love Steve but felt a stab in my chest when he asked her why she didn’t stop him. omg that physically hurt my heart. those poor sisters having to grow up with that evil man is horrendous!
@@ciarakay9690 Steve has always been like this, he's a hypocrite and cares mire about the ratings and drama. He once called a man accused of molestation creepy and weird even though he was innocent. Look back and you'll see a lot of instances of steve being a hypocrite
Let’s be honest with ourselves here… he didn’t simply ask why she didn’t stop it .. he basically asked why was his hand sitting in her pants for 45 minutes .. extremely different
Low key my heart dropped at “why didn’t you take his hand out?” Never ever blame the victim. Maybe she was in shock? Who knows? Why did the audience clap?
@@Nyxgoddess24 the phrasing of a sentence, when speaking to a victim about the crime itself, is very important. It’s actually easily triggering. In my personal experience it can make me shut down and not share my story at all. In others it can make them get angry or defensive and start an argument. Then nothing gets talked about and everyone has lost. That’s why it’s important.
@@Nyxgoddess24 I'm tired of people defending the whole it was just a question bullshit, it wasn't just a question the way he looked at her was giving me what were you wearing Vibes it's not cool man, he knows better now but still. It just goes to show that some people don't understand sexual abuse at all, and with all of these people trying to justify it because it was a question they clearly don't understand sexual abuse
@@Ellis_AKA_Mr.Sunshine i wasnt defending anything tf and its an old video not many people had the understanding as they do now people grow and learn👨🦯
Steve really doesn’t understand sexual abuse… I’m a huge fan of him but it’s something I’ve noticed. You don’t just react naturally when someone does something so unnatural… it’s easy to judge in hindsight but in the moment it’s not that simple… I was sexually abused by a family member for years and my family blamed me because I shouldn’t have let it happen…. It’s disgusting blaming the victim…
Peace When I FINALLY Told MY "mother" she INTERROGATED M.E. as to WHERE in the HOUSE did it take Place. . .I gave a Full DESCRIPTION. The "mother" Said I Dreamt it Up.
Peace When I FINALLY Told MY "mother" she INTERROGATED M.E. as to WHERE in the HOUSE did it take Place. . .I gave a Full DESCRIPTION. The "mother" Said I Dreamt it Up.
Poor girl. I'm a huge fan of Steve Wilkos, but that comment he made was way out of line, and victim blaming. Then the audience was ignorant enough to applaud. That was just downright disgusting. Steve needs to better understand abuse victims if he is going to continue to have them on his show. I hope he apologized more backstage that was obviously very triggering to her, as it would be for anybody else who experienced SA.
He was asking in that way to make sure she wasn’t being caught in a lie. I’m a victim of abuse and don’t see him victim blaming. He was asking. But to each their own in how they see it ig lol.
@@chleorrrrnorrrrr2915 i can see both sides. steve is a cop after all. i am a victim myself and i don’t really see it as victim blaming myself because he’s trying to hear what she was thinking during that ordeal. i see the other side though, i just think steve has a bit of an issue with black and white thinking
@@whoskatelynn The weirder the answer the more truthful the story. Obviously, she knew it was weird and odd for him to be touching her there for 45 min. And I can only guess why a child "she was still 17" would not resist. Probably some psychological imprint or the drugs were still effective. Either way, asking a question is never bad or wrong. Unless you are trying to trap someone wrongfully. Also asking something like this, knowing as a cop this happens more often than you realize, also opens up the eyes of the audience and people watching the show that yes people can sometimes shut down or not really resist something someone does. And it is still rape/assault. So the question is a really good question actually.
I would never ever apologize to anyone spitting on me on the basis of hear say. She wasn't there she didn't witness anything so how come they spit on her? It is disgusting and really horrible behaviour. I know their dad is a monster but that does not give you the right to spit on random people. Wonder if she would do that to anyone on the street. Doubt it. She'd get her ass handed to her.
@@dgray3771 obviously because when she didn’t know anything she still chose to call them liars and give comfort to the man that did all of that to them so they were justified in spitting on her although it should’ve landed on the dad
@@jakeali206 Still not the right to spit on someone for not believing you or any way verbally disagreeing with you. She wasn't there, and she isn't related. If a investigator calls you a liar and doesn't believe you. Going to spit on him too? 😂
They have severe issues though. It shows the amount of damage done to them. That's going to take a long time, and a lot of therapy. When you go spitting on someone and carry on like that, that shows extreme internal anger. Justified, maybe, but that's extreme dysfunction and pain right there. I feel sorry for screwed up people like this.
