Advice to Ladies.."If a woman steals your man, let her keep him, chances are he might be stolen by another Woman again, if your man loves you he can't be stolen"
Highly confused. She said mama didn’t raise no fool or my grandma didn’t. But she with a man that calls her birds, sluts, whores. Then said I just don’t be with just anybody, talking about he need to love hisself, bitch you with a man that calls you names and that you say is racist, bitch you don’t love yourself. She was contradicting her self the whole time.
Hang Tyme They’re paid to clap 😂 and I’m sure they’re told to make noise and clap so the show doesn’t seem boring. The production doesn’t know that the viewers want the audience to be genuine and not act.
It’s sad to see black people still continue to discriminate against each other. I’m a dark skin black woman, and while I know many dark skin black men feel like her, they don’t want to date a dark person but a light skin woman or a white woman, I will never reciprocate that self hate. I love respectful, kind, loving men, and if that man is darker than me then I’ll date him. Beauty has nothing to do with skin color, and you can’t value other skin color while hating yours and claim that you love yourself. It’s okay to want to date outside your race but never put down yourself for others. She’s allowing abuse and racism from her man so she clearly lack self love.
Lily Rose that’s what we’re taught to do amongst how they treat us so that’s what we start to believe about ourselves decades and millenniums of them telling us we’re the problem and we’re not good enough
He can definitely keep her because we're no longer doing colorism over here. Talking about she only likes light skin and white men, meanwhile he makes racist remarks towards her
@@iasproductions4880 The majority of Black women do not claim only dark skinned black men are colorists. They may say we're the main practitioners of colorism but they don't say that we're the only colorist.
I love Judge Toler because she is so passionate about her job, and she cares about the people that come into her courtroom. Her tone and words are so precise when she speaks to them. I'm going to buy her book because I'm sure there is something I can learn from it.
This chick was a dancer....probably stripper..she does not know how to be married....dating sites and taking pics with exes, who would not have married her....she is street and some counseling is needed.
Her and these fake tears. How you start by saying he loves you too much then says he treats you like crap. She putting on in my opinion. She's the bigger issue i
Morticia Feit I respect your opinion but I’m not sure if that’s the case with them tho. BOTH have major issues period. Genuine crying actually produces REAL TEARS lol. Sis have none lol
She was so hurt and emotional when talking about his racist remarks towards her, then she composed herself to proudly say she doesn't like dark men... lol
This is where we are.. social media is the death of relationships.. you didn’t post about me...you didn’t like my picture..... you blocked me... you liked a picture....So and so liked your picture....I’m not featured on your page.....dear God how did we get here. Bruh if you have to search through her phone you already know the answer. ✌🏽 her out bro. On a dating site? My philosophy; If you want to ACT single I’m going to let you be single!
I deleted my Facebook a year ago and never looked back. Life is way more enjoyable. I don't feel the need to pull my phone out just to show the world when I go out to eat, when I go to the beach, etc. I get to just enjoy the moment. My brain works, I have memories. I don't need 10,000 pictures posted online and affirmation from people I don't interact with in meaningful ways. It really is the death of healthy relationships.
No Sweetie, YOU need to learn to love YOUR Darkskin. This is not about not liking a Darkskin man. You're with this non-black man who's steady calling you out of your name and you think that he's better because he don't have dark skin. The mental construct of it all. I ain't got time for any black person who don't like their blackness. I don't like this coming from a black man or a black woman. She had the nerve to say he needs to love HIMSELF. 🙄 THE THIRST IS REAL! 🥛
Everyone needs to learn to love themselves because if u can't u cannot receive love the way u want there will always b a problem no matter what relationship and with who I believe
I would never stay in an interracial relationship if the guy called me the n word. She don’t like dark ppl but she’s dark, but he’s insecure according to her. They both have self love issues
Whew girrrrl all hell finna break loose my bf is white and he treads very lightly when it comes to all black racial issues. Let alone dropping the N bomb
I disagree. I have a happy, HEALTHY marriage to a white man and I was raised as a Hebrew Israelite and later converted to Christianity. I never had my hair relaxed because I was taught from a young age to embrace my heritage and my skin. We talk race issues. We don't tiptoe. He is a huge advocate and ally for black people because that is who he is. He educates himself on history and asks questions. Most white people are not effective in understanding or helping the black cause because they are comfortable with their privilege and the bubbles they were raised in. Not my man. He has stood up against other white people who thought because they shared the same skin color, that he would agree with their racist sentiments. My husband has been BEATEN and JUMPED on multiple occasions because he was a white man in a black neighborhood by people who thought they were fighting racism. And he did not use that as an excuse to be a racist. And this was as a teenager. Our relationship works because we are the same in the most fundamental way. We judge people for their actions and words, not the color of their skin. And the two sons we're raising will be taught the same. I am an UNAPOLOGETICALLY BLACK WOMAN!!!!! But being pro-black doesn't mean being anti-white.
