My wife and I had an orgy; now she wants a divorce
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
- From Stavvy's World #83 - Alex English: • Stavvy's World #83 - A...
Alex English returns to the pod to discuss getting swole for the summer, his first STD, why bottoming is a young man’s sport, formally apologize to white men for a longstanding stereotype, and much more. Alex and Stav help callers including a guy whose wife wants a divorce after they had an orgy, and a gay couple who needs help picking a third for their next menage a trois.
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They should put a therapist in a soundproof glass box where he can hear everything but can’t say anything
He would just scream and punch the glass 😂😂😂
Miming "move on" by tipping an invisible hat and whistling while walking out an invisible door
Being a therapist makes this show even more hilarious
I would like to be that therapist. Easiest contracting gig I'll ever have
Or one dressed as a gecko
This show never fails to make me feel better about myself
Talking to a professional might actually help. And I don't mean couples therapy, I mean just you. It's time to think about your own self so you can be the best dad for your kids.
90% of calls should be answered this way, and many are, but where is the fun in that?
Is it just me or do people who have a total lack of self-awareness or emotional maturity just gravitate to Stav?
@@neighborhoodmusicsnob5517 well tbf, according to newton, *everything* just gravitates to stav.
@@neighborhoodmusicsnob5517it's less about being a viewer of Stav, and more about being people who call into comedy podcasts for serious life advice. Well adjusted and emotionally mature people don't call into comedy shows to save their marriage
Everything in the world gravitates to Stav@@neighborhoodmusicsnob5517
My ex-wife and I opened our relationship, she hooked up with another woman, she asked for a divorce and said she realized she was more gay than she thought. I decided it was not worth fighting that battle, she was clearly already far down that road. Even when she started questioning her decisions a bit, I said hell no. We work this out, go for a few more years and you end up building up resentment for staying with me and not pursing a relationship with another woman that you would be happier in.
Rip bro it’s done
His goose is cooked. Her goose has never been better, however.
Bro played himself
😔
*you're free
My man was coping so hard with the post partum depression theory lol 😂😂😂
Yeah doesn’t that only last for like a month after you’ve given birth?
@@95Bartlettna it can last forever
@@95BartlettNah it can last for years. But either way, it's usually women snapping from the guys not helping with the kids, and the house while both are working. 😂 Useless dudes that think making dinner for their kids once a week makes them father of the year. That kind of shit is what makes them snap. Who knows what kind of situation this is though cause he just sounds stupid, but even if she were just a wife done with a husband's shit, going and fucking a bunch of dudes and having group sex isn't generally what that snapping looks like. Lol not generally what post partum looks like either 😂
@@95Bartlettcan last indefinitely if not treated
@@95Bartlett Not if it goes untreated. It can become an ongoing depressive disorder if it’s not dealt with. It also won’t resolve the issue of not being able to bond with their child without treatment.
Everyone just glossed over that she doesn't want the kids. That's the craziest part, by far. How could you even consider feeling bad for her if she's not interested in her own children?
She never said she didn't want the kids, she said she wasn't gonna take the kids from him. 50/50 custody
I’m glad I’m not the only one that found that to be the biggest issue, something is seriously wrong with her if she would happily give up custody to two of her own kids
@@jkhkittyif the kids have any ability to understand what happened between their parents they probably won't even want to see her for her 50
she doesn’t want to take the kids from him meaning she doesn’t want full custody.
@@ALYXTANKBACKPACKwhy would that mean there's something wrong with her? Just cause she is the woman? Nobody would be batting an eye if the dad didn't want full custody. Either way, it's not that she doesn't want them, it's shared custody. She's not taking the kids from him is what's happening from the sound of it.
Throwing in “usually black guys” is wild 😂😂😂 feel bad for bro though fr
At least the kids won’t have a step dad
“I asked her to move out”
*as she’s packing her shit* 😂
That part 😭
HE WILL NEVER BOUNCE BACK FROM THIS SMH
His wife is gonna be just fine though.
Nah he’ll be aight it’s greektown so he will find a heavy woman whose whole identity is hairspray and the ravens and he good
@@vibangigan5336 lmao I hope you are right
Now. Over 22 years ago I had a girl I was about to propose to leave for another guy. Like dropped me like old trash on the curb. I was completely blindsided. I was so pathetic I cried and begged.
