My last ex was a cop in Southern California in the late '70s. He was stuck on graveyard shift one night, 2 or 3 in the morning, sitting at a gas station at an intersection, bored, and drowsy, when a car drove up and stopped at the light. He turned on his flashing lights and pulled the car over just to have somebody to talk to for a few minutes to wake himself up. When he ran the guy's driver's license, he found the driver was wanted for murder in Florida! Fortunately, the guy didn't resist.
No, it was red. It was the early '70s, and things were looser then. His excuse was just asking why the guy was out at that time of night. But as for my ex's overall ethics, well, notice that he's EX. @@mage1439
I knew I was not going to be able to take care of my son with my mental health issues so I left him mostly with my ex husband, his dad, and I can say that when my son was in the hospital after he was born and I was healing that the hospital was going to make a complaint even though my ex and his parents were with him constantly just because I wasn't there. I almost died so I was trying to recover but they felt it wasn't right I wasn't there like no one was there. It makes my ex who I was married to at the time pissed because he knew why I wasn't there. The US is crappy when it comes to children and their care.
What a horrible injustice. Not only should all these people be fired, they personally should never be able to take care of a child, because they clearly don't know how.
I watched a different video about this and it showed Tory’s victim impact statement, it was so heart wrenching I couldn’t stop crying. He was also remarried and she, Eli’s stepmom, also spoke. She obviously loved him too. He could’ve been with two loving parents, this is outrageous that this was allowed to happen.
Hi Kabir, damn! That woman had so many severe problems that I don't know how they could possibly give her even visitation rights, much less custody! Severe mental health problems, substance abuse, homelessness etc. I'm with you, they really need to hold the courts and and child protective services accountable. I hope that the father wins his lawsuits.
I wouldn't have given her custody of a rat, let alone a child. I don't know why I'm getting the feeling her "mental health" issues seemed to pop up whenever she was in trouble. The time & thought she put into planning this is insane. I hope that all the officials who put this child repeatedly in danger were forced to view his autopsy & attend his funeral. Just heartbreaking. My sincere condolences to Eli's father & those that truly loved him. I also hope those officers received some serious therapy after this case.
I think it's she clearly has very real mental health issues. Her planning and the fact that she tried to hide evidence only shows that she knew what she was doing was wrong and that's what matters here.
I work with patients like the mom, and we always try to be hopeful when they eventually get to be discharged especially when hearing they have kids... but our mental healthcare system needs a rehaul tbh
The courts allowed this to happen. Why was she able to buy a gun? So many failures along the way and the ultimate price paid was Eli, who lost his life. I feel so sorry for the dad.
Poor Eli. Nobody in the system was looking out for him. His father did everything he could to prove he'd be a good parent and wanted him. I'm glad to hear that Tory is going to press charges. This was really hard to watch. RIP sweet angel.
As someone who dealt with such services... They really Love to destroy the good families while allowing those who shouldn't have their children keep them. I've watched a woman yell at her child on a full bus, the child was barely talking let alone being loud. Once off the bus, we all witnessed her beating her child. Everyone on that bus was pissed, and most likely made some calls while at it. It's even been proven by people that has worked in such services, that it is all corrupt.
I'm SOOO happy she didn't get the death sentence. I know peope love them but they aren't justice, they are an easy way out of a long torrture life behind bars. In this womans case, beuing a kid killed in prison, the other woman are going to put her just barley above a pedophile. Which means she is going to probably face daily beatdowns, attempts on her life....ect. Let her suffer for life. Though I doubt she will last long in prison.
Man some of those other searches she did "How life insurance investigates a death", "How to commit crime and blame a child", "How to fake being home to cops", "Can you take out mutiple polices on someone", "most expensive insurance for a child". My Lord. This kid was just a payout for her.
You need to understand that the courts get a cut of child support payments. Its a large money making industry. Its why the working dad is usually forced to pay in to the system while the mother does nothing.