My bff's husband is white and one day one of his best friends who's a black man was at the house. They were discussing whether or not black people should use the n-word. My friend and I were in the next room she flew out to the living room and told her husband, "this is not for you!" She looked at his friend and said, "just because he cool with us doesn't mean his opinion on this is relevant". That was over 10 years ago he been on eggshells about racial subjects in that house since lol.
Out of all of this.. I only heard her when she said “I don’t even like dark men”.. first off.. SHE’S dark.. what if those “light skinned” men didn’t like you because you were dark? You can have a preference but to downgrade others on the mist of it is wrong because if that were a white man or light man saying that about her the dice would be rolled different 🥺🥺🥺
@@racheliradukunda9294 did you read my comment to understand it or to argue? I clearly stated that she degraded the skin color while expressing what she preferred. The problems is not the preference.. it’s how she spewed hate about those she didn’t prefer.
@@racheliradukunda9294 are you slow it's no longer a preference when you belitting somebody for the same thing you are that you can't control (being dark skin) yall kill me with that preference bullshit how in tf you not like somebody that's the same color as u big up ur preference jus to say they disrespect you in every aspect 🙃
I love Lynne, but she missed a serious opportunity to school this clueless sister about her deep and embarrassing level of self hatred. You are too sharp Lynne to let this foolish child walk away thinking that her only problem is her smart mouth??? She sleeps with a Punk who is terrified of her, and her kind. And is further intimidated by his obvious lack of any manly virtue!!
I am ice. I posted from my other email adress. You do realize from my post I don't think you should take pictures with an ex. Why do you keep calling me a hypocrite?
@@alaakamal1924 Tit for tat..."He did it too/ what about the man..." She broke his windows/ join the dating site/ and re-added an ex...all because HE made her? lol and her first sentence was...he loves me too much. lol. Everything can't be a mans fault. What ever happened to accountability?
@@alaakamal1924 lol...why do so many women do that. lol topic swtich when it's about a woman? (honest question) I'm sure he's wrong for something (I need re-watch it)...but why when we mention anything about the women (Who is CLEARLY wrong)...the rebuttal is always, "what about the man/ she did it BECAUSE he did.../ He made her do it/ If he didn't...) Can I not say she fouled up, ever? Is accountability THAT hard for women? I thought there was something called "equality." (honest question) Is there EVER a good reason to: hangout with an ex if your current doesn't like it/ break his windows/ AND join a dating site? If your answer is yes...we are just not on the same page. That's illogical.
Naww what that really means is that he acts like a baby who needs his mommas titi!! He loves her in a NEEDY way, and dont offer self sustenance to stand on his own. His love is needy love and not a give and take kinda love. Then he acts up and throws tantrums and calls her names when she dont give him the attention he wants. He is a brat. And that would eventually cause anyone to lose interest in their partner.
They both need counseling. She said "I just worked on myself previously." Healing and personal growth are lifelong processes. As long as we live, we always have something to work on.
I can’t believe how much social media plays a part in these people’s relationships. Not enough offline investment. Too much social media, not enough social behavior.
The judge is soooo wrong on this one. She started off the case by saying their problem is they didn't LEARN to trust each other. Trust is earned! You can't expect to be trusted if you're doing the wrong things. Judge keeps talking about she took pictures with her hair dude. Who cares? Your hair dude is not the same as a married woman taking hugged up pics with her ex-boyfriend. Judge was soooooo off base in my opinion. Maybe because she's from a different generation.
she has no love for him ,its clear,she is talking like a terminator, and complaining that he loves her too much? Girl other women beg to be loved! he is insecure ,but not without reason , out all night with ex ,dating site ,and you are not unfaithfool? Really? the judge is way off by telling this man ,to cool down even if she cheats....
Yeah the judge's advice was awful. The opener states that their problem was that they didn't "learn to trust". You don't "learn" to trust. You trust people that show they are trustworthy.
He has all those reasons he should leave...she didn’t say that usually she says don’t live your life everyday being mad at the chance other person could cheat if they do leave, they’re making each other miserable
My niece sounded like that when she was denied cookies. They lasted as long as the snacks weren’t forthcoming and vanished when she got her way. She was 6, and at least shed tears when fake-crying.
