Both run in my family. I act pretty indifferent to the thought of bio kids because the more I "publicly" acknowledge wanting kids the more I'll be crushed if/when it happens. Not to mention I don't know how my future SO will react to the news. I think I listen to this type of audio to prepare myself otherwise I'd probably be lost in not knowing how to react.
@@anoukferwerda9699 idk I'd feel like it'd be better bc then u don't gotta experience the potential of having a miscarriage. But I guess it really depends if people want biological kids. I'm honestly more free range about it that's probably why I think it'd be better.
@@anoukferwerda9699 idk if u find out ur infertile at least you can know, with a miscarriage it’s traumatic because you think you’re going to genuinely have a child but then they don’t make it, I personally feel like that hurts people mentally and scars more than being infertile (friendly debate, not in any way am I trying to be rude or invalidate any points mentioned, both are life changing and not in a good way)
My sister got pregnant and recently had a miscarriage, her boyfriend left her because of it and she’s a big fan of you so she’s really happy you made this. She sees it as a sign that things will get better 😊
new listener here; automatically cried hearing him say "theyre watching over us, saying: 'its okay dad, its okay mom'". absolutely well done. im gonna go lay and cry myself to sleep tonight now
My husband and I were expecting in August of 2013,we lost her(in our hearts we felt the little one was a girl,his Pisces intuition kicking in and his late Dad had the same intuition but was born in August)and she would've been 7 in May of this year. I went absolutely nuts for 2 years,then we found out we were expecting again in March of 2016. Our youngest girl was born on my 29th birthday and is a happy,healthy 5 year old now. Every year 2 weeks exactly before my birthday I get more depressed than usual it's because that's Rememberance Day for all of us who've lost our babies (grown and angels)to light a candle to remember them,especially on that special day,for all of us. I don't know if it's a worldwide event or just something done in the US,though. I felt a tug on my shirt one day(like a little one trying to get your attention for some reason)and my fur babies weren't around to jump on me. I can't remember if I was still expecting or soon after we found out from the doctor when this happened,but it did!!!! One of my friends said it was her spirit telling me "Mama,I am here and will see you again one day,but I am okay now." That's what I like to think,anyway. Thank you for bringing light to this sensitive,but,important subject!!!!! Not many people have the guts to tackle this subject,so I think you're brave to do it.Especially for showing what a guy goes through during it,the raw emotions and being vulnerable enough as a man to show it no matter if it's right as a guy to do it or not.
My mom lost a baby. I was so young, but I remember how sad she was for a long time. I lost a baby brother that day, even if I didn't know it at the time. Thank you so much for this. You did an amazing job.
For someone who just had a miscarriage in June. This hit really hard. And I still blame myself for it. But you did really good at this one. Making a lot of people cry.
@@katielundberg9764 scientific responses can be cold... Not forming right, not enough nutrition, other things that sting a broken heart. You i am sure were trying hard to stay healthy do everything you needed for the baby to stay. You. Did. Nothing. Wrong. What ever the reason. You did nothing to make your baby not stay. Even an accident like in the audio. Nothing you did was wrong dearest. I wish i could hug you.
@@KuraiYamino sometimes I think, did my baby girl not want me as a mother? Is that way I couldn’t hold her? But thank you. And I really do need that hug.
okay but this one is actually so sad,,, at the 11:05 min mark when you started talking about the mother part i genuinely started tearing up,,, i’m not even even old enough to carry a child but just thinking about going through a time like that and knowing those words is just genuinely saddening to know :(. this one has to be one of my favorites solely for the fact of how much thought and genuine love is put into it. all of your audios are just absolutely amazing. you are truly one of my all time favorite people to watch/listen to on this app,,i really could not thank you more for being just such a wonderful person making wonderful audios for people to listen to. i hope life brings you good days and peace
I don't know what I am feeling right now? I lost my little brother from a miscarriage, I didn't get to see him. (crying in tears) I don't know what he looks like? But after hearing this, it brought me to tears, I can feel it. Thank you for this audio, I need that so very, very much. It does help me. I don't talk to my brother as much, but I wish I did. But all I know is that my brother is an angel in heaven. Hope he will over me.
