Can you make a video about Jessie and Brooks? I personally loved them as a couple and was super disappointed that they didn’t get married. Don’t get me wrong I liked Tony, but I never felt anything special with him and Jessie. Jessie and Brooks had something.
Is Wizards of Waverly Place still your favorite show? We just had a really nice picnic at Schenley Park with our friends from iCarly and Liberty’s Kids.
I think Joey and Willow from Liv and Maddie are definitely one of the ickiest Disney channel canon ships ever bcuz she literally physically threatens him and makes romantic advances though he makes it clear he’s not interested. (One scene literally has her demand that he sit next to her and Joey says I’m going to say yes because I’m afraid to say no) Then she eventually wears him down and they get together and thankfully broke up but still should never have happened in the first place, it was harassment and ab**ive.
she also literally stalks him. i think part of the reason they became canon is joey is a nerd and a bit socially awkward and people who shipped them were like “he should take what he can get”, which is disgusting.
If they are teenagers by the time they become step siblings, I don't see why it would be problematic. If they properly grew up together, it's a little bit difficult. Real siblings are out of the line, obviously.
I think the issue with age gaps is less how many years (though that is also problematic) but *when* the ages are - 14 and 17 are so drastically different in maturity and life experience, whereas 24 and 27 are closer in regards to life situation and experiences (and hopefully maturity, though that's no guarantee).
Exactly ! Some of my friends say that 3 years isn't a big deal, but the difference in maturity and perspective on life between a freshman and a senior is huge. It's not the same as a 3 year age gap in your 20s
Yes, thank you! As a married woman with a 7-year-old gap between me and my husband I completely agree with this. It would have been very gross if we dated when I was 15, 16, 17, or younger.
Yeah, age gaps in teenage relationships & adult relationships are different. 3 is a lot for a teenager but for adults it’s not. Like my parents who have a 5+ age gap but they met when they were adults & already working. If my dad was a teenager when he met my mom that would be weird & gross.
One ship I found out through fan art on TikTok was Mirabel and Bruno. So gross. Like not only is he 45ish, but he’s her uncle!? Like why would they ship them???
yeah like the only encanto ships I have are Pepa & Felix,Julieta & Agustin,Dolores & Mariano, Alma & Pedro, and Isabela & Bubo Marquez (even though he never made it into the film) NO GROSSNESS/INCEST because ewwww!
I never finished KC undercover so hearing that Marissa and Brady are end game while Brett is still off somewhere in Canada after his (if memory serves me right) top tier redemption arc IS RIDICULOUS
I know right if they where going to bring back anyone and give us an enemy's to loves end game itvshould have been Brett to give him and K.C. the happily ever after they deserve
Ferb is Lawrence’s son (I believe from a previous relationship?) and Candace and Phineas are Linda’s children from a previous relationship. When Linda and Lawrence married I assume they adopted each other’s children, but the whole dynamic is so wholesome, especially because Phineas and Candace call Lawrence ‘s parents grandma and grandpa which I find so sweet.
Right I didn’t even realize ppl shipped Mal and Hades. Sure there was some weirdness with Mal being very touchy with him. I thought the most that ppl said abt them was joking abt heck at the end when she stand next to Hades the framing almost make it look like they are a weird couple. I think it was unintentionally on the framing portion
Thank GOD I’m not the only person who dislikes Josh and Maya. I’m starting college in the fall, and the idea of dating a ninth grader is so icky to me. Seeing that kind of relationship on a kids show makes me worried.
I didn't like that ship being encouraged on the show when I was a teen and now that I'm out of college I hate how it was handled and almost forced to work as a plotline. The worse part for me is that sabrina was older so her interactions with the actor don't reflect visually the huge gap that the characters had, not only in age but in life stages
I guess the screenwriters kind of forgot how weird it is for someone in their teens to have a relationship with such a huge age gap. It's not that weird to have a crush on someone older, but to go after a boy who you see like once every year and no one ever tries to stop her... That's when you start to see red flags
I think if she did put Maddie and Diggy on this list, the entire video would have turned into her ranting about how they are not good together. And being honest, I would still watch it and love it because it is true that those two should NOT be canon at all!
what is funny to me is that Ryan McCartan has said (on his instagram in one of the question things) that he thinks Maddie should have chosen Josh instead of Diggie
@@UriosEditz True he was better than Spencer. They had a lot of cute moment at the beginning. After he got back from his trip and the breakup he went down hill. He came back in town bc he knew Maddie was seeing someone else and was jealous. Josh was the better one especially in that moment
Even without the incest Mal and Hades would be a toxic relationship. There a a definite power imbalance. The reason Mal is a little touchy and has that body language is do to her caring what he thinks despite him not showing that he cares, and (like I said) the power imbalance. She is also probably still under 18- too young for him.
I don't know if it'll be on here but Austin and Piper from Austin and Ally. He tried so hard the prove he's not shallow and impress her and she took advantage of that, she made him throw away his phone, stop using hair products, and wear a potato sack. He got attacked by a bird while climbing a coconut tree to get her a fresh coconut water and she wasn’t even the least bit concerned, she was amused. I hate her!
I see what you mean like, Alex and Justin would be a great ship if they weren't siblings, but THEY ARE SIBLINGS. WHY WOULD THAT EVEN CROSS ANYBODY'S MIND
@@crybabyangel1317 Did you miss the "I see what you mean" or?? Caitlin mentioned it at 20:56, which is why I thought about it. It wouldn't have crossed my mind unprompted
@@cupcakewithouttheicing And yeah to your defense, you are more talking about the elements. Mentor/mentee, good guy/bad girl, enemies to lovers are all very popular tropes in the fiction and romance genre that work...but of course excluding cases of incest, grooming, etc. To me, it's just that Selena and David have a strong, and at times electric, chemistry and if they didn't have a show as siblings, the actors could have played romantic interests. All that being said, Justin and Alex are siblings by blood in the Wizards universe. Differentiating chemistry between actors and the storylines of their characters is crucial, especially when an incest plotline is involved.
SO glad to see someone bring up the shego and kim problem-i think sometimes when people look back on shows they watched as a kid they completely forget to consider ages. especially if the show is animated, since that makes it even harder to tell what that gap is also! surprised that ferb and vanessa weren’t in the canon ships section :0 that always majorly skeeved me out
@@Antisocial_Cryptid13 Shego. Vanessa creeps me out because at first you think once she tells Ferb that she's too old for him, he'd back off or the show would tone it down. Nope.
Kim Possible is supposed to be 16, but they made a live-action film where they cast an actual 16 year old to play her, and she didn't look right because Kim's character design is based on a girl in her 20's.
It’s such a crazy show when you sit down and actually think about everything that happens, especially the one character Amy being 26 years old and pretending to be a high school senior, making friends way younger than her, getting herself involved in high school drama, and giving her ex boyfriend head lice, then kissing his brother to get even with him. Like her whole character is ick, and I’m surprised none of the writers, directors, or actors noticed how weird any of that was. She was a literal predator
I never really followed the show so learning that there is guns, (serious, not comedic) kidnapping and this level of betrayal and abuse in an endgame relationship on a disney show is unbelievable to me
@@catafer in the series finale, the villain also brings a gun to KC’s graduation ceremony and he shoots it in the air and across the room at KC whilst threatening the people there by telling them to stay put. I noticed when I went back and rewatched it that Disney edited that part of the episode out, probably bc they realized they might receive backlash for that part of the episode. Also, what’s pretty messed up is after all of that, KC and her family then wipe the people in attendances memory so that they all forget about it, basically causing all of the families there to not remember the graduation even happened
So glad you decided to talk about Trish and Chuck, wasn't sure you would but I would've commented about them regardless because boy does Chuck make me uncomfy. He comes off as super creepy in the way he treats Trish for basically the whole show. I don't want to think about how they could've possibly become a couple. I remember being super shocked and annoyed about the whole thing when the finale first came out and I still feel pretty much the same way.
So wait. I haven’t seen this show cause I stopped watching Disney a while ago. So they jumped to the future on the finale basically like a “where are they now” type of thing? And this is a regular thing that Disney has been doing? Cause I was thinking It was more so like a random Episode
@@ArianaWoods112it’s not a “regular” thing but it was common for Disney shows back then. I think they did it for this show because the characters have changed so much and they wanted to show where they’d end up
People shipping any of the Pines with Bill are basically shipping someone with their abuser, imo and that definitely makes me feel icky. Bill caused so much trauma to that family I can’t believe people can fathom romantic feelings between any of them.
Yeah it's like, "Oh you like this gravity falls character? Good. Don't ship them with bill. Do not ship a character you like with an insane, interdimensional demon who tried to destroy their dimension, and can/will/has/attempted to maim or murder them before. Do not."
