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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

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  • @DesteneandBrandon
    @DesteneandBrandon  11 часов назад +12

    Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring today’s video! Head to homeaglow.com/destenebrandon
    to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19!

  • @Allthingsarepossibl3
    @Allthingsarepossibl3 22 часа назад +29

    I love that ocean is a little chatty patty she was just chatting away so sweet. Nothing is wrong with getting help❤

  • @emykol
    @emykol День назад +42

    But you don't have to do it on your own, it doesn't mean you failed. You've earned this. It will give you the opportunity to be more productive in business. Look at it that way.

  • @cherosweet5211
    @cherosweet5211 День назад +24

    Nothing wrong with cleaning services and a chef!❤

  • @alucero247
    @alucero247 День назад +28

    Destene looks even more radiant after baby than before ❤

  • @CinnamonIceCubes
    @CinnamonIceCubes 6 часов назад +3

    Ocean's lil sounds she makes are the cutest ever...
    Happy Holidays my friends 🎄🦌🎅🏻

  • @uge7563
    @uge7563 15 часов назад +9

    I got my daughter’s ears pierced at about 3 months old by her pediatrician at the time. It was great and she barely cried. It was more of a surprise for her and then she chilled. In fact, I cried more than she did and her pediatrician had to tell me to get it together 😂

  • @StarlitSoul
    @StarlitSoul 20 часов назад +8

    I swear… Another rough night, and your video grace is my feed! ✨👏👏✨Love it. And yes, it's definitely OK to get help. Me as a blind mother, I used to always feel like I have to prove myself 10 times as much as a person with vision, and I still do at times I'm not gonna lie, but I am now more open to asking/receiving help than I was before. It's really OK.

  • @aleciamullen1
    @aleciamullen1 16 часов назад +13

    Dear Destene & Brandon, we thank you for sharing your lives with us.
    There are many big & small hurdles that you have conquered publicly, where individuals; couples, and families are inspired privately.
    Your message/ brand falls on good soil that we all are growing together.
    Kind regards,
    Alecia

  • @nicoles_luv
    @nicoles_luv 2 часа назад

    I love that I give myself permission to have help the way i needed it, and increased that help as needed. BEST INVESTMENTS EVER

  • @karene3493
    @karene3493 5 часов назад +1

    You know you've truly become one when neither one sleeps properly without the other 😊That was so cute, profound and beautiful!! ❤ And Ocean is getting so gorgeously chunky 😍🥰 Hi pretty baby!!! Stay blessed!

  • @valeo3508
    @valeo3508 11 часов назад +4

    Destene and Brandon y'all have the coldest house in these RUclips streets I mean such impeccable taste from the roota to tha toota ok y'all house needs to be on Architectural Digest ok love y'all keep doing what y'all do because we love to see ok.... and baby Ocean is just so friggin beautiful chocolate doll. 😍🥰you all are a beautiful Black family that got in going on so proud of y'all for real true inspiration for real.

  • @denisewilliams815
    @denisewilliams815 День назад +11

    You guys are amazing.. and it's ok to get help...❤

    • @LaRondaPowell
      @LaRondaPowell День назад +3

      ❤❤❤YES LORD GOD CHRIST KING JESUS..
      IT IS OKAY, EVERYBODY NEEDS HELP, AND THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU WEAK...
      YOU TOO BE BLESSED AND COVERED IN AND BY THE BLOOD POWER OF JESUS CHRIST HOLY SPIRIT AMEN 🙏🏾💪🏾👑

  • @sheliahawkins238
    @sheliahawkins238 День назад +10

    Hey Destene, Brandon and Ocean. Happy Holidays and thanks so much for the cleaning advice! We have a 2-story home in Dallas and I will definitely take your advice.

  • @margofarrington8477
    @margofarrington8477 18 часов назад +2

    I love this vlog. Yes and don't be afraid to get all the help you need to assist with your home.

