DEALING WITH A BREAK UP, RELATIONSHIPS, LONELINESS, WEIGHT LOSS ETC

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Комментарии • 206

  • @samanthascott1533
    @samanthascott1533 2 дня назад +40

    There is nothing wrong with starting over Kim. My heart broke when you said you have no one here. Those are words that I have uttered myself..

  • @taneishabrown5806
    @taneishabrown5806 День назад +31

    This is how I prepare for your videos, I get all my house work done, ensure that my son is sleeping, shower and then sit down, eat and relax. There’s no other way to do it and of course, liking the video first as well.

  • @cocomint26
    @cocomint26 2 дня назад +40

    A man’s job is to protect, provide, and problem solve. We as women need to confidently say to men we are not doing 50/50 as a non-negotiable. If a man makes less money then he needs to calculate which bills he is paying in full AND budget to pay for date nights AND do all the handy work things AND put gas in the car, etc. Men need to do their role!

    • @nikkiwowww9299
      @nikkiwowww9299 День назад +4

      And these men want go 50/50 on bills and the woman do all the housework. That means me a put out more and that nah go work

    • @cocomint26
      @cocomint26 День назад

      @@nikkiwowww9299 exactly it’s unfair!!!

  • @mandysingh7670
    @mandysingh7670 День назад +25

    Hi Kim, I have been following you for a long time, seldom comment. But this post just hit home for me. It took me; after 43 years of marriage to find myself. I was in a very controlling marriage. Girl I am so at peace, as we have been separated 9years now. I love my space & current living status….single & happy. I won’t change this for anything or anyone right now. Your post is very interesting, you are a great content creator, love your videos, keep it up hon, I will always be a constant supporter. Don’t move if you can help it, it doesn’t matter where you go, the memories, good or bad will always be with you. You have done an awesome job with your current living space, I love ur choice of all you have done to make ur apartment look so homey & comfortable. Stay safe, be happy sweet Kim & here’s wishing all that ur heart desires. Love 💕 & blessings

  • @marviav3071
    @marviav3071 2 дня назад +65

    A man entering a relationship must be a provider. It is your job. However, the female can also help with bills, etc, to make sure the home runs ok. 50/50 no, shouldn't be the standard of the relationship.

  • @user-fd6jx6rw2y
    @user-fd6jx6rw2y 2 дня назад +21

    I enjoy my own company. I love being at home and cooking and eating with my small family.

  • @pattreac3429
    @pattreac3429 2 дня назад +18

    Blessings ❤🙏. Your setbacks are for Strength and to pave the path for new. Where there's New Wine there's new freedom.

  • @sonyabarnes3398
    @sonyabarnes3398 2 дня назад +13

    Silent cousin here Kim!. Always enjoy your vlogs but this one got me writing. Continue to inspire others even in your trials and remember the will of God will never take you where his grace cannot keep you.....go forth God got you, your path is set for greatness. I enjoyed the make up lesson if only i had the skills....Much love x

  • @Sheheart3
    @Sheheart3 2 дня назад +13

    Such wisdom in pinpointing life issues and keeping going in spite of what life brings is amazing and could not be acquired without going through things in life,it’s growth and maturity. You are on it. Thanks for sharing 😊

  • @Marstoinfinity
    @Marstoinfinity 2 дня назад +19

    50/50 is a no go. Also I never discussed that with my husband in the beginning, it was just natural, like a woman following their role, just same as man follows his

    • @roshham5129
      @roshham5129 2 дня назад +8

      50/50 a room mate business, a man should be a provider, I prefer to be alone if that’s the case.

    • @mints5420
      @mints5420 День назад +4

      Exactly, 50/50 is you paying and doing for yourself, so you may as well stay by yourself.

    • @shannaspiritualoasisgrant5252
      @shannaspiritualoasisgrant5252 День назад +1

      This is it girl

  • @mykilaughs5768
    @mykilaughs5768 2 дня назад +12

    You are amazing! You are wise beyond your years! I am particularly blown away by your unruffled ,very authentic demeanor. Your decision to leave things in the hands of the Lord is so admirable. Do just that Kim-angels are watching over you! From one Jamaican to the next-you mek me feel good! You tallawa! You are unstoppable! You go Kim!

