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Hey from the USA! Your plant is a draceana marginata, basically a succulent. Your pot is much to large for the amount of root you have. Smaller pot is advisable. Add shale or pulmice or perlite in soil mix it in and a litte grit. Put it in more light and water only when dry. I have a landscape business in south texas , we all are very familiar with cactus, agave and succulents
Get a plastic jug with a lid, fill it with water, let it sit for at least 24 hours. Then use that water for the plants. The chlorine in the tip water is not good for plants. You might have to get a packet of root stimulator. You might even need to pull the plant out of the dirt again and sanitize it. It's a trial and error situation.
RESCUE TIP for the plant: my gran was a florist, she told me to give them tea: strong dark tea (let it go cold). For two weeks, a cup every few days. No extra water. Also leave a few tea leaves from making the tea on the soil. (No milk with the tea, obviously 😉). And make sure there's no water left in the outer/overflow white pot. She will be back thriving!
I always put some medium sized stones on the bottom of plant pots so that the roots don't sit in damp soil. Gives the roots a bit of air circulation and depending in the plants, some vermiculite to lighten the soil.
😢 sorry about the house I was so looking forward to it but there is really no point to “force” it. It’s wise to let it go and save more. Love the chill vibe and hope the 🪴 survives!
I love normal day run around Joel, you never know what’s coming next! 🙂 Hair does grow quicker in the summer, sweating is supposedly also one of the reasons why. So sorry about the house, but it means you’ll find an even better one in the future! And I love when you do plant related things, cause I love all my plants! 🥰
water the plant less, let go dry a bit between waterings perhaps. it will do much better now that it's in a pot with drainage. plants don't want to sit in a pot without drainage and you'll see her improve quite bit now!! :) cheers
I like how you let us in on how you are really feeling with no sugar coating things! That level of reality is rare on RUclips! Kudos to you and Keegan!!
When you buy a new pot get one with a drainage holes in the bottom and place a saucer under it or get one with an attached saucer. PLANTS NEED DRAINAGE. A lack of drainage can lead to lots of problems, including root rot, mildew, and stagnant stinky putrid water. The roots need oxygen and the accumulated water causes the pores in he soil to be filled and then the roots start to die. The pot it is already in is already plenty big enough, but it does need re-potting and the soil looks boggy. If you want to save money drill a couple holes in the bottom of the existing pot with an electric drill. Go to the garden store and get some good quality potting soil to replace the old. Re-potting a plant does not hurt it if done carefully.
Sorry to hear about the house, it's all in the timing I believe. Make sure to update us on how your plant does in its new pot, hopefully she survives. ❤
That's disappointing about the house. It might be worth asking the estate agent to let the sellers know what you could offer right now. They may not accept it but if they still have the house in 6 months they may well come back to you, stranger things can happen. I hope you reach 100k subs soon, you really deserve it, your vlogs are so much more relatable than a lot of others I've seen. Love to Fen and Ava the two teddy heads ❤
Thank you for being so honest about your feelings even when they aren't what some prefer. Authenticity is so much better than "don't be negative", which I don't think you are at all! Sorry to hear about your house disappointment! I feel ya. And I love your enthusiasm taking such great care of your beautiful plant and excitement over Dunkin even when you're not feeling great and still adjusting to being home and busy and rainy and a bit down. And I love your real emotions when things are a bit deflating about the root rot, the hunger, the house, and the package. Love on Ava! See ya tomorrow
I know your folks watch your videos and I hope they don't miss this one. They would be so proud of you taking care of the plant the gave you. She's really pretty and I am sure she will be fine, just keep talking and loving on her. xo
I’m bloody gutted for you all 😢. From what you showed us it looked so gorgeous. Keep saving because you just never know how things can change so quickly. Sending hugs to you both ❤❤
I've not read through the comments, and perhaps this has been said, but...that pot for your dracena is way too big. In over-large pots water stays longer in the soil and this produces root-rot. I would suggest taking her out of that pot, giving the roots a good rinse, and then repot with fresh soil in a smaller, pot with drainage. You can then water and let alone until the soil is fairly (at least 50% dry again. Good luck!
