Social dilemma brain washed us, all of us have experienced such. We losing ourselves to our phones, they have become the side dish in our lives....now we look at these new smart phone like😏YOU 🍎 you did this nonsense to Adamand Eve, now us. Can we try harder to interact with each other.
so scary cause it might be true. it's so nice to start with someone when they have nothing, then when you have something you will realise they stayed when you had nothing so even if you lose it all they would stay. He looks so sad , he looks so regretful like his the one who forced things, maybe cause of his age, maybe cause of finally feeling a connection with someone , which is something he has never had before.
I love love my phone and when I’m with a guy I don’t love, I literally have to remind myself to always put it down out of respect 😕 but if I love the guy, I don’t even think about it much. It becomes easy to respect a partner you love😅
I love how honest he is about his challenges in his marriage. I pray things work out for them or just let your husband go, and have your peace of mind.
Sominzi did say that Mzanzi should not be amazed when he succeed, because his ancestor( Mom) is going to open doors for him. So, her mom is already chasing away all fake,toxic company
Thing is this age difference thing no cap....Mohale is still at the age of social addiction on the media ...its still his time especially cz you gave him a life of content he's still indulging in being an influencer ....
I mean it's not about age, it's a decision he made to be on his phone. If a person younger than him can choose to stop being addicted to his/her phone then why can't he?
I don't think its about age,ad for me I love phone and TV so much but if it comes for my partner I give him tym,after that I go back to my toys😂 lol,I think mohale he's rude
This Mohale guy has been uptight from the head go for someone in love. Sominzi was the only one madly in love. When a person starts spending time on their phone, know that pretentious feelings of love are fading now. Mohale, can't control it anymore that he doesn't love Sominzi.
Was there ever love between the two? I doubt. Mohale you are wrong. Don't go into a relationship because of fame and money. Somizi did well by not extending that house of yours. It was next to a double storey house and I thought that's where you were from. Are you straight or gay? Som Som spent a lot of money on you or is it only now that you see that Som is umdala ? O sele. You won't go far and you won't get anything that belongs to Som Som. Go back to the drawingboard and think about what you'll do as soon as Somizi divorce you. You'll go back to straight life. Sorry Som Som. There's no longer love here . Somizi is broken. Oh my goodness. I'm confused.
It is more than him being too social. Somizi should consider marriage counseling. Probably then he'll know the reasons behind Mohale being on the phone all the time. Him putting his marriage issues in the public doesn't help. He needs to understand that him being a celebrity has nothing to do with personal life. It should remain personal unless he needs to tell people about it. And in this case I honestly don't see the need and he's painting his husband in a bad way in the public. What worries me rn is that Mohale is already hated by the public, especially on Twitter, so this exposes him to more hate.
@Red Carded you definitely don't know the amount of hate he receives on Twitter daily. And also it is not your place to want him to respect his marriage hence I said Somizi shouldn't have taken the issue to the public. He is giving people like yourself the platform to give inputs on something that has absolutely nothing to do with you. And who said Mohale isn't working? Mohale is a business man and is not entirely dependent on Somizi and even if he wasn't working, Somizi shouldn't have said these things to the public. It's their marriage (Him and Mohale), not ours. What happens within it has nothing to do with us.
@Red Carded no marriage is perfect and Mohale shouldn't be boxed just because he is married to Somizi. Somizi should have done the right thing and went for counseling with his husband.
@Red Carded you really don't know Mohale. Somizi can't speak publicly about his marriage issues without the consent of Mohale and you have no opinion over their marriage.
@Red Carded don't act like you don't understand my point. Posting pictures is different to letting fans deep into your marital affairs especially without your partner's consent. Yes marriage isn't meant to be a burden on one person. But that it isn't our place to question. I understand people don't like Mohale and think he's using somizi but that doesn't make what somizi did right. He should understand that there is only so much he can expose to us and that when he's at home he's not a celebrity but a husband and should be responsible with the decisions he makes. Anyways they are both happy right now and believe that they have both learned from the situation. Talking about this is no longer necessary.
Being in a relationship where there are no conversations is borrrrrrrring mina I got out of a relationship of ten years umuntu wakhona was always quite ...there was no communication or whatsoever I got tired and left mxm ... Mina I want my partner to be my friend . This Mohale guy mxmmmmm 🙄🙄🙄🙄
I think he could talk to his husband without coming to social media. He could speak about it "only" after they have solve the issue with at home. Social media is full of advises and can break relationship.
