My husband of 12 years passed away last year and i just have to say, going through trauma therapy and seeking after god, has shown me that our entire marriage had been built on a trauma bond. We both were Christians and because of us both being unhealed and immature, the results were a Codependent/Narcissistic abusive marriage. Thank you bro Jay for speaking on this, its more prevalent then people want to admit! Frfr! ❤❤❤ God bless❤
Your comment really touched me. My husband and I have been together 12 years (married 2) and also built our marriage on a trauma bond (we both went through labor trafficking together and built financial independence together for our freedom) but thinking about staying with him ten years... or losing him to death... wow. I met Jesus after we got together, and always said I'm not ready for dating but allowed him to have his way. Hmmm
@@FlyHoneyBre it is a process, but once you get free from the bond, set boundaries and begin to heal for yourself, God will walk wit you every step of the way. I'm praying for you to recieve clarity in your situation and the strength to accept what God tells you, you need to do to be free. I love you, girl! Blessings 🥰💯🙏❤️🩹
I just wanted to comment… YES! Oh. My. Goodness. YES! Glory to GOD! In the midst of a divorce, 23 years married. He pretended to be a Christian. My children and I know differently. Fast and pray, before you marry- and if they won’t fast and pray with you- that’s a ‘tap out’ sign.
God I ask that you forgive me for my sins and for not seeing the truth. Thank you god for delivering me from my last relationship. Please show me what I need to heal. Please show me what I need to be delivered from and show me my purpose. Amen
Thank you Evangelist Jordon for sharing God’s work. This video was definitely speaking to me. Could you start making a series of videos helping people to overcome the ungodly bonds and soul ties. Guide us in the direction of the righteousness of Jesus so we can heal and move forward through Christ Jesus. Amen ❤🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
JORDAN I don't seek my will. I seek GOD'S will. I don't look for a relationship. I am just happy to be me. I would not date any man. I find peace within me. I am not of the flesh I do not lust about anything. I have no desires of the world. I am crucified with JESUS. I seek JESUS first and and seek HIS PRESENCE. MY purpose in life is to follow JESUS and help souls who need guidance. I visit my elderly friends and spend time with them. I am a child of GOD. I seek GOD'S KINGDOM FIRST.
Have a strong relationship with God, your Heavenly Father daily. Repent trashing your own body with ungodly experiences. Trauma-bonds happen when sexting+++ with strangers etc - you deserve to be seen heard loved and wanted 1st people. Stop trashing yourself - familiar spirits is correct - repeating patterns. Avoid Tinder & Grinder etc of course. Pray and ask if this person is for you, & watch them disappear. Wait at least 12 weeks to get to know someone and share your genuine self. If they don't like it - move on without having shared your Christ-like body, so move on with SELF-RESPECT intact. (Consider that your body belongs to God anyway). Wise words Preacher❤❤❤ Stop the cycle - God 1st 2nd 3rd - heal HEAL ❤️🔥✝️🕊 Clean you soul- will, emotions & mind - through Christ! Every word correct❤❤❤. Praise our Living God, our Heavenly Father, for your wise words & powerful message today thank you. If we take care of our needs and loneliness- we wouldnt even be tempted
This is preaching to me big time, brother, thank you! I'm in a humbling season, finally yielding truly to God, to really healing, having God first in my life and heart and trusting Him with regard to the fulfillment of my deep desire for covenant marriage and love - which was something I had made an idol of. And last but not least, probably for the first time enjoying my singleness season. God bless you, Jordan!
IWENT THROUGH ALL THAT FOR MANY YEARS WITH DIFFERENT RELATIONSHIPS UNTIL I FINALLY MET MY HUSBAND WHO MAKES UP FOR EVERYTHING I WAS PUT THROUGH THANK YOU GOD HALLELUJA AND WE BOTH RECIEVED CHRIST NOW GOD IS THE CENTER OF OUR MARRIAGE
Wow, 🤯♥️, this "bombed my heart" not in a bad way, but like just obliterated an old wound scar, - like I thought you had heart scars forever but what you just said, burned my heart yet, it's like cauterizing a wound- like when Beth Moore would teach about getting a skinned knee. It just didn't click it could be attached to heart posture too. Like who can heal scars? Just Jesus I 💭🤔 heart noted that for reflection 🙏 thank you Mr. Larson
Listening to this reminds me what God reviled to me years ago. LOOKING FOR LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES. seek ye first the kingdom of heaven. I learned that 21 years 🙌🏾. When you find you, and fall in love with Jesus you don't mind being alone.😊
Wow God has really blessed you and called you to be his voice to gather his people and to gather the ones that don't believe.. My husband is agnostic I keep praying for him before Jesus,comes back, oh yes❤️ but it can be challenging dealing with and someone who doesn't believe since I lost my job in October of last year I'm like on an adventure and it's exciting getting closer to Jesus,God,Holy spirit. Amen!
