Hello... I am a 34 year old man who is dating a single mom with a 4 year old girl. I am learning how to recognize real boundaries and the difference between jealous behavior and a genuine emotional distress. As I continue to build trust and affection with this new child, I appreciate the ability to learn more about her psychology so I can be a better adult figure in her life. Thank you for the content.
Wow your message made my day! So amazing that you are willing to learn to be a good role model for this 4yo. Her and her mum are very lucky to have you
Thank you so much for this video! I have a four year old son and this has helped so much. I was lacking a basic understanding of where he’s at. Will definitely check out those books as well! Keep up this amazing work, countless families benefit from it. Blessings
Three and four are fun ages. My sister is the youngest of four siblings who are way older and she turns four next month. I’d say she’s way ahead of the curve when it comes to bathroom words😂
A lot of what I heard describes my 4 year old exactly how she is. She just started JK in school and within 2 hours they couldn't handle her and wanted me to pick her up from school. They told me she should see a child psychologist and mentioned the need to get medicated. They were troubled that she didn't want them taking her stuffed toy away on the first day of classes, and that she ran out of the classroom. For a first day and never experiencing pre-school or day care, she was surrounded by absolute strangers she never met before.
@@RoderickRickerson wow that's ridiculous! The fact they are already diagnosing her and pushing for meds is a major red flag. Please find her a new preschool
Your accent is beautiful!! but a little bit difficult to understand. would you be able to add subtitles throughout the entire video? That would be super helpful! Love your videos. Thank you!!
I completely understand where you are coming from 😄 I just checked and the subtitles are set up for this video. You just need to click on cc and it should work. It's working on my end
My son will turn 4 in 3 weeks..I love your channel as you summarize the books in a very calm way and provide personal anecdotes wherever required..Thanks Again
Please help. My daughter will be 5 in September. Since she was 4 she started writing numbers, adding and subtract simple numbers, she speaks in 2 languages fluently (Armenian and Chinese) (and is learning english very well), Sings songs, memorizes the words quickly. We live in China as foreigners. She's been going to kindergarten since 2.5. She's a sensitive kid, but very smart and she's been doing well until we went back home for a month and since we've been back she's had major anxiety about going to kindergarten. She's been crying since the nigh before about not wanting to go to kindergarten. It's been more than a week, she'll cry untill the nap time,l she'll have nausea, she'll say her tummy hurts, makes the teacher call us and asks us to take her home histerically crying, but as soon as the nap time is over, she's happy and after kindergarten she's fine and happy. I don't know how to help her. Is there any advice you can give me? The teacher is advising us to move her to a younger group, where they play more and study less. But her problem is not her studies, She picks up new knowledge very quickly and I think she will be bored there. AndI'm afraid changing her environment will make her more reserved and shy and not cooperative. What should I do? Please help me. ❤❤❤
Also I want to note, that when she cries in class while the teacher is teaching the class, the other teacher will take her out not to disturb other children, and this tends to make it worse for her. Even if the teacher speaks kindlu, she thinks it's a punishment, but she can't stop herself from crying in class too. So I don't know what to do about that too.
Hello... I am a 34 year old man who is dating a single mom with a 4 year old girl. I am learning how to recognize real boundaries and the difference between jealous behavior and a genuine emotional distress. As I continue to build trust and affection with this new child, I appreciate the ability to learn more about her psychology so I can be a better adult figure in her life. Thank you for the content.
Wow your message made my day! So amazing that you are willing to learn to be a good role model for this 4yo. Her and her mum are very lucky to have you
This comment made my day. The fact that you are even watching something like this to understand her child is very sweet. Gives me hope.
@@SarahGraceL thank you for your kind words. I'm actually a very lucky man.
I’m glad I’m not alone in what I’m experiencing
My kid will be 4 later in the year. I was curious to hear about this age. Will definitely rewatch. Thank you
4 is such a great age, ready and eager for lots of adventure. So much easier and more enjoyable than 3.5!
Thank you so much for this video! I have a four year old son and this has helped so much. I was lacking a basic understanding of where he’s at. Will definitely check out those books as well! Keep up this amazing work, countless families benefit from it. Blessings
This comment is exactly why I started summarising those books. I'm so glad this video was helpful to you, it warms my heart
Thanks Anna! Great info! Great style!! Live listening to you!!
