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This video really hits the nail on the head about reclaiming self-respect. Sometimes, the strongest move is walking away. What’s your go-to strategy for staying composed in situations like this?
Yes I have one lady that I'm talking to I have pulled back she's starting to chase me more I'm not afraid to lose her because I look at it like this if we are meant to be we are meant to be
I’ve been separated from my wife for over two months. I was chasing her. Acting low value. After I was tired of being left on read and ignored, I told her I was going to leave her alone. Took about a week and she heard I was going out Friday and Saturday. So, Friday she asked me to have lunch with her on Sunday. I think the no contact for a week with going out maybe worried her a bit. Saturday I woke up to a message from her hoping I had a nice time on Friday and asking if we were still on for Sunday. She also been cold to me. But after this text on Saturday she was using smiley emojis and it’s way out of character to how she had been. We always talk once a day with the kids. She didn’t need to text me that. She could have waited til it was time to call the kids. Had lunch with her on Sunday. It was fine. She didn’t talk much to me or look at me much. And there was no relationship talk. But progress is progress. Haven’t really heard from her since and it’s been about 2 days. I’m going to continue to leave her alone and let her know I’m going out and living my life. I do hope we work things out.
Hey bro. Thanks for sharing your situation. It honestly does not sound very promising, as she sounds very closed off and disinterested But likewise b. I sincerely hope you both can work things out with her as marriage is a very sacred arrangement.
@ eh actually she tried to come back home. She heard i went out. But it was with my sister and some family to a murder mystery. Scared her enough that it changed her attitude toward me. She freaked out. Then told me she went in a date with a guy. Then she told me she wanted to come back home and live in the basement. Cause her living situation was not good. But she still needed time to figure out what she wanted. Yet, she was going to date other men. I told her no. She freaked out and said i thought you changed! Ummm well this is a matter of self respect at this point. I’m done with her. I draw the line at the point where she’s dates and goes out with other men. Not interested anymore .
@stephensummers1958 Agreed bro. If she's going out with other men she does not respect you any longer and that is completely okay because now you will get a chance to love yourself more and build your own self-respect. Retain your seed, try to eat better, stay away from all forms of pornography and masturbation and look at how powerful you will become. You sound like an intelligent fellow and I believe things will work out for the best for you. You 100% deserve someone better bro. You have your own home, provided for her to the best of your ability based on what I'm hearing. Don't let her think she can just walk over you and use you conveniently. That's very selfish, toxic and damaging to you. You're a man, blessed with the power of authority from God himself. Testosterone is amazing and makes us who we are. It's time to exercise your authority and make her adhere to your boundaries. That's completely normal for any adult and more so, a man to do. If you lose her, then she really wasn't the person to intertwine with your soul.
These are the kind of situations I am also facing, and i makes a mistake by reaching out to her so quickly, but now i said to myself am not going chase again let me see her reactions about me
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This all sounds great. What if I work with her and bring her to and from work everyday until she gets a car once again? I only work two days a week and she works full time. I’m kinda screwed in a sense! How is that supposed to be effective???
You don’t get involved with a woman at work. Everybody will know your business, if something happens the company will side with the woman and you will be out of a job. You don’t shit where you eat. There are millions of women outside of your employment. You don’t mess with your livelihood. Women are paid to do a job, let them do it and don’t help them either.🤷🏻♂️
Silence isn’t absence, it’s strategy’-what a profound perspective! It’s amazing how much clarity can come from just stepping back. How has silence reshaped your relationships or helped you gain deeper insights?
