this scene makes me sad. the way Jenna feels waking up to being and adult is how I feel everyday as an adult - I just still cant believe it that im not a kid anymore. I see people I grew up with getting married and having children, my parents getting older, and everything is changing, including myself, and I just want to turn back time and be 13 again and see everyone one around me younger and carefree
I’m 22 and still feel like a child. Have no idea what I’m gonna do and feel so lost 😔 thought I would be having so much fun during this age but I’m just depressed and lonely.
I'm 43. Friends' kids are graduating high school. I've been married, divorced. I still feel like a kid. I can hardly remember anything between school and now. I want to go back.
Agreed. Sad isn't it? When i was 13, i used think about boys,my body,study, random princess stuff. Now, at 20 its all about college degrees, job,and money,investment, I don't like it
@@ไอ้พวกอิสลามif only the happy ending they had in the movie could happen in reality. The only thing I wanted to know, which is not relevant to the story, & I’m sure deliberately left to the viewer to imagine what transpired & how, was what happened on the “wedding day “ w Wendy. I have no doubt Matt would handle it w compassion & sadness. He is one of those guys who is a true nice person & cares about ppl. I wish I had a Matt/ Mark Ruffalo to share my life with! At 13 and now at 58! ❤
And he describes what happened seconds later the moment Jena "time-travelled" so well that I can imagine it happening! You can see the pain in his eyes!
Especially if it’s happened to you. I stopped being someone’s friend. Someone stopped being my friend. It was a long time ago but it still hurts. I wish I didn’t remember but the pain at least reminds me that I’m alive.
@@anniedowling1762 Same, I feel guilty because I did something very similar to Jenna, I sent my friend pictures and would always try to chat with her but I got impatient with her and thought she didn't like me so I blocked her and never unblocked her again, I was 14 and now I'm 21 and I still feel guilty about it, but then again, I'm not friends with most people I've met in middle and high school as we've all moved on. What I did never makes me forget to keep on communicating and being honest with how I feel though so I use it to become a better person.
@@1950sbakermore often than ppl think unfortunately and the movie does an amazing job of showing the results & regrets of letting ppl who have been a huge part of your life just disappear bc you didn’t make it a priority or some trivial misunderstanding or circumstance. It’s a good illustration that you should be more forgiving & less quick to just let ppl go.
Matt may have forgiven Jenna but he never forgot about the pain it caused him. You can tell by the way he talks about it that the pain is still there and he remembers everything that happened like it was yesterday. People never forget something that caused them great trauma in their lives especially when it’s someone you were friends with and had strong feelings for. Which is why it’s hard to look at someone the same again after what they’ve done to you. Things can never go back to how they were no matter how bad she wants them to because Matt will always remember what happened that night when they were 13.
@@captainobvious6070 uh you realize this experience is something that can happen to anyone to right? This isn’t some situation that is exclusive to just guys. I was pointing out how anyone can relate to Matt’s experience because most of us have felt the same way he has or have been in a similar situation. This isn’t an exaggeration because it happens all the time not just to men but women as well. I’m sure there are plenty of women who have felt the same way.
Yeah, someone can do that in real life. It's not surprising My best friend threw at me the cookies I baked for her as high school graduation. Until now , we are not in speaking terms
@@ishanisen6547 that's life :) you know some people fall in love and they will choose their boyfriends more than their friends whom they have known longer :) anyway, it's all in the past :) I mean, they didn't end up together :)
Yeah I love this movie because Jenna realized what a jerk she was and she was so selfish and dissatisfied with her life and she has no friends only Matt. And then when she wished to be 30 and it came true she realized that being an adult isn't all as fun as it seemed for her. I dunno why but I can somehow relate to her as I had a guy as a friend and I was an outcast at school.
Disney65Fan same here... Expect it was switch .. I actually thought me and my best guy friend from 1st grade thought this could happen but in 7th grade .. told him and just saw me as a sister.. now we don't talk at all.. not even after high school
:( She gave up her best friend for popularity and to be "cool" and fit in. She was young and naive so I don't blame her but it's nice to see her self aware and grow when she does get to turn back time
This movie kinda reminds me of Click (Adam Sandler). Uses the remote to fast forward the boring and stressful moments, then the remote took on a life of its own and started fast forwarding months, then years. Next thing you know he goes from being a 30 some year old to a 60 some year old in a flash.
This scene is as real as it gets. To see Jenna instantly come face to face with so many painful things all at once. All the pain and loss that people usually experience gradually in life hits her all at once like a freight train. She's paying the price for turning her back on her best friend, and she's paying for the fallout that came with that decision in ways that her 30 year old self never had to. The 30 year old Jenna just continued down the same path, and we gradually see just how rotten her lifestyle is - made up of poor, surface level decisions, blatantly chasing instant gratification over real, deep and meaningful relationships. The more we learn about 30 year old Jenna that went down a path of poor decisions, the clearer it becomes that 30 year old Jenna is the real villain of the story, and it doesn't get any more grounded and real than to have the villain be made up of a series of poor decisions - she's always there in the background, along with the frightening idea of becoming her. It's beautiful to see a film explore a concept like this and to go all the way with it and do it with so much heart. I never forgot this one and I never will.