Which man wants to see his lady takes a pic with her ex? I see y he's insecure she purposely doing it to him, y didn't she just say hi and bye to her ex? Y take a pic? Then unblocking and friending someone her man has a problem with?? Come on it's her
"My mama didn't raise no fool", I beg to differ lady!! "I dont like dark skin man, I only love light skin or white men".. SMH Enjoy your white man sister!! You deserve him!!! 😏
Why are you fighting on behalf of black men, while they are saying the same thing about you and doing the worst to you!?? Is it mammy/pick me festival???
Let me clarify some things to you. First of all I am with MY BLACK KING 🤴🏿 and have been married for 19 years!! Secondly my black king and I have 2 black boys, my father is black and has been with my black mother for over 45 years. Every relationship that I've been in are with BLACK MEN, WHO HAVE NEVER DISRESPECTED ME THE WAY THIS MAN HAS THIS SISTER, SO YES I WILL FOREVER CAPE FOR MY BLACK MEN PERIOD!!
Judge Toler gave them great advice! He can’t degrade her expect love in return! She can’t keep feeding his insecurities & expect them to go away! It’s like a stray cat- the more you feed it, the more it will stick around! They’ve got to want their marriage more than they want the egos to be fed!
Judge totally missed the mark. She started the episode by saying they both didn't LEARN to trust each other. Trust is not learned its EARNED. Who would trust someone on dating sites and hugged up with their ex. WTF?
Not sure that I can agree with the judge on this one; my wife is at the casino with and ex and she doesn't come home until the next day? Something doesn't seem right about that. It could all be above board but the obvious conclusion is that it is what it is.
*The one thing I agree with the husband about is her taking photos with an ex. I know it could be just that and nothing else, but I don't think I'd like that either though to be honest.*
Girl let him go ASAP!!! Do you remember a oldies but goodie song called:There Two Many fish in the sea. Good luck with your loving life just keep on doing what you do and love yourself first and love 💘 will come
So inappropriate. Can't believe the judge thought it was cool because she takes pictures with her hairstylist lol wtf? Judge can be really off base sometimes.
She’s right!!! She’s beautiful inside and out!!! I hope she moves on and get counseling for the sexual assault!!!! I know all about that cause it happened to me too!!!! God bless!!!!✝️🙏❤️ it’s hard and she probably don’t trust anyone!!! I’ve been in counseling for yrs and it does help I will always have counseling it teaches you to truly love yourself again!!!!
Am I the only one who listens to the first 2 to 3 minutes goes straight to the comments and decides whether or not I'm going to give it any more of time?
This is why ppl should not get married until they are mentally mature enough to handle conflict and problems with each other. Too many ppl react to problems without thinking. Being mature in the mind is something u develop in time in relationships. Women need to stop wanting to be married so bad and men need to think about who u are choosing and get to know who u are dealing with.
Yall are kinda sick for saying she deserves it or u lost respect bc she doesnt date dark skin or black men. She didnt say she hates her race or hates herself, but bc she dont date inside her race, she hates herself? That makes no sense. Im mostly with lightskin or other race men, its doesnt mean I hate black men. Im not interntionally ignoring black men either. Attraction is attraction and if she hasnt found herself with a dark skin man, it shouldnt define her character, same with if shes only dated white men.
Judge: "why did you: break out windows/ re-add your ex on FB/ and join a dating site?" Plaintiff: "Because HE made me do it/ HE pushed me to it/ HE makes me FEEL like crap..." ...wow Lmao...round of applause for accountability.
Time to move on my friend, if you have to watch your woman, snoop through her phone, follow her when she goes out then it's not your woman, time to find someone that loves you, someone that is interested in you, someone who will be there for you. Look in the mirror and tell yourself that you can do better.
We should never put up with a man who calls us names in an argument. Its a start to more bad things they will expect us to put up with . Ive never been with a man whose called me those horrible names in an arguement. If you let your man know that you don’t like it then he shouldn’t do it again . If he continues to do it then that’s a 🚩
I don't feel sorry for her about the racist/racism with her husband stuff - she chose that - there's a risk associated with the swirl - don't have to worry about that with your own kind that loves their own kind. There's enough issues to work out with a person individually and race shouldn't have to be one of them. LOL.
Advice to Ladies.."If a woman steals your man, let her keep him, chances are he might be stolen by another Woman again, if your man loves you he can't be stolen"
You can Say that Again 🧚♀️
@@brownsugarvalley7326 you
Raw
Facts
How you get em is how you lose em
" i don't settle for less, mama aint raise no fool" yet she stays with a man that emotionally abuses her ??? Okay..