It can be really disappointing when a house you love isn’t going to happen. But you now know what your finances are and what limit you can look at house wise. That’s great because you won’t be in this position again. And also I totally believe that if it wasn’t meant to be, that it wasn’t the right house for you, and there’s a better more perfect house for you guys in your price range in your future. Every time we have looked at new houses we see some that we think are perfect but it hasn’t worked out and it was because there was a better one around the corner. So take heart my lovelies :)
It's a buyer's market at the moment, so if the house is still on the market in April and you can afford it, it might still be worth going in with a cheeky offer. A house is only worth what someone is prepared to pay for it, not what the owner is hoping for. I hope you find your dream home and get it for a price that's comfortable :)
If you have any seaweed solution water the plant's leaves and roots with it. It's a tonic for the plant and should be applied whenever you repot. In Australia the brand is called Seasol.
Keep your chins up Joel & Keegan. If your mean't to get the new house it will happen. Regarding your house plant my mum always would say put tea leafs in to help it grow. Sadly she passed away last year with dementia. Love Mike & Paul Liverpool ❤
Joel, I really enjoy when you take us out on your errands. I loved seeing and learning about the different dishes you tried while on holiday, but please you’re like me, I forget to eat sometimes. Then I start feeling the anxiety and my knees start getting weak, only after do I remember I hadn’t eaten anything. Good for you to realize when something is amiss with your system. Okay, I really like that plant, what is the name of it? We have some similar plants here in the states like that, they seem very tall. I like that size. Good to know you all had a good time, now to get back to the routine of living. Blessings, Alex from LA
Thinking the lack of food was causing you to shake a bit, hopefully it is fine now. So sorry about the house having to be put on hold, but the old saying, if it's meant to be...Dracaena is a good name as well as a really nice plant, I used to have one that was 10ft., it's really important to not over water them, and good drainage by keeping some pebbles in the base of the ceramic pot will keep her elevated and less prone to root rot. Thanks for taking us along Joel, always a pleasure.
You are an amazing plant Dad! I love plants and flowers! When the time is right for the right house, all things will fall into place. Like a puzzle. Always love ❤
Oh my goodness I love when you talk about your plants and the garden. I cannot wait till you get property where you have an official garden or you can go and have so much fun with us. I can’t wait. I love your plant babies💚
Does Fen have a little doggie clothing closet? He's so cute - and the bed with the blanket. Sorry to hear about the house but you never know what's around the corner. When the time is right it will happen.
I believe everything happens for a reason, if you dont get the house now, it means there is something better waiting that your suppose to be in instead
make the offer even if it's low. you never know. if the property has been on the market for a long time, sometimes folks just want to get out from under it
Essential Tremor's cause can have a genetic factor. My grandmother had it, and my sister & I got it as adults. It only happens when we have to do anything with our hands & gets worse if dzstressed/tired.
HOW DID YOU NOT EAT UNTIL 4:00????? Oh my goodness. Not judging, sweetie, just please take care of yourself. ❤ Sorry about the sad news. That does suck, but you’re right - it might still be for sale. Or something even better comes along next year. You guys are on it, so I know you’ll think of something. Glad you had fun at Lucy’s wedding. Sorry about Keegan’s pants! Hugs to you both. Have a terrific week! 👍🏻😃🎶🥂
No wonder you had a headache - hadn't eaten anything. If I don't eat breakfast, I get a headache by 10 am. Oh well - so sorry, Joel about the house situation, but between you and Keegan you'll come up with the best solution. Who knows, something as good or even better may turn up.
Hi Joel, I’m really into plants and I would suggest to put her in a way smaller pot, just a bit bigger than the root system. If the pot is too big it holds onto much water and the roots rot. Hope she survives ☺️🌱
Sorry about the house you guys. It doesn't mean it won't happen eventually, if that's any consolation. But, plants or shopping in general are my therapy, for sure.
You've got so much on your plate right now that self care is even more important. I have to say I lol'd during the walk when you spotted a "Keegan in the wild". Please keep us posted on the lovely Dracaena.
Joel, has the new pot you purchased for your house plant have sufficient drainage holes and feet to lift it up some? I'm sure you know this but you can put a few stones or broken pottery in the bottom to help with that. Glad you're back. Sorry about your house plans. Hi to keegan. Cheers!
Really sorry the house didn’t work out, but maybe it yet will if it stays on the market. I’m sure you guys will find the perfect place when the time is right.
Oh Joel, please take care of yourself and I think you might have anxiety. I'm so sorry the house didn't work out, and I hope your plant starts thriving again. ♥
Like you say, no point in experiencing financial hardship to pay for a house especially since you like the one you have. Maybe it will happen in the future, especially since the house you like is not selling so far. Thank you for the video!