I can really see myself in Jenna. I, too, had a very good friend as a teenager. She was so sweet, so pretty, so funny, so everything. We didn't always understand each other and yet we shared secrets, insights and passions together. Time has torn us apart. We drifted apart and our lives went on. I miss her terribly sometimes.
try calling her please. i get that people drift, I get it believe me. But if you miss her so terribly, it's worth reconnecting. I'm sorry if you ever wanna talk I have a discord on my channel
We live in a world where it’s never been easier to connect with someone who lives a long distance, don’t waste that I’ll be honest it doesn’t always work, I grew up with a guy who I considered my brother, we drifted after high school, I missed him too, reached out to him on Facebook 10 years later during the pandemic and it was a good conversation but we never got back to what we were it was clear that our dynamic had run its course (perhaps if I had reached out sooner it wouldn’t have) But it was good closure and I’m glad I reached out, if I hadn’t I’d still be wondering to this day U should reach out, either u get closure or your friend back, no downside
I can relate to Matt. There was this girl I was close to in high school who is a lot like Jenna; suffices it to say, we didn't work out and I moved on with someone else. This is pretty close to my life except I don't regret my choices, and even though it's kind of sad it didn't work out, my stance now is really more "good riddance." I guess that was kinda Matt's stance before this whole magic thing hit.
I can relate to Jenna in this movie I became mean all of a sudden and this guy from highschool was like a Matt. I do regret it. And now I’m turning 30 life goes by fast!
I'm glad she learned her lesson. Stopped trying to fit in with toxic people, learned to appreciate people who actually cared about her and was no longer in a rush to grow up so quickly
@@Dev1cted Having made this comment three years ago, I'm finding it kind of vague now. People DID say that in 2004, but not in 1987. I guess I must have meant that people didn't say that back in 1987. It's the only thing that makes sense.
What beautiful about this movie that you learn not everything you wish is the best for you when Jena got everything she wanted she became unhappy she had a faithful friend and caring parent but she was always dreaming about different life style and she got them all she wish to come back to her old life which is in real life is impossible.. this move show you that your decisions change your whole life
Growing up means a lot of choices, things that happened beyond our control, and people who are there for us but we ignored them, we loved somebody but it's impossible to be with them, etc.
I had a bestfriend when i was in college i didn't knew he likes me that's why his giving me chocolate cakes and teddy bear. But i was so inlove with my pharmacy course back then because we don't have our own house. We r poor. But his the best thing i ever had. I wont forget him💝
Definitely, I regret when I was 14 blocking my best friend in middle school for 3-4 years cause I got mad they didn’t reply to my comment after several days, I’m glad I unblocked her though but I do feel very bad about being that selfish. It’s the same with a crush from high school, I also blocked that one because I always craved too much attention and validation that I never realized it actually hurt them.
At 2:13 I love how her face wrinkles as reality comes crashing down on her and she reflects on it, like she's thinking "how horrible of a person i've become", great acting by Jennifer Garner 😊
I relate to this a 100%...My best friend fell for my friend and she was jealous of our bond. I was made to prove to her that it wasn't more from my end, and by doing that, I started losing my best friend. He became bitter towards me, things became mean between us and we eventually stopped talking. His gang (which was first OUR gang) started to turn against me, threw petty remarks, then the whole class joined in as I was a student related to the management, they alienated me, and I eventually cracked & got burnt out. I was a great kid before all that and what was left of me was trauma & heartache for a very long time. Sometimes, I think is it right for people to have such power over you? I miss myself when I was around him...The longing for 'us' never went, but so didn't the memories of utter hate & disrespect.
Matt reminds me of a good friend I had, his mannerisms and all, we worked together and we had a slight fallout due to obstacles and life in general, but I am hoping he comes back one day, I still care and have a soft spot for him still, I hope he's doing okay. ❤🧡
This movie proves that Chasing a Dream without any experience is one of the worst thing you can do to yourself!!! sometimes we don't appreciate what we have now, we always lust for more but when the time passes by, we silly humans always miss the things which we hate and can't get rid of'em by calling it "Nostalgia" We all stuck in past, We all stuck in our childhood, We all stuck in our high school era, We all stuck in our past friends which we hate'em and called'em worst, We all have regret of getting older sooner. I still can't believe the things I always used to hate are the golden masterpiece which I will never found in my entire life again. Big smoke already said in GTA SanAndreas "Same things make us laugh, make us cry"
Moral to this film Your true love is standing right in front of you and you realise that they are the one when it's too late. Now all I want is some of that wishing dust.
