girli - Dysmorphia (Official Music Video)
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
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#Girli #Dysmorphia #OfficialMusicVideo
I realized this past year through therapy that I have body dysmorphia and this song makes me feel so validated - like FINALLY someone's talking about it and putting into words despite how hard it is to describe what it's like. And big love to GIRLI for putting herself out there to do so.
Same it makes me feel so good to have this song now ☺😔
I got and depression when I was about 15 so I stopped eating altogether for the most part except for one meal a week, I got better to eat a little bit because my friends were worrying about me. And I didn't realize I had an eating disorder till I was 19 when someone finally put it out to me. And I started eating more and I went from 120 lb when I was 15, 16 to 230 lb. And because I went from being so little underweight, to being considered overweight what I'm not even really that overweight. I am 5ft 8. I feel so chunky and at times I just want my body to go away I feel like nobody's going to love it, but then everybody in my life is like your body is beautiful I love your thickness you have the perfect size chest Etc and I don't feel that way and I just wanted to go away so bad that I want to stop eating again.
@@BumbleteaArt yea I get it, it’s a constant fight, everyone says I love you but you feel weird and awkward and unlovable, my grandpa deals with that when in reality he’s a blessing to have on this earth, self doubt is a stupid thing, I hate it, it’s stupid, it constantly lies to you, you have to fight to keep a reasonable and logical image of yourself. Keep eating, I guess the only thing we can do when it comes to body image issues is just try to be the healthiest you, you can be, and not have any of those distractions like models on magazine that tell you how you should look when in reality, everyone’s different biologically, your not gonna look like that, doesn’t mean your not beautiful.
thankyou so much
Sending you so Much love
I would die if girli and ashnikko made a song together 💗💙
they already have:) it's on spotify
ur wish is my command #c
They haven't
I think Girlie made a song and Ashnikko changed some things, but I might be wrong
Omg yessss
lady gaga once said "talented, brilliant, incredible, amazing, show stopping, spectacular, never the same, totally unique, completely not ever been done before..." and it represents you with this song/music video. 🖤
bravo.
TW: Eating disorder thoughts
Hi GIRLI !
I am ugly crying because I am so happy to ear a song that explain myself on such a clear Level. Recently I had really bad thoughts about my Eating habits and internalised grossophobia for myself (I love all body types but when it's my own reflection it's soooo different) so thank you to talk openly about this. Baby steps towards self appreciation and love even tho sometimes it's ok to not feel like it.
Noone ever answers back. If you want to talk about that. I have this disorder and I listen.
thanku so much for this brave comment
@@cockatootledo Of course it would be Nice to talk about it with someone
@@girlimusic Thank you so Much for being a light in this world. I love you so much 💖
@@billie-lou4022 message me if you like. I will talk anytime about anything to help.
Don’t tell me to love myself more, I wish that it was that simple” I felt that
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@@mdemonkhan545 wait wha
I can't find the lyrics anywhere, not even on Genius. I want to quote my favorite lyrics from the song onto my social media.
hey! here are the lyrics
@@girlimusic omg thanks I was looking for the exact same thing!
@@girlimusic I sing your songs I want to start to make my own music soon . You are an inspiration for me .
@@girlimusic omg thank you
ruclips.net/video/f05rJf8pAGI/видео.html
Oh I didn't know she had a body dismorphia disorder, it made me cry, I can relate so much with this and the fact that I don't know what I really look like :( lately I've been isolating myself a lot because of that, I just dont want to be seen, aaah now I want to hug and everyone in the comment section relating to the song
i got all excited then i realized it’s tomorrow 10am. but i’ll be here then too!! 💖💖💖💖
omg mee too
having body dysmorphia is so annoying, every time i look into a mirror i look completely different, so i have no idea how i actually look. and when i look at my face for a longer period of time (like >15 minutes) my face starts melting and morphing into a completely different face in front of my eyes and it's so fucking weird and scary.
You might be hallucinating because your face melting and morphing is not a symptom of bdd you might wanna see a doctor lol
@@angelhellokitti starting at a mirror for long lengths of times (>5 minutes) will produce these hallucinations in most people. It's thought to be due to peripheral drift.
@bruh I don’t think they see their face literally melting
@Oroe Gaming from what I’ve read, it seems pretty common with bdd
@@angelhellokitti This is actually pretty common with BDD actually
Such a catchy yet honest and real song. Many people struggle with self love because of social media and the high standards we feel like we need to fit in.