Little plant tip - Try not to use tap water, a lot of them can't handle the harshness and chemicals etc.. of it. Try to use rainwater, tumble dryer/dehumidifier/distilled water, or at least if you must use tap water, let it stand for at least 24 hours in a watering can / jug / bottle with lid off etc.. to allow chemicals like chlorine and fluoride the time to evaporate from the water, and so that it's at room temperature when you use it. Also, let the top of the compost dry out 1-2 inches before watering. You can also buy a cheap moisture metre which can come in handy if you are someone who finds themselves overwatering. Hope this helps. I have a Dracaena too, though a larger wider-leafed one that has white variegation. It has been a battle with mealy bugs on it, but I'm winning now and it's looking good :)
I love dracaena marginata plants. I hope all goes well with her! I live in a similar environment in East Texas as you in Yorkshire. I was noticing that on your walk.
Dear Joel; understand on the property. My experience. Get the overall aim. Hang in. Follow your nose. Go after the unexpected. If you see something which gives you gut feel be ready. D'ont b***gr about. If there are rough edges think 'can we we fix it' and knock hard on the price. Buying or selling think 10% / 15% negs. One thing - eyes open for risk. eg - water, drainage, roof, elecs etc.. Oh - and insulation stuff. We bought a place with external insulation and they didn't even include it in the pricing. Not surprising - they needed a quick sale - we got it at 15 /20% down on the norms. Only problems? We have to move again 2024 - 'round the houses' again.
Don’t give Shelly to much water - she doesn’t like it. Great vid - sorry for the house. I’ve got a feeling you may get it next year, since a lot of Brit’s are struggling and they reduced the price already once. Press thumps.
Plant guidance: Hi Joel, could I offer some professional advice about your Draceana,( I have been a houseplant buyer for a large garden centre group and I’m a qualified horticulturist)The key issue is that the plant is in a pot that is too big for the size of the root area. As you realised the pot without drainage caused the compost to become waterlogged which caused the roots to die. Ideally you should pot it into a pot only slightly larger than the root area. As the leaf area of the plant is quite large it may be less stable in a pot that’s small, however I’d be concerned that the large pot and large amount of compost has the potential to cause more problems. When you have such a large pot and so much compost without roots growing in it the compost readily gets waterlogged and “sour”. Ideally you’d plant it in a pot only about 5cm in diameter larger than the root area. This would give new compost for the roots to grow in and avoid water logging. I’d really suggest you look at potting into a smaller pot. If that is not stable then stand that smaller pot in another larger pot, perhaps packing stones around the pot to give stability. Draceanas prefer to be slightly dry, so water and allow to dry out between watering, ideally the top few centimetres of the soil will be dry before you water again. This is especially important during the winter months when they are growing less. The new compost will have all the nutrients the plant needs for now, so avoid feeding or adding any plant “tonics” until the spring. Feeding now will only cause soft growth that will be not be a good thing. Keep it out of direct sunlight and any draughts. If you can water with rainwater allowed to get to room temperature all the better. Cold water can cause the tips of the leaves to go brown as can fluoride in tap water. Hope that helps.
Joel, I laugh the whole time I watch you because we have the same thoughts….going to the neighbors (the worst), I would have to make sure I looked presentable too. I get anxiety just like you and forget to eat. Sorry about the house, I’m sad too. ❤
My boyfriend had the same very slight shaking all the time and also had issues with feelings of anxiousness. Turned out to be a deficiency of iron, magnesium, and vitamin d. An osteopath or a good M.D. should be able to test your urine for any deficiencies. Almost everyone living north of the equator will usually have some degree of vitamin D deficit.
I'm in the US, so I don't know what "stamp duty" is. But here, as long as you have the income to cover the payments on a property, you can get a mortgage. If you own a second (rental) home, they figure out your actual income (rent paid minus all expenses) to come up with a "true" income amount. That amount counts as additional income to your regular income. I have a second (rental) property, that I bought after I had already bought my primary residence. So, I qualified for the rental property on my regular income without consideration of rental income (the "future" income from the rental property can't be counted as actual income until you've owned the rental property 3 years). It's a mess. But it sounds like banks in the UK are worse.
Offer what you can and if it's meant to be it's meant to be. Also write a letter along with your offer explaining what buying the house would mean to you as individuals (including maybe from the kids) and as a family. Maybe they won't except the offer now but with the way mortgages are and finances maybe a month or 2 down the road they will change their minds. Would you and Louise Consider selling your other house? You seem to both have "new Lives"
It would be nice if that house is still available in the spring and maybe they will lower the price again. The prices for houses right now is ridiculous. I don’t know how they expect people to afford it.
