad we can relate on some level within our lives. i, too, just went through a break-up with a boy I had been with for 3.5 years. It has been very challenging but I have stayed positive and keep looking forward because there’s no point in going back! ❤️ You inspire me every day :)
Your my free therapist. Thank you
Honestly, I don't think this video couldn't have been better timed with its release. I've been almost hiding from the fact that I need to leave my husband for my own wellbeing, and the fact that it's going to be such a huge change for me. I married young and spent almost all of my 20s with him and suffered a lot of my mental and emotional growth being stunted because of his abuse, even if it was unintentional.
I'm so proud of you and all that you do for us, Kalyn, especially in times like these that hurt and you turn that pain into something so positive and strive to help others through their own situations.
This video couldn’t been posted in a better time! I go through humongous amount of stress right now and lots of changes in my life, that it gives me so much anxiety that it’s almost unbearable! Thank you for this video, it makes me feel way better and gives me hope everything will turn out good! You are so inspiring! Thank you again! 💚
I dont get how people can be afraid of change. They must be so happy with life. All I ever wish for is for something to finally change
With every video, my appreciation for you just grows and grows. You are my idol and I'm so glad that I have the chance of learning from such calm, wise, inspiring and kind person. ♥
When one door closes, another opens... its hard to accept sometimes but it's part of growing and its always, always better on the other side! Love your sensitive and inspirational soul Kalyn!
You are so loved and strong and confident. Thank you for being a role model to me in more ways than you know. You have really saved my life
Just got out of a 6 year long relationship after living together for 2 years... I’ve never felt so broken and I just wanted to say this video couldn’t have come at a better time... I REALLY needed it!!! So THANK YOU 🙌🏻
Thank you for being so open with us and willing to share your own trials in hopes of making us feel not so alone in our own. I needed this video!! I've just moved all the way across the Country with no job, home or plan but I have a dream and being here feels so right! So I'm trying very hard to (as you said) practice faith and humor with my situation. Thank you always! 💕
Thats amazing, wish I had the courage to do that!x
Thank you!!
I've had so much weird and scary change, a lot of that needs triggerwarnings, but the scariest change is what I'm facing right now: safety. I completed university, I'm in a loving relationship, living in a great home and I'm completely safe and happy in my life. My brain is goin haywire, trying to process this new situation but finding meaning in every little act and finding gratefulness for the bad things that brought me here today is keeping me sane. That is the way I find faith. Thank you for the video, I always watch but rarely comment
I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and a half and it was so hard. Your video really made me feel better about the situation. Thank you for that x
My husband is gearing up for a long military deployment. There is a lot of change coming my way. With two kids relying on me for everything from food, to bad dream hugs, to an example of how to handle all this in a healthy way, it's really scary. Thank you for your videos, your advice, and your motivation!
I'm so happy you are keeping Coffee Talks here too! They are one of my fave videos to watch (as well as GYST videos hahaha). Sending you warm wishes from Toronto to Thailand!!!
I have been going through a lot lately! Exams, job change, living far away from my family, being in a long distance relationship... the list is long! You’re an inspiration for every independent girl ❤️ Your videos are so motivating and beautiful ❤️❤️
m sorry abwt u nd greg and m happy tht u guys have each other's best interest at heart. I wsh the both of u nothing but the best nd happiness. LV u hun
Hi Kalyn! This is so strange how you can tell even from a RUclips video that a person is going through something when you were watching them for a while now. I had a feeling that this kind of coffee talk was coming. And the fact that you're taking this change so peacefully is the reason for all the great things that will come next to your life because you are opening the door for them right now. I know from my own experience. I had a very hard break up that ended a 7-year relationship, which I thought were meant to be there forever. And just like you I chose to focus on the positive sides, on myself, on how this whole messed up situation somehow will work for the best one day. So I set a goal to listen to what I want and go for it no matter what because I felt like for the first time I had that magical time to be there for myself and no longer only for someone else. And guess what... This determination to see a positive side and to focus on me one day very unexpectedly lead me to a person who is now my fiancé. And I'm so thankful for this past relationship because if not for it, I wouldn't be where I am right now. One day it'll all make sense! Sending you a virtual hug and strength ❤️
Kayln you are so inspiring! You make me thrive to live a better life for myself and even my husband. Your law of attraction video has changed my life girl! Thank you for being you and constantly keeping up with your videos and all the work you do! ♡
elizabeth elle same!! Married life can be challenging
I just came out of a very long relationship and honestly dealt with the whole situation believing that it was a matter of destiny, and that there was nothing I could do about what happened, but I was still able to do something about I lived my present and my future.. now I am happier than before and embracing all the small things and opportunities that life and the universe in general are throwing at me and that I obviously just wasn't noticing before! Thank you kalyn for being always so inspirational! Life motto: congratulations, you have survived 100% of your worst days! :D
I'm kind of sad about her break up. They were good together.