Note ✍️ ✨ AWESOME SPIRITUAL INFORMATION MESSAGE 🕊️🙏✝️🙏🕊️... THANK U BROTHER, for your channel...... I enjoy this spiritual information guides from the Holy Spirit 🕊️✝️🕊️STAY BLESS ✨🙏✨ BROTHER....AMEN ....
God sometimes shows you your ordained spouse before you have healed to wake you up to the relationship you would have within his purpose for you. I have had to go through a season of obedience before because I was becoming codependent and had the guy I was talking to on a pedestal and God wouldn’t have it. God brought me back to him, he is very protective especially of his chosen ones. I’m grateful he spoke to me because I will be better for it, I’m staying single until I am told otherwise by God.
These are incredible FACTS for my son to hear and learn, and his half brothers who are visiting him...every word is 100% on point! GREAT PREACHING Jordan! Praying this teaching will get past the blinders that the enemy is using to deceive them from knowing these TRUTHS, IN Jesus Mighty Name I pray....
I came across one of your RUclips shorts and I am a new subscriber. You are a God send to me , it’s like we both speak the same language. May God / Jesus bless you in abundance with Holy Ghost and Power 🙏🏼✝️🔥🕊️👑
Hi Brother Jordan What advice can you give for someone that is already married , young or old , with or without children as I know that this subject is really difficult. God Bless you .
Usually if you think it's a good idea, it's not.. Gods been working on me too ask him prior to doing absolutely anything. Down too the food I eat even nd I've realized it's to build that relationship and submission too christ as well as discerning his voice completely.. Narcissistic trauma kills your whole self n makes you confused on whats right and wrong always thinking you make the wrong decision (which you usually do without God n filled with trauma) been in isolation for almost a year now and it's been the best thing that's ever happened too me. Built my faith, relationship wit God and learned to be alone which always scared me even as a child due to abuse. So if anyone is fighting isolation and God keeps showing you it's what needs to happen just submit too it. He becomes everything you've ever needed y'all... Friend, father, and the love you've never felt from a human. Good chance you'll fall but don't let it keep you in the cycle of continuing to fall cuz he WILL pick you up! But he's going to let whatever is necessary happen to have you come back like a scared puppy 😂 it's all too teach you his way is the ONLY way. The right way. Yaweh.. God bless 🙏💙🙌
There's another definition of codependency, too. I'm codependent, but I'm not afraid of life without him, I prefer being alone. The other aspect of codependent thinking is a perversion of the servant's heart. It's being convinced that you are needed and making a difference. And believing it's for a good cause.
Thank you so much .everything you just taught me is exactly what I am going through righ tnow. I thought I had found the most beautiful girl in the world. But I was wrong. She is the most evil person I have ever met in my life. I have never experienced narcissism before so I was totally blind to it. But after doing some research I'm now figuring out some things I wish I knew before I got hurt the way I did. What's really crazy is lately I've really been wanting this relationship with God. I've always prayed and talked to God, but here lately I've been very serious about wanting to be closer with him. And now what really blows my mind is how I found you and how you hit on everything I'm needing to hear and learn. Thank you very much and God bless you for ever brother..
wow the holy spirit literally said that to me after I got married to try to create righteousness (because my boyfriend refused to honor my decision to become a born again Christian virgin and I didn't kick him to the curb)
I know this all to be true through experience, God is so good and can reveal to you your true Identity ! Through betrayal and a deep heartache is when Jesus came to me and told me to pass my heart too him daily . He bound it and worked on it everyday and has now called me to sanctification and obedience. I gladly bow my head to the king and May I never put anyone before him again.