So sad that this house projet isn’t going to plan for you. But look for the silver lining, maybe this one wasn’t meant to be because there is something better on the horizon for you. Also it is good to let those sad feelings out because they can impede you in other aspects of your daily life. I can tell you that the anxiety you may be experiencing is not coming through on the vlogs. Hope you week goes better and also hope that Keegan’s MRI results are good news. See you in the next vlog.
I would always suggest that one get a mortgage approval lined up first before looking at homes. That way a buyer knows how much they can afford and to look at homes within that price range and if lucky snap up a deal right on the spot. So many unfortunately don't have a mortgage lined up, fall in love with a house that may be out of their price range and or not being able to make the mortgage arrangements before another qualified buyer comes in and snatched the house. If you and Keegan don't get that first house, there will be other homes - maybe something even better that what you have viewed. I do find it bizarre that in the UK the interest rate is not fixed for the life of the mortgage but is reset every few years. Forget that! I'll pay cash. As a seller, I am going to accept the offer, even if it is a lower price, from a buyer who has their mortgage approval, few if any contingencies such as the need to sell their old home. A seller always prefers a clean offer. Fall and winter is the slow season with fewer home buyers looking. The flip side, sellers waiting until after the holidays and into the spring to list. Hopefully your estate agent will have access to pocket listings (homes not yet listed) or other potential leads.
So sorry to hear the news about the real estate situation. Even though you loved the house It's great that you agreed not to dwell on it and continue on with your busy schedule. No need to add financial stress to a relationship. In fact sharing financial responsibilities in a gay relationship or any relationship for that matter is a great topic for your pod cast. Maybe have a financial export that works with gay clients would be a good idea. In any case keep up the vlogs.
Have you checked out the prices of houses that are similar to yours in the same location to see how they compare to the valuations you have been given? From experience there can be quite a variation in valuations. I got a better idea of real valuations by comparing my house with those nearby that were the same size as mine and sold recently.
Joel, if the house has been in the market for a year already and you love it, go in with what you can afford and tell the agent to tell them you really want the house. Maybe they will let it go for much less.
There is a pending fullmoon cycle which pulls on our emotional energy field and also the earth is being hit by sun solar storms so that will be making you feel more sensitive/anxious.
The current situation it might take ages to find a buyer for your, well Kegans house. The market looks quite stagnant round your area. What camera did you end up buying, you still seam to be having mic problems, haha.
the USA and UK will have to drop interest rates for self preservation Joel.Otherwise there will be massive real estate and business bankruptcies. Hang on for a while.The UK three year thing is almost like the ARM loans in the USA.Scary vs fixed mortgages.USA mortgage s@ 8% these days.Way too high for most buyers.And banks are making it very difficult now even at the high rates.
Mortgage rates are ridiculous these days Joel.Maybe hold up for a while.Are you sure you want to get so ensnared with Keegan anyway?? You really could have a future in acting in the USA.Go for it please!
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Hey from the USA! Your plant is a draceana marginata, basically a succulent. Your pot is much to large for the amount of root you have. Smaller pot is advisable. Add shale or pulmice or perlite in soil mix it in and a litte grit. Put it in more light and water only when dry. I have a landscape business in south texas , we all are very familiar with cactus, agave and succulents
I always lol when you mention saving money.
Get a plastic jug with a lid, fill it with water, let it sit for at least 24 hours. Then use that water for the plants. The chlorine in the tip water is not good for plants. You might have to get a packet of root stimulator. You might even need to pull the plant out of the dirt again and sanitize it. It's a trial and error situation.
RESCUE TIP for the plant: my gran was a florist, she told me to give them tea: strong dark tea (let it go cold). For two weeks, a cup every few days. No extra water. Also leave a few tea leaves from making the tea on the soil. (No milk with the tea, obviously 😉). And make sure there's no water left in the outer/overflow white pot. She will be back thriving!
I always put some medium sized stones on the bottom of plant pots so that the roots don't sit in damp soil. Gives the roots a bit of air circulation and depending in the plants, some vermiculite to lighten the soil.
This was the cutest Joel ever haha, bless the guy, feel your disappointment - something better might come up!
😢 sorry about the house I was so looking forward to it but there is really no point to “force” it. It’s wise to let it go and save more. Love the chill vibe and hope the 🪴 survives!