c m one year
When life hands you lemons, ditch them and grab a latte.....yes, love it! I'm not too active on twitter so thanks for re-sharing on here. 👍😍☕️😋
+Kalyn Nicholson Thank you for this Coffee Talk. Very much needed. I've been stressing myself out over school work. I'm going to look at the positives in my life instead of dwelling on the negatives. 💕✨
Hey, Kalyn. First, I love you to the moon and back. I’ve been watching you for over 2 years now and I can truly say that you have improved my life. Second, you said there are good and bad times since the break up and one thing I wanted to share with you is scientists think they have found the key to happiness. Gratitude. They did a study that when individuals showed gratification to the people who are most important to them in their life, their happiness increased by at least 19%. The scientists had the individuals write a letter about a special someone in their life who has influenced them the most and after writing page after page, the individuals were surprised when they had to call the person they wrote about and read them the letter. Needless to say, every individual who walked into that test felt happier after giving their gratitude.
OMG Kalyn you will never understand how much I needed this video right now!
I've been in a relationship for over past 6 years. For past 2 years its been a long distance and its so terribly hard. I haven't been able to focus on my studies. My grades started to sink, somehow saved my ship from sinking but now I need to get really good grades. Your videos are so motivational and get me going. I love youuuu. And thankyouu soo much for everything.
You always post videos that relate to what I am struggling with and I'm so blessed to have you to go to for a better mindset. I am still struggling with Self doubt. How can I change that??? I'm going into the US Navy and I keep doubting myself that I can do. How can I change that??? I love you so much Kalyn💕💕💕
Love,
Kaylyn R.
KrazyKaysVlogs just go for it ! If not you will never know ! 😊
The navy? thats amazing!!! Wishing you loads of luck!! Kalyn's podcast on trusting yourself is really good for self doubt - I listened to it on my way to work the other day when I needed a pick-me-up and it's really good!
It took a huge amount of courage to even decide that you wanted to go into the Navy. Just keep focusing your energy on it! You will do incredible!
She has a hole coffee talk video about it ! Go watch it .. Hope u all the best ❤
GIRL I FEEL YOU SO HARD ON THIS VIDEO. Thank God you posted this. My life has been so crazy. My sister is getting married in two weeks and being her MOH has been impossible because she hasn't been easy to deal with at all, two days after that I leave for Nicaragua on a mission trip with my church which will be intense as hell because they are having their own issues this last week (look up an article, its absolutely insane), and aside from that I just went through a break up which happened for the exact reasons that yours did. Mind blowing. I'll be praying for you girl, seems like we are all going through a lot of struggles and changes but God is good and you're right, everything happens for a reason
I knew you had a new video coming out and somehow I had a really hard feeling that you and Greg broke up, i just knew it...don't know how...But keep rocking girl!
same here i had a feeling it was that
Still my favorite coffee talk to re watch when I need it. Thankyou.
This video has helped me so much x I always struggle with change and your Chanel has been getting me through 💙 thank you so much
I literally saved this video months ago when I knew I was gonna face a big change in my life and it happened and I couldn't help but to break down for a few days. It's amazing because you might not even know I exist, but every time something difficult comes up in my life, watching your videos always make me feel like i'm not alone. and i'm so grateful to you and I hope you know how much you mean to me, because I might not have survived with you. love from Indonesia.
How are you so strong and independent that you are able to let someone you love go like that? I want to be more like that but I know I am so stubborn when I find a guy that I really want to be with. Does it just come with age?
I just wanted to say THANK YOU. I was having a mayor crisis and you've helped me clear my mind and make decisions. Truly I can't thank you enough, you just saved my relationship and my carreer, believe it or not.
you are so strong and wonderful, live for your videos, and I'm so glad you're rolling with the punches. thank you for always being so inspiring
Hey Kalyn, I just needed to explain why this video is so important to me. I spend most of my time beating myself up for not being good enough, smart enough, thin enough, pretty enough, etc. I constantly feel like I am useless and everyone else around me is dealing with everything so much better than me, or not dealing with anything bad at all.