I feel like a lot of the people who did ship those relationships were like,, using Dipper and Mabel as self inserts. As in, the viewer found the idea of Bill (or at least human Bill) edgy and cool and attractive and so used Dipper or Mabel to represent themselves in a relationship with Bill. Also doesn’t help that most of the audience and people who shipped it were quite young
The college episode in Girl Meets World pissed me off so bad! Those college girls really threatened Josh’s social life if he wouldn’t wait for her, like, EW.
Can we talk about how the Maya and Josh thing is the exact same story as the Zack and Maddy thing. The three year age gap where the younger of the two is obsessed with the older and in one episode someone three years older than the older of the ship turns them down for the age reason. It's not really that important but I think it's interesting.
I think they main difference with the two stories is the age of the actors. Ashley and Dylan are 7 years apart but Sabrina and Uriah are only 2 years apart, which would be why people thought Maddie and Zach would be creepy but we’re okay with Maya and josh.
@@bex1107 yea but it’s different as well with zack and Maddie, cause even though zack had a crush on her they were still friends. Eventually zack dated other people and even stopped hitting on Maddie for the most part. He grew as a person. With maya and josh it’s literally her having a crush him saying that it’s not right but eventually wanting to date even though everyone was gaslighting maya about her feelings.
The absolute worst “””ship””” that I ever saw was when I was trying to find Harley & Aidan fanfic for Stuck in the Middle, and found fanfic for _all of the Diaz siblings._ Really really icked me out and I immediately just dipped and avoided searching for fanfic for that show anymore. Also, apparently Harley & Ethan are a “popular ship” despite them being siblings a la Justin & Alex. Wtf
On Justin and Alex: there is a very uncomfortable amount of ao3 fanfiction of them, I hate it. And yes to characters not needing romantic interests! I think one of the best examples of this was Jim from Soy Luna- she consistently showed that she was way too immature to be in a relationship with Nico, and it was just exhausting to watch. I really loved her character once she became single. Jazmin was also a great character when she wasn’t pursuing an (unrequited) romantic interest. Also Lindy’s character development in I didn’t do it as she starts adopting dogs was such a great way to show growth and change without the addition of a romantic interest!
It's been a while since I've seen it, but I remember whenever I watched the Wizards of Waverly Place movie, one scene made me uncomfortable because their chemistry was too good and didn't feel like siblings at all. So I can understand where it comes from, but also, no no no no NO 🤢. In high school, I wrote a story based on the Wizards movie, but the Justin like character was the main character's brother's best friend. Wait, people ship Mal and Hades? 🤢🤢🤢
It was the campfire scene right? I still remember watching it for the first time & thinking “if they weren’t siblings, this would totally have been written as a romantic scene”
@@andreamolinar6883 …they’re literally just talking and being open with each other in that scene tho? That’s not sexual/romantic tension, that’s literally just healthy communication (and a strong sibling relationship, in their case)
I love how logical caitlin is with these icky ships like “no bill is a demon, he should not be shipped with these preteens” like I don’t think that’s stopping the people shipping them😂
@@mikaelayadao7435 Ohmygosh Sofia and Hugo are the PERFECT enemies to lovers!!! I love them so much and if it weren't a little kids' show, they 100% would've ended up together
Ok Girl Meets World confuses me because Josh and Maya are 2 1/2 years apart (as said later in the series) yet when she’s a freshman he’s already graduated. So maybe he skipped a couple years?? Idk it’s kinda confusing but it makes me feel better that they’re 2 1/2 years apart instead of 3
In that college dorm episode, I think they mention how he's going to uni a year early. So he was supposed to move to New York, and that's why he started showing up more later on (before the actor's motorcycle accident)
I think the biggest problem with Josh and Maya, or rather the thing that created all the "problems" with the ship, is that the writers of the show did their math wrong. Josh and Maya should be roughly the same age as Maya is established to be one of the older kids in their class. I think she's at some point hinted at being nearly a year older than Riley. Plus, if you do the math between when Josh was born in the original series and when Maya and Riley would've had to have been born to make them 12-13 in the new show, the age gap should be almost nonexistent; like 1 1/2 tops (provided my math is correct).
@@madyliz9633 Riley was born at the end of 2000 (I know bc she's only like 2 days younger than me). Josh was aged up in BMW's last episode 'Brave New World' which could be why he's ~3yrs older instead of just ~1yr.
THAT’S WHAT I WAS THINKING?!!!! When she said Maya was in 7th grade when Josh was in 11th my first thought was “this math isn’t mathing” He should have be in 9th or 10th grade (since I think Maya is older for her grade)
@@graciesophia3163 I'm not sure if I agree. It isn't but I think the ship is bad, I just think that the show had too much romance and not a clue how they should properly handle it. If they did try and put the two together, it might have added even more romantic to show that I think I had a little bit too much of that and they could have very well possibly really just as they have with other ships.
I agree the ship in the thumbnail does make me vomit 🤮 Also I agree Trish and Chuck probably shouldn’t have been endgame Second edit: EW WHY ARE THERE SO MANY SIBLING/FAMILY SHIPS 🤮🤮🤮
I really dislike how so many Disney shows stuck two characters together despite their lack of chemistry. I remember being irrationally upset that Best Friends Whenever ended with them trying to make Cyd and Naldo being a thing despite the two having barely a friendship. (Granted, I always shipped Cyd and Shelby knowing it would never be canon. So I guess I was just setting myself up for disappointment. Lol)
I honestly never took the relationships in that show seriously. I liked looking at it for the plot and the friendships but the relationships I was never invested in.
Although I disagree with your second paragraph (I feel like they had a little chemistry and would be great together), I completely agree with your first statement, cuz they do that all the time just to have a ship, even if they've never seemed like they liked each other before. For example, Aspen and Willa from Zombies 3, Trish and Chuck from Austin and Ally 🤮, and tbh, I feel like they even did that in HSM 1 with Taylor and Chad
i’m so glad you talked about josh and maya even when i was younger watching the show i thought it was sooo weird. i honestly can’t stand most age gaps in disney shows because they’re almost always in grade school which means one will be an adult way before the other!
in high school i had this friend in my year, who when we were 14 was dating this senior who was 17. at the time I didn't bat an eye, I thought it was super normal, I was friendly with both of them. at some point the school found out and intervened bc the age of consent is 16 here, so one of them could not consent legally (they weren't having sex but still). and I remember at the time being like it makes no sense, the school knows nothing, what's wrong with them dating, they shouldn't be doing that, they love each other. and I applied the same logic to joshaya, I was like nah it's fine who cares. but then I grew up and looked back at it and was like why the hell would a 17 year old hang out with a 14 year old at all?? at that age, the difference is MASSIVE, no matter what the maturity level is, someone in college and someone is high school are at completely different stages in life. i wondered why the school didn't intervene sooner, we knew nothing! and why the hell would gmw encourage this, like I wrote one joshaya fanfic and I reread it and wanna barf cuz I'm like why did I think this was okay! and it was maya's only love interest too, besides lucas who let's be real they were never gonna make canon, zay didn't have any real moments with her, so all there was was josh like ugh, gross.
As a 17 year old with 14 year old friends I think having them as friends is fine. However dating a 14 year old is yuck I am dating a 16 year old which for me is still a bit weird cause my younger siblings are 16 as well but eh Plus he will still be 16 when I turn 18 this month. He will be 17 about a month after tho But yeah never got how seniors could get with freshman.
@That Nerdy girl Tarini i don't know, i know they stayed friends bc I remember she was in the same college as me and I saw them together once or twice, but no idea if they dated ever again
For me it's that they are teenagers and at that age 3 years mean a lot. Later in life not that much, a 30 year old with a 27 year old doesn't have the same problematic aspect. Is not only the age gap, but the range of age.
@@patax144 yes exactly what i'm saying, as an adult it makes no difference bc you're pretty much at the same level, but as kids/teens, developmentally, it's completely different things, like a 4 year old and a 7 year old know completely different things, a 14 year old and a 17 year old same thing, very different life stage, one you're just entering teenage hood and the other adulthood like you care about different things and think differently, there is a clear imbalance
Speaking from having step siblings since being a baby. I can see it being a total different scenario from having an ‘almost’ step sibling from being in your teen’s. The childhood growing up together sibling relationship isn’t there and also no shared DNA.
I never really watched K.C. Undercover, but hearing about how Marisa and Brady ended up together even after what he did to her and her friends sounds horrible!
@@ttylxoxo1929 Because Caitlyn is known to be pretty vocal about how much she doesn't like Miggie. I'm surprised that they don't make her gag whatsoever.
I feel like she focused on more ships that were just gross to think about like age gap and incest ships. Or ships that just didn’t make any sense with it’s arc. Diggie and Maddie is just a normal highschool couple. I don’t like Diggie in the end, but Diggie and Maddie were cute in the beginning.