Remember that people post the best picture out of many
The one with the most flattering angle and the most flattering filter. Also It's easy to photoshop.
Dont believe that everything you see is real. A stomach can not look flat 24/7 and you cant always have clear skin
Thank you for writing this. For explaining the things people don't seem to get, the complicated feelings that get stuck in your head, how you can love yourself one day but hate yourself the next. Thank you, so much.
Body dismorphia is really hard on a daily basis. It's the first time I hear a song speaking about it, and it's really validating, I love it ❤
As a middle aged individual who is now figuring out if I am non-binary or maybe fully a fully trans woman, this song hit me really hard!
Isn’t that gender dysphoria not body dysmorphia?
@@Aliciae411 it is, but I'm sure they feel the same things, not liking their body is involved in both disorders
@@Aliciae411 Dysmorphia is one of the many ways that dysphoria can manifest. Trans people can become obsessive and hyper-aware about any element of their body that doesn't line up with what is expected of people of their gender. And often continue to do so well after no-one else can tell the difference. It's very much the same experience, and often even about the same things (most modern conceptions of attractiveness are based on unrealistically masculine men and unrealistically feminine women, so cis and trans women are BOTH made to feel that they are not feminine enough and vice versa for men.)
@@nebulaoshannessy6959 that makes a lot of sense
I'm also working out the same thing at 36. It's not easy, but whatever makes you feel your most authentic self, and makes you love checking yourself out in the mirror, go with it and ignore everyone else who has an ignorant opinion.
See me in the mirror
I don’t know her, I don’t like her face
Car door on the sidewalk
Makes my sides warp and I hate the shape
Imposter in my body
Wish I saw me in a nicer way
Yeah, you’re good as you are, but you could be better
One day I feel like a model, next day I feel like a troll
See all these pictures of models
Setting impossible goals
This image is misleading, don’t know which me’s the real thing
Don’t tell me to love myself more
I wish that it was that simple
Can’t live without her approval
Coz she warps my reflection and makes me obsessive, I hate it, hate it
Don’t tell me to judge myself less
I wish that it was that painless
I live with her voice in my head
Coz she warps my reflection and makes me obsessive, I hate it, hate it
Misfit in the pictures
Looking different than I do to you
Best way to describe it
When you see red, all I see is blue
Circus, house of horrors
All the monsters that I met in school
You're the weirdo in class, and you’re not even hot
One day I feel like a model
Next day I feel like a troll
See all these pictures of models
Setting impossible goals
This image is misleading, don’t know which me’s the real thing
Don’t tell me to love myself more
I wish that it was that simple
Can’t live without her approval
Coz she warps my reflection and makes me obsessive, I hate it, hate it
Don’t tell me to judge myself less
I wish that it was that painless
I live with her voice in my head
Coz she warps my reflection and makes me obsessive, I hate it, hate it
Don’t tell me to love myself more
I wish that it was that simple
Can’t live without her approval
Coz she warps my reflection and makes me obsessive, I hate it, hate it
Don’t tell me to judge myself less
I wish that it was that painless
I live with her voice in my head
Coz she warps my reflection and makes me obsessive, I hate it, hate it
I hate it, hate it
Thank u
I want to say thank you for putting the epilepsy warning on ur video. I love your music too. I find that most artists don't care put a proper warning on their music videos. So it means alot. Ur great
WHY IS THIS SO GOOD
I’ve only found her music recently and I absolutely adore her, I don’t spend a single day without listening to her songs. I’m madly in love with her lyrics and her style and her voice. Thank goddes her videos were recommended to me here!
