Thank you for bringing this to light, many people only see this when they have to observe family law in action. Sadly children are the losers and are often pawns in the corruption.
Great podcast . Being an alienated Grandmother and known Monique for a few years now. She is a strong force & friend. More podcasts are needed ! Thanks Tammy for providing Monique a platform ❤
Monique Dietvorst should be regarded by Canadians as a national treasure. The Petersons are a national treasure. I know "national treasure" is very corny. Maybe I mean something else, like some other term. But I'm so happy to hear this podcast.
the raw natural feminine maternal tenacity of Ms Dietvorst is refreshing, and so beautifu to behold... a real 'mama bear' any man would be thrilled to coparent with, if she were to make space to have family of her own... such a lovely lady !! as a discarded broken man (one day at a time) with a 7 year history of alienation from my now young adult sons, and homeless the whole time... I Love Ms Dietvorst... I Love knowing somebody like her exists... and God bless & be with her !! she may well be the Cabrini of this age !!
This is exactly what happened to my husband. 18 months after he and his ex wife separated (and up to this point it was a fairly peaceful separation) and she wanted a certain financial settlement she took out a domestic violence order that included the children. She then used it as a tool of control to limit him having any involvement in his children’s lives. When he met me and we got engaged the children cut off all contact with him. It has devastated him and I totally believe it will damage his children emotionally and mentally. Thank you for the work you are doing to protect children ❤
The profit motive for sure is something that needs to be exposed. The mental health of everyone in the family dynamic does need to be considered. The court system cares not for the family. This woman is doing an amazing amount of work, I will have to do more research and bring some of her work to California. 😅I can imagine how this information will be received. Thank you Tammy for another amazing interview.
I'm in the trenches with you Monique. I've been alienated from my two daughters and I appreciate what you do so much. Tammy thank you both for getting together on this topic. This really should be a crime. I'll share because we care. Thanks
This happened to me and my sister in a very vile way. In effect, our mother was done away with, emotionally and mentally. We were instructed to stop calling our mother Mom until we were left feeling motherless. So much more was involved...I am 62 and it still is difficult, especially when my mother died suddenly a few years ago.
Wow, This is so informative and hits the nail rright on the head. Monique, you are incredibly valueable to all of us suffering through this alienation hell. Thank you.
As a family, we faced exactly this phenomenon of a child trying to control the adults. We tried to work it out, but we ended up having to do tough love and let our child go. Eventually, she came to the realization that our stance wasn't so bad and we mended fences.
I'd love to hear more about subtle alianation tactics that alianators use. I have a friend that has been alianated and he doesn't even realize it. He has no confidence that he is actually capable of having custody of his daughter. He can see his daughter but is strongly encouraged to go to Moms house. Daughter is uneasy about spending time at Dad's house. When daughter visits Dad's house Mom calls frequently and asks how she is doing ect...putting doubts in the daughters mind in my opinion.
Interesting and very needed discussion on this subject. Finally, men are advocated for...however, I feel that a few times when the guest was interrupted, it also interrupted where she was going with the discussion.
Wow well I’m glad I listened. My daughter who is now in her early 50s had five children with a narcissistic personality sociopathic type guy. What you were describing is the opposite of what happened to us. He was the one not the woman. She loved those children and still does, and raised them by herself. The youngest is a senior in high school graduating. The father doesn’t help the father is not a good guy at all. The mom, instead of getting a 9-5 job and putting the kids in daycare… My daughter has raised all of them, wanting them to have the best they can in life! I’m sorry that the opposite has occurred, but this is from the other viewpoint and it’s pretty terrible. So remember it doesn’t always play out how you think… You should interview my daughter because she’s the one who cares.
my situation is Mother had a childhood trauma that came out and she projected it onto me and she’s so believably distraught people believe her accusations. 2 day trial. one day to go.