Back when I used to write fanfic, I wrote more than one with a non-canon ship included, so I guess I can't attack anyone else who does it. Still, I wish a great non-romantic ship could be left alone. Justin and Alex are terrific as brother and sister and I don't want to think of them as anything else. And though I remember when the final Descendants movie came out, some people complained that Mal and Hades' chemistry was too sexual, I didn't see it that way. To me, they were a completely convincing father and daughter.
Thank you for the Casey and Derek mention! I love them, they never saw each other as siblings and I will ship them forever...also I always liked Angie and Herman but I agree with all the points you raised here. AND... omg... what is worse than the amount of siblings ships?... twins... pets... DEMONS? We are doomed
I guess I could see why Alex and Justin is a ship, but you could just have a good, close, healthy relationship with your siblings. My brother and I are so close that people in middle school thought we were dating, but nope, healthy relationships with siblings are very real and exsist
There's a weird extra layer of context to shipping Perry and Doof in that, within the canon of Phineas and Ferb, many humans are shown to have relationships with animal characters like the secret agents or even inanimate objects (there was a guy in love with an ice cream machine...)
1:18 I like how she's telling us about the sponsor for the video just one-on-one rather than going into ad-mode and switching to a pre-recorded video. It feels like nothing's changed and she's just being genuine with us about it.
Violetta just has a thing for "it is not biological so its okay" incest, which is still very much messed up. And I was kind of hoping that after Josh and Maya got mentioned that Nina and Xavi would be making an appearance, even when they aren't that gross, but still kind of creepy when you think about it
Oh the OG Casey and Derek 😭, Disney channel really made us all look like fools for wanting them together. They had more chemistry that most on-screen couples at that time.
"A guy who kidnapped her twice, used her and tried to murder her" gurl that is literally the plot of half the books i read and loved😂 bookworms love toxic what can I say😂
@@courtneypalmer2331 Hey you can't blame dhampir Dimitri for what Strigoi Dimitri did especially when the second he was restored he felt absolutely horrible about all of it. BTW I'm half joking here I'm not really offended though they are one of my favorite ships of all time and I am so glad they get their happily ever after
@@Angelwitch99 Totally agree but you still have to admit, even after he came back, he was still off with her. Like when he took her to that motel and they were fighting because she wanted to do stuff to help and he told her to stay. Then they had a knockdown drag out in the forest. xD god I love that you know VA.
@@courtneypalmer2331 True though a lot of that was because was still beating himself up over what strigoi Dimitri did and trying to keep Roza at arms length while also trying to protect her and it just really didn't work for either of them.
My theory about Mal and Hades is that it's like one of the only duets in the movies and duets are a really good way to show off character chemistry. Think about it, 'Space Between' and 'Do What You Gotta Do' are both duets and people ship the people from both of them. Mal and Evie is obviously a far superior ship but that's my theory. What I'm saying is Disney should have given Ben and Mal a duet if they wanted us to ship them.
From Disney xd’s pov Bree and Chase from lab rats is literally the most popular ship in the show. So many fanfics and fan edits. They are SIBLINGS. STAWP it
I didn’t think much about the touchy moments with Mal and hades. I just thought Mal giving him a kiss on the cheek was a daughter saying goodbye to her dad
i must say, as a french person, we kiss people on the cheek to say hello or goodbye so it didn't even crossed my mind as a thing was there other moments that felt weird?
Josh and Maya reminds me of a situation I was personally in. Same ages. Except he was the one hitting on me. Makes that extremely creepy when you look at it that way
Them being only 3 ish years apart isnt that weird that Maya and Josh have a conversation about potentially getting together, so them being together in the future wouldnt be an issue, but current time they are at a different place in their lives and shouldnt be together. Its like how lots of adult couple are quite a few years apart but if they dated as teenagers it would be creepy and potentially illegal. As for the near stepsibling relationships...if you are dating your partner snd your parents start dating, 100% fine. The parents need to be the ones to back off, not the kids. They were together first so the parents making them break up because they want to be together sucks. As for meeting/starting to like each other while your parents are already together, you already go into it knowing you have the potential to be stepsiblings and then absolutely not
Insane that children's networks like Disney Channel think it's more moral to show step siblings, incest, a kidnapper and their victim who he tried to murder, and kids with a 7 year age gap kissing and being together rather than a normal, healthy gay relationship
Justin / Alex was a solid part of the fandom back in the day. Which was equal parts Sel's crush on David as it was Disney's aversion to writing romance.
Idea for a ship list. Ships that should have ended sooner that could have been better. Like a ship that was great but got stale or botched later in the series.
I haven’t really thought about Zack and Maddy that way. I thought they were cute together, but the age difference irl is weird. I thought Dylan was 18 when he and Maddie kissed, but he was still 17.
@@bellaknightR597 I agree with that I think I did too and also we love Maddie as a character so obviously we want her to have the best and yeah his name is Josh.
The one about mal and her dad was crazy to me because honestly I just saw it as mal being happy that her dad was doing a good thing. I can’t believe some people actually ship that. The bad things about fandoms Is that it is usually filled with horrid and uncomfortable ships. The fandoms even sometimes ruin the show for me.
Would you ever consider doing an Owl House Ship tier ranking video discussing the ships, since the show is ending soon after the shortened Season 3? I would just love to hear your thoughts about the ships since I love you ship discussion videos weather your praising or destroying a ship. Plus, I found you from all your Barbie videos, so I automatically see you as a Queen 👑
Here’s the thing, some people ship this stuff for the toxicity, cause some people are into that, and it’s okay to explore darker themes as long as there’s no real harm done to one’s self or anyone else, the trouble comes when people try to apply those things in real life
Recently I rewatched good luck Charlie cause I never actually saw the ending and I was talking to my dad (who watched all the Disney shows with me) and I was saying how much I didn’t like Spencer and teddy getting back together a few times and he told me I felt the same way as a child that I was extremely upset when he cheated on her and I was mad about it for weeks lol so good for little me
The problem with the age gaps is that they are teenagers and in the developing phase that it is 3 years are a big difference, later in life is not that big of a deal, just 4 years but during the teenage years, yeah it is problematic.
Character-wise, Maddie and Zack are 3 years apart, which is what the story is based off of. I feel like thinking otherwise is trying to create an issue where there isn't one. A 15 yr old with an 18yr old isn't too far fetched if you're in the same school. A relationship doesn't always equal sex.
The Mal and hades one really is the worst especially after the fact that she is married now like if you still ship Mal and hades even after she is married that is just gross
i had a classmate whose aunt was her step-mom and her cousin also became her step-sister. she was very big on family and was talking a lot about all her sister calling them just sisters. so i guess that's why it doesn't sound so weird to me
The Alex and Justin Ship craze was a huge moment. It has so many fan fiction and fan trailer. I remember videos of fans asking if the writers do they ship out and Justin. 😂😂😂 it has a huge community
I AGREE WITH GERMÁN AND ANGIE !! they're literally in-laws why was everyone in the show rooting for them so hard ignoring that ?? germán never considered angie's feelings, he always lied to her and went behind her back. the fact that angie still loves him despite all that is so odd ?? she deserved better !! her and pablo together were amazing
When I started watching Violetta I shipped Angie and German, due to the language barrier and because I was using the show to learn more Spanish for my Spanish class I never understood that they were in-laws I just thought that Angie was in desperate need of a job and saw an opportunity after she’d bumped into Jade’s brother in the first episode, it wasn’t until a few more episodes when I actually got interested in the series and I started it watching it with subtitles I then learned that they were in-laws and I was so grossed out of the idea of them being together, especially after the show ends with a big wedding between them where like their whole family attends and everyone is just ok with it 💀😭.
I didn't like them because of the age gap. I think when he left with Violetta Angie was an early teen or a teenager. All I remember is that she was young. I remember that Olga said she remembered the little girl that used to run around from Maria's family, or maybe it was German. I can get over the fact that he knew Angie when she was a little girl, that just left me feeling icky and so I didn't want them together. The fact that it was his dead wife's sister never bothered me though, unless it was because she reminded him of her because that's another icky moment.
@@ariiblink not to mention the big age gap between them !! it's so gross and everyone in the show(vilu, ramallo, olga, some of vilu's friends) supported germán and angie together and it was so ???
on the alex and justin thing. i just checked and they are indeed the top tagged WoWP ship on ao3. in fact, no other ship comes close. i have never shipped them, but considering how impossible it is to check ship popularity on ffn... its reasonable to use ao3 tags as a good metric
oh my god! finally! i am so tiered of explaining how kids who grew up together while being siblings, even if not by blood, should think of each other as siblings and nothing more. this applies to any sort of familial relationship. if they grew up knowing they were family in some sense being attracted to each other is so.... god it frustrates me.