Omg I’m tearing up a little bit. This is one of the hardest things to get over and accepted. It feels like your creation has been destroy and lost forever 😢. Oh god it’s so good of an audio but with painful relations. 😭😭😭
My heart ached so much listening to this. Sad but still comforting in its own way. Almost cried at the end, because I started to think about my niece who had a miscarriage a few years ago. She told me that christmas, and the only other person who knew, besides her bf, was my sister, as she'd wanted to surprise everyone after dinner with the news about getting a baby. I think I told her something similar to the ending in this, but she's doing well now with a lovely little daughter.
Omg this is beautifully done. Me and my husband were told after multiple Miscarriages we would never have a baby, somehow years later after we'd given up hope my son surprised us by coming. To anyone going through this right now there is a light and things do get easier in time. Please don't ever blame yourself you are so worth it.
I never cried so hard in my whole life. It's so sweet and real that I almost believed that I was pregnant, but I'm single and only 18. I think this ons is my all time favorite. Thanks Ben! Keep the good work going! xxx
I'm in awe of what you have created here. So sensitive, compassionate and strong. And at the same time, so real and genuine. It takes a strong man to cry with grief. 😥❤
My mom told me she had three miscarriages before finally having me. Only thing that happened was that I flipped too early in the womb and I was fine after that. Thanks for the comforting audio Ben. I’m 16 and want to adopt because I feel like pregnancy would be too complicated for me to handle.
This one was so filled with emotions, I've never seen Ben so sad and scared yet so strong and caring. I hope we all find people like you in our lives, to stay by us. Love your work❤✨
Okay Ben I have to say, I like all of your audios, but Istg THIS ONE it's already my favorite. You're so talendet and I'm not saying this just to say it or just to do you a favor, I thought that before but now after this one I'm really really sure about that. Keep it up because your work it's amazing
This is so heart breaking for anyone who has to go through this💔 I love that you did this audio because we just got to feel half the pain I cried so much during this…💔
Ok.... WHO DARETH DISLIKE THIS VIDEO?!?😠 Also this makes me sad knowing that women have to go through this but... Trust me.. You will make it though. To all the women that had to go through this.. Stay strong! 😊❤️
Wow, this is definitely one of the hardest experiences people can go through and it must be hell. You are truly awesome Ben 👏🏽✨, and I’m absolutely not making less any of your other beautiful vídeos cause I love em💖but it’s the ones like this that are special ✨
Bless you for your sensitivity in handling this situation! Having experienced this situation twice now (once with a single child, once with twins), it's reassuring to hear a man being concerned/devastated/supportive alongside his partner. 💜💜 You are the best!
Is there a clone of you I can find somewhere? Like seriously. You're amazing. I wish I had someone like you in my life, but whoever does have you in their life, they are truly blessed.
Me: *Unable to sleep at 5:27 am in the morning* YT: Aussie be- Me: My sleep schedule is fucked up but anything for our lord and savior benny ben- 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
Been told it will be extremely difficult if not dangerous for me to carry my own children because of an upcoming pelvic surgery. My mum fell down the stairs when she was pregnant with me luckily my big sister was there to cushion mum's fall, she's allways been protective of me. My mum also lost a baby before my sister and I were born. My heart goes out to all the rainbow babies' parents 🌈❤
My mother also had two miscarriages. One before me. The other after. It's truly heart breaking. The child after is called a rainbow baby. A promise of something good to come after the heart ache
Aw Ben I don't know how you do thies vedios but I'm crying right along with you but I understand that this is a really had subject to deal with but your a super star for making this vedio and I love how caring and wonderful you are to your wife and if I ever had to go through this myself I would feel the same way your wife is feeling.
My mom had a miscarriage before I was born, sometimes she gets upset and tells me how much of a disappointment I am. I wonder what it’d be like if she had the first baby and not me..this helps me realize what pain she went through
What your mom went through is heartbreaking, but I hope she's still not blaming you for the miscarriage. It's not her fault, it's not your fault. It's no one's fault.