I love normal day run around Joel, you never know what’s coming next! 🙂 Hair does grow quicker in the summer, sweating is supposedly also one of the reasons why. So sorry about the house, but it means you’ll find an even better one in the future! And I love when you do plant related things, cause I love all my plants! 🥰
water the plant less, let go dry a bit between waterings perhaps. it will do much better now that it's in a pot with drainage. plants don't want to sit in a pot without drainage and you'll see her improve quite bit now!! :) cheers
I like how you let us in on how you are really feeling with no sugar coating things! That level of reality is rare on RUclips! Kudos to you and Keegan!!
Don't feel sad. It will work out or something better will come your way.
Every tomorrow has two handles. We can take hold of it with the handle of anxiety or the handle of faith.
When you buy a new pot get one with a drainage holes in the bottom and place a saucer under it or get one with an attached saucer. PLANTS NEED DRAINAGE. A lack of drainage can lead to lots of problems, including root rot, mildew, and stagnant stinky putrid water. The roots need oxygen and the accumulated water causes the pores in he soil to be filled and then the roots start to die.
The pot it is already in is already plenty big enough, but it does need re-potting and the soil looks boggy. If you want to save money drill a couple holes in the bottom of the existing pot with an electric drill. Go to the garden store and get some good quality potting soil to replace the old. Re-potting a plant does not hurt it if done carefully.
Sorry to hear about the house, it's all in the timing I believe.
Make sure to update us on how your plant does in its new pot, hopefully she survives. ❤
Thank you for saying you read the comments 😊❤… it’s almost impossible to post one as soon as the video drops 😢
That's disappointing about the house. It might be worth asking the estate agent to let the sellers know what you could offer right now. They may not accept it but if they still have the house in 6 months they may well come back to you, stranger things can happen. I hope you reach 100k subs soon, you really deserve it, your vlogs are so much more relatable than a lot of others I've seen. Love to Fen and Ava the two teddy heads ❤
"she's not in a good way"... Such keen comedic timing. Lol. U Crack me up.
Thank you for being so honest about your feelings even when they aren't what some prefer. Authenticity is so much better than "don't be negative", which I don't think you are at all! Sorry to hear about your house disappointment! I feel ya. And I love your enthusiasm taking such great care of your beautiful plant and excitement over Dunkin even when you're not feeling great and still adjusting to being home and busy and rainy and a bit down. And I love your real emotions when things are a bit deflating about the root rot, the hunger, the house, and the package. Love on Ava! See ya tomorrow
Love Kiegan for bringing you out! Our time is NOW! Again for the very first time!
I know your folks watch your videos and I hope they don't miss this one. They would be so proud of you taking care of the plant the gave you. She's really pretty and I am sure she will be fine, just keep talking and loving on her. xo
Bahamas to B&Q.....what a life! 😂
I’m bloody gutted for you all 😢. From what you showed us it looked so gorgeous. Keep saving because you just never know how things can change so quickly. Sending hugs to you both ❤❤
I've not read through the comments, and perhaps this has been said, but...that pot for your dracena is way too big. In over-large pots water stays longer in the soil and this produces root-rot. I would suggest taking her out of that pot, giving the roots a good rinse, and then repot with fresh soil in a smaller, pot with drainage. You can then water and let alone until the soil is fairly (at least 50% dry again. Good luck!
Joel, check your caffine intake. It can increase your heart rate, hence, can also increase anxiety. Cutting back on caffine helped my anxiety..
It can be really disappointing when a house you love isn’t going to happen. But you now know what your finances are and what limit you can look at house wise. That’s great because you won’t be in this position again. And also I totally believe that if it wasn’t meant to be, that it wasn’t the right house for you, and there’s a better more perfect house for you guys in your price range in your future. Every time we have looked at new houses we see some that we think are perfect but it hasn’t worked out and it was because there was a better one around the corner. So take heart my lovelies :)
It's a buyer's market at the moment, so if the house is still on the market in April and you can afford it, it might still be worth going in with a cheeky offer. A house is only worth what someone is prepared to pay for it, not what the owner is hoping for. I hope you find your dream home and get it for a price that's comfortable :)
If you have any seaweed solution water the plant's leaves and roots with it. It's a tonic for the plant and should be applied whenever you repot. In Australia the brand is called Seasol.
That's disappointing about the house, Joel! Hope there is another one for you!!!
Sorry about the house, but stay positive. Things may turn around, or you might find a better home of your dreams!