Thats CPS for ya. Too many times they drop the ball and children suffer or worse. The fact that boy was consistanrly sent back to her is a sin. Everyone involved should be charged with crimes. This is making my blood boil.
Oh Kabir, this story was such huge news here in Minneapolis, and it really emphasized the need for change in our child protective services. I have a couple friends who are social workers in one of the two counties named and they were disgusted by this case. They saw it as a huge failure. Minneapolis, well the whole metro area is in a lot of ways very progressive. But when it comes to family type issues, like this one, the commonly held thought is that the child belongs with its mother and ignoring the father, as if he is just a sperm donor. Minnesota is not a death penalty state however, there are some people that think in cases, such as this one that it should be reinstituted.
If she was involuntarily committed to a mental facility then she wasn't allowed to buy a firearm and some idiot failed to report it properly or the feds didn't put it into NICS like they're supposed to. The stupid thing is these idiots don't get punished for their actions and they have an immunity to suit that is hard to breech.
Courts, typically, favor giving custody to mothers, which is bullshit. While the end result of this case is, thankfully, rare, giving mothers chance after chance is not. Fathers don’t appear to have the same rights as mother, regardless of how damaged a mother might be and how wonderful a father may be.
I'm no expert on the matter but from what I hear this is coming from is that the mother-favored custody laws were created back in the old days where women mostly were financially dependent on their husbands or men and the concept of an evil mother was less of a consideration since more people had morals. It sounds like they have just never been updated, they're still that old and leads to unfair situations and distorted justice since women's situation has changed where they now can even have equal or more money and power over their husbands. Should be a priority country-wide to update the laws.
So many family courts prioritize reunification of the family above the ongoing safety of the child. This harkens back to Ye Olden Dayes when children were considered the property of their parents, and restoring property to a legal owner was paramount. My personal opinion is that the child should come first. Safety and stability for the child comes before family reunification, hands down.
As someone who’s family has worked with foster care, their primary concern is to return the kids to their biological parents, even if those parents show no signs of change. It took years for them to sign away the rights of the bio parents of all three of my adopted siblings. As for the mother thing, most states tend to let the mother get the child more often due to traditional parenting roles and the fact many women in these situations will say the father was abusive and made them do all the horrible stuff(whether it’s true or not)
To make a very long story short, my Daughter’s fiancé’s (they recently got married) ex trumped up charges against them, and the cops fell for it again and removed them from their first stable home, this has been going on a few years, the egg donor ex lost full custody to my son-in-law due to neglect and abuse, yet the law put them back in her home, 😪 Without any way to afford lawyers to end this mess it makes me scared for my grandchildren’s safety, so sad the officers and courts did not do their jobs and look all the way back to when the ex started this and how it gets worse each time, 😪 I just keep hoping and praying a miracle happens and that the truth will prevail, 🙏🤞🙏
I don't know if I watch this one??? I'm not even 1 min in & I'm already emotional for poor Eli. With out know what's about to happen. I'm frustrated, emo, saddened & tearing up. Damn!!! This is going to be heart breaking.
Kabir our court system has long been screwed up. I'm not sure where the fault really lies, but our judges are not scrutinized nearly enough before they are put in office I think they're actually voted in by people and people don't know how to vote a judge in properly. The general public don't know what qualifications of judge should have before their put on the bench. It should be scrutinized a lot more than it is.
OMG this broke me down. That poor child having a monster like that for a mother. She needs to be under the jail. And the poor father, my heart breaks for him.
Welcome to the world! I’m glad you caught up with just little part of how the government works and the power of the mother 😢this crap happens all the time.
Nobody’s saying it’s right,I’m 52 years old I’ve been through the system personally do you know what happens to kids CPS beaten,molested and verbally abuse all the time and to escape that and my abusive parents who were worse I left home at 14 years old ahhh!yah!14 I’m still mentally exhausted and broken.