See me
In the mirror
I don’t know her
I don’t like her face
Car door
On the sidewalk
Makes my sides warp
And I hate the shape
Imposter
In my body
Wish i saw me
In a nicer way
*Yeah you’re good as you are
But you could be better*
One day i feel like a model
Next day i feel like a troll
See all these pictures of models
Setting impossible goals
This image is misleading
Don’t know which me’s the real thing
Don’t tell me to love myself more
I wish that it was that simple
Can’t live without her approval
Coz she’s warps my reflection and makes me obsessive i hate it hate it
Don’t tell me to judge myself less
I wish that it was that painless
I live with her voice in my head
Coz she warps my reflection and makes me obsessive i hate it hate it
Misfit
In the pictures
Looking different
Than i do to you
Best way
To describe it
When you see red
All I see is blue
Circus
House of horrors
All the monsters
That i met in school*In the weirdo in class
And you’re not even hot*
One day i feel like a model
Next day i feel like a troll
See all these pictures of models
Setting impossible goals
This image is misleading
Don’t know which me’s the real thing
Don’t tell me to love myself more
I wish that it was that simple
Can’t live without her approval
Coz she’s warps my reflection and makes me obsessive i hate it hate it
Don’t tell me to judge myself less
I wish that it was that painless
I live with her voice in my head
Coz she warps my reflection and makes me obsessive i hate it hate it
@Meltem Kara baby, I'm done. I warned her. I warned her?
Having a Gender dysphoria I can relate to this feeling so much. I often have days where I don't quite feel enough like me and they suck.
as someone who has badly struggled with an ED in the past (and is still fighting through it), this feels like my thoughts have been made into a song. It's so accurate and it's amazing to have some more representation on the media. Thank you for writing music about topics that others are afraid to talk about, I'll be listening to this bop on repeat.
I never thought of how lucky I am until watching this now that I don't have issues seeing my body (at least not now, younger me had some). I'm glad you're able to turn this toxic situation and mindset, and how society promotes it into a song to reach those who experience body dysmorphia and those who don't but should learn why it's not an easy system to crash. Plus your vocals help the harsh words hurt less ❤🖤❤💗
Didn't think I could relate to this since I was never diagnosed. However, I've realized a lot of children start developing it or simi8 due to the cruelty of social life. It can be a lot to handle, even if you are taught you're not the awful things your peers say you are.
Just because you maybe don't want to take medication, doesn't mean you can't relate to people's mental health struggles. Personally I think diagnosis is overrated, though I know I can be too quick to push my opinions on people on the internet.
@@mathildavere8966, true. They do overdo it on pharmaceuticals.
It's insane. I've been listening to this song a lot in my playlist, but the lyrics just hit me while I was laying here crying, and I'm feeling a lot better. Your songs are great and always seem to hit the spot.
I'm literally in love with GIRLI and this song is so reliable and I love it🖤💓
This song made me feel so validated. And it's not even just that. It's also such a bop. Thank you so much. I love it so much.
I'm so excited!
thank you for putting this song out there and allowing yourself to be vulnerable
It was really good girli! To tell the truth I can't say that this is my new favorite song of you because they are all extraordinary and I love them all, thank you very much, you are amazing 💕💕💕
I'm nonbinary and this honestly is exactly how I've felt since middle school. It was really bad in high school. Now that I've figured out what's happening and I've slowly began to except myself that part of my life is getting better. Though their are of course times where I have a day or a week where I get sucked backwards but a lot of the time it's not as bad as high school.
So excited !!! We love you GIRLI! The pink is amazing. I have body dysmorphia too but ,I am willing to say more than just keep your head up or you got this shit. I would talk with people for hours just to help one.
I think this is one of my fave songs you've released! I struggled with super bad body dysmorphia for so many years and I still find it difficult to know what I actually look like. This song is such a comfort, thank you girli 💗
I hate that this is literally what goes through all of our minds, but I love that you turned out pain into something beautiful
It's incredible GIRLI deserves the whole world we're not arguing on this
Bro this song literally made me start crying. Wow.
I've never thought about having Body Dysmorphia but boy goes this song describe what I think
This song is so relatable Jesus
I cant express how much i needed this song. I relate to much to this song and i have had body dismorphia for more than a year and eating disorders since i was 15(i didnt know i had an eating disorder til i was 19 tho) all i ever wanna do is not eat
This song hits hard
ive always known i had this problem and this song makes me cry because i can never feel satisfied with how i look
got an ad for an exercise program after watching. READ THE ROOM ALGORITHM!
Omg I can’t wait
Gracias por esto.. simplemente es maravilloso. Explicaste la realidad de muchos y lo convertiste en arte.
Such an underrated song.
I have listened to your music for awhile and you are one of my favorite artists.
I’m not sure but recently I have been feeling so out of place and can’t tell what really makes me happy anymore? Especially with how I present myself.It’s really strange.
I’m going off to college soon so I’m hoping I find myself more then.