I don’t know, Cece and Logan I’m sort of okay with. I mean past the step sibling thing I took from Disney doing this as ‘you never know where your going to be in 10 years’ 99.9% of people don’t end up with someone from their childhood, they don’t end up living out their childhood fantasies, and they grow up and change as people. So while I didn’t see it coming, I didn’t necessarily hate it either. As it was actually decently close to something that could happen. But that’s just my opinion 🤷🏻♀️
I loved the chemistry between Josh and Maya and I don’t mind the age gap (as long as they waited until she was older) but I couldn’t stand the fact that if they got married, she would’ve been Riley’s aunt 💀
I think people ship Alex & Justin partially because of the enemies to lovers thing but I also just think selena and david had chemistry. My friend lived in LA for awhile & ran in the same circle as David because they went to the same church & him and Selena were definitely a thing at multiple points while filming so I just think that chemistry makes people believe it’s something other than it is. It’s nasty. But I can just imagine that plays a part
I don't understand why some people like shipping family members together. I have seen people defend this kind of ship with every fibre of their being with the excuse of "it's just their imagination/headcanon". Just because you can doesn't mean you should. People should learn to set boundaries with their imagination.
21:14 i agree. the only thing, though, is that when i was a kid i got a bit confused by that one ep where everyone forgot about justin and then people kept shipping them together, even their own parents. in my tiny kid brain, it was like they flipped a switch for something i never previously considered. and about the same thing goes for life with derick. something that never shouldve been consider WAS because the show entertained it
Yesss Josh was too old and manipulative. Really uncomfy. With Casey and Derek? I'm guilty. First time I saw them i didn't know they were step siblings and shipped right away.
They went out once but it didn't work out but David was actually dating Lucy Hale for over 2+ years (2007-2009) so Selena and David maybe went out somewhere around 2009.
I think people confuse actors with characters sometimes... Like I used to think Selena and David could be together but Alex and Justin no. The only Justin that was ever together with "Alex" was Justin Bieber.
I HATE the cece and Logan ship like I don’t care what you say they were almost siblings and look I love a good enemies to lovers but they were just enemies no lovers involved I don’t like it it’s just makes no sense 😭
oh my gosh yes! Thank you I have been saying that for a while now, not everything needs to be shipped. There is such a thing as a platonic relationship and a well written one can be just as enjoyable to watch as a romantic one
I feel like it's important to note that some people don't ship characters because the ship is "good" or "pure" or "wholesome" or anything. Sometimes it's a "haha wouldn't that be messed up" or this is wacky as hell and I love it because of that". I totally get what this is saying, literally any sibling ship makes me feel personally uncomfortable, but I feel like too many people associate fiction shipping preferences with moral purity or whatever, when some people just want to see something funny/messed up in fiction.
Kinda funny to hear you talking about icky age gaps when the guy playing Matteo is like 6 years older than the girl playing Luna… and she was only 17 when they filmed the first season, right? 😂😅
Exactly but also because of the height difference it's very obvious With other main ship Violetta and Leon real life age difference was also seven years but Tini is tall unlike Karol who is short
When I was watching Descendent for the very first time, I feel like a tension between Mal and Hades, not like character but like the actors, they have good chemistry, and I admit that I feel so uncomfortable during their scenes because of that.
The thing that bothers me about villain redemption arcs is they rarely if ever face any consequences for their wrongdoing. Like. I could totally go for an arc where a villain turns over a new life while in prison and is now dating a lady he met in his ex cons support group
When I was younger I watched the movie Wizards of Waverly place on my tv when it was already half over so I had no idea they were actually siblings and I ended up shipping Alex and Justin until I eventually watched the tv show and found out they were siblings.
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Can you make a video about Jessie and Brooks? I personally loved them as a couple and was super disappointed that they didn’t get married. Don’t get me wrong I liked Tony, but I never felt anything special with him and Jessie. Jessie and Brooks had something.
@@princessravendiamond4288 omgg i know what you’re talking abt
Is Wizards of Waverly Place still your favorite show? We just had a really nice picnic at Schenley Park with our friends from iCarly and Liberty’s Kids.
Your bangs are so cuteeee LOVED IT
I think Joey and Willow from
Liv and Maddie are definitely one of the ickiest Disney channel canon ships ever bcuz she literally physically threatens him and makes romantic advances though he makes it clear he’s not interested. (One scene literally has her demand that he sit next to her and Joey says I’m going to say yes because I’m afraid to say no) Then she eventually wears him down and they get together and thankfully broke up but still should never have happened in the first place, it was harassment and ab**ive.
she also literally stalks him. i think part of the reason they became canon is joey is a nerd and a bit socially awkward and people who shipped them were like “he should take what he can get”, which is disgusting.
Yeah, I can see that, I totally get that. Couldn't agree more, also the laugh tracks during those moments just make it so much worse.
@@terribleeyesshining Omg, that's awful. Also, that one moment where he accidentally flirted with his sister awhile she was in a kangaroo costume.
Amen to that 👏
Agreed
I agree any ship that deals with siblings or growing up as siblings shouldn’t be shipped. And it still confuses me why people still do it
To try and give myself peace of mind I like to think that at least most of the people doing that don't realize they are siblings
Or worse... parent/child ships in the case of Mal x Hades. Incest is not okay!!!!
@@princessravendiamond4288 plus parent child ones often have a power imbalance, and sometimes (depending on the age of the child) p*d*ph*l*a
@@TheRealBellatrixLestrange yeah they must not have watched the show 🤷♀️
If they are teenagers by the time they become step siblings, I don't see why it would be problematic.
If they properly grew up together, it's a little bit difficult.
Real siblings are out of the line, obviously.
I think the issue with age gaps is less how many years (though that is also problematic) but *when* the ages are - 14 and 17 are so drastically different in maturity and life experience, whereas 24 and 27 are closer in regards to life situation and experiences (and hopefully maturity, though that's no guarantee).
Exactly !
Some of my friends say that 3 years isn't a big deal, but the difference in maturity and perspective on life between a freshman and a senior is huge.
It's not the same as a 3 year age gap in your 20s
Yes, thank you! As a married woman with a 7-year-old gap between me and my husband I completely agree with this. It would have been very gross if we dated when I was 15, 16, 17, or younger.
preach
Yeah, age gaps in teenage relationships & adult relationships are different. 3 is a lot for a teenager but for adults it’s not. Like my parents who have a 5+ age gap but they met when they were adults & already working. If my dad was a teenager when he met my mom that would be weird & gross.
The Disney ship I can’t stand are teddy and Spencer yes they were cute but as soon as you cheat on me it’s over Period
I agree 100% she should've ended up with Beau (is that how you spell it?)
@@bellaknightR597 I think so
@@bellaknightR597 that is how you spell it
@@jackpearce367 thanks
@@bellaknightR597 you’re welcome
it's crazy some people don't feel gross shipping siblings 👎
selena and david used to date in real life
Yea it’s weird
@@Missmagazinebura yeah but i'm talking about their on screen characters in wizards of waverly place
@@aeilsxo same
Right they ended up doing it again with Brandon and Callie on the fosters because she did end up being family
Ferb actually wasn’t adopted, his dad married Phineas’s mom so they’re step brothers
They still grew up together and are brothers.
@@Heyheyhaleyd i don’t think they were defending the ship, just making it even worse
I came here to comment this
@@Heyheyhaleyd they aren't defending the ship, they just said facts to make a correction
Still
One ship I found out through fan art on TikTok was Mirabel and Bruno. So gross. Like not only is he 45ish, but he’s her uncle!? Like why would they ship them???
some people are just plain gross and messed up
people are insane, that's it, that's the truth. Not to be rude to anyone who ships this
He's 50 and she 15 🤮
@Jasmine N. I couldn’t see the jk on my notifications until I clicked it and I was very concerned 😂
yeah like the only encanto ships I have are Pepa & Felix,Julieta & Agustin,Dolores & Mariano, Alma & Pedro, and Isabela & Bubo Marquez (even though he never made it into the film) NO GROSSNESS/INCEST because ewwww!
“He’s using Maya’s infatuation with him to his advantage” he’s also takes advantage of Maya’s daddy issues
It's not that deep 😂
I never finished KC undercover so hearing that Marissa and Brady are end game while Brett is still off somewhere in Canada after his (if memory serves me right) top tier redemption arc IS RIDICULOUS
Exactly. Can we get Brett back
I know right if they where going to bring back anyone and give us an enemy's to loves end game itvshould have been Brett to give him and K.C. the happily ever after they deserve
Ferb is Lawrence’s son (I believe from a previous relationship?) and Candace and Phineas are Linda’s children from a previous relationship. When Linda and Lawrence married I assume they adopted each other’s children, but the whole dynamic is so wholesome, especially because Phineas and Candace call Lawrence
‘s parents grandma and grandpa which I find so sweet.
