Tania Ngima - Lessons from my divorce
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- Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
- Tania Ngima talks about her divorce and the lessons from this personal failure
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The lady who chose to stand as she narrated the story.That's so kind&supportive.
The little things are everything!
Here again in 2021, Tania's story always sounds fresh in my ears each time I hear it. It builds me each time❤🧡💛
This is the kind of maturity that my generation needs. To know that when things don't work out you've got to learn from it, pick yourself up and move on without blaming the other party(s) involved. Keep your head up girl.
Beautiful. You’ve given words to what most women feel but can’t express post-divorce.
Am back in 2023.This was such a good conversation
Woow...just what I needed most..there are gifts that come from failure and the most precious one is strength and confidence..
Your marriage did not fail, it played the role it needed to for your journey to be exactly that.
Your Journey
I agree events happen for a reason if women blame themselves, men will never take responsibility
Grace wow! Well said!
Trivial semantics
How can I like your post 100 times? I completely agree with your sentiment.....
So so so so so true
I can relate. The wall of invulnerability. The mask of "smart" "intelligent". The strengths that are sometimes limiting beliefs. Whoosh. And the finding yourself again.
I can totally relate with you but one thing I realize is that everything you go through in life is meant to build you. There is no test without a testimony, your pain is your platform for preach/praise.if my marriage didn’t fail I wouldn’t discover who I am and what am capable of and know exactly what I want in life. It was simply my stepping stone to a lot of blessing, breakthrough discovery, self awareness,
Accept what happen learn from it accept the mistakes you also made for it to fail never act a victim forgive yourself n forgive them n start working on yourself.
Thanks
just watched this at 0121hrs in the midst of a marriage that seems to be failing and if you ever doubt your impact, know that you might have just saved mine...
Tania, you go girl, and i pray that your next adds to your life... Cheers and God bless!
Prayers up for you.
Anything of substance she said?!!
Great Choice Oyugi! Too many times people think 'the next' mate will be the perfect match and the time/effort invested in that search could've been used to tune up the current 'failing' marriage to make it great. #MakeMarriageGreatAgain
Wonderful
Sarah Chiru True dat!!
I love how you have redefined what seemed like failure to a lesson and now hope! Beautiful!
Hope. It's the one thing that keeps us going!!
Thank you Tania - Hearing you on this channel, in such simple, yet deeply profoundly sincere talk, is a breathe of fresh air to many souls in your now conquered position. How i so wish, there would be a session as beautiful as this one too for men to be men enough and break down unseen walls of post-divorce. To build back the man in them, and seek closure. I sincerely admire this. A standing ovation.
Such an eloquent, mature and strong woman. I’m in awe. 👏
Many women die in the process of dealing with marriage failures.Thank God for your life, and the peace of God, your are enjoying now.
That's my story . Thanks for talking it out . I feel like my business is failing doesn't feel great .
@@trustthe_process4371 how do you know you are making the right/wrong decision therein . You only get to know later . Of course we should trust the process and part of it is failing . That's how you learn. We learn when vulnerable
The best part was when she said she got to define success her own way not the society way
she is resilient. self reflection and self correction. without those we make the same mistakes.
Completely resonate with this story. She is headstrong and knows her worth
This woman is so strong ,bravo.
This was sooo good. Your vulnerability was powerful. Thank u for sharing 💜
God, I love this woman even more after watching this video!
I loved this so much! I can relate on so many levels. Thank you for sharing your story. 🙏🏾
for those who cannot appreciate a fellow human being who is aware of their own strengths and weakneses.i suggest you get help pls.
thank you Tania you are beautiful,strong and succesful.
Wow so deep. Great lessons on how to handle failure. I love the dream funeral concept
I totally identify with so much of your experience. The fear factor, challenges, failure and success. Very insightful conversation!
ALL OF US ARE WORKED DOWN IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER BUT WE SHOULD NOT STAY THERE! THANKS GAL
Honest and pure. Glad I watched.
wow this girl Taina Ngima has world class talent. i wish we could have many females like her. success is not defined by materials this where many females in western modern countries who miss-use what success means. Goodness me iam enjoying watching here and listening wish one day sitt down with her and talk to her face to face . see iam entrepreneurship network business owner so i dont believe in job . i do believe work ethic that creates assets of cash flow life. This girl has great intelligent idea.
Thanks for sharing your story. When I look at you I see a winner, be her for the rest of your life. God bless you sister ❤️❤️
Way to go Tania. You were destined to do great things from back then when we were small kids at Olympic
T C 🤔
I love this video. I am a fellow RUclipsr and a Kenyan Life Coach based in Atlanta and many of my clients are devastated when things do not work in their marriages especially here in the USA. Kenyans feel alone. This is very powerful and I will share with others.
