Babysitter Boss S2E2: Babysitting Basics: Dealing with Parents

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

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  • @maiafotheringill3640
    @maiafotheringill3640 4 года назад +67

    This helped me so much! I watch these over and over to prepare for a babysitting job, I'm 12 and want to be prepared

    • @mads5577
      @mads5577 4 года назад +2

      Maia Fotheringill same

    • @Oopy_Doopy42069
      @Oopy_Doopy42069 Год назад +1

      Hi! Its been two years, could you give any advice? Im about to start my job and Im kind of nervous…

    • @Whatsuppp33
      @Whatsuppp33 Год назад

      Hey how has it been ?

    • @ShadiaMohamed-nv7xe
      @ShadiaMohamed-nv7xe 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@Oopy_Doopy42069just watch her videos, trust me it'll help you

    • @ARREMCCANALOFICAL
      @ARREMCCANALOFICAL 4 месяца назад

      Are u still babysitting?

  • @lordpun7779
    @lordpun7779 5 лет назад +39

    What I have told some people I want to babysit for I say make sure I am available before you make reservations that way they don’t have to cancel because I’m not available

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  5 лет назад +11

      That's great advice! Parents shouldn't ever assume their babysitter will be free.

    • @sofiavias7142
      @sofiavias7142 4 года назад

      Lord of the pun I see ur a fan. I see ur comments on videos

    • @lordpun7779
      @lordpun7779 4 года назад

      Shrimpy Dimpy u right

  • @_-PLUTO-_
    @_-PLUTO-_ 4 года назад +18

    If I get sick I get one of my fellow babysitting friends for the parents as backup if the event/meeting is important plus you look super responsible😉

  • @Olivia-iv2ji
    @Olivia-iv2ji 4 года назад +42

    What’s a way to ask them if they need a babysitter without making them feel like they have to say yes

    • @lolastar7315
      @lolastar7315 4 года назад

      Livy Lu yeah

    • @emmmmm6254
      @emmmmm6254 3 года назад +1

      @Stella Moritz this is genius, good tip!

    • @masi7iyah140
      @masi7iyah140 3 года назад +2

      Maybe tell people “If you ever need a babysitter, let me know! i would be happy to care for your children

  • @herehaveaflower3388
    @herehaveaflower3388 4 года назад +8

    Can’t wait to use these tips! I’ll be able to babysit next year!!

  • @Bella_boo3
    @Bella_boo3 3 года назад +2

    Starting a babysitting club this summer with a few friends your videos have helped me a lot just to know what to do with have a great day

  • @sneakers_smh
    @sneakers_smh Год назад +2

    I love this channel sm, your a lot of help (as a new sitter)

  • @mads2225
    @mads2225 5 лет назад +23

    So how do you get clients? And is it safe to just post flyers outside what if you don’t know them because I want to be safe.

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  5 лет назад +6

      You don't want to post flyers outside or on social media - especially with personal information on it! Always start with people you know, like friends of your parents or family members. Here are some other helpful ideas: safesitter.org/advertise-babysitting-services-safely/.

    • @amycroft3412
      @amycroft3412 5 лет назад +1

      Good point

    • @owenbarnes3334
      @owenbarnes3334 5 лет назад

      Fftvvv

    • @owenbarnes3334
      @owenbarnes3334 5 лет назад

      Jko

    • @faithbeyra
      @faithbeyra 4 года назад

      Pll

  • @callizto1964
    @callizto1964 4 года назад +6

    Hey! Quick question:
    I’m wanting to babysit and don’t really know what to do. I’ve told my parents to ask around but nothings really come up. I have really only watched kids with my grandma and with my friend ( kids that we are related to or have someone related to them that we know) and I’ve only done that around 2-3 times. I’m good with kids and want to go on an app for jobs.
    I told my teacher I wanted to babysit and she said she could give me a letter of recommendation.
    Anyways, my questions are:
    1.how do I start babysitting a kid?
    2. How do I build a better resume
    3. I have watched videos at home of how to do cpr, and how to help a kid when they are choking, and I’ve practiced these things on pillows to make sure I wouldn’t forget the basics of those things. Do I need to take classes?
    4. There’s a lot of kids in my class who babysit. How do I make parents want me to watch there kids instead of others?
    5. How do I make sure I’m safe?
    6. I’m looking to mainly watch kids in the age range 4-9, how do I make sure those are the kids I babysit?
    7. What would be the best app( if needed) to get hired?
    Sorry for the explosion of questions. Just need some help!