Okay but why is no one talking about ferb and Vanessa
Lawrence is Candance’s and Phineas’ step dad so Ferb is Phineas’ and Candace’s stepbrother
I agree with the Hades and Mal ship, and the Russo Siblings. Both are EXTREMELY disturbing.
Right I didn’t even realize ppl shipped Mal and Hades. Sure there was some weirdness with Mal being very touchy with him. I thought the most that ppl said abt them was joking abt heck at the end when she stand next to Hades the framing almost make it look like they are a weird couple. I think it was unintentionally on the framing portion
Alex and Justin don’t even live together anymore.
@@akrzton1 still creepy..
@@edatheowllady9518 No, I think it’s sweet!
@@akrzton1 what does them not living together have to do with anything? also you think shipping siblings is sweet??
Thank GOD I’m not the only person who dislikes Josh and Maya. I’m starting college in the fall, and the idea of dating a ninth grader is so icky to me. Seeing that kind of relationship on a kids show makes me worried.
I literally hate Josh and Maya so much. It’s not just the age difference it’s more so the manipulation
Good luck in college! 🤞🏽🤞🏽
I totally didn't even take this ship seriously because of the agegap then it became a thing in the show and I was like "wait what???"
I didn't like that ship being encouraged on the show when I was a teen and now that I'm out of college I hate how it was handled and almost forced to work as a plotline. The worse part for me is that sabrina was older so her interactions with the actor don't reflect visually the huge gap that the characters had, not only in age but in life stages
I guess the screenwriters kind of forgot how weird it is for someone in their teens to have a relationship with such a huge age gap. It's not that weird to have a crush on someone older, but to go after a boy who you see like once every year and no one ever tries to stop her... That's when you start to see red flags
I think if she did put Maddie and Diggy on this list, the entire video would have turned into her ranting about how they are not good together. And being honest, I would still watch it and love it because it is true that those two should NOT be canon at all!
They were cute in the beginning but besides that, yeah, true; same here. I couldn't agree more.
I would honestly watch and really want to see a whole video of caitlin going off about miggie
what is funny to me is that Ryan McCartan has said (on his instagram in one of the question things) that he thinks Maddie should have chosen Josh instead of Diggie
Oh come on diggie wasn't THAT bad. At least he didn't cheat like spencer
@@UriosEditz True he was better than Spencer. They had a lot of cute moment at the beginning. After he got back from his trip and the breakup he went down hill. He came back in town bc he knew Maddie was seeing someone else and was jealous. Josh was the better one especially in that moment
Even without the incest Mal and Hades would be a toxic relationship. There a a definite power imbalance. The reason Mal is a little touchy and has that body language is do to her caring what he thinks despite him not showing that he cares, and (like I said) the power imbalance. She is also probably still under 18- too young for him.
The only person that's hades' true love is persephone. Read lore olympus and you will get why
Lol
It's her... Dad!🤨
@@luminshinemagic yeah, I'm saying it is problematic even if he wasn't. Obviously nothing incestuous should happen
I don't know if it'll be on here but Austin and Piper from Austin and Ally. He tried so hard the prove he's not shallow and impress her and she took advantage of that, she made him throw away his phone, stop using hair products, and wear a potato sack. He got attacked by a bird while climbing a coconut tree to get her a fresh coconut water and she wasn’t even the least bit concerned, she was amused. I hate her!
@Jasmine N. yeah
@Jasmine N. what about it? The picture?
@Jasmine N. oh ok thanks
I see what you mean like, Alex and Justin would be a great ship if they weren't siblings, but THEY ARE SIBLINGS. WHY WOULD THAT EVEN CROSS ANYBODY'S MIND
Well clearly it just crossed your mind bc you just said "they'd be a great ship if..." uhhhhh
@@crybabyangel1317 Did you miss the "I see what you mean" or?? Caitlin mentioned it at 20:56, which is why I thought about it. It wouldn't have crossed my mind unprompted
@@cupcakewithouttheicing And yeah to your defense, you are more talking about the elements. Mentor/mentee, good guy/bad girl, enemies to lovers are all very popular tropes in the fiction and romance genre that work...but of course excluding cases of incest, grooming, etc. To me, it's just that Selena and David have a strong, and at times electric, chemistry and if they didn't have a show as siblings, the actors could have played romantic interests. All that being said, Justin and Alex are siblings by blood in the Wizards universe. Differentiating chemistry between actors and the storylines of their characters is crucial, especially when an incest plotline is involved.
@@kristinr4928 worded it better than me lol. Exactly this.
@@cupcakewithouttheicing Glad to hear! I was hoping my point came across correctly :)
SO glad to see someone bring up the shego and kim problem-i think sometimes when people look back on shows they watched as a kid they completely forget to consider ages. especially if the show is animated, since that makes it even harder to tell what that gap is
also! surprised that ferb and vanessa weren’t in the canon ships section :0 that always majorly skeeved me out
Growing up I just assumed Shego was Kim’s age, maybe a couple years older.
I looked it up and the first thing that came up was that she’s in her early 20s so do with that what you will
@@honeybun8823 Are you talking about Vanessa or Shego?
@@Antisocial_Cryptid13 Shego. Vanessa creeps me out because at first you think once she tells Ferb that she's too old for him, he'd back off or the show would tone it down. Nope.
Kim Possible is supposed to be 16, but they made a live-action film where they cast an actual 16 year old to play her, and she didn't look right because Kim's character design is based on a girl in her 20's.
I’m just now realizing how weird KC undercover sounds to someone who has never watched it.
It’s such a crazy show when you sit down and actually think about everything that happens, especially the one character Amy being 26 years old and pretending to be a high school senior, making friends way younger than her, getting herself involved in high school drama, and giving her ex boyfriend head lice, then kissing his brother to get even with him. Like her whole character is ick, and I’m surprised none of the writers, directors, or actors noticed how weird any of that was. She was a literal predator
@@lunko1736 ok. I totally don't remember this I must've missed at least 3 episodes.
@@edatheowllady9518 this was in the last few episodes of the show (the domino episodes)
I never really followed the show so learning that there is guns, (serious, not comedic) kidnapping and this level of betrayal and abuse in an endgame relationship on a disney show is unbelievable to me
@@catafer in the series finale, the villain also brings a gun to KC’s graduation ceremony and he shoots it in the air and across the room at KC whilst threatening the people there by telling them to stay put. I noticed when I went back and rewatched it that Disney edited that part of the episode out, probably bc they realized they might receive backlash for that part of the episode. Also, what’s pretty messed up is after all of that, KC and her family then wipe the people in attendances memory so that they all forget about it, basically causing all of the families there to not remember the graduation even happened
So glad you decided to talk about Trish and Chuck, wasn't sure you would but I would've commented about them regardless because boy does Chuck make me uncomfy. He comes off as super creepy in the way he treats Trish for basically the whole show. I don't want to think about how they could've possibly become a couple. I remember being super shocked and annoyed about the whole thing when the finale first came out and I still feel pretty much the same way.
@Luke Jameson For real! Also we love how Dez's sister only shows up in one episode and then just never gets mentioned again (from what I remember)
I completely agree. I didn't care for them jumping to the future and having her and chuck be married I didn't appreciate that. She can do better!
So wait. I haven’t seen this show cause I stopped watching Disney a while ago. So they jumped to the future on the finale basically like a “where are they now” type of thing? And this is a regular thing that Disney has been doing?
Cause I was thinking It was more so like a random Episode
@@ArianaWoods112it’s not a “regular” thing but it was common for Disney shows back then. I think they did it for this show because the characters have changed so much and they wanted to show where they’d end up
People shipping any of the Pines with Bill are basically shipping someone with their abuser, imo and that definitely makes me feel icky. Bill caused so much trauma to that family I can’t believe people can fathom romantic feelings between any of them.
Yeah it's like, "Oh you like this gravity falls character? Good. Don't ship them with bill. Do not ship a character you like with an insane, interdimensional demon who tried to destroy their dimension, and can/will/has/attempted to maim or murder them before. Do not."
We love a little toxicity, it adds flavor
@@ilikepointlessinternetargument ew
I feel like a lot of the people who did ship those relationships were like,, using Dipper and Mabel as self inserts. As in, the viewer found the idea of Bill (or at least human Bill) edgy and cool and attractive and so used Dipper or Mabel to represent themselves in a relationship with Bill. Also doesn’t help that most of the audience and people who shipped it were quite young
@@probablyhuman9947 oh whatever shall I do, random person said ew to me. Anyways toxic stuff in fiction >>>>
The college episode in Girl Meets World pissed me off so bad! Those college girls really threatened Josh’s social life if he wouldn’t wait for her, like, EW.
the fact that older girls were rooting for this underage gap relationship?? this had to be written by a man cause, no way
college and highschool age gap is so insane to me, especially as a college student myself now but even as I kid I was like ".........That's weird.