But watching this video, I realized that people do go thru hard shit sometimes, no matter who they are. I thought because you were so positive and happy that you just coast thru bad things and make it unscathed. Maybe you do, but there is no doubt that getting thru it is hard.
I guess what I am trying to say is thank you for showing me that even you go thru hard times because sometimes its easy to forget.
You help so many people with all of your videos, and I know I always feel better after watching them so thank you for that too 💜
Funny thing, I just had a breakup TODAY after 6 years of a relationship.... wow. Timing. 😪
Dora Alexis wow it must be so hard to breakup from someone who been with u thru a lottt....
I hope u are ok;)
Rahl Rahel thank you so much!
I went through a five year breakup two weeks ago. Stay strong hun!!
Dora Alexis u wellcome darling:)
I love how much love is on this community! ✨❤️✨
Ironic that me and my boyfriend broke up very recently and I was so happy when I saw this video because it’s so relatable and i am sooooo glad that u uploaded this video because u are such an inspiration to me and always help me get through a hard time or get motivated or whatever it is you are truly a blessing to this world keep doing what u do because u never know how u are helping someone everyday
Thanks for sharing! Your so strong 😊
I don’t think you’ll ever know how much of an impact you’ve made on my life. You inspire me more and more everyday. Thank you
Just what I needed today as I Namaste in Bed while watching lol. Here I go now!
you're hands down my favorite youtuber. i went through a break up a year ago and your videos helped me so much. you inspired me to start yoga and meditation and i feel so much better now because i know, that my happiness shouldn't depend on someone else. So i want to say thank you! You're such a strong, independent woman and i know for sure that you'll be feeling better soon! Lots of love from Germany :)
What's lip color is that Kalyn ? It's gorgeous
I know you hear this all the time but I hope you know how true this is when we say it. I needed this right now. I’m about to graduate from
College and i’ve been spending so much time hiding away in bed anxiously. Your videos inspire me.
Yaaaaaaaay! This notification just put a huge smile on my face! x
Eva Main same here 👌❤
This is exactly what I needed. 💕 After loosing a friend this year, I’ve been struggling to move on, be happy again and accept the change.
Make up look is on point!
I've been through alot this year, I've been suffering from an acute anxiety and stress because i've faced a big fail last summer in my studies, I passed the class but not with the grades that I worked for and I wanted.Fortunately, I discovered you this year and I've strated to be an addict to your videos, whenever I watch one of yours I feel a kind of peace of mind because all of the positive vibes that you're giving off also I've never thought that I will start doing Yoga or feel that kind of Zen I mean I've never believed in that. So, you've given me like some sort of peace,motivation and confidence to achieve my dreams, and trust me whenever I feel down and unmotivated you just post a video in the prefect time. So thank you for renewing my energy another time. :)
This is the exact video I needed to hear today ❤️ thank you
You’re wise beyond your years, an old soul. I find this refreshing and rare among 20 somethings. I’m 49 and know people my AHS who aren’t this zen about things
*I was recently kicked out of the career I loved and it hurts so much that I've been bedridden for a few days and I just feel like i'm beginning to get back on my feet. There are other things I've been going through--and this video couldn't have come at a better time, Kalyn.
My boyfriend and I decided two days ago that we need to be apart to make the changes we want in our lives. This video was perfect timing for me.. even though breakups (and any sort of change) are always hard, it's great to be reminded that everyone deals with it and I'm not alone.