But I bounced back. Grew. Learned some self respect. How to be confident and strong. Been in a relationship with my wife for 19 years. Going strong. Boundaries. Respect. Love. Trust. Everything is there.
@@dezmodium💪🏻 let’s goo
everytime Stav gives a much more mature complex answer than i expect
He’s gotta be up for Doormat of the Year.
For real lmfao
NAhh, he had a good heart it seemed but he fucked up with the orgy. I was in a 7 year relationship and had a threesum with my girls girl best friend a few times and it was good but I think over time her friend caught feelings and it got messy. I wont do another threesum with a girl I love for a whileeeee no matter how fun it seems. I am 24 now and just becoming used to being single again and it sucks but I am learning so much about myself
@@MonsterHDE think he mentioned she was already cheating on him before that .
Some people CAN move past cheating (my best friend is like that) but I’m not one of them. Most people feel it’s a sacred trust thing in any serious relationship. As a monogamous person if either person isn’t enough for the other you need to vocalize that. Being cheated on is a very hurtful lesson and cheating on someone means you don’t have the emotional intelligence to consider the amount of love and trust your partner may have invested in you before causing the harm. At best, the cheated on drops you out of their life, takes the L with time wasted and chalks it up to you not being the one.
Exactly
Yeah, statistically cheatings happens all of the time and the concept of "if you cheat once, it's over" is usually a mindset held by someone who either A:) Doesn't know they've been cheated on. Or B:) Is trying to save face and not admit they've been cheated on.
If the relationship is relatively new, like within a year or 2, I wouldn't be able to forgive cheating. But if it's been 10+ years and kids are involved, Idk how I would react.
@@willvr4 You’re missing options C:), D:) & so on. People can also set boundaries of what’s acceptable. I’m not certain if you’re making the argument that all or most people with the view of “If you cheat once, it’s over” as you say, are being cheated on or not. I don’t want to make that assumption if I’ve miss read anything. While cheating does happen, I’m saying having more emotional intelligence in communication can solve this. Also, people can and will find reasons to excuse themselves of past, current and future cheating. Most people won’t even rationalize or consider they may be “a bad person”
@@willvr4you live in a sad world wtf kinda stats are those
Once a cheater always a cheater (at least when it comes to women, but prolly true for most guys too)
Stavvy read this man like an open BOOK!
RIGHT, he saw right through his desperate reasoning.
A book written by HP Lovecraft apparently….
@@appalach7148 Not really. They clearly had an agreement on her continuing to stay with him. Most likely, either until she found a place of her own or until the divorce was close to being finalized, and he simply asked her to leave sooner than they had originally agreed to. He does need to move on, but Stav made a ton of shitty assumptions about him while he's obviously hurting bad and didn't really address what was going on on her side at all. She wanted a foursome, wanted to keep living with him after asking for a divorce, and wasn't interested in the kids. She's got problems, even though his theory behind them is probably all wrong. Should've been there for him and pointed her problems out. It'd be easier to help him move on from someone he shouldn't want to be with than to just roast him and make him feel worse for laughs. Stav missed the boat on this one. It would've been a better question for Bill Burr
You think so? I felt like he just pulled this out of his ass
He even said he was beating himself up "physically." Did we miss that part? 😅
Probably drinking and substance abuse rather than self harm lol but maybe both
Wow Stav is very insightful
The video is 9 minutes 11 seconds long because this was that guys 9/11
For a second I was like “how did Jeff Teague and Stavvy get hooked up?”
The whaaat!?!? Had me dead 😂
Black eyes or black ice. Either way it’s a slippery slope.
or black guys
SLIPPERY WHEN WET
You know how the show Seinfeld was great but the supporting characters were also so funny? That’s how I feel about Stavy. He’s actually funny compared to Jerry but his guests just add the “I don’t know what” as the French say. Great show! Great guest!
the patreon episodes have the funniest fucking advice questions ever I swear
"Maybe skip the NBA playoffs this year . . . root for Jokić" [CUE MUSIC]
The NBA playoffs comment at the end😂
That escalated quickly.