This... Perfect... Held off watching as our first in 2011 was actually ectopic and i almost didn't make it. Our second was actually just on the 4th. Making a plaque for both. Our 3 kids have been sad too. Allowing all the feelings as they come is so vital. And having support. Thank you Ben for this. Truly a comfort.
Ok so I haven’t decided if I want kids yet so I saw a video about how happy people are with their kids and when I saw this I clicked faster then flash could run! I’m not 100% sure but I think this video helped me decide. I think that I will have kids! Thank you so much for helping me decide!
I don’t know if an asmr has ever made me cry so much. This has so much emotion and love in it. My mum had a miscarriage and I’m a little scared that I might have one as well, but I’m not gonna let that keep me from trying to have kids. 💛💛 Ben thank you so much for this audio it means a lot to me. 🥰
not even half way through the audio i started balling my eyes out. my mom had a miscarriage last year doing quarantine and i haven’t stopped crying about it. she also had one before me. i love her so much ❤️
I've never had an abortion but I know what it feels like to lose a soul you love i'm sorry for anyone get through it , and you ben you get that amazing videos i love it keep going
My mom had a miscarriage before she had me She'd only just found out she was pregnant they hadn't really told anyone yet and she ended up losing it before she hit her second month she's barely spoken about it and the few times she has I can tell by her eyes it haunts her I know she loves us but I can't say I blame her for wondering about the baby that never got to be
My Mom had a little girl and she died a few months after she was born. I don't remember her great because I was five but here death has haunted me ever since. I still miss and love her. My dad would tell me stories about her. She had a giggly personality and I wish I could have been with her more.
Fellow Aussie here! My mum lost a child who was going to be my 3 sister it was hard to watch my mum go through it and not being able to help take the pain away. It took a toll on most of my family but mostly my mum. I felt so helpless. All I could do is hold her as she was breaking apart
my mom had a miscarriage after me and about a year before my little sister. it was too soon to tell the gender, but my parents already had a name picked out. my sister sometimes feels guilt when it comes to David, she believes maybe if she wasn't born, then he'd be here instead of her. these kinds of things don't always just affect the parents who experience the miscarriage, but the people around them too. We still talk about David a lot and often wonder if he would end up being more like us. I'm also the oldest out of 3 children and having children has been my dream since I was young, though now more than ever, that still seems to be the case. I'm terrified of going through the birthing process, but even more terrified of going through a miscarriage. I don't think that's something I could go through, especially on my own, so thank you for this comfort Ben. Keep doing what you do for all of us out there!
I started crying. I remember when my mom had a miscarriage. It broke her heart, ane mine. I wondered what that unmet sibling could've been like. My dad supported her through it all. Watching this helped me feel like they're somewhere growing up and having the jappiest life ever, Takk for dette. Dette hjalp meg virkelig med å finne fred med hele situasjonen.
I lost my baby at 9 weeks about two years ago. It was devastating cause I didn't have the support that i just listened to here. I was blamed for losing the baby, and now I'm unable to have children. It breaks my heart, and I pray for whoever has to deal with this kind of situation❤
I just miscarriage a few days ago it's the hardest thing in the world you feel like your whole world is crashing down you feel like a piece of you is missing its horrible expelly being a teen and hiding your pregnancy from the world sometimes it just happens when you think everything is ok and doing all the right things but you just lose them
My Aunt actually had a miscarriage and we all cried like crazy I would have had three new baby cousins and it was a boy now I have a baby boy and a baby girl cousin.
My sister had a miscarriage..it crushed her and her new husband..they would have had a daughter....later they had a son but it still haunts her to this day..
As a woman who found out at the age of 21 that I wouldn’t be able to have kids I’m 31 now and I still have bad (sad) crying days where I feel like it’s my fault and listening to this audio hit me extremely hard because if I was able to have kids this would be so scary to go through, also cried harder when mentioning falling down the stairs because I’m a klutz when it comes to walking up or down stairs.😭
I personally had a miscarriage about 3 weeks ago. And its like, the worst pain I've ever experienced. I wish i had my own personal Aussie Ben irl for it. I dont think i ever really wanted kids, but that feeling. I wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy.
