“Why Do I Keep Quitting on Myself?” 3 Steps to Stick to What You Start

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  • Опубликовано: 27 дек 2024

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  • @aprilcaspari2184
    @aprilcaspari2184 3 года назад +65

    Marieeeeeeee!!!! I am SO excited I made it on your show. I knew it. I just KNEW this question would get answered! I can't believe you spoke right to me at the end. YOU respect ME?!?!?!?! I can't even. This is amazing. So excited for the program. THANK YOU for the incredible gift. Also, I teach Ceramics & Sculpture at the high school level. I see about 80 students a day. Every day, every student that walks out of my class hearing, "Shine your light students! Your light is one of a kind and the world needs to see it!" I got that idea from your sign off on your videos. Love you so Marie! Thank you!
    PS: I also tell my students "Everything is figureoutable!!!" Love you Marie!

    • @IevaKambarovaite
      @IevaKambarovaite 3 года назад +3

      Congratulations April 🎉 I could so relate to your question

    • @photobizmethod
      @photobizmethod 3 года назад

      Congratulations!

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 3 года назад +1

      Hi April! Such a great question! Thank you for showing up and bravely sharing it with us! "See you" in Time Genius! - Monauar

    • @vanessadennett2790
      @vanessadennett2790 3 года назад +2

      Wow, I wish I’d had a teacher like you April!

    • @mariee.5912
      @mariee.5912 3 года назад +1

      April, I love your energy, vibe.

  • @NextwaveMarketing
    @NextwaveMarketing 3 года назад +10

    This is the number 1 thing keeping you from moving forward. STICK TO YOUR PLAN... STOP STARTING OVER

  • @asami1014
    @asami1014 3 года назад +12

    #1 Choose one practice and habit...
    Made me feel way better!!!
    Thank you, Marie. 💕

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 года назад +10

    Work as hard as possible in one thing and see what happens.
    _~Jordan Peterson_
    *I wish you the best in your life my friend. I am cheering for you...* 🙂

  • @anjelikapernstich
    @anjelikapernstich 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Marieeeee!

  • @luciapes123
    @luciapes123 3 года назад +3

    Very useful video! When you spoke about your commitment about your 30-days writing challenge, you literally showed me and inspired my next steps. I feel exactly the same wish, I want to write more, with more ease and fluidity so my answer is FOCUS ON ONE THING! And the thing would be writing more!! THANK YOU MARIE!!!

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 3 года назад

      Hi Lucia! We're so happy this gave you some inspiration for your next steps! Get it!! - Monauar, Team Forleo

  • @snehasen9111
    @snehasen9111 2 года назад

    Oh my God, I really need to hear those exact words from you....! I am just starting my morning and beating myself for not to wake up early... I am trying to do it for several months... But I can't do it... And after watching this video I am sure I can do this from tomorrow... Thank you Marie... I love you so so much... ❤️❤️

  • @svenhassel3150
    @svenhassel3150 3 года назад +5

    I have your two books 'Everything is Figure Outable' plus 'Make Every Man Want You' (which I read in terms of being about personality transformation). They are quite remarkable in how they get to the heart of the matter. On the surface these books seem 'light' and 'breezy' - and they ARE very accessible, easy to read, and you have a great writing style. But they are also sharp, laser-focused and totally, deeply liberating. Wonderful books.

  • @TUANLE-lh2yv
    @TUANLE-lh2yv 3 года назад +7

    #1: Choose one practice and habit. Not 17.
    #2: Turn it in to time-bound personal challenge.
    #3: Make your success inevitable.
    Thanks a lot Marie.