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  4 года назад +2

      Question for you - have you taken a babysitting preparation course like Safe Sitter? You'll get the answer to ALL of these questions when you take a class. You can find a class by visiting safesitter.org/find-a-class/.

  • @eveanderson6368
    @eveanderson6368 3 года назад +1

    Thank you this is helping so much because I want to start a babysitting job

  • @cloutisxx7992
    @cloutisxx7992 5 лет назад +6

    Can you do a video on what to bring on your first day of your babysitting job?

  • @gachalifequeen5292
    @gachalifequeen5292 4 года назад +106

    This helped me so much.cause im turning 15 next moth so I’ll be old enough to babysit!!

    • @nnicol1077
      @nnicol1077 4 года назад +1

      Next moth?

    • @rose6946
      @rose6946 4 года назад +15

      @@nnicol1077 she obviously means next month

    • @sprxxng
      @sprxxng 4 года назад +28

      Oof im 11 and im babysitting

    • @emmilyn362
      @emmilyn362 4 года назад +14

      Here it’s allowed when you’re 13

    • @rose6946
      @rose6946 4 года назад +11

      Ur allowed any time here when u and ur parents think ur mature there there is a group of girls who live near me who are 8 years old they do a babysitting club and they actually get custermers like there not even out of primary! I'm starting next year when I'm 13

  • @fazeliliana9750
    @fazeliliana9750 4 года назад +2

    Thank you, this helped me a lot! I'm 11 and I have a gig tomarow.

  • @marleesuarez7162
    @marleesuarez7162 4 года назад +4

    Before COVID started, I had a good number of clients, and I was happy with myself. But, I wonder if they've forgotten about me? I've tried checking in with each of them, but only two out of the six families I sat for responded. Will I have to completely restart by picking new clients?

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  4 года назад +2

      Sorry to hear that. Some parents might not feel comfortable with a babysitter at the time or they just aren't in need of a sitter. I'm sure your business will come back as things continue to adjust. Here is some great advice on babysitting during COVID. You could probably impress parents with this knowledge and boost their confidence with you babysitting again: safesitter.org/babysitting-during-covid-19/.

  • @KaraStevens-ii4qq
    @KaraStevens-ii4qq 5 месяцев назад +1

    For me I usually meet w the parents in person and get their number in case of emergencies. I also tell them upfront I charge 15$ an hour for my services and ask that they make it clear to the kids I’m watching listen to me and I also ask about routines for bed and bathing and how old the kids are. What their likes and dislikes r the list can go on and on

  • @Giafrancis-09
    @Giafrancis-09 5 лет назад +15

    What if kids *refuse* to do their homework

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  5 лет назад +11

      Your job as a babysitter is to follow the rules. Make homework fun for them! If it feels more like a game than a chore, they may be more willing to complete their work. If they still won't do their homework, you will need to call their parent for help.

  • @poisonxAnge
    @poisonxAnge 3 года назад +1

    I'm going to start babysitting soon once I finish some babysitting classes, 14 year old here

  • @sarahanonymous3770
    @sarahanonymous3770 3 года назад +2

    I searched a client's apartment once to try and find baby wipes for a nappy change. I could't find the wipes but I did find their weed stash. I had to do the nappy change without wipes.

  • @imogenshears9855
    @imogenshears9855 3 года назад +2

    I’m under aged for babysitting but I know I want to do it when I’m the legal age and this helped so much !!

  • @autumnsinner4627
    @autumnsinner4627 5 лет назад +108

    What if the parents don’t like something you did?

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  5 лет назад +74

      First you want to apologize and ask how they would prefer you handle the situation in the future. It might seem scary, but you'll seem really grown up by addressing the situation.

    • @willowkent8718
      @willowkent8718 4 года назад +10

      yea the dad doesn’t like me punishing the kids

    • @Brooklynheilig
      @Brooklynheilig 3 года назад +2

      @Hattie Korein good idea

    • @athenabrown1797
      @athenabrown1797 3 года назад

      @@BabysitterBoss 8

  • @hopedevlin242
    @hopedevlin242 3 года назад

    I’m so excited I’m getting old enough to babysit this year and prob for my neighbor so I’m soooooo excited

  • @ameliafredericks8721
    @ameliafredericks8721 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much Evan need to make money for a sport group I want to join but it costs a lot of money and I'm going to be probably doing babysitting soon and this video helped a lot

  • @joannamungovan4970
    @joannamungovan4970 5 лет назад +12

    Once I had to go into a parents room because the kid ran in there but I didn't Snoop in the room at all I just ran in there grab the kid and left

    • @JJ-fz9bc
      @JJ-fz9bc 4 года назад +4

      That's fine because you weren't snooping around you were just doing your job

    • @sarahanonymous3770
      @sarahanonymous3770 3 года назад

      I had to go in the parents room to grab the dog, who was supposed to be in the fenced of living room, but he kept escaping.

