We said "don't orgasm", not cant. And this is specifically from intercourse. Vast majority of women dont orgasm from just intercourse. Clit stim is a must. www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/all-about-sex/201602/why-so-many-women-don-t-have-orgasms www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5087699/
@@AbaNPreach the fact that you use an article to correct an actual woman when she's right. Women would not be giving up sex like they do if we didn't enjoy or orgasm. It depends on the guy but the ones we go the craziest FOR DEFINITELY be having us cum Everytime believe that. That whole not orgasming thing Is a relic from when women felt they had to lie to be considered desirable and innocent like a virgin which is still a THING ....so yeah because of the virgin Madonna complex and the fact society shames women yeah we still have to feel like we gotta say a low number or act inexperienced to a degree to save a man's ego because y'all low key looking for experienced virgins. Also please check the study where 73% of lesbians have penetrative sex with men secretly. They not doing that at those numbers with no orgasm involved I'll tell you that.
Note to women. I was nervous as HELL with one girl in particular and my shit wasn't working right, I apologized, and she said "no don't apologize it's okay i understand 😊 we don't have to do anything right now" and damn that boosted my confidence and eased my nerves and stuff started working IMMEDIATELY 🤣 he may just be real nervous, just take his mind off things and be supportive, not an asshole about it, and things will work out naturally
Weird as hell but one thing that always worked for me was simply naked cuddling, seriously. If I care about a girl and we cuddle naked I've had the weirdest hardest longest most sensitive boners just casually cuddling before going to town. And then I've had times when she was already dripping from a bit of dirty talk and she just bend over and wanted me to smash and absolutely nothing happened on my side, I was standing behind her looking at her puckering asshole and dripping roastbeef sandwich and my buddy just went "Nah"
@@TwiztedHarlequin Because when you actually get to KNOW a person and feel comfortable around them its a different ball game. Its not weird at all we live in a society that makes it seem like that not jumping right to sex is strange.
The fact of the matter is, if you ain't 18 anymore, it takes more than just a naked woman to get you into it. It takes some emotional intimacy, and the woman wanting it, and not going through the motions. Sex is reciprocal, and both partners need to be in the moment. Men aren't as divorced from intimacy as society leads women to believe.
"Men aren't as divorced from intimacy as society leads women to believe. " This is true, however it should be stated that society leads men to disassociate from intimacy also. And the issue isn't JUST social messaging, if there were any sure fire way of causing a person to sexually disassociate from intimacy it would be pornography; don't get me wrong, I'm not anti-porn per-say, but continuous exposure to porn through the course of puberty absolutely cannot be healthy for boys (who are almost all exposed to porn) or girls.
True! I think young women are led to believe that being sexually attractive is the main thing that will keep a man, due to the myth that men are sexual fiends, always looking for the shiniest prettiest thing they can get. So it’s Bred a generation of very insecure girls that are obsessed with plastic surgery, thinking if only they were better looking the guy would like them. In reality while looks are important for both genders, it’s not what creates a long lasting successful relationship, and a move away from our narcissistic looks-based Instagram society would serve everyone really well
@@lancewalker2595 The biggest problem is that it's taboo for dudes to talk about this stuff as it's historically been portrayed as a sign of weakness and 'failure' as a man. No dudes want to be branded with that image so a lot of dudes just don't talk about it and internalise it, which is never healthy.
@@lancewalker2595 I watched a good amount of porn during puberty, though I never had a thought of just wanting to have sex as much as possible, I've always wanted it to be with someone I love and care for. Another thing is that people in relationships send nudes to eachother. They can go ahead and do that. But when I watch porn I just get off and forget, sex is a whole different deal, there's an emotional connection. So I don't care for someone I love sending nudes, cause then it feels like they're just jerk off material instead of being more intimate....those are just my opinions.
Well, I'm 22 and a virgin so honestly this helps as I'm just going to start talking to more girls outside of my workplace (majority of the staff are women). Been on only two or three dates in my life. One kiss. Because of my parents sheltering me, I'm nervous and my mind wanders making interacting with females a bigger deal sometimes. Typed that to say, don't restrict your children in interacting with others. Bring them around strangers often and don't give them the talk when they're almost seventeen. Teach them how sex works and to be responsible. Time to get rid of this fear.
Don’t rush it… best advice I can give you, is find the person you can be 100% yourself with and feel comfortable around…someone you see a future with…. It’ll make sex more pleasurable once you get there. Im 30 and married for 7 years. I only slept with one other guy besides my husband and sex is much more pleasurable that way
I am still a virgin about to 25, I wanted to loose it so glad I did not do it at that time with one of my ex boyfriend. I advice especially virgin women to be comfortable and feel secure so you dont feel regret.
Find your ebb and flow. For some men, women approaching them is what they like (you approach particular women, ones that you feel you should at least try), some men like to chase . Its so easy to get caught up in the red pill and trying to make sense of your reality. You have options. Always remember that. Most people are shy. So sometimes, just a comment that "implies" a response , helps a person** to come out and feel like interacting. Its like a nudge, and has the person of interest like..."Oh ,you are talking to me ?" Its kinda on the spot but, naturally, a person will respond and they know innately they can refuse a convo, or keep it going. Just depends on how comfortable you are in yourself... if you prefer more of the person be interested intelectually, you are going to carry that convo into some interests you and them may have in common.... and so on. Those convos will either mend a seed of relationship or, at the very least, you interacted with a stranger today. At no mental exhaustion, at no cost. Just a simple... delicate (somewhat fascinating in its simplicity) interaction. That you forget softly, but low key cant wait for the next one
Don't rush it. Your Virginity is not an accessory that you have to get rid of because it's a nuisance . It'll happen Naturally. And you will cum quickly, but that's alright it's normal. For right now do your home work learn the best positions for your size, Nina Hartley has great How to videos.
I agree with the first dude. You can be so attracted to someone but when it gets to that point when it's time to do some things, the arousal just isn't there. It may come at a later date or it may never come. But you should never make someone feel away about it
My husband and I are great communicators in the bedroom. He always tries to get me to finish up but I will tell him straight up if I'm not going to get there. I'd be like, "honey, my head is in a million different places so take care of yourself and finish up. Don't worry about me today, it's no big deal. As long as one of us gets there it's awesome
I try doing this with my man but he cant enjoy sex if he feels like im not enjoying it.. but sometimes women can enjoy sex and still not cum, its not a big deal
When abba said “once i hit 30 it starts taking a backseat”, reminds me of what Dr Peterson said about criminals or violent men start straightening up after the age 27 due to the drop in hormonal activity levels, probably same thing when it comes to sex.
As a woman, I shaved my head once (Buzz for Kids) and MY GOD! I never knew...guys are lucky. That breezy feeling is incredible. The shower hitting my baldy for the first time... 😩 Sheeesh
I started shaving my head a few months ago & I'm not sure I'll ever get sick of that feeling. I always thought scalps didn't feel that much when I had hair. I was balding so I didn't have much of a choice, but after feeling all these new sensations on my head I couldn't dream of going back lol. The wind through your hair feels nice, but over your scalp it's an entirely different thing! Also, thanks for giving your hair to charity. Some women can rock the bald look (especially African women I think), so props!
