Not only that, my guess is: she can sit by herself, if she is early enough around lunch time, it's possible coworker would just come and sit wit her, she wouldn't need to do or say anything for it to happen, just let it happen naturally.
I would absolutely prefer eating nothing over asking a coworker in the cafeteria if I can sit there, and most of the reasons provided for eating in the bathroom are extremely valid. My main questions are; Are there no other free tables? Do you really need a full can of beans in the middle of the day? Is this worth not bringing in a spoon for? You brought/bring a can of beans to work? What type of beans? And finally, how do I achieve this level of based.
two psychotic daughters (one is in her emo-phase and the another is just psycho), and the third one is socially awkward... to say the least. Vedal's speedrunning his "GrayHair" achievement.
Vedal after interacting with the neuros for so long has literally got the mentality of a father. The fact he reacted so strongly that she eats beans in the bathroom like a disappointed father tells me a lot lol.
Sometimes that level of genius just comes with a side of eating beans in the bathroom. You can't have the one without the other. There's a reason a lot of great minds are a little quirky.
She's just your average introvert. You'd be surprised at the amount of introverted people that are so incredibly smart but are terrible when it comes to IRL social situations.
@@WulfricPendragon Not quite the "average introvert", but more the "flamboyantly autistic introvert" flavor. I say this as someone who is much the same way...
While watching Evil, I zoned out and came back to reality only to see the chat spamming "Bathroom Beans" and was thoroughly confused, now I know why lol
I feel like this is the moment where Vedal's illusion that Ellie was one of the more normal and adjusted Vtubers got shattered and realized she's just as weird and quirky as the rest of his friends 😂
I think for him Cerber one of the more normal and adjusted Vtubers. And what is normal in general? it is relative. Vedal, too, can hardly be called normal. There is also a professional Vtuber and streamer deformation in the form of Brain Roth, over time they become out of their minds, like with Filian, for example.
@@Subaru_Natsuki i seen filian first 1-2 year streams and she was normal or pretended normal hmm. But now she has popularity, it seems that everything is thanks to these changes
@@CyningWar Most Streamers like to pretend they're more wholesome. Look at Bao. Plus, many times they haven't been exposed to the sheerr craziness of the internet
Not too different than those who have been, though that's probably not her primary attribute. But definitely her main food group... She's posted pictures of refried beans in a bowl as one of her regular meals. No seasoning, nothing else.
She is also known for eating raw pasta because she had a challenge that if Bao told her to eat two pounds of pasta on stream. Vedal found out about it and called Bao up. You can find out more on Shinsta312 | Creative
1:00 There is only one other girl that works on the floor. The ONLY thing being thrown away in this bathroom is empty cans of beans. The other girl on the floor knows why the trashcan is full of beans 😂
I'm constantly impressed how Ellie can be such a multi talented person with a successful career and a bright future ahead of her in multiple areas as she wishes. And she can also be bathroom beans girl.
I first heard of her recently watching a clip of her talking to Neuro. She approached it with such grace, sophistication, and metal clarity that left me impressed at her social skills.
You're misunderstanding; she's already in the bathroom, meaning that she doesn't have to go to the bathroom when she's done because she's already there.
Eating frozen beans in the bathroom sound like some kind of Anime plot set in Britain but the creator have no actual knowledge about Britain and based the whole anime on internet meme.
Normal: ask if you can sit down next to someone Lv 1 social awkwardness: just sit down next to someone Lv 2 social awkwardness: sit down alone in the corner of the cafeteria Max Lv social awkwardness: chug beans in the bathroom
"It's weird behavior to ask people if you can sit and eat lunch with them, so instead I will go to the bathroom and chug a can of cold beans... like a normal, not weird person."
Ye the right move would be not to ask.. just sit down. Walk in, sit down at a empty chair, take up your food and eat. The other people are probably already talking with each other so you can just sit there doing nothing.
This conversation and the one where they compare their yearly income are like two sides of the same coin. On the one hand you have Homeless Vedal vs Millionaire Ellie, on the other... Decent Food Vedal vs Bathroom Beans Ellie. What a duo.
I feel you Ellie, it is hard to make friends as an adult but if you don't take the step now, it is only going to get weirder as time goes on, so better get to it now that you can lol
i mean the word coworker exists for a reason. i feel like as an adult its extremely easy to be on friendly terms. you dont need to be besties to talk at work and eat lunch together. never had many friends during school, but at work easily a hundred people id be comfortable to join them at lunch and have some small talk.
I hate small talk because it is always about stuff i dont find entertaining, it is like someone just finding stuff to talk about because it would be too awkward if nothing was being said.
its the social interaction that ace brains have issue with. we dont pick up on soicail ques as much and ellie feels she needs to "earn" her place into social circles.