Freezing up is one of the most common responses to trauma, seriously that's like trauma 101 and the fact that Steve used to be a police officer and has that mindset might explain why a lot of SA incidents aren't reported
Exactly. I was quite shocked when I heard him ask why she didn’t stop her own assault. Freezing up is the usual response, especially if the abuser is someone close to you. She probably felt there wasn’t much she could do to stop him while they were driving in his truck. She couldn’t get away from him since she was in a moving vehicle and she had no idea if he would become even more violent if she tried to stop him.
Exactly right, @luffyduffy7817, speaking from personal experience as not only a sexual abuse survivor but also as the adopted son of a career police officer.
Steve asking her why she didn’t move his hand was not cool. She was 17 and probably scared of him. No wonder she got defensive because it did sound like he was blaming her. I hope this poor girl gets the help she needs.
My gosh Steve, you should never ask an abuse victim "why didn't you do this or that" bc mind you she was a MINOR, and her grown father was assaulting her. It's giving "what were you wearing" energy. I'm a fan of your show but these older videos are showing how far you've come with dealing with sexual abuse victims. She should never have had to feel like she needed to defend herself about getting touched by her father. Smdh
@@Viscte That's a possibility, but this is not the first sexual abuse victim he had on the show. Plus, the applause from that idiot crowd of his made it so much worse.
I couldn't finish watching this clip. As soon as Steve said "why didn't you take his hand out" I was disgusted. Do NOT blame the victim. Its easy to say you could have done this or that when you're not the victim/survivor. Steve gets it wrong sometimes... Super disappointing.
I think you got it all wrong, Steve asked her after she told him she was on Crack, she wasn't sober so he wanted to make sure (in a different case before he said even if ur daughter said yes you still can't) He did tell her in the end it's not her fault, and said the same thing to the audience. Time stamp: 1:45
He was confused because of the duration, 45 MINUTES. He was not blaming her, he just was surprised that the act occurred for so long if she was being so resistant. It’s easy for a bad act to go for so long with little resistance, but very hard for it to go for song long if hardly resisted. Im for her im for victims, but you hurt your point by having hair trigger emotional reactions.
@@Eldorik It’s not really that hard to understand…she was a minor and he’s her father. Freezing up is like the #1 reaction when something traumatic happens to you.
I've read this same comment a dozen times. After I watched the clip the question was not that bad.... steve even immediately said...NO ITS HORRIBLE WHAT HE DID TO YOU...and pretty much apologized. It was an honest mistake
Honestly I was about to get real angry at Steve, the way he said "why didn't you take his hand out of your pants!?" Almost like he was blaming her... That pissed me off because as a survivor of sexual abuse I was made to be the bad guy even at 10! So that really got me and then the audience clapped... Shame on them! I'm glad he back tracked and said it's awful what he did to you NOT what you did, people just need to choose their words more carefully. I'm proud of her for standing up for herself ❤️
i hate how they clapped when steve asked “why didn’t you take his hand out?” i don’t think it’s easy for people who have never been in that spot to comprehend the shock that paralyzes you when someone who you loved and or trusted assaults you… not everyone has the ability to process what’s happening right away and stop it seven though you know it’s happening and how wrong it is, you don’t know what to do
I was really shocked by that. I would have never expected that from Steve. I’m glad she stood up for herself when the audience clapped and put everyone in their place. So disappointing that people act that way.
Steve is very bias when it comes to sexual abuse stories especially when it’s a adult woman telling her story. He needs to work on that if he’s going to continue to take sexual abuse cases with adults. Because he definitely offended her when he asked that question. I was victim when I was younger and I’ll be damned if someone asked my why I didn’t stop the guy which I tried.
@@AlexKaneROTN that's funny because you went to my comment telling me to give you a damn break, so I'm trying to figure out if you're just here for clout or if you're just here to get as many comments as you can. Cuz I feel like you don't understand any of what happened in this episode.
@@Ellis_AKA_Mr.Sunshine and here's another thing, piece of shit. "Clout"??? You don't know who the fuck I am to even have that opinion. And, on top of that, you seriously don't even know the meaning of the word 'clout' to begin with! So, GTFOH with your trashy gay PFP... Fucking freak!
Good on her for standing up for herself when the audience claps Steve did at least pipe them down. I think it’s just a common thing to do as a tv audience is to clap when someone comes out. The slow pathetic one second clap is at least funnier but a horrible situation for those girls. He’s exposed and now she can focus and channel all that energy into her girls
This dad is pure evil! I knew he was lying cause nothing didn't add up. Stave was right! She was vivid about what she was saying over & over again. What kind of a parent that can get their kid started on drugs? The dad is evil for what he did & has done to his 2 daughters. I would like an update on this story as well. I want to see if he got locked up for what he has done to not only his own daughters but, maybe to someone else who was afraid to stand up to him.
I hope Steve feels bad for what he said to this woman. Victim-blaming is absolutely disgusting. I hope she's found peace. She deserves it. She didn't deserve this. No one does.
