EXPOSING the Reality of TRAUMA and its Effects on Your Finances (It Affected Me)
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- Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
- On this episode of The Table with Anthony ONeal, Kobe Campbell joins to dive deep into the subject of trauma. She unravels the mysteries surrounding trauma, shedding light on what it truly is and providing invaluable insights on how to identify if you've experienced trauma, and emphasizes the significance of healing and shares the transformative power it holds. Discover the profound impact trauma can have on our lives, relationships, and overall well-being. Prepare to be enlightened as we explore the importance of recognizing and addressing trauma for a journey towards healing and resilience!
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Please have her be a regular on your show 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I felt I was in a therapy session. She hit the nail on every topic that I really needed to hear!
Wow!!! She is definitely spot on! The reason why I have 5 jobs and several businesses because it is a trauma response for not being able to depend on my deadbeat dad. I'll post a video about this on my RUclips channel soon.
Same! I had 5 jobs at one time and a husband but still felt like I had to do it all myself. Absentee fathers and that rejection wound takes a long time to heal. I wish you well on your healing journey.
I can relate
Just discovered this video today and I must say it was sooo powerful and eye opening to listen to.
New subscriber here and I enjoyed every bit of this-yes, I listened until the end at I’d love to hear longer conversations about this. 45 mins was great and it was a lot to digest (in a good way) but when it comes to these conversations I’d definitely listen for longer. Easy listening and thought-provoking conversations executed well! Again, I enjoyed every bit of this. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏾
Please have her on the show on a regular. She has the anointing for this.
This therapist is spot on. There's another book called "It Didn't Start With Me" by Mark Wolynn that talks about how trauma is passed down.
Yes!! My bestie is reading it now and passing it to me after she’s done ! I’m about to order Kobe book tho until then 🥰💕
Paused the show and ordered the book immediately plus paid the $2.99 to get it later today. Everything she’s talking about I resonate with so much.
As the oldest of 5 I went through so much trauma growing up due to unrealistic expectations, responsibilities, etc that I didn’t even realize was traumatic. Then I experienced several deaths in my family within a 6 month span and it rocked me to my core. Additionally once I became a mother myself, that trauma became heightened.
Over the last two years I’ve done a deep dive “healing journey” to heal because I had the two things KOBE mentioned - awareness and curiosity. I made a ton of progress, but realized that after acknowledging that this pain was real and affecting me negatively and working with those in my life who contributed to it, I eventually hit a road block. I knew what caused it. I knew my experiences were real. But, I didn’t know how to healthily move past it. Even with an undergraduate degree in psych there was only so far I could go on my own as some of my trauma is certainly generational (for example, I and one of my brothers are the product of a marital affair).
The holy spirit then told me it was time to hire a therapist and get more help and all of the things that seemed impossible to overcome quickly crumbled because she knew exactly what tools to give me to start moving past these things and it’s been wonderful.
I know this book will be a blessing to me and to others in my family.
Thanks for sharing apart of your story ! I can relate to a lot of it ! I’m definitely looking forward to reading her book as well 🙏🏾
thank you for sharing
@@MrPrincessdlow my pleasure 😊🙏🏾
Please have her back as often as possible. She is on point!
Trauma therapy should be integral to the process of discovering FIRE . They should coexist and are codependent in the struggle to a success life at all ages. The articulation was exquisite and totally allowed for self reflection. 🔥🔥
Ok so Mrs. Kobe Campbell I need you to come back on the show every month. This was a eye opener for me. Love this show. Have to be one of my favorites. Anthony get on it. She’s part of the team. Hired! 😂😁
The tears that are rolling down my face! This is something, a "trauma" therapist is a better for me to research some more. HalleluYah!
Honestly she's the Black Mamba of the therapy! Bring her back 🙏🏾
The patterns that we can't break are tied to the pain that we've never addressed
This was a dope episode, I've received so much download that can definitely help me, please have Kobe back on your show ,she is phenomenal and a knowledgeable woman. It's very important to renew our minds everyday with positive thoughts and to move forward in our daily lives. Our mental is very important and is part of our health.❤👑🙏💯
This episode was full of wisdom and anointing 🙏🇿🇦
Thank you so much for the clarification. Therapy is definitely something that’s important to move forward in a healthy life. I’m 49 and still struggling with leaving the past pain and people behind. You’ve cleared up so much. You have blessed me. Thank you for being a vessel. Blessings…
Please Bring this Queen back ✨ Trauma therapy is definitely needed in the Melanin Community🤎
25:14 is such an important thing. In order to get something you first have to suffer. But as we want to avoid pain, we don't go for the things we want. Which creates another kind of suffering
Literally ordered her book halfway through the episode. Thank you for this content. ❤
She can come on once a week okay okay okay, twice a month!!! But quarterly is not enough!!! I am loving this.
Yes bring Kobe back she and Dr Anita is amazing ❤❤❤
I have been praying about this for a couple of months now. During my "Coffee Time with Jesus" it came on me strong about Emotional Trauma and how it affects our decisions in EVERY area of our lives.
And I haven't been able to shake it; I'm noticing more and more with different people and with myself...the why. And how that why, caused me to do what, to go where and be with whom.
Yassss!!! Let's heal! Bring her back on the regular 🙌🏾
Absolutely 💯 Have this beautiful sister back on regularly😊
It's 90 - 95 percent mental
I need to look up the inner circle
This was too adorable ❤
She definitely is amazing, both of you are 🎉
"""What we don't work out, we act out """ 🗣🗣🗣🎯🎯🎯
I always watch your channel BUT This segment actually resonates with my core! Great job a Anthony & Kobe!
I’ve watched this 3 times so far and each time I get deeper and deeper! This is such a great video on so many levels. Thank you both!!!
Glad it was helpful!
