I told my boss her husband wanted me, she ruined my life instead of helping me Part 1 | Tuko Talks
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- I told my boss her husband wanted me, she ruined my life instead of helping me Part 1 | Tuko Talks
Would you believe your house help if she told you your husband was making suggestive moves on her? Unfortunately, when Topista Auma Ouma approached her boss, she termed her a liar saying her husband would never fall for a dirty woman like Topista.
Years later, Topista is suffering the consequences of another woman not believing in her and the fact that she was only 15 when her life was ruined by a grown man is the most painful part of this story. She also reveals her evil actions towards her employer's children because of how frustrated she was on this Part 1 episode of Tuko Talks as brought to you by Lynn Ngugi
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One thing I like about ladies including my wife is that they don't know how to fake emotions, if it's crying time they do,if it's laughing they do. God bless all women.
Mimi naficha emotions ile mbaya. My dad died 2015, never did I shade any tears,siku hizi 2021 ndio nalia. I realized that it's good always to allow your emotions to take control if incase you are hurt,kama nikulia wewe lia,kama nikucheka wewe cheka, big up to all the ladies
Zote ni dawa
Ur the best may God take ur dad's place in ur heart sir.
Thats us ladies
Men too cry bro.
Amen 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Everyone who reads this praying that may God fulfill the desires of your heart🙏❤️
Absolutely amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
Soo natural emotions, when she is narrating a sad episode she cries naturally and a moment later she is laughing narrating a happy episode of her life. I like her positive energy.....funny and happy girl regardless all she has gone through...wonderful heart and very natural 👍
I know this lady....we use to share our stories tunalia alafu tunarudi tunacheka (aka mama Laura na Ramsey) thank God nimepata nambaako... Lynn ubarikiwe sana
Waaaaa
I don't know why people despise house managers and the fact that she told her the truth that makes her a hero.
That's why we choose to keep quiet, because you don't know how the wife will react
Sooo sad friend
@@doreenkariuki so sad friend
@@Shirustash thenx God is with us
And housemanager is the one who should be the most respected for christ sake they are entrusted with everything in the household
“MAISHA ILUKUWA LONDON” - this girl’s story telling is amazing. “NITAPIGA DUSTER”, “NITAPIKA KWA STOVE”… I already love this girl.
I tell you
Everyone just wants to be understood and Lynn does that to many people...May God bless her abundantly
Thank you🙏
Lynn is great
I really love you Lynn. The way you host your program. God bless you
Amen bless her
Infact you need to confront your husband and not the lady because she has been honest to me
Pride yenye Hawa wadoss wanakuwanga nayo can't let them
Those who are watching this story , hope you see what needy children go in the hands of the people we trust them with ,in the name of relatives or friends😥😥
And also people who are watching this they should learn to traet others equall not and well so they can look after your kids well
@@Beingme2024 true
@@Beingme2024 TRUE!
True
Very true, I feel this story for all needy girls
When I told my colleagues am quitting school to dedicate more time to TUKO videos, I knew I was not alone. Now see, before I finish typing this, we shall be having more than 10 comments.
Pipo sleep here 😂😂😂
Waa
Hahahahah funny u
It's very painful story but this is why house helper can sex with their boss and ladies never knew it
Wewe rudi shule🤣🤣🤣
I hate poverty with passion , may God hold us through 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Judith Flonsia Emotsi. I hope I am spelling that right. She was born in Vihiga and gave birth to twins. If anyone knows this lady please reach out to me. She was our house manager growing up. We all loved her so much but we lost contact & her family too.
😭😭😭everyday I get to hear stories that are really painful and every time I tell myself am blessed,I have stopped complaining,😭😭😭for sure I would have given up😭😭She's strong we may never understand her pain but through her we get to thank God for our life 🙏🏾
True, ndio najiambia sina story aki
Indeed too am blessed❤
When you mistreat yr house helper your children will pay for yr sins ,pple let's treat our house help with respect .
exactly
Kabisaa
Very true
Yes
Ladies go through a lot in hands of employers. But God knows our heart's intentions and He fights such battles for us. Pole sana dada..