Steve saying why didn’t you take his hand out to a 17 year old that’s being molested by her father … so you know how scared that girl must’ve been??? I don’t like how Steve asked her that and esp how everyone clapped.
I'm sure Steve asked her why she didn't pull her fathers hand away because that is what people would ask if they were blessed with great parents and never once was disrespected or abused. Steve knows why, that's why he stopped the clapping of the audience. He started to talk and she interrupted. I'm glad she strong and free.
Oh my gawd. I just had my baby girl 5 months ago and I'm so scared that she's even in the same WORLD as these effing trash pervs! Im so happy that I can provide her with a safe and stable, loving home.
Just always keep her within your sight, unless she is at the age where she has to attend school. Don't trust anyone. Always ask questions when she is able to talk. Let her know what's right and what's wrong. As an SA victim for 15 years, I'm extra cautious.
This story is so revolting I knew she was telling the truth the entire time some people should never ever ever ever have children what a sick disgusting person
Steve is absolutely unbelievable, like how can you ask somebody why they didn't do something when they're being sexually abused? As a cop and somebody who knows the horror stories he should know better.
@@AlexKaneROTN give you a damn break? I'm guessing you never been sexually abused in any part of your life, and I'm willing to bet that you're probably one of those people who tell women that they shouldn't dress a certain the way either right? Like I'm trying to figure out why you're saying give me a damn break when literally I'm not the only one who's complaining about this. You must be one of those people who are part of the problem right?
@@Lisa111999888 I'm going to be that person and say not all cops think that way, I have an entire military cop family and I can guarantee you that the majority of them, yes there were always be those few, but the majority of them would never ask you while being sexually abused why you didn't move someone's hands out of your pants.
The crowd clapping at him asking that was just disgusting. As a rape and sexual abuse survivor, I froze up and went into fight or flight. My body chose flight and I was never the same since. When I was 16 I was assaulted in my church and I remember people asking why I didn't scream and shive his hands off of me. I started to dissociate and went into freeze mode. When he asked her why she didn't stop him, I went back to that moment. Poor girl
The way as soon as Steve said "Why didn't you take his hand out?" I immediately went to the comment section lmao. I knew I wasn't the only one disgusted by that comment.
I love Steve truly, love his shows, everything but when he said "why didn't you stop him" literally disgusted me so much. Steve you really need to understand that you can't victim blame. She was shocked terrified even. she TRIED but when you get sexualy assaulted by your FATHER ofcourse your gonna freeze from shock or something. I honestly hope Steve learns that saying that to a victim can cause serious harm. Though I am truly grateful that they got their justice after all the years and fear they've had.
Jesus Steve. Don’t blame the victim. “Why didn’t you stop him” she’s a scared child. She probably froze, you’ve done this show enough. C’mon…. You’re supposed to be helping these people not make them feel worse
Steve is here to ask questions. He doesnt know who is lying or not. She came on the show knowing questions would be asked to get to the truth. If you are a victim i know its hard but you have to ask questions to get to the truth.
I like Steve, but sometimes he is a bit disconnected with the experiences of SA survivors. Even IF she had not tried to remove her father’s hand, that doesn’t mean consent or approval. Survivors can fully shut down when faced with fear and trauma. I wish Steve would actively try to be understanding towards survivors.
When she said that he said "God put everyone on this earth to have with each other and have babies because no one is related" reminds me of what the founder of the children of God said and promoted. Very manipulating and narcissistic and evil people trying to find every excuse under the sun for their wrong doing and evil acts.
As a survivor of abuse it always upsets me when steve asks certain questions but i feel like he asks questions certain ways because of his his previous line of work? Not that it excuses it, theres always time to learn and adapt and educate yourself.
He can ask that question because not everyone’s abuse is the same, I went through abuse but I don’t get madd everytime Steve asks the victim questions because it’s different situations and circumstances, you obviously still have some healing to do with all that projection
@@POSITIVE_TALKS24 I get that and I respect it. I don't get mad or pissed about it. It's not like that. I just get a little pain in my heart that's all.
Im so in shocked right now you mean to tell me this creepy dad did WHAT to not one daughter but 2 😳😳😳😳😳 what blows my mind is when dads dont want their daughters to be touch inappropriately but they the ones who do it scares me 😔😔😔😔😔
Steve asking “why didn’t you take his hand out” are you fucking kidding she was like 16 or 17 he’s a grown man he’s stronger. Why tf did he have his hands in her pants is the only question that should be asked.
