The Ability To Adapt | Our Love Journey Podcast

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  • Опубликовано: 11 дек 2024

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  • @tebogorammutla1160
    @tebogorammutla1160 3 года назад +136

    "The longer you take to learn the lesson,you will keep having to learn it"..this hit home😫

  • @pilisapiliso9647
    @pilisapiliso9647 3 года назад +58

    Mpoomy and Brandon are basically raising me and teaching me morals and values coming from a black home where parents really don’t talk about things expect for saying no to everything, THANK YOU and may God continue blessing you guys ❤️

  • @nosikurosie6904
    @nosikurosie6904 3 года назад +120

    You guys!!! I don't think you have an idea how many lives you touch or even how many lives you change.. there's some of us who don't even comment half the time but we watch. I love this channel. I enjoy every time I watch! I've unsubscribed from a lot of you tubers because honestly I wasn't getting anything from there. But everytime I watch you guys I leave different seriously, I've never watched and never felt not moved.. NEVER!! I learn more on each video.
    Love ya both!!

  • @rejoicetomas3874
    @rejoicetomas3874 3 года назад +4

    "You have no control over anything. The only thing you have control over is your response " I felt that

  • @angienkuna4416
    @angienkuna4416 3 года назад +77

    Anointed couple. Divinely appointed.God bless this beautiful union.

  • @rorisangmathikha1383
    @rorisangmathikha1383 3 года назад +71

    Exactly, my friends have accepted that I don't like parting and enjoy being indoors and just being in my own comfortable space...it's blissful

  • @tinyikongobeni1418
    @tinyikongobeni1418 3 года назад +31

    What makes my boyfriend really romantic is his consistency in kindness, being able to stand in long queues for my personal things, waiting for me to enter inside my house even when we’ve both had an argument. Things have just gotten more authentic and that’s what I’m also finding romantic, the sentimental stuff

  • @madimetsamashiane383
    @madimetsamashiane383 3 года назад +26

    One of the books that helped me with adapting , is the book 'Who moved my cheese' , its about adapting to change and different kinds of adapting

    • @Survive_
      @Survive_ 3 года назад +1

      Sammmeeee, I'm currently reading this book like 8 pages in and I'm already realizing how scared I was of change (I have always been scared of change) now I'm working on it.
      This book really called me out, shuu😭

    • @lifeandwellnesswithsine2387
      @lifeandwellnesswithsine2387 3 года назад +1

      It needs to be my next read🙌

    • @kudzaisharonkandemiri3030
      @kudzaisharonkandemiri3030 3 года назад

      It's an interesting read.

  • @confessionsofacheapskate4112
    @confessionsofacheapskate4112 3 года назад +1

    "The quickest way to know who you are is today know who you're not "

  • @chiedzachuma2026
    @chiedzachuma2026 3 года назад +13

    Mpoomy I'm learning not to listen to your channel without a notepad and pen ready. Definitely food for my soul, thank you for feeding me

  • @tinyikongobeni1418
    @tinyikongobeni1418 3 года назад +29

    I’m making a decision now to snap out of it. I’ve spent the last three years not actually knowing what my purpose is and honestly I’m done being depressed and having the situation with our world encourage my “stress”. Almost like I have an excuse to be depressed because our current situation is so difficult. This has aged me a lot and I’m actively making a decision to snap out of it, just deciding to taking full responsibility. Thank you guys 🙏🏾

    • @beautytebadi1216
      @beautytebadi1216 3 года назад +1

      Can we be friends 🤗, you seem like a breath of fresh air... I can actually relate to what you just said, I hope you find the purpose that you seeking for...Am starting that journey too, sending you love and light 💕💕

  • @changwechami8449
    @changwechami8449 3 года назад +16

    "The quickest way to learn who you are is to learn who you are not" point taken📝

  • @ewonkendwandwe6881
    @ewonkendwandwe6881 3 года назад +23

    I can't believe how much I really enjoyed this podcast! You guys are amazing, I am 22 and single but I find so much relevance in your content.

  • @Syndzz
    @Syndzz 3 года назад +43

    Yes I'm 18 and single but i love you guys!!!!

    • @Gabisile..
      @Gabisile.. 3 года назад +2

      You and me both Siyanda 😂

  • @kundaicrwayisva6516
    @kundaicrwayisva6516 3 года назад +20

    Is it just me who enjoys the videos? I enjoy seeing them together, their facial expressions and the way they gaze at each other when one is speaking. I saw the podcast notifications in the morning but l waited for the video. Y'all are just a blessing. I enjoyed the podcast. The best one yet!

