What about if you think bli neder at same time but don't say it out loud, just on something you say you plan to do? I am not talking about saying one is swearing or promising or using Gds name? I have been finding myself very irritated by the bli neders which often sound to me like an out for not doing something and I've been saying instead I'm yirtze Hahsem or bezrat Hashem. Meaning if Hashem does not help or want it won't happen and things only happen under Hashems cooperation. Re oaths I am taught one cannot do it in court, only to affirm, may we never need to do so.
@@michaelzaroovabeli2233 but what about whether it is acceptable? If I ask someone to bring me something from the pharmacy I need if I get sick, I don't think it's appropriate to say ok I will bli neder. It's much more reassuring to say I will do so bezrat Hashem. Please ask about it and let me knos
What about if you think bli neder at same time but don't say it out loud, just on something you say you plan to do? I am not talking about saying one is swearing or promising or using Gds name? I have been finding myself very irritated by the bli neders which often sound to me like an out for not doing something and I've been saying instead I'm yirtze Hahsem or bezrat Hashem. Meaning if Hashem does not help or want it won't happen and things only happen under Hashems cooperation. Re oaths I am taught one cannot do it in court, only to affirm, may we never need to do so.
i hear what you say
@@michaelzaroovabeli2233 but what about whether it is acceptable? If I ask someone to bring me something from the pharmacy I need if I get sick, I don't think it's appropriate to say ok I will bli neder. It's much more reassuring to say I will do so bezrat Hashem. Please ask about it and let me knos
You do realize the words are backward and visible only to you, right?
yes, it was the way it was filmed, it makes it look backwards
Better to just not talk at all
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you are correct