Tania Ngima,you have identified the issues that made your marriage failed.You are now empowered because you've owned and taken responsibility whereby given chance for marriage you will able to embrace it with love, care and with less suspicion .I believe you have put "self"in it's coffin.
am not married,still young but listening to her story it clearly shows that it isn't easy. Divorce can be ugly and difficult to go through. I can tell from fer voice that it has not been an easy journey.
Ngima, you are amazing! there are gifts in failure! Thanks for that reminder! Keep your head up! I must try this funeral thing with my friend, it seems therapeutic.
Thank you Neecee...Dream funerals are HARD but therapeutic!!
@@taniangima9043 Maybe you should try work it out with your ex husband both of you suffered from your mistakes and it's only fair both of you benefit from lessons learnt.You should speak to more ladies on the issues you mentioned, there are many of them who can benefit from your lessons.
Tania you are a beauty,I love your courage,I can relate to your story.
You have rejuvenated a new energy and focus in me.
God bless you.
Only God, this is a shear example why trusting in God is the key to life. We still get hurt, we still pass through pain but when you hold on to him, not things, careers He will carry you through. Our strength does not come from us.
Your comment is the most sensible to me.
You are blessed to have such good friends!!! ❤️🙌🏽
Ngima, independence is not the highest form of existence - inter dependence is the highest form of existence. Inter-dependence means, you are aware that another person has gifts that you do not have, and that their gifts ADD to your strategic vision and completes your life. Failure is a part of life! I'm so excited to hear you didn't let divorce define you, and your son? is going to learn so much from you because you made him a priority.
Superb clear coherent presentation
...I love the mastery of language the command of matters of individual success..i must say I have learnt alot...may you find your true love.... wishing you the best madam
Wwow! Ooh wwwow!!! Powerful!!
Beautiful, thanks for sharing . Totally give it a try. 😊
Wow... relational self awareness is rare and I applaud Tina for accepting her part in the divorce . It’s usually easier to take the victim angle, and join the pity party....but self reflection will help you grow and be a better you!
That sense of independence! So damaging and am in it. Anyway, you are veeery smart to take your share of responsibility. This speeds up the healing process.
Martin, interdependence is healthy and it should replace independence meaning - in marriage you depend on each other and you don't walk parallel to each other. If you find out you don't need each other... exit left. Nobody can be married independently.
THANKS for sharing!!!
I love this girl's story.
A lady who can accept defeat and her share of responsibility? Wow!
A lesson learnt n Concept received
Soo inspiring... Saudi Arabia watching
That's very brave of you! Very brave! Well done!
Thanks for your story Tania.
I Really used to admire Tania while working at fintech. Now i understand why she was so unreachable. Now i admire her even more!
Very true I know her
She is.. Damn I used to hate her I must confess but now I love her even more
She was the best, she supervised my internship at fintech
This is a story of beauty and strength, not sadness and weakness. Well done! Great fan of your columns too!!
Wow. This is a lady I'd like to be friends with. Very smart.
You are telling your story , analysing it and giving related theories, quite complex!
It takes courage to open up.. thanks for sharing
Am glad I found this video
A lesson worth learning.
your definition of independence and vulnerability, that is how I perceive it and I know that is what most women think. weeee, its time to change.
Brene Brown ~ You either walk inside your story and own it or you stand outside your story and hustle for your worthiness.” ...
Great story and empowering
Wow strong woman and inspiration lady. ☺
Goodness me your own hero for ur own life . i saw you to day for the first time in my life through by watching your life hopefuly will have impact to many people on earth. your story is big wake up call for many young people .
Madam..God bless you...I feel inspired
Tania... every woman should get achance to listen to your story.
Thank you Ngima❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Amazing presentation- I love how you define success. I agree success comes from within absolutely not what others perceive.
Amen Catherine. It's taken me a long time to get here but a worthwhile journey
Tania Ngima are you still single? Are you dating? What is your romantic life like, just a regular guy shooting my shot 🙈.
@@deanking6105 don't be stupid .There are very many young women who come without baggage that you can settle with .
Steve Mwangi The beauty of life is this: one man’s meat is another man’s poison. Nuff said.
@@deanking6105 haha
Thank you for speaking your truth
I don't know what it was, but if the betrayal was about him cheating, then there is nothing like 'you played a part in it'. It's high time we stopped putting the mistakes that ppl commit on ourselves. People do things out of being selfish and self centered.