SOMIZI IS NOT BEING FAIR AND RESPECTFUL TO HIS MAN.. THIS IS A PRIVATE CONVISATION..BETWEEN HIM AND HIS HUSBAND.. NO SOCIAL MEDIA!!! I'M CREANGING... SOMIZI IS ALSO OBV. BOSESD WITH HIS PHONE... LOOK NOW!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE HIM BUT, HONEY THIS IS PLAIN WRONG!!! UTSHATILE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There is nothing hurtful like silence in the house it ends making someone to live guest life, mohale plz dont start with us cause we know u through somizi
my marriage of 20 years ended becz of the phn and facebook .l really hate phns only that it connects mi wth my family frm a distance .if it wasnt for communicating wth my loved ones especial my nunuberies ngabe anginayo iPhone .ngiyayinyanya .simple
I feel sorry for you Som-som, I wish I was near to you just to give you a big Hug from me which I assume you deserve it before going into further step on resolving the matter, please take care of yourself Som-som
I love love my phone and when I’m with a guy I don’t love, I literally have to remind myself to always put it down out of respect 😕 but if I love the guy, I don’t even think about it much. It becomes easy to respect a partner you love😅
Somizi has a point. I hate phones, ppl has forgotten how to have nice conversations or bond bcos of these gadgets. I complain all the time to my friends and boyfriend but I would often let it go bcos I thought I was the borring one.
That's so not true my neighbours were the 1st gay couple to tie the not in Bayern and are still happily together for 15 years and before that, they dated 10 years (25 years together). During that time 1000s of heterosexual marriages fell apart. Connie Furgerson, Sophie Ndaba and many others are divorcees from hetero marriages. If your statement was true no Christian or heteros would divorce but they do!!! You just sound homophobic like Trump!!
Mmm this is heartbreaking cs I've just realized tht I'm the one who is always busy with my wrk Eish things gotta change he doesn't text often cs he doesn't wanna disturb me while I'm wrkng hle Let's respect abantu bethu hle😢 Not only a phone is dangerous guys #ConnectNoMuntuWakho
Guys have you ever experienced the restaurant one? It makes you feel like everyone is looking at you because you are with this person and ena he’s with his phone. Making it look like wa mobora. I understand Somizis pain 😢
Phone cut off time does not work if the heart is not there,its imprisonment to the spouse he should just be honest what he wants if its marriage he should work on it and not be forced
Somizi this breaks my heart 💔😭. I love you Somgaga and all I can say is - maybe you should leave him people don’t change and it won’t get better 6 years later. Let him go find his match and pray that karma serves him his own plate. I’ve never been a fan of his pretentious ways from the time you introduced him to us, but ke we have to love you enough to respect your choices, but uMohale ndaku mqhwaba anye apha!!! Uphambene ucinga ba soko nwatyiswa nguban xa uzobu busy nursing a heartbreak apha😡 angazo nxila!!! This is 2020 and you’ve achieved a lot already so he can’t start bringing you personal problems now Haai bo!!!
It would have even been better if he had called a family meeting so they can talk to Mohale and also give him a chance to lay his complaints about the relationship.
@@LethoHali then marriage counseling should be the next option for such issues. We can support Somizi as his fans but what will him sharing his and Mohale's issues on social media result in?
AYE SOM SOM.....MY HEART JUST GOES OUT FOR YOU....I REALLY FEEL YOUR PAIN......I ALWAYS ADMIRE U FOR UR AUTHENCITY.....U R A TRUE AND HONEST SOUL....I FEEL THAT U R BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF.....AND IN MY OPINION ITS TOO LATE TO RESUSCITATE THIS RELATIONSHIP......THIS BOY HAS MADE HIS WAY INTO UR HEART.....REACHED HIS GOAL AND WILL STAY IN IT AS LONG AS U KEEP HIM......IN ORDER FOR HIM TO PURSUE HIS DREAM LIFE.....U WILL ONLY REMAIN IN TEARS AND HE WILL DESTROY UR BEAUTIFUL BUBBLY PERSONALITY......SO B4 IT GETS UGLY......IT WOULD B WISE 4 U TO GET OUT OF THIS MESS AS SOON AS U CAN FOR UR OWN MENTAL HEALTH.....COX IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE.....I REALLY CARE FOR U SOM SOM AS A SON......U DONT DESRVE THIS TREATMENT
My heart is broken Som G because you gave him all the love he deserves and he is here hurting you, and I pray to God to bring the solution in your marriage, God will direct you Somizi if he fell inlove for your luxury or he really loves you, wish you all the best ,you such a good person love you so much SomG😘😘
You touched my heart. You were really not my person, i ddnt like ypu but you just touched me because wena its like you just need to be happy but life happened. E bohloko bro. So painful after you worked hard to have a good life. Now you have money but then happiness dololo.