These are my biggest fears. "My wife tried something new and realized how miserable she was with me"
Jeeesus im booking a first class ticket to the Grand Canyon😂
What a twist! LMAO
Root for Jokic has me dying 😂
Things that sound like a good idea but never end well 😂
get the divorce AND WORK ON YOURSELF. ISH HAPPENS, MOVE ON TO BETTER THINGS.
This dude immediately sounded broken. I hope he's doing better and that chick is gone.
gorilla meat was crazy on multiple levels man😅🤨
All 2.5 inches lol
i don't think he should be allowed to say that
I had a friend whose wife left him, citing post partum, turned out she was banging a guy much younger than her. She went on to claim her ex used to hit her, only for us to find out she was the abuser, and her abusive behaviour continued with this new guy.
Hope she was hot at least.
I don’t believe that. How did you “find out she was the abuser?”
Statistically most abusive men claim they were the abused ones. I cite Lundy Bancroft (as well as thousands of other researchers, but he himself does a good job at an ENORMOUS works cited list.)
But also? Even if it’s true that she’s violent to her partners post partum, doesn’t that mean the post-partum depression/psychosis is real?
What do you all think pregnancy and post-partum ARE?
It destroys the brain, for real.
What a woman goes through during pregnancy and childbirth NO VIOLENCE can replicate on the people that did that to her.
Like pregnancy and childbirth are legit THE WORST THINGS in the world. I don’t know why everyone pretends it’s not.
@@MsNatiBug You are a costco sized bag of NUTS lady 😂
@@MsNatiBug I have seen you all throughout this comment section and each one of your comments are more unhinged than the last. This one being the worst of them all.
@nataliaalfonso2662 I feel like being stuck with you and hearing you constantly talk a bunch of nonsense might be worse than pregnancy and childbirth
Root for Jokic 🤣
something is wrong with a parent who is happy to walk away from their VERY YOUNG children.
He didn’t say she was “walking away.” He said she was clear she wouldn’t take the kids FROM HIM. So she’ll have shared custody and let the kids stay in their primary home.
@@MsNatiBug not being with your VERY YOUNG children every day is nuts. It's going to harm them in ways that are well understood.
@@curtx88incel vibes 😂
@Tiananman. Well that's how life goes sometimes. Obviously this relationship is way too toxic to continue, so what do you want? The mom to take full custody?
@@seanmatthewking if this person was a decent human being and mother, they would want to be with their young kids. Even if you don't have kids, it doesn't take much imagination to realize how much damage, pain and anguish her absence will cause for her children.
Guy’s gotta get into the gym immediately.
No, he should focus on his family and developing himself and his personality. Trying to ignore emotional problems by going to the gym won’t help
Currently going to the gym to avoid my emotional problems. It works
No way, homie. He’s got to get into gay sex immediately, because now he is gay.
@@forrest8482 Going to the gym doesn’t mean ignoring your family and emotional problems or stunting your personality. Getting into shape will often help in many ways when heartbroken. Makes him a more attractive dating option for women, gives a physical outlet to healthily work out anger instead of keeping it bottled up, and will inevitably improve his self worth and confidence. Plus it’s nice to have a schedule of personal goals when feeling lost and alone. It can provide structure when life feels out of control.
@@forrest8482yeap, can confirm, going to the gym and ignoring mental issues works out perfectly 😂
“Maybe skip the nba playoffs this year”😂
Day 2 of asking Stavvy to come to Seattle on his next tour
Happy to see him making some healthy choices with that Diet Coke
Ya man, sorry, it's probably not gonna happen. No one has ever even heard of Seattle, I don't think that's typically a place a comedian would go on a tour....
I didn’t know Chris Tucker had a brother!
root for jokic! is hilarious
SHE FOR DA STREETS!!!
Incel chant
@@willywonka7812 🤓🤓”incel”
After that call I have no Qualms about being some chick's rebound anymore.
Vlad TV sounds really depressed
They had an 0rgy and they had kids, can understand with no kids but these people are not mature enough to have a dog.
Lol that is hilarious bud. Swingers can be amazing parents. Monogamous couples can be horrible parents... It sounds like you have some shit you need to work out.