I mean yeah it is that simple. As long as you are not one of the peoples whos head goes "Oh they look busy I dont wanna disturb", "Oh that person would have to get up to let me in so dont wanna bother","Oh these people dont really look like they want company". "Oh I have been standing here for like 2 minutes now looking around I bet I look awkard"."I dont really feel like company today I would rather eat alone". Like I get you dont mean it like that but its always easy to dismiss other peoples struggles if you never experienced them. Awkward people know they are awkward but they also cant change what their brain does.
@@chidori0117 actually they can change, I was the most awkward, antisocial, riddled with social anxiety person there was in school. Most people used to hate my guts and I'd have trouble making any friends. Changed a lot in college. Now people in my workplace just think I'm a bit too polite and uptight. At some point you can just established protocols and assume that if something's wrong, it is probably the other people's fault.
or do what I used to do in college which is basically a ranked loser matchmaking. I used to find similarly pathetic looking introverts and I asked them if they want to go to the cafeteria together. So no going solo and pressuring yourself with the idea of not finding a seat and looking dumb. Then you rank up by having a static group to go to everyday until you find a girl and ditch the group until it doesn't work out. Rinse and repeat.
I would understand if beans were her only option but she has a FREE cafeteria, free food is something that must be appreciated even in hellish conditions of having to meet human beings.
I have a friend with the same anxiety issue and I advised him to image that he is playing GTA and everyone around are NPC and he can do whatever. That didn't convince him so I started to do the most random shit in front of people like walking in circles with my food before sitting down and eating, offering guys I never spoke before a couple of coins, like "hi, do you want these two shiny dimes?" e.t.c. He tried to run and pretend he doesn't know me at first, but then he got desensitized and didn't care anymore and his anxiety became negligible lmao
Yo! I did this to a lesser extent, but like I was trynna get a shy classmate of mine to be more confident so I shouted "DINOSAUR" randomly in class like a fucking lunatic lol. She ended up doing the same later on so I guess it worked out lmao.
As a manager I can promise Ellie if her manager isn't an idiot, doesn't like that she works so much. If i had a nickel for every time I pulled some bright eyed new kid to the side and say something along the lines of "you're no good to me dead" I'd be able to pay the poor damned fool what they're worth. Turnover isn't good. The value an employee creates from burning the candle at both ends is almost always eclipsed by the loss of value of training their replacement when they're burned out. Even ignoring the fact your a person with your own value and i feel some parent like compulsion to nurture and protect you. Even if I were a sociopath I don't want you to give more to this job than is sustainable because its killing the golden goose.
@mangodude-nq6su that's fair I've not interacted with it personally but I've heard the iron foundry near where I grew up had a practice of just hiring temp workers running them ragged for their 90 days and replacing them like consumable parts of a machine. But there are relatively few industries where training is cheaper than retention, like I can tell you from past experience even McDonald's teaches their managers what I was talking about on the cost to train. You can get into the weeds where sometimes corporations will get invested in acquiring pre trained assets and not do a good job of keeping current assets. Basically playing too much offense not enough defense on the Human Resource game. But that's a problem that is probably higher up the chain than Ellie's boss I would guess.
Imagine how Ellie's coworkers feel. They only saw her eat once and never again. Also, if I saw someone chugging a can of beans, I'll be so impressed and start doing it too
I swear that's more of a concerning thing to see than watching someone chug a cold can of beans. All you can do is wonder if they're okay in the former, while in the latter you already know lol
assert dominance! sit down with a random person make eye contact, chug your can of beans without ever breaking eye contact, and growl if anyone approaches too closely while you are eating.
Ellie, this is mental, I hope you get to read this - I get that you don't feel comfortable and don't want to be perceived a certain way, but you are robbing yourself of interactions with your coworkers, not even starting the converstaion about hygiene of the whole process of eating in a bathroom. This ain't high school, you are a proffesional at a high stake workplace, just get in there, grab a salad or a bagel, maybe even a cup of tea, set your eyes on the first person that you recognize, walk up and ask them is the seat next to them empty... Good luck, don't let the insecurities win this one. All the best and love your work and singing voice
I made the mistake of watching this in the middle of the night. I nearly woke up my entire family because I was holding in my laugh so d a m n hard. Thank you Staz, very cool, 10/10
Honestly this feels kinda encouraging. I currently really struggle having normal meals, to the point I either don't eat or it's unhealthy. Not exactly due to social awkwardness but because being a normal functioning human is hard. If chugging a can of beans in the bathroom is what helps bridge that gap I don't see anything wrong with that, actually this is just inspiring to me.