Honestly I didn’t have the honor to be a mom yet but as a person who loves kids it was really scary and painful to have this in a audio And my heart is with parents who had miscarriage and lost their baby ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Him: I can barely understand you! Me:whatdoyahfookinmeani'mbritishnotafookinforeignbitch?! I actually said this to my older brother when I was having a panic attack- All I know is that I earned a bonk on the head for that
My grandma had one of those, i would have one more uncle , my grandma had 5 children after that. If something like that happens i would blame myself for the rest of my life , i don't know if i want to have children but if i do have i would be the best mom! So it would really hurt if that happened.
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The moment I read miscarriage, and I'm going to be honest, as someone who's want to have kids, I tell you miscarriage is like my worst fear.
The fear of being infertile is even worse in my opinion
Both run in my family. I act pretty indifferent to the thought of bio kids because the more I "publicly" acknowledge wanting kids the more I'll be crushed if/when it happens.
Not to mention I don't know how my future SO will react to the news.
I think I listen to this type of audio to prepare myself otherwise I'd probably be lost in not knowing how to react.
@ItzPika same
@@anoukferwerda9699 idk I'd feel like it'd be better bc then u don't gotta experience the potential of having a miscarriage. But I guess it really depends if people want biological kids. I'm honestly more free range about it that's probably why I think it'd be better.
@@anoukferwerda9699 idk if u find out ur infertile at least you can know, with a miscarriage it’s traumatic because you think you’re going to genuinely have a child but then they don’t make it, I personally feel like that hurts people mentally and scars more than being infertile (friendly debate, not in any way am I trying to be rude or invalidate any points mentioned, both are life changing and not in a good way)
My heart goes out to anyone who has or is going through this.
Same. I can't even imagine the amount of pain you'd be in.
I just did 🥺😭 it was my first pregnancy.
@@velvetrainn1025 omg. I am so so sorry. I can't imagine the pain you are going through.
@@velvetrainn1025 allow your emotion and keep the last part about them being close by you in your heart. Its true.. You are so amazing.
thank you
My sister got pregnant and recently had a miscarriage, her boyfriend left her because of it and she’s a big fan of you so she’s really happy you made this. She sees it as a sign that things will get better 😊
Heartbreaking 💔 a tough sensitive issue done very well, without shying away from the awful reality of it.😔
Thank you ♥️
new listener here; automatically cried hearing him say "theyre watching over us, saying: 'its okay dad, its okay mom'". absolutely well done. im gonna go lay and cry myself to sleep tonight now
Awwwww. Welcome to the tribe!
My husband and I were expecting in August of 2013,we lost her(in our hearts we felt the little one was a girl,his Pisces intuition kicking in and his late Dad had the same intuition but was born in August)and she would've been 7 in May of this year. I went absolutely nuts for 2 years,then we found out we were expecting again in March of 2016. Our youngest girl was born on my 29th birthday and is a happy,healthy 5 year old now. Every year 2 weeks exactly before my birthday I get more depressed than usual it's because that's Rememberance Day for all of us who've lost our babies (grown and angels)to light a candle to remember them,especially on that special day,for all of us. I don't know if it's a worldwide event or just something done in the US,though. I felt a tug on my shirt one day(like a little one trying to get your attention for some reason)and my fur babies weren't around to jump on me. I can't remember if I was still expecting or soon after we found out from the doctor when this happened,but it did!!!! One of my friends said it was her spirit telling me "Mama,I am here and will see you again one day,but I am okay now." That's what I like to think,anyway. Thank you for bringing light to this sensitive,but,important subject!!!!! Not many people have the guts to tackle this subject,so I think you're brave to do it.Especially for showing what a guy goes through during it,the raw emotions and being vulnerable enough as a man to show it no matter if it's right as a guy to do it or not.