Pennsylvania is the same way. If you're the dad, forget it. And whatever the costs of raising the kids was when you were married, suddenly it costs triple that because you got divorced.
This system is broken. This happens so much to these defenseless children. Still Noone is fixing it. We claim children are our future but we don't protect them the way they should be.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. They all killed that poor child. The courts, child protective services, the lawyer and julissa. So in my opinion they should all be fired and sentenced to life in prison like she was for aiding and abetting. Like you said. This all could've been avoided and the child LIVE happy and healthy if they just gave him sole custody of Eli.
As a former CPS worker, I believe the child and the father were seriously mistreated. Subjecting Eli to the repeated abuse and neglect of his mentally ill mother while his father showed complete parental concern and ability makes me ill. The police who pulled her over also should have been held accountable for letting her go and even taking her to her apartment. Reunification can be a good thing if the offending parent is indeed compliant and appears to have no concerning behaviors. That was not the case here. This is a sad demonstration of reunification.
The system is overwhelmed by numbers. There's too many kids in danger from their own family. The government is more concerned with fighting other countries wars for them than they are about people in need in our country. Homeless people, starving people, etc. They made marijuana legal cause there's no place to send them to because cause the prisons are full. We don't have enough foster parents to send the kids to.
Unfortunately, this happens far too often across the country. This system is so broken. I believe we need to start over on our child protective services. There has to be a better way, too many children are being tortured and killed.
I feel for the father... I decided to not have kids because of my own mental health issues. I can't stand the thought of my child suffering because of that...
No matter what she did wrong they didn't want to help that poor little boy or allow him to live with his dad, they only wanted to keep giving mom more chances and believing her lies. Kabir is absolutely right when he said the father is family too. It's almost as though they didn't want that boy safe and smiling. Such a horrible story...
It boils down to ambivalence. Unless the situation actually impacts the workers, they push the paperwork along. They're only there to draw a paycheck. If anyone actually cared, this situation would not have happened. The situation is endemic of our government, our country and our people.
Unfortunately, the in the case of child custody battles, the mother gets the child Ninety-nine percent of the time, Even if she has been documented as being unfit to take care of the child.
There is a channel called Misery Machine and it's shocking how many kidd are returned to incompetent parents and unfortunately many times this leads to the child losing their lives. Very sad. You have innocent parents having their kids taken for no reasons and then you have evil parents getting custody of their kids. Sad, very sad. This whole giving custody to the mom the majority of the time needs to change. Custody should be based on which parent is the most responsible and which parent will hive the child the love and security they need.
Some people really aren't ever fit to be parents. They can still have the children cause that's simple biology, but can never, ever be able to care for them. This woman was clearly nuts.
How in the name of God does this happen??? That child should have been with his father. All of the people involved should be in prison. That poor child.
Sorry but it’s really not that complicated, take the child away from the abusive parent and don’t let them have their kid again. Anyone involved with this case and letting that poor kid go back to the parent should be fired and jailed. People try to make it “complicated” because of morals, screw that. This woman never should have had the kid. Just shows how incredibly unfair and biased the court system is when it comes to either the mother or the father getting the child. The mother can literally put the child in danger and not care for it and the courts will still let her have full custody before considering the father or just give the child over to foster care. It’s messed up and in case they all forgot the child wouldn’t even be born if not for the father. I will never have a child of my own with the state of this world.
The system let that little boy be killed. I have a masters degree in this very thing and it's sad how much this type of thing happens. I do not work for CPS because of this. I couldn't sit back and see a child returned to a bad parent. Unfortunately, gender bias happens. It's idiotic...