I have/had a similar situation..... Just keep doing what you are doing (taking her to work). Don't be super friendly or super moody. Just do what you said that you were going to do and leave it at that. She will notice the change w/o you telling her. She Will Say Something about it and maybe even get another way to work. When she says something about it let her know you are not upset with her, but you are aware that she is not interested like you Were and that it is okay with you, but your time/life is just as precious as hers and you have moved on. No excessive emotional outpouring and no long explanations. She understood before you opened your mouth what was happening, she just wants to see if you are making the move out of understanding or unsureness. Before you do this, have a next move and if you want her or not because there will be an outcome. She may walk away, which is good cause like in the information in the video, that means most likely she wasn't interested in you in the first place. Or she Mostly likely will try to readvance you. You must be emotionally/psychologically aware because this is usually Manipulation, but sometimes is sincere. You need to be able to tell which one or if it is some of both or it could come back to bite you in the future. If it's manipulation take it for what it is and either: get what you want out the situation if possible and get out or the best one in my belief is to just get out. Zero Dramatics. And if you see she is using you period with manipulation, forget the rides to work and let her find another way. If she is genuinely in need and uninterested in you in that type of way and is a good person, help her as you said you would as long as it is not attacking your spirit in a negative way. No Dramatics Necessary. I hope this helps you and her brother.
Solid advice bud! The hardest part for me is trying to appear like I'm not super friendly. No apologies. This is fake to me. I rarely reach out first by text or phone as she is frequently eager to talk and seek me out for good times, laughter and playful banter. Maybe I don't need to stop contacting her. She regularly surprises me with love and affection when I least suspect it. Why should I oil the wheels if they aren't squeaking??? JS
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Amen, I periodically do this with any woman I have some level of interest with. It's really important thay you test a woman's interest. Sperate yourself from the outcome and be objective when it comes to women. Trust me when I say women do this kind of shit all the time and they don't not care at all about it. Why shouldn't you to
Are your socials private? When I first went NC I broke after a few days and she admitted she stalks my pages since they're public. I'm now 10 days into NC and she sent me messages on IG while I was asleep and she unsent them before I could read them. And I'm dealing with a very stubborn avoidant so I think NC definitely works.
That's the best thing you could ever do, never stay friends with an ex-girlfriend especially even more so if she was the one that broke it off because you're pretty much accepting a demotion into the friend zone while another man is going to come take your place. And don't think that new guy hasn't been in the picture for a little while already Statistics show that females are mentally checked out of the relationship at least 6 months before the break up and either already has the next man she's been secretly talking to behind your back(most likely even hooked up a few times while y'all were still together) lined up or she's going to rekindle an old fling with someone she was with before you.
@AzariaL7 no contact. Cut off all communication. Don't check their social media accounts. Don't text. Don't reach out to your ex in anyway. Everyone swears by NC and how it will bring your ex back. I don't believe that at all. It's a small sample size of broken people on the internet holding onto hope that NC will work. I read reddit threads and NC very rarely brings your ex back. But it does help the dumpee move on over time.
Solid advice, all of it. Please keep in mind that in most cases, silence is not gonna make her come back. In fact, she's more likely to move on.. too quickly, and repeatedly. Consider it a bullet dodged. What you gain is self-respect. ruclips.net/video/mlhveqLJzFk/видео.htmlfeature=shared&t=17m14s
*This video is absolutely captivating! 'A Woman Will Respond Like This When You Stop Contacting Her' unveils the unexpected reactions you’ve always wondered about-don’t miss this powerful insight*
Silence truly is a powerful test-it’s like a mirror reflecting the truth of someone’s feelings. Have you ever experienced how stepping back revealed a person’s genuine intentions? Share your story, I’d love to hear how it played out for you!
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Really empowering. Exactly the action plan we need. Thank you.
Really love this. Currently I'm in this situation ❤
This video really hits the nail on the head about reclaiming self-respect. Sometimes, the strongest move is walking away. What’s your go-to strategy for staying composed in situations like this?
Yes I have one lady that I'm talking to I have pulled back she's starting to chase me more I'm not afraid to lose her because I look at it like this if we are meant to be we are meant to be
Thank you for this video but how can I play the “Ignoring Game” if/since I’m in a wheelchair 🧑🏻🦼. So she knows when my therapy sessions are?