  • @jillianwilloughby8956
    @jillianwilloughby8956 2 дня назад +10

    Kim I also believe so much that self love is the hardest 😢I always struggle with my many imperfections.

  • @lindawallace3461
    @lindawallace3461 2 дня назад +10

    You truly evolving into a beautiful person with grace and humbleness 🙏❤️

  • @lyndaclarke9279
    @lyndaclarke9279 2 дня назад +9

    I agree with u 💯 Kim I don't believe in the 50/50 I'm on your side the way u explained it.

  • @alib180
    @alib180 2 дня назад +12

    I always want to see you in person just to give you a hug & tell you how much I enjoy your videos ❤

  • @KaydeanChannel
    @KaydeanChannel 2 дня назад +10

    Hey Kim! Happy to get this chit chat video. Enjoy watching your videos alot sis!

  • @GenuinelyMarie
    @GenuinelyMarie 2 дня назад +7

    Good to see you, Kim. Im so glad that you're doing so much better. Keep moving forward. God Bless!!❤

  • @mandaskitchen91
    @mandaskitchen91 2 дня назад +6

    Kim i enjoyed this chit chat and my heart melts when u say u have no one there..just know that the big up crew will always be here with u❤

  • @genuinetoya
    @genuinetoya 2 дня назад +9

    Kim, you are glowing ✨️ no matter what continue to hold up your head and be strong😍 God is with you❤

  • @ky8084
    @ky8084 2 дня назад +6

    Well said Kim...very valid points shared with us .Thank you and continue to be YOU.

  • @michellemcintosh9219
    @michellemcintosh9219 День назад +4

    You go girl let nothing stop you , you are still young children can come later on in your life. Get your footing continue to be strong and trust God 💯 he got your back ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @camillenorris8151
    @camillenorris8151 2 дня назад +5

    I totally enjoy this video kim. Continue to shine queen. Nuff love!🙏🏾❤️

  • @nyashawilliams4668
    @nyashawilliams4668 2 дня назад +23

    You look fresh and stress free single life is more healthier more wild no lie.

  • @right7082
    @right7082 День назад +5

    Kim, I love how intelligent you are. Great video.❤

  • @nadinerutherford7931
    @nadinerutherford7931 День назад +3

    U are such a strong woman!!!!
    U are not alone with the starting over my dear.

  • @happyphillylove8759
    @happyphillylove8759 День назад +2

    You're looking rejuvenated. You're wise beyond your years .. As it relates to sharing the bills a discussion needs to have before payment time .. my husband and I do well together, what he lacks I got and what I lacks he got .. Kim , greatness awaits you ❤❤

  • @erinbarrow4819
    @erinbarrow4819 День назад +4

    Blessings kim you're looking amazing don't let no one steal your joy

  • @cherryhenry4111
    @cherryhenry4111 2 дня назад +9

    Looking good Kim.

  • @SylviaH62
    @SylviaH62 2 дня назад +4

    Love the makeup! Well done! Continue to take care of yourself with Gods help.

  • @Boldnbeauty40
    @Boldnbeauty40 2 дня назад +2

    Kim I really enjoyed this video! Thanks for being so transparent ❤ Love you girl , may God continue to bless you !! Big up ! Big up 🎉

  • @delvorinebowman4734
    @delvorinebowman4734 День назад +1

    Kim, I really enjoyed this video. Very inspiring words of encouragement. Being in a relationship for some years and you and your partner break up is very hard. You just need to accept the fact, find yourself and move on. It also makes you wiser.

  • @mangoseedfaith5430
    @mangoseedfaith5430 2 дня назад +2

    I really enjoyed this video. Very awesome and uplifting words of encouragement. Especially the part about loving and accepting yourself. Thanks for always sharing even in times when its tough. I hope u feel the prayers of the big up grew. I truly do pray for you. God has already TURNED IT AROUND FOR YOU❤❤

  • @mitchellmiller6035
    @mitchellmiller6035 День назад +1

    Hey Kim nice hearing your thoughts you are so well spoken 🙏🏾❤ keep on doing the do❤

  • @kayon5434
    @kayon5434 День назад

    I really appreciate you're videos kim. Continue doing you

  • @nataliemorgan-chambers8818
    @nataliemorgan-chambers8818 2 дня назад +1

    Hey Kim happy to see you in this mindset ànd spirit. Love you girl God got you. Sending you love and good wishes❤❤❤❤

  • @pamelathomas6502
    @pamelathomas6502 День назад

    Girl , well said, done. Continue being yourself, loving yourself and taking care of yourself.❤

  • @delvorinebowman4734
    @delvorinebowman4734 День назад +2

    Kim, thanks for this inspiring and informative video. Thanks for the tips ❤❤❤

  • @ingareid8680
    @ingareid8680 2 дня назад +1

    Happy Monday and New Month's Blessings Kim and the Big up crew❤ Big up, Big up.