  • @marydavis1077
    @marydavis1077 День назад +6

    Aaaawww baby Ocean has gotten so big. Beautiful family.

  • @cokobrown4654
    @cokobrown4654 День назад +14

    Love ya'lll ❤❤❤. Ocean is growing so fast 😍

  • @florencedelvalle8145
    @florencedelvalle8145 3 часа назад

    I got my daughter a little 3foot pink Christmas tree for her room to match her walls for her December birthday. She was so happy and had fun decorating it. It was from Amazon and it came with ornaments, lights and a Star! I thought about Ocean and how a pink tree would look so cute in her room. Glad you are starting her ornament collection. 💜💜💜🎄🎄🎄🥰🥰🥰

  • @naydorsey1398
    @naydorsey1398 8 часов назад +1

    I remember needing help with baby #5. That pregnancy was a c-section. That was a struggle. My husband at that time was working with CSX ( railroad) so he worked all day. I only took 2wks off of work. I don’t know if I could do it now, that was 13 yrs ago and I actually had 1 more baby. She 7 so not quite a baby. Bless your family❤

  • @Babylittlestories
    @Babylittlestories День назад +11

    We love the support and love from Brandon. You both bring so much love and light to so many

  • @alissahall9506
    @alissahall9506 13 часов назад +1

    I am so proud of yall. and all the endorsements coming in.... Continued Blessings...

  • @TheRealSaraVon
    @TheRealSaraVon День назад +5

    GO BLUE!!!!!! I love yall. GO BLUE

  • @neneppete4737
    @neneppete4737 11 часов назад

    I got my daughter’s ears pierced when she was 6 months old by her pediatrician. I truly enjoy watching your beautiful family on RUclips ❤

  • @dainvigilant5742
    @dainvigilant5742 День назад

    She’s looks like a healthy baby!
    Make sure you get your thyroids checked.
    It’s hard as a first time new born parent. Prayer, have each other backs and receive help when needed. You guys got this!

  • @delvorinebowman4734
    @delvorinebowman4734 23 часа назад

    Sometimes, it's good to get some help. You guys have done a lot. Continue the great work my beautiful 😍 family

  • @LEM19284
    @LEM19284 День назад +1

    I mean, 😢 be had a cleaning service (now friend) for nearly 20 years! It’s the best thing to do for your back and your time! They know what to do. My person started with an agency, but separated and began her own thing. I completely supported her getting all of the money.

  • @samanthawilliams1636
    @samanthawilliams1636 Час назад

    Ocean loves it when you sing to her❤

  • @ericag.8212
    @ericag.8212 8 часов назад

    LOVE THIS VLOG!! Sooo relatable ! Also do you have a link for the matching taupe set you were wearing , it is soooo cute !!

  • @sonjamayfield3806
    @sonjamayfield3806 День назад +1

    It's okay. Will get better little now. Ocean. Enjoy ever minute.

  • @pamelacohen5945
    @pamelacohen5945 10 часов назад

    It’s okay to get help,we all need help at one point in our lives ❤❤❤

  • @HoneyLuv777
    @HoneyLuv777 День назад

    Love the home. I’ve always loved you guys. I’m sure you enjoy that view from your cozy home. Looks so nice.

  • @ginnyjones669
    @ginnyjones669 День назад +14

    It's ok to get help!!! Girl you got a full plate

    • @LaRondaPowell
      @LaRondaPowell День назад

      ❤❤❤❤YES LORD IT IS, EVERYBODY NEEDS HELP 🙏🏾💪🏾
      THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU WEAK..
      YOU TOO BE BLESSED AND COVERED IN AND BY THE BLOOD POWER OF JESUS CHRIST HOLY SPIRIT AMEN 🙏🏾👑❤

  • @patriciajohnson5505
    @patriciajohnson5505 10 часов назад

    OMG...Océan is growing so fast...bless her ❤❤❤❤heart

  • @pmixon3378
    @pmixon3378 9 часов назад

    Destene, I got my daughter ears pierced when she was 3 months old. She cried for a minute and she was done.💕