Very true 😊
Totally true
Aki izi kazi za hao ziko na challenges sana,
This lady is crying 18 years later. She must have gone through so much. Her pain is so deep she needs counselling. Woi may God be her strength
Imagn ...she is crying like it just happened yesterday...I feel her pain
she needs counselling that wound of hurt is raw
I believe just opening up & finally being heard & believed is a healing power for her..... To be able to laugh & show her joy & silly sweet personality shows her healing is happening..... I know she could touch so many young girls lives with her story.... She is so easy to listen to...... She has heart of a warrior & def not a victim but a survivor❤️❤️❤️❤️. As a abuse survivor This touched me more than anything has in long time.....I needed this today!
Let her repent, seek forgiveness from the boss if she still alive.
Tears is part of healing
One thing my mom always showed me growing up is love your house manager bc that’s the one you leave your children with. My sister & I still remember all the names of our house managers growing up bc they were treated like family. We loved them and they loved us.
God bless your mother
Aki she's a strong woman. She's gone through hell and been broken up severally but she was strong enough to pick her remaining pieces and became who she's now . mwanamke bomba ❤👊
He he, there's power in silence. One day she'll wish she was careful with her words
@@jamesmasibili6492 wtf?
@@jamesmasibili6492 Why would you say that? Are you the husband who made a pass at her? 😉
@@czarinaczar Some things we utter out of anger and bitterness that we later on come to regret bana
That woman could have confronted her hubby and thank God this one was able to tell her the truth😲 she's the fool here .
A very stupid wife she was. The girl had acted respectfully. I would not judge her for mistreating the children since she was also a child and depressed for what the husband was putting her through. What's wrong with this men. He had a wife and still defiled this girl many times. God have mercy on her
@@beatricewanjiku8454 you're right. She was young and innocent🙏😥
The woman contributed to this lady's trauma and even mated emotional abuse upon this lady by insulting her instead of listening and paying consideration to her complaints.
Am trying to think maybe she was not educated or even exposed too and she maybe have thought men only sleep with clean ladies
I love that she realised what she did was wrong.
Yes true
Girls u will not lack anything in Jesus name
Realised??? She had no way out
As a mother I don’t condone anyone mistreating a child but we should also look at this girls pain and what she went through, without anyone counseling her she instead past her all her pains to the kids, she doesn’t need any punishment but counseling and help is all she needs.
Waaah 🤔
Oh Lord, this lady is in pain. Can people learn to treat everyone equal
From South Africa. Your story broke my heart and made me realize how hard it is to be an African girl child. Even though boy children suffer too, your story is really sad. May God guide your life and that of your children. Thank you for your forgiving heart. Lynn, may God bless you. You are not only doing this for Kenyans but for the whole of Africa!
No
Poverty is the worst demon ever! This is so sad
True
True💯
Worst of all and we rebuke that spirit in the Name of JESUS.
For real
True poverty is not funny 😭
She is such a good storyteller, may God grant her healing
I don't really understand the language.
What is the story about
Translate for me pliz
I pity you 😒
She is good in Swahili. Luhyas are
She's hurting a lot and needs counseling... please Lynn some tissues... some of these interviews are so emotional 😭😭😭😭
To all the ears that have listened to this story, God bless you and your family.
The house helps should be respected once you live the house and the kids back in the house with her she can do anything but if you treat her as one of your family the kids will be on the safe side Lynn thanks alot I will never stop thanking you,
Children are innocent angels. Sorry Dobister for the trouble you underwent. May God remember mercy
This is sad mostly the fact that she was a minor then.May our good Lord grant her some peace of mind and soul😍
This woman is strong may God intervine in you're life
The pain of being defiled while being a minor and not having anyone to listen and talk to you NEVER heals...
The worst pain of all😥😥😥
This has made me hate men,defilement while still a minor ruins everything... It hurts me to date and I wonder whether I will ever open up to tell my story...it's 22years down the line
@@akeyoakumu4714 you really need to open up for your healing dia
It hasn't been easy at all,in fact depression is real
Raping a wounded girl. No mercy at all. That's a beast.
Good job Lynn for highlighting her story.
Ladies let’s normalize talking to these housegals and understanding them,some of them go through a lot!Its wrong to mistreat them ,you’d rather let them go.She looks like a good person she just has a lot of pain;May God give her the grace.
