My wife started dressing different for work and buying expensive lingerie that she only wears to work never at home and it has me curious I ask about it and got my head bit off and she did spend countless hours a day on her phone texting but I never saw any of the actual text so? No proof there each time I try to get her to talk about my suspicions she goes dead silent refuses to talk or says I don’t know what you want me to say then go back silent this only increases my suspicions I am trying not to explode I feel like a ticking time bomb I don’t want to lose my cool it is very hard to not come right out a accuse her I don’t want to scare her away from actually talking if I can ever get her there?
Same, I was 95%+ certain, lots of circumstantial evidence but I couldn’t prove it, to the point I vomited on two occasions, so confronted her with my gut feelings, after an hour, she denied it all, she turned to me, tears trickling down her cheek (not streaming), Her response, “life isn’t worth living is it!?” Despite having 4 of the most beautiful kids!!!WTF… I suspect she’s had 2-6 differ t guys over 30years, still with her, almost sexless marriage, 4th child finishes high school this December, then I’m GONE! I don’t want divorce, I don’t want to be with any other woman EVER, she can continue on her merry way… I’ve just turned 60, she’s 58 and still smoking HOT… earns 4.5x my wage…
Well Patrick, I discovered a few years ago that my husband had been cheating on me, emotional and physical affairs with quite a few women, for most of the 26+ years (at D-day) of our marriage. Connected even with past girlfriends (all in secret). Even as we're doing therapy (I've done some alone), I know he didn't and maybe still doesn't believe in emotional affairs...they're "just friends". Now I've found out, they're just friends he stopped contacting because I have/had a problem with them. I look back and your comment on the cell phone I've experienced. Yet even now, while we are in therapy, I can't touch his phone not even if it rings. I still see signs of hiding it. I don't know who he texts on any social media and he's always on them all. This still happens and he says he's rebuilding trust. Thanks for your videos. Just discovered them. Good points in those I've seen so far. Gaslighting..yes. Victimize...yes. Intimacy issue...yes, I see now how it was happening. Sadly, I didn't know and recognize the true signs. Now I've felt so much trauma.0
Well Patrick, found out a few years ago that my husband had been cheating, emotionally & physically with a few women, for most of our marriage. Connected even with past girlfriends (all in secret). Even as we're doing therapy, I know he didn't and maybe still doesn't believe in emotional affairs. They're "just friends". Now that I've found out, they're just friends he stopped contacting because I have/had a problem with them. I relate with your comment on the cell phone experience. Yet even now, while we are in therapy, I can't touch his phone not even if it rings. I still see signs of hiding it. I don't know who he texts on any social media and he's always on them all. This still happens and he says he's rebuilding trust. Thanks for your videos. Just discovered. Good points. Gaslighting..yes.Victimize...yes. Intimacy issue...yes, I see now how it was happening. Sadly, I didn't recognize the true signs. The trauma is real.
you have to be careful when dealing with a Narcissist --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I’m glad that cyberfort security helped cloned my wife’s phone. I got access to all her dealings both on phone and social media without touching her phone. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with cyberfort security and I was able to read both her new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all her secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberfort security. I live in California USA and able to access her phone messages through a remote link on my phone even while she was away in Canada cheating on me. I’m finally going through divorce with lots of evidence against her. I read all her deleted and recent chats on Whatsapp, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram and Skype. You can contact this great ethical hacker “vaida” via Gmail (cyberspyfort@gmail.com
My wife started dressing different for work and buying expensive lingerie that she only wears to work never at home and it has me curious I ask about it and got my head bit off and she did spend countless hours a day on her phone texting but I never saw any of the actual text so? No proof there each time I try to get her to talk about my suspicions she goes dead silent refuses to talk or says I don’t know what you want me to say then go back silent this only increases my suspicions I am trying not to explode I feel like a ticking time bomb I don’t want to lose my cool it is very hard to not come right out a accuse her I don’t want to scare her away from actually talking if I can ever get her there?
Same, I was 95%+ certain, lots of circumstantial evidence but I couldn’t prove it, to the point I vomited on two occasions, so confronted her with my gut feelings, after an hour, she denied it all, she turned to me, tears trickling down her cheek (not streaming), Her response, “life isn’t worth living is it!?” Despite having 4 of the most beautiful kids!!!WTF… I suspect she’s had 2-6 differ t guys over 30years, still with her, almost sexless marriage, 4th child finishes high school this December, then I’m GONE! I don’t want divorce, I don’t want to be with any other woman EVER, she can continue on her merry way… I’ve just turned 60, she’s 58 and still smoking HOT… earns 4.5x my wage…
Well Patrick, I discovered a few years ago that my husband had been cheating on me, emotional and physical affairs with quite a few women, for most of the 26+ years (at D-day) of our marriage. Connected even with past girlfriends (all in secret). Even as we're doing therapy (I've done some alone), I know he didn't and maybe still doesn't believe in emotional affairs...they're "just friends".
Now I've found out, they're just friends he stopped contacting because I have/had a problem with them.
I look back and your comment on the cell phone I've experienced. Yet even now, while we are in therapy, I can't touch his phone not even if it rings. I still see signs of hiding it. I don't know who he texts on any social media and he's always on them all. This still happens and he says he's rebuilding trust.
Thanks for your videos. Just discovered them. Good points in those I've seen so far.
Gaslighting..yes. Victimize...yes.
Intimacy issue...yes, I see now how it was happening.
Sadly, I didn't know and recognize the true signs. Now I've felt so much trauma.0
Well Patrick, found out a few years ago that my husband had been cheating, emotionally & physically with a few women, for most of our marriage. Connected even with past girlfriends (all in secret). Even as we're doing therapy, I know he didn't and maybe still doesn't believe in emotional affairs. They're "just friends".
Now that I've found out, they're just friends he stopped contacting because I have/had a problem with them.
I relate with your comment on the cell phone experience. Yet even now, while we are in therapy, I can't touch his phone not even if it rings. I still see signs of hiding it. I don't know who he texts on any social media and he's always on them all. This still happens and he says he's rebuilding trust.
Thanks for your videos. Just discovered. Good points.
Gaslighting..yes.Victimize...yes. Intimacy issue...yes, I see now how it was happening.
Sadly, I didn't recognize the true signs. The trauma is real.
Going to say fact based and kindness doesn't always work if they're in perpetual victim mindset.
you have to be careful when dealing with a Narcissist --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I’m glad that cyberfort security helped cloned my wife’s phone. I got access to all her dealings both on phone and social media without touching her phone. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with cyberfort security and I was able to read both her new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all her secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberfort security. I live in California USA and able to access her phone messages through a remote link on my phone even while she was away in Canada cheating on me. I’m finally going through divorce with lots of evidence against her. I read all her deleted and recent chats on Whatsapp, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram and Skype. You can contact this great ethical hacker “vaida” via Gmail (cyberspyfort@gmail.com
Thanks, I’ll try it!
Hey I neeed some help regd this can u pls help me
Thanks again, they are proceeding at the moment!
Can you help me?