Advice for Your 20s & 30s: Cutting People Out, Taking Risks, & Overcoming Insecurities!
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- Welcome back to the podcast! On today’s episode, I talk about what I have been learning in my 30s and give YOU advice too! 30 can sound intimidating especially to those who are younger but being thirty is NOT as scary as it sounds! We will dive into some topics about: Appearance and how it changes when you age. Friendship and who you want to keep in your circle. Marriage and how to react in a way God would want you to. So come sit down and get cozy while I talk about life and share some stories and thoughts about life in my 30s!
PLUS:
- Cutting people out of your life who do not serve you
- God’s way is the BEST way
- What is gossiping vs what is venting
- How to watch your mouth and the power of your words
- Doing things when you are scare
- How to not cave into trends
- How to build your confidence and fight your insecurities
- AND SO MUCH MORE
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So pumped for this episode! Yay!
I just want to say your background actually comforted me. Ive always wanted to speak into other peoples lives and post videos but more so recently I have felt inadequate because I don’t have the finances as a mother of 2 young kids and stay at home mom to build a studio or have the most up-to-date aesthetic background or microphones and equipment it takes according to this culture to attract an audience..I tried to keep in mind The Lord did his best work in the midst of dirt, sweat and tears and I miss when people would do videos in the comfort of their home ! it’s more private and intimate and we don’t need to see everything in your life, but to see the real and the raw really comforts and inspires people !
Just started the episode but I must say I love the new background 🤩🤩
Yay!!!
Girlll I love the new background!! It’s so inviting, cozy and makes me feel like we’re just 2 friends chatting 😊
Slayyyy! I love!! So glad yall like it!!
As a Christian man, the ABSOLUTE best thing from a woman is someone who takes care of herself by exercising but does not want lip filler, tattoos etc and wears a lot of make up… A little is OK here and there and I think if you are dressing up, that’s totally different but owning your natural beauty and just being healthy such as caring about ingredients in food, soaps etc is 🙌🏼🔥
Remember God made YOU perfectly
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. Proverbs 31:30 I can completely relate, I’m 37 now and as I’ve grown older and more mature, I realize simplicity is so much more beautiful. My style and the things that call my attention have changed so much. and I can see other women with spiritual eyes. Love the new background. Love you girl. Keep shining for Jesus !
I did get emotional during this episode. Jeanine kept it so real. So thankful for her
i love this new background so cosy looking!😍
🙏💕 My 20’s were a blur, loved loved my 30’s. I didn’t begin to live until my 30’s. Yes, I definitely cleared the cache with some friends and family members. Let go of poisonous relationships. We were blessed. My husband and I purchased our 2nd house, raised our 3 kiddos, and just enjoyed every minute. Just about to step into our 40’s with kids going to college 😢 love the vlog!! 💕
I live chronically ill. I’m 38. I have lived this entire decade in pain. I’m not the same person anymore. Many of my past “friends” loved to remind me of that. I spent so much time feeling bad about it. I thank The Lord everyday he helped me build boundaries around my heart. I have let go of easily a dozen close friendships. (To be honest 4 of them passed away) My 30s would have flat out have been a waste but God timing is perfect. In 2021 I came to Jesus. I went from withering away slowly dying, to just barely existing with health issues, to literally living with a brain tumour (benign but causes me lots of issues with my senses). I can’t smell, taste, regulate temperature, visual issues, migraines, pain, lack of touch & sensation. Yet I live with joy. Same pain, same suffering. 🙌🏻🙏🏻✨💞
Thank you for sharing your story❤️ I am praying for complete healing on this side of heaven and godly community to walk alongside with
The joy of the Lord is my strength.
I find what you shared relatable as I am reaching my mid-thirties. I had to let most of my friends go due to gossip and other toxic behaviors. I believe this is part of our sanctification process as believers to walk the narrow road. the call to be godly and to be around godly sister's is pivotal for such as time like this. Thank you for sharing your experience~
Thank you for the advice of matrimony 😭 I’ve been married for 6months it’s been amazing but with its ups & down as normal, but I struggle with getting mad & lashing out & my husband & I our Cristians & trying to live a better life walking with Jesus having a relationship with Jesus. But my attitude needs to change when I get upset/mad so thank you 🙏 for sharing this I will keep praying 🤲 for more patience & forgiveness & not speak so fast & lash out 😬😓
There’s so much I want to say Jeanine… this podcast was so good, I’ve been following along with the August Bible Challenge little did I know my grandad would choose 2 Timothy 4:7-8 for me to read at my grandmas funeral & I would have ended up reading that anyways through your challenge…. Paul’s letters all prepared me for funeral service with being reminded of Paul & his life devoted to Christ along with my Grandmas life she devoted to Christ… she passed from stomach cancer & I was still following the Bible challenge while she was continuing to decline & I was being reminded of what Salvation is… was so encouraging. It’s no mistake I have come across you & we have met at BESO but truly thank you for following Gods call on your life. Thankful for you encouraging these Bible challenges, God worked through August 🩷
Thanks for listening! I’m so glad the Bible spoke to you in a tough time ❤
I love this about YOU, been following you for years and you always stay the same (in a good way), yes some things change and improve but all these other influencers do sooo much, post alllooot, later on you can’t actually “follow” along anymore, you stay TRUE and I love that!