My heart breaks for her but she must know she's a Strong woman n God will Neva let her down. She must Neva give up Proud of you girl Love you..South Africa
😭😭
This should be an eye opener,, let's treat our house managers well coz we're entrusting them with our kids who are more valuable
Exactly. I wonder why pple treat them like nothing's
Exactly
Always makesure your house help is happy... Especially when u have kids.... For if they want even finish the whole family they can...ishi vizuri.. Pia na kila mtu duniani.
One thing I swore, never to mistreat the lady who cares my children!!
Be blessed 😭
This is extremely heartbreaking. God heal you
Oh my God this woman has gone through hell in her life that she still bitter about what happened to her. It's the right thing that you have done girl talking about your past so you can move on from the past and start a new chapter without a load on your back. You needed counseling after the sexual abuse by your former boss and the loss of your baby. You were very young yourself to go through what you went through. You are strong girl I don't know if I would be able to be where you are now. One day I called a department of finance and the woman could tell I had something heavy on my chest and she started talking to me about talking to someone about my past so I can move on. I told her how my ex husband used to abuse me physically and emotionally and I just found myself sobbing 😭😭😭. She gave me the number to call. After speaking to her I felt really better. So I encourage people who have something eating them to talk to a professional counselor not a friend or neighbour because you need know where it will end up
Treat everyone equally no matter where they come from 🤗especially those whom you leave your kids with ❤️
True no one knows of tomorrow and it does'nt hurt to be nice.
True
True...i always treat them like my kids or sisters and many see me as crazy
She did wrong to revenge on the kids, though u were hurt but u were wicked. I lost my son in the name of a maid whom we used to treat well
@@faithbuyakane1735 true..some of them are so wicked and have hidden bitterness no matter how well you treat them
I hope someone can offer her some counseling. She really needs it. This poor woman has been through alot.
I nominate her ajengewe nyumba na optiven
Good idea how much are you donating 😃??
POVERTY IS SO BAD, BRETHREN LETS ARISE ABOVE ALL STANDARDS TO HELP OUR YOUNG ONES. HII STORI IS SO TOUCHING TO ME.
Please provide serviettes or soft tissues for all your guests. Tuko stories are emotional most times even a handkerchief is never enough to hold the tears.
I can't agree any further, VELVET should put more meaningful adverts like bringing them here.
Sure
I certainly agree, I was thinking the same thing.
😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
This is so painful. Lynn, can someone help this girl get justice? I don't think it's too late for that 😭
Trauma begets Trauma, especially where there is no support. It is always unfortunate. The pain that she was going through must have been too great for a lot of us here to understand. This is a case of perpetual rape/sexual abuse which has mental effects. It is indeed sad that the child had to suffer as a result too
If you're watching this and you have a house girl just learn. Treat them well they are the best. Mistreat them and see the worse
This is true
Imagine Kama Kuna mwenye nilifanyia job time ya kutoka alijukua picha yangu akaiweka kwa gate ati nilimpiga mtoto wake ,na saa iyo akunilipa pesa nyangu yote...mama zoey mungu anakuona na vle ulisema nilimpiga mtoto wako,sasa ndio utapata wakumpiga vzuri
Thise are some of the stories that makes me never to complain in life, God am greatful
Watching this episode like.... 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂Yani unalia at the same tyme unacheka... May God see you through gal., you have been through alooot
😂😂😂found myself doing the same
Almighty God, please restore this girl to great heights. May her enemies eat from the crumbs from her table.
This boss ladies wako funny sana!! Instead of investigating the matter or confronting the husband unakimbia kutusi housegirl!! I thought this things happenes in Arab nations only!!.... Pole mumy
This woman has got sense of humour,she is indeed lively 😍
Respect these ladies,they carry a lot of blessings due to their LONG SUFFERING.
I repeat,These ladies carry most of your BLESSINGS or CURSES to your children depending on how you treat them.
Well said
This story is so sad. Taking advantage of the poor is the worst thing ever.
I think there's a name given to someone you vent to, you cry with them and laugh with them. Lynn is a professional listener she puts herself in your shoes.
This beautiful young lady Tospica is sharp, transparent, funny and resilient! - Prayers going up!
She was betrayed by the society, by her family, by her employers. People who she looked up to for protection and help. She has alot childhood trauma to heal.