Here I am on this wonderful movie’s 20th birthday. Two years later, I still find hard to believe it was Jennifer and Mark before Marvel and The Adam Project
Had a similar experience, the lady (girl at the time) dumped me while in last year of high school. She did it by a letter, telling me I was the last man on Earth she'd ever marry. Definitely knocked me for a loop at the time. Well, took me awhile, but I dealt with her loss. Still think of her though. And we talk on Facebook once in a while. Maybe that sort of thing, depicted in the film , happens more often than we know. Personally I don't handle loss too well.
This movie has a lot of meaning. & a lot of females are worried about guys having cars. Jenna and Matt where going on walks no matter how long the distance, taking Ubers everyday. It’s the effort. & crazy thing is Jenna was the one walking back and fourth because she wanted something Wendy had and she couldn’t have it at that moment.
Back in HS, 10th grade. I had a crush on this girl who i enjoyed chatting and sitting next to, especially helping her outside of school time. But when the 3rd classmate-friend, of our desk group, kinda told her what i felt for her. She laughed and somewhat joked about it, i can admit I pretended to laugh too but i felt frustrated. I stopped sitting next to her and the other classmate throughout our semester, i looked over on my shoulders a few times & she looked me back and was always mad at me. Maybe she did feel something about me? Never did see her again until i was about 20 or 21, we crossed paths one day when i was going to the park to play basketball. She looked way different: she seemed like she developed a habit of smoking Marijuana & drinking, had lots of tattoos around her body, & was overweight, no offense. At first we were both surprised at seeing each other after a long time, but then it got serious when we chatted about those missing years. Before we parted ways, she never really said sorry about what happened between us back in HS. But rather she told me that i was nicest boy that she ever met and felt a bit regret that she didn't stay in touch with me. We said our goodbyes but never saw each other again, last i heard she had a few run-ins with the law and had problems at home. To this day, i still believe i mattered to her even though she didn't want to believe it, otherwise she could've changed her life around for the better. I guess the point I'm trying to say is: be careful who you like because he/she may feel it as a joke/prank but will regret it in due time.
Haha relatable. I may be a girl but I was in Matt's shoes. My high school bestfriend and I are still not in speaking terms for 16 years . It was march 2005, out high school grad. She got angry at me for not asking permission that I will go home. She didn't answer any of my calls and the cookies and brownies I made for her as graduation gift, she just threw them and said they're just trash just like me 🥲 We haven't talked until now 🥲 it hurted me so much in my college years . Now I'm 33 years old, i'm fine with it 😀 I was able to move on from heartbreaks of cheating ex boyfriend and backstabbing 2 best friends 😀 I mean, I can imagine my life now and I doubt if I will have a happy life if I will still have a relationship with a guy who just take advantage of me and having friendship with kinds of people who are backstabing and who are not contented with what they have and always rant about their parents ❤️ We are not also civil towards each other after everything because we literally don't talk nor even greet each other whenever we see each other at malls. It happened many times but I don't dare to do my first move. Had enough of it 😀 But in reality, a lot of friends drift away just like matt and Jenna, because people outgrew each other. I wasn't able to maintain my elementary friends, because I transferred school, but that's ok 👍🏻 . You cant always miss people. Life has to go on. 😁
I feel lost every day. Don't feel like an adult, or how im suppose to be I guess. My childhood was lost, and all my loved ones have passed away. I'm alone and everyday my quietness gets louder
Whats so deep about this scene is she realized how bad her 30 and thriving wish and life is it's not what she thought it was going to the be. Her kid self wanted superficial things and accolades in life but her adult self wanted something deeper and more meaningful.
moral is- ladies, as hard as it is, never ever friend-zone a good decent man who likes to date u. Either date and marry him or cut him out off your life- let him be happy with a woman who WILL treat him right. U canNOT have it both ways. HUMBLE yourselves.
You know what I find sad about this scene is that, when Jenna leaves work, it’s right after she overheard Lucy/Tom-Tom and another coworker’s conversation and at this moment Jenna is slowly realizing that Matt was right because if you remember, he tried to warn her about Tom-Tom and the six chicks but Jenna didn’t get it or didn’t listen and to make it even more complicated when she was playing seven minutes in heaven she discovers everyone left but instead of realizing it then, she blamed herself and by mistake took her anger out on Matt.
Sometimes i wonder why we couldn't stay 13 forever. Well for me its 12. I still feel 12 everyday and I wonder how people forgot how to be kids because I never forgot. I wonder how my friends grew up and became parents because I still feel like I'm a kid. I think about this everyday. Its funny, i have little memory of the years after those years but at 12, i remember everythig. I also remember loosing a friend this exact same way. How Mat lost Jenna...we only got back in touch after 16years. But by then we were different people.😢.