  • @navilarahman1055
    @navilarahman1055 Год назад +1

    you are the best

  • @shanonsittler3350
    @shanonsittler3350 15 дней назад

    OK, I just have to say I am a new babysitter and I took the Red Cross babysitting course if you are a child and you have a lot of homework reminder this is from the red Cross babysitting course. Talk to the parents about canceling because what is more important. Yes the kids do need a babysitter but also your grades are important. Never forget about your grades School is your priority job but you don’t get paid for it And for example, if you’re going to have an operation, you really never know when those things are gonna happen. Another example is that a family member is sick critically sick like your grandmas in the hospital type of sick those are scenarios where you kind of have to cancel you don’t but you should

  • @blxejaysc4691
    @blxejaysc4691 4 года назад +4

    What age should you really start babysitting at?

    • @elliepearse3145
      @elliepearse3145 4 года назад

      I’m starting at 15 but i think just when you feel ready / have enough knowledge to start. It all depends on the parents, some prefer babysitters to be older whilst some don’t really mind

    • @alicemattioli833
      @alicemattioli833 4 года назад

      I started at 12 (I’m 13 now), but it depends on when you feel ready. I also knew the parents and the kids beforehand, so that made it a lot easier.

    • @jocelynstegner445
      @jocelynstegner445 4 года назад

      I'm only ten but I'm very mature and love kids and am very exited to start my buissness with my friends

  • @thewitch2810
    @thewitch2810 3 года назад +1

    What can I do if I'm just getting started with babysitting? The only experience I have is with my baby sister, but I really want to put myself out there!

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  3 года назад

      Here is how to get started: safesitter.org/creating-a-babysitting-resume-accepting-your-first-job/

  • @evelynhurst811
    @evelynhurst811 4 года назад +2

    Any specific tips for 12 to 13-year-olds?

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  4 года назад +2

      About babysitting? Basically everything on my channel :)

  • @jilliangleason7138
    @jilliangleason7138 4 года назад +2

    How much should I be paid per hour if I’m babysitting a 3,8, and 9 year old? I am 13 years old. Thank you :) ❤️

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  4 года назад +1

      How much experience do you have and have you taken class like Safe Sitter? Also, what's minimum wage in your area? There is a lot to consider. Have you watched my video on how to get paid? It might help!

    • @jilliangleason7138
      @jilliangleason7138 4 года назад +1

      Babysitter Boss oh okay thank you! I’ll go watch it right now

  • @Herbsandspices-p4f
    @Herbsandspices-p4f 4 года назад +3

    I’m twelve and finally allowed to babysit my younger cousins! But I’m a little worried about asking my uncle and aunt for money. What do I do?

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  4 года назад +1

      It can be challenging with family. Maybe ask your parent if they think it is appropriate to ask. They may even suggest it on your behalf as well.

    • @Herbsandspices-p4f
      @Herbsandspices-p4f 4 года назад +1

      😊 thanks. Helped me a lot.

  • @quietismyjam
    @quietismyjam 3 года назад

    question: during covid, what should a babysitter do instead of shaking hands? thanks!

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  3 года назад

      Great question! At this time, eliminate the handshake and focus on eye contact, smiling, and your greeting skills.

  • @girlyyy8086
    @girlyyy8086 2 года назад +1

    What age can u start babysitting cause I am 13

  • @latenights144
    @latenights144 3 года назад

    We like the same ice cream flavors lol

  • @apriljukes7873
    @apriljukes7873 3 года назад

    I love this because I’m 11 old enough

  • @dropthetext2995
    @dropthetext2995 4 года назад +1

    I’m actually Red Cross Certified - meaning I know how to handle injuries and infants as well as CPR and the Heimlich Maneuver. I’m just wondering how I should get some jobs? Do I post a flier, give out business cards, or use social media?