😔 Eishhh I'm so sorry for what u going through hey, talk to him man and tryna come to some kind of an agreement. Phone's r a problem in a relationship. Wish u guys all the best and happiness.♥️
Social media relationships🙄!!! Leave social media and be quiet about your relationships... I feel like this Mohale guy isn't for Somizi - also the age gap to big...
Som Som you deserve good state of mind,more wealth above all you deserve LOVE coz you're a kind hearted soul. Don't let anyone anywhere take advantage of you,You've worked hard to be who you are now.Don't let anybody destroy your mind.
Somjii is hyper, mahale is a quit, shy personality. Somizi your marriage is not for public, sort your problems internally. They shouldn't have got married that quick.
I love u soo much Somizi n u deserve better n I dnt want u to be hurt by love.U gifted n no one wil ever take that away from u.This fone issue is a homewrecker n if u address it n it stays the same,please leave him cos u wil b surprised that someone out there loves u unconditionally n wth no personal vendetta.U wil find someone who wil give u attention babe,n remember,U ONE OF A KIND N U SPECIAL, NO DUPLICATE OF U. People get married n divorce n remarry n find love again,there are many guys out there n u wil find some1 more than him.(Ungahlaleli into engekhoyo pls).I wish u a gud life darling n I hope n pray here in Israel that u wil b happy again😘
"If u choose to see things differently, the things u look at changes" it could be that Somizi is overreacting, he needs to calm down, at the right time talk to Mohale, express his feelings n frustrations. Its in human nature to make mistakes, no 1 is perfect
So that makes it OK? I think a marriage is a very spiritual thing. Mohale got into this with a fully functional mind. Unfortunately, you cannot have your bread buttered on both sides.
I thinks theres more behind their marriege cause this if its not marrie her for fame or money theres some one behind who were there beflfe her som som i know its useless to give advise to some one whos hurt but for you play the rollwife as always while ignor him being on the phone all the time investigate him on your way seciiretily do not comfront him until you get the whole true close to one of his relative who know him better once you find our take to his fammily to the one who are accepted you & solve the problem wether u break or continue it depend no need to force your in a relationship which bring hurt or un happier it cause dearth or sickness may be he is doing it for a reason ti take u off the picture ti inherrit every thi g and go married hes promise love
Imagine having a husband like Somizi ohhh my God, I will lough my entire life.... Somizi is loud he likes to makes jokes tjooo I wish okaba straight hl😋❤️💯
Eih somgaga I hear you but besides phone, to love is something else which you can nt fake it besides that phone that fake love is about to explode now . Sorry somgaga something fishy cchk as the time go by
He must go on holiday and be away from the house for some days, not make contact and see what happens. Or if he brings income into the house, he must just keep his income to himself for a little while and see what happens.
Which devil are you saying this is God doing ....what comes from God no man can put a thunder this is from the pit of hell ...end its going there don't mention God on this please
Good evening, Somizi I know how you feel and concur with you. My advice just be Somizi as you are , don't allow Mohale to change the person you are. And really to be honest is RUDE, with me I even hate when we sitting with people then others will be on their phones , I get mad really. I'm with you NOTE I like you and love you. He was looking for your wealth , he must just be honest WHY after the marriage.
When you have to tell someone more than once, they don't care. Period. Sending you love Somizi, I had no idea you were so blinded by this boy. Maybe he pretended well because I don't think that you are naive. Wishing you well.
Nah it's all about respect darling. If that's how YOU act then fine but don't group us up. It has nothing to do with whether you're millennials or gen z.
I'm sorry to hear that, technology has a way of worming it's way in our social livelihood especially to our loved ones, hopefully someday she will realize that effect her phone has towards herself and her loved ones(you)❤dont give up on trying to make her see that you are longing for her time🤗😊
Hello Somizi. What you and ur husband are going through is tough especially just after getting married. Evil attack marriages and this is just warm-ups. Get ready for a turbulent journey. May both of you keep God at the centre of ur union and may his Grace sustain the marriage. Otherwise you both deserve better and is never too late to choose yourself and ask God for the real soulmate who will fulfill You.
Aowa Somizi doesn't even seem like the type of person to run out of conversations with , he's so happy and bubbly and can also be serious and just versatile ...
One thing I think you should learn is to talk to him... and not to the world, you guys are married now, your wedding was ours, the marriage is yours and that’s u and him only! Get a solution to ur problem ok 👍
@@triciakekana have the same experience, hence I'm laughing. My partner is so addicted, if not scrolling for no reasons, he is playing games. I gave up long time
It's the age difference my brother....when you marry outside of your age group 'intanga zakho'...expect such and be prepared to grow together through it. Either that or...
