How To Hit It On The First Date 💦💦 | The Secret To Smashing On The First Date

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

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  • @PC-kd9zc
    @PC-kd9zc Год назад +17

    1. Look great
    2. Smell great
    3. Keep eye contact (show confidence)
    4. Hug her
    5 Compliment her
    6. Keep conversation simple and avoid sensitive topics like region, politics etc!
    7. Pick a place that she get to do a physical activity
    8. Avoid pressing your phones. Keep it on silent.
    9. Keep the night/fun going ( keep moving from one bar to another/location to another)
    10. Have a fresh breath
    11. Silence her reservations about sex on first dates
    12. Avoid sex conversations during date.
    13. Lay you bed well and keep your house tidy and your room in the right mood.
    14. Make sure there is consent before act in the "other room" .

    • @cwaveinteragency9135
      @cwaveinteragency9135 Год назад +1

      All this sounds like am trying to apply for a contract worth of millions 😂😂😂

    • @s1n4m1n
      @s1n4m1n 11 месяцев назад

      The other black woman giving smashing advice gave the exact same points!

    • @globalpeaceworld7210
      @globalpeaceworld7210 7 месяцев назад

      14. Written informed consent😂😂😂

  • @Saintkwabena
    @Saintkwabena Год назад +5

    All of this to smash whilst both parties enjoy … men don dey suffer ooo…Preciate that

  • @benjaminaguokwe1138
    @benjaminaguokwe1138 2 года назад +10

    I enjoy your teachings very well, keep it up dear

  • @paulophilip7948
    @paulophilip7948 Год назад +2

    Intelligent vlog. I like the part about putting away the phone. This was fun. She has helped me improve my smash game.

  • @LanLe-rz4lm
    @LanLe-rz4lm 2 года назад +6

    I never understood that: someone thinks that if she likes you just as much as you like her, that there’s something wrong with her, smh…
    That’s putting yourself down, not her.

  • @charlessquire1542
    @charlessquire1542 Год назад +4

    Love that Red lipstick looks really cheap, as for your blue dress, it truly stands out more than you do, your breath is something I will never forget, now down to business, may I have a sample dip?? Works Everytime..😊

  • @donatusekenachi4487
    @donatusekenachi4487 Год назад +7

    A very good advice for both men and women.

  • @eddieskinn2194
    @eddieskinn2194 Год назад +1

    Hey Ij, how come you’re so knowledgeable and experienced about this relationship issue? I’m so impressed and wonder where you’re now in your relationship…just curious 🤨

  • @Conquexe
    @Conquexe Год назад +5

    I like how you relay your thoughts into words👇
    Whether it's on the 1 million day😂

  • @samueljpkamara
    @samueljpkamara Год назад +1

    I can’t lie think it a miracle come true really love this and love you too ijay really appreciate

  • @bentleybakertrint4390
    @bentleybakertrint4390 Год назад +1

    Blessings jay i admire you, and apperiate you...keep up the good work ...jah's Blessings my sista

  • @godfreymaverick9098
    @godfreymaverick9098 Год назад +4

    Your guy is in trouble. All this knowledge in your head. Tbh,You amaze me every time with your views.

  • @monsieuricezchis
    @monsieuricezchis Год назад +2

    The tips mentioned would definitely get you a kiss or the main… Depends how it plays out… It’s all part of the game 😊 just know how to play it.

  • @TekweTekoh
    @TekweTekoh 9 месяцев назад

    You are a very good girl sympathetic with the men. It is difficult to date on the first date because she will always lack the time to spend and you need much money to sustain the plan.

  • @StarlakeBright-bs2cx
    @StarlakeBright-bs2cx 4 месяца назад +1

    Keep it up dear 😘

  • @alphap9007
    @alphap9007 Год назад +6

    A one night stand is like pimping a girl out. Your not going to get just any female to cooperate or be down. Keep in mind no matter “your” tactics or game, it is ultimately up to the girl and her morals that makes the decision, the quality of the girl and how much damage she has endured previously. Yeah pretty much that’s what your sleeping with. 😉

  • @ahmedtjmohammed3893
    @ahmedtjmohammed3893 Год назад +8

    very educative

  • @ezelucas5792
    @ezelucas5792 Год назад +3

    ..keep the conversation simple. And make her laugh.. awesome contents.