Lol a I was just watching a video a few days ago of some dude I guess gettin his head waxed, they got to peeling the wax off I was like damn I bet that shit felt great when that air first got under there. I've only had short enough hair like that maybe twice after some botched hair cuts.
Do not let size shake your confidence. My husband is smaller than my exes and he’s infinitely better than they could ever wish to be. He’s the only person who has ever been able to make me finish. I would not change a single thing about him. Porn is all bs and is meant to make us all feel inferior.
Let me tell you about how size does not matter… I’m a LAYDEEEE and my ex had a rather large “member”. I mean our male roommate saw his wiener one time and literally exclaimed “Damn!” But in the 3.5 years of our relationship I never came and maybe reached orgasm twice. I don’t think it was all his fault (I was on the Depo shot and my vagina was as dry as the Sahara desert), but he also did not know how to “work it”. I felt like I hated sex. But my current boyfriend!!! He has a rather nice 👍 Charles Dickens but it’s definitely not as big as my ex boyfriend’s. However, in our 4 years of relationship he has managed to make me cum and reach orgasm almost every intercourse. I didn’t even know if I was able to do either! He made me actually enjoy sex. And he helped me find my kinky side which I didn’t think was even possible for me. So! What have we learned??? Size absolutely does not matter.
When preach made the car analogy I thought aba was gonna cut him off with saying some shit like “so what ur saying is that driving a car is like sex cause the only way to get better is to practice with parents” 😂😂😂
ED is such a difficult topic. I personally have dealt with it for years due to having an addiction to pornography. Still a virgin at 25 too because of having the anxiety due to my addiction and because of my addiction, haven't been able to be attracted to women in that way. Am reaching a month of recovery and have never been more confident about my recovery
@@ShoaibKhan-bz5qm Definitely man. If you haven't already, i recommend speaking with a therapist. I started speaking with one in January and it is by far one of the best decisions i've ever made. While I definitely do feel the struggles still, it is a lot less than what it was before
Aba is the only one that I cant bring myself to skip past the in video ad cuz you can tell he has fun with it instead of just reading script like most.
One thing I love when I watch these two speak is seeing their views change a little for each situation. Is good too see there are people left in the world that understand every situation is unique and needs to be examined individually and not part of a generic collective.
When my boyfriend and I first met and we had secks for the first time. He could not get hard. He was so embarrassed and nervous. Granted, I was a little too after it kept on happening, because our relationship started on very confusing terms. But I was very supportive and told him "it's ok, maybe you're nervous. we can do other things". He said I was his first sex experience with someone he genuinely liked, and I guess that is what brought a lot of pressure. Needless to say, it all was gone after 1-2 months. We grew closer to each other, became better friends, and we are gonna have our anniversary this month. wootwoot.
I look at not being able to get it up just like not being able to get wet, even with stimulation for both. People shouldn't shame others when their bodies aren't responsive. It just happens.
Problem is men get performance anxiety and can't get hard. Women do not have this problem when women get nervous about sex its very brief They be entitled . Women simply just be naked you have no other working parts than getting naked or wet and ya get wet easily with foreplay. When men are depressed and haven't had sex in a long time their libido level goes down dus increases performance anxiety n can't get it up. It just takes time... I went through it ' had terrible relationships ' my x cheated on me with multiple men when she got a new job dumped me on my birthday 🎂 and came back one month after and lie about getting raped... This was in 2020 .. the girl I dated after made it about her when I couldn't get it up.. I was still depressed 😔 it was trauma But ofcourse women always make it about themselves
@@kuja5809 well, I get there are things that can bring on performance anxiety. I think a lot of women don't take it personally, and they are nice about it. I had one person who had this issue. I was never mean about it. I didn't take it personally, at first. But, after it happened on a regular basis, and him saying he had never had this issue with anyone else, I ended up taking it very personally (how would I not?). Really, if it's something you have to happen more than 3 or 4 times In a row, it's something to seek help for, because even the most confident and logical woman is going to start wondering if it is a problem where you aren't attracted to her. No woman will stay long with a man she believes is disappointed in her looks. I almost broke up with the guy who I dated with this issue (not because of the lack of sex), because I didn't want to date a man who found me physically repulsive.
It can be unresponsive but also a sign of a medical complication and even a sign something is wrong in the mental health department. 😥People view mourning and depression as something straight forward and they aren't. They can come at any time and without notice. Years ago when I had a bf, he suffered greatly in depression and being tired all of the time, that made our sex life a nightmare. His physical health didn't help either. I think being with him has taught me that men can be quite similar to women when it comes to sex, but society wants to air brush it out. He actually lashed out on me one time, because I was trying to cheer him up. I didn't took it personally, because I know how complex depression, stress and anxiety can be. But would be nice that he acknowledges what he was going through so he can fix it and be better. He wasn't always like that... only the last three years of our relationship he grew bitter and angry with everyone and everything. In the US, we don't take mental health seriously, especially with the mental heath of men. I think a lot of men either response violently or refer to die in silence. Very depressing situation.
Is he OK now If not try to recommend that he gets professional help Also have u tried telling him to check if his depressed like maybe he can go to a phsycologist coz if he lashes out the wrong way it could get ugly
The way I've always thought about it is, I can give myself an orgasm whenever I want. I need a partner for sex. So when doing it, feeling good and having fun is my only priority. Being brought to orgasm is optional, even undesired if he's hyperfocused on it. Of course other women are different. The lesson is simple for men and women, communicate with your partners and don't assume we're all the same. Like, I've been with some guys who assumed any woman would want a man to go down on her. Personally, no, not at all.
FACT. I actually think men orgasm more easily because they try to resist it and last longer, and women might orgasm with more difficulty because they are so desperate to achieve it (and their partner also get frustrated if they make it about their ego, that's also stressful and a Presser ). So i definitely agree, don't focus on orgasm but focus on doing whatever you enjoy, that's all.
Omg, where have you been all my life?? I have a hard combination to crack so I tell guys, don't even worry about it, I just want to have fun. Like you said, I can get there by myself, but I need a partner for sex. And I don't care about a guy going down on me either: most aren't good at it or they are just doing it to make sure they get a bj, that's not an enjoyable situation. It's been a journey getting guys to just chill out and enjoy some play time.
@@eg4514 Yes! You can't force it and frantically try to make it happen. I'm fine with it, I know I might need time to feel completely at ease and comfortable, it might take a few times. The guy has no right to be frustrated and have a bruised ego, when I'm totally fine with it and have explained😂
I'm 24, F. I've recently lost my virginity and in short, it wasn't what I hoped it would be like. 12:20 is exactly what happened. We both made it too important and I felt the pressure, this made me block myself and just get tired. I still have hope for better experience. Thank you so much for this!!
And that's why you wait till marriage and with the person you know you're stating with. You basically just ruined your first experience and on top of that I doubt you're even still with that person or will be soon enough and you gave your virginity to him.
I always care if she finishes but it's kinda selfish. So many women I've dealt with had selfish lovers so when they finish with me, I get called back for more sessions. I like to go down first, if she climaxes there, it takes the pressure off and makes the rest of the session more fun. I can get mine on command so I'm not worried about me... I'm looking to make an impression and get that returning customer.