  • @IamSash
    @IamSash День назад +1

    I’m so proud of you & I love how peace looks on you ♥️

  • @SharonWilliams-bm5qh
    @SharonWilliams-bm5qh 2 дня назад +2

    Kim you’re so bless, keep taking care of yourself. Blessings and keep focusing on God.

  • @RR-yi8qg
    @RR-yi8qg День назад

    21:13 this is it! I find that walking has helped tremendously with my fitness lifestyle. I was working out since 2020 and in the latter part of last year and earlier this year, I just could not find it in me to do the same thing everyday again. I realize that I like variety so I’ve been going on walks, doing Pilates, HIIT classes etc. just switching it up and breaking routine

  • @robertaphillip2084
    @robertaphillip2084 День назад

    Alicia I must say that you have the skills of a therapist! So much of what you said resonated with me! Thanks for reminding us to love ourselves! Blessings ❤❤❤❤❤ keep doing you!

  • @whitneygiddings6669
    @whitneygiddings6669 День назад

    I enjoyed this video the most! Thanks Kim❤

  • @jillianwilloughby8956
    @jillianwilloughby8956 2 дня назад +2

    I agree with your thoughts on the 50 ×50 share in a relationship . I will contribute but expect the man to shoulder most of the responsibilities 😊

  • @Nakiyta223
    @Nakiyta223 2 дня назад +6

    I love the lip combo

  • @andricamills7702
    @andricamills7702 День назад

    Excited for this one Kim 🎉❤, really wanted to ask you to do a weight loss vid so I'm glad to see it here❤❤❤

  • @mekaparchment9983
    @mekaparchment9983 День назад +1

    Love how u answer your questions ❤❤❤

  • @SetApartToPray
    @SetApartToPray 2 дня назад +2

    Brilliant words of wisdom, Alecia!

  • @altheadehaney5362
    @altheadehaney5362 День назад

    Baby girl I’m here like a proud aunty, I love your growth, I love your journey, I love the person that you’re becoming and I’m so, so proud of you. Love you 😘.

  • @mureenporter9981
    @mureenporter9981 День назад

    Keep the faith, you look well.Take it easy in deciding your next move.Pray i wish you well.

  • @joywallace6514
    @joywallace6514 День назад

    Kim you are so smart answering the questions .No one is perfect just keep taking care of your health you are going to be fine ♥️♥️

  • @donalynappleton9427
    @donalynappleton9427 2 дня назад +5

    Looking nice as always Kim, I love you so much.❤❤

  • @deanamelvin1936
    @deanamelvin1936 2 дня назад +3

    Everything happen for a reason some of the Q & A answers I can hear you choking up a little not too much I know there’s much more to come from you. ❤❤❤❤

  • @welcome8791
    @welcome8791 День назад +1

    Love this vlog Kim, looking like sweet 16. God is able 🙏🏾💕

  • @clairehall8518
    @clairehall8518 День назад +1

    You are doing extremely well, you have closed your old chapter and time for a new one this is what God wants for you, put yourself first, continue to see your therapist, do what you are doing now as it's therapy. Jaye sparkle is going through a divorce and she has a daughter and she is seeing a therapist closer to God and does her content starting a fresh and is a lot happier you are young and beautiful and intelligent. Nothing wrong with living alone yes it can be lonely you will feel it when you are ill or down and want a hug but perhaps go see your brother more if he is in NY, see your mom, continue talking about it on your videos, yes ten minutes of going outside and walking, enjoy nature, when down watch the calming videos, nature, birds chirping, rain chill do deep breaths, have long baths, don't get stressed out, yes listen music, deep breaths, dry brush skin, put you first, you need the break from the therapist it's good to you are doing well. My 19 year old daughter passed away in my arms four years today I am same age as your mom slightly older was just her and I we were extremely close, when she passed away suddenly and it took the wind out of me I have become ill now I am coming out of it saw a therapist stopped and I am doing all those things help me and when I am feeling alone I feel breath, listen music and self learn too do courses online and you will come out of it. Do not let anybody degrade you or listen to negativity.❤