  • @carolyncambrel9288
    @carolyncambrel9288 22 часа назад

    Do what you have to do. We all need help sometimes. Enjoy

  • @pamelataylor8983
    @pamelataylor8983 9 часов назад

    Keep loving on each other...❤ daddy little girl🎉

  • @D.Milton-Husaw6819
    @D.Milton-Husaw6819 День назад

    It’s ok to not be ok-we all have our moments

  • @leesebee7902
    @leesebee7902 День назад +1

    You guys are doing alright! I know it's alot.

  • @Chrissysings
    @Chrissysings День назад +2

    Sending you lots of love and encouragement. ❤

  • @meldiylife
    @meldiylife 7 часов назад

    Pom is getting big my goodness ❤❤

  • @RochelleHarrison-i9l
    @RochelleHarrison-i9l 6 часов назад

    Destene your hair look beautiful brandon and destene with your beautiful baby ocean watching your video from Saturday 😊❤

  • @RochelleHarrison-i9l
    @RochelleHarrison-i9l 6 часов назад

    Hey my favorite married couple on RUclips Brandon and destene it's understandable that need help Brandon and destene it's alright great parents you are 😊❤

  • @BarbaraHoward-q3s
    @BarbaraHoward-q3s 12 часов назад +1

    She’s growing so fast😁

  • @wintuk501
    @wintuk501 22 часа назад

    Im praying for progress in your healing

  • @NubianSioux
    @NubianSioux День назад +7

    When Destene said "it's just me and Ocean here for the weekend", it sounded like Ocean said "yeah". 😂😂🤣🤣🥰🥰

  • @QueenOyinkan
    @QueenOyinkan 11 часов назад

    Awww Brandon even has less energy when he's not with his fam. That was the most chill drip check he's ever done. haha

  • @lindalittle2818
    @lindalittle2818 День назад

    There's nothing wrong with asking for help. I think we all need help at some point. It's not a bad thing. Especially for first-time parents. ❤ I'm sorry, but I'm for Michigan, my home state! Baby Ocean is getting so big, cutie pie😊🥰

  • @portiawebb533
    @portiawebb533 15 часов назад

    Recipe????! Thanks for sharing. 🤗🤩🙌🏽🙏🏽✨

  • @qweenb6449
    @qweenb6449 День назад +2

    Its usually 3 months to get her ears pierce she sounds so cute cooing teething already wow how time pass.Hi ocean as well you and brandon.The colors are so cool matching.

  • @ladypace717
    @ladypace717 11 часов назад +1

    I actually waited until my oldest daughter was old enough to decide for herself if she wanted her ears pierced. I'm doing the same with my youngest.

  • @Beonaire
    @Beonaire 2 часа назад

    Destene my mother got my ears
    pierced when I was 7 years old.
    She took me to our family
    physician to have it done.

  • @AmberCaprie
    @AmberCaprie 13 часов назад

    My daughter got her ear pierced by her Pediatrician at 3 months. Children's ENT offices will do them too. Being born in Ohio and raised in Columbus the Buckeye love made me miss home. I'm in TX now as well.

  • @SattoyaPierre-Louis
    @SattoyaPierre-Louis 11 часов назад

    Des, the hair is bombiing ❤

  • @NaturallyPerfected
    @NaturallyPerfected 22 часа назад

    Hey Des i got my baby's ears pierced at 4months. My baby girl forgot about the pain 30sec later and it hasn't been an issue since. She is now 2years old 😊

  • @MrsAliciaNicole
    @MrsAliciaNicole День назад +1

    Take her when you're ready. In my opinion, its better to do it while they are young. My kids were 5 to 6 months.

  • @angilauwagbae
    @angilauwagbae День назад

    The side dish is also a lid for the bowl. We’re enjoying the set in white ceramic.