  • @MillenialKay
    @MillenialKay 3 года назад +14

    "Lessons in life will be repeated until they are learned"🙌❤

  • @RealTalkWithNthabi
    @RealTalkWithNthabi 3 года назад +9

    The quickest way to learn who you are is learning who you not.
    I can't agree more 💯💯💯💯

  • @migalmahlangu9871
    @migalmahlangu9871 3 года назад +8

    The first thing I wanna say is I love u love I learn so much from u guys 💕💕
    Listening to u I realised how much i had to adept over the last 14 years, got married was in an abusive relationship had kids, got divorced. I had to learn and unlearn so many things I am super grateful to u guys because u made me realise that I can adept and to be kind to myself 🙌🏽

  • @mapasekankomonde3797
    @mapasekankomonde3797 3 года назад +6

    Indeed " we not in Control of what happens, but we rather in control of our reactions "
    Amazing wisdom shared.

  • @Olivia8355
    @Olivia8355 3 года назад +2

    Agggggg 😭😭😭😭 y’all speaking to me... as a single lady I have intentionally started learning “Who I’m not”...❤️beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @AS-ue9kg
    @AS-ue9kg 2 года назад

    I am an older adult and I love listening to you two. I learn so much from your conversations! They are relevant, genuine and always reflect the love of God to me. Keep growing in this grace guys, God bless your family!

  • @esihle_mkosana_
    @esihle_mkosana_ 3 года назад +5

    “The quickest way to know who you are is to know who you’re not” ! Okay okay 🔥🔥. Such an inspiring podcast, definitely enjoyed watching this.

  • @wezizweginindza7129
    @wezizweginindza7129 3 года назад +6

    So profound guys!! Yho, I couldn't help but laugh and smile the whole 22:29 minutes of this episode! That's what you do, bring so much love and light to this platform.
    God bless you.

  • @ziziphobridgetntlantsana3090
    @ziziphobridgetntlantsana3090 3 года назад +7

    "The quickest way to learn who you are is to learn who you're not"
    I totally enjoyed this video! Thank you Ledwabas 💯🙌

  • @girleyngcobo2678
    @girleyngcobo2678 3 года назад +6

    "You always have to control your emotions or you will lose yourself everytime "....Brenden just reminded me of this saying with his first point.
    Always happy to listen to you guys ❤❤❤.

  • @silindokuhlekhubone
    @silindokuhlekhubone 3 года назад +1

    I agree with you guys ...The quickest way to learn who you are is to learn who you are not !!!!I tried drinking alcohol last year at the age of 27 because I thought why not ...it didn’t work ..I would really not enjoy it ..I would ask myself why am I not enjoying it cos everyone else is and I would not even sbwl it ..I sat down with myself one day and I was like it’s just not who you are and you need to make peace with it !!!!But that doesn’t make me a better person than the next person ❤️

  • @nothandondlovu1145
    @nothandondlovu1145 3 года назад +6

    This conversation was so fruitful. I felt like I was also part of it, also throwing my opinions here and there even when I'm alone in the room lol. Love you guys xoxo

  • @hopem03
    @hopem03 3 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for this, exactly how I needed to end my evening. I’m all smiles because this just confirms scripture. Wow, there is fruitfulness when we subdue and have dominion over our good/bad situations... because we are intentional ❤️
    May God bless you for taking your time to share yourselves ❤️

  • @Leetso
    @Leetso 3 года назад +13

    Allow me to take notes📝
    Because wisdom is raining here❤️💯

  • @tapiwasilumbu4358
    @tapiwasilumbu4358 3 года назад +24

    Who dislikes such content and inspirational words

  • @FufuSithole
    @FufuSithole 3 года назад +11

    Brendon is hilarious 😂

  • @TheDoreenTube
    @TheDoreenTube 3 года назад +13

    Listened to this in the morning but I’m still watching because this is probably my best episode yet!🥺❤️

  • @lovenesspearlnyuke5954
    @lovenesspearlnyuke5954 3 года назад +5

    We don't have a choice but adapt'profound'👌believe you me you're saving a lot of souls....May God keep you guys for us....

  • @zinhlephiwokuhledlamini8194
    @zinhlephiwokuhledlamini8194 3 года назад +37

    I'm so excited, I got 'The 5 am Club' by Robin Sharma🙈🙈

  • @sthembilekobe9267
    @sthembilekobe9267 3 года назад +4

    I love your podcasts and i am learning a lot, you adding so much wisdom in my singleness season so that i never settle for nonsense.