Me pasó lo mismo con una amiga, creyó que éramos los grandes amigos y le dije que teníamos 5 años sin vernos que le hacía pensar que éramos los grandes amigos..😂😂😂
this scene makes me sad. the way Jenna feels waking up to being and adult is how I feel everyday as an adult - I just still cant believe it that im not a kid anymore. I see people I grew up with getting married and having children, my parents getting older, and everything is changing, including myself, and I just want to turn back time and be 13 again and see everyone one around me younger and carefree
Yeah ain't that a b*tch? We want to be adult when we were young and now we don't know what we want!? 😅
I’m 22 and still feel like a child. Have no idea what I’m gonna do and feel so lost 😔 thought I would be having so much fun during this age but I’m just depressed and lonely.
Same except I'm only 14 :)
I'm 43. Friends' kids are graduating high school. I've been married, divorced. I still feel like a kid. I can hardly remember anything between school and now. I want to go back.
Agreed. Sad isn't it?
When i was 13, i used think about boys,my body,study, random princess stuff.
Now, at 20 its all about college degrees, job,and money,investment,
I don't like it
"since high school" ugh Jenna he means you!!!
I always laugh with your comment xD
yep
Jenna is always Matt's love. 💖💖
@@ไอ้พวกอิสลามif only the happy ending they had in the movie could happen in reality. The only thing I wanted to know, which is not relevant to the story, & I’m sure deliberately left to the viewer to imagine what transpired & how, was what happened on the “wedding day “ w Wendy. I have no doubt Matt would handle it w compassion & sadness. He is one of those guys who is a true nice person & cares about ppl. I wish I had a Matt/ Mark Ruffalo to share my life with! At 13 and now at 58! ❤
Matt is our dream guy.
So is Mark Ruffalo 💞
And she treated him like crap to earn the approval of a bunch of bullies
More than Jake Ryan???
@@IvanLendl87 Jake Ryan was on/off until he cheated
@@thecreativemillenial what?
Matt's description of how he and Jen stopped being friends is absolutely heartbreaking. 😔
And he describes what happened seconds later the moment Jena "time-travelled" so well that I can imagine it happening! You can see the pain in his eyes!
These things happen In real life, unfortunately 😔
Especially if it’s happened to you. I stopped being someone’s friend. Someone stopped being my friend. It was a long time ago but it still hurts. I wish I didn’t remember but the pain at least reminds me that I’m alive.
@@anniedowling1762 Same, I feel guilty because I did something very similar to Jenna, I sent my friend pictures and would always try to chat with her but I got impatient with her and thought she didn't like me so I blocked her and never unblocked her again, I was 14 and now I'm 21 and I still feel guilty about it, but then again, I'm not friends with most people I've met in middle and high school as we've all moved on. What I did never makes me forget to keep on communicating and being honest with how I feel though so I use it to become a better person.
@@1950sbakermore often than ppl think unfortunately and the movie does an amazing job of showing the results & regrets of letting ppl who have been a huge part of your life just disappear bc you didn’t make it a priority or some trivial misunderstanding or circumstance. It’s a good illustration that you should be more forgiving & less quick to just let ppl go.
Matt may have forgiven Jenna but he never forgot about the pain it caused him. You can tell by the way he talks about it that the pain is still there and he remembers everything that happened like it was yesterday. People never forget something that caused them great trauma in their lives especially when it’s someone you were friends with and had strong feelings for. Which is why it’s hard to look at someone the same again after what they’ve done to you. Things can never go back to how they were no matter how bad she wants them to because Matt will always remember what happened that night when they were 13.
I agree 💯👍🏻
True. So it's a good thing they had magic in this story. Lucky her, she literally could go back in time and right her wrongs... 😂
I know this now and try to teach it to my kids - be kind, try not to hurt anyone, stay on good terms. People are golden.
Oh lord. People be really exaggerating the bad experiences of some males.
@@captainobvious6070 uh you realize this experience is something that can happen to anyone to right? This isn’t some situation that is exclusive to just guys. I was pointing out how anyone can relate to Matt’s experience because most of us have felt the same way he has or have been in a similar situation. This isn’t an exaggeration because it happens all the time not just to men but women as well. I’m sure there are plenty of women who have felt the same way.
Threw the doll house that he worked hard on at his face? That is not only harsh, but it's damn right disrespectful.
True. He was heartbroken and hurt and rarely ever trusted anyone but not vengeful and never held a grudge
Yeah, someone can do that in real life. It's not surprising My best friend threw at me the cookies I baked for her as high school graduation. Until now , we are not in speaking terms
@@1950sbaker oh my god that's horrible 🙁
@@ishanisen6547 that's life :) you know some people fall in love and they will choose their boyfriends more than their friends whom they have known longer :) anyway, it's all in the past :) I mean, they didn't end up together :)
@@1950sbaker that's karma ig 🙃
He Really Loved Her & She Broke His Heart & She Realized it in this moment
Yeah I love this movie because Jenna realized what a jerk she was and she was so selfish and dissatisfied with her life and she has no friends only Matt. And then when she wished to be 30 and it came true she realized that being an adult isn't all as fun as it seemed for her.