Yea watching lecture videos of Jordan peterson on narcissistic psychopaths really opened my eyes a long time ago. Keep someone in such a spot it's almost like their trapped. Break legitimate laws even but still don't make amends. Type of stuff I've been through is dam near unspeakable.
I don't ever want to date again, all my ex boyfriends, family and friends are narcs. I am just waiting on the Lord Jesus Christ to harpazo us in the very soon coming rapture hallelujah maranatha 🙏🏼
Demonic cycles don't break me. I break demonic cycles. Satan need me on his team coming at me in my dream. Prayer is my portion granted to me in a double portion. Break an evil altar in the name Jesus. He will never falter. Sever every trauma bond replace it with The Chosen Bond. SNATCHED up by The King of kings. I'll always be His LOVELY QUEEN. 💕🩷💞 (& that's on FACTS. NO CAP).
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I love my single season. My healing journey with Jesus. ❤
My husband of 12 years passed away last year and i just have to say, going through trauma therapy and seeking after god, has shown me that our entire marriage had been built on a trauma bond. We both were Christians and because of us both being unhealed and immature, the results were a Codependent/Narcissistic abusive marriage. Thank you bro Jay for speaking on this, its more prevalent then people want to admit! Frfr! ❤❤❤ God bless❤
Your comment really touched me. My husband and I have been together 12 years (married 2) and also built our marriage on a trauma bond (we both went through labor trafficking together and built financial independence together for our freedom) but thinking about staying with him ten years... or losing him to death... wow. I met Jesus after we got together, and always said I'm not ready for dating but allowed him to have his way. Hmmm
@@FlyHoneyBre it is a process, but once you get free from the bond, set boundaries and begin to heal for yourself, God will walk wit you every step of the way. I'm praying for you to recieve clarity in your situation and the strength to accept what God tells you, you need to do to be free. I love you, girl! Blessings 🥰💯🙏❤️🩹
I just wanted to comment… YES!
Oh. My. Goodness. YES!
Glory to GOD!
In the midst of a divorce, 23 years married. He pretended to be a Christian. My children and I know differently.
Fast and pray, before you marry- and if they won’t fast and pray with you- that’s a ‘tap out’ sign.
God I ask that you forgive me for my sins and for not seeing the truth. Thank you god for delivering me from my last relationship. Please show me what I need to heal. Please show me what I need to be delivered from and show me my purpose. Amen
You are preaching!!!
Iam loving my single season
Thank you Evangelist Jordon for sharing God’s work. This video was definitely speaking to me. Could you start making a series of videos helping people to overcome the ungodly bonds and soul ties. Guide us in the direction of the righteousness of Jesus so we can heal and move forward through Christ Jesus. Amen ❤🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
JORDAN I don't seek my will. I seek GOD'S will. I don't look for a relationship. I am just happy to be me. I would not date any man. I find peace within me. I am not of the flesh I do not lust about anything. I have no desires of the world. I am crucified with JESUS. I seek JESUS first and and seek HIS PRESENCE. MY purpose in life is to follow JESUS and help souls who need guidance. I visit my elderly friends and spend time with them. I am a child of GOD. I seek GOD'S KINGDOM FIRST.
Have a strong relationship with God, your Heavenly Father daily. Repent trashing your own body with ungodly experiences. Trauma-bonds happen when sexting+++ with strangers etc - you deserve to be seen heard loved and wanted 1st people. Stop trashing yourself - familiar spirits is correct - repeating patterns.
Avoid Tinder & Grinder etc of course. Pray and ask if this person is for you, & watch them disappear. Wait at least 12 weeks to get to know someone and share your genuine self. If they don't like it - move on without having shared your Christ-like body, so move on with SELF-RESPECT intact.
(Consider that your body belongs to God anyway). Wise words Preacher❤❤❤ Stop the cycle - God 1st 2nd 3rd - heal
HEAL ❤️🔥✝️🕊 Clean you soul- will, emotions & mind - through Christ! Every word correct❤❤❤. Praise our Living God, our Heavenly Father, for your wise words & powerful message today thank you. If we take care of our needs and loneliness- we wouldnt even be tempted
This is preaching to me big time, brother, thank you! I'm in a humbling season, finally yielding truly to God, to really healing, having God first in my life and heart and trusting Him with regard to the fulfillment of my deep desire for covenant marriage and love - which was something I had made an idol of. And last but not least, probably for the first time enjoying my singleness season. God bless you, Jordan!