Hey Kabir, I had to stop watching at 5 minutes in as Ibcould see the writing on the wall. It’s important that this kind of thing is watched and called attention to, and I hope you keep doing videos like this but they are not for me. When I was 10, I knew a boy named Paul. His father was out of the loop, and his mother was paranoid and crazy and homeless, shacking up wherever she had to,to secure a roof over her head. Paul was just hell on wheels. He stole, he hurt animals and by the time he was 15 he was sentenced to 20 years in prison. Paul and his crazy mom went out of state a couple years later and through friends of the family I later learned that before he turned 16, Paul was in jail serving 17 years. He was tried as an adult Around the same time Paul left my life, Max entered it. Max lived in a house that cost a million dollars in the early 80s and his mother was a doctor and his father was director of sales for a pharmaceutical company. Max had all the food he needed, an insane swimming pool, tons of toys, video game consoles with tons of games. I was about 5 years older than Max, and he was always asking my advice on things, and wanting to tell me about what, he’d learned in school, or what book he was reading. Max moved to Ohio about 3 years after I met him. When he was 17 he started drinking, and when some cops pulled him over he fled and went head on into a tree and died instantly. Being an adult now I can look and realize that Paul needed stability and love. Max had both but his parents were just too busy to pay much attention to him. That’s why he always wanted to tell me about his day, and life. That’s what I talked about with my mom. The world is backwards if a child can fall through cracks in that way. If insane, unloving, uncaring, drug addicted mothers are preferred to raising children over a sane father. When kids this broken fall through the cracks this badly, the “happy” ending is driving into a tree. The “normal” ending is drug addiction and stealing from family members to support it, or crime, or worse of all spawning more kids who will go through the same crap; or all three. Seen it before, all too often. My own father put a knife to my throat when I was age three and threatened to my mom he would kill me if she divorced him. Same guy made my older brother get out of the car and drove away when they were 65 miles from home. My 12 year old brother hitchhiked all the way home. My mom was a great person believe it or not, but she was just raised in such a way where she was told to do what her husband wanted no matter what. Peace.
Poor Kabir...I can see his soul becoming an adult in real time. Just an advise... if you talk about things like this, you will be flagged as a right wing pro patriarchate and so on....
Man, what a sad case. 😢 The system failed Eli! This shouldn’t have happened! His dad should’ve had custody of him! How much proof did they need to realize that his mother was mentally unstable?! I mean WTH! 🤦♂️
I think everyone involved with letting that women keep custody of that young man should go straight to prison ! To easy just to fire them.
The incompetence of our agencies and public officials to protect the most vulnerable is astounding.
It seems to happen a lot and the frustration level to those of us watching is off the charts
My last ex was a cop in Southern California in the late '70s. He was stuck on graveyard shift one night, 2 or 3 in the morning, sitting at a gas station at an intersection, bored, and drowsy, when a car drove up and stopped at the light. He turned on his flashing lights and pulled the car over just to have somebody to talk to for a few minutes to wake himself up. When he ran the guy's driver's license, he found the driver was wanted for murder in Florida! Fortunately, the guy didn't resist.
Do you mean the person stopped at a green light? Because, despite it working out, everything your ex did otherwise was grossly illegal.
No, it was red. It was the early '70s, and things were looser then. His excuse was just asking why the guy was out at that time of night. But as for my ex's overall ethics, well, notice that he's EX. @@mage1439
This was gut wrenching!! Poor Eli and Tory!😢That woman showed her true colors over and over again!! Just wow!!
Because unfortunately in most cases they will always rule for the mom
yep
Unless it is a good mom. It is really strange.
Unless he's an abusive pos who just happens to be a cop.
I knew I was not going to be able to take care of my son with my mental health issues so I left him mostly with my ex husband, his dad, and I can say that when my son was in the hospital after he was born and I was healing that the hospital was going to make a complaint even though my ex and his parents were with him constantly just because I wasn't there. I almost died so I was trying to recover but they felt it wasn't right I wasn't there like no one was there. It makes my ex who I was married to at the time pissed because he knew why I wasn't there. The US is crappy when it comes to children and their care.
Why did she even get custody??! She was homeless!! That's crazy!!
That poor child, he must of went through hell!!😢
Because she was a woman, for the dad to get custody, he'd have to have a sex change.
