Dave is an incredibly brave human being for surviving and processing this subject matter, setting an example for others speaking his lived experience’s and truth Love You Dave!
You brought back a lot of my own memories of skipping school and all the walking and hiding involved. Can't hardly walk anymore because of Multiple Sclerosis, but I still hide from people. Thank you for being open and honest about your life Dave. You really rock man!!
Hey, enjoyed your walk about through suburban UK 🇬🇧. It’s interesting to look at the design of the houses; now I see how our New Zealand 🇳🇿 architects were influenced when making the designs; particularly with the government housing, back in the day. Parts of suburban NZ have similar landscapes to the areas that you were walking through. Bloody good; keep these vloggs coming!
Bullying at school has always been underestimated and normalised. If, as an adult we had to put up with the constant daily terror and trauma of it in our working day (whislt trying to learn/achieve and do well in a career) there would be huge repurcussions /mental health debates about it. No one would put up with it. It can have a devastating affect on a child especially the teen years when life is stressful and difficult enough anyway.
To return to your bench of safety took much courage and determination well done Mr S, watching this walk made me think about how it would have been to be inside your mind at the time. Why? Is a message that must be heard and not ignored!👍👍👍
Thanks for sharing this with us Dave. Honestly it’s inspirational to see you doing so well with your music after what you went through. I absolutely love why and monsters and can’t wait for the album. You’re a strong person mate, keep going. All the best and take care ❤
I was captivated all throughout this video because of the similarities to what I experienced as a youth. It is awful to have to go through this, especially at such a young age. Folks have told me that they understand but unless they have experienced it for themselves they can't really and truly understand it. My experiences as a child has had such a big influence on my life and it has been a lifelong task to try to overcome the damage that was done, I don't know that once can truly and totally overcome it at all, we just learn to live with what happened. I can truly relate to this awesome song that you have written. That safe place is everything and I still go to my safe place on a daily basis more than 40 years on from my experiences. I'm glad that you are surviving Mr. Simpson, there's thousands of us survivors out here and we are in this together. Keep up the great work and all the best to you going forward! :-)
Thank you for taking on this walk. I knew I wasn't going to get through it dry eyed, but I was determined to watch the whole video. I'm glad you had this safe place to be at peace during the times you needed it. Thanks for the history snippets too; we actually had a Roman villa in our village here too and they uncovered part of a mosaic floor when they were building some new houses here. The LL ocal archeology people were living their best life for a while!
Dave, what a beautifull little town you live in! I dont know if you have traveled to other countrys, but most of us dont live in such a pretty landscapes with so much green open space,well maintened buildings and roads and safety. For instance i live like a rat in a tiny apartment in the heart of a 5 million people city, surrounded by drugadicts,crime,prostitutes,homless, noise and dirt. Theres so much good in your present life! So many blessings that must not being taken granted that i thing you need to focus on. Love your music,love your channel and this is just something i want to say as an advice. Dont lose focus on the positive!
God bless you Dave. Bullying is absolutely horrible and I remember high school being absolute hell so this video hit very close to home. These things really stay with you throughout adulthood but i would like to think it has made us stronger. Lots of love my dude
Big Dave looking after little Dave. I have always felt we don't grow up (and leave our younger selves behind) so much as we grow out, and like the tree with the sapling at its heart, our lives today contain the experiences of all the versions of us that got us here. If they struggled or didn't like certain times, today's "us" can always try and look back and help little "us". After all we all love happy memories and feed on them. Maybe we can face our bad memories and clear them up and live happier and learn from our youth as a result (I know this is much easier said than done, so don't flame me if I sound a bit deep and meaningful). Also, Spilsby. SPILSBY! Used to go there on Thursday's with my dad on his rounds as a rep back in the 70s and 80s. Good ode Spilsby.
Its inspirational how you deal with this Dave, the song is a personal journey and I feel some shackles of the past will be lifted now you have written and told the story through your music.
Really enjoyed this Dave, I can relate so much. Even today at the age of 50 my walk's feel like escape from the world, just for a while, to think or not to think. Thanks for taking us on the journey. Oh and I always pick up the acoustic while watching the walk vids...inspiration indeed :)
What a great place to bunk off school....I love hubbards hills....sorry to hear about your experience at school dave....just to let you know that the bullies are usually bullied previously and tend to repeat the abuse on there victims...Great video my fave bit was when you spotted the fluffy cat...hahahaha i always chill with the cool cats for a min if they are happy cats...
Hard to know what to say, Dave, because this video evokes some painful memories for me too, but know this, your music now creates a level of joy for others that defeats such darkness.