    • @sam_anthatr
      @sam_anthatr 4 года назад

      I am also Red Cross Certified and I love babysitting, but it can be hard to get jobs sometimes. I personally posted flyers around my neighborhood, but not everyone feels safe doing that. I know all of my neighbors very well, so I felt safe. An excellent way to get jobs is by word of mouth, telling family members to spread the word to coworkers, friends and other family members that you are ready to start babysitting. If you start telling people you are ready, you may want to make some business cards you can give to them, with basic information, like your name, number, price rates, and where you got your training. If you decide flyers are best for you, I suggest you put a landline, or family phone number instead of your mobile cell phone, just for your safety. I wouldn't suggest to post about babysitting on social media, but that's just my opinion. Use your good judgment about how to advertise, and be professional to your clients and I'm sure you'll do a great job. Hope this helps❤

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  4 года назад

      Creating a resume is a great first step! Here is a great way to get started safesitter.org/creating-a-babysitting-resume-accepting-your-first-job/

    • @dropthetext2995
      @dropthetext2995 4 года назад

      @Liggy I’m a teenager, so I’m not sure my mom would be comfortable with Facebook - I just wanted to know some good ideas to get the word around and snag some jobs if possible. Thank you for the suggestion, though.

    • @corinne5364
      @corinne5364 2 года назад

      social media! specifically facebook

  • @brianspall8956
    @brianspall8956 3 года назад

    What happens if you're late late and they like you like they're like a rude family to babysitters or like what do you like what would you bring like would you bring toys that stuff

  • @gachaangel5840
    @gachaangel5840 4 года назад

    If they are getting into your stuff should you get in their stuff?

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  4 года назад

      Nope! Take the high road and respect their privacy.

    • @gachaangel5840
      @gachaangel5840 4 года назад

      Thank you very much Babysitter Boss. I am just a kid I just wanted to know for when I am older

  • @xxrainbow_wafflexx
    @xxrainbow_wafflexx 3 года назад

    im trying to make some money me and my friends wanna move but if ur parents are uncomfortable with going to take care of strangers kids what could I do?

  • @devss4982
    @devss4982 4 года назад

    , what do I do if one of the children throws up but i have emetophobia(fear of vomiting)

  • @Man_Baby
    @Man_Baby 3 года назад +6

    When your 11 turning 12 and you have no idea how to be an adult 👁👄👁

    • @zq1532
      @zq1532 3 года назад +2

      I’m gonna start babysitting this summer. And I’ll get my vaccine this summer too!

    • @TackyTuesdaysPPP
      @TackyTuesdaysPPP 3 года назад

      you don't need to be an adult, you're still a child lmao

  • @craft-a-holic1392
    @craft-a-holic1392 3 года назад

    I want to do babysitting when I'm a little bit older but what age should I start at??

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  3 года назад +1

      Most babysitters start in middle school. It helps to take a class like Safe Sitter before you start. It will give you the confidence you need.

  • @emeldak5617
    @emeldak5617 2 года назад

    How do u ask your neighbours if they need a babysitter

  • @timaurimorton478
    @timaurimorton478 5 лет назад

    How do you handle things if your sick and the parents haves no body to babysit

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  5 лет назад

      Give the parents as much advanced notice as possible. Call them and be very direct. Say something like, "I'm very sorry, but I won't be able to babysit for you because I am sick today." If you have the name of a friend to suggest that can fill-in for you, that is always helpful. Ask them to call you again when they need a babysitter. Sick babysitters lead to sick kiddos and parents don't want that!

    • @timaurimorton478
      @timaurimorton478 5 лет назад

      Ok thank you

  • @ziggythemutt8530
    @ziggythemutt8530 3 года назад

    How do you deal with older kids with naughty behavior I’m meaning ages 9, 10 and 11