My darling you deserve more than you think you do... you deserve love and loyalty. You have a big heart n I wish I could meet up with you for tea sometime... stay blessed and everything will be okay.
you create the relationship rules. no phone during dinner. no phone in the bedroom. social media is not real life.
He is giving us the heads up, this thing do happen. Social media is dominant in real life
When people are still dating these habits show and love masks them until the ring is on and the eyes open to what was always been there.
Unyanisile sisi
Social dilemma brain washed us, all of us have experienced such. We losing ourselves to our phones, they have become the side dish in our lives....now we look at these new smart phone like😏YOU 🍎 you did this nonsense to Adamand Eve, now us. Can we try harder to interact with each other.
Sounds like control, like my mother's house when I was a kid.
Deep down Somizi knows that Mohale is not inlove with him. For his sake I hope hes married out of community of property.
Or prenup marriage
That's what I am hoping for. This is totally wrong.
Eish that too neh, but I want Somsom to find happiness, he's been through a lot.
😂Ripped
Nah I’ve never believed that Mohale loves Somizi🤷♀️
so scary cause it might be true. it's so nice to start with someone when they have nothing, then when you have something you will realise they stayed when you had nothing so even if you lose it all they would stay. He looks so sad , he looks so regretful like his the one who forced things, maybe cause of his age, maybe cause of finally feeling a connection with someone , which is something he has never had before.
I also didnt believed that Mohale loved Somizi he followed the luxurious life that Somizi was living.
I also never believed it
He play with Somizi's feelings that wrong.
His true colours coming out 😭💔
I feel sorry for Som Som he is a nice guy l think he is with a wrong partner
Very true. I think mohale doesnt love somizi the way. Somizi loves him. I hope he married out of community of property. Sitobona umhlolo impela.
Mohale is there for wrong reasons , som som deserves better waaaayyyyy better
I just love Somizi, his funny who wouldnt love him
U Somizi has a good heart he deserves to be loved like he has so much love
So true he has a good heart
True he doesn't deserve this 😔
When love is no longer served, walk away.
I love love my phone and when I’m with a guy I don’t love, I literally have to remind myself to always put it down out of respect 😕 but if I love the guy, I don’t even think about it much. It becomes easy to respect a partner you love😅
Sooo true 🥰
I love how honest he is about his challenges in his marriage. I pray things work out for them or just let your husband go, and have your peace of mind.
i honestly think Mohale married Somizi for fame & money🙂
Eish Theo asazi, only Mohale and God knows we can only voice our speculating opinion qha❤🤗
I agree
true
That is so true
Sominzi did say that Mzanzi should not be amazed when he succeed, because his ancestor( Mom) is going to open doors for him.
So, her mom is already chasing away all fake,toxic company
You can tell the pain in his voice
Sad😢
😭😭😭😭😭 He doesn't deserve all ds
Thing is this age difference thing no cap....Mohale is still at the age of social addiction on the media ...its still his time especially cz you gave him a life of content he's still indulging in being an influencer ....
Nop it’s disrespectful regardless of his age
I'm younger than him but I respect relationship hey
Exactly my point
I mean it's not about age, it's a decision he made to be on his phone. If a person younger than him can choose to stop being addicted to his/her phone then why can't he?
I don't think its about age,ad for me I love phone and TV so much but if it comes for my partner I give him tym,after that I go back to my toys😂 lol,I think mohale he's rude
This Mohale guy has been uptight from the head go for someone in love. Sominzi was the only one madly in love.
When a person starts spending time on their phone, know that pretentious feelings of love are fading now.
Mohale, can't control it anymore that he doesn't love Sominzi.
@Red Carded 😰😰😰😰as for "only get clothes and gifts"🤯🤯kurafu but only if Somizi did the prenup..
I love somizi so much n i don't like to see him hurting like this. He's really a good person with a good heart
Good people get hurt so much
Was there ever love between the two? I doubt. Mohale you are wrong. Don't go into a relationship because of fame and money. Somizi did well by not extending that house of yours. It was next to a double storey house and I thought that's where you were from. Are you straight or gay? Som Som spent a lot of money on you or is it only now that you see that Som is umdala ? O sele. You won't go far and you won't get anything that belongs to Som Som. Go back to the drawingboard and think about what you'll do as soon as Somizi divorce you. You'll go back to straight life. Sorry Som Som. There's no longer love here . Somizi is broken. Oh my goodness. I'm confused.