Steve needs to Educate himself on DV and SA victims, every time he asks them “why they didn’t leave?” I think about all of the victims who did have the strength to leave and was k*lled by their abuser
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love Steve but felt a stab in my chest when he asked her why she didn’t stop him. omg that physically hurt my heart. those poor sisters having to grow up with that evil man is horrendous!
that one! as someone whos been SAd being asked why you didnt stop them seriously kills
Yess just more salt on the wound when they all clapped but she stood up for herself as she should.
i’m sorry but if you’ve been assaulted, you’d never ask “why didn’t you stop it?” that’s a red flag itself. makes me wonder about steve.
@@ciarakay9690 Steve has always been like this, he's a hypocrite and cares mire about the ratings and drama. He once called a man accused of molestation creepy and weird even though he was innocent. Look back and you'll see a lot of instances of steve being a hypocrite
Let’s be honest with ourselves here… he didn’t simply ask why she didn’t stop it .. he basically asked why was his hand sitting in her pants for 45 minutes .. extremely different
Low key my heart dropped at “why didn’t you take his hand out?” Never ever blame the victim. Maybe she was in shock? Who knows? Why did the audience clap?
It was just a question he didnt blame her at all just trying to find out the truth
@@Nyxgoddess24 the phrasing of a sentence, when speaking to a victim about the crime itself, is very important. It’s actually easily triggering. In my personal experience it can make me shut down and not share my story at all. In others it can make them get angry or defensive and start an argument. Then nothing gets talked about and everyone has lost. That’s why it’s important.
@@Nyxgoddess24 I'm tired of people defending the whole it was just a question bullshit, it wasn't just a question the way he looked at her was giving me what were you wearing Vibes it's not cool man, he knows better now but still. It just goes to show that some people don't understand sexual abuse at all, and with all of these people trying to justify it because it was a question they clearly don't understand sexual abuse
@@Ellis_AKA_Mr.Sunshine i wasnt defending anything tf and its an old video not many people had the understanding as they do now people grow and learn👨🦯
@@Ellis_AKA_Mr.Sunshine plus he looked at her as what she was a guest- he aint give no weird look👨🦯
The audience claps at the worst times wtf😭😭
A few clapped when the scumbag came to the stage 😂
🤣🤣🤣
No Fr 🙄🙄
I'm pretty sure they're told when to clap just like Jerry and maury.
Always. Plus their booing be off
Steve really doesn’t understand sexual abuse… I’m a huge fan of him but it’s something I’ve noticed. You don’t just react naturally when someone does something so unnatural… it’s easy to judge in hindsight but in the moment it’s not that simple… I was sexually abused by a family member for years and my family blamed me because I shouldn’t have let it happen…. It’s disgusting blaming the victim…
I'm sorry to hear that, nobody should have to have that trauma Over them. I hope you seek help, If you need it, and I hope you are better.
I'm really sorry for what you went through but where does Steve show he doesn't understand? He believes the girls right from the start.
Audience: *Clapping*
Peace
When I FINALLY Told MY "mother"
she INTERROGATED M.E. as to WHERE in the HOUSE did it take Place. . .I gave a Full DESCRIPTION.
The "mother" Said I Dreamt it Up.
Peace
When I FINALLY Told MY "mother"
she INTERROGATED M.E. as to WHERE in the HOUSE did it take Place. . .I gave a Full DESCRIPTION.
The "mother" Said I Dreamt it Up.
Gotta give credit to the girlfriend. She heard the truth and even though she got spit on, she left the evil dad and went to apologize to the daughters
bc she knew she was wrong
@@aniichnn5644 exactly. And she was more of an adult then the bast*rd man to admit she was wrong. I give her props
@@aniichnn5644 Yeah, not a lot of people can admit to that. Even on this show, after lie detector tests, they still can't more often than not.
I watched the whole video and I didn't hear the girlfriend apologies to the two daughters at all
@@jessicarink7793 me too, but this is an edited version of the full episode so it may be in there
Poor girl. I'm a huge fan of Steve Wilkos, but that comment he made was way out of line, and victim blaming. Then the audience was ignorant enough to applaud. That was just downright disgusting. Steve needs to better understand abuse victims if he is going to continue to have them on his show. I hope he apologized more backstage that was obviously very triggering to her, as it would be for anybody else who experienced SA.
That’s honestly how I knew she was telling the truth cause her reaction to be blamed was real not forced and heart breaking.
He was asking in that way to make sure she wasn’t being caught in a lie. I’m a victim of abuse and don’t see him victim blaming. He was asking. But to each their own in how they see it ig lol.
@@chleorrrrnorrrrr2915 i can see both sides. steve is a cop after all. i am a victim myself and i don’t really see it as victim blaming myself because he’s trying to hear what she was thinking during that ordeal. i see the other side though, i just think steve has a bit of an issue with black and white thinking
@@whoskatelynn The weirder the answer the more truthful the story. Obviously, she knew it was weird and odd for him to be touching her there for 45 min. And I can only guess why a child "she was still 17" would not resist. Probably some psychological imprint or the drugs were still effective.