@JohnGuillorykf5qeo that wouldn't work because he would still be a man
She wasn't homeless when DCSS first got involved or when they originally went through court
Talk about sick
What a horrible injustice. Not only should all these people be fired, they personally should never be able to take care of a child, because they clearly don't know how.
friggin duuuumb
Because in some courts eyes the mother always wins custody of the child. Which is stupid.
I watched a different video about this and it showed Tory’s victim impact statement, it was so heart wrenching I couldn’t stop crying. He was also remarried and she, Eli’s stepmom, also spoke. She obviously loved him too. He could’ve been with two loving parents, this is outrageous that this was allowed to happen.
Hi Kabir, damn! That woman had so many severe problems that I don't know how they could possibly give her even visitation rights, much less custody! Severe mental health problems, substance abuse, homelessness etc.
I'm with you, they really need to hold the courts and and child protective services accountable.
I hope that the father wins his lawsuits.
Give the kids to qualified parents
Give the job to whoever is most qualified - I don’t get it
The world is broken
I wouldn't have given her custody of a rat, let alone a child. I don't know why I'm getting the feeling her "mental health" issues seemed to pop up whenever she was in trouble. The time & thought she put into planning this is insane. I hope that all the officials who put this child repeatedly in danger were forced to view his autopsy & attend his funeral. Just heartbreaking. My sincere condolences to Eli's father & those that truly loved him.
I also hope those officers received some serious therapy after this case.
I think it's she clearly has very real mental health issues. Her planning and the fact that she tried to hide evidence only shows that she knew what she was doing was wrong and that's what matters here.
I work with patients like the mom, and we always try to be hopeful when they eventually get to be discharged especially when hearing they have kids... but our mental healthcare system needs a rehaul tbh
The courts allowed this to happen. Why was she able to buy a gun? So many failures along the way and the ultimate price paid was Eli, who lost his life. I feel so sorry for the dad.
I watched this a few days ago. I was crying 😢 for this child.
Poor Eli. Nobody in the system was looking out for him. His father did everything he could to prove he'd be a good parent and wanted him. I'm glad to hear that Tory is going to press charges. This was really hard to watch. RIP sweet angel.
How awful for his father. He did everything right. What a nightmare. The judge should be in jail.
As someone who dealt with such services... They really Love to destroy the good families while allowing those who shouldn't have their children keep them. I've watched a woman yell at her child on a full bus, the child was barely talking let alone being loud. Once off the bus, we all witnessed her beating her child. Everyone on that bus was pissed, and most likely made some calls while at it.
It's even been proven by people that has worked in such services, that it is all corrupt.
I'm SOOO happy she didn't get the death sentence. I know peope love them but they aren't justice, they are an easy way out of a long torrture life behind bars. In this womans case, beuing a kid killed in prison, the other woman are going to put her just barley above a pedophile. Which means she is going to probably face daily beatdowns, attempts on her life....ect. Let her suffer for life. Though I doubt she will last long in prison.
Man some of those other searches she did "How life insurance investigates a death", "How to commit crime and blame a child", "How to fake being home to cops", "Can you take out mutiple polices on someone", "most expensive insurance for a child". My Lord. This kid was just a payout for her.
DHS almost always sides with the mom in these cases. Simple prejudice.
DHS? I think you mean CPS
@@gotham61Its DCFS in my state.
@xkabirconsiders-nx1bq Are people still falling for these scammers? This scam seems very 2020.
@@gotham61 Its the Department of Human Services in my state.
That poor baby never had a chance. Our system is broken.
You need to understand that the courts get a cut of child support payments. Its a large money making industry. Its why the working dad is usually forced to pay in to the system while the mother does nothing.
Thats CPS for ya. Too many times they drop the ball and children suffer or worse. The fact that boy was consistanrly sent back to her is a sin. Everyone involved should be charged with crimes. This is making my blood boil.