You’re such an amazing actor Ben!! I couldn’t stop crying the entire 14 minutes 😭
Awwww
My mom lost a baby. I was so young, but I remember how sad she was for a long time. I lost a baby brother that day, even if I didn't know it at the time.
Thank you so much for this. You did an amazing job.
My mom lost a baby too I was excited to have a younger brother or sister to take care of but it died a few weeks later
For someone who just had a miscarriage in June. This hit really hard. And I still blame myself for it. But you did really good at this one. Making a lot of people cry.
Big hugs Katie, stay strong. ♥️
Katie.. You are amazing.. Allow the grief. It was not your fault at all... Mine were 2011 and just a week and a half ago. Not your fault at all.
@@KuraiYamino idk how it wasn’t my fault
@@katielundberg9764 scientific responses can be cold... Not forming right, not enough nutrition, other things that sting a broken heart.
You i am sure were trying hard to stay healthy do everything you needed for the baby to stay.
You. Did. Nothing. Wrong. What ever the reason. You did nothing to make your baby not stay. Even an accident like in the audio. Nothing you did was wrong dearest. I wish i could hug you.
@@KuraiYamino sometimes I think, did my baby girl not want me as a mother? Is that way I couldn’t hold her? But thank you. And I really do need that hug.
This was so real!!! My heart breaks for any couple that has gone/will go through this!:(
The raw emotion in this is so powerful. You are so very talented!
A miscarriage is a parents worst nightmare
him crying makes me cry omg and this is the hardest video i have watch with out crying
okay but this one is actually so sad,,, at the 11:05 min mark when you started talking about the mother part i genuinely started tearing up,,, i’m not even even old enough to carry a child but just thinking about going through a time like that and knowing those words is just genuinely saddening to know :(. this one has to be one of my favorites solely for the fact of how much thought and genuine love is put into it. all of your audios are just absolutely amazing. you are truly one of my all time favorite people to watch/listen to on this app,,i really could not thank you more for being just such a wonderful person making wonderful audios for people to listen to. i hope life brings you good days and peace
Thank you so much!
I don't know what I am feeling right now? I lost my little brother from a miscarriage, I didn't get to see him. (crying in tears) I don't know what he looks like? But after hearing this, it brought me to tears, I can feel it. Thank you for this audio, I need that so very, very much. It does help me. I don't talk to my brother as much, but I wish I did. But all I know is that my brother is an angel in heaven. Hope he will over me.
Omg I’m tearing up a little bit. This is one of the hardest things to get over and accepted. It feels like your creation has been destroy and lost forever 😢. Oh god it’s so good of an audio but with painful relations. 😭😭😭
My heart ached so much listening to this. Sad but still comforting in its own way.
Almost cried at the end, because I started to think about my niece who had a miscarriage a few years ago. She told me that christmas, and the only other person who knew, besides her bf, was my sister, as she'd wanted to surprise everyone after dinner with the news about getting a baby. I think I told her something similar to the ending in this, but she's doing well now with a lovely little daughter.
Omg this is beautifully done. Me and my husband were told after multiple Miscarriages we would never have a baby, somehow years later after we'd given up hope my son surprised us by coming.
To anyone going through this right now there is a light and things do get easier in time. Please don't ever blame yourself you are so worth it.
I never cried so hard in my whole life. It's so sweet and real that I almost believed that I was pregnant, but I'm single and only 18. I think this ons is my all time favorite. Thanks Ben! Keep the good work going! xxx
I seriously hope somebody found some sort of comfort through this man's talented way.
I'm in awe of what you have created here. So sensitive, compassionate and strong. And at the same time, so real and genuine. It takes a strong man to cry with grief. 😥❤
Staggering.. heartbreaking and so soothing. Strength through love and consolation. Thank you Ben. 💞
My mom told me she had three miscarriages before finally having me. Only thing that happened was that I flipped too early in the womb and I was fine after that. Thanks for the comforting audio Ben. I’m 16 and want to adopt because I feel like pregnancy would be too complicated for me to handle.
god I remember bawling when I listened to this on patreon 😭
I GIVE ALL THE HUGS TO THE MOMMY’S AND DADDY’S WHO HAVE EVER OR IS GOING THROUGH THIS!!! 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
My gf just suffered a miscarriage and it was one of the scariest experiences I’ve ever faced with her. I nearly lost her too
I hope y’all feel better now
You holding in your pain to comfort the listener/us is so heartbreaking 💔
This one was so filled with emotions, I've never seen Ben so sad and scared yet so strong and caring. I hope we all find people like you in our lives, to stay by us. Love your work❤✨
Aw thank you.