This is so sad... CHAT, CAN WE GET 5 GIFTED? Ellie, this is such... girlfailure behavior. I’m not even mad at this girl. I just want to... contact her and talk about how she can survive while pretending to be human. This is so peak lol.😂
2:48 Tip for everyone. Just sit anywhere, you're eating, it's not even time to start a conversation. You're working, everyone is miserable like you, no one gives a damn. This isn't a high school teen movie where there's the popular kids' table and the nerds' table, or at least there shouldn't be.😂😂😂😂😂
This is unnecessarily sad. Like there has to be a microwave at work... and the food is free? Does she not have a cubicle or car that she can just go to? The bathroom wouldn't even be an option for me... I'd just not eat if that was really the only option, and there's no way that the bathroom would be a better option than anything else.
I’m not a very social person but like in the bathroom? That’s the saddest part to me. I’ll just eat at my desk or alone at a table. I worked construction for a brief stint and there was only one trailer for eating, and pretty much only just enough room for our crew. I mostly just popped in an earbud and listened to music while I ate cause I wasn’t interested in talking, none of them bothered me about it, and these were not “try to be understanding of other people” type guys.
Pretty sure she's on the spectrum. It's not that she doesn't want i think, it's that she needs detailed instructions/explanations on how to proceed and on how people feel about her. E.g. she stopped feeling welcome to sit with her coworkers when they stopped telling her to sit with them, and she doesn't know if it's because she did something that made them no longer want her or if because as neurotypical people it becomes an invitation they no longer need to formulate explicitly. I doubt anyone in a position to help her will read this, but to whoever will read me, in those situations and for this kind of people, actual roleplay of situations to prepare for and flowcharts help a lot.
i'm autistic and ellie is valid for not wanting to sit in the cafeterie, i have the same anxieties, but my solution is to just go and sit alone somewhere. if anyone comes to talk to me that's fine.
Listen, i hate eating with other people as much as the next one does, but this is beyond SAD. Eating cold caned beans on the toilet, not even with a spoon, no she has drinking directly from the can ... there are homeless drug addicts with higher standards ...
1) Beans are not nutritionally complete enough for a meal 2) JFC Ellie you can just start meal prepping if it's *that* bad. You can get down to $3-$5 per meal pretty easilly if you know what you're doing and it can go lower than that too
Not being able to read faces and interact is one thing... Is it really autistic to run off to a bathroom of all places to consume your canned lunch with your hands of all things? Instead of just grabbing whatever to go from your free corporate cafeteria and eating at your workstation or something? Or just eating at the cafeteria with an ear pod listening to something? This just seems so far beyond autistic, especially since the social stigma of high school bullying and schedule (not everyone shows up to the cafeteria at the same time like school). Though the general advice is correct, she can carry a conversation with chat or her collabs, she can carry on a conversation, quirky or not, in real life.
Peak high functioning autism... Hope Vedal is persuasive enough to get her to take the first step... Since it does get easier after a while... (Also me sits alone despite befriending everyone LMAO)
Ellie lost so much stance on the state Bo's bathroom. She's right in that it's awful and needs cleaning, but eating in a public bathroom? She still has the high ground, but now it's more like standing on a small pile of milk crates than the hill it once was.
Now *_that_* is social anxiety. Coworker kept saying i probably had social anxiety bc i liked being alone, told me to hang out with her more to get used to company. Im just a weird loner 😅
I am with her on the backup can of beans. It may be infinitely better nutrition than you can get in lots of cafeterias. Though I am not onboard eating without a spoon and espeacially in the bathroom! :D
Thankfully for me... Making workplace friends was a bit easier since I tend to be adopted easily by extroverts ever since I was young, and I pay them back by bringing food everytime I can.
Wow. I mean, I've seen many...people who are awkward with getting around coworkers but that's...just another level. Bathroom beans? Beans???? Cold canned beans?
1:03 that absolutely does not make sense. 2:08 ellie is such a ND mood. 3:15 asking the real questions. 4:14 ellie is a corporate dream. it's shocking this girl was unemployed for any period of time. 5:47 the truth
"And then after that they stopped saying that, and then I didn't know where to sit, and I didn't know if I was allowed to keep sitting with them" It's almost painful how relatable this is
That’s just the autistic experience for us tbh. We would rather eat cold beans in the bathroom than interact with our coworkers (it takes too much brain energy)
I get her so much. When I'm not explicitly told I can do something my mind tells me "You cannot do this. You will get in trouble if you do." But then I'm also too scared to ask if it is ok most of the time. I used to ask my own mother if it was ok if I took a shower or eat something for a while. I was not abused, my mind is just fricken weird.