It is more than him being too social. Somizi should consider marriage counseling. Probably then he'll know the reasons behind Mohale being on the phone all the time. Him putting his marriage issues in the public doesn't help. He needs to understand that him being a celebrity has nothing to do with personal life. It should remain personal unless he needs to tell people about it. And in this case I honestly don't see the need and he's painting his husband in a bad way in the public. What worries me rn is that Mohale is already hated by the public, especially on Twitter, so this exposes him to more hate.
@Red Carded you definitely don't know the amount of hate he receives on Twitter daily. And also it is not your place to want him to respect his marriage hence I said Somizi shouldn't have taken the issue to the public. He is giving people like yourself the platform to give inputs on something that has absolutely nothing to do with you. And who said Mohale isn't working? Mohale is a business man and is not entirely dependent on Somizi and even if he wasn't working, Somizi shouldn't have said these things to the public. It's their marriage (Him and Mohale), not ours. What happens within it has nothing to do with us.
@Red Carded no marriage is perfect and Mohale shouldn't be boxed just because he is married to Somizi. Somizi should have done the right thing and went for counseling with his husband.
@Red Carded you really don't know Mohale. Somizi can't speak publicly about his marriage issues without the consent of Mohale and you have no opinion over their marriage.
@Red Carded I am defending what is right.
@Red Carded don't act like you don't understand my point. Posting pictures is different to letting fans deep into your marital affairs especially without your partner's consent.
Yes marriage isn't meant to be a burden on one person. But that it isn't our place to question. I understand people don't like Mohale and think he's using somizi but that doesn't make what somizi did right. He should understand that there is only so much he can expose to us and that when he's at home he's not a celebrity but a husband and should be responsible with the decisions he makes. Anyways they are both happy right now and believe that they have both learned from the situation. Talking about this is no longer necessary.
This is sad, Som Som doesn't deserve this😓...I think Mohale has been pretending all along
He's been through a lot, and needs love now - I hope it all goes well so I can fly to SA and hug him.
Being in a relationship where there are no conversations is borrrrrrrring mina I got out of a relationship of ten years umuntu wakhona was always quite ...there was no communication or whatsoever I got tired and left mxm ... Mina I want my partner to be my friend . This Mohale guy mxmmmmm 🙄🙄🙄🙄
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It's never a good idea to run to media with marital problems.. Talk to your partner, if not- go for counseling..
I think he could talk to his husband without coming to social media. He could speak about it "only" after they have solve the issue with at home. Social media is full of advises and can break relationship.
But this is a lesson to some of us and I've learnt a lot from this statement ❤
@@lisangwadla4846 I learn so much from him... Thank you for sharing...this video is an eye opener
SOMIZI IS NOT BEING FAIR AND RESPECTFUL TO HIS MAN.. THIS IS A PRIVATE CONVISATION..BETWEEN HIM AND HIS HUSBAND.. NO SOCIAL MEDIA!!! I'M CREANGING... SOMIZI IS ALSO OBV. BOSESD WITH HIS PHONE... LOOK NOW!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE HIM BUT, HONEY THIS IS PLAIN WRONG!!! UTSHATILE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@lisangwadla4846 I'm you here, it an eye opener. Now I know I'm the only who feels like Somizi. I really thought I was the weird one.
Mara somG said he talked to him about it and still there is no change.
There is nothing hurtful like silence in the house it ends making someone to live guest life, mohale plz dont start with us cause we know u through somizi
Relationships are getting broken because of phones 😪😪😪😪😪its sad
This so sad I feel him
Yaah
I watched a German doccie, were a 7year old stole his dad's phone and hid it away for 2 days because he just wanted daddy's attention😪😪😪
@@nomxhosapekani7966 💔💔💔
my marriage of 20 years ended becz of the phn and facebook .l really hate phns only that it connects mi wth my family frm a distance .if it wasnt for communicating wth my loved ones especial my nunuberies ngabe anginayo iPhone .ngiyayinyanya .simple
What you are saying somgaga is so true, it happening in most relationships
Phone can indeed destroy a good relationship Somsom this is true🤔🤞
Somizi: I wished he could touch me more than his phone
Me: 😳
I feel sorry for you Som-som, I wish I was near to you just to give you a big Hug from me which I assume you deserve it before going into further step on resolving the matter, please take care of yourself Som-som
Preach Somizi, Preach...its not right, its a toxic behavior.
I was once in a relationship like this....yhoo it hurts
I love love my phone and when I’m with a guy I don’t love, I literally have to remind myself to always put it down out of respect 😕 but if I love the guy, I don’t even think about it much. It becomes easy to respect a partner you love😅
Somizi has a point. I hate phones, ppl has forgotten how to have nice conversations or bond bcos of these gadgets. I complain all the time to my friends and boyfriend but I would often let it go bcos I thought I was the borring one.