Facts
The Ex was not going to marry her....she is a little hood.
B4 that she said IF HE CANT PAY!! str8 bird
"He loves me too much, he needs to love himself", she is delusional..
Did you catch the part she said if a man can’t pay? Still has dancer mentality! I think she’s not ready for a relationship period!
"My husband is racist, and if he knew me he'd know I only date light skin and white men." Whet, sis? You got it.
Messy!
That got me too
Smh husband ain't got to be racist shes doing enough of that on her own, self hate is a sad case
BIRD!!!!!
Lmao tf was that gee
This woman is confused
VERY!
Highly confused. She said mama didn’t raise no fool or my grandma didn’t. But she with a man that calls her birds, sluts, whores. Then said I just don’t be with just anybody, talking about he need to love hisself, bitch you with a man that calls you names and that you say is racist, bitch you don’t love yourself. She was contradicting her self the whole time.
Sometimes I wish the audience’s hands were tied behind their backs.
I know what you mean lol
Britt D - They sometimes clap at anything, like trained circus seals.
Yeah they clapped about the cornyist things in this court room lol.
Rats was fighting over cheese!
Audience- awwww.
Hang Tyme
They’re paid to clap 😂 and I’m sure they’re told to make noise and clap so the show doesn’t seem boring. The production doesn’t know that the viewers want the audience to be genuine and not act.
It’s sad to see black people still continue to discriminate against each other. I’m a dark skin black woman, and while I know many dark skin black men feel like her, they don’t want to date a dark person but a light skin woman or a white woman, I will never reciprocate that self hate. I love respectful, kind, loving men, and if that man is darker than me then I’ll date him. Beauty has nothing to do with skin color, and you can’t value other skin color while hating yours and claim that you love yourself. It’s okay to want to date outside your race but never put down yourself for others. She’s allowing abuse and racism from her man so she clearly lack self love.
You better preach.... I said a similar comment a moment ago
facts
Sis your Melanin is beautiful I’m dark skinned deep dimples and handsome and I love dark skin women stay loving you some you sis
This woman is beautiful and you are to
Lily Rose that’s what we’re taught to do amongst how they treat us so that’s what we start to believe about ourselves decades and millenniums of them telling us we’re the problem and we’re not good enough
He can definitely keep her because we're no longer doing colorism over here. Talking about she only likes light skin and white men, meanwhile he makes racist remarks towards her
But every black woman is saying it dark skin blackmen that are colorist.
@@iasproductions4880 most blacks are colorist. Always want light skin.
@@iasproductions4880 The majority of Black women do not claim only dark skinned black men are colorists. They may say we're the main practitioners of colorism but they don't say that we're the only colorist.
dam shame
She need to love herself more also
I love Judge Toler because she is so passionate about her job, and she cares about the people that come into her courtroom. Her tone and words are so precise when she speaks to them. I'm going to buy her book because I'm sure there is something I can learn from it.
“All I do is be faithful”,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,while explaining why you’re on a dating website😂😂😂😂😂😂😬
Exactly 😂...
This chick was a dancer....probably stripper..she does not know how to be married....dating sites and taking pics with exes, who would not have married her....she is street and some counseling is needed.
😂😂😂😂
That's 1 hell of a catch 🤣
The last four minutes is what makes me love Judge Lyne Toler. Pure wisdom, level headedness and great advice. I will truly miss her.
"A wh*re bird?!"
I spat out my drink 😭😂😂
Damn she is mean, hard, unhappy and contradicts herself. Therapy is needed for both of these folks!
I felt bad for her about his racist remarks until she said “I don’t date dark skin or black men.”
he be calling her the N-word for sure....
After that statement, I lost all sympathy for her!
I mean black men say it all the time so I don’t see the issue 🤷🏾♀️ it’s just a “preference” right?
she hates her own race
@ "Playing in the cave!"😂🤣😭💀
Her and these fake tears. How you start by saying he loves you too much then says he treats you like crap. She putting on in my opinion. She's the bigger issue i
Morticia Feit I respect your opinion but I’m not sure if that’s the case with them tho. BOTH have major issues period. Genuine crying actually produces REAL TEARS lol. Sis have none lol
Morticia Feit absolutely lol
Narcissistic tendencies... Not a good sign...
When it all comes down to it, I don't think they're a good match. They're both not good for each other.
They both were irritating. I could not listen to her grindy monotone voice for too long.