Do you even have to sit with someone at lunch? Just sit alone and look at your phone or something. It's not rocket science, though I guess that might have made it more approachable for Ellie lmao.
As someone that also had to make an adjustment to life at a professional workplace, this first step can be very intimidating to take. My solution was to just eat at my desk, but everybody has their own ways of doing things. I do hope that Ellie will at least start grabbing a spoon for her beans from the cafeteria though. Beans in the bathroom is already bad, but having to drink them brings the whole picture to whole different level.
"It's free but then you have to sit with someone"
This girl would rather have bathroom beans than ask "is this seat free". That is wild.
Honestly mood
Would do the same, to be honest.
Not only that, my guess is: she can sit by herself, if she is early enough around lunch time, it's possible coworker would just come and sit wit her, she wouldn't need to do or say anything for it to happen, just let it happen naturally.
I hate that I'm the same way
I would absolutely prefer eating nothing over asking a coworker in the cafeteria if I can sit there, and most of the reasons provided for eating in the bathroom are extremely valid. My main questions are;
Are there no other free tables?
Do you really need a full can of beans in the middle of the day?
Is this worth not bringing in a spoon for?
You brought/bring a can of beans to work?
What type of beans?
And finally, how do I achieve this level of based.
Social anxiety is chugging cold beans in the bathroom because you're not sure where to sit at lunch.
I imagine she's not subtle at all, like gollum knuckle dragging with a can of beans to the bathroom
It's next level of social anxiety
Atleast she got a job. I'm strugglin.
Vedal unironically treating her like a 3rd daughter trying to get her to make friends.
two psychotic daughters (one is in her emo-phase and the another is just psycho), and the third one is socially awkward... to say the least.
Vedal's speedrunning his "GrayHair" achievement.
Vedal after interacting with the neuros for so long has literally got the mentality of a father. The fact he reacted so strongly that she eats beans in the bathroom like a disappointed father tells me a lot lol.
@@jacobfoxfires964How would you react if a friend told you this about themselves? Poor Ellie! 😂
man, we all want her to do better than she is doing now...
@@cybermermaidkomette_vt3178 I would laugh my ass off
Girl made an actual functional robodog. But would rather eat beans in the toilet than to eat with her coworkers.
She's a special kind of precious...
Sometimes that level of genius just comes with a side of eating beans in the bathroom. You can't have the one without the other. There's a reason a lot of great minds are a little quirky.
My grandfather was that kind of high intelligence, with a side of beans.
She's just your average introvert. You'd be surprised at the amount of introverted people that are so incredibly smart but are terrible when it comes to IRL social situations.
@@WulfricPendragon Not quite the "average introvert", but more the "flamboyantly autistic introvert" flavor. I say this as someone who is much the same way...
Introverts coping by saying they're smart because they cant behave normally will never not be a funny cope
BATHROOMS BEANS FOREVER IMMORTALIZED
While watching Evil, I zoned out and came back to reality only to see the chat spamming "Bathroom Beans" and was thoroughly confused, now I know why lol
Same
I love Ellie in a "This is an incredible specimen" way
So, she obviously needs to be studied?
I feel like this is the moment where Vedal's illusion that Ellie was one of the more normal and adjusted Vtubers got shattered and realized she's just as weird and quirky as the rest of his friends 😂
I think for him Cerber one of the more normal and adjusted Vtubers. And what is normal in general? it is relative. Vedal, too, can hardly be called normal. There is also a professional Vtuber and streamer deformation in the form of Brain Roth, over time they become out of their minds, like with Filian, for example.
@@CyningWar but filian fell down so fast into the brain rot mindset
@@Subaru_Natsuki i seen filian first 1-2 year streams and she was normal or pretended normal hmm. But now she has popularity, it seems that everything is thanks to these changes
@@CyningWar makes sense, can't get views without a little brain damage.
@@CyningWar Most Streamers like to pretend they're more wholesome. Look at Bao. Plus, many times they haven't been exposed to the sheerr craziness of the internet
I've never really watched a lot of Ellie content, but now I will forever remember her as "the beans girl"
Not too different than those who have been, though that's probably not her primary attribute. But definitely her main food group... She's posted pictures of refried beans in a bowl as one of her regular meals. No seasoning, nothing else.
She also talked about how she got mono from eating food out of the trash in college. Certified genius girlfailure
_The Bathroom Beans Girl_
She is also known for eating raw pasta because she had a challenge that if Bao told her to eat two pounds of pasta on stream. Vedal found out about it and called Bao up. You can find out more on Shinsta312 | Creative
her ** ominous slop ** is also memorable
1:00 There is only one other girl that works on the floor. The ONLY thing being thrown away in this bathroom is empty cans of beans. The other girl on the floor knows why the trashcan is full of beans 😂
Man, I hope it gets better for her. There were a couple of months where I've had it *almost* that bad. Nobody should feel obligated to live like that.