Either way, asking a question is never bad or wrong. Unless you are trying to trap someone wrongfully. Also asking something like this, knowing as a cop this happens more often than you realize, also opens up the eyes of the audience and people watching the show that yes people can sometimes shut down or not really resist something someone does. And it is still rape/assault. So the question is a really good question actually.
@@dgray3771 that's a fair point, honestly.
Props to Buffy for being a bigger woman and apologizing despite being spit on. She even left the disgusting, incestuous dad.
I would never ever apologize to anyone spitting on me on the basis of hear say. She wasn't there she didn't witness anything so how come they spit on her? It is disgusting and really horrible behaviour. I know their dad is a monster but that does not give you the right to spit on random people. Wonder if she would do that to anyone on the street. Doubt it. She'd get her ass handed to her.
@@dgray3771 obviously because when she didn’t know anything she still chose to call them liars and give comfort to the man that did all of that to them so they were justified in spitting on her although it should’ve landed on the dad
@@jakeali206 Still not the right to spit on someone for not believing you or any way verbally disagreeing with you.
She wasn't there, and she isn't related.
If a investigator calls you a liar and doesn't believe you. Going to spit on him too? 😂
That was just disrespectful to spit on someone
@@dgray3771 fuck it
the way the sister immediately started dancing the EXACT same way actually killed me😂😂 those girls will do great as long as they stick together ❤
They have severe issues though. It shows the amount of damage done to them. That's going to take a long time, and a lot of therapy. When you go spitting on someone and carry on like that, that shows extreme internal anger. Justified, maybe, but that's extreme dysfunction and pain right there. I feel sorry for screwed up people like this.
Yeah, that killed me when she said "do the stanky leg, Tracey!!" I ran that back and watched it a few times, lmaO!
@@peacefulbliss1 carrying on like that?? Spitting on this man is a tame reaction... Putting him 6 feet under is what he deserves
do the stanky leg Tracy😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Freezing up is one of the most common responses to trauma, seriously that's like trauma 101 and the fact that Steve used to be a police officer and has that mindset might explain why a lot of SA incidents aren't reported
Exactly. I was quite shocked when I heard him ask why she didn’t stop her own assault. Freezing up is the usual response, especially if the abuser is someone close to you. She probably felt there wasn’t much she could do to stop him while they were driving in his truck. She couldn’t get away from him since she was in a moving vehicle and she had no idea if he would become even more violent if she tried to stop him.
It’s because it’s different when it’s a father I been sa by my dad and people had negative reactions to me like I was into the incest
Exactly right, @luffyduffy7817, speaking from personal experience as not only a sexual abuse survivor but also as the adopted son of a career police officer.
Steve asking her why she didn’t move his hand was not cool. She was 17 and probably scared of him. No wonder she got defensive because it did sound like he was blaming her. I hope this poor girl gets the help she needs.
It’s because it’s different when it’s a father I been sa by my dad and people had negative reactions to me like I was into the incest
I was in my forties on a date after being married for almost 30 years and froze too! I can't imagine being a kid.
My gosh Steve, you should never ask an abuse victim "why didn't you do this or that" bc mind you she was a MINOR, and her grown father was assaulting her. It's giving "what were you wearing" energy. I'm a fan of your show but these older videos are showing how far you've come with dealing with sexual abuse victims. She should never have had to feel like she needed to defend herself about getting touched by her father. Smdh
Grown adults shouldn't be asked that either
Adults were included when i said "abuse victims"
I think Steve was caught in the moment and didn't know what to say
@@Viscte That's a possibility, but this is not the first sexual abuse victim he had on the show. Plus, the applause from that idiot crowd of his made it so much worse.
It’s because it’s different when it’s a father I been sa by my dad and people had negative reactions to me like I was into the incest
I couldn't finish watching this clip. As soon as Steve said "why didn't you take his hand out" I was disgusted. Do NOT blame the victim. Its easy to say you could have done this or that when you're not the victim/survivor. Steve gets it wrong sometimes... Super disappointing.
My stomach flipped when Steve said that. Like how could someone question a victim like that?
I think you got it all wrong, Steve asked her after she told him she was on Crack, she wasn't sober so he wanted to make sure (in a different case before he said even if ur daughter said yes you still can't) He did tell her in the end it's not her fault, and said the same thing to the audience.
Time stamp: 1:45
He was confused because of the duration, 45 MINUTES. He was not blaming her, he just was surprised that the act occurred for so long if she was being so resistant. It’s easy for a bad act to go for so long with little resistance, but very hard for it to go for song long if hardly resisted. Im for her im for victims, but you hurt your point by having hair trigger emotional reactions.