🤔 you have achieve a lot to learn the guitar an tough people from all over I would have never thought that the way you play makes me want to learn it so bad 😂😂😂 thanks so much for being a guide for me to make my sound even better 🙏🏾 thanks
13:09 Paradise Smoot. Is that the name of that little alley way? That's a very fine name, whatever it is. If you ever write a strange little psychedelic instrumental you should call it that :-)
Dave, it’s too bad you didn’t go on the school I went to. My friends and I were mostly athletes and probably some of the biggest and strongest guys in school. By the time our friend group was in grade 10 we had developed a reputation of looking after other kids that were being bullied. It got to the point where there wasn’t any bullying going on. This lasted until graduation day. I am sorry that you had to go through that tough time. No one should ever have to go through that.
Dumb kids and teachers will always be around!! As a hopeless romantic Dumb kids do Dumb things. I forgive but not forget and it is easier to laugh at them!! Love you all and have a blessed day!! Try it for yourself!!!
Dave, I've got a favorite bench i escape to most evenings to sort my thoughts/fears. If you send me a sticker I'd be proud to mark my bench. I'm in California.
The "Why" walk. "Why" is the title of Red Giant's latest single. Dave wrote this song as a reflection on all the bullying he received at school. The walk traces the route he took to skive off of school to avoid the bullying.
Don't know how you have the balls to talk to yourself with a camera on your own near other people! I'm feeling awkward just watching, imagining myself doing the same thing. I had a pretty bad experience in school, too, and it's left me with a nasty amount of social anxiety and I barely go outside. Even in this video, whenever I see someone else across the road, I'm on edge thinking they're going to shout an insult or something. And my mind was thinking of all sorts of scenarios, like what if someone's sitting on the bench (it would be awkward with a camera, and sticking a sticker on the bench while someone's there.) It's crazy how much your thoughts get warped after you've been bullied and treated badly. It's inspiring to see what you've done despite your struggles. Really makes me realise that I should try to consistently work on my anxiety, and face it. Sometimes it feels impossible, though. My brain thinks of all sorts of reasons why something won't work out. Even hearing your story of going to that party is giving my mind reasons to not go out, in case I ran into a group of those types of people. I'm only 5 foot 4, and I've got long hair, so I feel like I'd be the first target for these types of people who hate anyone different from them. Some schools really are like the type of stuff you see happening in prisons on TV shows. It's crazy how such a large amount of people can be so horrible for no good reason. I got bullied a few times, but it was never as bad as people threatening to beat me up, it was mostly just tons of smaller jabs and insults, so I suppose I'm lucky. It shouldn't be luck based, though. People just shouldn't treat others like shit.
Bullying is horrible. From one punching bag to another I’m glad you’re still with us
Dave is an incredibly brave human being for surviving and processing this subject matter, setting an example for others speaking his lived experience’s and truth
Love You Dave!
You brought back a lot of my own memories of skipping school and all the walking and hiding involved.
Can't hardly walk anymore because of Multiple Sclerosis, but I still hide from people.
Thank you for being open and honest about your life Dave. You really rock man!!
Hey, enjoyed your walk about through suburban UK 🇬🇧. It’s interesting to look at the design of the houses; now I see how our New Zealand 🇳🇿 architects were influenced when making the designs; particularly with the government housing, back in the day. Parts of suburban NZ have similar landscapes to the areas that you were walking through. Bloody good; keep these vloggs coming!
I would give the biggest hug to young dave. you were always precious my man.
Bullying at school has always been underestimated and normalised.
If, as an adult we had to put up with the constant daily terror and trauma of it in our working day (whislt trying to learn/achieve and do well in a career) there would be huge repurcussions /mental health debates about it. No one would put up with it.
It can have a devastating affect on a child especially the teen years when life is stressful and difficult enough anyway.
Thanks for sharing this personal experience with us.
To return to your bench of safety took much courage and determination well done Mr S, watching this walk made me think about how it would have been to be inside your mind at the time. Why? Is a message that must be heard and not ignored!👍👍👍
Lennon knew the score about schools and bullying: "They hate you if you're clever and they despise a fool".
A nice evening walk with Dave .