I bet someone she is the kind of person that would put the empty can back in her bag to be certain they don't get found out
i didn't think of that BAHAHAHAHA
@joshuablaz she makes enough to eat normally, she chooses the bathroom bean lunch...
Probably also menstrual products in the trash
If it was the men's bathroom you'd have one guy going "Ayo someone is eating beans in there" and everyone would look
at least one guy would ask for some
@@2ndSite"hey man, is that your can of beans in the bathroom."
@@speedymx2376 "you gonna finish that?"
"Damn bro, that is one hell of a shit if you're eating while doing it."
deadass 💀
I'm constantly impressed how Ellie can be such a multi talented person with a successful career and a bright future ahead of her in multiple areas as she wishes.
And she can also be bathroom beans girl.
Two sides of the same coin / brain
Social brain =/= Smart Brain. Often a negative correlation
I first heard of her recently watching a clip of her talking to Neuro. She approached it with such grace, sophistication, and metal clarity that left me impressed at her social skills.
The brain just randomly decides to fit in the society, or be cool
@@vitorluiz7538 Probably because her Engineer Brain was engaged.
*Not!Boston Dynamics Hiring manager:* Our promising new hire's eating WHAT? IN WHERE?! WITHOUT A SPOON?!
GOLD! GOLD! RAISE THIS COMENT, IT'S GOTTA BE ON TOP
It's fine. Ppl only stay there for a few years 80% of the time anyway. They have terrible attrition.
This whole hangout was so fun to watch. We love the twins and all but when it's just Vedal and his "coworkers" it's always a good time.
No, Ellie, you’re supposed to go to the bathroom AFTER the beans, not before!!
You're misunderstanding; she's already in the bathroom, meaning that she doesn't have to go to the bathroom when she's done because she's already there.
Eating frozen beans in the bathroom sound like some kind of Anime plot set in Britain but the creator have no actual knowledge about Britain and based the whole anime on internet meme.
Normal: ask if you can sit down next to someone
Lv 1 social awkwardness: just sit down next to someone
Lv 2 social awkwardness: sit down alone in the corner of the cafeteria
Max Lv social awkwardness: chug beans in the bathroom
"It's weird behavior to ask people if you can sit and eat lunch with them, so instead I will go to the bathroom and chug a can of cold beans... like a normal, not weird person."
Ye the right move would be not to ask.. just sit down. Walk in, sit down at a empty chair, take up your food and eat. The other people are probably already talking with each other so you can just sit there doing nothing.
This conversation and the one where they compare their yearly income are like two sides of the same coin. On the one hand you have Homeless Vedal vs Millionaire Ellie, on the other... Decent Food Vedal vs Bathroom Beans Ellie. What a duo.
Is there a clip for the income talk?
@@user-jn5xy3mm9o idk but its in the same vod just a few mins before this
What convo was that?
Decent food vedal?? Greggs + Tesco lunch deal + frozen pizza man
@@R3dFlames Compared to bathroom beans, that's a buffet.
I feel you Ellie, it is hard to make friends as an adult but if you don't take the step now, it is only going to get weirder as time goes on, so better get to it now that you can lol
i mean the word coworker exists for a reason.
i feel like as an adult its extremely easy to be on friendly terms. you dont need to be besties to talk at work and eat lunch together.
never had many friends during school, but at work easily a hundred people id be comfortable to join them at lunch and have some small talk.
I hate small talk because it is always about stuff i dont find entertaining, it is like someone just finding stuff to talk about because it would be too awkward if nothing was being said.
7:42 u can hear the sheer concern is in this man's voice 😂
More emotions than over a world record hype train.
@@Kenionatus🐢
That's Numi level of pathetic.
She takes from her oshi I guess
nah it beats Numi i think and go on Toma level
Numi catching strays god dam
@@Tennosoulshe became the bar for pathetic-ness I guess
numicry Clap
Ellie.... I feel vedal on a spiritual level in this convo
Father987 on duty again
@@anasazhari4498 At this rate he'll become an allfather of all Vtubers before hitting his thirties.
1:43 is legit the most emotion I've seen out of Vedal lol. Tbf I was having the same reaction when I heard her company has a free cafeteria...
*walk to table*
“Hi, can I sit here?”
There. Easy as that. If they say no, rinse and repeat.
its the social interaction that ace brains have issue with. we dont pick up on soicail ques as much and ellie feels she needs to "earn" her place into social circles.