This was sooooo good. Full of grace, God, and wisdom. ❤️🙏🏿
I love that you take notes in each show. It puts us all in that seat of learning.
36:54 to this topic "not project my anger on somebody else"I want to add:
I was conditioned not to get angry. This led me to dysfunctional discernment ability and into problematic situations. When you are now developing a sense of self, and you recognize that someone is treating me the same way, my abuser did. So yes, it is true, that the root of anger came from another person. But when the other human doesn't treat me right, then I have the right to get angry and protect myself.
In my example we are moving on another spectrum, where healthy anger (no violent, whether emotional, nor physical) is supposed to get on the right track in life.
An excellent interpretation of trauma and how parents learn how to be parents from the parenting examples set by their own parents whether they can help it or not.
All I got to say is wow!! This was amazing, please have her again.
This is soooooo good. I feel like I need to pay her for this information.
YES !! Bring this gem of a woman back quarterly !!
Yes Bring Kobe on once a quarter, i love it!
Am like searching myself and ask myself what have I been planting in my kids wow
Anthony, I enjoyed this conversation.💯I am so thankful that you had her on and PLEASE have her on regularly. Also, to learn that she is right here in NC, South Charlotte is a blessing to me. 🙌🏾🥰💃🏾I am buying her book “tuhday” and have shared this intriguing knowledge. Be blessed and thank you for caring, sharing and enhancing OUR🤎community.🙌🏾💯🙏🏾
This topic is a must... There are also others that don't see the cause of the problem. They only view the person for their current whereabouts (economic status; opinions; personality; etc.)-which therefore creates a lot of chaos for everyone involved. And, a lot of individuals put their children, friends, and so on-through unnecessary drama and stress simply for financial reasons and a common livelihood.
Yes, i really enjoyed her and would love to see her on a regular basis
Book ordered! I loved this one got me really thinking about therapy.
I get in trouble, every time I say this, then continues.... 😅😅😅😅
I agree! We absolutely need to heal or at the very best attempt to because healing is a lifetime journey, in my opinion
Yes!!! Please have her back
Alright!
This right here is something serious!!! I need you to call in an appraiser for all these jewels that are being dropped! Sheeeeeesh!!!
This was awesome.
Please have her back
The book is awesome. Heard Kobe on the Truths Table podcast and was truly blessed by her.
That's Wonderful!
This sista therapist is mandatory! well said am committed to healing restoration because I refuse to be willfully apart of the problem but rather apart of the solution.I come to the conclusion I cannot undo my past his grace is sufficient in weaknesses.Sadly many many like the Israelites refuse to accept truth but choosing death = consequences.Iam determined to pursuing becoming a whole individual holistically unlearning relearning unapologetically. 💜🎤💯🙏🏾👏👏
Yes bring her back often. Thank you thank you. You both are such a Blessing from God. Wow I need therapy.... I'm now going to get therapy because of her.
Yes both of them I love Dr. Anita.
Preventative Maintenence 🙌🏾
This was beautiful! Thanks AO and Thank You Kobe! ❤
Great information. Would love to see Kobe back on the show
Great interview! Kobe is extremely knowledgeable. I am ordering the book.
Ues please have Kobe on more!! ❤
This episode absolutely blessed me! thank you!
This is so good. I’m going to listen to this 100x’s
This is good!! ❤️❤️ I would love to see and hear more from her! Thank you for bring her on!
All gold. I’m grateful for the people who dedicate their time to fighting for reparations, restitution and equality etc. I understand that’s not a fight most of us have energy or faith for but we can’t let past disappointments discourage us with that either. If you look at politics today anything can happen. I just want to always honor those still fighting. That’s the only piece I had to add to. Can’t wait to see more from this channel!
Trauma therapist for children is HUGEEEEEEE!!!!!!
Love this!!! Very helpful and revelatory! 😢
Right on time for me. It's like I thought about it and y'all popped up. Crazy.😮❤
Yep, let’s keep her coming please.
I need her on. They is way beyond want. I am getting the book 4sho❤🙏🏽
Yes, put her on the schedule quarterly!
Once a Quarter would be great! Very helpful to learn from others. Readily guidance is very appreciated. That may be revisted when needed.
This was so good yes please have as a regular 🙌🏾
Yes, bring her on more often!
37:08 tool you can use. Not releasing on the wrong person. Allow yourself the time to process.
Yes to Kobe
Love this episode!!!! It was very informative and relatable.
Yes, bring her again please
More Kobe!!!
Great episode! I Luv Kobe too
This is much needed, especially as men. I know there are things I need to deal with as well.
She should definitely be a quarterly, regular guest in the show. She was very practical and insightful.
In the Christian community, we are taught to just pray about everything. Prayer should always be our first resource but not the only resource.
Thank you for this as it has challenged me to do better and be better.
Come on bro! Love it!
Very powerful. Definitely do this again.
Awesome interview definitely getting her book.❤❤
This was great. Whew, I needed this.
Yes, have her on on the regular. So valuable. She really made me dig deep within myself.
Love it!
Yess I agree her and doctor Anita a collaboration of empowerment will be Dynamite ❗❗🎤💜
Just purchased Kobe's audiobook
You better preach kobe
Bring her back. Great discussion
Wow she’s really amazing ❤😊
Yes please her on as a regular
Love this!!!
You've been producing some great shows lately.
Exactly Anthony 💯
This is so good!!! 😮😊❤
Bring her back!!!
This was great!
Yes, bring her on quarterly!
Just 14 min in, and I am loving this content ❤
Interesting conversation ❤
Great segment
I love this, this was so deep
Ready!!!
Love it!
My GOD!!! 32:51 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I'm in therapy but this is FIRE!!!!!
Bring her back!
This was amazing!!!
This was powerful
She's good!!