Okay Ben I have to say, I like all of your audios, but Istg THIS ONE it's already my favorite. You're so talendet and I'm not saying this just to say it or just to do you a favor, I thought that before but now after this one I'm really really sure about that. Keep it up because your work it's amazing
You’re so kind, thank you!
I agree! THE BEST ONE YET!!!!!?
My mother had a miscarriage at the same time one of my cousins were born. She sees him as her son, in a way.
This is so heart breaking for anyone who has to go through this💔 I love that you did this audio because we just got to feel half the pain I cried so much during this…💔
My sister in law lost her baby and it almost killed her. So this audio stirred a lot of emotions within me
My mom went through several miscarriages until she had me. I couldn't possibly imagine how emotionally devastating it was for her. Love ya mom ❤
Ok....
WHO DARETH DISLIKE THIS VIDEO?!?😠
Also this makes me sad knowing that women have to go through this but... Trust me.. You will make it though. To all the women that had to go through this.. Stay strong! 😊❤️
Wow, this is definitely one of the hardest experiences people can go through and it must be hell. You are truly awesome Ben 👏🏽✨, and I’m absolutely not making less any of your other beautiful vídeos cause I love em💖but it’s the ones like this that are special ✨
Bless you for your sensitivity in handling this situation! Having experienced this situation twice now (once with a single child, once with twins), it's reassuring to hear a man being concerned/devastated/supportive alongside his partner. 💜💜 You are the best!
I’m not even old enough to ha a child but THIS is making me cry so much right now!!😭😭😭😭😭😭
Hello fellow teenager 👋🙂
Same but like I cried the entire time
…..I know you guys are a bit older now but…how old were you guys..?……
An audio just before my test😍✨Thank u Ben
Edit: I cried before my test but it was worth it
My ex boyfriend broke up with me a little over a week ago. I came back to ASMR rps for comfort. I'm glad I came back to your channel again.
If he left you because you had a miscarriage (if you had one, although I hope you didn't), that makes him a bastard.
11:29 this this part made me cry bro I don’t even have kids and I have never gone through a miscarriage but I cryed
Is there a clone of you I can find somewhere? Like seriously. You're amazing. I wish I had someone like you in my life, but whoever does have you in their life, they are truly blessed.
Me: *Unable to sleep at 5:27 am in the morning*
YT: Aussie be-
Me: My sleep schedule is fucked up but anything for our lord and savior benny ben- 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
Jesus Christ this was so good. I almost cried.
i want kids in the future and this is one of my biggest fears, losing a child before and even after the baby is born...
Okay, but this is the best thing in RUclips ever!! 😭❤️ My heart melted 🥺
I NEVER BEEN THIS EARLY TO ONE OF BENS VIDEOS SO HEYY
Heeyyyy!
Been told it will be extremely difficult if not dangerous for me to carry my own children because of an upcoming pelvic surgery.
My mum fell down the stairs when she was pregnant with me luckily my big sister was there to cushion mum's fall, she's allways been protective of me.
My mum also lost a baby before my sister and I were born.
My heart goes out to all the rainbow babies' parents 🌈❤
omg ben this is tough for anyone who is going though this or about too but this put me to tears four times good job ben
I screamed when i saw this and started crying cuz my mum had 2 miscarriages after me and unalived herself i was only 2 this hits home 😭
Sorry to hear that friend
@@kimchi.-. thank u hooman TvT
My mother also had two miscarriages. One before me. The other after. It's truly heart breaking. The child after is called a rainbow baby. A promise of something good to come after the heart ache
I'm sorry that happened sending lots of hugs
@@a_dumb_lebean7962 thank u my friend
I fell asleep listening to ben, this was jarring to wake up to
Ben you have made me cry today. This was sad 😢
Aw Ben I don't know how you do thies vedios but I'm crying right along with you but I understand that this is a really had subject to deal with but your a super star for making this vedio and I love how caring and wonderful you are to your wife and if I ever had to go through this myself I would feel the same way your wife is feeling.