I mean yeah it is that simple. As long as you are not one of the peoples whos head goes "Oh they look busy I dont wanna disturb", "Oh that person would have to get up to let me in so dont wanna bother","Oh these people dont really look like they want company". "Oh I have been standing here for like 2 minutes now looking around I bet I look awkard"."I dont really feel like company today I would rather eat alone".
Like I get you dont mean it like that but its always easy to dismiss other peoples struggles if you never experienced them. Awkward people know they are awkward but they also cant change what their brain does.
that's social anxiety turn up to maximum
@@chidori0117 actually they can change, I was the most awkward, antisocial, riddled with social anxiety person there was in school. Most people used to hate my guts and I'd have trouble making any friends. Changed a lot in college. Now people in my workplace just think I'm a bit too polite and uptight. At some point you can just established protocols and assume that if something's wrong, it is probably the other people's fault.
or do what I used to do in college which is basically a ranked loser matchmaking. I used to find similarly pathetic looking introverts and I asked them if they want to go to the cafeteria together. So no going solo and pressuring yourself with the idea of not finding a seat and looking dumb. Then you rank up by having a static group to go to everyday until you find a girl and ditch the group until it doesn't work out. Rinse and repeat.
I would understand if beans were her only option but she has a FREE cafeteria, free food is something that must be appreciated even in hellish conditions of having to meet human beings.
0:20 Vedal dropped the British act for a good 30 seconds to be real with Ellie
I have a friend with the same anxiety issue and I advised him to image that he is playing GTA and everyone around are NPC and he can do whatever. That didn't convince him so I started to do the most random shit in front of people like walking in circles with my food before sitting down and eating, offering guys I never spoke before a couple of coins, like "hi, do you want these two shiny dimes?" e.t.c. He tried to run and pretend he doesn't know me at first, but then he got desensitized and didn't care anymore and his anxiety became negligible lmao
Damn we all need that friend who acts like an npc for our sake good on you
you are a brother
You, my man, are a literal divine presence lmao
Yo! I did this to a lesser extent, but like I was trynna get a shy classmate of mine to be more confident so I shouted "DINOSAUR" randomly in class like a fucking lunatic lol. She ended up doing the same later on so I guess it worked out lmao.
You're a legend
The best part of this is she never thought eating beans in the bathroom is sad, she just talk about it like it’s nothing out of the ordinary
Bro, it's not the sadness that's the main issue... It's just highly unhygienic.
As a manager I can promise Ellie if her manager isn't an idiot, doesn't like that she works so much. If i had a nickel for every time I pulled some bright eyed new kid to the side and say something along the lines of "you're no good to me dead" I'd be able to pay the poor damned fool what they're worth. Turnover isn't good. The value an employee creates from burning the candle at both ends is almost always eclipsed by the loss of value of training their replacement when they're burned out. Even ignoring the fact your a person with your own value and i feel some parent like compulsion to nurture and protect you. Even if I were a sociopath I don't want you to give more to this job than is sustainable because its killing the golden goose.
With a remark that there are companies where turnover is bad anyways, so they will try to wring you dry
@mangodude-nq6su that's fair I've not interacted with it personally but I've heard the iron foundry near where I grew up had a practice of just hiring temp workers running them ragged for their 90 days and replacing them like consumable parts of a machine. But there are relatively few industries where training is cheaper than retention, like I can tell you from past experience even McDonald's teaches their managers what I was talking about on the cost to train. You can get into the weeds where sometimes corporations will get invested in acquiring pre trained assets and not do a good job of keeping current assets. Basically playing too much offense not enough defense on the Human Resource game. But that's a problem that is probably higher up the chain than Ellie's boss I would guess.
Imagine how Ellie's coworkers feel. They only saw her eat once and never again.
Also, if I saw someone chugging a can of beans, I'll be so impressed and start doing it too
I swear that's more of a concerning thing to see than watching someone chug a cold can of beans. All you can do is wonder if they're okay in the former, while in the latter you already know lol
assert dominance! sit down with a random person make eye contact, chug your can of beans without ever breaking eye contact, and growl if anyone approaches too closely while you are eating.
She is such a treasure omg xD
Ellie of the bathroom, what beans do you recommend? Lol
Ellie, this is mental, I hope you get to read this - I get that you don't feel comfortable and don't want to be perceived a certain way, but you are robbing yourself of interactions with your coworkers, not even starting the converstaion about hygiene of the whole process of eating in a bathroom. This ain't high school, you are a proffesional at a high stake workplace, just get in there, grab a salad or a bagel, maybe even a cup of tea, set your eyes on the first person that you recognize, walk up and ask them is the seat next to them empty... Good luck, don't let the insecurities win this one. All the best and love your work and singing voice
2:57 That part actually broke me LMAO
I made the mistake of watching this in the middle of the night. I nearly woke up my entire family because I was holding in my laugh so d a m n hard. Thank you Staz, very cool, 10/10
I have never felt less like i have social anxiety than i do after listening to this. I have never even considered beans in the bathroom
5:06 the bug did something Pog
woah he’s club penguin dancing
3:19 - Ellie, just ask "do you mind if I sit here" please girl i beg of u even I know it's not that hard
07:49 I can feel Vedal's pain.
