IS GOD HOLDING BACK On Your Love Life?
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- Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025
- If you're a Christian wondering about your love life, watch this video! Discover how God might be guiding you in your dating journey.
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When I get lonely I used to think that was me longing for a relationship with someone. But now going down this walk with Jesus my heart doesn’t feel as lonely because my relationship with him is so comforting and fulfilling. Thank you Paul for reminding me that we must seek our relationship with Christ before anything.
Hebrews 12:11 says, "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. This is my phone background to serve as a reminder. This video was timely and beneficial.
@@loverighteously hus word is amazing
so basically its punishment but by a different word
@@InitialPCjust because it’s challenging doesn’t mean it’s a punishment. Discipline is for your good so testing doesn’t equate to punishment. Is it a punishment for you to save money to be able to afford a home? No. It’s a necessary step to achieving a goal.
Please pray for me. Grieving the loss of a relationship with the man I thought I’d marry. Battling thoughts of self-condemnation, guilt and depression. Losing hope.
Me too
Lord, please bring comfort to my sister in Christ and allow her to know she can forever come to you for help ❤ in Jesus name I pray Amen
I am going through the exact same thing around the holidays when we were supposed to make happy memories. I pray that he is reproving and preparing us for our future blessings. God is the only thing getting me through this
Can yall pray for me. I’m anxious and scared. My life is chaotic and my love life is a whole mess. Pray that I may trust in God more and not be afraid! God bless!!
Be sure to let go of whatever God is telling you to, ask God to show you the things you need to know (in a way you understand and the heart posture to welcome it). Remember that whatever God can give you/promises you, can’t be compared to what the devil tempts you with! I will be prayinng for you!
As I was reading your prayer request some scripture jumped out at me and I copied them below. Understand that you are not alone, so many of us are going through what you are experiencing, but we serve a God that is always with us. We don’t know what tomorrow is going to bring but God will never leave us nor forsake us. Don’t be afraid, God is working things out for your good. Just keep saying “Lord I trust you” in very situation, and I am a living witness that God will work it out.
Philippians 4:6-7
6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
2 Timothy 1:7
For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.
Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.
He goes before you brother.
Thank you for the encouragement! God bless!
@Hahahalol9724 amen he does. God bless you!
As a woman growing up with no male figures in my life. I've surrendered the desire to be loved by a physical man.
Single 6 years and the loneliness is DEEP!! But clinging to God and waiting on Him to provide His best is all I have to hold onto!!
Amen
You’ll make it sis! By the Lords help
I was thinking, His grace is sufficient…and it is. And read Psalms 19.
Been single almost five years now. Won’t lie it’s been really, really hard. Knowing that I have God and he’s all I need is making it a little easier. Hoping one day while I’m still on this earth I can see how going through it was part of the plan
I haven’t been with a woman since my Wife passed away, 12-24-2023. Since I’ve gotten closer to God, I don’t really want a relationship right now. I miss my Wife everyday, but being with a new woman is not something I want currently.
Bless you brother. Yoke with God he will give you comfort.
Wow the same here I was married 17 years .been since over for years since wife passed. She told me before she died find a good woman. Guess what all the wrong women came my way i turned them down. I just been focus on me and the lord still missing my wife.
33 years, and I've never been in a real relationship. I have been single my whole life. God has always been there, and I do my best to trust Him. The desire to marry, the loneliness I feel, the sadness that I've never been in a position where the feelings are mutual...c'est la vie. I guess I'm still not there yet 🙏🏾
Im 23 and same here. However, only now I was able to recognise that lust and sexual immortality may be the reason for that. Only now I was able to genuinely repent after a set of rejections. I really hope god has something better for me, and I’m glad he has opening my eyes and that the Holy Spirit has convinced me about my sins. God bless us.
Well, I am sad about the decline of human relationships. Me personally, I am going to focus on my relationship with Him
Yes, and ask Him to send a good,fruitful community of true believers to uplift and disciple you!
I have been single for 4 years and even though i feel lonely, I know God has a plan for me. I have been lukewarm for years and i truly believe this season is about God and God alone. Please pray for me I want to know God like He knows me.