Oh Kabir, this story was such huge news here in Minneapolis, and it really emphasized the need for change in our child protective services. I have a couple friends who are social workers in one of the two counties named and they were disgusted by this case. They saw it as a huge failure. Minneapolis, well the whole metro area is in a lot of ways very progressive. But when it comes to family type issues, like this one, the commonly held thought is that the child belongs with its mother and ignoring the father, as if he is just a sperm donor. Minnesota is not a death penalty state however, there are some people that think in cases, such as this one that it should be reinstituted.
If she was involuntarily committed to a mental facility then she wasn't allowed to buy a firearm and some idiot failed to report it properly or the feds didn't put it into NICS like they're supposed to. The stupid thing is these idiots don't get punished for their actions and they have an immunity to suit that is hard to breech.
Courts, typically, favor giving custody to mothers, which is bullshit. While the end result of this case is, thankfully, rare, giving mothers chance after chance is not. Fathers don’t appear to have the same rights as mother, regardless of how damaged a mother might be and how wonderful a father may be.
I'm no expert on the matter but from what I hear this is coming from is that the mother-favored custody laws were created back in the old days where women mostly were financially dependent on their husbands or men and the concept of an evil mother was less of a consideration since more people had morals. It sounds like they have just never been updated, they're still that old and leads to unfair situations and distorted justice since women's situation has changed where they now can even have equal or more money and power over their husbands.
Should be a priority country-wide to update the laws.
Is there no accountability for this judge and those who knowingly put the child in harm's way?
So many family courts prioritize reunification of the family above the ongoing safety of the child. This harkens back to Ye Olden Dayes when children were considered the property of their parents, and restoring property to a legal owner was paramount. My personal opinion is that the child should come first. Safety and stability for the child comes before family reunification, hands down.
As someone who’s family has worked with foster care, their primary concern is to return the kids to their biological parents, even if those parents show no signs of change. It took years for them to sign away the rights of the bio parents of all three of my adopted siblings. As for the mother thing, most states tend to let the mother get the child more often due to traditional parenting roles and the fact many women in these situations will say the father was abusive and made them do all the horrible stuff(whether it’s true or not)
Beyond evil. She needs to never see the light of day again, and rot in prison forever.
To make a very long story short, my Daughter’s fiancé’s (they recently got married) ex trumped up charges against them, and the cops fell for it again and removed them from their first stable home, this has been going on a few years, the egg donor ex lost full custody to my son-in-law due to neglect and abuse, yet the law put them back in her home, 😪
Without any way to afford lawyers to end this mess it makes me scared for my grandchildren’s safety, so sad the officers and courts did not do their jobs and look all the way back to when the ex started this and how it gets worse each time, 😪
I just keep hoping and praying a miracle happens and that the truth will prevail, 🙏🤞🙏
This is not an isolated case. Courts are overwhelmingly in favor of the mother having custody.
I don't know if I watch this one??? I'm not even 1 min in & I'm already emotional for poor Eli. With out know what's about to happen. I'm frustrated, emo, saddened & tearing up. Damn!!! This is going to be heart breaking.
Kabir our court system has long been screwed up. I'm not sure where the fault really lies, but our judges are not scrutinized nearly enough before they are put in office I think they're actually voted in by people and people don't know how to vote a judge in properly. The general public don't know what qualifications of judge should have before their put on the bench. It should be scrutinized a lot more than it is.
These kids didn't have to beeping die!!!!! BEEP THE COURT SYTEM!!!!!!
This happens over & over. So many kids in foster care end up dead. Gabriel Fernandez.
OMG this broke me down. That poor child having a monster like that for a mother. She needs to be under the jail. And the poor father, my heart breaks for him.
Welcome to the world! I’m glad you caught up with just little part of how the government works and the power of the mother 😢this crap happens all the time.
Nobody’s saying it’s right,I’m 52 years old I’ve been through the system personally do you know what happens to kids CPS beaten,molested and verbally abuse all the time and to escape that and my abusive parents who were worse I left home at 14 years old ahhh!yah!14 I’m still mentally exhausted and broken.