I've been going through a lot of changes as well - along with a break up... I don't feel comfortable on here but is there a way to ask you advice on it more privately? I really take your videos to heart and we have such a similar mindset and spirituality to how I am and try to be if that makes sense. Thank you for all you do, Kalyn!! ❤ much love
Girl, I love all of your videos, but this one... I've literally been going through very hard changes I feel I can't handle for the past couple of days and this came at the perfect time. I've been feeling like I'm right at the edge of breaking and falling emotionally to a place where it's gonna be hard to get out of. You have all my respect for being positive and filming a happy uplifting video even when you're going through crap, you are amazing. I logically know we all are powerful beings and in the end, we can handle anything life throws at us. Emotionally, I'm afraid though. But like you said, we'll know what the change was good for only by looking back at it, when we get through it. That's my problem now - I'm standing before a decision that I'm being forced to and whatever way I decide to go it's gonna be hard, and again, logically, both options could be sent to me by the Universe to teach me a lesson I need to learn, it's just so hard to choose. Thank you for making this video and posting it after I've been desperately praying for advice for a day or two. Now I'm feeling so much calmer, because honestly, a couple months from now, this will be long past even being a thing. It's just hard to take a step back and see the situation for what it is when we're still in the middle of it. I'm sending positive vibes your way, be strong :) thank you for being such an inspiration to us all :)
Speaking of fears I get really really scared of clowns. If you want to know why well here it is. A very long time ago when I was really little I went to a Halloween carnival and we had a friend who was dressed up like a clown and he scared the hell out of me. My parents thought it was some kind of a Halloween joke but it wasn’t. I was really upset and very sad that I started to cry. And now today I am still really really scared of clowns
hi everyone! im kinda new here, but finding kalyn's channel recently has really helped me through so much. today i was talking to some people about how i fear and dread change and watching this video has totally given me a new perspective! so happy for the existence of such a wonderful inspirational human being and nice to meet you all! :)
Wooh! New video 😁 it's 7am here in New Zealand!
Amazing start to the day!
ChnaeAlishaVlogs just subscribed to you. It’s on my bucket list to travel to New Zealand! Any tips for me?
ChnaeAlishaVlogs good way to start the day. I'm from nz too :)
Amber Morrison Thank you! 😊 Definitely explore Auckland and Wellington, there is lots to do and see. If you are into nature and scenery I would recommend taking a road trip around the South Island! It is a bit cold down there but the scenery stunning! Milford sound and Queenstown is a must! You will love it here 😁
Sammy VR amazing! Where abouts in New Zealand?
My partner has started working away 6 weeks at a time so watching this has helped me so much. I have been watching you since I was so young!! Thank you for being you! xox
I am always so happy when you upload new video 💕 Enjoy Thailand 🌏
I feel like all your videos come at the right time. I am currently going through a shift .. sort of. I am still living at home with my mom who is very toxic. I am a single parent to a 2 yr old and I’m trying to balance that and still go to school. I’m 23 and I always get asked “why do you still live at home if you and your mom constantly have issues?” It’s me and after talking to my sister I realized that i am sort of scared of being on my own. I haven’t done the steps to get where I need to be and I constantly complain and wish I’m there but I dont follow through with anything. I am currently coming up with a plan to finally get out on my own and not under my mom & her sheltered ways. I had a breakdown today about all of this & I think now I’m ready to finally open that door 🚪 that leads me to where I need to be and have some confidence in myself.
advice for people who are moving forward, but leaving many friends behind?? lil bit sad 😢
ella marie hey! I moved away from home a couple months ago ! The best advice I can give you is to focus on the new friends you are going to have!
Like she said, look at it as meant to be. Moving away was the best thing that happened to me. You get to know yourself in so many ways. Even though leaving old friends may be hard, you all will stay in touch if you prioritate it. You gonna go on so many new adventures, and meet so many new great people, that it hopefully creates more fullfilment. Don’t hold on to the past to much, but get excited over whats in store. I hope you got something out of my rambling.
HI !!!!! like the girls said you have to focus on new relationships and not push them away because you miss your old friends or bcs you are sad.... on the contrary open your arms to new adventures and if your friends really appreciate you even if you're far away from them they will be always there for you
I'm going through a huge friend breakup and loneliness and depression is a big thing for me and as well as life not going my way.. but this video really changed my perspective and thought process! I can't wait to put them into practice. Thank you Kayln
Thank you so much for this ❤️❤️
This video came at the most perfect time for me. I've been dealing with so much incredibly difficult change lately in so many aspects of my life and I've just been at the point where I just don't see anything good anymore and am just sad and angry all of the time. Kalyn, you came just when I needed you. I swear I feel like we're real life friends because everything you say resonates with me, and it sounds crazy, but I genuinely miss you when you don't upload or post. Thank you for all that you do for all of us and for being you. We all love you and Bentley to the moon and back times 10!❤️
Your skin looks beautiful
I can not stress how thankful I am to be able to watch your videos especially at a time like this as I am going through a very hard break up you honestly bring so much happiness and gratefulness to my life I am instantly able to look at things differently and in a positive way especially people and things that are super hard to let go off your tips are so helpful your a great person and do so much for others keep being you because you are awesome 😜