Thank you for all you do 😊🙏🙏
IWENT THROUGH ALL THAT FOR MANY YEARS WITH DIFFERENT RELATIONSHIPS UNTIL I FINALLY MET MY HUSBAND WHO MAKES UP FOR EVERYTHING I WAS PUT THROUGH THANK YOU GOD HALLELUJA AND WE BOTH RECIEVED CHRIST NOW GOD IS THE CENTER OF OUR MARRIAGE
That's true, my entire life feels fake. I've said that to a couple close friends. It's a superficial reality. Disconnected from the real me.
Wow, 🤯♥️, this "bombed my heart" not in a bad way, but like just obliterated an old wound scar, - like I thought you had heart scars forever but what you just said, burned my heart yet, it's like cauterizing a wound- like when Beth Moore would teach about getting a skinned knee.
It just didn't click it could be attached to heart posture too.
Like who can heal scars? Just Jesus I 💭🤔 heart noted that for reflection 🙏 thank you Mr. Larson
Wow this dude knows what he's talking about about
You fall in love with an individuals "potential" and NOT who they actually are. Very dangerous place to be...
I don't think Christians "date". We wait for God to speak to us about the right person. Xo
God thank you for delivering me you are so great and so worthy to be praised!!! Good word brother good word!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This teaching is a blessing, you don't find teachers or preaches teaching like this anymore.
Listening to this reminds me what God reviled to me years ago. LOOKING FOR LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES. seek ye first the kingdom of heaven. I learned that 21 years 🙌🏾. When you find you, and fall in love with Jesus you don't mind being alone.😊
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12 out of 16 yrs of abuse all forms from a narcissist with a man who can't be alone praise God I have healed from it all Amen!!!
Wow God has really blessed you and called you to be his voice to gather his people and to gather the ones that don't believe.. My husband is agnostic I keep praying for him before Jesus,comes back, oh yes❤️ but it can be challenging dealing with and someone who doesn't believe since I lost my job in October of last year I'm like on an adventure and it's exciting getting closer to Jesus,God,Holy spirit. Amen!
Self efficiency disorder!
Note ✍️ ✨ AWESOME SPIRITUAL INFORMATION MESSAGE 🕊️🙏✝️🙏🕊️... THANK U BROTHER, for your channel...... I enjoy this spiritual information guides from the Holy Spirit 🕊️✝️🕊️STAY BLESS ✨🙏✨ BROTHER....AMEN ....
God sometimes shows you your ordained spouse before you have healed to wake you up to the relationship you would have within his purpose for you. I have had to go through a season of obedience before because I was becoming codependent and had the guy I was talking to on a pedestal and God wouldn’t have it. God brought me back to him, he is very protective especially of his chosen ones. I’m grateful he spoke to me because I will be better for it, I’m staying single until I am told otherwise by God.
I can relate with this. Lord have mercy
Amen, thank you this message is so good.
🙏 amen
These are incredible FACTS for my son to hear and learn, and his half brothers who are visiting him...every word is 100% on point! GREAT PREACHING Jordan! Praying this teaching will get past the blinders that the enemy is using to deceive them from knowing these TRUTHS, IN Jesus Mighty Name I pray....
I came across one of your RUclips shorts and I am a new subscriber. You are a God send to me , it’s like we both speak the same language. May God / Jesus bless you in abundance with Holy Ghost and Power 🙏🏼✝️🔥🕊️👑
You are talking to me and I am learning thank you
Amen! I will be coming with more like this the next couple days on narcissism and life sucking spirits 💯
Hi Brother Jordan
What advice can you give for someone that is already married , young or old , with or without children as I know that this subject is really difficult.
God Bless you .