She was trying her hardest to make herself cry real tears 😭
She was very successful at puting on an act.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why do you think that she need to put on fake tears to describe how her husband made her feel about being SA AND A STRIPPER
@@youngodyssey16 there ain’t a single tear…
Her eyes didn't even well up!
She was so hurt and emotional when talking about his racist remarks towards her, then she composed herself to proudly say she doesn't like dark men... lol
lolol
Doesn’t mean she’s racist because she has a preference in dating.
@@jenb6794 I never said she was racist
This is where we are.. social media is the death of relationships.. you didn’t post about me...you didn’t like my picture..... you blocked me... you liked a picture....So and so liked your picture....I’m not featured on your page.....dear God how did we get here. Bruh if you have to search through her phone you already know the answer. ✌🏽 her out bro. On a dating site? My philosophy; If you want to ACT single I’m going to let you be single!
Amen
Social media interactions are meaningful. Don’t trivialize it just because it’s a newer way communication.
I deleted my Facebook a year ago and never looked back. Life is way more enjoyable. I don't feel the need to pull my phone out just to show the world when I go out to eat, when I go to the beach, etc. I get to just enjoy the moment. My brain works, I have memories. I don't need 10,000 pictures posted online and affirmation from people I don't interact with in meaningful ways. It really is the death of healthy relationships.
it's not Social Media..its the Individuals who use Social Media.
No Sweetie, YOU need to learn to love YOUR Darkskin. This is not about not liking a Darkskin man. You're with this non-black man who's steady calling you out of your name and you think that he's better because he don't have dark skin. The mental construct of it all.
I ain't got time for any black person who don't like their blackness. I don't like this coming from a black man or a black woman. She had the nerve to say he needs to love HIMSELF. 🙄
THE THIRST IS REAL! 🥛
Exactly
Self hatred is real
Everyone needs to learn to love themselves because if u can't u cannot receive love the way u want there will always b a problem no matter what relationship and with who I believe
They don't trust each other sad to see somebody is going to get hurt.....
Best comment on here
When bedwenching goes wrong. She got herself a bottom shelf brad. Lol.
Basically
🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏿
😂😂💯
But you dont have the same energy for black men who say the same thing
Still better then a middle shelf Malcolm😙😂
All that crying with not one tear drop.
That's because Rochelle was being very dramatic. She would make a really great actress.
I would never stay in an interracial relationship if the guy called me the n word. She don’t like dark ppl but she’s dark, but he’s insecure according to her. They both have self love issues
Whew girrrrl all hell finna break loose my bf is white and he treads very lightly when it comes to all black racial issues. Let alone dropping the N bomb
Absolutely
I disagree. I have a happy, HEALTHY marriage to a white man and I was raised as a Hebrew Israelite and later converted to Christianity. I never had my hair relaxed because I was taught from a young age to embrace my heritage and my skin. We talk race issues. We don't tiptoe. He is a huge advocate and ally for black people because that is who he is. He educates himself on history and asks questions. Most white people are not effective in understanding or helping the black cause because they are comfortable with their privilege and the bubbles they were raised in. Not my man. He has stood up against other white people who thought because they shared the same skin color, that he would agree with their racist sentiments. My husband has been BEATEN and JUMPED on multiple occasions because he was a white man in a black neighborhood by people who thought they were fighting racism. And he did not use that as an excuse to be a racist. And this was as a teenager. Our relationship works because we are the same in the most fundamental way. We judge people for their actions and words, not the color of their skin. And the two sons we're raising will be taught the same. I am an UNAPOLOGETICALLY BLACK WOMAN!!!!! But being pro-black doesn't mean being anti-white.
My bff's husband is white and one day one of his best friends who's a black man was at the house. They were discussing whether or not black people should use the n-word. My friend and I were in the next room she flew out to the living room and told her husband, "this is not for you!" She looked at his friend and said, "just because he cool with us doesn't mean his opinion on this is relevant". That was over 10 years ago he been on eggshells about racial subjects in that house since lol.
you gotta understand...some people are in relationships BECAUSE of that. its insane but raceplay is a real thing. shes gotta be one of those.
If she can't leave her Ex alone, don't marry this man.
Right💯
Out of all of this.. I only heard her when she said “I don’t even like dark men”.. first off.. SHE’S dark.. what if those “light skinned” men didn’t like you because you were dark? You can have a preference but to downgrade others on the mist of it is wrong because if that were a white man or light man saying that about her the dice would be rolled different 🥺🥺🥺
Well you could be fat but have preferences for the skinny!
Thats what she likes !
Whats wrong with that!?
@@racheliradukunda9294 did you read my comment to understand it or to argue? I clearly stated that she degraded the skin color while expressing what she preferred. The problems is not the preference.. it’s how she spewed hate about those she didn’t prefer.