Can we talk about how the Maya and Josh thing is the exact same story as the Zack and Maddy thing. The three year age gap where the younger of the two is obsessed with the older and in one episode someone three years older than the older of the ship turns them down for the age reason. It's not really that important but I think it's interesting.
I think they main difference with the two stories is the age of the actors. Ashley and Dylan are 7 years apart but Sabrina and Uriah are only 2 years apart, which would be why people thought Maddie and Zach would be creepy but we’re okay with Maya and josh.
@@bex1107 yea but it’s different as well with zack and Maddie, cause even though zack had a crush on her they were still friends. Eventually zack dated other people and even stopped hitting on Maddie for the most part. He grew as a person. With maya and josh it’s literally her having a crush him saying that it’s not right but eventually wanting to date even though everyone was gaslighting maya about her feelings.
The absolute worst “””ship””” that I ever saw was when I was trying to find Harley & Aidan fanfic for Stuck in the Middle, and found fanfic for _all of the Diaz siblings._ Really really icked me out and I immediately just dipped and avoided searching for fanfic for that show anymore. Also, apparently Harley & Ethan are a “popular ship” despite them being siblings a la Justin & Alex. Wtf
:0 but Harley and Ethan were siblings and friends 🥺🥺, that is really insane ;(
Disgusting
I'm glad you love Harley and Aiden too though! They're so cute
Same , i was searching for a Klaus and Caroline fanfic but found one of Klaus and hope 🤮, been avoiding fanfics ever since
“And both of those videos include zero incest” had me cracking up for some reason 😂
On Justin and Alex: there is a very uncomfortable amount of ao3 fanfiction of them, I hate it.
And yes to characters not needing romantic interests! I think one of the best examples of this was Jim from Soy Luna- she consistently showed that she was way too immature to be in a relationship with Nico, and it was just exhausting to watch. I really loved her character once she became single. Jazmin was also a great character when she wasn’t pursuing an (unrequited) romantic interest. Also Lindy’s character development in I didn’t do it as she starts adopting dogs was such a great way to show growth and change without the addition of a romantic interest!
It's been a while since I've seen it, but I remember whenever I watched the Wizards of Waverly Place movie, one scene made me uncomfortable because their chemistry was too good and didn't feel like siblings at all. So I can understand where it comes from, but also, no no no no NO 🤢. In high school, I wrote a story based on the Wizards movie, but the Justin like character was the main character's brother's best friend.
Wait, people ship Mal and Hades? 🤢🤢🤢
Do you remember what scene from the movie it was?
It was the campfire scene right? I still remember watching it for the first time & thinking “if they weren’t siblings, this would totally have been written as a romantic scene”
@@andreamolinar6883 Yes, I'm pretty sure that was the scene!
It was which scene
@@andreamolinar6883 …they’re literally just talking and being open with each other in that scene tho? That’s not sexual/romantic tension, that’s literally just healthy communication (and a strong sibling relationship, in their case)
I love how logical caitlin is with these icky ships like “no bill is a demon, he should not be shipped with these preteens” like I don’t think that’s stopping the people shipping them😂
Not Disney Channel but Disney Junior: people literally ship SOFIA AND CEDRIC from Sofia the First 🤮🤮🤮
wait what?? eww??
Um eww???
i saw that id rather ship sofia with hugo
@@mikaelayadao7435 Ohmygosh Sofia and Hugo are the PERFECT enemies to lovers!!! I love them so much and if it weren't a little kids' show, they 100% would've ended up together
@@heyyitsjenna IKR theyre the only other reason why im rewatching the show. that and finding someone i can maybe ship james with or smth
this haircut is everything. looks so good! such a fresh look
Ok Girl Meets World confuses me because Josh and Maya are 2 1/2 years apart (as said later in the series) yet when she’s a freshman he’s already graduated. So maybe he skipped a couple years?? Idk it’s kinda confusing but it makes me feel better that they’re 2 1/2 years apart instead of 3
In that college dorm episode, I think they mention how he's going to uni a year early. So he was supposed to move to New York, and that's why he started showing up more later on (before the actor's motorcycle accident)
Okay but in the grand scheme of things- 3 years really isn’t a big deal I don’t get it at all 💀
I think the biggest problem with Josh and Maya, or rather the thing that created all the "problems" with the ship, is that the writers of the show did their math wrong. Josh and Maya should be roughly the same age as Maya is established to be one of the older kids in their class. I think she's at some point hinted at being nearly a year older than Riley. Plus, if you do the math between when Josh was born in the original series and when Maya and Riley would've had to have been born to make them 12-13 in the new show, the age gap should be almost nonexistent; like 1 1/2 tops (provided my math is correct).
@@madyliz9633 Riley was born at the end of 2000 (I know bc she's only like 2 days younger than me). Josh was aged up in BMW's last episode 'Brave New World' which could be why he's ~3yrs older instead of just ~1yr.
THAT’S WHAT I WAS THINKING?!!!! When she said Maya was in 7th grade when Josh was in 11th my first thought was “this math isn’t mathing” He should have be in 9th or 10th grade (since I think Maya is older for her grade)
The little hint of Cait shipping Zay and Maya was all I needed.
they should have been endgame for sure
@@graciesophia3163 I'm not sure if I agree. It isn't but I think the ship is bad, I just think that the show had too much romance and not a clue how they should properly handle it. If they did try and put the two together, it might have added even more romantic to show that I think I had a little bit too much of that and they could have very well possibly really just as they have with other ships.
@@graciesophia3163 they did have some sweet moments but personally I need to see more scenes to make me ship them
@@lovingsturnxiolo definitely agree! I think they would have made a good paring but we needed more development
I agree the ship in the thumbnail does make me vomit 🤮
Also I agree Trish and Chuck probably shouldn’t have been endgame
Second edit: EW WHY ARE THERE SO MANY SIBLING/FAMILY SHIPS 🤮🤮🤮
I love Justin and Alex as a sibling relationship, I can't believe there are people who ship them in a romantic way. This makes me wanna vomit
If you think that's bad you should stay away from fanfics
Yeah I will never understand why incest ships are so common
I really dislike how so many Disney shows stuck two characters together despite their lack of chemistry.
I remember being irrationally upset that Best Friends Whenever ended with them trying to make Cyd and Naldo being a thing despite the two having barely a friendship. (Granted, I always shipped Cyd and Shelby knowing it would never be canon. So I guess I was just setting myself up for disappointment. Lol)
I honestly never took the relationships in that show seriously. I liked looking at it for the plot and the friendships but the relationships I was never invested in.
What I loved Cyd and Naldo!! I thought they were so cute
Although I disagree with your second paragraph (I feel like they had a little chemistry and would be great together), I completely agree with your first statement, cuz they do that all the time just to have a ship, even if they've never seemed like they liked each other before. For example, Aspen and Willa from Zombies 3, Trish and Chuck from Austin and Ally 🤮, and tbh, I feel like they even did that in HSM 1 with Taylor and Chad
i’m so glad you talked about josh and maya even when i was younger watching the show i thought it was sooo weird. i honestly can’t stand most age gaps in disney shows because they’re almost always in grade school which means one will be an adult way before the other!
in high school i had this friend in my year, who when we were 14 was dating this senior who was 17. at the time I didn't bat an eye, I thought it was super normal, I was friendly with both of them. at some point the school found out and intervened bc the age of consent is 16 here, so one of them could not consent legally (they weren't having sex but still). and I remember at the time being like it makes no sense, the school knows nothing, what's wrong with them dating, they shouldn't be doing that, they love each other. and I applied the same logic to joshaya, I was like nah it's fine who cares. but then I grew up and looked back at it and was like why the hell would a 17 year old hang out with a 14 year old at all?? at that age, the difference is MASSIVE, no matter what the maturity level is, someone in college and someone is high school are at completely different stages in life. i wondered why the school didn't intervene sooner, we knew nothing! and why the hell would gmw encourage this, like I wrote one joshaya fanfic and I reread it and wanna barf cuz I'm like why did I think this was okay! and it was maya's only love interest too, besides lucas who let's be real they were never gonna make canon, zay didn't have any real moments with her, so all there was was josh like ugh, gross.
I mean there was Farkle. It was never a serious ship but they did get fake married in an episode.