Usually if you think it's a good idea, it's not.. Gods been working on me too ask him prior to doing absolutely anything. Down too the food I eat even nd I've realized it's to build that relationship and submission too christ as well as discerning his voice completely.. Narcissistic trauma kills your whole self n makes you confused on whats right and wrong always thinking you make the wrong decision (which you usually do without God n filled with trauma) been in isolation for almost a year now and it's been the best thing that's ever happened too me. Built my faith, relationship wit God and learned to be alone which always scared me even as a child due to abuse. So if anyone is fighting isolation and God keeps showing you it's what needs to happen just submit too it. He becomes everything you've ever needed y'all... Friend, father, and the love you've never felt from a human. Good chance you'll fall but don't let it keep you in the cycle of continuing to fall cuz he WILL pick you up! But he's going to let whatever is necessary happen to have you come back like a scared puppy 😂 it's all too teach you his way is the ONLY way. The right way. Yaweh.. God bless 🙏💙🙌
There's another definition of codependency, too. I'm codependent, but I'm not afraid of life without him, I prefer being alone. The other aspect of codependent thinking is a perversion of the servant's heart. It's being convinced that you are needed and making a difference. And believing it's for a good cause.
Thank you so much .everything you just taught me is exactly what I am going through righ tnow. I thought I had found the most beautiful girl in the world. But I was wrong. She is the most evil person I have ever met in my life. I have never experienced narcissism before so I was totally blind to it. But after doing some research I'm now figuring out some things I wish I knew before I got hurt the way I did.
What's really crazy is lately I've really been wanting this relationship with God. I've always prayed and talked to God, but here lately I've been very serious about wanting to be closer with him. And now what really blows my mind is how I found you and how you hit on everything I'm needing to hear and learn. Thank you very much and God bless you for ever brother..
Such an amazing message ❤ This is all true! I have been single for 5 years and been healing and God has worked on me and help me see my worth ❤
Thx for the lessons your very anoithing man gods bless you amen Greetings Nikink
wow the holy spirit literally said that to me after I got married to try to create righteousness (because my boyfriend refused to honor my decision to become a born again Christian virgin and I didn't kick him to the curb)
Borderline personality
Narcissism
This was me. Thank you, Jesus, I'm free. These are the same things I post on my channel!
I know this all to be true through experience, God is so good and can reveal to you your true Identity ! Through betrayal and a deep heartache is when Jesus came to me and told me to pass my heart too him daily . He bound it and worked on it everyday and has now called me to sanctification and obedience. I gladly bow my head to the king and May I never put anyone before him again.
Whether we believe it or not everyone gets payoff one way or another. Whether it is stable and functional or disfunctional
Yea watching lecture videos of Jordan peterson on narcissistic psychopaths really opened my eyes a long time ago. Keep someone in such a spot it's almost like their trapped. Break legitimate laws even but still don't make amends. Type of stuff I've been through is dam near unspeakable.
Ok that was probably me- I must have had an Ahab spirit. Now what?
Amen I agree I was thinking about this today ❤
PURE ANOINTED WISDOM IN THIS TEACHING!!!
Could you please 🙏 do a video on blasphemy against the holy spirit
Amen brother this word is very important for the younger generation or n for believers God bless you
🎯🎯 Be happy alone with God once you have healed before you seek a spouse.
Co-dependency I had a different definition in mind, thought noted.
Thankyou Lord for your Word that is our Daily Bread
I really need deliverance for so many things.
Spoke to me Thankyou brother in Christ
Women were created to be a helper to man. Not depend on one to make her happy. We don’t depend on anyone to make us Happy Amen
Wise counsel Pastor, duly noted ❤
This really helped me. Thank you.
Trauma bond, thought noted -
I needed this word thank you brother
Bless you Jordan
So True 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks!
I don't ever want to date again, all my ex boyfriends, family and friends are narcs. I am just waiting on the Lord Jesus Christ to harpazo us in the very soon coming rapture hallelujah maranatha 🙏🏼
If your Thinking Every person you've ever Dated is a Narc, along with your entire Family, Friends, etc . . . then it's definitely You.
Demonic cycles don't break me. I break demonic cycles. Satan need me on his team coming at me in my dream. Prayer is my portion granted to me in a double portion. Break an evil altar in the name Jesus. He will never falter. Sever every trauma bond replace it with The Chosen Bond. SNATCHED up by The King of kings. I'll always be His LOVELY QUEEN. 💕🩷💞 (& that's on FACTS. NO CAP).