So dark skin men dont say that all the time?
@@racheliradukunda9294 are you slow it's no longer a preference when you belitting somebody for the same thing you are that you can't control (being dark skin) yall kill me with that preference bullshit how in tf you not like somebody that's the same color as u big up ur preference jus to say they disrespect you in every aspect 🙃
I love Lynne, but she missed a serious opportunity to school this clueless sister about her deep and embarrassing level of self hatred. You are too sharp Lynne to let this foolish child walk away thinking that her only problem is her smart mouth??? She sleeps with a Punk who is terrified of her, and her kind. And is further intimidated by his obvious lack of any manly virtue!!
She should not be with her Ex no husband will like it.
Agreed. Can't believe the judge said it was okay because she takes photos with her hairstylist. Wtf? Lol Apples and oranges.
@@Jasmine-gf8yk Nope, I will continue to share my opinion. No hypocrisy here.
@@Jasmine-gf8yk don't agree.
@Ice you are commenting out of preposition.
I am ice. I posted from my other email adress. You do realize from my post I don't think you should take pictures with an ex. Why do you keep calling me a hypocrite?
A woman who deserves trust would not join a dating site while being married.She needs a CHECK-UP FROM THE NECK-UP????
Always on point
He did something with a chick so don't be like, it's her fault when it's both of their faults, they have a child mentality
@@alaakamal1924 Tit for tat..."He did it too/ what about the man..." She broke his windows/ join the dating site/ and re-added an ex...all because HE made her? lol and her first sentence was...he loves me too much. lol. Everything can't be a mans fault. What ever happened to accountability?
@@jesterarts734 but they're both are in the wrong, don't tell me that you think that her husband is a purified soul!
@@alaakamal1924 lol...why do so many women do that. lol topic swtich when it's about a woman? (honest question) I'm sure he's wrong for something (I need re-watch it)...but why when we mention anything about the women (Who is CLEARLY wrong)...the rebuttal is always, "what about the man/ she did it BECAUSE he did.../ He made her do it/ If he didn't...) Can I not say she fouled up, ever? Is accountability THAT hard for women? I thought there was something called "equality."
(honest question) Is there EVER a good reason to: hangout with an ex if your current doesn't like it/ break his windows/ AND join a dating site? If your answer is yes...we are just not on the same page.
That's illogical.
Seems to me they both lack self-love. How you gonna dislike the physical feature of someone that you possess as well. Giiiirl 🤦🏾♀️
My husband racist.
I like light skinned and white men
Make it make sense.
self hate
Well.. babygirl...I hate to tell you but... ya momma did raise a fool if you are still with him...sorry momma....
I don't know what to do with these 2. 🤦🏾♀️
She don't need to be in a relationship
No, she doesn’t. She definitely needs some kind of therapy. With that level of self hate, can you imagine the damage she’s doing to her son?
Who complains about too much love girl bye 🤦🏽♀️
The only time someone complains about too much love is when they don’t feel the same way anymore.. yikers
Holly J I totally agree!
A person that’s no longer interested 🤷🏽♀️
Naww what that really means is that he acts like a baby who needs his mommas titi!! He loves her in a NEEDY way, and dont offer self sustenance to stand on his own. His love is needy love and not a give and take kinda love. Then he acts up and throws tantrums and calls her names when she dont give him the attention he wants. He is a brat.
And that would eventually cause anyone to lose interest in their partner.
“Loving too much” means he’s obsessive and I think she does disrespectful things to make him leave... which he won’t
He’s either obsessive or she just don’t like him anymore 🤷🏼♀️
She can just LEAVE!!!
How about that!?
good insight.
mambou ja she may be scared
mambou ja when I was getting beat up no one cared bc I wasn’t submissive. I never backed down but every day and even now sometimes, I was scared.
I think she wanted to make him jealous. Many times women go back to their ex's when the relationship is not working out.
facts
They both need counseling. She said "I just worked on myself previously." Healing and personal growth are lifelong processes. As long as we live, we always have something to work on.
Yasss Judge Lynn. You're always on point!
the ending was something i didn’t know i needed 😭
She should Marry her Ex.
They're both a mess!!
A hot mess!🙄
I'm confused her husband love her to much but he treat her like crap
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@@ImWeT0did Before you call somebody stupid learn how to spell it first child
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@@ImWeT0did Ok child that grammar need to stop. Don't call anybody else stupid
I thought she said the husband loves her so much 😄😄😄
Judge Lynn wisdom is UNMATCHED !! I LOVE HER
We suffer more in imagination than in reality
Wow......
that one person who clap for her when she said she was a dance lmao
She must’ve stated EVERY relationship cliche, known to man. 😭
I can’t believe how much social media plays a part in these people’s relationships. Not enough offline investment. Too much social media, not enough social behavior.