I understand how he's feeling...it's touching 😭😭😭😭😭
Forcing things outside God's creation will never work....God ordained Man and Woman in marriage
Amen
Well said,Ameeeeeennnn🙌🙌🙌🙌
Love thy neighbour
That's so not true my neighbours were the 1st gay couple to tie the not in Bayern and are still happily together for 15 years and before that, they dated 10 years (25 years together). During that time 1000s of heterosexual marriages fell apart. Connie Furgerson, Sophie Ndaba and many others are divorcees from hetero marriages. If your statement was true no Christian or heteros would divorce but they do!!! You just sound homophobic like Trump!!
Yall so called christians and being judgmental 😕😬😲
Age difference.... my 25year old is always on the phone..
Lol😂😂😂😂😂
It has nothing to do with age guys
The phone almost ruined my relationship but we realized it and agreed to our new rules
I understand you,this is helpful.it will help us to shape up, our relationships
Mmm this is heartbreaking cs I've just realized tht I'm the one who is always busy with my wrk Eish things gotta change he doesn't text often cs he doesn't wanna disturb me while I'm wrkng hle
Let's respect abantu bethu hle😢
Not only a phone is dangerous guys
#ConnectNoMuntuWakho
The guy never loved Somizi and probably never will, he is toxic 😩
Guys have you ever experienced the restaurant one? It makes you feel like everyone is looking at you because you are with this person and ena he’s with his phone. Making it look like wa mobora. I understand Somizis pain 😢
I understand you Mr S.... love you both♥️♥️ 🙏 it's true oo
Phone cut off time does not work if the heart is not there,its imprisonment to the spouse he should just be honest what he wants if its marriage he should work on it and not be forced
Hi du u maybe knw of a Tshabalala in namibia...
Somizi this breaks my heart 💔😭. I love you Somgaga and all I can say is - maybe you should leave him people don’t change and it won’t get better 6 years later. Let him go find his match and pray that karma serves him his own plate. I’ve never been a fan of his pretentious ways from the time you introduced him to us, but ke we have to love you enough to respect your choices, but uMohale ndaku mqhwaba anye apha!!! Uphambene ucinga ba soko nwatyiswa nguban xa uzobu busy nursing a heartbreak apha😡 angazo nxila!!! This is 2020 and you’ve achieved a lot already so he can’t start bringing you personal problems now Haai bo!!!
Aii guys somizi doesn't deserve this..SomG please get yourself a wife because this mohale guy is probably busy with other Chicks hle..
This vid is giving me feels... It's too true...
I hate to hear the hurt in his tone.
I feel you Som-som, address it as soon as possible plz don't let that thing you call a fone to come between you guys. I love you guys 💕
It would have even been better if he had called a family meeting so they can talk to Mohale and also give him a chance to lay his complaints about the relationship.
Some families don’t care
@@LethoHali then marriage counseling should be the next option for such issues. We can support Somizi as his fans but what will him sharing his and Mohale's issues on social media result in?
Somsom tell him with immediate effect, ,,
“People are obsessed with their phones” thats true...
so sad .
This technology though..Eish
Phones destroy relationships...
I'm literally crying.. I feel for you Som Som, if he is not willing to stop- please leave his arse mxm
AYE SOM SOM.....MY HEART JUST GOES OUT FOR YOU....I REALLY FEEL YOUR PAIN......I ALWAYS ADMIRE U FOR UR AUTHENCITY.....U R A TRUE AND HONEST SOUL....I FEEL THAT U R BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF.....AND IN MY OPINION ITS TOO LATE TO RESUSCITATE THIS RELATIONSHIP......THIS BOY HAS MADE HIS WAY INTO UR HEART.....REACHED HIS GOAL AND WILL STAY IN IT AS LONG AS U KEEP HIM......IN ORDER FOR HIM TO PURSUE HIS DREAM LIFE.....U WILL ONLY REMAIN IN TEARS AND HE WILL DESTROY UR BEAUTIFUL BUBBLY PERSONALITY......SO B4 IT GETS UGLY......IT WOULD B WISE 4 U TO GET OUT OF THIS MESS AS SOON AS U CAN FOR UR OWN MENTAL HEALTH.....COX IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE.....I REALLY CARE FOR U SOM SOM AS A SON......U DONT DESRVE THIS TREATMENT
I've learnt something today. Thank you Somizi❣
My heart is broken Som G because you gave him all the love he deserves and he is here hurting you, and I pray to God to bring the solution in your marriage, God will direct you Somizi if he fell inlove for your luxury or he really loves you, wish you all the best ,you such a good person love you so much SomG😘😘
You touched my heart. You were really not my person, i ddnt like ypu but you just touched me because wena its like you just need to be happy but life happened. E bohloko bro. So painful after you worked hard to have a good life. Now you have money but then happiness dololo.