    • @subscribee9792
      @subscribee9792 3 года назад

      I think that once kids hit ages 10 and 11, they can go to a certain room of the house where there are no fun activities or things to do, that's not the room, like the dining room table. Keep an eye on the child to make sure they're not doing anything to keep them entertained but that they're just kind of bored and in their thoughts thinking about the situation and calming down a little bit. Giving them their independence and space to manage their emotions better on their own is important at this age, and it's a bit of a punishment at first since it's not something they might find much importance in and they may not see the meaning of it, but if you send them to the area and tell them that you want them to think about the situation and calm down. Depending on how old they are, which in this case they are about 10 or 11, give them about 10 or 11 minutes in this place and see if they look more calm.. if they had a big attitude or were very upset. Instead of having a 9-year-old sit at the table, have them either sit down in the corner of a room facing the wall, or standing and facing the wall in a corner of a room, and if it's possible, a completely empty room without absolutely anything in it but a chair if you decide for them to sit down. Just give them their space there, and let them sit for 9 minutes. Then you want to explain why they were put there, depending on the way they handled the situation or their attitude/actions.. and also explain why these actions were unacceptable or why you felt they needed to think about things. While you're saying this, make sure that they're giving you eye contact and remind them to listen carefully to what you are saying because you are giving them the respect they deserve and that you deserve respect back. Next, you can ask them about their side of the story and how they feel, and find a compromise or a solution together on how to act better instead of doing what got them there in the first place. Before you find the solution, make sure to ask them what they thought about and if they realized anything. After asking them one time and giving them one warning to give you respect when you're talking to them just like you are giving them, and they do not listen, give them another couple minutes to think about things, whether they tell you that they are ready to talk respectfully right before the second round or not, you give them a warning and that's it. That was their chance to redeem themselves without going back into timeout but they lost that chance, and they have to learn to pay for it. Make sure that by the end you are clear on how to have a better day, after understanding their opinion and their thoughts, explaining your side of the story, and how their actions were unacceptable and breaking rules. You have to explain why they were there, don't just put them there and expect them to learn or understand anything. But be firm also while you're open to hearing them out during their chance to speak. There's listening, and eye contact while the other person is talking. And you have to be as respectful as possible, no scoffing or sighing or eye rolling or whispers under breath, and remember that you have to model this behavior as well, so this shouldn't come from you while they are speaking either. Pull them aside in private if you are in public and give them a warning on how their behavior needs to change, and warn them that if it doesn't change there will be consequences when they get home, and stick to that. If they are throwing a big fit or tantrum in public, you can use the same system by pulling them aside and giving them the warning come and if they continue, remove them from the store and go home to immediately follow through with consequences. Don't forget to make sure that your role is clear as the person in charge. And also don't forget to ask for an apology and give a hug to the kids, specifically when they are a little younger

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  3 года назад

      Have you tried this? ruclips.net/video/ygmW8Y5lulo/видео.html

  • @RondelleC
    @RondelleC 2 года назад

    How to you Handle bully’s
    From Sammy

  • @moonlight_bunny_love_u5490
    @moonlight_bunny_love_u5490 4 года назад

    I'm 10 years old can I babysit?

  • @nbcbb79
    @nbcbb79 Год назад

    I am a parent 😂😂😂

  • @Hannah20342
    @Hannah20342 3 года назад

    I’m flying away to Darwin

  • @user-wo6ub3mh8q
    @user-wo6ub3mh8q 3 года назад

    Who else is 12 and is starting to babysit

  • @Graciefaves
    @Graciefaves 3 года назад

    when i get sickand cant babysit i get my sister to fill in for me

  • @sehatyt2208
    @sehatyt2208 3 года назад

    No can't shake it is Corona time 2021 not 2019. 😳

  • @Hannah20342
    @Hannah20342 3 года назад

    I’m turning 12 soon

  • @ws2024
    @ws2024 3 года назад

    i’m babysitting a 4 yr old and the mom is very rude, and cancels super last minute and tries to move the times a lot. i’m honestly sick of it and it’s rly irritating

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  3 года назад

      The next time they ask you to babysit, turn the job down. They need to be more respectful of your time.

  • @pathakusa2003
    @pathakusa2003 4 года назад

    What if the kid did something wrong and you dont know how to punish them?

    • @BabysitterBoss
      @BabysitterBoss  4 года назад

      I have a video on dealing with bad behavior hacks. Check it out! Also, don't forget my 4 rules!
      Be in control of yourself.
      Be in control of the children.
      Never use physical punishment like shaking, slapping, spanking, pinching, poking, or hitting.
      Never hurt with words.

    • @pathakusa2003
      @pathakusa2003 4 года назад

      uh thanks? i guess

  • @friesandburgers4162
    @friesandburgers4162 4 года назад +3

    Me only 13 watching this but super good with little kids: 👁️👄👁️

  • @andrewjun3835
    @andrewjun3835 3 года назад +1

    Hi. I just turned 15. And uhh. Is this job only for girls? Cuz i feel like most baby sisters are women. I really wanna make some money

  • @azukarzuchastux8066
    @azukarzuchastux8066 2 года назад

    Romans 10:9
    King James Version
    9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

  • @Brooklynheilig
    @Brooklynheilig 3 года назад

    I have a babysitting club called the super sitters and I am only 8 I like my own comment

  • @jessg07
    @jessg07 3 года назад

    i'm 13 and i just got offered a job to babysit my neighbour so i'm panicking😭

    • @nataliegoldberg9892
      @nataliegoldberg9892 3 года назад +1

      hey, i'm 14 and i am in the same situation and i am very anxious lol. I just recommend watching youtube videos of tips, I am doing that right now and it does not seem hard. Good luck :))

    • @jessg07
      @jessg07 3 года назад

      @@nataliegoldberg9892 thanks good luck to you too:)

  • @GirlwhocrushesWakkoWarner666
    @GirlwhocrushesWakkoWarner666 Год назад +1

    who watches this videos even though your not even a babysitter