I dunno why but I can somehow relate to her as I had a guy as a friend and I was an outcast at school.
Disney65Fan same here... Expect it was switch .. I actually thought me and my best guy friend from 1st grade thought this could happen but in 7th grade .. told him and just saw me as a sister.. now we don't talk at all.. not even after high school
That’s stupid.
:( She gave up her best friend for popularity and to be "cool" and fit in. She was young and naive so I don't blame her but it's nice to see her self aware and grow when she does get to turn back time
I think she realized the important things. And you never realize what you have until you lost it
This movie kinda reminds me of Click (Adam Sandler). Uses the remote to fast forward the boring and stressful moments, then the remote took on a life of its own and started fast forwarding months, then years. Next thing you know he goes from being a 30 some year old to a 60 some year old in a flash.
The feels in this movie....
This scene is as real as it gets. To see Jenna instantly come face to face with so many painful things all at once. All the pain and loss that people usually experience gradually in life hits her all at once like a freight train. She's paying the price for turning her back on her best friend, and she's paying for the fallout that came with that decision in ways that her 30 year old self never had to. The 30 year old Jenna just continued down the same path, and we gradually see just how rotten her lifestyle is - made up of poor, surface level decisions, blatantly chasing instant gratification over real, deep and meaningful relationships.
The more we learn about 30 year old Jenna that went down a path of poor decisions, the clearer it becomes that 30 year old Jenna is the real villain of the story, and it doesn't get any more grounded and real than to have the villain be made up of a series of poor decisions - she's always there in the background, along with the frightening idea of becoming her. It's beautiful to see a film explore a concept like this and to go all the way with it and do it with so much heart. I never forgot this one and I never will.
Mark is so incredibly handsome, especially in this movie. And I also loved him in the movie Dark Waters. Gosh… he’s just so dreamy! 🥰
0:23 the way he opened the door LMAO 😍😆😂😂😂
The way he looked her up and down ahhhhhh🤭
Mark is so incredibly handsome, especially in this movie. And I also loved him in the movie Dark Waters. Gosh… he’s just so dreamy! 🥰
@@sabrina.natalie True. Mark is so handsome in this film. I love him so much. 💖😍
This is actually something a lot of guys don’t do but I’m amazed at some of the reactions I’ve got when doing this 😂
Eeeek! he’s such a pretty person.
I can really see myself in Jenna. I, too, had a very good friend as a teenager. She was so sweet, so pretty, so funny, so everything. We didn't always understand each other and yet we shared secrets, insights and passions together. Time has torn us apart. We drifted apart and our lives went on. I miss her terribly sometimes.
try calling her please. i get that people drift, I get it believe me. But if you miss her so terribly, it's worth reconnecting. I'm sorry if you ever wanna talk I have a discord on my channel
We live in a world where it’s never been easier to connect with someone who lives a long distance, don’t waste that
I’ll be honest it doesn’t always work, I grew up with a guy who I considered my brother, we drifted after high school, I missed him too, reached out to him on Facebook 10 years later during the pandemic and it was a good conversation but we never got back to what we were
it was clear that our dynamic had run its course (perhaps if I had reached out sooner it wouldn’t have)
But it was good closure and I’m glad I reached out, if I hadn’t I’d still be wondering to this day
U should reach out, either u get closure or your friend back, no downside
One of my favorite movies in the mid 2000s. I was 13 in 2007 and I will turn 30 next year🫢Wow
are you flirty and thriving?
I love this movie! I met my husband when I was 13, and we grew up together. I couldn't imagine waking up one day and being without him...
That’s very sweet to you
I can relate to Matt. There was this girl I was close to in high school who is a lot like Jenna; suffices it to say, we didn't work out and I moved on with someone else. This is pretty close to my life except I don't regret my choices, and even though it's kind of sad it didn't work out, my stance now is really more "good riddance." I guess that was kinda Matt's stance before this whole magic thing hit.
I can relate to Jenna in this movie I became mean all of a sudden and this guy from highschool was like a Matt. I do regret it. And now I’m turning 30 life goes by fast!
I turned 30 yesterday and today I thought about this film. Sometimes I do still feel like I’m 13 😂
Happy Birthday!
My wife says I act like a kid....I tell her it's a good thing, as we're old...
Yeah me too 😢
I'm glad she learned her lesson. Stopped trying to fit in with toxic people, learned to appreciate people who actually cared about her and was no longer in a rush to grow up so quickly
Awwwwww so many good memories with past friends we all cried in this scene❤
Why’d he have to open the door like that 😩
Ikr 😩
😂
could watch thisn non stop and never get bored of it!!❤
Matt is the STANDARD
who's your daddy? Wayne rink! love that part 😂😂
People didn't say that back then.