As a 17 year old with 14 year old friends
I think having them as friends is fine. However dating a 14 year old is yuck
I am dating a 16 year old which for me is still a bit weird cause my younger siblings are 16 as well but eh
Plus he will still be 16 when I turn 18 this month. He will be 17 about a month after tho
But yeah never got how seniors could get with freshman.
@That Nerdy girl Tarini i don't know, i know they stayed friends bc I remember she was in the same college as me and I saw them together once or twice, but no idea if they dated ever again
For me it's that they are teenagers and at that age 3 years mean a lot. Later in life not that much, a 30 year old with a 27 year old doesn't have the same problematic aspect. Is not only the age gap, but the range of age.
@@patax144 yes exactly what i'm saying, as an adult it makes no difference bc you're pretty much at the same level, but as kids/teens, developmentally, it's completely different things, like a 4 year old and a 7 year old know completely different things, a 14 year old and a 17 year old same thing, very different life stage, one you're just entering teenage hood and the other adulthood like you care about different things and think differently, there is a clear imbalance
Speaking from having step siblings since being a baby. I can see it being a total different scenario from having an ‘almost’ step sibling from being in your teen’s. The childhood growing up together sibling relationship isn’t there and also no shared DNA.
I still thought Cher's relationship with her almost step sibling was icky especially because of the age gap in the end of Clueless. :(
I never really watched K.C. Undercover, but hearing about how Marisa and Brady ended up together even after what he did to her and her friends sounds horrible!
Haven't finished watching but I guarantee that Maddie and Diggie will be making an appearance on this list
@Jasmine N. I'm surprised that they weren't either. It felt weird, but not in a uncomfy way.
Wait.. why..?
@@ttylxoxo1929 Because Caitlyn is known to be pretty vocal about how much she doesn't like Miggie. I'm surprised that they don't make her gag whatsoever.
Perhaps she wanted to surprise people with other ships.
I feel like she focused on more ships that were just gross to think about like age gap and incest ships. Or ships that just didn’t make any sense with it’s arc. Diggie and Maddie is just a normal highschool couple. I don’t like Diggie in the end, but Diggie and Maddie were cute in the beginning.
Alex & Justin and Mal & Hades made me want to throw my phone out the window
Back when I used to write fanfic, I wrote more than one with a non-canon ship included, so I guess I can't attack anyone else who does it. Still, I wish a great non-romantic ship could be left alone. Justin and Alex are terrific as brother and sister and I don't want to think of them as anything else. And though I remember when the final Descendants movie came out, some people complained that Mal and Hades' chemistry was too sexual, I didn't see it that way. To me, they were a completely convincing father and daughter.
Thank you for the Casey and Derek mention! I love them, they never saw each other as siblings and I will ship them forever...also I always liked Angie and Herman but I agree with all the points you raised here. AND... omg... what is worse than the amount of siblings ships?... twins... pets... DEMONS? We are doomed
I guess I could see why Alex and Justin is a ship, but you could just have a good, close, healthy relationship with your siblings. My brother and I are so close that people in middle school thought we were dating, but nope, healthy relationships with siblings are very real and exsist
There's a weird extra layer of context to shipping Perry and Doof in that, within the canon of Phineas and Ferb, many humans are shown to have relationships with animal characters like the secret agents or even inanimate objects (there was a guy in love with an ice cream machine...)
1:18 I like how she's telling us about the sponsor for the video just one-on-one rather than going into ad-mode and switching to a pre-recorded video. It feels like nothing's changed and she's just being genuine with us about it.
Violetta just has a thing for "it is not biological so its okay" incest, which is still very much messed up. And I was kind of hoping that after Josh and Maya got mentioned that Nina and Xavi would be making an appearance, even when they aren't that gross, but still kind of creepy when you think about it
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Caitlin hating age gaps for 20 minutes straight
I mean in this circumstance theres a valid reason
**Caitlin hating illegal/creepy age gaps and 1nc3st for 20 mins straight
The way Life With Derek was written and played, no one can tell me we weren't SUPPOSED TO ship Derek & Casey, so I refuse to feel any ickiness.
Oh the OG Casey and Derek 😭, Disney channel really made us all look like fools for wanting them together. They had more chemistry that most on-screen couples at that time.
Marisa and bradey were were good
"A guy who kidnapped her twice, used her and tried to murder her" gurl that is literally the plot of half the books i read and loved😂 bookworms love toxic what can I say😂
Liken Vampire Academy with(spoiler alert)
Dimka andRosa. Like they tried to kill each other granted he was strigoi but still.
@@courtneypalmer2331 Hey you can't blame dhampir Dimitri for what Strigoi Dimitri did especially when the second he was restored he felt absolutely horrible about all of it.
BTW I'm half joking here I'm not really offended though they are one of my favorite ships of all time and I am so glad they get their happily ever after
@@Angelwitch99 Totally agree but you still have to admit, even after he came back, he was still off with her. Like when he took her to that motel and they were fighting because she wanted to do stuff to help and he told her to stay. Then they had a knockdown drag out in the forest. xD god I love that you know VA.
@@courtneypalmer2331 True though a lot of that was because was still beating himself up over what strigoi Dimitri did and trying to keep Roza at arms length while also trying to protect her and it just really didn't work for either of them.
@@Angelwitch99 totally agree but it's still amazing they made it work right??
My theory about Mal and Hades is that it's like one of the only duets in the movies and duets are a really good way to show off character chemistry. Think about it, 'Space Between' and 'Do What You Gotta Do' are both duets and people ship the people from both of them. Mal and Evie is obviously a far superior ship but that's my theory. What I'm saying is Disney should have given Ben and Mal a duet if they wanted us to ship them.
Like I obviously don't ship Mal and Hades but a song like that should have been used with Ben at some point idk
@@Erica-fs6ux I agree we needed a mal and Ben duet
From Disney xd’s pov Bree and Chase from lab rats is literally the most popular ship in the show. So many fanfics and fan edits. They are SIBLINGS. STAWP it
I’ve seen that and I’m like they are siblings!
I didn’t think much about the touchy moments with Mal and hades. I just thought Mal giving him a kiss on the cheek was a daughter saying goodbye to her dad
i must say, as a french person, we kiss people on the cheek to say hello or goodbye so it didn't even crossed my mind as a thing
was there other moments that felt weird?
Josh and Maya reminds me of a situation I was personally in. Same ages. Except he was the one hitting on me. Makes that extremely creepy when you look at it that way
Them being only 3 ish years apart isnt that weird that Maya and Josh have a conversation about potentially getting together, so them being together in the future wouldnt be an issue, but current time they are at a different place in their lives and shouldnt be together. Its like how lots of adult couple are quite a few years apart but if they dated as teenagers it would be creepy and potentially illegal.
As for the near stepsibling relationships...if you are dating your partner snd your parents start dating, 100% fine. The parents need to be the ones to back off, not the kids. They were together first so the parents making them break up because they want to be together sucks. As for meeting/starting to like each other while your parents are already together, you already go into it knowing you have the potential to be stepsiblings and then absolutely not
I personally don’t think 3 years is too much I’d say at least 5 years or more would be but that’s just my opinion
Insane that children's networks like Disney Channel think it's more moral to show step siblings, incest, a kidnapper and their victim who he tried to murder, and kids with a 7 year age gap kissing and being together rather than a normal, healthy gay relationship
Justin / Alex was a solid part of the fandom back in the day. Which was equal parts Sel's crush on David as it was Disney's aversion to writing romance.
Just an fyi, Ferb is not adopted. Its a blended family. Mom had two children, dad had one and they married.
Idea for a ship list. Ships that should have ended sooner that could have been better. Like a ship that was great but got stale or botched later in the series.
I haven’t really thought about Zack and Maddy that way. I thought they were cute together, but the age difference irl is weird. I thought Dylan was 18 when he and Maddie kissed, but he was still 17.
Hm, I think, real life actor ages don't matter unless you're shipping the actors. Otherwise the character ages are the way to go.
Alex and Justin give me Derek and Casey vibes with their chemistry and the tension in some parts. I never shipped either though, it's weird
Except that justin isn't a misogynistic creep
yeah it's soo wrong
Personally I don't see it.🤷🏾♀️
josh and maya were the definition of "focus on your major, not your minor"
We all know Diggy and Maddie are on the list or at least we think about it.
I used to ship them until he kept leaving Maddie, she deserved better, she deserved Josh (was that his name? It's been awhile)
@@bellaknightR597 yes that’s his name and I agree diggle did Maddie wrong
@@bellaknightR597 I agree with that I think I did too and also we love Maddie as a character so obviously we want her to have the best and yeah his name is Josh.
@@midnightfox3157 ok thanks, I haven't watched the show in awhile
@@bellaknightR597 your welcome
The one about mal and her dad was crazy to me because honestly I just saw it as mal being happy that her dad was doing a good thing. I can’t believe some people actually ship that. The bad things about fandoms Is that it is usually filled with horrid and uncomfortable ships. The fandoms even sometimes ruin the show for me.