So glad to hear my videos are helpful to you! Thank you for the lovely comment ❤️
Thank you so much now I understand the behavior of my 4 yrs old
You are so welcome ❤️
Thank you❤… you have NO idea how much I needed to hear this
You are most welcome! I'm so glad you found this video when you really needed it. You've got this! ❤️
Three and four are fun ages. My sister is the youngest of four siblings who are way older and she turns four next month. I’d say she’s way ahead of the curve when it comes to bathroom words😂
My name is Gustav from Ghana, Africa. Thanks a lot for the lecture.. it was insightful.
You are so welcome. So glad to hear this video was helpful
I’m Brett from Muskegon mi have a 4 yr old daughter thank you that was great information that I will try to follow ❤
A lot of what I heard describes my 4 year old exactly how she is. She just started JK in school and within 2 hours they couldn't handle her and wanted me to pick her up from school. They told me she should see a child psychologist and mentioned the need to get medicated. They were troubled that she didn't want them taking her stuffed toy away on the first day of classes, and that she ran out of the classroom. For a first day and never experiencing pre-school or day care, she was surrounded by absolute strangers she never met before.
@@RoderickRickerson wow that's ridiculous! The fact they are already diagnosing her and pushing for meds is a major red flag. Please find her a new preschool
This was eye opening! Thank you
So glad to hear you got a lot out of this video! ☺️
Thanks real good my grand daughter is just four and I find this content very helpful
So glad to hear this video was helpful to you. Thanks for commenting ☺️
Your accent is beautiful!! but a little bit difficult to understand. would you be able to add subtitles throughout the entire video? That would be super helpful! Love your videos. Thank you!!
I completely understand where you are coming from 😄 I just checked and the subtitles are set up for this video. You just need to click on cc and it should work. It's working on my end
What is regulation and disregulation
Disregulation is when your child is acting out with their behaviour. Regulation is when they are calm
Bravo ! Tu es tout à fait prête pour ton futur "4 ans"!
J’ai bien retrouvé Dasha et Alina à 4 ans aussi :)
Very informative! Thank you!
You are so welcome :)
Thank you for information, litle litle understanding for me becouse speak indinesia
You're welcome ❤️
Thank you for your video, it helps..👍
wondefrul video. thank you!
You are so welcome ❤️
My son will turn 4 in 3 weeks..I love your channel as you summarize the books in a very calm way and provide personal anecdotes wherever required..Thanks Again
So glad you are enjoying my videos :)
R u a doctor or child psychologist?! Thank you very much ❤❤
@@priusa8113 no I'm just a mum of 3 kids
Hello Anna, You mostly mention "He" in this video. Do these attributes mostly apply to the males ?
No it doesn't. It's the French in me, we usually revert to masculine when we discuss a subject with no gender preference. I should have said 'they'.
You are fantastic!
Thank you!
You are so welcome ❤️
Thank you Anna
Thankyou Anna this really helped 🇦🇺
You are so welcome!
What sould my 4yare old capebal to do plece explane to me the development
Can you make a video about the 10 yo?
the swearing part lol
no, you should excpect, “SKIBIDIDOP DOP DOP OH YESS” “RIZZ” “SIMP” “SIGMA MALE”
Please help.
My daughter will be 5 in September.
Since she was 4 she started writing numbers, adding and subtract simple numbers, she speaks in 2 languages fluently (Armenian and Chinese) (and is learning english very well), Sings songs, memorizes the words quickly.
We live in China as foreigners. She's been going to kindergarten since 2.5. She's a sensitive kid, but very smart and she's been doing well until we went back home for a month and since we've been back she's had major anxiety about going to kindergarten. She's been crying since the nigh before about not wanting to go to kindergarten. It's been more than a week, she'll cry untill the nap time,l she'll have nausea, she'll say her tummy hurts, makes the teacher call us and asks us to take her home histerically crying, but as soon as the nap time is over, she's happy and after kindergarten she's fine and happy. I don't know how to help her. Is there any advice you can give me?
The teacher is advising us to move her to a younger group, where they play more and study less. But her problem is not her studies, She picks up new knowledge very quickly and I think she will be bored there. AndI'm afraid changing her environment will make her more reserved and shy and not cooperative.
What should I do? Please help me. ❤❤❤
Also I want to note, that when she cries in class while the teacher is teaching the class, the other teacher will take her out not to disturb other children, and this tends to make it worse for her. Even if the teacher speaks kindlu, she thinks it's a punishment, but she can't stop herself from crying in class too. So I don't know what to do about that too.
Did you say "sex play" at 8:05 ?
@@superfreshathletics1678 yes that's what I said