  • @gisellelittle5898
    @gisellelittle5898 2 дня назад

    Bless up kim , nice to see u .. we just had a hurricane passing Trinidad 🇹🇹

  • @hazelmiles2363
    @hazelmiles2363 2 дня назад +6

    Hi Kim always a pleasure watching your video and i do enjoy it am 64 and that 50 /50 thing not going to work with mi just like watching you
    Nuff blessings and love ❤️ 😍 💖 to you

  • @shellyanne7
    @shellyanne7 День назад

    Hey Kim, good to see you Boo, enjoyed this GRWM chitchat, you are looking Gargeous and makeup look so pretty ❤❤

  • @user-kj6gu8hm3s
    @user-kj6gu8hm3s 2 дня назад

    Hey kim right deh suh love u the maturity is awesome .We praying for each othet im so happy and proud of u god love us all stay bless one love be safe. ❤

  • @priscillaanderson6059
    @priscillaanderson6059 День назад +2

    Kim I kw you dnt really give me a tumb up but do not be afraid to start over you are young just 34 so dnt be afraid to started over fear is the problem in human being life if you need to started over go ahead and do so

  • @AngelaBrown-zo1by
    @AngelaBrown-zo1by 2 дня назад

    Kim what ever u go thrue God is with u all the way🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @denisedean2446
    @denisedean2446 День назад

    You are young and have a bright future. Enjoy getting to know yourself.

  • @jenniferhaynes8625
    @jenniferhaynes8625 День назад +1

    Always love seeing you❤

  • @faithevans5428
    @faithevans5428 2 дня назад

    Kim I really enjoyed this Episode. I am so very proud of you. God bless you my dear.

  • @jenf9272
    @jenf9272 День назад

    I have enjoyed this Q&A very much Kim. Keep loving and caring for yourself girl. You are beautiful. 💝🥳🥳🥳

  • @IngaSTV
    @IngaSTV День назад

    Love the Q&A

  • @raquelf3627
    @raquelf3627 День назад +3

    You are doing great Kim. Love your story. I love Florida and no family here, I move here because there is a lot do here, beach’s, restaurants, warm weather, cruise port, international airport, quick trip to Jamaica. I see that you were seeking church you can try New Life Fellowship center in Sunrise. Love your vlog

  • @barbarahylton1869
    @barbarahylton1869 2 дня назад +2

    Well said Kim You will be fine

  • @leoniefearon2501
    @leoniefearon2501 День назад

    Very pretty intelligent and positive kim❤

  • @Bubbles-fw2ps
    @Bubbles-fw2ps 2 дня назад +5

    Kim, I agree with you on the 50/50 .Also “ Time heals all wounds” and “there is a time and season for everything “ I am glad to see you rising above your situation, and loving yourself. You are worth nothing but the best…Blessings , ❤️

  • @user-kp7fc8ne2y
    @user-kp7fc8ne2y День назад

    Kim have found the peace that God gives 🎉🎉🎉🎉so happy for you

  • @mscarlenek
    @mscarlenek День назад +1

    This was a therapy session. 🎉Gwaan do di do @Alicia Kim

  • @nyashawilliams4668
    @nyashawilliams4668 2 дня назад +3

    Amen I like that getting more closer to god yes sister Alicia Kim.

  • @charmainepowell-lynch5463
    @charmainepowell-lynch5463 День назад

    I love you 💕 Kim you motivate me so much.i think I need to learn to do my makeup you stay bless 😊

  • @kingdomtalkwithmichelle3356
    @kingdomtalkwithmichelle3356 День назад

    Keep shining Queen ❤❤❤❤You are loved .