Keep your chins up Joel & Keegan. If your mean't to get the new house it will happen. Regarding your house plant my mum always would say put tea leafs in to help it grow. Sadly she passed away last year with dementia. Love Mike & Paul Liverpool ❤
Joel, I really enjoy when you take us out on your errands. I loved seeing and learning about the different dishes you tried while on holiday, but please you’re like me, I forget to eat sometimes. Then I start feeling the anxiety and my knees start getting weak, only after do I remember I hadn’t eaten anything. Good for you to realize when something is amiss with your system. Okay, I really like that plant, what is the name of it? We have some similar plants here in the states like that, they seem very tall. I like that size. Good to know you all had a good time, now to get back to the routine of living. Blessings, Alex from LA
Thinking the lack of food was causing you to shake a bit, hopefully it is fine now. So sorry about the house having to be put on hold, but the old saying, if it's meant to be...Dracaena is a good name as well as a really nice plant, I used to have one that was 10ft., it's really important to not over water them, and good drainage by keeping some pebbles in the base of the ceramic pot will keep her elevated and less prone to root rot. Thanks for taking us along Joel, always a pleasure.
You are an amazing plant Dad! I love plants and flowers! When the time is right for the right house, all things will fall into place. Like a puzzle. Always love ❤
There will be another dream home,love you both.
Keep ur chin up ❤
Take care. Have an amazing day. Things happen for a reason. Cheers.
7:34 Ok I see my comment there! Thank you for the creative spark I get from this channel 🔥
Oh my goodness I love when you talk about your plants and the garden. I cannot wait till you get property where you have an official garden or you can go and have so much fun with us. I can’t wait. I love your plant babies💚
Does Fen have a little doggie clothing closet? He's so cute - and the bed with the blanket. Sorry to hear about the house but you never know what's around the corner. When the time is right it will happen.
I believe everything happens for a reason, if you dont get the house now, it means there is something better waiting that your suppose to be in instead
Take a deep breath
One day at a time.
All is well
make the offer even if it's low. you never know. if the property has been on the market for a long time, sometimes folks just want to get out from under it
Essential Tremor's cause can have a genetic factor. My grandmother had it, and my sister & I got it as adults. It only happens when we have to do anything with our hands & gets worse if dzstressed/tired.
HOW DID YOU NOT EAT UNTIL 4:00????? Oh my goodness. Not judging, sweetie, just please take care of yourself. ❤ Sorry about the sad news. That does suck, but you’re right - it might still be for sale. Or something even better comes along next year. You guys are on it, so I know you’ll think of something. Glad you had fun at Lucy’s wedding. Sorry about Keegan’s pants! Hugs to you both. Have a terrific week! 👍🏻😃🎶🥂
No wonder you had a headache - hadn't eaten anything. If I don't eat breakfast, I get a headache by 10 am. Oh well - so sorry, Joel about the house situation, but between you and Keegan you'll come up with the best solution. Who knows, something as good or even better may turn up.
Hi Joel, I’m really into plants and I would suggest to put her in a way smaller pot, just a bit bigger than the root system. If the pot is too big it holds onto much water and the roots rot. Hope she survives ☺️🌱
Sorry about the house you guys. It doesn't mean it won't happen eventually, if that's any consolation.
But, plants or shopping in general are my therapy, for sure.
You've got so much on your plate right now that self care is even more important. I have to say I lol'd during the walk when you spotted a "Keegan in the wild". Please keep us posted on the lovely Dracaena.
Having a sad and anxious day here too. Sending love!❤
Joel, has the new pot you purchased for your house plant have sufficient drainage holes and feet to lift it up some? I'm sure you know this but you can put a few stones or broken pottery in the bottom to help with that. Glad you're back. Sorry about your house plans. Hi to keegan. Cheers!
Really sorry the house didn’t work out, but maybe it yet will if it stays on the market. I’m sure you guys will find the perfect place when the time is right.
Joel you are anxious because of the new house search It is natural Good luck with the house Love the House y'all love!
Oh Joel, please take care of yourself and I think you might have anxiety. I'm so sorry the house didn't work out, and I hope your plant starts thriving again. ♥
glad you all made it home safely!!
Like you say, no point in experiencing financial hardship to pay for a house especially since you like the one you have. Maybe it will happen in the future, especially since the house you like is not selling so far. Thank you for the video!
Little plant tip - Try not to use tap water, a lot of them can't handle the harshness and chemicals etc.. of it. Try to use rainwater, tumble dryer/dehumidifier/distilled water, or at least if you must use tap water, let it stand for at least 24 hours in a watering can / jug / bottle with lid off etc.. to allow chemicals like chlorine and fluoride the time to evaporate from the water, and so that it's at room temperature when you use it.