Judge is so wise in her advice .
She changes the subject alot. Dude run, she's a cheater. The judge is wrong on this one.
I am glad I am not the only one who heard that. Like coming in at 2 the next afternoon after seeing her ex.
The judge is soooo wrong on this one. She started off the case by saying their problem is they didn't LEARN to trust each other. Trust is earned! You can't expect to be trusted if you're doing the wrong things. Judge keeps talking about she took pictures with her hair dude. Who cares? Your hair dude is not the same as a married woman taking hugged up pics with her ex-boyfriend. Judge was soooooo off base in my opinion. Maybe because she's from a different generation.
she has no love for him ,its clear,she is talking like a terminator, and complaining that he loves her too much? Girl other women beg to be loved!
he is insecure ,but not without reason , out all night with ex ,dating site ,and you are not unfaithfool? Really?
the judge is way off by telling this man ,to cool down even if she cheats....
Yeah the judge's advice was awful. The opener states that their problem was that they didn't "learn to trust". You don't "learn" to trust. You trust people that show they are trustworthy.
He has all those reasons he should leave...she didn’t say that usually she says don’t live your life everyday being mad at the chance other person could cheat if they do leave, they’re making each other miserable
My niece sounded like that when she was denied cookies. They lasted as long as the snacks weren’t forthcoming and vanished when she got her way.
She was 6, and at least shed tears when fake-crying.
Which man wants to see his lady takes a pic with her ex? I see y he's insecure she purposely doing it to him, y didn't she just say hi and bye to her ex? Y take a pic? Then unblocking and friending someone her man has a problem with?? Come on it's her
"My mama didn't raise no fool", I beg to differ lady!! "I dont like dark skin man, I only love light skin or white men".. SMH
Enjoy your white man sister!! You deserve him!!! 😏
He call me a bird 🦅 yeah enjoy your white man 😂😂😂
Not just any bird, A H O E BIRD! 🤣🤣
Why are you fighting on behalf of black men, while they are saying the same thing about you and doing the worst to you!??
Is it mammy/pick me festival???
Let me clarify some things to you.
First of all I am with MY BLACK KING 🤴🏿 and have been married for 19 years!!
Secondly my black king and I have 2 black boys, my father is black and has been with my black mother for over 45 years.
Every relationship that I've been in are with BLACK MEN, WHO HAVE NEVER DISRESPECTED ME THE WAY THIS MAN HAS THIS SISTER, SO YES I WILL FOREVER CAPE FOR MY BLACK MEN PERIOD!!
EXACTLY!!! SHE A STR8 BIRD
Judge Toler gave them great advice! He can’t degrade her expect love in return! She can’t keep feeding his insecurities & expect them to go away! It’s like a stray cat- the more you feed it, the more it will stick around! They’ve got to want their marriage more than they want the egos to be fed!
Not reading comments yet, but I am 5 minutes into this, and Judge Lynn is bugging! I know I would kick my man to the curb if I saw him with his X!
Right...I was wondering why she was acting like it's not a big deal.
Judge totally missed the mark. She started the episode by saying they both didn't LEARN to trust each other. Trust is not learned its EARNED. Who would trust someone on dating sites and hugged up with their ex. WTF?
Girrlllll RUN!!! Don't collect $200 at Go, and just RUN!
She needs to love HERSELF!
right 😭
I don’t let what I don’t do well run my life. That was a pearl 🔥‼️
One years married and you are on a website, it's times to call it quiet it's to early to cheated
Not sure that I can agree with the judge on this one; my wife is at the casino with and ex and she doesn't come home until the next day? Something doesn't seem right about that. It could all be above board but the obvious conclusion is that it is what it is.
That moment when someone started clapping expecting everyone else to join in 😭💀
*The one thing I agree with the husband about is her taking photos with an ex. I know it could be just that and nothing else, but I don't think I'd like that either though to be honest.*
Fantastic lesson
Girl let him go ASAP!!! Do you remember a oldies but goodie song called:There Two Many fish in the sea. Good luck with your loving life just keep on doing what you do and love yourself first and love 💘 will come
This setting was the very best !
They are weird....
Very
He dated and married her because she’s broken, and he can be abusive towards her!
Their both broken!