@@ericachan452most men do, it’s a misconception, especially men get older, what’s crazy is guys who openly don’t do anything but straight pump, it’s logically unreasonable. It’s incredibly hard to get anywhere without stimulating the clit.,
The saying men would hit anything is a myth. I tried to break some off for a chubby friend once and my soldier would not salute. I wasn't embarrassed that I couldn't get up but I felt bad that she knew my body said "No, I don't want too"!
If dudes would hit anything then wouldn't more dudes be fucking dudes? You know? Maybe the horny desperate ones stand out the most and that is where the myth comes from.
Just cause it doesn’t apply to you doesn’t mean it’s a myth lol the majority of men will hit anything. I mean think About it SSBBW exists as a porn category there isn’t that category for men lol. If I drop off a 400 pound girl off in front of Home Depot in front of all the workers guaranteed one of them will smash.versus if a drop a 400 pound dude off in front of a beauty salon he ain’t gettin no play.
Bro Preach I feel you my head fucking huge when I have to spar in boxing training they had to look through like all their headgear to find one that fits me then it’s still tight as fuck.
For me I dont think about sex unless there is a girl that I really like. It like almost never crosses my mind unless I wanna do it with a specific someone
Not getting up done saved me on multiple occasions after finding out a month or so later the person slept with someone else and getting a std or somebody getting pregnant. It’s like if you don’t get up there’s a reason and your Peter is telling you something that you don’t know
@@jdkingsley6543 simple, you can’t get any at all if you don’t get hard for the person. So that 100% eliminates you impregnating somebody or catching something since you couldn’t enter in the first place due to not being able to get hard. Simple logic really. And protection is very much viable but what good is protection if there’s nothing to protect because again, you can’t get hard for that specific person
Guys - When you have made a significant effort to get her there and she looks at you and says it's ok and she wants you to come, please don't argue with her and keep trying. Just listen 🙂
Sex is such a beautiful thing with the right person. My first time was AMAZING and it was with my first bf who had experience , was patient and sensual. Not saying all sex should / needs to be like this but it's all about communication and sex with someone whose willing to respect you and your boundaries. That goes vice versa too
My first time was over quick I had no idea what I was doing. I was 14 and she was late 20s maybe early 30s. Its been 40 years now so I don't remember the age. It was the live in babysitter that took care of us 4 kids. I was the oldest. I just know it was like wow...Ooops what just happened. 10 seconds later :)
I really felt for my man talking about not being able to get it up. There was times when I thought there was something seriously wrong with me. I’d be with a super sexy woman and just thinking “Why the fuck won’t it stay up?” This actually affected my last relationship very badly. I had to take medications for my insulin level for about two months and I had an impossible time keeping an erection because of it. She literally walked out one time when I had a hard time staying hard. Then she told me she felt unattractive because of it and I was making her feel awful and shit. The only thing I could think was “How the fuck you think I feel?”
It's worse for the woman because she thinks you can't stay up because she's ugly, fat, or bad in bed. Women don't usually blame the man and think it's their fault.
*"You gotta feel it again as a grown man, it's a different thing. Cause Now you've paid your taxes , you're a contributing member of society ,, so when the breeze touches you ... You're just like , 'I earned that'"* 💀
I'm 32, so at this age, I dont really think about it a whole lot. Very seldom if I do, I have too many demons to worry about sex atm. Between the divorce, my absolute disgusting of a soon to be ex wife. Her finding every reason to keep our daughter from me, me focusing on saving for a lawyer so I'm sacrificing good food for PB sandwiches and water for lunch and dinner. And going to the gym when I am not working to focus on me and improving my body and health to be in my daughter's life for as long as possible. Sex just doesn't come up that much. I dont need to focus on that kind of stuff because I'm a 32 year old male with an acceptable physique, 6'5, and not bad looking at all. The women will come, and with that, the sex will too.
@@Alecexo i think she's lashing out because she now knows im completely over her, have been for a while now. So she is using our child to torture me. Little does she know that i actually went to the courthouse to ask for a child pickup form, i have it with me now and im halfway through with it. Ill be submitting it next week so i can have our daughter sometime in the next coming weeks so i can have my time with her, and more importantly her time with me.
@@DarthProlif if it’s any help to motivation, my mom tried the same thing with my dad when they divorced last year. Except I was older so she tricked me into being against him with her. I now live with him and I’m 10x more happy with him than I am her. Just make sure you give your kids all your love and effort and you’ll always end up on top. Good luck
Ayo my man I know anything I say wont change your situation but my parents went through shit like this too. I wish you the best of luck my man, hope you can see your kid as soon as possible
Level 2 - When you buy a can of coke and it gets shaken up in the backpack and once you're home you finally feel like having a drink and you pull the tap.
Yeah the older you get the less of a priority it becomes and more picky you become with your partners. When younger I would tolerate craziness. Not anymore.
12:25 that’s facts , had that happen, took the fun out of it for a moment , now we back in it having fun , still making my shawty go crazy and shit even got better. You gotta make sure your woman feel safe , make her comfortable , let her know shit okay if things don’t go right, I swear makes that sex so much better
Being raised in a strict religious house I agree sex education was something I had to learn on my own, it was not taught at home. When I was in school there was no sex ed classes. Sex ed was basically fumbling around on your own to try and figure it out. I wish we had been better informed. Trying to figure this stuff out on your own or with the guys stunk!
Y'all forgot about level 3 when u become paralyzed from the waist down and empty all fluid like substances from your body immediately while being transported into the 4th dimension. Requires multiple sessions and/or enhancers.
It took me literally 6 months with my partner to be able to relax enough to have an orgasm. This is why casual sex sucks so much for me. Sex only gets good once we know how to do all the things for each other!
Oh god I feel ya, hate it. Especially when I didn't bother for a few weeks and then a new high quality tentacle rape / corruption eroge comes out and I'm super hyped and then on the very first scene that comes up and I basically just finished lubing my junk up and gave it 1 or 2 rubs and BOOM! and I'm sitting there going "Wait....what?!" the dissapointment is real man.
Level -1 is when you have sex with a girl ons and you like disassociate or regret. Like damm why did I do that. It happened to me. I call it getting pulled out the matrix machine with an abrupt unplugging.
I’m pretty sure I have it now I internalized “you can’t please anyone no matter what you do so why even bother?” and I haven’t gotten an erection in a little over 2 days now. Unfortunately this is the worst time for me to have this problem because now I have a “gf” who does not like this situation at all
@@marlom7882 That's a pretty bad internalisation. I hope you'll get out of that mindset eventually. Not because it's important to think you need to please people but because when you surround yourself with people like you, pleasing them just comes through being yourself. If this is specifically about pleasing a woman sexually, similarly to what I said above, if you date women who're pleased with you as a person and not too insecure about themselves, the pleasure will come naturally.
yeah ED is such a difficult topic. i've dealt with it foe a while due to a pornography addiction. That can mess up. I'm in recovery now and reaching a month of recovery, so im on way back to normal
I actually appreciate how honest these folks were. I shared alot of similarities and it's classic human behavior to be appeased by knowing you're not alone
Okay possibly an unpopular experience here: I do not always want to orgasm. I know women are supposed to be able to have multiple orgasms, BUT THIS IS NOT USUALLY THE CASE for me. It is wayyyy sensitive after. Orgasms are exhausting a lot of the time and sometimes a nice “penetration only”, or whatever to call it, sesh is great!