@@jakes3799 well it wasn’t meant like that back then lol
@@Dev1cted Having made this comment three years ago, I'm finding it kind of vague now. People DID say that in 2004, but not in 1987. I guess I must have meant that people didn't say that back in 1987. It's the only thing that makes sense.
@@jakes3799 you sure they meant it that way back then? Well your probably right I just haven’t be seeing it lol.
No matter what, he always was for her....... Matty love u!
I haven't believe in that since high school... n'awwww
What beautiful about this movie that you learn not everything you wish is the best for you when Jena got everything she wanted she became unhappy she had a faithful friend and caring parent but she was always dreaming about different life style and she got them all she wish to come back to her old life which is in real life is impossible.. this move show you that your decisions change your whole life
Growing up means a lot of choices, things that happened beyond our control, and people who are there for us but we ignored them, we loved somebody but it's impossible to be with them, etc.
"I'm not 13 anymore"
Proceeds to run away.
she's running away in guilt and shame- she doesn't like the twisted corrupt woman she became.
I had a bestfriend when i was in college i didn't knew he likes me that's why his giving me chocolate cakes and teddy bear. But i was so inlove with my pharmacy course back then because we don't have our own house. We r poor. But his the best thing i ever had. I wont forget him💝
Why would you ever stop being friends with the Hulk?
Because Black widow doesn't like that
Haha Hulk and Electra,with Hulk in the friendzone
Then Electra uses time travel and reverse aging without some crazy time machine, just so she could leave the friend zone of the hulk.
Because turns out we don’t like him when he’s angry.
I feel like the reason Matt doesn’t believe in soulmates in this timeline is due to what happened with Jenna.
She is his soulmate based on his answer.
@@ไอ้พวกอิสลาม yep.
@@ไอ้พวกอิสลาม yeah, on the bright side when things got rectified, he never had to lose that belief.
I can't believe watched this amazing movie only once.
Me, I’ve seen it three times. The first two were during the lockdown
Spin the rapist lmao! I never noticed he said that he must hate that memory 😂
"I don't remember."
...changed to details & pain in his voice.
What makes this sad is it really is a true story for me and the problem is there is no going back like how she gets to at the end. Only movies lol
Definitely, I regret when I was 14 blocking my best friend in middle school for 3-4 years cause I got mad they didn’t reply to my comment after several days, I’m glad I unblocked her though but I do feel very bad about being that selfish. It’s the same with a crush from high school, I also blocked that one because I always craved too much attention and validation that I never realized it actually hurt them.
‘I haven’t gotten crazy like that since a girl from high school thankfully’ 😟
And Jenna did not get that she was the one Matt was referring to.
At 2:13 I love how her face wrinkles as reality comes crashing down on her and she reflects on it, like she's thinking "how horrible of a person i've become", great acting by Jennifer Garner 😊
Why did I cry lol
lol me
Same
She looks absolutely terrified in that big apartment...
I relate to this a 100%...My best friend fell for my friend and she was jealous of our bond. I was made to prove to her that it wasn't more from my end, and by doing that, I started losing my best friend. He became bitter towards me, things became mean between us and we eventually stopped talking. His gang (which was first OUR gang) started to turn against me, threw petty remarks, then the whole class joined in as I was a student related to the management, they alienated me, and I eventually cracked & got burnt out. I was a great kid before all that and what was left of me was trauma & heartache for a very long time. Sometimes, I think is it right for people to have such power over you? I miss myself when I was around him...The longing for 'us' never went, but so didn't the memories of utter hate & disrespect.
Matt reminds me of a good friend I had, his mannerisms and all, we worked together and we had a slight fallout due to obstacles and life in general, but I am hoping he comes back one day, I still care and have a soft spot for him still, I hope he's doing okay. ❤🧡
This movie proves that Chasing a Dream without any experience is one of the worst thing you can do to yourself!!! sometimes we don't appreciate what we have now, we always lust for more but when the time passes by, we silly humans always miss the things which we hate and can't get rid of'em by calling it "Nostalgia" We all stuck in past, We all stuck in our childhood, We all stuck in our high school era, We all stuck in our past friends which we hate'em and called'em worst, We all have regret of getting older sooner. I still can't believe the things I always used to hate are the golden masterpiece which I will never found in my entire life again. Big smoke already said in GTA SanAndreas "Same things make us laugh, make us cry"
Moral to this film
Your true love is standing right in front of you and you realise that they are the one when it's too late.
Now all I want is some of that wishing dust.
You speak like if this happened to you...if it did im sorry it sorry because it really does suck
tell that to all the ladies who friend-zoned good decent boys for bad 1s.