🙏🏽
God isn’t holding us back.. He is PREPARING us for a holy covenant 💕 After 7 years of singleness (5 years by choice) I can look back and see God’s grace and healing power and I can truly say thank you Abba for protecting me and my husband with the wait and growth in Him🙏💕 God reminds me, “he is worth the wait” while I get to be married to Christ in the time being🥰
God told me 3 days in a row that i must let someone i loved deeply go, i didn't and now God allowed them to hurt me. I am angry and in pain but i know God has the best praying for me. First i have to repent and work on myself and heal. The devil will never tempt me💔
Praying for you sister
@JessBelman-x4e thank you
God is all we need 🤍
"The answer is God". Thanks for sharing! I needed this! 🙏🏾
Needed this more than you know. Thank you for being obedient and sharing this message. So many of us seem to be in this same space or waiting and feeling some kind of way about things not happening yet. Praying for us all 🙏🏽🙏🏽🩵
This was very good and on time 🙏🏾 The lord revealed this same area to me in the beginning of 2023 after I was idolizing the idea of marriage (video on my channel) after that I began to "accept" the correction the lord began in me... it was a very long and not easy year for me as I had no idea that you could even idolize a marriage. However God delivered me. I still pray for a God ordained marriage now however I no longer "live for it" I live strongly for the lord and submit to his desires for my life! Thank you for your obedience man of God! This is what we need to hear.
You are in my neighborhood, driving down the street and knocking on my front door. Gesh! I'm at a point in life where I actually want to be single. I've never felt this way before, ever.
I don't even watch t.v
I read and study more because my goal is to grow my faith more in God in 2025. I don't feel lonely I have peace.
Thissssssssssssssssss. And I am a woman! This! It’s the exact same for women.
Bro! This is so true. Honoring God and clinging to Him is key. I’ve been fasting as well and the Holy Spirit led me to the word. Psalms 19 was / is so good! I have been longing for a stronger relationship with the God of the universe. I’ve wanted to appreciate all that Jesus the Christ has done for all us and to truly worship Him as Lord. And finally to accept the leading of the Holy Spirit and not to grieve Him. Fasting and prayer is key to breaking strongholds and opening up revelation of the Word!❤🎉😮
I really needed this. As a woman, I really struggle with not watching/ reading pornography. I used to think it was something that was good because it has helped me maintain my “virginity” but I’m starting to realize I’ve become so lustful, even despite not being with other men physically.
Very encouraging. Gods is bringing me through that situation right now. It’s not easy in your own strength. Everyone needs encouragement in this area especially. This video had hit home for me. Amen and Amen 🙏🏽 🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽⚔️⚔️🔥🔥
Thank you for this video. I’m currently disciplinig myself to stop trying to control the outcome and trust in God in every area of my life. It’s difficult but liberating 💕
I was drawn to your channel again today, and was led to THIS video. One word: WOW. The Lord was loud! Thank you for your yes. Keep going.
when and if i finally ask that girl from church out, I'm not thinking about her lustfully, im thinking about what could happen with that relationship. I'm hoping that if she agrees to be more than friends, then it goes to marriage, and is long happy marriage where i can grow old with that person and just be happy.
but i trust god with my life, and if he says no relationships then that's fine with me. i trust him completely.
Yeah I feel this. Had a long term relationship years ago that developed some very dark stuff around “intimacy”…rituals and unhealthy lusts developed. Struggled for years with letting these desires and fetishes go. Got to a point I realised that there is no way God is letting me take this stuff into a marriage and it hurts. But trying to grow closer to God and trust his plans. Could definitely use some prayer
Oddly enough, what’s really helped me is the story of the girl who went viral here on RUclips where her own husband SA’d his own two daughters. So many people wear masks. They present themselves as one way, then later come off as someone totally different. This is not true for everyone of course but I’d say a lot. I’ve just been working on my finances now more than anything. Putting my energy into God in regards to my finances and self improvement has also helped me really take the edge off of the loneliness feelings. I’m praying for you all so heavy! When I pray for my own kingdom spouse I regularly pray for other Christians to get married as well! I can’t wait to see more and more kingdom marriages all through 2025 in Jesus’s mighty name, Amen! 🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Christ is the prize! God bless and keep you. ❤❤❤
Facts brother. Trusting in God fully is not easy but necessary. Thanks and GOD bless y'all! ❤🔥
Paul, my brother in Christ. Thank you so much and praise the Lord, who used you to talk to me and other people about this. From a brazilian teenager who is so far from you rn, you blessed me so much. God bless
Amen brother. Christ is the prize. He is the only thing that truly matters in the end. God bless you. He is revealing to me to lean on Him more. Trust Him more. Let go of control. He is in control.