Totally agree!
yup like attracts like
Why is the judge laughing when she said he was racist
The way he said Boy. I knew it out of the gate
I was the less self aware one in my relationship. We've fought for every second of our 12 year relationship and are stronger than ever
For some reason I am not sorry for her and I am black.🙄😒
Lmaoo. I’m black and I second this! I don’t feel sorry for her or him.
Wow..social media really defines depths of relationships now!!
Why are taking a picture with your ex and you a whole married woman??
So inappropriate. Can't believe the judge thought it was cool because she takes pictures with her hairstylist lol wtf? Judge can be really off base sometimes.
She’s right!!! She’s beautiful inside and out!!! I hope she moves on and get counseling for the sexual assault!!!! I know all about that cause it happened to me too!!!! God bless!!!!✝️🙏❤️ it’s hard and she probably don’t trust anyone!!! I’ve been in counseling for yrs and it does help I will always have counseling it teaches you to truly love yourself again!!!!
Am I the only one who listens to the first 2 to 3 minutes goes straight to the comments and decides whether or not I'm going to give it any more of time?
Rupaul moment “Can I get an Amen “🙏
She don't need a relationship she needs to heal, therapy is needed.
Fake tears when judge brought up dating sites.
@0:34. Mrs. Hendrix looks so DONE!🤣
This is why ppl should not get married until they are mentally mature enough to handle conflict and problems with each other. Too many ppl react to problems without thinking. Being mature in the mind is something u develop in time in relationships. Women need to stop wanting to be married so bad and men need to think about who u are choosing and get to know who u are dealing with.
Another Divorce Court couple that comes on the show dressed in color coordinated clothing.
Lmfaoooooo Mr. hendricks😂😂😂😂
"If you can't pay..." so she is a byrd or am I missing something 🤔
She always the victim🤦♂️
Yeah she looks like a trapper and hes a obivious trick
I am a byrd
My sentiments exactly.
Exactly 😂..
No accountability on her part. Everything she does wrong is because of him. It’s like if you’re not happy just leave.
Yall are kinda sick for saying she deserves it or u lost respect bc she doesnt date dark skin or black men. She didnt say she hates her race or hates herself, but bc she dont date inside her race, she hates herself? That makes no sense. Im mostly with lightskin or other race men, its doesnt mean I hate black men. Im not interntionally ignoring black men either. Attraction is attraction and if she hasnt found herself with a dark skin man, it shouldnt define her character, same with if shes only dated white men.
She said she's not a bird because if "you cant pay...." girl youre a bird.
Wow! I don't post about my husband and vice versa!
Judge: "why did you: break out windows/ re-add your ex on FB/ and join a dating site?"
Plaintiff: "Because HE made me do it/ HE pushed me to it/ HE makes me FEEL like crap..."
...wow
Lmao...round of applause for accountability.
he’s insecure and she’s not interested
Judge Faith Jenkins has a syndicated Court show experience as the Star of Judge Faith for four years.
Ok. Who are you really?
Okay but is she a relationship expert ? Like idk I feel like the replacement should be a person who knows how to help relationship
@@maxwellmediainc people felt the same was abt judge toler, cut her some slack
@@hangtyme765 😂😂
She can have it for 10 years the wisdom and delivery of miss Toler she will never match.
You picked him
Time to move on my friend, if you have to watch your woman, snoop through her phone, follow her when she goes out then it's not your woman, time to find someone that loves you, someone that is interested in you, someone who will be there for you. Look in the mirror and tell yourself that you can do better.
If you cannot trust your partner it makes no sense to be with them!
She has to change her behavior if they want to restore the trust.
The crocodile tears was killing me
We should never put up with a man who calls us names in an argument. Its a start to more bad things they will expect us to put up with . Ive never been with a man whose called me those horrible names in an arguement. If you let your man know that you don’t like it then he shouldn’t do it again . If he continues to do it then that’s a 🚩
All these comments and no one is talking about that damn jacket.😂😂 tackyyyy
She's messing with her ex straight up
No questions ask they fucking💯
I am VERY conceded! And if my partner calls me ONE TIME a bad name,I WILL SEND HIM TO HEL!! And I don’t look back!! I move on!! 😡
......BUT...Didn't she start off by saying, he "loves her too much.." 😐😒
I don't feel sorry for her about the racist/racism with her husband stuff - she chose that - there's a risk associated with the swirl - don't have to worry about that with your own kind that loves their own kind. There's enough issues to work out with a person individually and race shouldn't have to be one of them. LOL.
Did anyone else notice that she skipped past the part about coming back at 2 in the afternoon after taking a pic with her ex