@@pjosephapeople make mistakes, it's sad but its human nature
I'm 27 and can't believe I'm not in my teens anymore. It doesn't help that I look around 19.
Looking young is a blessing my friend!
I'm 25 and everyone thinks I'm younger than I look
you’re so lucky. i’m 17 but i look like i’m already in my twenties😫
I’m 31 and I have been having that feeling on and off for quite a few years now
My first time watch this movie 13, going on 30, very interesting polt line awesome fashion and songs sound track
Ruffalo is a fucking good looking guy lol he's the man in😅 this movie lol
Ngl but he was so darn cute in this film. I just wanna give him a big hug.
Oh Matt 😍😍
Jennifer Garner es una excelente actriz. De este personaje, en particular, hizo una interpretacion muy bonita.
Jennifer Garner is my favorite actress. She is extraordinarily talented
People change from circumstances, but souls are eternal once they are activated✨️✨️💫♾️💞
Lesson of the film be careful what you wish for!
and becareful who u call 'friends'
Miss the movies from the 2000s
I’m 31 and I know how you feel
This movie plot is so good :’)
Here I am on this wonderful movie’s 20th birthday. Two years later, I still find hard to believe it was Jennifer and Mark before Marvel and The Adam Project
Every time I see this scene and Jen cry! Gaaaah, rips my soul!
2.21 even though Matt says "forget it, it doesn't matter"
It probably would have felt good to finally get an apology for that.
Had a similar experience, the lady (girl at the time) dumped me while in last year of high school. She did it by a letter, telling me I was the last man on Earth she'd ever marry. Definitely knocked me for a loop at the time. Well, took me awhile, but I dealt with her loss. Still think of her though. And we talk on Facebook once in a while. Maybe that sort of thing, depicted in the film , happens more often than we know. Personally I don't handle loss too well.
Poor Matt. After the humiliation and Jenna admitted she was to blame for all this and being a jerk
I’ve asked myself the same question with my ex and a couple of friends. Miss some of them but thankful life has been kind of good.
I can relate to Matt.
Traffic sign says don't walk so she runs 😂
I’m not 13 anymore. Runs away immediately 😂
THIS is a scene, and a movie, that the girls of this "TikTok generation", REALLY NEED, to watch.
Mattie: "TIME TRAVEL!"
This movie has a lot of meaning. & a lot of females are worried about guys having cars. Jenna and Matt where going on walks no matter how long the distance, taking Ubers everyday. It’s the effort. & crazy thing is Jenna was the one walking back and fourth because she wanted something Wendy had and she couldn’t have it at that moment.
Back in HS, 10th grade. I had a crush on this girl who i enjoyed chatting and sitting next to, especially helping her outside of school time. But when the 3rd classmate-friend, of our desk group, kinda told her what i felt for her. She laughed and somewhat joked about it, i can admit I pretended to laugh too but i felt frustrated. I stopped sitting next to her and the other classmate throughout our semester, i looked over on my shoulders a few times & she looked me back and was always mad at me. Maybe she did feel something about me? Never did see her again until i was about 20 or 21, we crossed paths one day when i was going to the park to play basketball. She looked way different: she seemed like she developed a habit of smoking Marijuana & drinking, had lots of tattoos around her body, & was overweight, no offense. At first we were both surprised at seeing each other after a long time, but then it got serious when we chatted about those missing years. Before we parted ways, she never really said sorry about what happened between us back in HS. But rather she told me that i was nicest boy that she ever met and felt a bit regret that she didn't stay in touch with me. We said our goodbyes but never saw each other again, last i heard she had a few run-ins with the law and had problems at home. To this day, i still believe i mattered to her even though she didn't want to believe it, otherwise she could've changed her life around for the better. I guess the point I'm trying to say is: be careful who you like because he/she may feel it as a joke/prank but will regret it in due time.
Isn't it funny that Jennifer Lopez is shown in some magazines and Jennifer Garner used to be married to Ben Affleck who was great with J-Lo
It's not funny
And now… JLO is back with Ben and yes, it’s uncanny.
Ben is a butt hole for speaking so badly if jeniffer when all she did was try and help him just cuz he has jlo now don’t make him a saint
And now Ben is engaged to JLo again.
All I can say is So Surreal
This scene is so dreamy and sad
Haha relatable.
I may be a girl but I was in Matt's shoes.
My high school bestfriend and I are still not in speaking terms for 16 years .