Thank you for making such amazing music that helps a lot of people relate. I can’t wait to listen to new songs you come up with.💗
I myself do not have body dysmorphia so I'm sorry if this makes you feel worse but - I won't tell you to love yourself more (: but I love your music and you make me happy. I hope you feel happier soon I believe in you
me and many other people think you are beautiful even if you don't ❤️
Its crazy how we think, "no one knows what its like.....
Then this GIRLI comes around and tells of exactly how it feels to have a warped imagine of ourselves
Esperando tu gran éxito❤️
Hell, I've never related to a song so much
This song is EXACLTY how I feel
TW: Vent..kinda?
"Can't live without her approval!" I honestly think of my mom when i hear that. She's always pushing me to "be better" and get my grades up by taking all my stuff that "distracts me" and she told me to drop half of my friends, so did. She called me a cow because i was eating to fast, but i was "eating fast" because i didnt eat anything all day because of her. Im trying to get better with my eating habbits but i've still been starving myself sadly.
i've always loathed it when people talk about bodies in general, because i have no idea what i look like and i'm constantly insecure about it :^(
i wish i didn´t relate so much, but i´m glad we are talking about this topic. We can get better, and everyone deserves not to hate the body they live in... life is too short to not fight against this self hatred. Wish you the best 💖
She has a beautiful singing voice 😍
I'm in recovery from an ed but wow this song woulda been a favorite during the worse of my ed
So happy my epilepsy isn’t photosensitive because this video is amazing
the lyrics are relatable and the editing is really good. tysm for this song!!!
HOW COOL. Love all the work you did with the set, such an awesome video
Pink Queen
I'm so excited!!!!!
Precisely! Our muse will not allow us to rest!
You and yungblood please! Your music is phenomenal.
This is an amazing song! Not just how it sounds but the message behind it. I hope everyone is well! 🖤🖤
WOOO cant wait!!!
It’s exactly what I’m feeling these last weeks....I love your songs, keep going 👍🏻✨✨✨
Ahhhh
eu simplesmente amei essa musicaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
😭😭 I already know this is gonna be good
just got your vids recommended. love ur art. feel so happy. thank you. deep, sometimes dark and still funny and bright. and great sound. love it
I love this. You put my feelings into words ❤️
so glad i found this artist, my body dysmorphia has gotten better over the years and i can relate to this heavily
The song we all needed to hear - tysm for sharing your beautiful heart & soul with us time and time again!! 💖💖💖 This really.... just wow🤘🖤 🌊🥺💖😭
Please keep going!! 🤩🌞🤗💖
I love this song...................I've never listened to this style of music but this is so good
This deserves more clout and more love
AMAZING SONG!! 😍 Powerful and meaningful message within the song as well, what a beautiful work art!!! 💫
I wish I could enjoy the video🥺🥺🤣🤣 the song is amazing tho I love it. I'm obsessed
i’ve been following ur music for years, love u
Hell yeah boisss💕💕
Omg this is soooo good, I'm obsessed.
Love u!!
Welp, had no clue of the flashing lights.😭 I love the song so so so much. but I definitely can’t wait the music video as someone with epilepsy. 😭
Op I’m so dumb should have read the beginning. 🤣 That was my fault. Oh well let me look for a audio version so I could replay that.
Great song with a beautiful message (of understanding)
I can’t describe what I feel but I’m not okay because it’s so real
My god this is relatable.
Ikr
I followed the link and saw the vinyl preorder!! I'm so excited! 💜💜💜💜😊
Just amazing
I’m getting Charlie XCX and Ashnikko vibes from this song. I really love it!!!
Ive had this song on LOOP since hearing it and when Im not playing it, im thinking it
OH MY GOSH THE CALL BACK EDITING TO GIRLS GET ANGRY TOO YES
I come back to this song daily, absolutely love this!!
TE AMO
aún no lo he visto, pero ésto será ✨ ARTE ✨
Crying and I love this song so much ❤️ 😭😭 thankyou for talking about this and putting this into words that hit so fu*kg close to home. I'm so effing happy I found that you've made so much more new music since I last heard music from you. Just thankyou for being real
Best ad I’ve ever seen
I really love and relate heavily to this song even as a man
Can't wait!!
i'm so lucky to find your music ♡
💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️
Killer Chorus
ACTUAL ED role model
Wow i hope this song blows up, it’s soso good 🥺
Thank you for this. You're amazing.