Thanks for sharing this with us Dave. Honestly it’s inspirational to see you doing so well with your music after what you went through. I absolutely love why and monsters and can’t wait for the album. You’re a strong person mate, keep going. All the best and take care ❤
I was captivated all throughout this video because of the similarities to what I experienced as a youth. It is awful to have to go through this, especially at such a young age. Folks have told me that they understand but unless they have experienced it for themselves they can't really and truly understand it. My experiences as a child has had such a big influence on my life and it has been a lifelong task to try to overcome the damage that was done, I don't know that once can truly and totally overcome it at all, we just learn to live with what happened. I can truly relate to this awesome song that you have written. That safe place is everything and I still go to my safe place on a daily basis more than 40 years on from my experiences. I'm glad that you are surviving Mr. Simpson, there's thousands of us survivors out here and we are in this together. Keep up the great work and all the best to you going forward! :-)
I really enjoyed the flashback video great job! I’m going to listen to the “Why” song 🎵 Thank you so much 😊🙏
Thanks for taking us along. Really is a privilege. And thank you for this song, it's great in all ways
Thank you for taking on this walk. I knew I wasn't going to get through it dry eyed, but I was determined to watch the whole video. I'm glad you had this safe place to be at peace during the times you needed it. Thanks for the history snippets too; we actually had a Roman villa in our village here too and they uncovered part of a mosaic floor when they were building some new houses here. The LL ocal archeology people were living their best life for a while!
Dave, what a beautifull little town you live in! I dont know if you have traveled to other countrys, but most of us dont live in such a pretty landscapes with so much green open space,well maintened buildings and roads and safety. For instance i live like a rat in a tiny apartment in the heart of a 5 million people city, surrounded by drugadicts,crime,prostitutes,homless, noise and dirt. Theres so much good in your present life! So many blessings that must not being taken granted that i thing you need to focus on. Love your music,love your channel and this is just something i want to say as an advice. Dont lose focus on the positive!
Dave Formula, Roy Chubby Brown, Robert Wyatt, and Barbara Dickson all live/lived in Louth. Wow.
well Dave where ever you walk , walk tall my friend
God bless you Dave. Bullying is absolutely horrible and I remember high school being absolute hell so this video hit very close to home. These things really stay with you throughout adulthood but i would like to think it has made us stronger. Lots of love my dude
Feel like the walk was good therapy for you Dave.
To sum it up...
One small step for Dave
One Red Giant leap for Dave kind!
Big Dave looking after little Dave. I have always felt we don't grow up (and leave our younger selves behind) so much as we grow out, and like the tree with the sapling at its heart, our lives today contain the experiences of all the versions of us that got us here. If they struggled or didn't like certain times, today's "us" can always try and look back and help little "us". After all we all love happy memories and feed on them. Maybe we can face our bad memories and clear them up and live happier and learn from our youth as a result (I know this is much easier said than done, so don't flame me if I sound a bit deep and meaningful).
Also, Spilsby. SPILSBY! Used to go there on Thursday's with my dad on his rounds as a rep back in the 70s and 80s. Good ode Spilsby.
Its inspirational how you deal with this Dave, the song is a personal journey and I feel some shackles of the past will be lifted now you have written and told the story through your music.
Love it man
Thanks , Enjoyed your Why walk video , must have brought back a lot of mixed emotions for you .
Really enjoyed this Dave, I can relate so much. Even today at the age of 50 my walk's feel like escape from the world, just for a while, to think or not to think. Thanks for taking us on the journey. Oh and I always pick up the acoustic while watching the walk vids...inspiration indeed :)
Thanks for the vid..I apriciate it talking like were buds is always apriciated
Thoroughly enjoy these walks & stories. I gotta say man, it’s a beautiful town. Hope you’re doing well, love ya!!!
What a great place to bunk off school....I love hubbards hills....sorry to hear about your experience at school dave....just to let you know that the bullies are usually bullied previously and tend to repeat the abuse on there victims...Great video my fave bit was when you spotted the fluffy cat...hahahaha i always chill with the cool cats for a min if they are happy cats...
Bring some peanuts for the squirrels 🥜 🥜 🥜
@@missingremote4388 not salted...sea salt is not table salt !
Hard to know what to say, Dave, because this video evokes some painful memories for me too, but know this, your music now creates a level of joy for others that defeats such darkness.
I've been in the Greyhound many years ago.
Thanks for sharing this Dave ❤️
Thank you for this video ,,,means a lot. I'm a new subscriber. Great channel, thank you.
It’s Lovely around Hubbards Hill, i recognised it on the Video.
And although not nice circumstances for you back then, what a place to skive off. 👍
What a fantastic video have a great day Dave also i would like to see more bideos videos like this ❤😊
🙏Josh 🪽🩷. More good people doing good things 🥰. 👍☮️🌞
🤔 you have achieve a lot to learn the guitar an tough people from all over I would have never thought that the way you play makes me want to learn it so bad 😂😂😂 thanks so much for being a guide for me to make my sound even better 🙏🏾 thanks
Me too. Dave is my only living hero. 🎸🌞
Love the walks! I remember the ones with you and your sister and Mum, beautiful village! Favorite episode of The Young Ones?
here's the lyrics to a song i wrote .....