I think mohale is in to u for money n fame... period
Period
I think the boy is young he will mature
Younger than Somizi but not young to adhere to this.
He was matured before marriage?
When I was 23 I thought I was mature until I was 29 realised I was not.
Somizi is more than 20 years older
@@dineomaliehe2526 when I was 27 I thought I was matured till I was 28 😐 its life... But some get matured at an early age
Somgaga must just take the phone, I mean it's his money
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hazel Thandeka. Wow 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Kwiiii kwiiiii😂😂😂😂
Lol you not helping at all
Khuzeka sana
Shame Somizi really loves Mohale, he reminds me of a time when I loved this other guy more than I loved me.
Somizi shame loves Mohale more than Mohale does....eishh I feel you SomG
😔 Eishhh I'm so sorry for what u going through hey, talk to him man and tryna come to some kind of an agreement. Phone's r a problem in a relationship. Wish u guys all the best and happiness.♥️
Social media relationships🙄!!! Leave social media and be quiet about your relationships... I feel like this Mohale guy isn't for Somizi - also the age gap to big...
What's their age gap?
Som Som you deserve good state of mind,more wealth above all you deserve LOVE coz you're a kind hearted soul. Don't let anyone anywhere take advantage of you,You've worked hard to be who you are now.Don't let anybody destroy your mind.
Somjii is hyper, mahale is a quit, shy personality.
Somizi your marriage is not for public, sort your problems internally.
They shouldn't have got married that quick.
You are right, whereas on the other hand....he needed to let it out, remember he connects better with the public.... just saying
Don't be angry brother, we learn from mistakes ,go tla loka
I love u soo much Somizi n u deserve better n I dnt want u to be hurt by love.U gifted n no one wil ever take that away from u.This fone issue is a homewrecker n if u address it n it stays the same,please leave him cos u wil b surprised that someone out there loves u unconditionally n wth no personal vendetta.U wil find someone who wil give u attention babe,n remember,U ONE OF A KIND N U SPECIAL, NO DUPLICATE OF U. People get married n divorce n remarry n find love again,there are many guys out there n u wil find some1 more than him.(Ungahlaleli into engekhoyo pls).I wish u a gud life darling n I hope n pray here in Israel that u wil b happy again😘
"If u choose to see things differently, the things u look at changes" it could be that Somizi is overreacting, he needs to calm down, at the right time talk to Mohale, express his feelings n frustrations. Its in human nature to make mistakes, no 1 is perfect
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@@AlienDiff You have a point there
Ay man I feel bad if Somgaga is hurt I love the guy wish him all the best.
Mohale is still young.... Somizi has long passed Mohales stage
So that makes it OK? I think a marriage is a very spiritual thing. Mohale got into this with a fully functional mind. Unfortunately, you cannot have your bread buttered on both sides.
Not true i am 25 my boyfriend is samw age but when we are together we are all.about each other . Phones le
I thinks theres more behind their marriege cause this if its not marrie her for fame or money theres some one behind who were there beflfe her som som i know its useless to give advise to some one whos hurt but for you play the rollwife as always while ignor him being on the phone all the time investigate him on your way seciiretily do not comfront him until you get the whole true close to one of his relative who know him better once you find our take to his fammily to the one who are accepted you & solve the problem wether u break or continue it depend no need to force your in a relationship which bring hurt or un happier it cause dearth or sickness may be he is doing it for a reason ti take u off the picture ti inherrit every thi g and go married hes promise love
We have to be committed to our partners. Have quality time to each other and mostly respect comes first. Phones are distracting in a relationship.
Shame Somizi i feel you yaz.. Kuzoba'sharp jus let him be you've talked to him now its up to him ukuth ezkuze neh
It's so sad Somizi you have a point. Phone have destroyed lives, marriages, relationships. I wish people could respect the people they live with.
Imagine having a husband like Somizi ohhh my God, I will lough my entire life.... Somizi is loud he likes to makes jokes tjooo I wish okaba straight hl😋❤️💯
That's the results of dating a young partner they got nothing in common
Eih somgaga I hear you but besides phone, to love is something else which you can nt fake it besides that phone that fake love is about to explode now .
Sorry somgaga something fishy cchk as the time go by
Mohale has been on the phone ever since the beginning of the relationship, and most of us where wondering why, but Som Som turned a blind eye on it
I hop wen u gt married u signed that thing wc excludes ur property
He must go on holiday and be away from the house for some days, not make contact and see what happens. Or if he brings income into the house, he must just keep his income to himself for a little while and see what happens.