Sickening 😢
I live in Minnesota. Our family social services are the worst. They almost always side with the mother, no matter how bad the situation is.
Pennsylvania is the same way. If you're the dad, forget it. And whatever the costs of raising the kids was when you were married, suddenly it costs triple that because you got divorced.
This system is broken. This happens so much to these defenseless children. Still Noone is fixing it. We claim children are our future but we don't protect them the way they should be.
The courts always favor the mother
I wholeheartedly agree with you. They all killed that poor child. The courts, child protective services, the lawyer and julissa. So in my opinion they should all be fired and sentenced to life in prison like she was for aiding and abetting.
Like you said. This all could've been avoided and the child LIVE happy and healthy if they just gave him sole custody of Eli.
As a former CPS worker, I believe the child and the father were seriously mistreated. Subjecting Eli to the repeated abuse and neglect of his mentally ill mother while his father showed complete parental concern and ability makes me ill. The police who pulled her over also should have been held accountable for letting her go and even taking her to her apartment. Reunification can be a good thing if the offending parent is indeed compliant and appears to have no concerning behaviors. That was not the case here. This is a sad demonstration of reunification.
Would you consider visiting a "boring" part of the US? (No clubs or restaurants, but BIG TIME nature.)
Definitely! I think I’ve done most of the touristy parts now, time to see the real America
The system is overwhelmed by numbers. There's too many kids in danger from their own family. The government is more concerned with fighting other countries wars for them than they are about people in need in our country. Homeless people, starving people, etc. They made marijuana legal cause there's no place to send them to because cause the prisons are full. We don't have enough foster parents to send the kids to.
Unfortunately, this happens far too often across the country. This system is so broken. I believe we need to start over on our child protective services. There has to be a better way, too many children are being tortured and killed.
I bet there will be zero consequences for everybody involved
She is the mom, so the courts take her side by default because she is the woman.
She is the prime example of why certain abortions should be legal and even required in some cases. JS
I feel for the father... I decided to not have kids because of my own mental health issues. I can't stand the thought of my child suffering because of that...
No matter what she did wrong they didn't want to help that poor little boy or allow him to live with his dad, they only wanted to keep giving mom more chances and believing her lies. Kabir is absolutely right when he said the father is family too. It's almost as though they didn't want that boy safe and smiling. Such a horrible story...
This is Minneapolis. One of the worst City's in America. The defund police movement worked there!
Family court in Minnesota is a joke. She should have not had custody
I live in Hennepin county next to Dakota county and I never heard of any of this. Fucking crazy.
It boils down to ambivalence. Unless the situation actually impacts the workers, they push the paperwork along. They're only there to draw a paycheck. If anyone actually cared, this situation would not have happened. The situation is endemic of our government, our country and our people.
Courts do it over money. It's all about making money and keeping kids in the system gets them money
You're exactly right...and Pennsylvania does it like it's a game (a game where the dad loses every time).
How fucked is this? It’s making my stomach hurt. I need to find what the hell Dakota county had to say about this decision making process
The amount of slack women get in all states, across all cases, regarding anything is a travesty of justice!
Unfortunately, the in the case of child custody battles, the mother gets the child Ninety-nine percent of the time, Even if she has been documented as being unfit to take care of the child.
There is a channel called Misery Machine and it's shocking how many kidd are returned to incompetent parents and unfortunately many times this leads to the child losing their lives. Very sad. You have innocent parents having their kids taken for no reasons and then you have evil parents getting custody of their kids. Sad, very sad. This whole giving custody to the mom the majority of the time needs to change. Custody should be based on which parent is the most responsible and which parent will hive the child the love and security they need.
Welcome to the American justice system Kabir. It's shameful.
It is, just like in Britain.
No its not right to kill her shes insane life in custody
The courts will ALWAYS side with the “Mother” over the Dad. That’s not new or exclusive to the States.