You're wise brother Paul, and thank you God so much for your grace, mercy, discipline and your redirection and correction for your children. God knows we need it. We love you too brother Paul
You spoke a word!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾
Ay, I’m not even stressed. I’ve bounced from relationship to relationship to cope with the loneliness but sitting in that feeling I don’t feel to lonely anymore. I accept myself I just want to not have my heart closed off. More excited to form good bonds of friendship first and meet new people
I learned my lesson 5 months ago. After that my life has gone downfall. It was sickness that was done to me. It is too big price to pay. Of course i want a partner but i am starting to accept the fact that i'll be alone for the rest of my life.
I once met a person who I genuinely thought was the one (there was peace and joy in our interactions that were endorsed by the Holy Spirit). Our personalities and strengths/weaknesses also complemented. There was once such overwhelming attraction it was unbelievable. I cannot imagine someone better than that person (who has now moved on) since God was the one who arranged the whole situation, but it didn't work out and God closed the door due to my poor decisions and sins back then.
Amen! God is truly using you to edify His remnant my brother. Prayer and fasting truly works, your words testify to that. Stay encouraged saints, God remains faithful. Blessings. 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Keep going, MOG. God bless you and all the singles watching this video. 🙏🏽
I can’t stress it enough, be GENUINE in your walk with Jesus, praying and reading the Bible. I PROMISE YOU, you will no longer want to sin. I know, I was there as well, watching porn, masturbation. I was convicted by the Holy Spirit and STILL did it. I felt AWFUL, a porn ad on here did it for me. I haven’t watched it, masturbated since June. Praise God!!
Amen! 🎉
Im happy I came across this video. Not only am I dealing with porn addiction but my girl and I just broke up, and it hurts. I'm at fault. I'm just tired that my relationships don't last long enough, everytime things go good, some thing bad happens after. The thing is this isn't the first time my relationship ended like this, it feels like God is trying to show me something that I'm doing wrong in my life that's causing my relationship. I just don't know. But I'm praying that he helps and guides me to be a better person and bring along someone who I can continue to build with..
love you brother. God brought me here.
I pray the Lord reveal these truths that they may be self evident to me.
Well said my brother 👏🏾👏🏾
spitting straight facts brotha. Thank you for what you are doing. A timely word to say the least🧡
This was right on time. Thank you dearly brother.
Thank you, this is what I needed! God bless you, i'll be praying for you!
Everytime I'm feeling down on a topic or have slightly lost hope, Jesus always sends a sign that I need not worry for he's alongside me, and it's always done in the most beautiful way. His closeness to me is something I would never take for granted, I think about it and thank him for it almost everyday, though it really should be every single day. God bless you♥
Thank you so much for this. I watched this video at the right time!
Amen! Thank you for this word brother.🎉
This was a beautiful message and something I needed to hear. Thank you for allowing God to speak through you and deliver and on time word.
Amen to this word 🙏🏾
amen God bless you all 🙏❤️🔥
Never watched a video that spoke to me more then this one💙
This was a confirmation for me. Thank you 💕
Dang this really hit the spot , i know i had to face it, but you really made it more real to me. Thank you
Such an important video. Thanks PB 🙏🏾
I'm doing all the things you're saying I should be doing and none of the things that I shouldn't be doing. I've been in a waiting pattern for a long time working on myself growing closer to God... Unfortunately I don't see much room for opportunity as I'm Orthodox Christian and we only have a small Church in the area and there's no eligible dateable men my age. And I'm in a career where I can't just up and move somewhere else in hopes of finding somebody.. It's actually a big issue in the Orthodox Christian community. It's not mutually exclusive to me.
Hello Paul this is a perfect message to me thank you ❤
This video was very edifying. Thank you for the obedience.