Excellent Informative And Advice 👍 Thank You Sir.
I. Like thanks 💯
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Long story short, game playing!
I am presently pulling back and moving ahead with my personal life even if I sent that she is very high value in my life .
I’ve been separated from my wife for over two months. I was chasing her. Acting low value. After I was tired of being left on read and ignored, I told her I was going to leave her alone. Took about a week and she heard I was going out Friday and Saturday. So, Friday she asked me to have lunch with her on Sunday. I think the no contact for a week with going out maybe worried her a bit. Saturday I woke up to a message from her hoping I had a nice time on Friday and asking if we were still on for Sunday. She also been cold to me. But after this text on Saturday she was using smiley emojis and it’s way out of character to how she had been. We always talk once a day with the kids. She didn’t need to text me that. She could have waited til it was time to call the kids. Had lunch with her on Sunday. It was fine. She didn’t talk much to me or look at me much. And there was no relationship talk. But progress is progress. Haven’t really heard from her since and it’s been about 2 days. I’m going to continue to leave her alone and let her know I’m going out and living my life. I do hope we work things out.
Hey bro. Thanks for sharing your situation. It honestly does not sound very promising, as she sounds very closed off and disinterested
But likewise b. I sincerely hope you both can work things out with her as marriage is a very sacred arrangement.
@ eh actually she tried to come back home. She heard i went out. But it was with my sister and some family to a murder mystery. Scared her enough that it changed her attitude toward me. She freaked out. Then told me she went in a date with a guy. Then she told me she wanted to come back home and live in the basement. Cause her living situation was not good. But she still needed time to figure out what she wanted. Yet, she was going to date other men. I told her no. She freaked out and said i thought you changed! Ummm well this is a matter of self respect at this point. I’m done with her. I draw the line at the point where she’s dates and goes out with other men. Not interested anymore .
@stephensummers1958 Agreed bro. If she's going out with other men she does not respect you any longer and that is completely okay because now you will get a chance to love yourself more and build your own self-respect.
Retain your seed, try to eat better, stay away from all forms of pornography and masturbation and look at how powerful you will become.
You sound like an intelligent fellow and I believe things will work out for the best for you. You 100% deserve someone better bro. You have your own home, provided for her to the best of your ability based on what I'm hearing. Don't let her think she can just walk over you and use you conveniently. That's very selfish, toxic and damaging to you. You're a man, blessed with the power of authority from God himself. Testosterone is amazing and makes us who we are. It's time to exercise your authority and make her adhere to your boundaries. That's completely normal for any adult and more so, a man to do.
If you lose her, then she really wasn't the person to intertwine with your soul.
Remember valentine is two weeks away. Be careful bro that is my opinion.
@@amoskemoni107 meaning what? Think she will try something?
These are the kind of situations I am also facing, and i makes a mistake by reaching out to her so quickly, but now i said to myself am not going chase again let me see her reactions about me
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This all sounds great. What if I work with her and bring her to and from work everyday until she gets a car once again? I only work two days a week and she works full time. I’m kinda screwed in a sense! How is that supposed to be effective???
You don’t get involved with a woman at work. Everybody will know your business, if something happens the company will side with the woman and you will be out of a job. You don’t shit where you eat. There are millions of women outside of your employment. You don’t mess with your livelihood. Women are paid to do a job, let them do it and don’t help them either.🤷🏻♂️
Silence isn’t absence, it’s strategy’-what a profound perspective! It’s amazing how much clarity can come from just stepping back. How has silence reshaped your relationships or helped you gain deeper insights?
I have/had a similar situation.....
Just keep doing what you are doing (taking her to work). Don't be super friendly or super moody. Just do what you said that you were going to do and leave it at that.