  • @shavondamartin7561
    @shavondamartin7561 Год назад

    Definitely working on 1 thing at a time❤

  • @ummismail20
    @ummismail20 3 года назад +3

    When Marie gifted April a seat to Time Genius - my eyes welled up. Love Marie's heart. Real talk: I come to this channel just as much for who Marie is, as much as I do for the advice she gives. Beautiful humanity and amazing work, Marie and Team Forleo

  • @amydillardGypsySoul
    @amydillardGypsySoul 3 года назад +2

    Tip #3 was eye opening for me. Not just "set yourself up for success" but "make it inevitable!" Even the language you are using increases the likelihood of success. Thanks Marie!

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 3 года назад

      Hi Amy,
      We're so glad you found the advice useful! We enjoyed it too. Thanks for sharing!
      - Jeremy, Team Forleo

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 года назад +6

    *Can you imagine yourself in just 2 years, if you took massive action put in the hard work... The life you could have, the freedom you could have.*
    *I wish you reach that life my friend...*

  • @jnthngnzlz
    @jnthngnzlz 3 года назад +1

    I love your suggestions Marie!
    I think step 1 for me, I try to do too much at once

  • @dallasthegreat
    @dallasthegreat 3 года назад +1

    Am I the only one in these comments that thinks Marie's hair is ON FLEEK!?!! And thanks for letting me know I don't have to have 27 habits lol. I'm definitely an over-achiever so this is exactly what I needed today - a reminder to grant myself a little more grace. Thanks, Marie ❤️

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 3 года назад

      Hi Dallas! You absolutely don't

  • @lwandilerozani8592
    @lwandilerozani8592 3 года назад +3

    That was way awesome! I believe that true transformation is a process. So the first tip of implementing one good new habit at a time is the one I will look to employ.

  • @elsaromero4743
    @elsaromero4743 3 года назад

    Marie your hair looks amazing giiiirl 💕💕💕💕🥰

  • @elsaromero4743
    @elsaromero4743 3 года назад

    I needed this baddddd!!!!

  • @alaiaadam5767
    @alaiaadam5767 3 года назад +1

    💥💥💥💙
    Love ur look !
    08:07 CS

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 3 года назад +38

    Dear lovely person that's reading this, we may not know each other but I wish you all the best in life! ✨
    I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️

    • @shrir.amarasinghe1575
      @shrir.amarasinghe1575 3 года назад +3

      Thank you Nat! I so needed that I wish you all the best in life too! ✨ ❤️

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 3 года назад +1

      @@shrir.amarasinghe1575 thank you for reading it my friend! You’re amazing! God bless you 🙏🏼❤️

    • @shrir.amarasinghe1575
      @shrir.amarasinghe1575 3 года назад

      @@NathalieLazo You are amazing & God Bless you too

    • @anjelikapernstich
      @anjelikapernstich 3 года назад

      Dear Nat! Thank you so much. I'm sending you posititvity and love all the way from Italy.

  • @TheLisaTorres
    @TheLisaTorres 3 года назад +1

    This is excellent advice. Thanks for the transparency.

  • @tuxedoneko9837
    @tuxedoneko9837 3 года назад

    No2 is my biggest challenge. I will definitely try this out

  • @LXSeaV
    @LXSeaV 3 года назад +1

    Always love your supportive voice, big sister!

  • @rootedreinvention
    @rootedreinvention 3 года назад +2

    Tracking & Consistency have definitely been my steps to success in achieving my goals - Even just having the habit to do something 3x a week and tracing it can be enough - it doesn't need to be daily!!! I like to have 3x a week instead of "Mon/Wed/Fri so I have the flexibility to deal with my "real life" and haven't "lost my chance" if I don't do it on a Friday :) That's a system that works for me, anyway. :)

  • @unmaskingu
    @unmaskingu 3 года назад

    3rd one is the hardest for me.

  • @tarasfitworld
    @tarasfitworld 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing ❤️

  • @PrakobChannel_01
    @PrakobChannel_01 3 года назад

    I love your TV

  • @tedthran8711
    @tedthran8711 3 года назад

    I've missed you and your videos

  • @MargoKruczek
    @MargoKruczek 3 года назад +1

    Bless your heart for what you are doing ❣️ We are more than capable but We need to believe in Ourselves...