  • @jennifermayo1872
    @jennifermayo1872 22 часа назад

    Such a beautiful family ❤️

  • @GabrielEbony
    @GabrielEbony 10 часов назад +1

    Random question. What were you and Brandon’s jobs prior to social media and what was that transition like? Idk y’all may have answered this in the past and I just have missed it

  • @kierraaigner
    @kierraaigner 7 часов назад

    I think got both my girls ears pierced around 4 or 5 months. And they both probably cried for a minute or 2. I just had a pacifier and a bottle on standby and they were good. ❤

  • @AQBS-HairLoss-Champion
    @AQBS-HairLoss-Champion 2 часа назад

    Hormones can do that to your hair. Especially DHT. I am reversing over a decade of hair loss but its male pattern balding and teach men on my channel how to get their high school hair line back naturally, no matter the scale of loss.

  • @lindalewis8001
    @lindalewis8001 День назад

    Good evening how are you doing I am well watching replay glad y'all got help ocean is growing beautiful family we love y'all thanks for sharing blessings ❤️❤❤

  • @RemixCookinLife2
    @RemixCookinLife2 11 часов назад

    Love yall channel. You all have a beautiful home. How do you pronounce the company name for the clothes you were advertising? Thanks!❤

  • @rosejames9986
    @rosejames9986 22 часа назад

    OMG, Des & Brandon, baby girl is growing up so fast! Is she eating table food, now, lol 😊

  • @emeraldstevens4157
    @emeraldstevens4157 День назад +1

    How was the thankgiving went hope u all had fun 😊

  • @Opixel455
    @Opixel455 2 часа назад

    Great job destiny ❤

  • @emeraldstevens4157
    @emeraldstevens4157 День назад

    Good evening. To our fam how u all are doing hope all is well. Jow is pom pom doing and the speach with both of u were beautiful . ❤❤❤❤

  • @ShanajayeandEric
    @ShanajayeandEric 12 часов назад +1

    Wait, I thought you guys switched from using traditional cleaners to Branch Basics? 🤷🏾‍♀️ Do you no longer like it or found that its not giving the clean you want, like Clorox?

  • @Sunflower1111-d8d
    @Sunflower1111-d8d День назад +1

    Your hair is beautiful! Is it a sew-in?

  • @michellejorden1539
    @michellejorden1539 День назад +1

    We love yall

  • @matildawussah1129
    @matildawussah1129 13 часов назад

    Beautiful family ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @debraroberts5693
    @debraroberts5693 21 час назад

    She’s not crying, but she can scream!!🤣❤️

    • @Beonaire
      @Beonaire 20 часов назад

      She does have a good set of lungs
      on her😅🤣🤣🤣😊

  • @aykutimanimani2208
    @aykutimanimani2208 7 часов назад +1

    Wow nice Style you Look perfekt brandon❤❤❤😊

  • @perke1cannon
    @perke1cannon 23 часа назад

    Omg! Pom Pom getting so big! 😍

  • @joyceankomahhesse6094
    @joyceankomahhesse6094 14 часов назад

    am a midwife in Africa,Ghana. we mostly do it as soon as baby is born .

  • @KhadijahNicole94
    @KhadijahNicole94 Час назад

    LIke you I couldnt bare the thought of her getting her ears pierced as a baby and the pain. I wanted her to do it when she was ready. (Also didn't want to risk her pulling on them. My babies liked to keep their hands on their face). My daughter is 5 and now feels ready to get her ears pierced so will be taking her soon!

  • @Beonaire
    @Beonaire День назад +2

    The Hair Guru Carla

  • @trenawillis9425
    @trenawillis9425 День назад

    You Guys are the Kutest.❤❤..and Ocean is so adorable, as well.❤🧡💛.May God continued blessings..❤❤❤💯 Thanks for Sharing always...