@@dijonvon4378 Your gonna have some shit to work out if u keep thinking like that bud
@@Rizzcracker Lol because being open minded and accepting of others, is such an awful thing?
Monogamy is best for children. Idc what anyone does in their life but you can't be a slut and a decent parent at the same time. Period.
@@dijonvon4378no he's definitely right
Just ask your friends to be a thrupple 😂
It would be a quapple, I guess
@@masterofallgoons well, she's gone
@@masterofallgoons Him + His Friend + His Friends Wife = Thrupple
Which guys sorry? 🤣🤣
Just let him live in his reality.... There's no coming back for him in actual reality
I’ve heard this caller that can’t stop saying “fuckin” call before for something completely different. I think this call is fake.
hilarious title. i can't.
Commenting for the algorithm
This dude is crazy😂😂
2:46 hahahahah
Just wow
F in the chat for this man please
F
Stav is so emotionally intelligent..
I was just thinking that's why I love listening to him 💗
Eh, if you think he is 100% right on things then I have a bridge to sell you
Stav sounds like a cheater in this ep 😂😂 “when you’re in you’re twenties and don’t understand why people cheat and how complex it is”
Ok bud I was saying the same things leading girls on all the time lol. Rationalizing behavior
You need to listen and pay attention
This reeks of desperation and rationalization to me. Let her go, buddy 😢
......Usually black guys 😂😂😂
My love of Nikola Jokic has NOTHING TO DO with my suppressed racism. I just don't like all that flashy dunking and stuff. FUNDAMENTALS.
Fundamentals =triple doubles
Bro 😭😭😭😭😭 im sorry how are people this pathetic
Low self esteem and shitty parents
Horrific lmao
Praise God for our Beautiful Chocolate Brothers✊🏾
If he was on the UMBC team that beat the 1 seed it’s all good
BRO WTF!!!
This call is fake as shit lol
Lol it's really not... This shit is very common, and this dude isn't that good of an actor
if this is fake this guy is a phenomenal voice actor
I hope she ends up alone lol
Keep hoping
Somehow it's more shitty that she won't fight for the kids.
The legal system has really emasculated men over the years. We went from hunters and warriors to crying when we get cheated on and half of our stuff gets taken legally.
Society is ill, complete decadence.
aww this poor guy I feel bad for him
This makes me feel better about my transgressions
Alex sucks
I love how all he said was "usually black guys" and Stav immediately became a White knight lmao
Lol you think that was white knighting? Better question, why does their race matter??
@@dijonvon4378 You must not know what the definition of white knighting is..
@@TheChineseGodFather
Lol you're alpha as fuck bro. Have a good one. I'm not feeding you anymore.
@@dijonvon4378 Soft aging Millennial behavior lolol
You really commented just to be like "oompf im too good for this.. im going back to my reddit/discord" lmaoo
@@TheChineseGodFather 🧌✌️
Repent. Follow the Gospel.. Join the Church - You get sealed in the temple and read the book of Mormon. It'll all work out.. anyone who does not want to do this should get involved with the Baha'i faith which is more general, but I think the church is a good place to sort things out, especially that one. The treasure Jesus Christ, the Latter Day Saints
naah
@UnisusMC oh - the context was "wife at orgy wants divorce...'. Baha'i faith eventually becomes a global World Order... It's volunteer though... I have a strong opinion about 'family destroying activities'.. You could become a Baha'i just by saying 'Allah'u'abha' ... Or ' God is most glorious'. And believing in the oneness of mankind..
Your girl cant cheat on you with a black guy if you live in Utah, IJS
Every woman that has postpartum depression absolutely needs to get tested for Toxoplasmosis
They eat the poop i suspect too friend
Let me guess, he’s ridin wit Biden
Guest was very unfunny
Most of stavs guest are, they’re just LA oddities
@@chdh6556 I wouldn’t say most but I do agree many haha, good observation
White dude finding a gay black man unfunny ... How shocking 😂
Once you figure out the women question you walk away way before this happens
Stav sounds like a cheater in this ep 😂😂 “when you’re in you’re twenties and don’t understand why people cheat and how complex it is”
Ok bud I was saying the same things leading girls on all the time lol. Rationalizing behavior