Thank you soooo much for this!!❤
I'm a Spotify girly, but I had to hop on youtube to see some of the new room. It looks gorgeous. Can't wait to see the final reveal 😍🤍
Thank you for this episode! Definitely hit some topics I’ve been thinking about 💕 and i love the background!!
jeanine the background looks insanely good 🤍
Really loved this episode, especially the part about doing things scared and having big God dreams where you can’t do it unless it’s WITH Him. I also just want to say you might not realize this but your consistency on here over the years really does inspire and encourage me to stay consistent in what Gods called me to do. Gods been speaking to me this year about that. God will lead us and empower us to do things but we have to do our part and remain consistent in it if we want to see that thing grow and flourish
Absolutely LOVING your new background and LOVE this episode! 🫶🏻
I love the advice about friendships 💛
My name is Rachel :') lol but seriously, I really need to stop gossiping. I know it's wrong, but I find myself doing it anyways. I need to stop myself and find a better way to deal with what I'm feeling
You’re not alone!! This is such a difficult sin to combat but continue to lean on God for strength and also surrounding yourself with good company is important too!
This was an amazing episode! Very much needed! It feels like you are our friend holding us accountable on improving for not only ourselves but for the Lord! Love love love!
LOVE the new background🥰
Girl its in your head . U look even younger & better now that your 30!! 😍
I am really focusing on being the best wife & the best mother I can be by changing my outlook and attitude in daily tasks I accomplish. I feel a lot of rage or sadness throughout the day I’m doing the mundane tasks in life, but I am working to change my perspective and be grateful in everything that I have and everything that I am able to do day to day, especially the simplest things.
Love the new scene 🎃🍁🥮
Yessss ❤❤
Pumped for this episode as someone right on the border of my 20s/30s!
This was a great episode. I so appreciate your vulnerability around the development of your confidence, along with your testimony around public speaking. I really related so much to this. Thank you for your obedience 🩵
I absolutely love your podcast!
James 13 when tempted, no one should say, “ god is tempting me.” For god cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; 14 but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Love you girl. Absolutely love the new background, love the fall 😍
I enjoy this pod thanks so much, god bless 🤍🙏
The timing of this video was impeccable. Your videos always bring such a light to my life 🥹🥹💙
Yayy🎉, i've been waiting for this thank you jeanine🥰
this perspective is great for you, it's great to embrace the season that you're in because motherhood continually changes you and your body in the best way possible. You won't recognize who you are but you'll be in a season of getting to know you and your child at the same time and you'll wonder what did you with your time beforehand hehe. Praise you Lord for Jeanine and her growth in you.
I'm glad I'm not the only one that loves fall so much that you get your fall decor out in August!!😆Love the cozy setup.
I like this set up a lot better!! It’s really cozy! The friendship and gossip part was so helpful. The whole Caleb situation is so real though lol, you’re not alone!
I personally like the background! I feel like I’m hanging out in the living room with you, and I think that’s fun 🤍 love you Jeanine!
this background is EVERYTHING 🕊️
This was such a timely word! I was convicted by almost every single thing you said, but there were a couple things that stood out the most. My husband and I are moving from Tennessee to New Zealand in two days, and we're currently visiting my sister-in-law in Australia. This is my first time out of the country, and we're basically starting from scratch. We had to majorly minimize our clothes, and get rid of most of our belongings, which was extremely difficult for me with my sentimental hoarding tendencies😬 We don't know anyone there, and we'll have to find a new church, jobs, and friendships. All of this has increased my anxiety, and the enemy has been attacking my mind and confidence. I know that this usually happens before God does something big, so I have hope but am also struggling so much. Another thing that convicted me was honoring my husband with my words. I have been taking all my stress out on him and have not been respecting him like I should. I'll be going back and reading those verses again, because I really need them right now! I pray that I'll find a community that speaks truth into me like you just did. Thank you for your obedience❤
I love the new set up!! This was so real and so good and what I needed today ❤️
Love this set up!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️ so pretty and amen
Oh my goodness, I have to say you would look so beautiful with short hair! I feel like it would fit you so well 🫶🏼 the shortest layer totally gave me that visual
you’re so humble Jeanine 🤍
I love this background!! It feels more personal than the other one and like we are besties!
I love and appreciate your vulnerability so much!! Thank you for being such a positive influence for young Christian women, especially myself as I got married around the same time as you and want to be a better wife for my hubs!!!❤️❤️
God's timing is so amazing. Thank you Jeanine
Embracing the Augtober vibes👏🏻👏🏻
i love this episode
Kisses from Madrid Spain ❤️
You bless me with this podcast ❤️
Thanks for this episode! Today is my 31st birthday and I've been seeking advice to live my 30s different from my 20s.
I like this background!! It’s personal
I’ve been doing same thing giving my clothes to goodwill or to those thrift shops.
Girl I love this background AAA
I love it hereeeeee❤️❤️❤️✝️
Love the background!! 🧡🧡
Looking so beautiful and glowwyy today ❤
This reminded me the saying “God tested me and I didn’t study” 😅
Love the background 🥰🥰🍂✨
Love your channel ❤