I agree that if you step out of God’s will and marry someone who God didn’t intend for you that there will be some sort of consequence to it and you wouldn’t get that 100% even if after time you’ve stepped back into his will. Though He may work it all out for your good in the end because of His abounding love and mercy; marrying the one God didn’t intend for you may come with unnecessary challenges and difficulties that you wouldn’t have gone through by just marrying the one he has for you in the first place. Just my thoughts. 🤷🏽♀️
amennnnn i totally agree with this!! it happened to a loved one of mine. she married wrong, and although GOD still blessed her with children, and grand children, and she lives a beautiful life, there is an aspect of hardship that she has experienced for the length of the marriage and an aspect of beauty that she will never experience because she married wrong. this is why we need to FEAR the Lord and make decisions from that place and not feelings.
Stepping out from God's Will has consequences... God restores but doesnt take away all consequences. Thats outlines the difference btw Perfect Will and Permissive Will
Personally, God is very intentional!! Meaning, if your will is to be married, God would have prepared someone for us before we even stepped onto this earth! Now.. what happens if we go outside of his will? If you and the guy/girl are able to stay together peacefully (since God hates divorce), and you continue to follow and trust God, then I believe God will make a way and his promise will still be fulfilled. God’s plan will always and forever be better than our plan, so you probably will have much more problems with this other person, rather than if you just followed his original will for your life! We all know in the end, God works for the good of those who love him, but the journey may be “rockier” than he intended.
It’s a 2 way street to be fair, “man”and God. As soon as “man” comes to God, then there’s that scale balance where the “will” of the 2 parties are placed. Now a man must displace his will and place God’s will to receive directions from Him. As long as this is in place, your steps are ordered and the decisions you make are essentially and literally are in God’s will, including the decision of who you’ll marry.
When it comes to marriage, a man must FIND his wife. Out of the many, you must find your wife/husband. God provides direction for paths to cross, and your duty is to discern what God has led you to
I don't think there's a one, I think that feeds into a fantasy and a need for humans to have that One person that meets all their needs. I think God presents people suitable for us and we have a choice whether or not we take that person as a husband/wife.
I really believe God has power to ensure his will comes to pass. Even in instances in the Bible where people ran away from the will of God eg. Jonah God did whatever it took to realign him. We have an individual purpose and joint purposes in marriage surely there must be a preordained partner?
3:46 my thing with the 1 person is what if that person dies before their time or takes their own life, ultimately that leaves that one person to be alone. Also the Adam and Eve blueprint can’t really be reflected in todays blueprint as they decided to choose independency by eating from the fruit at their own will so it changed a few aspects as there wasn’t going to be a concern of one making their own choice and choosing God’s will if they hadn’t eaten from the tree so ultimately worrying about who is going to choose who wouldn’t have been an issue. Also, we have different versions of ourselves that God knows when we open a door and close one we can choose many paths but God wants the version of us to follow His will and be obedient to Him hence how by accordance to our life choices we can then be paired with the perfect match God has made for us. Someone that’s a healer vs someone that’s to dominate social media and both to bring the glory to God may find harmony and unity with two different people that God has set out for them to match the character and lifestyle the one person has decided to take as it compliments them. I think God makes more than one KS but in the end He knows all the ways and paths we would choose and brings light to prevail in all so long that our hearts are for Him. 💜🙏🏾✨
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I would advise having a better bible understanding before having such debates ❤
So I think God does not have one particular person for you e.g called Samuel but He has a kind of person for you i.e one who complements your destiny God isn't static . If we are going to use the concept of the one so are we saying if "your one" dies or refuses to accept Christ , you are doomed to a life of singleness?