I thought it was just me, an orgasm feels good but not a necessity all the time. Most of the time after an orgasm i am just so uninterested so yeah a good penetration and him cumming is all i want
@@arthillis315 it would be nice to have a specific episode about it because yeah I wouldn't even be able to tell you which videos they've mentioned it lol
Good point bringing up the difference in sex drive after 30, It seems like for guys we only have half the drive we did in our 20s and for women it doubles. Its a totally different dating dynamic, that I'm still getting used to.
Jordan peterson brings that point up in different context when being told how the difference between men and women is only societal, he points out for example violent males start at a young age of they are not properly socialised, as young as 4 and they only stop on average after they hit 27 because a big drop in hormonal activity happens, which i think also affects sexual activity.
This was absolutely the best video i have seen from you guys, ever minute passed and I couldnt control my laughter. Then the tickling the bum hole came in and I started crying. Keep it up you guys, love it
"I'm just happy to be here, thanks for having me" is one of the funniest things y'all said on this video 😅 im sure all of us have been there before with a girl we thought was out of our league
The feeling Aba described having after shaving his head is how I felt the first few times I shaved my legs. I finally have something to reference when explaining the feeling! Haha
I believe in communicating what you want and what makes you feel good to get you to the finish line. This has worked for me 99% of the time. He had to head down south the other 1%!!!😀 You two had me bellyache laughing through this entire video!
Can we finally stop this myth that most women can’t orgasm coz it’s just not true 😂
We said "don't orgasm", not cant. And this is specifically from intercourse. Vast majority of women dont orgasm from just intercourse. Clit stim is a must.
www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/all-about-sex/201602/why-so-many-women-don-t-have-orgasms
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5087699/
@@AbaNPreach the fact that you use an article to correct an actual woman when she's right. Women would not be giving up sex like they do if we didn't enjoy or orgasm. It depends on the guy but the ones we go the craziest FOR DEFINITELY be having us cum Everytime believe that. That whole not orgasming thing Is a relic from when women felt they had to lie to be considered desirable and innocent like a virgin which is still a THING ....so yeah because of the virgin Madonna complex and the fact society shames women yeah we still have to feel like we gotta say a low number or act inexperienced to a degree to save a man's ego because y'all low key looking for experienced virgins. Also please check the study where 73% of lesbians have penetrative sex with men secretly. They not doing that at those numbers with no orgasm involved I'll tell you that.
@@P03ticJustice one woman can't speak for all women
also, he didn't say they can't but require specific stimuli, at least read the comment bruh
@@kildeathy And you know he damn sure didn’t read the article lol
The exception can't speak for the majority.
Aba is speaking facts & facts don't care about your feelings. 👀
Note to women. I was nervous as HELL with one girl in particular and my shit wasn't working right, I apologized, and she said "no don't apologize it's okay i understand 😊 we don't have to do anything right now" and damn that boosted my confidence and eased my nerves and stuff started working IMMEDIATELY 🤣 he may just be real nervous, just take his mind off things and be supportive, not an asshole about it, and things will work out naturally
Natural! Love it!!
Weird as hell but one thing that always worked for me was simply naked cuddling, seriously. If I care about a girl and we cuddle naked I've had the weirdest hardest longest most sensitive boners just casually cuddling before going to town. And then I've had times when she was already dripping from a bit of dirty talk and she just bend over and wanted me to smash and absolutely nothing happened on my side, I was standing behind her looking at her puckering asshole and dripping roastbeef sandwich and my buddy just went "Nah"
Complete opposite for me. She shamed the hell out of me! 😂 She wasn't mature about it at all!
Question did you marry her??
@@TwiztedHarlequin Because when you actually get to KNOW a person and feel comfortable around them its a different ball game. Its not weird at all we live in a society that makes it seem like that not jumping right to sex is strange.
“I was premature and I was 8 pounds. My momma stopped bleeding last week.”
😂 Lmao I wasn’t ready 🤣
Can relate lmaoo
@@joshuaodjick5087 - same, but my helmets are about a XL to XXL size compared to Preach’s XXXXXXL helmet!!!
me either! lol
same with his mother
Preach's facial expressions to weird shit Aba says is one of the best things of your videos 😂
😂 yup!
I think it’s top tier. Makes me laugh 😂
@Anonymus X Who pissed in your cereal today...? Good God it's a simple typo.
Omg yes 😂😂😂
Abba has the biggest head.....therefore he is megamind, you can't convince me otherwise
The fact of the matter is, if you ain't 18 anymore, it takes more than just a naked woman to get you into it. It takes some emotional intimacy, and the woman wanting it, and not going through the motions. Sex is reciprocal, and both partners need to be in the moment.
Men aren't as divorced from intimacy as society leads women to believe.
"Men aren't as divorced from intimacy as society leads women to believe. "
This is true, however it should be stated that society leads men to disassociate from intimacy also. And the issue isn't JUST social messaging, if there were any sure fire way of causing a person to sexually disassociate from intimacy it would be pornography; don't get me wrong, I'm not anti-porn per-say, but continuous exposure to porn through the course of puberty absolutely cannot be healthy for boys (who are almost all exposed to porn) or girls.
True! I think young women are led to believe that being sexually attractive is the main thing that will keep a man, due to the myth that men are sexual fiends, always looking for the shiniest prettiest thing they can get. So it’s Bred a generation of very insecure girls that are obsessed with plastic surgery, thinking if only they were better looking the guy would like them. In reality while looks are important for both genders, it’s not what creates a long lasting successful relationship, and a move away from our narcissistic looks-based Instagram society would serve everyone really well
@@lancewalker2595 The biggest problem is that it's taboo for dudes to talk about this stuff as it's historically been portrayed as a sign of weakness and 'failure' as a man. No dudes want to be branded with that image so a lot of dudes just don't talk about it and internalise it, which is never healthy.
@@lancewalker2595 I watched a good amount of porn during puberty, though I never had a thought of just wanting to have sex as much as possible, I've always wanted it to be with someone I love and care for.
Another thing is that people in relationships send nudes to eachother. They can go ahead and do that. But when I watch porn I just get off and forget, sex is a whole different deal, there's an emotional connection.
So I don't care for someone I love sending nudes, cause then it feels like they're just jerk off material instead of being more intimate....those are just my opinions.
I’d agree except for myself it was after 30.
Before that I could hump a 🍈
Well, I'm 22 and a virgin so honestly this helps as I'm just going to start talking to more girls outside of my workplace (majority of the staff are women).
Been on only two or three dates in my life. One kiss. Because of my parents sheltering me, I'm nervous and my mind wanders making interacting with females a bigger deal sometimes.
Typed that to say, don't restrict your children in interacting with others. Bring them around strangers often and don't give them the talk when they're almost seventeen. Teach them how sex works and to be responsible.
Time to get rid of this fear.
Don’t rush it… best advice I can give you, is find the person you can be 100% yourself with and feel comfortable around…someone you see a future with…. It’ll make sex more pleasurable once you get there. Im 30 and married for 7 years. I only slept with one other guy besides my husband and sex is much more pleasurable that way
Thank you for writing this, because the sheltering did a lot more bad for me then it was supposed to be good.