Also, let the top of the compost dry out 1-2 inches before watering. You can also buy a cheap moisture metre which can come in handy if you are someone who finds themselves overwatering.
Hope this helps. I have a Dracaena too, though a larger wider-leafed one that has white variegation. It has been a battle with mealy bugs on it, but I'm winning now and it's looking good :)
I love William and Jordan's podcast, and enjoy Williams etiquette videos.
I just love your work enthusiasm!! 😂❤😊
I love dracaena marginata plants. I hope all goes well with her! I live in a similar environment in East Texas as you in Yorkshire. I was noticing that on your walk.
Dear Joel; understand on the property. My experience. Get the overall aim. Hang in. Follow your nose. Go after the unexpected. If you see something which gives you gut feel be ready. D'ont b***gr about. If there are rough edges think 'can we we fix it' and knock hard on the price. Buying or selling think 10% / 15% negs. One thing - eyes open for risk. eg - water, drainage, roof, elecs etc.. Oh - and insulation stuff. We bought a place with external insulation and they didn't even include it in the pricing. Not surprising - they needed a quick sale - we got it at 15 /20% down on the norms.
Only problems? We have to move again 2024 - 'round the houses' again.
Don’t give Shelly to much water - she doesn’t like it. Great vid - sorry for the house. I’ve got a feeling you may get it next year, since a lot of Brit’s are struggling and they reduced the price already once. Press thumps.
Love you guys come to Myrtle beach . Judson
Plant guidance: Hi Joel, could I offer some professional advice about your Draceana,( I have been a houseplant buyer for a large garden centre group and I’m a qualified horticulturist)The key issue is that the plant is in a pot that is too big for the size of the root area. As you realised the pot without drainage caused the compost to become waterlogged which caused the roots to die. Ideally you should pot it into a pot only slightly larger than the root area. As the leaf area of the plant is quite large it may be less stable in a pot that’s small, however I’d be concerned that the large pot and large amount of compost has the potential to cause more problems. When you have such a large pot and so much compost without roots growing in it the compost readily gets waterlogged and “sour”. Ideally you’d plant it in a pot only about 5cm in diameter larger than the root area. This would give new compost for the roots to grow in and avoid water logging. I’d really suggest you look at potting into a smaller pot. If that is not stable then stand that smaller pot in another larger pot, perhaps packing stones around the pot to give stability. Draceanas prefer to be slightly dry, so water and allow to dry out between watering, ideally the top few centimetres of the soil will be dry before you water again. This is especially important during the winter months when they are growing less. The new compost will have all the nutrients the plant needs for now, so avoid feeding or adding any plant “tonics” until the spring. Feeding now will only cause soft growth that will be not be a good thing. Keep it out of direct sunlight and any draughts. If you can water with rainwater allowed to get to room temperature all the better. Cold water can cause the tips of the leaves to go brown as can fluoride in tap water. Hope that helps.
“Keegan spotted in the wild…” HAHAHA
Fin reminds me of our Pablo. He only cares about being warm and sleeping. In 17 years I think he’s only been awake for 16.
Joel, I laugh the whole time I watch you because we have the same thoughts….going to the neighbors (the worst), I would have to make sure I looked presentable too. I get anxiety just like you and forget to eat. Sorry about the house, I’m sad too. ❤
My boyfriend had the same very slight shaking all the time and also had issues with feelings of anxiousness. Turned out to be a deficiency of iron, magnesium, and vitamin d. An osteopath or a good M.D. should be able to test your urine for any deficiencies. Almost everyone living north of the equator will usually have some degree of vitamin D deficit.
A trowel? Use a large spoon or shock your hand. How many plants do you repot. Don't over water the plant. Read about how to take care of it. Love You
It's healthy to do something positive when you can't change disappointing news.
They’re called familial tremors. Has mostly to do with calcium channel issues.
As usual, I love your video!😊❤
I'm in the US, so I don't know what "stamp duty" is. But here, as long as you have the income to cover the payments on a property, you can get a mortgage. If you own a second (rental) home, they figure out your actual income (rent paid minus all expenses) to come up with a "true" income amount. That amount counts as additional income to your regular income. I have a second (rental) property, that I bought after I had already bought my primary residence. So, I qualified for the rental property on my regular income without consideration of rental income (the "future" income from the rental property can't be counted as actual income until you've owned the rental property 3 years). It's a mess. But it sounds like banks in the UK are worse.