My mom had a miscarriage before I was born, sometimes she gets upset and tells me how much of a disappointment I am. I wonder what it’d be like if she had the first baby and not me..this helps me realize what pain she went through
What your mom went through is heartbreaking, but I hope she's still not blaming you for the miscarriage. It's not her fault, it's not your fault. It's no one's fault.
This... Perfect... Held off watching as our first in 2011 was actually ectopic and i almost didn't make it. Our second was actually just on the 4th. Making a plaque for both. Our 3 kids have been sad too. Allowing all the feelings as they come is so vital. And having support.
Thank you Ben for this. Truly a comfort.
Ok so I haven’t decided if I want kids yet so I saw a video about how happy people are with their kids and when I saw this I clicked faster then flash could run! I’m not 100% sure but I think this video helped me decide. I think that I will have kids! Thank you so much for helping me decide!
Anyone else cry there eyes out durning this
I don’t know if an asmr has ever made me cry so much. This has so much emotion and love in it. My mum had a miscarriage and I’m a little scared that I might have one as well, but I’m not gonna let that keep me from trying to have kids. 💛💛 Ben thank you so much for this audio it means a lot to me. 🥰
I had my first miscarriage a week ago and my boyfriend left me and told me it was my fault. I really needed this. Thank you, Ben. ❤
I haven’t felt this angst since the werewolf series man and THAT BROKE ME 😭
It’s oki I’m better now I’m not sad anymore :)
not even half way through the audio i started balling my eyes out. my mom had a miscarriage last year doing quarantine and i haven’t stopped crying about it. she also had one before me. i love her so much ❤️
I've never had an abortion but I know what it feels like to lose a soul you love i'm sorry for anyone get through it , and you ben you get that amazing videos i love it keep going
My mom had a miscarriage before she had me
She'd only just found out she was pregnant they hadn't really told anyone yet and she ended up losing it before she hit her second month she's barely spoken about it and the few times she has I can tell by her eyes it haunts her I know she loves us but I can't say I blame her for wondering about the baby that never got to be
My sister had 7 miscarriages then she finally had her son
It happens more often than people realize
But knowing that never makes it any easier…
I cried listening to this one
My Mom had a little girl and she died a few months after she was born. I don't remember her great because I was five but here death has haunted me ever since. I still miss and love her. My dad would tell me stories about her. She had a giggly personality and I wish I could have been with her more.
My heart gets heavy
This is the next level of sadness... 😥😥 Gezz Ben :(
This hit my heart💖
God I am early, absolutely love a house to myself for once 😆 give me plenty of time to watch this in the middle of the day
these audios are amazing!! 😭❤️
this one made me cry tho, but it was amazing! Well done :) 💗
Fellow Aussie here! My mum lost a child who was going to be my 3 sister it was hard to watch my mum go through it and not being able to help take the pain away. It took a toll on most of my family but mostly my mum. I felt so helpless. All I could do is hold her as she was breaking apart
my mom had a miscarriage after me and about a year before my little sister. it was too soon to tell the gender, but my parents already had a name picked out. my sister sometimes feels guilt when it comes to David, she believes maybe if she wasn't born, then he'd be here instead of her. these kinds of things don't always just affect the parents who experience the miscarriage, but the people around them too. We still talk about David a lot and often wonder if he would end up being more like us. I'm also the oldest out of 3 children and having children has been my dream since I was young, though now more than ever, that still seems to be the case. I'm terrified of going through the birthing process, but even more terrified of going through a miscarriage. I don't think that's something I could go through, especially on my own, so thank you for this comfort Ben. Keep doing what you do for all of us out there!