Honestly this feels kinda encouraging. I currently really struggle having normal meals, to the point I either don't eat or it's unhealthy. Not exactly due to social awkwardness but because being a normal functioning human is hard. If chugging a can of beans in the bathroom is what helps bridge that gap I don't see anything wrong with that, actually this is just inspiring to me.
This is so sad... CHAT, CAN WE GET 5 GIFTED?
Ellie, this is such... girlfailure behavior. I’m not even mad at this girl. I just want to... contact her and talk about how she can
survive while pretending to be human. This is so peak lol.😂
2:48 Tip for everyone.
Just sit anywhere, you're eating, it's not even time to start a conversation. You're working, everyone is miserable like you, no one gives a damn.
This isn't a high school teen movie where there's the popular kids' table and the nerds' table, or at least there shouldn't be.😂😂😂😂😂
Seriously though, you don’t even have to like each other, just be professional
She is... actually incredibly relatable
This is unnecessarily sad. Like there has to be a microwave at work... and the food is free? Does she not have a cubicle or car that she can just go to? The bathroom wouldn't even be an option for me... I'd just not eat if that was really the only option, and there's no way that the bathroom would be a better option than anything else.
I think the purpose of eating in the bathroom is so that others don't know she is eating alone
Another meme for the Swarms was born 👏🥹
Damn caseoh ate so much food that ellie had to resort to eaing beans in a bathroom
I’m not a very social person but like in the bathroom? That’s the saddest part to me. I’ll just eat at my desk or alone at a table.
I worked construction for a brief stint and there was only one trailer for eating, and pretty much only just enough room for our crew. I mostly just popped in an earbud and listened to music while I ate cause I wasn’t interested in talking, none of them bothered me about it, and these were not “try to be understanding of other people” type guys.
Pretty sure she's on the spectrum. It's not that she doesn't want i think, it's that she needs detailed instructions/explanations on how to proceed and on how people feel about her.
E.g. she stopped feeling welcome to sit with her coworkers when they stopped telling her to sit with them, and she doesn't know if it's because she did something that made them no longer want her or if because as neurotypical people it becomes an invitation they no longer need to formulate explicitly.
I doubt anyone in a position to help her will read this, but to whoever will read me, in those situations and for this kind of people, actual roleplay of situations to prepare for and flowcharts help a lot.
1) IIRC she is Autistic
2) v true 🤘
"chug a can of beans in the bathroom" Is not something I expected to hear today.
You know its bad when vedal is showing that much emotions
she sounds so nice i would LOVE to have launch with her and talk about random nerdy/techy stuff
i'm autistic and ellie is valid for not wanting to sit in the cafeterie, i have the same anxieties, but my solution is to just go and sit alone somewhere. if anyone comes to talk to me that's fine.
Chugging cold beans in the toilet is on another level
Yeah, that's how I always did it too.
I get the desire to be alone to recharge your batteries, but damn.
I'm also autistic and Ellie is not okay for this please ask someone for a seat the bathroom beans aren't worth it
I just sat alone by myself. I had no need to sit with others.
I’m socially allergic but damn that’s a whole new level of allergies ad that’s coming from someone who’s hangout space is the bathroom.
if I had to pay for the food I might see ellies point, that its paying to be miserable, but for free ill figure something out
Listen, i hate eating with other people as much as the next one does, but this is beyond SAD.
Eating cold caned beans on the toilet, not even with a spoon, no she has drinking directly from the can ... there are homeless drug addicts with higher standards ...
1) Beans are not nutritionally complete enough for a meal
2) JFC Ellie you can just start meal prepping if it's *that* bad. You can get down to $3-$5 per meal pretty easilly if you know what you're doing and it can go lower than that too
She doesn't really have functional kitchen though
Ellie be like: Only my can of beans undertands me.
Damn I'm autistic so I relate a little, but this is on another level
Not being able to read faces and interact is one thing... Is it really autistic to run off to a bathroom of all places to consume your canned lunch with your hands of all things? Instead of just grabbing whatever to go from your free corporate cafeteria and eating at your workstation or something? Or just eating at the cafeteria with an ear pod listening to something? This just seems so far beyond autistic, especially since the social stigma of high school bullying and schedule (not everyone shows up to the cafeteria at the same time like school). Though the general advice is correct, she can carry a conversation with chat or her collabs, she can carry on a conversation, quirky or not, in real life.