It was march 2005, out high school grad. She got angry at me for not asking permission that I will go home. She didn't answer any of my calls and the cookies and brownies I made for her as graduation gift, she just threw them and said they're just trash just like me 🥲
We haven't talked until now 🥲 it hurted me so much in my college years . Now I'm 33 years old, i'm fine with it 😀 I was able to move on from heartbreaks of cheating ex boyfriend and backstabbing 2 best friends 😀
I mean, I can imagine my life now and I doubt if I will have a happy life if I will still have a relationship with a guy who just take advantage of me and having friendship with kinds of people who are backstabing and who are not contented with what they have and always rant about their parents ❤️
We are not also civil towards each other after everything because we literally don't talk nor even greet each other whenever we see each other at malls. It happened many times but I don't dare to do my first move. Had enough of it 😀
But in reality, a lot of friends drift away just like matt and Jenna, because people outgrew each other. I wasn't able to maintain my elementary friends, because I transferred school, but that's ok 👍🏻 . You cant always miss people. Life has to go on. 😁
Just to think that Mattie is the hulk now 🤯
So I could believe it. Matt became distraught from his best friend. Thanks to Lucy. The wishing dust may have provided wishes for Jenna "come true."
He said “spin the racist!!!!”
Time stamp?
It’s “spin the rapist” at 1:33
My first time watch it was really sweet movie 13.going on. 30. Awesome polt ine great songs sound track.
Honestly i think jenna and matt loved eachother even in adult hood before they got married in the end of the movie.
Love this movie
I feel lost every day. Don't feel like an adult, or how im suppose to be I guess. My childhood was lost, and all my loved ones have passed away. I'm alone and everyday my quietness gets louder
I also don't feel like an adult at 37 ,I don't feel like a normal person
Hope you are ok now...
Whats so deep about this scene is she realized how bad her 30 and thriving wish and life is it's not what she thought it was going to the be. Her kid self wanted superficial things and accolades in life but her adult self wanted something deeper and more meaningful.
Hulk and Batman wife having a conversation together
More like Deadpool's parents.
moral is- ladies, as hard as it is, never ever friend-zone a good decent man who likes to date u. Either date and marry him or cut him out off your life- let him be happy with a woman who WILL treat him right. U canNOT have it both ways. HUMBLE yourselves.
A lot of men friend zone good decent women as well. The feeling has to be mutual. they could at least stayed friends and happy with each others lives
Actually, the good decent man who I friend zoned ended up with a woman who abuses him? Now what…? 😢
They can cut themselves out of a womans life. Nobody forced them to stick around
Hulk and Elektra
You know what I find sad about this scene is that, when Jenna leaves work, it’s right after she overheard Lucy/Tom-Tom and another coworker’s conversation and at this moment Jenna is slowly realizing that Matt was right because if you remember, he tried to warn her about Tom-Tom and the six chicks but Jenna didn’t get it or didn’t listen and to make it even more complicated when she was playing seven minutes in heaven she discovers everyone left but instead of realizing it then, she blamed herself and by mistake took her anger out on Matt.
I wish I knew what that intrumental song was at 0:01
this is her oscar clip, she really should’ve been nominated
Going up against Charlize therron in “monster” hell no
Maybe the Teen Choice Award or MTV Movie Award for Female Performance, but not a damn Oscar. She was great here, but let's be real.
i fucken love this movie :C
Jenna realized she did not want to be that person the only people who c change your life is you
that’s the reality of some of us, to my 35 we cut paths with people and nowadays but past still there. 😶
I love th8d movie!
super movie
its say don't walk...and she walked?
misskrissxoxo lol so I'm not the only one who noticed that. Lol she didn't even look before crossing the street.
She's still in the mind set of a 13 year old living in Jersey, so makes sense
Shes upset and didn't notice when you're sad and upset you don't notice things around you
1:15 Answer: You rejected me hardcore & put me in the (no)friend zone. 🤷♂️
Sometimes i wonder why we couldn't stay 13 forever. Well for me its 12. I still feel 12 everyday and I wonder how people forgot how to be kids because I never forgot. I wonder how my friends grew up and became parents because I still feel like I'm a kid. I think about this everyday. Its funny, i have little memory of the years after those years but at 12, i remember everythig. I also remember loosing a friend this exact same way. How Mat lost Jenna...we only got back in touch after 16years. But by then we were different people.😢.
..oh no im tearing up for real
Nice family movie
This movie is just the western "isekai person wakes up and finds their age is different in a different world".
feels weird that I am closer to 30 than 13. my twenties have been a blur
It's an interesting perspective. Jenna is an adult but she was thirteen only yesterday.
RAZZLE RED ♥️♥️♥️
Me pasó lo mismo con una amiga, creyó que éramos los grandes amigos y le dije que teníamos 5 años sin vernos que le hacía pensar que éramos los grandes amigos..😂😂😂
Did he say Spin the rapist? Lmfao
Whats that song on the beginning?
15. Eavesdropping - Theodore Shapiro
@@sydneyvictoria1902 so someone loves this movie as much as i do and they discovered Theodore shapiro movie playlist lmao
0:54-0:55, 1:04-1:08, 1:40-1:44, 1:51-2:11, 2:20-2:21