  • @Beonaire
    @Beonaire День назад +1

    Hey Brandon & Destene & Ocean

  • @nataliemiller1189
    @nataliemiller1189 День назад

    I'm going to ask you guys to give baby Ocean a bit more video time, because She is just a lil plum plum🥰 I feel like Auntie, everytime I see a glimpse of her, I be having the cutesy nick names for her❤lil kissy face! P.s I'm a girl mom, forgive me, 🙏🏽 lil Nuna bug.

  • @BrittnyJaNa
    @BrittnyJaNa 17 часов назад

    Destene you’re looking beautiful as always! Where is your leopard jacket from?

  • @EmpathPOV
    @EmpathPOV 7 часов назад

    In NY its legal age to pierce baby ears is 2 mo. It varied for my 3 girls. I took them based on pain tolerance. I knew my middle child wasnt having it so i did hers at age 5. My first i took her at 2 mo

  • @marvellouslymade1533
    @marvellouslymade1533 11 часов назад

    I think the brand deal is with the clippers Brandon always talks about🥳

  • @HaHa-hv5qy
    @HaHa-hv5qy 9 часов назад

    Go Michigan 💙💛

  • @jasminsmith1791
    @jasminsmith1791 День назад +1

    I think the brand deal is with BYLT! 😁

  • @angelerr1984
    @angelerr1984 День назад +1

    Ok, it looks like the cleaning crew did a great job. I was skeptical about leaving them with no one at home.

    • @Soulflwr1
      @Soulflwr1 23 часа назад +1

      Right. I can't do it. I want to but I'm afraid. 😢

    • @Beonaire
      @Beonaire 20 часов назад +1

      ​@@Soulflwr1Me too, I just can't
      trust people like that. Even though
      apparently they all must be bonded.
      I don't want to go through the hassle
      of something possibly being taken or
      people snooping

  • @Ami-px3rz
    @Ami-px3rz 17 часов назад

    Destene thx for sharing . Pls are u able to share source of nice animal print jacket.

  • @tiffanywilliams8816
    @tiffanywilliams8816 9 часов назад

    Ocean is born on my daughter's birthday. Aug 14th. I got my baby girl ears pierced at 5 months old.

  • @April-ez4gq
    @April-ez4gq День назад

    What’s the name of your nail color? It’s 🔥

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 День назад

    Love your channel ❤

  • @ForeverTheLoveFamily
    @ForeverTheLoveFamily 22 часа назад

    My daughter had her twins on August 14, 2024, and she got their ears peirced after they got their 2 months' shots. It's better to get them done now because it doesn't bother them . Just a quick cry

  • @kaym408
    @kaym408 День назад

    Pure Jamaican black castor oil would have your edges back in no time. Am talking the real deal straight from Jamaica. When next I travel I will definately hook you up😊

  • @Ladyrolanda
    @Ladyrolanda День назад

    Thanks for sharing 😊.

  • @annmiller3339
    @annmiller3339 День назад +1

    My daughter was 3 months when I got her ears pierced❤

  • @Integrity-Speaks
    @Integrity-Speaks 2 часа назад +1

    Wow,4000 for a jacket that's ridiculous. Most ppl can't afford their needs like rent mortgage,and cars, n you bragging about how much you pay for your clothes. Now thats very materialistic.

  • @Lisa_1023
    @Lisa_1023 День назад

    OMG! You were in my hometown. Yep! We got beat.

  • @IAMJEWEL7
    @IAMJEWEL7 День назад +1

    I have a one bedroom apartment and I’m considering getting some help with cleaning

  • @angelerr1984
    @angelerr1984 День назад +2

    Hide your valuables

  • @Beonaire
    @Beonaire День назад +2

    My sons graduated from Ohio Satate
    University

  • @HudaAlshara
    @HudaAlshara 18 часов назад

    we in the middleast say the younger the baby the better cause its skin is more lean and a couple of days itll be better

  • @brendaann8789
    @brendaann8789 17 часов назад

    For your husband it's all about Michigan and the Detroit Lions.