Would you ever consider doing an Owl House Ship tier ranking video discussing the ships, since the show is ending soon after the shortened Season 3?
I would just love to hear your thoughts about the ships since I love you ship discussion videos weather your praising or destroying a ship.
Plus, I found you from all your Barbie videos, so I automatically see you as a Queen 👑
Yes yes yes!!! I hope she does!
Yes please
Here’s the thing, some people ship this stuff for the toxicity, cause some people are into that, and it’s okay to explore darker themes as long as there’s no real harm done to one’s self or anyone else, the trouble comes when people try to apply those things in real life
Recently I rewatched good luck Charlie cause I never actually saw the ending and I was talking to my dad (who watched all the Disney shows with me) and I was saying how much I didn’t like Spencer and teddy getting back together a few times and he told me I felt the same way as a child that I was extremely upset when he cheated on her and I was mad about it for weeks lol so good for little me
The problem with the age gaps is that they are teenagers and in the developing phase that it is 3 years are a big difference, later in life is not that big of a deal, just 4 years but during the teenage years, yeah it is problematic.
Character-wise, Maddie and Zack are 3 years apart, which is what the story is based off of. I feel like thinking otherwise is trying to create an issue where there isn't one. A 15 yr old with an 18yr old isn't too far fetched if you're in the same school. A relationship doesn't always equal sex.
this hairstyle looks soooo good on you! so cute
and great video as always
The Mal and hades one really is the worst especially after the fact that she is married now like if you still ship Mal and hades even after she is married that is just gross
also not to mention that he is her DAD!!
@@graciesophia3163 that’s what I said as soon as I head their names
i had a classmate whose aunt was her step-mom and her cousin also became her step-sister. she was very big on family and was talking a lot about all her sister calling them just sisters. so i guess that's why it doesn't sound so weird to me
The Alex and Justin Ship craze was a huge moment. It has so many fan fiction and fan trailer. I remember videos of fans asking if the writers do they ship out and Justin. 😂😂😂 it has a huge community
I AGREE WITH GERMÁN AND ANGIE !! they're literally in-laws why was everyone in the show rooting for them so hard ignoring that ??
germán never considered angie's feelings, he always lied to her and went behind her back. the fact that angie still loves him despite all that is so odd ?? she deserved better !! her and pablo together were amazing
When I started watching Violetta I shipped Angie and German, due to the language barrier and because I was using the show to learn more Spanish for my Spanish class I never understood that they were in-laws I just thought that Angie was in desperate need of a job and saw an opportunity after she’d bumped into Jade’s brother in the first episode, it wasn’t until a few more episodes when I actually got interested in the series and I started it watching it with subtitles I then learned that they were in-laws and I was so grossed out of the idea of them being together, especially after the show ends with a big wedding between them where like their whole family attends and everyone is just ok with it 💀😭.
I didn't like them because of the age gap. I think when he left with Violetta Angie was an early teen or a teenager. All I remember is that she was young. I remember that Olga said she remembered the little girl that used to run around from Maria's family, or maybe it was German. I can get over the fact that he knew Angie when she was a little girl, that just left me feeling icky and so I didn't want them together. The fact that it was his dead wife's sister never bothered me though, unless it was because she reminded him of her because that's another icky moment.
@@ariiblink not to mention the big age gap between them !! it's so gross and everyone in the show(vilu, ramallo, olga, some of vilu's friends) supported germán and angie together and it was so ???
@@turnipcrazy4602 fr !!! the age gap between them is so noticeably big it's revolting :((
I did shipp them, but them being in laws freaked me out.
on the alex and justin thing. i just checked and they are indeed the top tagged WoWP ship on ao3. in fact, no other ship comes close. i have never shipped them, but considering how impossible it is to check ship popularity on ffn... its reasonable to use ao3 tags as a good metric
oh my god! finally! i am so tiered of explaining how kids who grew up together while being siblings, even if not by blood, should think of each other as siblings and nothing more. this applies to any sort of familial relationship. if they grew up knowing they were family in some sense being attracted to each other is so.... god it frustrates me.
I don’t know, Cece and Logan I’m sort of okay with. I mean past the step sibling thing I took from Disney doing this as ‘you never know where your going to be in 10 years’ 99.9% of people don’t end up with someone from their childhood, they don’t end up living out their childhood fantasies, and they grow up and change as people.
So while I didn’t see it coming, I didn’t necessarily hate it either. As it was actually decently close to something that could happen.
But that’s just my opinion 🤷🏻♀️
“I love the community it creates”
Me, an anime fan: mmm Disney Shipping must not be a contact sport
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I loved the chemistry between Josh and Maya and I don’t mind the age gap (as long as they waited until she was older) but I couldn’t stand the fact that if they got married, she would’ve been Riley’s aunt 💀
I think people ship Alex & Justin partially because of the enemies to lovers thing but I also just think selena and david had chemistry. My friend lived in LA for awhile & ran in the same circle as David because they went to the same church & him and Selena were definitely a thing at multiple points while filming so I just think that chemistry makes people believe it’s something other than it is. It’s nasty. But I can just imagine that plays a part
I don't understand why some people like shipping family members together. I have seen people defend this kind of ship with every fibre of their being with the excuse of "it's just their imagination/headcanon".
Just because you can doesn't mean you should. People should learn to set boundaries with their imagination.
21:14 i agree. the only thing, though, is that when i was a kid i got a bit confused by that one ep where everyone forgot about justin and then people kept shipping them together, even their own parents. in my tiny kid brain, it was like they flipped a switch for something i never previously considered. and about the same thing goes for life with derick. something that never shouldve been consider WAS because the show entertained it
Yesss Josh was too old and manipulative. Really uncomfy.
With Casey and Derek? I'm guilty. First time I saw them i didn't know they were step siblings and shipped right away.
I think for alex and justin, the ship was made because there was a rumor that david henrie and selena gomez were dating during their time in WOWP.
They went out once but it didn't work out but David was actually dating Lucy Hale for over 2+ years (2007-2009) so Selena and David maybe went out somewhere around 2009.
I think people confuse actors with characters sometimes... Like I used to think Selena and David could be together but Alex and Justin no. The only Justin that was ever together with "Alex" was Justin Bieber.
Anything to do with siblings or family in general is a automatic no
THANK YOU FOR POINTING OUT THE GRAVITY FALLS SHIPS👏👏 IT SEEMS LIKE SO MANY PEOPLE LIKES THOSE SHIPS
I HATE the cece and Logan ship like I don’t care what you say they were almost siblings and look I love a good enemies to lovers but they were just enemies no lovers involved I don’t like it it’s just makes no sense 😭
oh my gosh yes! Thank you I have been saying that for a while now, not everything needs to be shipped. There is such a thing as a platonic relationship and a well written one can be just as enjoyable to watch as a romantic one
I feel like it's important to note that some people don't ship characters because the ship is "good" or "pure" or "wholesome" or anything. Sometimes it's a "haha wouldn't that be messed up" or this is wacky as hell and I love it because of that". I totally get what this is saying, literally any sibling ship makes me feel personally uncomfortable, but I feel like too many people associate fiction shipping preferences with moral purity or whatever, when some people just want to see something funny/messed up in fiction.
i love your new hair
I love your ship videos so much!!! Happy to watch another Caitlin video!! :)
Any ship involving a minor with an adult or relatives is an immediate no. Absolutely not, we're not accepting any arguments.
Kinda funny to hear you talking about icky age gaps when the guy playing Matteo is like 6 years older than the girl playing Luna… and she was only 17 when they filmed the first season, right? 😂😅
lol nobody’s perfect am i right
@@caitlinmckillop right 😉 Also no hate at all, I do love your videos! So nice to see someone close to my own age fangirl about barbies and disney 😂
Exactly but also because of the height difference it's very obvious
With other main ship Violetta and Leon real life age difference was also seven years but Tini is tall unlike Karol who is short
When I was watching Descendent for the very first time, I feel like a tension between Mal and Hades, not like character but like the actors, they have good chemistry, and I admit that I feel so uncomfortable during their scenes because of that.
What about a Top 10 list of Best Non-romantic Ships? It could include BFFs, siblings, and parent/child.
The thing that bothers me about villain redemption arcs is they rarely if ever face any consequences for their wrongdoing. Like. I could totally go for an arc where a villain turns over a new life while in prison and is now dating a lady he met in his ex cons support group
When I was younger I watched the movie Wizards of Waverly place on my tv when it was already half over so I had no idea they were actually siblings and I ended up shipping Alex and Justin until I eventually watched the tv show and found out they were siblings.