  • @hendriettadiko6452
    @hendriettadiko6452 2 дня назад

    I love you beautiful lady ❤ May God continue to bless and protect you 💕🙏 You are awesome honey 🇿🇦

  • @BBG-rg8mu
    @BBG-rg8mu День назад

    Kim, you know seh mi love you wearing that colour hair🌺🌸 yes it gives you a bright glow

  • @ceeforyourself
    @ceeforyourself День назад

    I love listening to you because somehow you always speak life into me in some small or major way. Letting go is the key lesson I've learnt too recently! I pray for you all the time love 😘 also, if you were starting YT NOW what would you do?

  • @marionrobinson2014
    @marionrobinson2014 2 дня назад +1

    Continue to keep your head high you are beautiful indeed

  • @user-fd6jx6rw2y
    @user-fd6jx6rw2y 2 дня назад +10

    My 50 50 relationship is cooked at home and the other 50 are us taking turns when going out to eat. We discussed before leaving home. So we don't look at each other like fools. I think sharing the bills should be a discussion before entering into a relationship.

  • @Crissyjswayvlogs
    @Crissyjswayvlogs День назад

    Enjoyed this video❤

  • @serenity2977
    @serenity2977 День назад

    Enjoyed the chat💕

  • @sashagayegray4225
    @sashagayegray4225 День назад +3

    Super intelligent Kim

  • @qudetteclarke8644
    @qudetteclarke8644 2 дня назад

    Thanks for the motivation Kim
    I'm different

  • @ChrissyM5585
    @ChrissyM5585 2 дня назад +1

    Kim darling!!!! Love yuh mi girl❤❤❤

  • @normamowatt9999
    @normamowatt9999 День назад

    Hello Alicia. My dear, mistake happened, and we do learn from them. Most of the time, things happen for a reason. Just remember, when we fall, we get up, brush yourselves off, and start again. You're blessed. Continue holding on to your faith. The Father will see you through. Take care of your dear self.🙏🏽👌🏽💞

  • @sharonp9462
    @sharonp9462 2 дня назад

    Here Kim , happy to see you❤

  • @beverlyrose4517
    @beverlyrose4517 2 дня назад +4

    Blessing kim

  • @clairehall8518
    @clairehall8518 День назад +1

    You are doing well carry on as you are, for meeting people yes like the person said part time job, or voluntary work with elderly people. Florida is a lonely place if planning to move check out parts of the USA that is slightly more popular with people coming out more. Not sure if your mom works but if not perhaps she could come up and spend a few weeks with you and you go shopping together, places, do mother and daughter things, take your time and do what you are doing. Think one step at a time take it day by day, no rush, five years is a bit too far ahead. Think long and hard.

  • @torresslick5738
    @torresslick5738 2 дня назад +1

    I hate that I am not getting the notifications early but I am here❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @AliciaKim
      @AliciaKim  2 дня назад +1

      Try turn it off then on again 👀

  • @kamillemcpherson8603
    @kamillemcpherson8603 День назад

    I enjoyed my own company so been alone is really not a problem I must say. I enjoyed doing my own thing whenever I want yo so yeah xxx

  • @maxinemorris9789
    @maxinemorris9789 2 дня назад +3

    You might not have blood relatives but you have become a part of some household, we always look forward catching up with you ❤

    • @AliciaKim
      @AliciaKim  День назад

      🫶🏽🫶🏽

    • @maxinemorris9789
      @maxinemorris9789 День назад

      @@AliciaKim God bless you girl , just put God always before you, he has big plans for you….nuff love 💕

  • @CharleneJohnson-fq5tx
    @CharleneJohnson-fq5tx День назад

    If you move try Central Florida if you still want to live in Florida. Its family friendly. Moving to a new state may be a big move right now. I moved from South Florida to Central Florida and never regreted it. That was my birth home.

  • @brendadwyer8005
    @brendadwyer8005 2 дня назад +1

    I can agree with you

  • @UNRULYMARSHA
    @UNRULYMARSHA 2 дня назад

    I enjoyed the chit-chat

  • @hopehenry29
    @hopehenry29 День назад

    Great words kim

  • @sherriannjordan169
    @sherriannjordan169 2 дня назад +1

    Blessings Kim ❤

  • @darlenesmith6827
    @darlenesmith6827 День назад

    Very well received!

  • @gailwalker8703
    @gailwalker8703 2 дня назад

    Hello Kimmy i love this chit chat keep doing de do❤

  • @milandbennett3465
    @milandbennett3465 2 дня назад

    I got to give this video a like