I am still a virgin about to 25, I wanted to loose it so glad I did not do it at that time with one of my ex boyfriend. I advice especially virgin women to be comfortable and feel secure so you dont feel regret.
Find your ebb and flow. For some men, women approaching them is what they like (you approach particular women, ones that you feel you should at least try), some men like to chase . Its so easy to get caught up in the red pill and trying to make sense of your reality. You have options. Always remember that. Most people are shy. So sometimes, just a comment that "implies" a response , helps a person** to come out and feel like interacting. Its like a nudge, and has the person of interest like..."Oh ,you are talking to me ?" Its kinda on the spot but, naturally, a person will respond and they know innately they can refuse a convo, or keep it going. Just depends on how comfortable you are in yourself... if you prefer more of the person be interested intelectually, you are going to carry that convo into some interests you and them may have in common.... and so on. Those convos will either mend a seed of relationship or, at the very least, you interacted with a stranger today. At no mental exhaustion, at no cost. Just a simple... delicate (somewhat fascinating in its simplicity) interaction. That you forget softly, but low key cant wait for the next one
Don't rush it. Your Virginity is not an accessory that you have to get rid of because it's a nuisance . It'll happen Naturally. And you will cum quickly, but that's alright it's normal. For right now do your home work learn the best positions for your size, Nina Hartley has great How to videos.
To be in Aba and Preach's Channel... "I'm just glad to be here"
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Same 🫂☺
Are you actually in the video ? Cause that would be pretty dope haha .
@@justinbaker2184 he is, he's the guy that has a whole suit ready
“Yo wind stop playing” should be on a shirt best inside joke 😂😂😂
I never buy merch but would definitely buy that!
😂😂
On a hat
Even "biology" 🤣
“The floor has spoken”
Gotta love the fact Aba said “I got touched by chris breezy” and when preach said “I’m superhead” - aba says “pause” 🤣🤣🙃
😂😂😂
That facial expression was priceless😂😂😂
bro that
“how is it?”
“i’m just happy to be here” has me fucking dead LMFAOOO
I agree with the first dude. You can be so attracted to someone but when it gets to that point when it's time to do some things, the arousal just isn't there. It may come at a later date or it may never come. But you should never make someone feel away about it
Aba: “I got touched by chris breezy”
Preach: 😳
that made me laugh so hard
😂😂😂
I burst out laughing at that too
@Tshego Mogodi play play
Christina
Yeah Aba, Preach and the Floor are back.
The floor never left it only played us saying they'd never be filmin again
Amen to that! 🙌🏽
I really missed the floor.
This floor 💯
@@yog-sherkoth1782 i believed it lol
0:55 *“This man dressed like he joined the Nation of Islam”* why is that so accurate🤣💀💀
Aba not lying dude got on that Elijah Mohammad bow tie🤣💀💀(He drippin lowkey ngl)
"EXCUSE ME BROTHA DO U HAVE A MOMENT TO SAVE YOUR SOUL WITH GOD?!"
"BEAN PIE, MY BROTHA?"
@@bobbybaklava9605 *Allah
@@sirslimez2465 what is Allah in the Muslim faith?
My husband and I are great communicators in the bedroom. He always tries to get me to finish up but I will tell him straight up if I'm not going to get there. I'd be like, "honey, my head is in a million different places so take care of yourself and finish up. Don't worry about me today, it's no big deal. As long as one of us gets there it's awesome
Communication is key. Many happy and fulfilling years to both of you ♥️
I try doing this with my man but he cant enjoy sex if he feels like im not enjoying it.. but sometimes women can enjoy sex and still not cum, its not a big deal
When abba said “once i hit 30 it starts taking a backseat”, reminds me of what Dr Peterson said about criminals or violent men start straightening up after the age 27 due to the drop in hormonal activity levels, probably same thing when it comes to sex.
Oh yeah. It's testosterone. I'm 42 and I had a testosterone shot. I felt like 20 again. 😁
As a woman, I shaved my head once (Buzz for Kids) and MY GOD! I never knew...guys are lucky. That breezy feeling is incredible. The shower hitting my baldy for the first time... 😩 Sheeesh
I started shaving my head a few months ago & I'm not sure I'll ever get sick of that feeling. I always thought scalps didn't feel that much when I had hair.
I was balding so I didn't have much of a choice, but after feeling all these new sensations on my head I couldn't dream of going back lol. The wind through your hair feels nice, but over your scalp it's an entirely different thing!
Also, thanks for giving your hair to charity. Some women can rock the bald look (especially African women I think), so props!
I'm a dude and used to have long hair. Kinda wish I had it back sometimes but short hair just feels so good and easy to maintain
Stop I can’t stop thinking about how nice it would feel to shave my head
Lol a I was just watching a video a few days ago of some dude I guess gettin his head waxed, they got to peeling the wax off I was like damn I bet that shit felt great when that air first got under there. I've only had short enough hair like that maybe twice after some botched hair cuts.
I cut my hair recently and it’s so much easier to manage and style!
I've always been told about my head being huge. My family would have me wear their hats to stretch it out.
Noooo 😭😭😭
😂
Ahahhahah
Loool
Bro I cant wear most beenies my heads so big the ones I can wear is hella streached out
Aba: “yeah every dude has watched a porno and said ‘yo I’m packin but I ain’t packin like that.” No Aba. Some of us just say we ain’t packin 😔
Do not let size shake your confidence. My husband is smaller than my exes and he’s infinitely better than they could ever wish to be. He’s the only person who has ever been able to make me finish. I would not change a single thing about him. Porn is all bs and is meant to make us all feel inferior.
It ain't what you got, bro, it's what you do with it.
Work on your squats and glute bridges so you can give her the deepest 1" she's ever felt bro
Big sword doesn't mean strong.
Some of the deadliest to people out here are carrying knives.
Let me tell you about how size does not matter… I’m a LAYDEEEE and my ex had a rather large “member”. I mean our male roommate saw his wiener one time and literally exclaimed “Damn!” But in the 3.5 years of our relationship I never came and maybe reached orgasm twice. I don’t think it was all his fault (I was on the Depo shot and my vagina was as dry as the Sahara desert), but he also did not know how to “work it”. I felt like I hated sex.
But my current boyfriend!!! He has a rather nice 👍 Charles Dickens but it’s definitely not as big as my ex boyfriend’s. However, in our 4 years of relationship he has managed to make me cum and reach orgasm almost every intercourse. I didn’t even know if I was able to do either! He made me actually enjoy sex. And he helped me find my kinky side which I didn’t think was even possible for me. So! What have we learned??? Size absolutely does not matter.
Mom: Did you give our son the sex talk?
Dad: Yes.
5 minutes earlier
Dad to son: SEX. IS. AWESOME.
Son: *slaps her mom's ass*
Mom: "What are you doing, step-son?!"
@@sebswede9005 hahah best comment
@@sebswede9005 😂😂
Yep. That just about sums things up from the male perspective.
@@sebswede9005 Whoah...
“I’m just happy to be here” 😂😂😂 truest words ever 😂😂😂
"Sex is like a gun: you aim, you shoot, you run."