PA acronym: what's that? I might have missed it, if it was expressed in words once nearer to the beginning. I heard the acronym several times. Tammy, always state every acronym in full words, twice or more, during the hour.
Hi Tammy and Monique!!! Thank you for this video. I was alienated from my dad for 20 years, and now I speak out about this horrific abuse. I made a reaction video to this episode today! ruclips.net/video/54_ZLaGm_vg/видео.htmlsi=ZdJXXbY2VkZpr9XI thank you so much for your amazing work!
@@moniquedietvorst7972 It was a great interview and you are a great person. I am so happy I was able to interview you. Just wanted to say on your family being from the Netherlands if you ever wanted to visit the Netherlands you have free stay by me. I would love to meet you in person and again Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Overall I enjoyed the conversation. But I have a question about a comment near the end. What male spaces have women encroached on that would justify men using women's bathrooms/changerooms and competing in women's sports? (Men's sports have been around for ages. Not so much women's sports.) I agree that there needs to be some spaces/organizations where it's just for men, just as they're needed for women. I think most level-headed women want men to have their own spaces . . . and stay out of women's private areas.
I am an alienated mother in the United States. Tammy (great name), I would be happy to talk with you! The alienation started within the marital home, and I didn't realize what was happening until it was far too late.
Most fathers are willing to move on without much contact. What are the statistics that reflect the biological attributions of men abandoning the family in the last 200 years? Here in the US we have a mandated app so that visitation with the Dad is not dropping them off at his Mom's, sisters, etc. while he does whatever. This became because of need. I lived with my Dad during the summer but he couldn't get me to the bus stop as he had to be to work so early. I get the reversal. But that's not the majority. And the number of children taken away by the mothers I knew in a battered shelter because they had legal aid and the fathers had the money for better was unbelievable. This year, my grandson's biological father was released from prison after 9 years and demanded a relationship. Needless to say it didn't go well and put my grandson at a very emotionally abusive situation. Thank God he was old enough to record the abuse as the bio father's last stand was appeal under Articles of the Constitution., (what?). Get the stats. Domestic violence stats. These cases should be taken individually. A biological child is not property. 100 years ago, if a woman sought divorce, the children were the property of the father. This kept women in it. Seems there's too much residual effect. You are negating the biological makeup of fathers and the often financial advantage.
Where do you have the stats that men will move on with no contact? I have lots of stats of men's suicide rates from the discrimination and hateful attitudes you profess in this comment.
Grey area in Family law. Ex wants control Strokes their ego! lawyer want fight to make money Representing yourself If u can respond don’t react. Get kids to think for themselves Ask questions Do u think your mom would do ..that? I am trying to emotionally coach kids teach kids what manipulation is. Teach parents todo self love lead by example Normal range parent do 50/50
Thank you for bringing this to light, many people only see this when they have to observe family law in action. Sadly children are the losers and are often pawns in the corruption.
Great podcast . Being an alienated Grandmother and known Monique for a few years now. She is a strong force & friend. More podcasts are needed ! Thanks Tammy for providing Monique a platform ❤
More on this like you said. Hi fellow target.😢
Monique Dietvorst should be regarded by Canadians as a national treasure. The Petersons are a national treasure. I know "national treasure" is very corny. Maybe I mean something else, like some other term. But I'm so happy to hear this podcast.
the raw natural feminine maternal tenacity of Ms Dietvorst is refreshing, and so beautifu to behold... a real 'mama bear' any man would be thrilled to coparent with, if she were to make space to have family of her own... such a lovely lady !! as a discarded broken man (one day at a time) with a 7 year history of alienation from my now young adult sons, and homeless the whole time... I Love Ms Dietvorst... I Love knowing somebody like her exists... and God bless & be with her !! she may well be the Cabrini of this age !!
Thank you both! Im an former alienated child , with two alienated daughters! Thank you again. God bless you in your work to show the evil behind PA
Just to say, I am the mother who has been alinated
I'm a mother going through the same thing! I'm sorry you have to go through this
Please request her to get on Jordan's podcast too. Very serious human rights issue that needs attention.