  • @ketsiak.makola2398
    @ketsiak.makola2398 3 года назад +2

    Mpoomy & Brenden !!! Y’all make me say a prayer to God after almost every video
    I’m always learning. Marriage is beautiful, teamwork is the way to go!!! I want to do it God’s way 🤍

  • @charityngubo8000
    @charityngubo8000 3 года назад +5

    I'm older than you guys but learning a lot from you. Big ups.

  • @tapiwasilumbu4358
    @tapiwasilumbu4358 3 года назад +6

    Yes l am also a young lady and your sermons and podcasts are actually preparing me for what is to come in the future👏👏👏👏

  • @Princessss5721
    @Princessss5721 3 года назад +1

    I just love these seat downs 🥺 I've got my journal and pen
    I must say your love journey is wonderful, I'm learning a lot everyday from your videos started following you when I watched your dating testimony.. I'm just 20 but these really expose me to how much I need God in my life and how I would like to mould my life.. Thank you for the great and authentic content. ❤

  • @lethukhumalo3119
    @lethukhumalo3119 3 года назад +4

    I listened to the podcast and took down notes, I enjoy listening to your podcast and watching the RUclips video as well. I'm in awe

  • @Langathiwe_Nkomo
    @Langathiwe_Nkomo 3 года назад +2

    Yep had to listen to it twice...! There's a lesson to learn that life is tryna teach me, the quicker you learn the better

  • @bonisiwe_bhiya
    @bonisiwe_bhiya 3 года назад +4

    Girl listened to the podcast in the morning and now I'm here doubling up. That's how much I love these conversations ❤

  • @rejoicetomas3874
    @rejoicetomas3874 3 года назад

    "Quickest way to learn who you are is to learn who you are not"😊... hits home

  • @M.A.Wahome
    @M.A.Wahome 3 года назад

    This topic is so important , I wish I heard this at 22 it would have saved me a world of heart ache. Thank you for talking about this .

  • @queenmasiya9776
    @queenmasiya9776 3 года назад +5

    These conversations are always refreshing, educational and funny. I always enjoy listening to you guys💕

  • @boldforpurpose
    @boldforpurpose 3 года назад +4

    You guys are a blessing,
    may your love grow even deeper.

  • @herworkoutswork
    @herworkoutswork 3 года назад +5

    Hahaha! Literally smiled the whole way through this. I thoroughly enjoyed it and I relate 100% to the importance of adaptability. I love Mpoomy's mom's advice about how our job is to become more of ourselves. This is so true. I can relate to your story Mpoomy, I left my career as a Scientist to pursue my passion back in 2019. (I remember going to work in the morning, looking forward to going to the gym afterward) It was not easy, but through this journey, I now trust God more than ever before, and I'm completely at peace. Loved this podcast! It was funny too 😂

  • @zinhlekhoza8326
    @zinhlekhoza8326 3 года назад

    The best way to learn who you are is learn who you are not... Powerful!! Thank you for this

  • @Tanatswanashe
    @Tanatswanashe 3 года назад +1

    “The quickest way to know who you are is to know who you’re not.” 🔥

  • @mokgadihlongwane6284
    @mokgadihlongwane6284 3 года назад

    Oh my word, you guys are so real and inspirational. I can relate so much with what you are saying. Talk about not comforming to the standards of the world. Thank God for you.

  • @tsholofetsomanana5411
    @tsholofetsomanana5411 3 года назад +2

    I really love listening to you guys and enjoy your chemistry. This is my first time commenting and I wanted to say keep doing great things and glorifying God!

  • @mhelukajuliana8375
    @mhelukajuliana8375 3 года назад +4

    Much love mpoomy and brenden ❤🥰🤗😊you bless me ohhhh

  • @eleanordewee1602
    @eleanordewee1602 3 года назад

    The 2 of you are just too cute. Thank you for the insightful and inspirational podcast. What you are sharing is so relevant and as a married woman one draws so much knowledge and wisdom from you guys. Ya"ll are absolutely adorable

  • @pertuniamasike372
    @pertuniamasike372 3 года назад

    Mpoomy, I so resonate with u when it comes to teaching our kids Bible scriptures, I also learn at the same time with her, even better than b4. My daughter is 10 years old and I,ve always had to tech her in the most simplified /age appropriate manner for her to understand. I love God for his grace 🙏
    Love u and Brendan so much, thanks for always sharing ur Real Life Experiences with us. May God bless u