@@Eldorik It’s not really that hard to understand…she was a minor and he’s her father. Freezing up is like the #1 reaction when something traumatic happens to you.
I've read this same comment a dozen times. After I watched the clip the question was not that bad.... steve even immediately said...NO ITS HORRIBLE WHAT HE DID TO YOU...and pretty much apologized. It was an honest mistake
"Why didn't you stop him?"
*Audience claps
Wtf is wrong with you Steve? Who says that to a victim of abuse?
It’s because it’s different when it’s a father I been sa by my dad and people had negative reactions to me like I was into the incest
Bruh you’re EVERYWHERE in all of the videos comment section XD
😲😳😱
That Dad is so disrespectful and evil Hope Karma will get him someday
I am so happy my dad is not like that.
@@meganmose same
Don't worry it always does
Karma will be waiting for him in jail🤣👍
Honestly I was about to get real angry at Steve, the way he said "why didn't you take his hand out of your pants!?" Almost like he was blaming her... That pissed me off because as a survivor of sexual abuse I was made to be the bad guy even at 10! So that really got me and then the audience clapped... Shame on them! I'm glad he back tracked and said it's awful what he did to you NOT what you did, people just need to choose their words more carefully.
I'm proud of her for standing up for herself ❤️
Funny Steve: Why didn't you take his hand out?
Upset Woman: I tried
Audience: *Clapping intensifies*
6:03 Damn, she's like "make me, bitch!" She and her sister both deserve MAD RESPECT!
i hate how they clapped when steve asked “why didn’t you take his hand out?” i don’t think it’s easy for people who have never been in that spot to comprehend the shock that paralyzes you when someone who you loved and or trusted assaults you… not everyone has the ability to process what’s happening right away and stop it seven though you know it’s happening and how wrong it is, you don’t know what to do
7:53 “do the stanky leg Tracy” LMFAOOOO good for them 👌
1:34 The victim shaming is disgusting
I was really shocked by that. I would have never expected that from Steve. I’m glad she stood up for herself when the audience clapped and put everyone in their place. So disappointing that people act that way.
The Dad Is So Disrespectful I Like Too See Update On This.
Eghhh. I hope Steve learned from this episode and NEVER ask a victim why THEY didnt stop it.
Steve is very bias when it comes to sexual abuse stories especially when it’s a adult woman telling her story. He needs to work on that if he’s going to continue to take sexual abuse cases with adults. Because he definitely offended her when he asked that question. I was victim when I was younger and I’ll be damned if someone asked my why I didn’t stop the guy which I tried.
That was a bit odd. Even I couldn't, in any way, get why he said that. 😶
@@AlexKaneROTN that's funny because you went to my comment telling me to give you a damn break, so I'm trying to figure out if you're just here for clout or if you're just here to get as many comments as you can. Cuz I feel like you don't understand any of what happened in this episode.
@@Ellis_AKA_Mr.Sunshine that's because, unlike myself, you took it too damn deep. So, I don't take back what I said. Deal with it!
@@Ellis_AKA_Mr.Sunshine and here's another thing, piece of shit. "Clout"??? You don't know who the fuck I am to even have that opinion. And, on top of that, you seriously don't even know the meaning of the word 'clout' to begin with! So, GTFOH with your trashy gay PFP... Fucking freak!
It’s because it’s different when it’s a father I been sa by my dad and people had negative reactions to me like I was into the incest
WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT HOW HE PURPOSELY OVERDOSED THEIR MOM???
Good on her for standing up for herself when the audience claps Steve did at least pipe them down. I think it’s just a common thing to do as a tv audience is to clap when someone comes out. The slow pathetic one second clap is at least funnier but a horrible situation for those girls. He’s exposed and now she can focus and channel all that energy into her girls
Okay so are we gonna ignore that he killed his wife 😰
I know right
Sis said “hit the booty doo” 😂💓 I’m so glad they found peace in this sick situation 🤙
This dad is pure evil! I knew he was lying cause nothing didn't add up. Stave was right! She was vivid about what she was saying over & over again. What kind of a parent that can get their kid started on drugs? The dad is evil for what he did & has done to his 2 daughters. I would like an update on this story as well. I want to see if he got locked up for what he has done to not only his own daughters but, maybe to someone else who was afraid to stand up to him.
Robert i totally agree with you i hope gets a taste of his own medicine whether he´s in jail or in his home
Perfect example of Evil Lives Here for sure
I hope Steve feels bad for what he said to this woman. Victim-blaming is absolutely disgusting. I hope she's found peace. She deserves it. She didn't deserve this. No one does.
"Do the stanky leg, Tracy! Do the stanky leg!"
“Do the stanky leg, Tracy.”
*audience claps*
Steve asking why she didn’t stop him hurts my heart. It’s not so easy when you’re being sexually assaulted.