  • @isaacasamoah6955
    @isaacasamoah6955 11 месяцев назад

    Oh my goodness, sis you really know to advise we men.May our heavenly father grant you a longlife and prosperity Amen.

  • @ajahnnaemeka2422
    @ajahnnaemeka2422 Год назад +1

    Bad girl! Good tips

  • @isiahstubbs
    @isiahstubbs Год назад

    Hi,it's true!.happened for me a few times!.thanks alot!.

  • @energytrail315
    @energytrail315 Год назад +1

    "do not GRAB HER ASS"???? LMAO who does that?

  • @bryan63150
    @bryan63150 Год назад +1

    Make I see as this babe go take go Heaven..I go komot ur name for those wey dey go Heaven..I go dey for Heaven gate dey select...this gurl, u badt...u dey give Dem my tactics abi..u are abad girl, u are a bad girl, u are a bad girl..lol

  • @stephenmomoh5112
    @stephenmomoh5112 Год назад +1

    Do I really wanna do this? …yes baby, I wanna do this.😂😂

  • @alibukar-h2k
    @alibukar-h2k 11 месяцев назад

    Wow Excellent IJay

  • @uwemudoh3225
    @uwemudoh3225 Год назад +2

    Interesting episode, I prefer "smashing" on the second date ??

  • @saul9050
    @saul9050 Год назад +2

    The big sister I always needed

  • @innodavidson4497
    @innodavidson4497 Год назад +2

    Neat lady and discuss. 😂❤

  • @innocentudunwoke
    @innocentudunwoke Год назад

    You really thrilled me .
    I wish we can be close please.

  • @S.LOIC01
    @S.LOIC01 Год назад

    Plz.U should do private consultations.I need ur advices Bad.

  • @naxiz_kenya2805
    @naxiz_kenya2805 Год назад +19

    Women hhmmm. Y'all are not serious at all, all u said is very true but as we grow up as men we realize the most useless thing to do is chase women. Waste of resources energy and time. Anyone here not married but with high sex drive please get you a wife. These games are very annoying

    • @bishopastikoemmanuel9960
      @bishopastikoemmanuel9960 Год назад +4

      True

    • @IfennaMekar
      @IfennaMekar Год назад

      U are correct bro, come to thing about it after time wasting and u enter the other room and her pu**y smells bad u will be annoyed with urself.

    • @samuelafolayan7056
      @samuelafolayan7056 Год назад

      Absolutely 💯

    • @hopesonikeagwu200
      @hopesonikeagwu200 Год назад

      You're very correct, chasing a woman is waste of Everything. Except with your wife.

    • @hopesonikeagwu200
      @hopesonikeagwu200 Год назад

      Ijay, you're trying in tips and advice you share, but please Sex is not just nothing as you said in this your video. Sexual intercourse have spiritual significance.

  • @nanaadjei6677
    @nanaadjei6677 Год назад +1

    How do I get her to a hotel without her thbking i am married?

  • @bababobb3400
    @bababobb3400 Год назад +1

    Huh that’s our friend thanks again

  • @donatusejiofor7158
    @donatusejiofor7158 Год назад

    Hey IJ knowing you won’t be a bad idea 😊

  • @batalaxmobile3727
    @batalaxmobile3727 Год назад +1

    Ms Ijay, I'm now your disciple let me follow you wherever you go👍🙌🙏

  • @chinonsoagu1464
    @chinonsoagu1464 2 года назад +5

    Ijay.. u are the boss

  • @nsikakudo-etuk2796
    @nsikakudo-etuk2796 Год назад +1

    Your covering is ok... cheers!!