  • @sinethembalanga7436
    @sinethembalanga7436 3 года назад +6

    It's the flirting for me❤

  • @babuirapoo
    @babuirapoo 3 года назад +4

    Aowa I smiled the whole time
    So much wisdom then the video ended😭

  • @ashleybrady2010
    @ashleybrady2010 3 года назад

    This was such a pleasure to watch!
    Thanks for just being awesome! May GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS you richly

  • @nokuzolamnikathi993
    @nokuzolamnikathi993 3 года назад +3

    I'm here for this content.. 🥺 wisdom 🤍 I love I love

  • @brianward8368
    @brianward8368 3 года назад +2

    I Love you guys!! God Bless everything you do!

  • @shupiwevakaira9470
    @shupiwevakaira9470 3 года назад +2

    It's always refreshing listening/watching you guys and your humor is everything for me♥️

  • @yonelantsangani3326
    @yonelantsangani3326 3 года назад

    Wow. So powerful. Yall are such a blessing!💛🔥🔥

  • @zamandlovu8515
    @zamandlovu8515 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much you guys. I'm. 33,single and absolutely love your podcasts.

  • @nokuthulamampa1503
    @nokuthulamampa1503 3 года назад +2

    Nooooooooo maaan nooooooo😭😭😭😭😭this i needed to hear, definitely sharing with my partner... Thank you soooo much guys... Like wow👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @zinhlebuthelezi3749
    @zinhlebuthelezi3749 3 года назад

    Thank you for this, I'm slowly learning that I'm not in control and it's been very uncomfortable and painful. Having to adapt to not having the things you wanted by a certain age, losing things that matter the most etc

  • @nangamsoflatela3176
    @nangamsoflatela3176 3 года назад

    Jeeeez! 😭 I needed to hear this because of how I’ve been struggling to adjust to a lot of changes this year.
    Thank you guys 🙌🏾

  • @alfredinemay8052
    @alfredinemay8052 3 года назад +2

    I'm so glad I subscribed to your channel... You guys are absolutely such a blessing. 🙏😇💕

  • @Keabetswe.Sithole
    @Keabetswe.Sithole 3 года назад +1

    So much wisdom. May God continue to bless your union ❤️

  • @thethinkerscircle
    @thethinkerscircle 3 года назад +4

    Our favs, your content is so refreshing and on each video we learn something❤️

  • @renengoasheng
    @renengoasheng 3 года назад +1

    Love this 😍Thank you for sharing the wisdom God has given you guys and allowing him to speak through you guys😍

  • @rirhandzushivuri
    @rirhandzushivuri 3 года назад +3

    I've spent my time well on this video... thank you guys.

  • @nelisalayini3847
    @nelisalayini3847 3 года назад

    This is not what I ordered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you guys are great and I'm growing from your podcasts.

  • @gracemaingire9315
    @gracemaingire9315 3 года назад +1

    It surely gets better with time & i'm now loving your content more & more. Love you guys 🇿🇼🇿🇼

  • @precioushudge6163
    @precioushudge6163 3 года назад +4

    Mpoomy l love you and your the best ❤️❤️

  • @nonhlanhlakhumalo5714
    @nonhlanhlakhumalo5714 3 года назад +2

    It's the last sentence of me 🤣😂🤣. Watching and listening to you guys is soooo much fun and insightful.

  • @ramadimetsamachete5705
    @ramadimetsamachete5705 3 года назад +1

    It's in the little things we do " in passing " that kinda take form and shape as we grow up.
    I'm realizing it right now when I've left my career to find my peace in the little things that bring me soo much joy. Just like Mpumi... I'm glad I realised it now in my 20s. And im sooo excited for my 30s cause the peace of just knowing that.. yeah man! I've GOT this now. Life and I are kinder vibing now. Even becoming friends...

    • @b_reshoketswe2777
      @b_reshoketswe2777 3 года назад +1

      Wow that's inspiring..I can't wait to be in such a space in my life too

  • @siphosihlenoqayi9600
    @siphosihlenoqayi9600 3 года назад

    Lol...You guys are so funny. Its beautiful to watch your interaction...thank you for the wisdom, We appreciate it so much. We're getting to appreciate life more indeed💝. God bless you even more

  • @amandakhumalo3928
    @amandakhumalo3928 3 года назад +1

    Yes yes "you only control how you respond"
    Wow

  • @prettyshabangu5862
    @prettyshabangu5862 3 года назад +5

    Super profound... Lols now I can't wait to meet my life partner 🙈

  • @mbinaomukuambi2459
    @mbinaomukuambi2459 3 года назад

    Well of wisdom!!! Learning and loving it. 🤗

  • @constancematsimela2609
    @constancematsimela2609 3 года назад

    I am in awe of how much you guys know and are so willing to share with the world, at such a young age nogal! May God continue to bless you🙏😇💝💝

  • @hossianathompson1127
    @hossianathompson1127 3 года назад +2

    WISDOM 😩🙏 this hit home!!!!