FIND ME © David Ford 2008
sometimes i feel like there is no way out
my visions are fillled with confusion and doubt
that's when i run to a place that's inside
locking the door i am safe as i hide
and no one can find me
no one can find me
no one will ever be able to find me
no one can touch me or hurt me like before
no one can tell me their lies by the score
alone inside i have no more fears
alone inside i'll cry no more tears
and no one can find me
no one can find me
no one will ever be able to find me
but then i remember that everything has its cost
every time something is gained , something else is lost
maybe i'm protected from what i'm frightened of
but what if someone was looking for me to give me all their love
and no one could find me ?
no one could find me
no one would ever be able to find me
..... find me
Well expressed 🇬🇧
You're right about the Hubbard's Hills bridge. The new one didn't last long. The old one was near the memorial across the bridge. Near the tap.
Cheers to Josh, what a guy!
Thanks for sharing Dave. I believe in karma, and I'm sure those bullies, must have met some sort of fait by now.
No human being that understands the significance of that sticker on the bench would ever remove it. Keep jammin Dave
I Love your chanel and videos❤❤❤
13:09 Paradise Smoot. Is that the name of that little alley way? That's a very fine name, whatever it is. If you ever write a strange little psychedelic instrumental you should call it that :-)
It would be nice if others would cover that bench in Red Giant stickers.
I used to live in Lincolnshire, and I swear that hill you walked up must be the steepest in the county
Dave, it’s too bad you didn’t go on the school I went to. My friends and I were mostly athletes and probably some of the biggest and strongest guys in school. By the time our friend group was in grade 10 we had developed a reputation of looking after other kids that were being bullied. It got to the point where there wasn’t any bullying going on. This lasted until graduation day. I am sorry that you had to go through that tough time. No one should ever have to go through that.
Dumb kids and teachers will always be around!! As a hopeless romantic Dumb kids do Dumb things. I forgive but not forget and it is easier to laugh at them!! Love you all and have a blessed day!! Try it for yourself!!!
John Smith I thort you was gonna say you know the cans of beer bloke 🤣
Hell yeah Dave 🫡
As well as all them other great people...dave simpson also came from there. A great guitar player and bloody nice bloke
Thanks Dave , that was hard to do for you I’m sure , understand how you felt,
Have these people ever been confronted Dave ? Perhaps your story and video should be shared at your school . ❤ Mick & Jane x
That is a very long walk
Dave, I've got a favorite bench i escape to most evenings to sort my thoughts/fears. If you send me a sticker I'd be proud to mark my bench. I'm in California.
The what walk?
The "Why" walk. "Why" is the title of Red Giant's latest single. Dave wrote this song as a reflection on all the bullying he received at school. The walk traces the route he took to skive off of school to avoid the bullying.
Hi😊👋
If it was legal I’d name and shame all the people who did this to you. Sorry this happened to you Dave.
I wanted to ask, why is it just you in the Why video?
Mainly because its my story and we thought its more fitting.
Don't know how you have the balls to talk to yourself with a camera on your own near other people! I'm feeling awkward just watching, imagining myself doing the same thing. I had a pretty bad experience in school, too, and it's left me with a nasty amount of social anxiety and I barely go outside. Even in this video, whenever I see someone else across the road, I'm on edge thinking they're going to shout an insult or something. And my mind was thinking of all sorts of scenarios, like what if someone's sitting on the bench (it would be awkward with a camera, and sticking a sticker on the bench while someone's there.) It's crazy how much your thoughts get warped after you've been bullied and treated badly. It's inspiring to see what you've done despite your struggles. Really makes me realise that I should try to consistently work on my anxiety, and face it. Sometimes it feels impossible, though. My brain thinks of all sorts of reasons why something won't work out. Even hearing your story of going to that party is giving my mind reasons to not go out, in case I ran into a group of those types of people. I'm only 5 foot 4, and I've got long hair, so I feel like I'd be the first target for these types of people who hate anyone different from them.
Some schools really are like the type of stuff you see happening in prisons on TV shows. It's crazy how such a large amount of people can be so horrible for no good reason. I got bullied a few times, but it was never as bad as people threatening to beat me up, it was mostly just tons of smaller jabs and insults, so I suppose I'm lucky. It shouldn't be luck based, though. People just shouldn't treat others like shit.
Please do work on your anxiety, you are not the problem and you never have been. I've been there too. Much love and you got this!!
This is what releases the truma!