  • @Buttons99
    @Buttons99 Год назад +1

    Its scary the kinda things you know about relationships

  • @akosejoks9077
    @akosejoks9077 6 месяцев назад

    Ijay you're a Bhaddie Aje!
    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @vocabularymillionaire
    @vocabularymillionaire Год назад +1

    Jeeesos!!😂

  • @bensamais8154
    @bensamais8154 Год назад +1

    Great education

  • @ferdinandngwa8240
    @ferdinandngwa8240 Год назад +1

    You are right

  • @ChurchillEssien
    @ChurchillEssien Год назад

    Thanks ijah. I really appreciate your kind enlightenment on sexual adventure.
    I believe it will make a man more respectful before his woman if he follows your tips correctly and make our partners happy for it.
    Thank you so very much dear.
    If you don't mind, I will like to have your number for personal discuss.

  • @ROHMARIO-r6e
    @ROHMARIO-r6e Год назад

    Good advice on how to date a girl.

  • @boronboron3858
    @boronboron3858 Год назад +17

    Don't smell like camphor 😛😛😛

  • @chidieberegodwin2417
    @chidieberegodwin2417 Год назад +2

    Jesus!
    The undivided attention for me 😅

  • @inyang25
    @inyang25 Год назад +5

    😂😂😂 I like how she said it.. our plan is to smash her. That's so adorable

  • @rondosanto344
    @rondosanto344 Год назад +2

    That's how complicated it is to date in the States

    • @slash3365
      @slash3365 Год назад

      thats how it is complicated everywhere, man

  • @rawletitus9660
    @rawletitus9660 Год назад +3

    That's a lot of steps..can we just offer her some money.. Hahaha haha...

  • @bikoempire
    @bikoempire Год назад +5

    All these in the name of p*ssy?😂😂😂 Nuuuuuh broh! I'm not doing this!!! In our country we say, "Buying milk is cheaper than buying a cow!" If you know, you know!

  • @Davidaeko40
    @Davidaeko40 Год назад +1

    Much happening here❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂

  • @richisaisarich3370
    @richisaisarich3370 Год назад

    You are profound lady.❤ly hints

  • @Vascodagam333
    @Vascodagam333 Год назад +4

    She actually brought condoms on the first date😢

  • @3rddvevo36
    @3rddvevo36 Год назад

    Sabi girl!

  • @smartlucky4393
    @smartlucky4393 Год назад +3

    Don't smell like air freshener 💀 them don cast men men update 😐😂
    Smelling good will open doors for you 😌 but they are not doors of breakthrough🥵

  • @Robby_frame
    @Robby_frame 9 месяцев назад

    Plot twist.. what if she's on her period and you're unaware till after the date?

  • @Lexiconobi
    @Lexiconobi 2 года назад +1

    #RTWI...Let’s Meauveee😊

  • @MrNanah38
    @MrNanah38 Год назад +1

    Are you in a relationship?

  • @victorjack1063
    @victorjack1063 Год назад +1

    Bad Babe!😂

  • @ConstantiusMulavasa
    @ConstantiusMulavasa 4 месяца назад

    If feel sleep while taking her in my I when street to bed to get. How will she feels may you explain

  • @enyinnayajephc7463
    @enyinnayajephc7463 Год назад +1

    Whose going to do all this spending ? 🤔

  • @gameafrique3525
    @gameafrique3525 Год назад +1

    Avoid taking advise about women from women. When she talks about men, she’s correct, but this is totally wrong

  • @mariahfolkard929
    @mariahfolkard929 Год назад

    😂ij you you are the baddest first date splash 😅

  • @PauloAgu-hs3yp
    @PauloAgu-hs3yp Год назад +1

    The plan is to smash 😂😂

  • @chrismthethwaglen3172
    @chrismthethwaglen3172 Год назад +5

    I can talk about anything including politics, if she's dumb is dumb. Not my problem

  • @ErnestEkeneme
    @ErnestEkeneme Год назад

    Did i hear smell like camphor?

  • @charlesihuoma4800
    @charlesihuoma4800 Год назад +11

    Story and stories. In this part of the globe. Frankly your money calls all the shots.