  • @GracefulYvonne
    @GracefulYvonne 3 года назад +24

    You guys are effortlessly fun, insightful and interesting... bathi... "Iclub akusi i society😂😂😂... I also never know what to do there...
    😂😂😂Brenden is so funny bathi usually wen we first meet siya actor.... YiFilm😂😂😂funny truth....

  • @mrsdokotela
    @mrsdokotela 3 года назад

    Hi Mrs Mom ur guys podcasts are amazing...I drive 1hr15min to work and listening to ur podcasts honestly makes the drive a lot easier...I listen to ur podcasts on Tuesday mornings cos on Mondays am at work from 7am and at the end of the day I am flushed cos am a health care worker so its really hectic...thank you guys for lifting us up and teaching us...🤗

  • @thorithangs288
    @thorithangs288 3 года назад

    Shuuu what a couple!! I love you guys so much. We really are learning a lot from you. May God continue to bless your union

  • @thulisilemthimunye8020
    @thulisilemthimunye8020 3 года назад

    You guys are a breath of fresh air... like I learn every time I visit your channel.

  • @kamogelovenoline2571
    @kamogelovenoline2571 3 года назад

    I really enjoyed the watching this.. I am intrigued.. I have been procrastinating because I didn't have time.. But finally I am here.. And woow.. This is soo amazing.. "Learning the lesson" "when life happens you gotta ask life what are you trying to teach me" point taken..❤️ Love you both

  • @HopeMakola
    @HopeMakola 3 года назад

    Wow you guys are soooo gifted I’m just so in ore of how your currently speaking life, joy and peace into my situation. I’ve been practicing how to control the way I choose to respond since the middle of lockdown last year and I tell you it’s helped me guard my heart, happiness, mind and spirit.
    Thanks for such golden nuggets😘

  • @etherl.chakopo
    @etherl.chakopo 3 года назад +3

    Lots of love from Zambia..😍

  • @thulisavaveki
    @thulisavaveki 3 года назад +1

    That's my type of fun as well at 22, I love activities that are peaceful 😀

  • @lorrainemadure2837
    @lorrainemadure2837 3 года назад

    Nothing stays the same indeed, hence the need to adapt... Nice video guys. Thanks.

  • @segomosh
    @segomosh 2 года назад

    I remember I went to Rosebank college together with Mpoomy.. Both studying Business Administration.. One day one of your friends/acquaintance told us you decided to quit school and said you felt like you didn't belong there.. That takes courage hey
    Great to see that you found your real purpose in life.. You doing really good for yourself! 💯

  • @busisiwengwenya4450
    @busisiwengwenya4450 3 года назад +2

    We are within!! So excited haven't even heard anything

  • @nonhlakaniphoN
    @nonhlakaniphoN 3 года назад

    Mpoomy is soo adorable☺️ the way she looks at her husband 😍🥰. Bless you guys, great content

  • @siyabonganhlakaniphomatheb1039
    @siyabonganhlakaniphomatheb1039 3 года назад +1

    "We got here cos you wanted to get here..." And then "Ok, the moral of the story is it gets better" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @wandilemkhize8263
    @wandilemkhize8263 3 года назад +2

    I looooove this episode so much. Thank you🙏♥️😅

  • @palesankondlo1395
    @palesankondlo1395 3 года назад

    Man we love you guyz❤️😍😂 I love how your content applies to both single and married people💯

  • @florencerampersat8042
    @florencerampersat8042 3 года назад

    Blessed couple that's good I'm happy they put God first in they relationship stay blessed ❤️❤️🙏🙏

  • @tshepopatiencemafojane1661
    @tshepopatiencemafojane1661 3 года назад +1

    This couple is so wise 😭😭❤❤❤

  • @lucilleshayi2728
    @lucilleshayi2728 3 года назад +3

    "Jumping in where" Mpoomy aksed🤣🤣😂😂

  • @aviweyenge4455
    @aviweyenge4455 3 года назад

    Woow this is informative thanks guys ,I can relate so much with this topic.