She will notice the change w/o you telling her. She Will Say Something about it and maybe even get another way to work. When she says something about it let her know you are not upset with her, but you are aware that she is not interested like you Were and that it is okay with you, but your time/life is just as precious as hers and you have moved on. No excessive emotional outpouring and no long explanations. She understood before you opened your mouth what was happening, she just wants to see if you are making the move out of understanding or unsureness. Before you do this, have a next move and if you want her or not because there will be an outcome. She may walk away, which is good cause like in the information in the video, that means most likely she wasn't interested in you in the first place. Or she Mostly likely will try to readvance you. You must be emotionally/psychologically aware because this is usually Manipulation, but sometimes is sincere. You need to be able to tell which one or if it is some of both or it could come back to bite you in the future. If it's manipulation take it for what it is and either: get what you want out the situation if possible and get out or the best one in my belief is to just get out. Zero Dramatics.
And if you see she is using you period with manipulation, forget the rides to work and let her find another way. If she is genuinely in need and uninterested in you in that type of way and is a good person, help her as you said you would as long as it is not attacking your spirit in a negative way. No Dramatics Necessary. I hope this helps you and her brother.
Solid advice bud! The hardest part for me is trying to appear like I'm not super friendly. No apologies.
This is fake to me. I rarely reach out first by text or phone as she is frequently eager to talk and seek me out for good times, laughter and playful banter. Maybe I don't need to stop contacting her.
She regularly surprises me with love and affection when I least suspect it. Why should I oil the wheels if they aren't squeaking??? JS
Lol actually it's been four days never heard a word back but hey you win some you lose some m8
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I think everyone should do what they think would work for them. Because none of the things that stoic says work
It works. Though not always, depends on the context of the situation.
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Powerful insight! Silence really does speak louder than words.
Amen, I periodically do this with any woman I have some level of interest with. It's really important thay you test a woman's interest. Sperate yourself from the outcome and be objective when it comes to women. Trust me when I say women do this kind of shit all the time and they don't not care at all about it. Why shouldn't you to
What if you unfriended her on social media?
Are your socials private? When I first went NC I broke after a few days and she admitted she stalks my pages since they're public. I'm now 10 days into NC and she sent me messages on IG while I was asleep and she unsent them before I could read them. And I'm dealing with a very stubborn avoidant so I think NC definitely works.
That's the best thing you could ever do, never stay friends with an ex-girlfriend especially even more so if she was the one that broke it off because you're pretty much accepting a demotion into the friend zone while another man is going to come take your place. And don't think that new guy hasn't been in the picture for a little while already Statistics show that females are mentally checked out of the relationship at least 6 months before the break up and either already has the next man she's been secretly talking to behind your back(most likely even hooked up a few times while y'all were still together) lined up or she's going to rekindle an old fling with someone she was with before you.
@@HotOneRecordz what's NC??
@AzariaL7 no contact. Cut off all communication. Don't check their social media accounts. Don't text. Don't reach out to your ex in anyway. Everyone swears by NC and how it will bring your ex back. I don't believe that at all. It's a small sample size of broken people on the internet holding onto hope that NC will work. I read reddit threads and NC very rarely brings your ex back. But it does help the dumpee move on over time.
@HotOneRecordz thanks.👍Good advice
So you go silent then she contacts you what do you tell her a lie
No you are working on yourself make it about you not her
Solid advice, all of it.
Please keep in mind that in most cases, silence is not gonna make her come back.
In fact, she's more likely to move on.. too quickly, and repeatedly.
Consider it a bullet dodged.
What you gain is self-respect.
ruclips.net/video/mlhveqLJzFk/видео.htmlfeature=shared&t=17m14s
*This video is absolutely captivating! 'A Woman Will Respond Like This When You Stop Contacting Her' unveils the unexpected reactions you’ve always wondered about-don’t miss this powerful insight*
💯 Fact
Silence truly is a powerful test-it’s like a mirror reflecting the truth of someone’s feelings. Have you ever experienced how stepping back revealed a person’s genuine intentions? Share your story, I’d love to hear how it played out for you!