The problem with women if u tell them what their husbands do to u they don't believe,,, if u don't tell them they will always complain saying that u are a home breaker😭😭,,, dying in silent pain
Very true sometimes we choose silence coz we don't want to be judged 😭
Women, we are our biggest enemies. We fight over men who dnt even care about us. I will never fight a fellow woman over a man even if I know my husband is right. No man is worth it.
True
@@LolaBugzy85 ushasema
@@LolaBugzy85 True!!
It's only in lyn's show you can cry and laugh at the same episode.
All i can say is , May God forgive us men and may He show us His mercies...N for men reading this, may you be the best thing that ever happened to your wife and kids......
kuna men ambao wana heshima so wote ni beast
Thanks Lyn for giving an ear to such traumatised people in the society.
I can't believe the kids are living alone..really hurts. May Elshadai's presence be ever on them. The "father" will pay in the appointed time.
Thats why some people prefer to withhold the truth coz when you tel them the truth they even accuse of mang things.Lynn is our big sister and a blessing to many
P
Lynn you are amazing soul you listen to people without judging and everyone needs to be listened and understood kudos my dear ❤️❤️for the lady she is a strong woman she has passed alot of fire may the Lord grant her desires of her heart.
I don't know how wife's trust their hubby, and yet u know u're not raised together 🤔🤔🤔
Hawa vijana wa farao😔😔
Lakini kulipisha kisasi kwa mtoto sio poa kabisa hata kama umekosewa sivizuri kabisa hata kama uongei na mamake mtoto kuchukia mtoto mathambi tuu
Stupidity coz a man u just find with a set of teeth then u trust him like your own child me I can't trust a man but my kids more coz I carried them in my stomach for nine months,breastfed them,watched them move their first steps,their sweet smiles,watched them grow but not a man
@@emmamombo7149 mtu huumwa kwa moyo, c kupenda
Wanjinga dio wanaamini husband zao hiyo
This is really sad. Even in poverty a parent should protect her child. Poverty is not permanent but the scars of sexual abuse are permanent.
very true
I love how she narrates her painful story such a lovely character ❤️
mi .2
Lynn is the best your listening skills are just on the other level
True me i would cry throughout
She's a good listener!
God bless her with her family 🙏
AMEN
Ameen yarabb
Amen
I am really moved by this story. Topista should open a RUclips channel to enlighten people on advocating for domestic workers
Topisca sasa tutalia na tucheke at the same time..😂😭😂😂😭
Story ya Kupika na stove thou 😂😂
Hakuna kitu mbaya hii dunia kama umaskini....may God deliver us from this thing called poverty 🙏
It is well with you anyway 🙏🙏
Amen poverty ishindwe.
I don't support punishing kids but in this life never be a reason people change and do the worse there is no way you will treat someone like this and expect them to be the same we bring out monsters from good human beings people revenge targeting the weakest point
True
True,,,
Very well said
It's Painful for Sure 😭
😆😆 hapo ya kutafutana ndiyo ni mecheka kabisa
Treat a person the way you want to be treated.
She’s a good narrator indeed....may God keep on healing her from the past🦋
Gai. People are hurting out here. Wish we had more shows like this so that our people can heal
Pain can really create bitterness to a good person and it can change them into real beast😥😭 I can understand her , poor kids 🙏
True
The pain inside the heart of this lady, only God can wipe it away 😭😭😭
I love this lady. She's a true story teller. Film makers make this story a movie! Please mention me also in the movie 👌👌
Nàkuona......
This is one of the real life story I have listened to for a while, I have cried!
I feel for all girl-kind, I mean all women who face untold stories which are scary!
It's my prayer to respect all women- kind no matter what, our little girls, our sisters, our wives and all our mothers and all humanity!
It is good to cry, yes let her cry now!
Men, let us stop this bizarre habit of molesting girls. Stop violence. Let us be good human beings!
Thanks for acknowledging, and yes, let us all be kind to humanity... We do not know what any person has been through.
@@sarahkawala I appreciate you big!
Well said,God bless you brother
@@sandymerlin9641 I appreciate highly and be blessed too!
I have cried a lot. This world is so cruel .so painful.