😢 its sad that girl had to go thru all that abuse because of what her father did to her if i was her brother i would beat the shit out of him
STEVE! How could you ask that? “Why did you let him do that?” She was in shocked and she is the victim! And the audience clapped! OMG!
She’s said “do the stanky leg Tracy!” 😂😂
steve is being incredibly condescending in this you can tell he doesn’t understand sexual abuse..
Smh this man is a demon, not a father. A father protects, is a disciplinarian and a provider. All the things this man isn't
the stanky leg was out of the blue but this story is beyond crazy that man is evillll
Dude the stanky leg had me fucjing dead
“Do the stanky leg, Tracy!” 🤣
Idıot
I WAS CRYINGGG😭
If you could spell disgusting in person form .. it’d be him
Umm... no.....it would be.. D. I. S. G. U. S. T. I. N. G. duhh
@@robogreek3157 not in person form.
@@nysiahickson8800 i was joking
My bad I forgot to laugh
@@nysiahickson8800 its ok your forgiven
i laughed at 5:01-5:02 when the dad idiotically admitted to lying before he tried to backtrack. I mean, that little bit "I AM LYING TO YOU" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Should Have Had The Police Investigate That Intentional Overdose
Perfect example of how Evil the Dad is, i hope the daughter is doing better and great, she was a little angel and her Dad is a Demon.
They did not just do the stanky leg on their abuser 🤣 as they should.
💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
I literally had to rewind like bruh no way
The sister said hit the dougie 😭
Not them applauding 😐😐
Steve saying why didn’t you take his hand out to a 17 year old that’s being molested by her father … so you know how scared that girl must’ve been??? I don’t like how Steve asked her that and esp how everyone clapped.
And didn't they question him about intentionally overdosing his wife (their mother) to kill her? 😳 There had to be a reason for that.
This girl is 27?! Her looks show her traumatic life. I hope she finds peace and safety. I know what it's like to walk on egg shells.
😢🙏
She actually looks younger so I don’t get your comment. Besides her teeth
She is beautiful
She said "DO THE STANKY LEGG"😂😂
I'm sure Steve asked her why she didn't pull her fathers hand away because that is what people would ask if they were blessed with great parents and never once was disrespected or abused. Steve knows why, that's why he stopped the clapping of the audience. He started to talk and she interrupted. I'm glad she strong and free.
as a SA victim that line was so triggering. the way it was worded and said was so wrong ..
Oh my gawd. I just had my baby girl 5 months ago and I'm so scared that she's even in the same WORLD as these effing trash pervs! Im so happy that I can provide her with a safe and stable, loving home.
Just always keep her within your sight, unless she is at the age where she has to attend school. Don't trust anyone. Always ask questions when she is able to talk. Let her know what's right and what's wrong. As an SA victim for 15 years, I'm extra cautious.
The first duty of any parent is to protect their child, no matter what, above all else.
You never know... what your next boyfriend has inside of him. Don't get cocky. Could happen to anybody
I’m happy for you also, @danieunderwood7665! Keep doing what you’re doing for your daughter!
This story is so revolting I knew she was telling the truth the entire time some people should never ever ever ever have children what a sick disgusting person
Not the stanky leg lol 😂😂😂😂
Steve is absolutely unbelievable, like how can you ask somebody why they didn't do something when they're being sexually abused? As a cop and somebody who knows the horror stories he should know better.
As a cop it shows how cops think
Oh, gimme a damn break!
@@AlexKaneROTN give you a damn break? I'm guessing you never been sexually abused in any part of your life, and I'm willing to bet that you're probably one of those people who tell women that they shouldn't dress a certain the way either right? Like I'm trying to figure out why you're saying give me a damn break when literally I'm not the only one who's complaining about this. You must be one of those people who are part of the problem right?
@@Lisa111999888 I'm going to be that person and say not all cops think that way, I have an entire military cop family and I can guarantee you that the majority of them, yes there were always be those few, but the majority of them would never ask you while being sexually abused why you didn't move someone's hands out of your pants.
Steve you didn't have the right to question her like that..l am extremely disappointed in you!..Ronald needs to be put under the jail!..Disgusting!
When the predator becomes the hunted they lash out watch him closely !! Sad these poor young women couldn’t depend on their father !! Truly sad !!
Hi David how are you doing😊
“I tried to take his hand out”
Audience: and now we clap for no reason at all 👏
What a bunch of mindless sheep 😂
The crowd clapping at him asking that was just disgusting. As a rape and sexual abuse survivor, I froze up and went into fight or flight. My body chose flight and I was never the same since. When I was 16 I was assaulted in my church and I remember people asking why I didn't scream and shive his hands off of me. I started to dissociate and went into freeze mode. When he asked her why she didn't stop him, I went back to that moment. Poor girl
When angel said look at me dad when Steve was reading her results was amazing. I hope the sisters are doing better!!