  • @issigmundc
    @issigmundc Год назад

    Sweet woman with sweet brain

  • @richardmuthamia8063
    @richardmuthamia8063 Год назад +1

    Don't listen to her. If you want to catch fish, ask the fisherman not the fish.

  • @feranmi.4kt
    @feranmi.4kt Год назад

    Room airfreshener 😅

  • @augustinejohn4725
    @augustinejohn4725 Год назад +1

    Blood of Moses 😮

  • @JeromeOkoludo
    @JeromeOkoludo Год назад +1

    This is Nija not UK or US. We know how edey be na

  • @bryan63150
    @bryan63150 Год назад +1

    It's time 4u to talk how the girl will smash the guy on the first date..if u no talk am eeh..😂

  • @preshy_ibe
    @preshy_ibe Год назад

    Does this apply to you 😉

  • @uzoifeora3757
    @uzoifeora3757 Год назад +2

    Lol Story I’m just inviting you to my house simple no dates until further notice I’ve nacked many girls by come to my house 🤣 madam ur capping

  • @kingvictor6475
    @kingvictor6475 Год назад

    Ijay on my mind

  • @legendaryiphones426
    @legendaryiphones426 Год назад +1

    Smart❤❤❤❤

  • @ikehoover9673
    @ikehoover9673 Год назад

    How about you don't have a house

  • @rexchirex2092
    @rexchirex2092 2 года назад +4

    No matter how u see am olodo women turns me off,u no know u no wan know its bad

  • @niewagen7376
    @niewagen7376 Год назад +1

    Is all these for 9ja of today.. story plenty one olomo drink you don nack 10..

  • @davo4926
    @davo4926 Год назад

    Hmmmm that's true secret.

  • @VincentKerr
    @VincentKerr Год назад

    Nothing wrong with that

  • @jahhardymusic
    @jahhardymusic Год назад +2

    You will smash nothing in two weeks 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @joshuaifeanyi2957
    @joshuaifeanyi2957 Год назад

    I'm looking forward to going out with you someday.

  • @Chinomaxwell
    @Chinomaxwell Год назад

    Don't talk about black lives matters😂😂

  • @cosmaskitonyi1590
    @cosmaskitonyi1590 Год назад

    Very good information.I wonder would mind having sex on the first day?

  • @bright5209
    @bright5209 Год назад

    Nah... This is a long journey.

  • @benjaminaguokwe1138
    @benjaminaguokwe1138 2 года назад +3

    O gini di, Ijay baby, your correct guy. I wish I knew you well and have your contact. There are also some secret questions I want to ask you. Thank you.

    • @IJayNedum
      @IJayNedum  2 года назад

      😊😊😊 send me a Message on Instagram

    • @naxiz_kenya2805
      @naxiz_kenya2805 Год назад +1

      Oga... U wan shoot shot sha

  • @poolpartyshows2862
    @poolpartyshows2862 Год назад +3

    You will smash nothing in 2 week 😂😂😂😂

  • @JoshuaEdose
    @JoshuaEdose Год назад +3

    U tried in the teaching but it lacks moral values and the needed sex education.

  • @angelbertnde66
    @angelbertnde66 Год назад

    Women eh 😂😂

  • @affiliatemarketinghub6754
    @affiliatemarketinghub6754 Год назад

    u are a bad girl

  • @IgnatiusChukwu-x1z
    @IgnatiusChukwu-x1z Год назад

    This is promiscuous, immoral, and ungodly suggestions, very unfortunate

  • @stephenmomoh5112
    @stephenmomoh5112 Год назад

    What’s you IG handle? 🌹❤️

    • @oluwayemionipede9733
      @oluwayemionipede9733 Год назад +1

      But to what end do you make these videos? Let's call a spade a spade? Would a lady, with high moral values, who understands her self-worth and dignity give her body to a guy she's meeting on a first date? I'm not sure you're transmitting good morals and values via your videos ma'am. There's already enough decadence in our world, let's not exacerbate the situation.
      I come in peace.