She needs Therapy instantly so that she can be ok ...the bitterness is still Fresh
True
Yes
My fifth year as a house keeper and I can truly relate and understand you 💖.....it is not easy taking care of another woman's responsibilities
But you being paid for that responsibility camon what is needed there is respect from both side and also treating you like a human being
Then u should have worked hard school and have your own company. But since u failed u just work as a maid
@@melishakendra4092 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@melishakendra4092 Such an ignorant comment 😐
@@melishakendra4092 we hope you're very rich and you have masters degrees what a demon Talk
I hope that wife and the husband are watching this.They should feel sorry for themselves and what they did to this young soul.
U can be sure they'll get hundreds of share links from pple who know them. What a shame for Pple's filthy secrets to be exposed to the whole world by a hse girl. The best Karma.
Unfortunately people like that don’t care, they are probably watching this and abusing another 15yr old
This gal was failed by everyone around her but the mother betrayed her most. As a mother you have to protect ur kid no matter the situation.
We have the wicked people in this world. God protect your people aki
The husband will not be ashamed. He will only pretend to have done nothing wrong.
Tuko you need to have tissues to give the guys who come on the show. Lynn to issue the guest on the show.
Iam a househelp and i have worked for ten years in one roof,and i respect my job and those who have employed me I respect them and iam taking good care of their children.first rule when i came to that house i said to myself when i see the man of the house where i work towards me i run 🏃♂️ or plan B leave the job .
atiii yu run dia yu are making my noon
@@monicamwaush5119 sura ya kazi kwanza hakuna kucheza na mwenye najua sio mpenzi wangu,i came for a job period.
@@amblessed3577 yeah that is mahali nafanya father of the house he is on America alipewa number yangu na caretaker ... sasa huwa ananipigia kuniambia atii ananipenda namwambia hapa sikuja kupendwa nilikuja kazi
@@monicamwaush5119 muambie hutaki kuenda prison kwa ajili ya kuua he will fear you
By then she was a kid 15yrs u can't compere ur self with her.
That boss was a boss from hell😭😭
Holier than thou,wanashinda wakisema hawamuonei huruma juu alipeleka hasira kwa watoto,si pia yeye alikuwa mtoto?.... mcheeeew........
Mwakimbia kucomment ,yet hizi ni vitu pia nyinyi hufanya🙄
😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑
2wrongs don't make a right. An eye for an eye leaves everyone blind
Sure man is to error
Waaaah!! I really thank God i came out of such safe..
Am so sorry Siz, Trust in God you'll heal those broken wounds. it shall be well darling. Smile and be happy always 😍😍😍😍
I just feel sorry for what has happened to her but to revenge it to the kids is not okay. I can understand because she was also a child herself wen she did that.
What the hell
Nah that's karma..what if there is no God to revenge for her and if there is she won't see it happening..rah shut up please
This should be an eye opener to all mother and father who have children and to those who are expecting children. Thanks she realised she did rong and she did it because she was a child, also she came from a confused and violent family family. Right now may be there is children suffering from abusers who are adult. This girl is honest and she has good heart ❤️
She is very articulate
😂😂😂😂😂Leo nimechoka yangu yote, Ata mimi nitapika na stove, Habari ndio hiyo
God will make a way for us and give us what we desire
Amen
Thanks Lynn for listening to her...If there is any person l respect is my house manager...why mistreat someone telling u something...
It's too painful for her till now, may God give her peace
Love your Neibour as you love yourself, A simple context but VERY hard to fulfill
Sometimes you can go through so much pain,to a point you ask yourself if you were born to suffer😪😪..
😢😢May God grant you peace mama.... And remove all the bitterness you feel inside.
Illiteracy is also the key factor that contributed to her predicament. It is a good idea for parents to give their children a good education and training. More so to guide them and even be role models for them.
Maybe but also childhood trauma, her parents abused her I.e she’s was being abused and her mother asked her accept it. That’s an indication her childhood was less than ideal, there was no foundation!
Western education doesn't mean wisdom.
@@dotdots7868 kabisaa…
@@dotdots7868 😂they are even very stupid..they can't name 2 countries they know they say even cities are countries ..
Well that education causes money unless the government says free education and and free health care so the poor can get that opportunity..
Topista you are so funny.. It is amazing how strong you still are despite all that you have gone through. God will open success doors for you. May you find happiness and joy and love.. May God dry your tears ❤️
Very painful God have mercy on us in this journey of life sometimes we need to pray for each other and be faithful to God