Peak high functioning autism... Hope Vedal is persuasive enough to get her to take the first step... Since it does get easier after a while... (Also me sits alone despite befriending everyone LMAO)
I remember calling Ellie the Goat at one point, and I think I might have to take that back
Ellie lost so much stance on the state Bo's bathroom. She's right in that it's awful and needs cleaning, but eating in a public bathroom?
She still has the high ground, but now it's more like standing on a small pile of milk crates than the hill it once was.
This is what social anxiety looks like
Now *_that_* is social anxiety.
Coworker kept saying i probably had social anxiety bc i liked being alone, told me to hang out with her more to get used to company. Im just a weird loner 😅
She’s so smart when yapping about her profession, but then the BEANS come up. 😭
Sweet android but my goodness
6:52 you know that It's sad, when even british guy says that beans amplify the sadness
I would also be too afraid to ask if I could sit with my coworkers, but I also lack the courage to drink beans in the bathroom.
Going into the shitting room to chug the shitting catalyst is wild.
“It’s free but then you have to go and sit with someone.”
Classic Ellie moment.
I am with her on the backup can of beans. It may be infinitely better nutrition than you can get in lots of cafeterias. Though I am not onboard eating without a spoon and espeacially in the bathroom! :D
Thankfully for me... Making workplace friends was a bit easier since I tend to be adopted easily by extroverts ever since I was young, and I pay them back by bringing food everytime I can.
I thought my anxiety levels were high. Poor Ellie!
This is actually so sad🥲
One day Ellie's boss will see this and be like "am I a bad boss... I should have kept saying 'sit here' or 'come eat with us'..."
You know its dire when even Vedal felt bad.
Ellie... There is no part of this story this not made of tears 😭
I don't think I could resist giving her the nickname beans after this.
This is on a whole another level compared to how I deal with social situations. Goddamn Ellie...
Wow.
I mean, I've seen many...people who are awkward with getting around coworkers but that's...just another level. Bathroom beans? Beans???? Cold canned beans?
The autisim struggle is real. and relatable as fuck
1:03 that absolutely does not make sense.
2:08 ellie is such a ND mood.
3:15 asking the real questions.
4:14 ellie is a corporate dream. it's shocking this girl was unemployed for any period of time.
5:47 the truth
Okay, chat, I think I like Ellie
You know those "extrovert adopts introvert"-memes? She needs an extrovert who uses a trained service introvert to guide her during lunch breaks 😁
Beans from the can are underrated. . . But beans on the can? 😅
Fun fact: when the toilet is flushed it sprays a mist of toilet water, fecal matter and urine out coating all surfaces in that material
I don't think I've ever seen Vedal so "emotional", he was very sad about this story
Chat went WILD and the Hype Train was at least lvl 12
"And then after that they stopped saying that, and then I didn't know where to sit, and I didn't know if I was allowed to keep sitting with them"
It's almost painful how relatable this is
I feel bad because I used to down a can of soup when working so I could save money and time
She’s so real
I'm literally speechless... that's so ridiculous it's almost unbelievable
That’s just the autistic experience for us tbh. We would rather eat cold beans in the bathroom than interact with our coworkers (it takes too much brain energy)
I have a hard time eating around others so I have eaten food in lots of places, but I would never eat in the bathroom.
I get her so much. When I'm not explicitly told I can do something my mind tells me "You cannot do this. You will get in trouble if you do." But then I'm also too scared to ask if it is ok most of the time. I used to ask my own mother if it was ok if I took a shower or eat something for a while. I was not abused, my mind is just fricken weird.
Ur not alone tbh
Damn I actually relate with her. Social anxiety is just terrible
Do you even have to sit with someone at lunch? Just sit alone and look at your phone or something.
It's not rocket science, though I guess that might have made it more approachable for Ellie lmao.
2:32 that fucking sound says it all lmao
This is honestly so sad, I'm an antisocial person myself but not to this level, I would just take a free sit and eat by myself
i NEED to see an artwork for when Ellie sneaks into the bathroom to chug the beans directly from the can 😂
Dear Anny,
Can you please release Staz's channel and not writing titles for him anymore? Thank you
Sincerely,
[Your Name]
Ellie is so real dude
As someone that also had to make an adjustment to life at a professional workplace, this first step can be very intimidating to take. My solution was to just eat at my desk, but everybody has their own ways of doing things. I do hope that Ellie will at least start grabbing a spoon for her beans from the cafeteria though. Beans in the bathroom is already bad, but having to drink them brings the whole picture to whole different level.
Her new model is soo cute 🥺