I've also been alienated as a mother.
This is exactly what happened to my husband. 18 months after he and his ex wife separated (and up to this point it was a fairly peaceful separation) and she wanted a certain financial settlement she took out a domestic violence order that included the children. She then used it as a tool of control to limit him having any involvement in his children’s lives. When he met me and we got engaged the children cut off all contact with him. It has devastated him and I totally believe it will damage his children emotionally and mentally.
Thank you for the work you are doing to protect children ❤
Hello. Thank you. THIS IS HELPFUL
The profit motive for sure is something that needs to be exposed. The mental health of everyone in the family dynamic does need to be considered. The court system cares not for the family. This woman is doing an amazing amount of work, I will have to do more research and bring some of her work to California. 😅I can imagine how this information will be received. Thank you Tammy for another amazing interview.
Excellent guest!
Perfect model of a good woman. I want to be just like her. ❤️
Good job thank you ❤
I'm in the trenches with you Monique. I've been alienated from my two daughters and I appreciate what you do so much. Tammy thank you both for getting together on this topic. This really should be a crime. I'll share because we care. Thanks
This happened to me and my sister in a very vile way. In effect, our mother was done away with, emotionally and mentally. We were instructed to stop calling our mother Mom until we were left feeling motherless. So much more was involved...I am 62 and it still is difficult, especially when my mother died suddenly a few years ago.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. My children too. I was the target
Wow, This is so informative and hits the nail rright on the head.
Monique, you are incredibly valueable to all of us suffering through this alienation hell.
Thank you.
The Pause. Very good advice for coping with the rotten bureaucrat inflicted day I've just survived. Thank you.
Great podcast!! I have 4 brothers and 2 sons of my own.....men absolutely have rights and shouldn't need to become a sister or mom to realize this! ❤
As a family, we faced exactly this phenomenon of a child trying to control the adults. We tried to work it out, but we ended up having to do tough love and let our child go. Eventually, she came to the realization that our stance wasn't so bad and we mended fences.
If a couple is divorcing they need to ask themselves very seriously do they love their children more than they hate each other.
Well, if they're divorcing, then the answer is probably, "No." :/
Emotionally immature people don't, and in some cases can't.
I'd love to hear more about subtle alianation tactics that alianators use. I have a friend that has been alianated and he doesn't even realize it. He has no confidence that he is actually capable of having custody of his daughter. He can see his daughter but is strongly encouraged to go to Moms house. Daughter is uneasy about spending time at Dad's house. When daughter visits Dad's house Mom calls frequently and asks how she is doing ect...putting doubts in the daughters mind in my opinion.
Interesting and very needed discussion on this subject. Finally, men are advocated for...however, I feel that a few times when the guest was interrupted, it also interrupted where she was going with the discussion.
@JustPearlyThings could learn a few things from this very intelligent, knowledgeable young lady.
LOL. There are NO wo-MEN who could hold a candle to PEARL. Jordan PETER PAN is a 1rst class #SIMP
Witnessed this whole thing first hand against a father. It was incredibly horrific and damaging to everyone. Especially, as they said, the children.
Just to say, I am a mother who has been alinated.
Thank you.
Amazing podcast!
Proud of you!
Wow well I’m glad I listened.
My daughter who is now in her early 50s had five children with a narcissistic personality sociopathic type guy.
What you were describing is the opposite of what happened to us.
He was the one not the woman.
She loved those children and still does, and raised them by herself.
The youngest is a senior in high school graduating.
The father doesn’t help the father is not a good guy at all.
The mom, instead of getting a 9-5 job and putting the kids in daycare…
My daughter has raised all of them, wanting them to have the best they can in life!
I’m sorry that the opposite has occurred, but this is from the other viewpoint and it’s pretty terrible.