-Aerosmith
Good one 😂
😳😂😂😂😂😂😂
When preach made the car analogy I thought aba was gonna cut him off with saying some shit like “so what ur saying is that driving a car is like sex cause the only way to get better is to practice with parents” 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Lol i can't with you but good assumption i would've die laughing if he said that!
i-
😂😂😂
bro 😂😂😂
"Gawk Gawk... yeah not my thing" 🤣
Took me tf out😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
ED is such a difficult topic. I personally have dealt with it for years due to having an addiction to pornography. Still a virgin at 25 too because of having the anxiety due to my addiction and because of my addiction, haven't been able to be attracted to women in that way. Am reaching a month of recovery and have never been more confident about my recovery
yea its a massive issue recovering from it myself - struggles come and go
@@ShoaibKhan-bz5qm Definitely man. If you haven't already, i recommend speaking with a therapist. I started speaking with one in January and it is by far one of the best decisions i've ever made. While I definitely do feel the struggles still, it is a lot less than what it was before
Pinnacle of Man is a good channel
“just because we’re in a position to lead, doesn’t mean we know how”
ABA is actually doing a cosplay of the main character from "wonder egg priority"
Lmao I just started watching it this morning ✌😂
🤣🤣🤣 I haven't watched that show yet but I've seen the trailer, it's in my never ending backlog of anime to watch
Ai and preach
TEARS!!!!!!
Oh yeeeaaaahhhh this comment made me notice that
Aba is the only one that I cant bring myself to skip past the in video ad cuz you can tell he has fun with it instead of just reading script like most.
yeah but you can tell he don’t wanna sell that sh*t bruh.
the way he says Blue makes me uncomfortable lol
@@user-gr3nz7ii7s Bloo Chu... LUL
@@LastdayB4Tomorrow blue, bloo..... blotato, blotato
B A R S
One thing I love when I watch these two speak is seeing their views change a little for each situation. Is good too see there are people left in the world that understand every situation is unique and needs to be examined individually and not part of a generic collective.
When my boyfriend and I first met and we had secks for the first time. He could not get hard. He was so embarrassed and nervous. Granted, I was a little too after it kept on happening, because our relationship started on very confusing terms. But I was very supportive and told him "it's ok, maybe you're nervous. we can do other things". He said I was his first sex experience with someone he genuinely liked, and I guess that is what brought a lot of pressure. Needless to say, it all was gone after 1-2 months. We grew closer to each other, became better friends, and we are gonna have our anniversary this month. wootwoot.
Did you guys break up yet?
@Michael Williams lmaooo
I just found this vid and ur comment and dying. 😂😂
I am also invested and now curious how they doing hahahha
@@VioletIsBulletproofy'all some hating ass niggas 😭
I look at not being able to get it up just like not being able to get wet, even with stimulation for both.
People shouldn't shame others when their bodies aren't responsive. It just happens.
Well said and very true.
Problem is men get performance anxiety and can't get hard. Women do not have this problem when women get nervous about sex its very brief
They be entitled .
Women simply just be naked you have no other working parts than getting naked or wet and ya get wet easily with foreplay.
When men are depressed and haven't had sex in a long time their libido level goes down dus increases performance anxiety n can't get it up. It just takes time...
I went through it ' had terrible relationships ' my x cheated on me with multiple men when she got a new job dumped me on my birthday 🎂 and came back one month after and lie about getting raped...
This was in 2020 .. the girl I dated after made it about her when I couldn't get it up.. I was still depressed 😔 it was trauma
But ofcourse women always make it about themselves
@@kuja5809 well, I get there are things that can bring on performance anxiety. I think a lot of women don't take it personally, and they are nice about it. I had one person who had this issue. I was never mean about it. I didn't take it personally, at first. But, after it happened on a regular basis, and him saying he had never had this issue with anyone else, I ended up taking it very personally (how would I not?). Really, if it's something you have to happen more than 3 or 4 times In a row, it's something to seek help for, because even the most confident and logical woman is going to start wondering if it is a problem where you aren't attracted to her. No woman will stay long with a man she believes is disappointed in her looks. I almost broke up with the guy who I dated with this issue (not because of the lack of sex), because I didn't want to date a man who found me physically repulsive.
It can be unresponsive but also a sign of a medical complication and even a sign something is wrong in the mental health department. 😥People view mourning and depression as something straight forward and they aren't. They can come at any time and without notice. Years ago when I had a bf, he suffered greatly in depression and being tired all of the time, that made our sex life a nightmare. His physical health didn't help either. I think being with him has taught me that men can be quite similar to women when it comes to sex, but society wants to air brush it out. He actually lashed out on me one time, because I was trying to cheer him up. I didn't took it personally, because I know how complex depression, stress and anxiety can be. But would be nice that he acknowledges what he was going through so he can fix it and be better. He wasn't always like that... only the last three years of our relationship he grew bitter and angry with everyone and everything. In the US, we don't take mental health seriously, especially with the mental heath of men. I think a lot of men either response violently or refer to die in silence. Very depressing situation.
Is he OK now
If not try to recommend that he gets professional help
Also have u tried telling him to check if his depressed like maybe he can go to a phsycologist coz if he lashes out the wrong way it could get ugly
The way I've always thought about it is, I can give myself an orgasm whenever I want. I need a partner for sex. So when doing it, feeling good and having fun is my only priority. Being brought to orgasm is optional, even undesired if he's hyperfocused on it. Of course other women are different. The lesson is simple for men and women, communicate with your partners and don't assume we're all the same. Like, I've been with some guys who assumed any woman would want a man to go down on her. Personally, no, not at all.
Amen 🙌
FACT. I actually think men orgasm more easily because they try to resist it and last longer, and women might orgasm with more difficulty because they are so desperate to achieve it (and their partner also get frustrated if they make it about their ego, that's also stressful and a Presser ). So i definitely agree, don't focus on orgasm but focus on doing whatever you enjoy, that's all.
right! this is the reason foreplay is my fave part of sex imo
Omg, where have you been all my life?? I have a hard combination to crack so I tell guys, don't even worry about it, I just want to have fun. Like you said, I can get there by myself, but I need a partner for sex.
And I don't care about a guy going down on me either: most aren't good at it or they are just doing it to make sure they get a bj, that's not an enjoyable situation. It's been a journey getting guys to just chill out and enjoy some play time.
@@eg4514 Yes! You can't force it and frantically try to make it happen. I'm fine with it, I know I might need time to feel completely at ease and comfortable, it might take a few times. The guy has no right to be frustrated and have a bruised ego, when I'm totally fine with it and have explained😂
That face when he said chris breezy lol😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣💀
I caught that only sus😂😂😂😂
I'm 24, F. I've recently lost my virginity and in short, it wasn't what I hoped it would be like. 12:20 is exactly what happened. We both made it too important and I felt the pressure, this made me block myself and just get tired.
I still have hope for better experience.
Thank you so much for this!!
And that's why you wait till marriage and with the person you know you're stating with. You basically just ruined your first experience and on top of that I doubt you're even still with that person or will be soon enough and you gave your virginity to him.
Even though my parents are religious, they did a reasonably good job of educating me and my siblings, for some reason our talks weren't awkward
This is exactly what kids need to learn from parents. To all the parents: JUST! FUCKIN'! TALK! TO! YOUR! GODDAMN! KIDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lucky you.. my parents never did that 😒 my sister told me when I was maybe 16 or 17
@@lazydaisy4453 😔 that's so not fair
@@tigress_4393 but still I love my parents ❤️
“My man dressed like he trying to be a Virgin again. Like he’s a member of the NOI.”🤣🤣
I always care if she finishes but it's kinda selfish. So many women I've dealt with had selfish lovers so when they finish with me, I get called back for more sessions.