Why are they clapping when Steve asked why she didn’t take his hand out??it doesn’t matter
The comment of why didn't she stop him....... That makes me fear for Steve's daughter
The way as soon as Steve said "Why didn't you take his hand out?" I immediately went to the comment section lmao. I knew I wasn't the only one disgusted by that comment.
I love Steve truly, love his shows, everything but when he said "why didn't you stop him" literally disgusted me so much. Steve you really need to understand that you can't victim blame. She was shocked terrified even. she TRIED but when you get sexualy assaulted by your FATHER ofcourse your gonna freeze from shock or something. I honestly hope Steve learns that saying that to a victim can cause serious harm. Though I am truly grateful that they got their justice after all the years and fear they've had.
Jesus Steve. Don’t blame the victim. “Why didn’t you stop him” she’s a scared child. She probably froze, you’ve done this show enough. C’mon…. You’re supposed to be helping these people not make them feel worse
“Lie to me dad!”
“I AM LYING TO YOU!”
what? Lol
That is so messed up and I feel so bad for the sisters
steve knows when he fucks up at least because when he said "why didnt u stop him" and then she got very upset, that poor woman
“Why didn’t you take his hands out” what kind of a question is that???
DO THE STANKY LEG TRACY‼️‼️😂
“Do the stanky leg”😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😭😭😂
Steve is here to ask questions. He doesnt know who is lying or not. She came on the show knowing questions would be asked to get to the truth. If you are a victim i know its hard but you have to ask questions to get to the truth.
God damn her spit game on point 😂
Do the stanky leg 🦵 tracy 😂💀😭
Weirdo
Ion like how the audience clapped when Steve asked that weird question about why she didn’t take his hand out. That was cringe worthy to me.
5:55 and 7:54 honestly are well deserved queen moments
I like Steve, but sometimes he is a bit disconnected with the experiences of SA survivors. Even IF she had not tried to remove her father’s hand, that doesn’t mean consent or approval. Survivors can fully shut down when faced with fear and trauma. I wish Steve would actively try to be understanding towards survivors.
The audience makes me sick sometimes. Some of this stuff shouldn’t be talked about on live television.
When she said that he said "God put everyone on this earth to have with each other and have babies because no one is related" reminds me of what the founder of the children of God said and promoted. Very manipulating and narcissistic and evil people trying to find every excuse under the sun for their wrong doing and evil acts.
Do the stank leg Tracey do the stank leg 😂😂😂😂
Disgusting Why was the man not in jail
The way he tried to lie and got caught 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m going to need for her to never ever try to do the Stanky Leg ever again 👌🏾🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
As a survivor of abuse it always upsets me when steve asks certain questions but i feel like he asks questions certain ways because of his his previous line of work? Not that it excuses it, theres always time to learn and adapt and educate yourself.
He can ask that question because not everyone’s abuse is the same, I went through abuse but I don’t get madd everytime Steve asks the victim questions because it’s different situations and circumstances, you obviously still have some healing to do with all that projection
@@POSITIVE_TALKS24 I get that and I respect it. I don't get mad or pissed about it. It's not like that. I just get a little pain in my heart that's all.
I would like to see abusive father confronted update very soon to see what happened next the two daughters and their father
I definitely think Steve was insensitive with "why didn't you tske his hand out?" I mean... she is a victim.
This definitely isn’t the first time that Steve has victim blamed….
It’s not as easy as just taking their hand out Steve.
This is one where Steve should have apologized,,,Steve you need a sensitivity class on how to speak to victims of abuse..
Im so in shocked right now you mean to tell me this creepy dad did WHAT to not one daughter but 2 😳😳😳😳😳 what blows my mind is when dads dont want their daughters to be touch inappropriately but they the ones who do it scares me 😔😔😔😔😔
I’m not even there and it fills awkward watching this
Steve asking “why didn’t you take his hand out” are you fucking kidding she was like 16 or 17 he’s a grown man he’s stronger. Why tf did he have his hands in her pants is the only question that should be asked.
Steve needs to Educate himself on DV and SA victims, every time he asks them “why they didn’t leave?” I think about all of the victims who did have the strength to leave and was k*lled by their abuser
“Why didn’t you take his hand out”…. Wtf?????? You are retraumatizing victims
he got a "get outta my studio" thats next level lol
Did Steve really just blame her by asking "Why didn't you take his hand out?" to get the audience to react like that????
That was a great clapping for angel for telling the truth😊
This is so hard to watch
“Why didn’t you stop it” like wtf how could she, that’s suppose to be her dad 😒
Boy those girls are a fool 🤣🤣 she took me out when she whispered “watch” 💀
No father, no dad. Evil.