Please Guys dont allow the Davil to come between you please. I love this Family let's stop this start sort things out. Please ❤❤❤❤❤❤💐💐💐💐💐💐😭😭
Which devil are you saying this is God doing ....what comes from God no man can put a thunder this is from the pit of hell ...end its going there don't mention God on this please
@@beautyphiri6909 😐 judging is said to be a sin🤷🏾♀️
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@@AlienDiff thus not judging but collecting u will never see that in His words in the bible...
Wish the world could hear this......
I hate when somebody is with but busy on the phone not paying attention it's a turn off
Worse feeling ever 💔
mmmm amadlozi asekhona kanti... i'm thinking
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Uzongibuza, asikho sbongo esingaka esingavele sishabalale nje,
@@bongumenzihlabisa6121 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Good evening, Somizi I know how you feel and concur with you. My advice just be Somizi as you are , don't allow Mohale to change the person you are. And really to be honest is RUDE, with me I even hate when we sitting with people then others will be on their phones , I get mad really. I'm with you NOTE I like you and love you. He was looking for your wealth , he must just be honest WHY after the marriage.
Ifoni iyaxabanisa Shem..I feel your pain Somgaga😐
mna xeam mohale kade ndambona uba kamthandi somizi
“The one that loves the least controls the relationship.” He May be aware the feeling is not mutual but he chose him... he married him
I feel you Somsom.. been there😭 I haven't seen my bf for almost a year and I am so happy 😭😭 I think I am ready for a new one 😏
When you have to tell someone more than once, they don't care. Period. Sending you love Somizi, I had no idea you were so blinded by this boy. Maybe he pretended well because I don't think that you are naive. Wishing you well.
I find it rude too ....
Somizi you are right the phone can destroy a marriage if people are not careful
Mohale is a millennial thts literally hw we live our lives
Nah it's all about respect darling. If that's how YOU act then fine but don't group us up. It has nothing to do with whether you're millennials or gen z.
My sister is always on her phone and I don't care anymore I'm tired of begging her to spend time with me
I'm sorry to hear that, technology has a way of worming it's way in our social livelihood especially to our loved ones, hopefully someday she will realize that effect her phone has towards herself and her loved ones(you)❤dont give up on trying to make her see that you are longing for her time🤗😊
Same hey
i felt this💔😂
@@DianaPnH me too eish
This narrator is killing me with the accent😂
I can't, I paused the video just to read the comments. She must forgive me shame 🙏
Happy to have put a smile on your face, keep watching more videos so you can destress🖤🤗 I hope you still come through as a ghost😐😐😐
@@sphiwe.maseko it's okay dear, forgiven
😂😂😂 endeeeeaconversation hayi girl
Mmmh I’m wondering how Wht accent🧐
🤔🤔lets hope he will got the msge , well if he doesn’t that means he doesn’t see anything wrong 🙆♂️
I agree wth yu Mr S
Phone idika okukugcina.. Even if it's work related
Hello Somizi. What you and ur husband are going through is tough especially just after getting married. Evil attack marriages and this is just warm-ups. Get ready for a turbulent journey. May both of you keep God at the centre of ur union and may his Grace sustain the marriage. Otherwise you both deserve better and is never too late to choose yourself and ask God for the real soulmate who will fulfill You.
God will always be with you as you are a handsome guy in love.
What is Mohale's profession anyway?
Show him that you can live without him,he doesn't love u
Aowa Somizi doesn't even seem like the type of person to run out of conversations with , he's so happy and bubbly and can also be serious and just versatile ...
One thing I think you should learn is to talk to him... and not to the world, you guys are married now, your wedding was ours, the marriage is yours and that’s u and him only! Get a solution to ur problem ok 👍
Psychologist 💔😭
I agree. I feel his pain
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It is true what Sumizi says. The phone is an uncontrollable evil.
Talk about one hand holding a phone while eating 🤣🤣🤣
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Thats deep
@@triciakekana have the same experience, hence I'm laughing. My partner is so addicted, if not scrolling for no reasons, he is playing games. I gave up long time
@@puseletsomathiso3833 ah mara, but u need to sit down and have a real convo hey cuz especially if it affects 1 of u its really not fair.
It's the age difference my brother....when you marry outside of your age group 'intanga zakho'...expect such and be prepared to grow together through it. Either that or...
My darling you deserve more than you think you do... you deserve love and loyalty. You have a big heart n I wish I could meet up with you for tea sometime... stay blessed and everything will be okay.