God does not "make" us believe in Him is a choice we make so if he(the one ) makes a choice not to accept Jesus God would respect it. But in this example I was trying to clarify that there isn't one specific person for you but a kind of person (character/personality wise) tailored to fit your destiny.So if Saul isn't ready or doesn't choose you , don't loose hope David is around the corner
I agree that if you step out of God’s will and marry someone who God didn’t intend for you that there will be some sort of consequence to it and you wouldn’t get that 100% even if after time you’ve stepped back into his will. Though He may work it all out for your good in the end because of His abounding love and mercy; marrying the one God didn’t intend for you may come with unnecessary challenges and difficulties that you wouldn’t have gone through by just marrying the one he has for you in the first place. Just my thoughts. 🤷🏽♀️
amennnnn
i totally agree with this!! it happened to a loved one of mine.
she married wrong, and although GOD still blessed her with children, and grand children, and she lives a beautiful life, there is an aspect of hardship that she has experienced for the length of the marriage and an aspect of beauty that she will never experience because she married wrong.
this is why we need to FEAR the Lord and make decisions from that place and not feelings.
💯 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
There's a perfect will from God... There's always a ONE but if it's bottled then God can provide another ONE
Exactly so this means there multiple ‘ONE’s’ for you right ?
I agree with the guy in the green hoodie. Wisdom ❤🔥🔥
Stepping out from God's Will has consequences... God restores but doesnt take away all consequences.
Thats outlines the difference btw Perfect Will and Permissive Will
Personally, God is very intentional!! Meaning, if your will is to be married, God would have prepared someone for us before we even stepped onto this earth! Now.. what happens if we go outside of his will? If you and the guy/girl are able to stay together peacefully (since God hates divorce), and you continue to follow and trust God, then I believe God will make a way and his promise will still be fulfilled. God’s plan will always and forever be better than our plan, so you probably will have much more problems with this other person, rather than if you just followed his original will for your life! We all know in the end, God works for the good of those who love him, but the journey may be “rockier” than he intended.
This a good convo
I love these healthy discussions 💯
It’s a 2 way street to be fair, “man”and God. As soon as “man” comes to God, then there’s that scale balance where the “will” of the 2 parties are placed. Now a man must displace his will and place God’s will to receive directions from Him. As long as this is in place, your steps are ordered and the decisions you make are essentially and literally are in God’s will, including the decision of who you’ll marry.
When it comes to marriage, a man must FIND his wife.
Out of the many, you must find your wife/husband.
God provides direction for paths to cross, and your duty is to discern what God has led you to
this episode was fireeee❤️🔥❤️🔥keep this upppp
I don't think there's a one, I think that feeds into a fantasy and a need for humans to have that One person that meets all their needs. I think God presents people suitable for us and we have a choice whether or not we take that person as a husband/wife.
I really believe God has power to ensure his will comes to pass. Even in instances in the Bible where people ran away from the will of God eg. Jonah God did whatever it took to realign him. We have an individual purpose and joint purposes in marriage surely there must be a preordained partner?
3:46 my thing with the 1 person is what if that person dies before their time or takes their own life, ultimately that leaves that one person to be alone.
Also the Adam and Eve blueprint can’t really be reflected in todays blueprint as they decided to choose independency by eating from the fruit at their own will so it changed a few aspects as there wasn’t going to be a concern of one making their own choice and choosing God’s will if they hadn’t eaten from the tree so ultimately worrying about who is going to choose who wouldn’t have been an issue.
Also, we have different versions of ourselves that God knows when we open a door and close one we can choose many paths but God wants the version of us to follow His will and be obedient to Him hence how by accordance to our life choices we can then be paired with the perfect match God has made for us.
Someone that’s a healer vs someone that’s to dominate social media and both to bring the glory to God may find harmony and unity with two different people that God has set out for them to match the character and lifestyle the one person has decided to take as it compliments them.
I think God makes more than one KS but in the end He knows all the ways and paths we would choose and brings light to prevail in all so long that our hearts are for Him. 💜🙏🏾✨
I would advise having a better bible understanding before having such debates ❤
So I think God does not have one particular person for you e.g called Samuel but He has a kind of person for you i.e one who complements your destiny God isn't static . If we are going to use the concept of the one so are we saying if "your one" dies or refuses to accept Christ , you are doomed to a life of singleness?
But why would God make your one refuse to accept Him?
God does not "make" us believe in Him is a choice we make so if he(the one ) makes a choice not to accept Jesus God would respect it. But in this example I was trying to clarify that there isn't one specific person for you but a kind of person (character/personality wise) tailored to fit your destiny.So if Saul isn't ready or doesn't choose you , don't loose hope David is around the corner