So remember it doesn’t always play out how you think…
You should interview my daughter because she’s the one who cares.
my situation is Mother had a childhood trauma that came out and she projected it onto me and she’s so believably distraught people believe her accusations. 2 day trial. one day to go.
THANK YOU for defending MEN! Too many wo-MEN on this page trying to hijack the issue.
Its not just about money. There is entitlement to kids and money and a desire to punish the other parent plus more going on.
Isn't suicide also ultimately harming the child?
PA acronym: what's that? I might have missed it, if it was expressed in words once nearer to the beginning. I heard the acronym several times. Tammy, always state every acronym in full words, twice or more, during the hour.
Parental Alienation
Hi Tammy and Monique!!! Thank you for this video. I was alienated from my dad for 20 years, and now I speak out about this horrific abuse. I made a reaction video to this episode today! ruclips.net/video/54_ZLaGm_vg/видео.htmlsi=ZdJXXbY2VkZpr9XI
thank you so much for your amazing work!
Thank you Madi for this video!! Great video; you really did well breaking out the nuance of the link between transgender vs. PA! Great response!!
@@moniquedietvorst7972 It was a great interview and you are a great person. I am so happy I was able to interview you. Just wanted to say on your family being from the Netherlands if you ever wanted to visit the Netherlands you have free stay by me. I would love to meet you in person and again Thank you, thank you, thank you.
How much of gendered ideology in DV is from psychological splitting in victims of DV that have become involved with the movement?
Overall I enjoyed the conversation. But I have a question about a comment near the end. What male spaces have women encroached on that would justify men using women's bathrooms/changerooms and competing in women's sports? (Men's sports have been around for ages. Not so much women's sports.) I agree that there needs to be some spaces/organizations where it's just for men, just as they're needed for women. I think most level-headed women want men to have their own spaces . . . and stay out of women's private areas.
GFYS🖕>wo-MEN have INVADED EVERY MALE SPACE for decades. NOW it's KARMA TIME!
I am an alienated mother in the United States. Tammy (great name), I would be happy to talk with you! The alienation started within the marital home, and I didn't realize what was happening until it was far too late.
LOL. BULLSHIT. MEN are the victims not wo-MEN.
Most fathers are willing to move on without much contact. What are the statistics that reflect the biological attributions of men abandoning the family in the last 200 years?
Here in the US we have a mandated app so that visitation with the Dad is not dropping them off at his Mom's, sisters, etc. while he does whatever.
This became because of need. I lived with my Dad during the summer but he couldn't get me to the bus stop as he had to be to work so early. I get the reversal.
But that's not the majority. And the number of children taken away by the mothers I knew in a battered shelter because they had legal aid and the fathers had the money for better was unbelievable. This year, my grandson's biological father was released from prison after 9 years and demanded a relationship. Needless to say it didn't go well and put my grandson at a very emotionally abusive situation. Thank God he was old enough to record the abuse as the bio father's last stand was appeal under Articles of the Constitution., (what?).
Get the stats. Domestic violence stats. These cases should be taken individually.
A biological child is not property. 100 years ago, if a woman sought divorce, the children were the property of the father. This kept women in it.
Seems there's too much residual effect. You are negating the biological makeup of fathers and the often financial advantage.
Where do you have the stats that men will move on with no contact? I have lots of stats of men's suicide rates from the discrimination and hateful attitudes you profess in this comment.
I’m “hear.”
Ryan Thomas & Dr Childress PA knowledge on utube Judge Anthony gives strategies on high conflict divorce
What is this constant talk about divine feminine?
Grey area in Family law. Ex wants control Strokes their ego! lawyer want fight to make money Representing yourself If u can respond don’t react. Get kids to think for themselves Ask questions Do u think your mom would do ..that? I am trying to emotionally coach kids teach kids what manipulation is. Teach parents todo self love lead by example Normal range parent do 50/50
Just to say, I am the mother who has been alinated
Just to say, I am the mother who has been alinated
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