Yes, don't stress yourself out with a high mortgage. It's not worth it. It would just increase your anxiety.
Sorry to hear about your bank news. That always sucks, been there done that myself!!!
Offer what you can and if it's meant to be it's meant to be. Also write a letter along with your offer explaining what buying the house would mean to you as individuals (including maybe from the kids) and as a family. Maybe they won't except the offer now but with the way mortgages are and finances maybe a month or 2 down the road they will change their minds.
Would you and Louise Consider selling your other house? You seem to both have "new Lives"
It would be nice if that house is still available in the spring and maybe they will lower the price again. The prices for houses right now is ridiculous. I don’t know how they expect people to afford it.
All that tension and the neighbours were not at home. Added to my list of good Outros.
It would help to have some gravel on the bottom of the pot for drainage.
So sad that this house projet isn’t going to plan for you. But look for the silver lining, maybe this one wasn’t meant to be because there is something better on the horizon for you. Also it is good to let those sad feelings out because they can impede you in other aspects of your daily life. I can tell you that the anxiety you may be experiencing is not coming through on the vlogs. Hope you week goes better and also hope that Keegan’s MRI results are good news. See you in the next vlog.
I would always suggest that one get a mortgage approval lined up first before looking at homes. That way a buyer knows how much they can afford and to look at homes within that price range and if lucky snap up a deal right on the spot. So many unfortunately don't have a mortgage lined up, fall in love with a house that may be out of their price range and or not being able to make the mortgage arrangements before another qualified buyer comes in and snatched the house. If you and Keegan don't get that first house, there will be other homes - maybe something even better that what you have viewed. I do find it bizarre that in the UK the interest rate is not fixed for the life of the mortgage but is reset every few years. Forget that! I'll pay cash. As a seller, I am going to accept the offer, even if it is a lower price, from a buyer who has their mortgage approval, few if any contingencies such as the need to sell their old home. A seller always prefers a clean offer. Fall and winter is the slow season with fewer home buyers looking. The flip side, sellers waiting until after the holidays and into the spring to list. Hopefully your estate agent will have access to pocket listings (homes not yet listed) or other potential leads.
also sometimes if you water it too much, that can happen.
So sorry to hear the news about the real estate situation. Even though you loved the house It's great that you agreed not to dwell on it and continue on with your busy schedule. No need to add financial stress to a relationship. In fact sharing financial responsibilities in a gay relationship or any relationship for that matter is a great topic for your pod cast. Maybe have a financial export that works with gay clients would be a good idea. In any case keep up the vlogs.
Have you checked out the prices of houses that are similar to yours in the same location to see how they compare to the valuations you have been given? From experience there can be quite a variation in valuations. I got a better idea of real valuations by comparing my house with those nearby that were the same size as mine and sold recently.
Love love that outro so good!
Joel, if the house has been in the market for a year already and you love it, go in with what you can afford and tell the agent to tell them you really want the house. Maybe they will let it go for much less.
There is a pending fullmoon cycle which pulls on our emotional energy field and also the earth is being hit by sun solar storms so that will be making you feel more sensitive/anxious.
why u stressed. you have the chillest job ever
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The current situation it might take ages to find a buyer for your, well Kegans house. The market looks quite stagnant round your area.
What camera did you end up buying, you still seam to be having mic problems, haha.
the USA and UK will have to drop interest rates for self preservation Joel.Otherwise there will be massive real estate and business bankruptcies. Hang on for a while.The UK three year thing is almost like the ARM loans in the USA.Scary vs fixed mortgages.USA mortgage s@ 8% these days.Way too high for most buyers.And banks are making it very difficult now even at the high rates.
The blood pumps around your body more freely when it’s hotter weather bringing its nutrition to your hair follicles that’s why it grows faster !
Joel, you need to get an incense burner box, no ash on worktop with one 🤗
Your Hangary! That's all 😂
Who knows...things happen for a reason. Maybe it will go down in the future or, there's a better house.
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Mortgage rates are ridiculous these days Joel.Maybe hold up for a while.Are you sure you want to get so ensnared with Keegan anyway?? You really could have a future in acting in the USA.Go for it please!
What are the tax rates in England for income? Texan here! Love your channel!
Auld scottish saying joel. Whits no fir ye! Will no go bye ye! Lol god showing my age.
Basically if it is ment for you you will get it.❤
Give the plant some tomatorite .... extra nutrients
Great video!❤ sorry about your house. But everything happens for a reason. Love you happy healthy homos!