I like to go down first, if she climaxes there, it takes the pressure off and makes the rest of the session more fun. I can get mine on command so I'm not worried about me... I'm looking to make an impression and get that returning customer.
"Returning customer" 😂😂😂
Lmao your restaurant must be packed, love the honesty.
Exactly my man. I always use to get my ex off going down on her and then during intercourse. It’s always funnier when you can get them off.
Oh how I wish more men thought like that! :)
@@ericachan452most men do, it’s a misconception, especially men get older, what’s crazy is guys who openly don’t do anything but straight pump, it’s logically unreasonable. It’s incredibly hard to get anywhere without stimulating the clit.,
The man said: my momma stopped bleeding last week😂😂
that was hilarious
2:15 YO WIND STOP PLAYIN 😂😂😂
The saying men would hit anything is a myth. I tried to break some off for a chubby friend once and my soldier would not salute. I wasn't embarrassed that I couldn't get up but I felt bad that she knew my body said "No, I don't want too"!
If dudes would hit anything then wouldn't more dudes be fucking dudes? You know? Maybe the horny desperate ones stand out the most and that is where the myth comes from.
Just cause it doesn’t apply to you doesn’t mean it’s a myth lol the majority of men will hit anything. I mean think About it SSBBW exists as a porn category there isn’t that category for men lol. If I drop off a 400 pound girl off in front of Home Depot in front of all the workers guaranteed one of them will smash.versus if a drop a 400 pound dude off in front of a beauty salon he ain’t gettin no play.
Bro Preach I feel you my head fucking huge when I have to spar in boxing training they had to look through like all their headgear to find one that fits me then it’s still tight as fuck.
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Wtf 💯 my expierence
Bro swear to god this happened to me just yesterday 😭
you need to purchase your own lol
I’m crying 😂😂
For me I dont think about sex unless there is a girl that I really like. It like almost never crosses my mind unless I wanna do it with a specific someone
Not getting up done saved me on multiple occasions after finding out a month or so later the person slept with someone else and getting a std or somebody getting pregnant. It’s like if you don’t get up there’s a reason and your Peter is telling you something that you don’t know
What does not getting has to do with either? Lmao. Protection?
@@jdkingsley6543 simple, you can’t get any at all if you don’t get hard for the person. So that 100% eliminates you impregnating somebody or catching something since you couldn’t enter in the first place due to not being able to get hard. Simple logic really. And protection is very much viable but what good is protection if there’s nothing to protect because again, you can’t get hard for that specific person
@@jhopkins803 you should be using rubbers you implied your recklessness more than anything lmao
@@jdkingsley6543 lmao, if that’s what you think or in this case should I say feel because it’s obvious you’re not coming from logic
Wait, what? Would a condom not have saved that?
Guys - When you have made a significant effort to get her there and she looks at you and says it's ok and she wants you to come, please don't argue with her and keep trying. Just listen 🙂
Sex is such a beautiful thing with the right person. My first time was AMAZING and it was with my first bf who had experience , was patient and sensual.
Not saying all sex should / needs to be like this but it's all about communication and sex with someone whose willing to respect you and your boundaries. That goes vice versa too
My first time was over quick I had no idea what I was doing. I was 14 and she was late 20s maybe early 30s. Its been 40 years now so I don't remember the age. It was the live in babysitter that took care of us 4 kids. I was the oldest. I just know it was like wow...Ooops what just happened. 10 seconds later :)
@@Gunnerb52 So you got raped?
I miss the consistent uploads but the rare uploads makes me appreciate the vids more lol
I’ve been binging y’all’s videos all night great to see a new one to see
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I friggin love this show
They are just real. ! Love it too!
"I'm just happy to be here" is gonna be my go-to phrase.
Wind touches Aba’s head:
Aba: What are you doing step-wind
I really felt for my man talking about not being able to get it up. There was times when I thought there was something seriously wrong with me. I’d be with a super sexy woman and just thinking “Why the fuck won’t it stay up?” This actually affected my last relationship very badly. I had to take medications for my insulin level for about two months and I had an impossible time keeping an erection because of it. She literally walked out one time when I had a hard time staying hard. Then she told me she felt unattractive because of it and I was making her feel awful and shit. The only thing I could think was “How the fuck you think I feel?”
It's worse for the woman because she thinks you can't stay up because she's ugly, fat, or bad in bed. Women don't usually blame the man and think it's their fault.
This is a prime example of what got me to love this channel
"Have you ever questioned your sexuality?"
To quote Aba in a previous video:
"Let me get this STRAIGHT..."
*"You gotta feel it again as a grown man, it's a different thing. Cause Now you've paid your taxes , you're a contributing member of society ,, so when the breeze touches you ... You're just like , 'I earned that'"* 💀
I'm 32, so at this age, I dont really think about it a whole lot. Very seldom if I do, I have too many demons to worry about sex atm. Between the divorce, my absolute disgusting of a soon to be ex wife. Her finding every reason to keep our daughter from me, me focusing on saving for a lawyer so I'm sacrificing good food for PB sandwiches and water for lunch and dinner. And going to the gym when I am not working to focus on me and improving my body and health to be in my daughter's life for as long as possible. Sex just doesn't come up that much.
I dont need to focus on that kind of stuff because I'm a 32 year old male with an acceptable physique, 6'5, and not bad looking at all. The women will come, and with that, the sex will too.
@@punani_slayer4209 you okay there?
I’m so sorry about your situation with your wife, I hope things get better for you with your children
@@Alecexo i think she's lashing out because she now knows im completely over her, have been for a while now. So she is using our child to torture me. Little does she know that i actually went to the courthouse to ask for a child pickup form, i have it with me now and im halfway through with it. Ill be submitting it next week so i can have our daughter sometime in the next coming weeks so i can have my time with her, and more importantly her time with me.
@@DarthProlif if it’s any help to motivation, my mom tried the same thing with my dad when they divorced last year. Except I was older so she tricked me into being against him with her. I now live with him and I’m 10x more happy with him than I am her. Just make sure you give your kids all your love and effort and you’ll always end up on top. Good luck
Ayo my man I know anything I say wont change your situation but my parents went through shit like this too. I wish you the best of luck my man, hope you can see your kid as soon as possible
Level 2 - Legs week, palms sweaty, mom's spagetti
Level 2 - When you buy a can of coke and it gets shaken up in the backpack and once you're home you finally feel like having a drink and you pull the tap.
That’s level 2? Then what’s level 3?
@@fmjjjjn7510 Ever seen a firefighter loosing his grip on the hose? Yeah, that.
Preach was on another level this video!😂
Yeah he was on one lmao
As long as the person feels safe with you while so vulnerable, things should be pretty good.
Yeah the older you get the less of a priority it becomes and more picky you become with your partners. When younger I would tolerate craziness. Not anymore.
I kind of stopped at around 19-20
12:25 that’s facts , had that happen, took the fun out of it for a moment , now we back in it having fun , still making my shawty go crazy and shit even got better.