Some people really aren't ever fit to be parents. They can still have the children cause that's simple biology, but can never, ever be able to care for them.
This woman was clearly nuts.
Ffs, how many people failed this boy?? This sickens me more than words can say.
Sadly alot of state's favor moms 1st, but yes our country sucks at children's welfare
How in the name of God does this happen??? That child should have been with his father. All of the people involved should be in prison. That poor child.
Sorry but it’s really not that complicated, take the child away from the abusive parent and don’t let them have their kid again. Anyone involved with this case and letting that poor kid go back to the parent should be fired and jailed. People try to make it “complicated” because of morals, screw that. This woman never should have had the kid. Just shows how incredibly unfair and biased the court system is when it comes to either the mother or the father getting the child. The mother can literally put the child in danger and not care for it and the courts will still let her have full custody before considering the father or just give the child over to foster care. It’s messed up and in case they all forgot the child wouldn’t even be born if not for the father. I will never have a child of my own with the state of this world.
The system let that little boy be killed. I have a masters degree in this very thing and it's sad how much this type of thing happens. I do not work for CPS because of this. I couldn't sit back and see a child returned to a bad parent. Unfortunately, gender bias happens. It's idiotic...
She's able to buy a shot gun b cause we have no gun policies. Its disgusting.
Hey Kabir, I had to stop watching at 5 minutes in as Ibcould see the writing on the wall.
It’s important that this kind of thing is watched and called attention to, and I hope you keep doing videos like this but they are not for me.
When I was 10, I knew a boy named Paul. His father was out of the loop, and his mother was paranoid and crazy and homeless, shacking up wherever she had to,to secure a roof over her head.
Paul was just hell on wheels. He stole, he hurt animals and by the time he was 15 he was sentenced to 20 years in prison.
Paul and his crazy mom went out of state a couple years later and through friends of the family I later learned that before he turned 16, Paul was in jail serving 17 years. He was tried as an adult
Around the same time Paul left my life, Max entered it.
Max lived in a house that cost a million dollars in the early 80s and his mother was a doctor and his father was director of sales for a pharmaceutical company.
Max had all the food he needed, an insane swimming pool, tons of toys, video game consoles with tons of games. I was about 5 years older than Max, and he was always asking my advice on things, and wanting to tell me about what, he’d learned in school, or what book he was reading.
Max moved to Ohio about 3 years after I met him. When he was 17 he started drinking, and when some cops pulled him over he fled and went head on into a tree and died instantly.
Being an adult now I can look and realize that Paul needed stability and love.
Max had both but his parents were just too busy to pay much attention to him. That’s why he always wanted to tell me about his day, and life. That’s what I talked about with my mom.
The world is backwards if a child can fall through cracks in that way. If insane, unloving, uncaring, drug addicted mothers are preferred to raising children over a sane father.
When kids this broken fall through the cracks this badly, the “happy” ending is driving into a tree. The “normal” ending is drug addiction and stealing from family members to support it, or crime, or worse of all spawning more kids who will go through the same crap; or all three.
Seen it before, all too often.
My own father put a knife to my throat when I was age three and threatened to my mom he would kill me if she divorced him.
Same guy made my older brother get out of the car and drove away when they were 65 miles from home.
My 12 year old brother hitchhiked all the way home.
My mom was a great person believe it or not, but she was just raised in such a way where she was told to do what her husband wanted no matter what.
Peace.
Poor Kabir...I can see his soul becoming an adult in real time. Just an advise... if you talk about things like this, you will be flagged as a right wing pro patriarchate and so on....
Are you so lost that you actually believe that last part? That's ridiculous.
Man, what a sad case. 😢 The system failed Eli! This shouldn’t have happened! His dad should’ve had custody of him! How much proof did they need to realize that his mother was mentally unstable?! I mean WTH! 🤦♂️
Men/Father's have almost no rights. It's so messed up.