Another revelation God gave me this week is that a lot of us are still in agreement with the spirit of smallness. ( read numbers 13-14 where the Israelites rejected claiming the promise land due to their fears/ insecurities- even when God literally handed it to them!! )We might have low standards/ beliefs on the kind of partner he could bless us with. This is kinda dangerous because if he eventually blesses us with said partner, we may not be actually prepared for it due to insecurities/ seeing ourselves as small/fear etc which could lead to us sabotaging it. So some of us really need to see our worth so we can step into the right partnership for us, rather than the familiar things we are used to (e.g the I Israelites asked if they could go back to Egypt, saying it wasnt that bad when the promise land was literally there for them to take 😅)
Thank you for this message. I am struggling so badly with lust. It helped hearing you say that God pulls us out of things or relationships to ultimately help us. I was a bad boyfriend and I desperately need Jesus. Please pray for me❤️
I pray that if you haven’t given your life to Christ, you will. Check out Romans 9:10. Then you surrender and allow Him to lead you and renew your mind (Romans 12:2) When you walk in the Spirit, lustful desires can’t walk with you (Gal 5:16). I pray God reveals the source (root)of your lust and that stronghold, idol be cast down (2 Tim 2:22; 2 Cor 10:4-5) Once you know the Lord, you can do anything through Him (Phil 4:13). I pray that you find God today and He completely changes your life, in Jesus name!
Love you brother, thank you !!
Thank you for this message ❤
I love you Bro. Thank you for going through your suffering in order to help us out of ours.
Really needed this Amen 🙏🏽
thank you for your obedience, because this video just helped me!
needed talk 🙏
Thank you lord God 🙌🏿
Currently writing this in a hospital have been Single for almost Two years, since my ex partner left me, i felt alone, and physically unwell but this Video taught me so much , Jesus truly is wonderful! I know life will get better. “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” Matthew 6:33
I asked a sign from God, about this girl I’m dating rn, and this popped up. Thanks
Letsss Goooooo 👏🏾 that was good. Keep doing what you’re doing
Thank you brother for allowing the Holy Spirit to lead you. On time video 👊🏾 Be blessed my guy
Awesome word sir! It’s going in the playlist.
Unless I’m reading wrong but sounds like your saying because we’re not chasing God perfectly daily is why we’re single
Thank you so much for sharing this video. It is needed and is helping me more than you may know.
Amen God bless you and God loves you man
Thank You for sharing this well needed message. God has given you the opportunity to share what you’ve learned with those who need it such as myself. Now I can do the same ❤️✊🏽✝️💯
This was a great word, I needed it. Amen 🙏🏾
I needed this ty
Great message, beloved. Thank you for sharing your message and heart. I greatly appreciate it and you. ❤🙏🏽
Thanks Big Brother 🙏🙌🦾💯
Praise God!!!!
Thank you for the video bro i was battling Lust but after watching this video that urge is gone after i was hearing what you were saying and bro i think you need to pray after you done your videos
Good stuff! Thanks for sharing this.
Please pray for me ive been single for 3 years after being heartbroken 💔 I just want to feel loved.
You are so right brother.
Amen and amen and amen 🙏🏽
Speaking on lust as strong as you did, is necessary. Thank you for speaking against the sexual norms the world lives by. God has called us to holiness and that should be the standard
Thank you 🧡
I can’t seem to find the right girl for me but I’m sure someone will come along some day
I am alone because I want a man of God, I'm lonely because I am selective. It's a good type of lonely.
Amen. God Bless You 🙏🏻
Thank man for the video❤
Every thing is what I needed
Powerful
guys this vid is so helpful
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Trust God’s plan
dump, it's a bit of a different situation for me but aside from praying about this i wonder what fellow believers think
it's been so confusing for me. idk if it's good but ive ended up pushing away some people because of fear and because i really want to wait on the right time (still dealing with studies🥲). it's been weighing on me though how it feels like time is stopping for me while doing so, while for others it keeps going. recently it feels like i pushed someone nice who made it clear that they had pure intentions (and they have the same beliefs) away and i got scared. nothing happened tho, it was just during the early stages of liking someone and i guess i somehow pushed it away, and theyve been led to someone else (a good person as well, glory to God). i feel lost because im worried if im doing things in a way not guided by God. but i also think the anxiety im feeling is from a lack of faith in Him, so my prayers right now are for His forgiveness and guidance to keep trusting Him.
anyway, to fellow waiters out there, im praying that we keep holding on to that faith and let things happen the God way, not ours.
God bless you, esp for reading all the way here haha
1 Corinthians 10:13, "God will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you can bear," God knows you can make it through, just believe for it and walk in his word.
Amen!
Amen 🙏🏾