  • @jamiecee4960
    @jamiecee4960 2 года назад

    It is yourself that stops you from doing things you love. Not no one else. Because you worry about what other people think.

  • @nestakorine
    @nestakorine 3 года назад +6

    Okay Marie, I think the time has come. The time to do an all-out photoshoot with that orange transistor radio of yours. I know not the actual one - but just the concept: you, on the beach, lookin your confident self, sippin an orange with a straw in it. I mean, if you think about it, the very concept of sticking a straw in an orange to drink out the juice screams "Everything is figureoutable!" not to mention the deeper story people get when they dive in to read. I say bring your two book covers together with one epic, or as S. Godin would say "remarkable," photoshoot :)

  • @Ms.jumariesolano
    @Ms.jumariesolano 3 года назад

    Same question 😍😅

  • @ProRallyDriver
    @ProRallyDriver 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for the video. I want to wake up everyday at 5:00 am! I did it many times and I love it. But I cannot do it everyday! :(

  • @rebekkaruffles9
    @rebekkaruffles9 3 года назад +2

    Wow, your content was always quality but this is next-level 👏🏻

  • @emashikhan8967
    @emashikhan8967 3 года назад

    Why we are collecting everything?e.g download all videos but i not watching or buying all makeup but not using, like buying cloths but not wearing... my thought behind doing this ,,,it will help in future... why i do ??

  • @anushags6634
    @anushags6634 3 года назад +1

    The time bound challenge sounds fun to me…I don’t reset often maybe due to not forgiving myself for my setbacks..any tips for how to reset often guilt free?

  • @IevaKambarovaite
    @IevaKambarovaite 3 года назад +1

    So generous. Congratulations, April 💕 absolutely love your spirit

  • @nathalie3654
    @nathalie3654 3 года назад +1

    Choosing that ONE habit! is what I need to do and keep it to it, not increase too quickly. Less is more!

  • @sylvianblue
    @sylvianblue 3 года назад +1

    April was so funny!

    • @bragglebox6372
      @bragglebox6372 2 года назад

      And totally cringe, trying to talk exactly like Marie, lol. 😂

  • @barrygoldwater4053
    @barrygoldwater4053 3 года назад

    Every hospital I've been in lately. Well I've been to four for injures to workers..
    The hospitals are empty. Allot of nurses, doctors to are furloughed.
    That's crazy, this is suppose to be a pandemic

  • @Refreshing_Words
    @Refreshing_Words 3 года назад

    Number 1 for sure. I always try to commit to too many good habits at once.

  • @fatemekaabianpoor8658
    @fatemekaabianpoor8658 3 года назад

    Woooow mari you are my goddess

  • @nikyabodigital
    @nikyabodigital 3 года назад +1

    no wishy wushy this is how u do it..
    just do it... It's like asking why do i not brush my teeth anymore, It's just because you don't! And that's all you need to know. You could be all aware of this but doing something is still 10000x better than just knowing it. you can read vagillion trillion of books and join vagillion trillion courses but if you don't do something then it's all useless

  • @EmmaMarch
    @EmmaMarch 2 года назад

    April is so cute what the heck ♥ Can you befriend me April ? :P
    Also how lucky are you to be gifted a seat in time genius ♥

  • @mashainmotion
    @mashainmotion 3 года назад +1

    But how to pick one habit out of 30 that you wanna do? 🙃 Bein' multi-passionate ain't that easy. 😏😅

    • @AzaniaJalia
      @AzaniaJalia 3 года назад +2

      Pick the one that lights you up the most… the one you get most excited about..✨ 😇

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 3 года назад +2

      Hi Masa,
      We want to second what Azania said. Also, you can always add more habits as you continue to establish your new habits as routine. It's important not to overwhelm yourself from the start. Thanks for stopping by!
      - Jeremy, Team Forleo