Me: Mm mhh mhm!
My mind: I havent a clue whats going on here but ill act like i do!
Awwww, Ben. Hearing you cry makes me sad.
Sorry!
@@aussiebenasmr That's okay. It's a good thing. ❤
Thanks for this audio Ben I just had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago..
So sorry :( ♥️
I hope everything goes well when you want to try again :(
Hugs for you Kendra. The last part at the moms house is true.
Me: yea, I don’t want kids.
Also me: *sobbing at 4am to this audio*
I started crying. I remember when my mom had a miscarriage. It broke her heart, ane mine. I wondered what that unmet sibling could've been like. My dad supported her through it all. Watching this helped me feel like they're somewhere growing up and having the jappiest life ever, Takk for dette. Dette hjalp meg virkelig med å finne fred med hele situasjonen.
my hart melted at he beggining
Ik I would cry and guess what this girl did…..CRY!!
While my dog nibbles on my blanket
I lost my baby at 9 weeks about two years ago. It was devastating cause I didn't have the support that i just listened to here. I was blamed for losing the baby, and now I'm unable to have children. It breaks my heart, and I pray for whoever has to deal with this kind of situation❤
I just miscarriage a few days ago it's the hardest thing in the world you feel like your whole world is crashing down you feel like a piece of you is missing its horrible expelly being a teen and hiding your pregnancy from the world sometimes it just happens when you think everything is ok and doing all the right things but you just lose them
I'm not crying your crying 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Ok true 😭😊
My mom had a miscarriage and this makes me realize how she probably felt and I cried the entire time I wish I got to meet my little brother..
My Aunt actually had a miscarriage and we all cried like crazy I would have had three new baby cousins and it was a boy now I have a baby boy and a baby girl cousin.
My sister had a miscarriage..it crushed her and her new husband..they would have had a daughter....later they had a son but it still haunts her to this day..
As a woman who found out at the age of 21 that I wouldn’t be able to have kids I’m 31 now and I still have bad (sad) crying days where I feel like it’s my fault and listening to this audio hit me extremely hard because if I was able to have kids this would be so scary to go through, also cried harder when mentioning falling down the stairs because I’m a klutz when it comes to walking up or down stairs.😭
I definitely didn’t cry
When I listened to this my heart literally broke into pieces and I can’t imagine having a miscarriage that’s literally my most biggest fear to have😭❤️
My mom told me her mother had a total of 8 miscarriages trying to get pregnant. Then she came along. She's a strong woman ♥️
My mum has had a miscarriage before n it's heartbreaking😭💔
I now have a new worst fear....
I personally had a miscarriage about 3 weeks ago. And its like, the worst pain I've ever experienced. I wish i had my own personal Aussie Ben irl for it. I dont think i ever really wanted kids, but that feeling. I wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy.
I’m so sorry
@@aussiebenasmr its ok! im doing much better now. thank you for being the comfort i needed.
First ASMR I've heard of yours and I loved it 👏🏻💖 new Sub❤🤗
Ah thank you!!
I TAKE IT BACK I DOMT WANT AN AUDIO WHERE WE DONT MAKE IT ANYMORE IM NOT WCEN 3 MINS IM CRYIN
Ben no don't cryyy!
Honestly I didn’t have the honor to be a mom yet but as a person who loves kids it was really scary and painful to have this in a audio
And my heart is with parents who had miscarriage and lost their baby ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Him: I can barely understand you!
Me:whatdoyahfookinmeani'mbritishnotafookinforeignbitch?!
I actually said this to my older brother when I was having a panic attack-
All I know is that I earned a bonk on the head for that
damn, feelings. curse them
I am cosplaying a fountain
My grandma had one of those, i would have one more uncle , my grandma had 5 children after that.
If something like that happens i would blame myself for the rest of my life , i don't know if i want to have children but if i do have i would be the best mom! So it would really hurt if that happened.
Lol i'm sad bc i can't watch this rn bc im on vacation, and i did bring my headphones but i share a room with my sis on vacation :(