You gotta make sure your woman feel safe , make her comfortable , let her know shit okay if things don’t go right, I swear makes that sex so much better
Jubilee finds some "happy" straight guys...
ikr...
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Facts lols 😂
Nothing Straight about some of those guys. The Asian guy said he Kissed a Man or 2
@@General_Klytus yeah he’s deffo low-key bi at least (and this is coming from a women lol)
Being raised in a strict religious house I agree sex education was something I had to learn on my own, it was not taught at home. When I was in school there was no sex ed classes. Sex ed was basically fumbling around on your own to try and figure it out. I wish we had been better informed. Trying to figure this stuff out on your own or with the guys stunk!
Y'all forgot about level 3 when u become paralyzed from the waist down and empty all fluid like substances from your body immediately while being transported into the 4th dimension.
Requires multiple sessions and/or enhancers.
I’d just like to take a moment to acknowledge Preach’s dope ass tats! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Dope-ass tatts....not to be confused with ass tatts that are super dope 🤣
I love you guys content here’s me at my age thinking I understood men but here you two are educating a “mature” woman. Thanks ☺️
This Aba's BlueChew ad gets me everytime.
How is $ex like for men?? It's like how you feel when you chew 5 gum. 👀
*STIMULATE YOUR SENSES.*
How it chews to gum five feels
So it’s like when you when you eat a York peppermint patty
YOU TASTE THE SENSATION 🧊
@@willz3344 how chews gum it to feels five
@@willz3344 You deer to kill a kings dare?! I'll pay for this!
😂😂😂😂😂
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Tf is that? I'm a trini and never heard of it
@@supernovasavage2734 lool, I just found out about it like last week too 🤣
@@supernovasavage2734 First time I ever heard of that shit and I'm Haitian😂
why’s the french flag there?
Panama here
I LOVE Aba expression on things, he is so articulate and informative.
2:32 I am struggling to breathe 🤣
It took me literally 6 months with my partner to be able to relax enough to have an orgasm. This is why casual sex sucks so much for me. Sex only gets good once we know how to do all the things for each other!
the worst is a level 0 when you fkd up when trying to edge
Just last week man 😔
Oh god I feel ya, hate it. Especially when I didn't bother for a few weeks and then a new high quality tentacle rape / corruption eroge comes out and I'm super hyped and then on the very first scene that comes up and I basically just finished lubing my junk up and gave it 1 or 2 rubs and BOOM! and I'm sitting there going "Wait....what?!" the dissapointment is real man.
Level -1 is when you have sex with a girl ons and you like disassociate or regret. Like damm why did I do that. It happened to me. I call it getting pulled out the matrix machine with an abrupt unplugging.
right in the beard
@@TwiztedHarlequin You could have just said hentai bruh, now we gotchu in 4k
Facts I’m just happy to be here 😂😂😂
Like donkey in Shrek “that’s a nice Boulder” 🤣🤣🙂
ED is such a complicated topic, not the least because temporary/circumstantial has the same name as longterm.
I’m pretty sure I have it now I internalized “you can’t please anyone no matter what you do so why even bother?” and I haven’t gotten an erection in a little over 2 days now. Unfortunately this is the worst time for me to have this problem because now I have a “gf” who does not like this situation at all
@@marlom7882
That's a pretty bad internalisation. I hope you'll get out of that mindset eventually. Not because it's important to think you need to please people but because when you surround yourself with people like you, pleasing them just comes through being yourself.
If this is specifically about pleasing a woman sexually, similarly to what I said above, if you date women who're pleased with you as a person and not too insecure about themselves, the pleasure will come naturally.
yeah ED is such a difficult topic. i've dealt with it foe a while due to a pornography addiction. That can mess up. I'm in recovery now and reaching a month of recovery, so im on way back to normal
@@paulmoore5392 That's great, man. Glad you're in a better place :)
I actually appreciate how honest these folks were.
I shared alot of similarities and it's classic human behavior to be appeased by knowing you're not alone
2:27 Preach face after he said he got touched by Chris Breezy. I am done
Full record stop can be heard 😂
Preach has some really dope sleeve tatts
Im with preach. They should make a womans perspective on these types of questions. Good episode, great review.
Great episode. Love being able to talk about our problems as men. Makes me feel less alone.
That mechanics analogy was perfect, "just because you know the mechanics doesn't mean you'll know how to drive"
Okay possibly an unpopular experience here: I do not always want to orgasm. I know women are supposed to be able to have multiple orgasms, BUT THIS IS NOT USUALLY THE CASE for me. It is wayyyy sensitive after. Orgasms are exhausting a lot of the time and sometimes a nice “penetration only”, or whatever to call it, sesh is great!
I thought it was just me, an orgasm feels good but not a necessity all the time. Most of the time after an orgasm i am just so uninterested so yeah a good penetration and him cumming is all i want
Y’all been killing the outro songs
Damn straight!! Love it!!
2:21 mother nature turns into mommy nature
I want an episode on the history of Aba and Preach.
They've spoken about it in parts throughout different episodes
@@herenow4550 yeah I just thought about it when Preach said he was in the cadets. I wanna know more without being intrusive.
@@arthillis315 it would be nice to have a specific episode about it because yeah I wouldn't even be able to tell you which videos they've mentioned it lol
At 3:10, I too am part of the *Big Head Crew* , snapbacks snap in half. I just learned to live through others.
“The priest touches you it’s like I earned that”-had me dying dude lol
Not all the time. But Persistently.
Whenever I notice I'm NOT thinking about sex.
Good point bringing up the difference in sex drive after 30, It seems like for guys we only have half the drive we did in our 20s and for women it doubles. Its a totally different dating dynamic, that I'm still getting used to.
Jordan peterson brings that point up in different context when being told how the difference between men and women is only societal, he points out for example violent males start at a young age of they are not properly socialised, as young as 4 and they only stop on average after they hit 27 because a big drop in hormonal activity happens, which i think also affects sexual activity.
This was absolutely the best video i have seen from you guys, ever minute passed and I couldnt control my laughter. Then the tickling the bum hole came in and I started crying. Keep it up you guys, love it
As a woman-A & P are giving good advice.
"I'm just happy to be here, thanks for having me" is one of the funniest things y'all said on this video 😅 im sure all of us have been there before with a girl we thought was out of our league
Aye we here early dawg
What abt the topic?
@@Dfs_Chop We're so early we haven't even seen the video..
Gonna drop this here for the memories
Here before Chris Breezy Touch me
Who else is still waiting for the Aba & Preach and Jubilee collaboration? 😂
"I'm just happy to be here!"
Think I said that once!
The mighty jungle bit made me absolutely lose it and then Aba's indifference made it more funny 😂
The feeling Aba described having after shaving his head is how I felt the first few times I shaved my legs. I finally have something to reference when explaining the feeling! Haha
Man this has been one of the funniest vids in a min on this channel. The boys are backkk
Me and my homies always in the lab doing "research"
Pause
Hopefully not in the lab at the same time...
And you are just happy to be there
So... this is what a circle jerk is, huh. A sausage fest amongst the bros.
I believe in communicating what you want and what makes you feel good to get you to the finish line. This has worked for me 99% of the time. He had to head down south the other 1%!!!😀 You two had me bellyache laughing through this entire video!
The guy said, "I did my due diligence ".... I'm dead😂