I agree. Sometimes a marriage fails because truly the other partner is at fault like cheating, addictions, irresponsibly, etc. We are individual and we just can’t control our partner’s choices and mistakes. I’m not sure if her friend was really speaking to her from a good place.
Taking away shame.....shame on a Petri dish
Dolcing it with secrecy, silence and judgment.. it flourishes.
Wow!
That statement is huge!
It's nice listening to this talk.
That statement is Soo deep
Wow!!!
I really love your story
Damn i love this. I'm all for a positive outlook on things.
Very deep topic;destiny turnaround for me i battle with phobia of unknown.helpful video.Thankyou.
The walls are halfway down... It's a process.. You'll get there. Strength in sharing.
You are also here. Nice
Being in engineering field u can create failure to get results leading to innovation, how we look and define failure is important.failure is work done with left out or assumed wrong principles making the work not to be effectively done to bring out desired profit.
Do I understand? Real engineering, haha
Wow ...strong lady...you resemble grace msalame
She's still damaged from the divorce. It hit you hard and it's understandable. Wish we knew what really happened in the marriage that ended up failing. What role did you play in the failure, what was his role- cheating, lack of communication, career.. what was it? All the best to you though.
Lol you are coming across as nosy. She has shared what she was willing to share and there is still an encouragement in it.
Real good talk ...keep going girl
I also believe in relationship, thanks for sharing
Yes who am I with the job tag removed'"'"ask brother's"it can be scaring if you don't believe in God...but Donn worry be happy..figuring it out ,,,the other thing...yes you will overcome eventually
This was amazing.. need friends to hold several funerals 😳
Wow cool. I like the way you said that it sounds flippant.
The sky is not the limit but our own incapabilities are
Our limitations are the parachutes that pull us down when we try to soar but the sky is still the limit! Defy gravity and lose the parachute.
Your fail marriage happened for a reason. It happen for you to be a better person in life. Not a bitter Person. All that happen in our lives happen for a Purpose.
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Be blessed and remain focused to your goals and dreams to have a fulfilling life daily in Jesus Christ’s mighty name. Amen
Wow. Amazing lady.
Respect!
Just wanna say Amen
Did anyone else get the sense that you're still waiting for her to tell the story? I felt like her telling her story I was on the edge of my seat where I'm waiting for her to start it. Then she ends with that was my story. Its was great tho for what the speech was.
Thanks for saving my time.. just stopped watching
You should still watch it depends on what you are after if you want to know why her marriage broke down in the sense of who did what then don't watch
This was an honest account - different from the blame game we often see. She has crossed to the other side without losing herself. I have learnt a lot
@@suziethebride2018 😂😂😂
T C There is no blame game from her narrative. So I will not be the one to go there ...
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@@hayonimengi4171 hehe
A humbling story especially when one admits that part of her failed marriage was herself. However, I wonder why one would think we are evolving(ascribe to the evolution theory).We are created beings and not creatures of a cruel evolution process. Wrong education has robbed us of morals and we neither perceive God nor acknowledge Him in our lives,no wonder life will take us in circles until we come to that point when we are humbled and brought on our knees.
The growing middle class, aspiring elite...... what's the role of family from the husband and wife family... Africans always have family influence....
Each couple must decide their function based on their mutual interests and respect. In marriage one size doesn't fit all! It's imperative to marry someone who appreciates your gifts and supports you as you rise up together. Cultural differences matter less when 2 people have a shared vision.
I think I have to start working on my walls
The crowd you are addressing.....(are they fearful or lost in emotions?)....introduction to divorce (europeanism)....the village folk will take 50 years to understand this....the gap is unbridgeable!
The village folk are not the taget Groupon here. So we are safe.... In the main time Europeanism countinues
With advent of cheap smart phones and data providers' competition, the village folk is coming to the fold.@@shizma7917
What you're saying is so true, Charles.
We live in a society that glorifies keeping things 😍😍, deep, it is okay to let go.
Independence! !!! Scary
Its what I've dreamed of since i was a child😏
she is a pretty lady
Who can tell me more about that funeral thing. I need it like yesterday.
It is a form of seeking closure. For example, someone hurt me and I wrote a letter to them, detailing how hurtful their actions were. I poured my heart and tears out. Then folded the letter, left it somewhere on my bookshelf for a couple of days, reread it, cried some more, then I finally burnt it. The funeral concept may sound weird but it is cathartic.
@@JudyWanderi Thanks will try it kesho. Hope that helps me as far as my divorce is concerned.
I couldn't explain it better, Judy nailed it. Thanks Judy and good luck Imani
@@JudyWanderi you nailed it!! 😊😊
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