Mum Says The Bride Is Too Curvy To Wear A Tight Dress | Say Yes To The Dress: Asia
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- Опубликовано: 23 авг 2024
- Bride Sarah wants a mermaid-style dress, but her mum has other plans. She thinks the dresses are too tight, because of her daughter's curvy hips. Thankfully, Jovian Mandangie is there to help find the perfect wedding dress that can please the whole entourage AND the bride.
From season 1 episode 1.
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She has THE perfect figure for mermaid. She looks amazing!!!!!
she is GORGEOUS!!!
Exactly like bro that is something everyone wants....and she def not listen to her mom
Agreed. She is a beautiful, well proportioned figured woman
I agree
Her mom showed us why she's closer to her dad. She's gorgeous. Mom - stifle it!!
Tbh, asian moms are blunt and very honest even if it hurts feelings.....
@@harveyspecter111 so true
@@harveyspecter111 It's not honest, it's cruel. I think the children should return the favor and point out how awful their mom is, see how she likes it.
@@malloryg4251 😂😂😅
Shese very beautiful with a lovely figure .❤
Sarah telling sorry when expressing her feelings-classic Asian kids feelings.I feel it to the deepest core.
+1
same.
Some Caribbean and African cultures are the same way to.
That's horrible... I don't have that I can express my feelings as much I want to but my mum does not listen to anything I try to express and just ignores it 😀
Classic abused person's response period. It's not limited to just one group of individuals. Choose to take a long, hard look around you. We are absolutely MORE alike than we choose to acknowledge.
that bride is BEAUTIFUL and I can't believe her mom says negative things about her daughter's body
Yeah, her mother was being nasty shaming her daughter in public like that.
No wonder the daughter is closer to her father.
normal day in asian families
the mom was just being honest... she's a 5 at most...
Sadly ALOT of mothers are like that.
@@Goblingardens SERIOUSLY. totally relatable, sadly
That poor young woman probably has body issues because of the cultural standards. She's absolutely gorgeous in that fitted dress. She's built beautifully!
A beautiful girl. Awful mother, and/or culture.
i agree! the fitted dresses look like they were made for her, so many women wish they looked like her and i hope she knows how beautiful she is!
I agree with you there. I wish older people would stop tearing the next generations down with that kind of criticism. I have 3 kids and all I want for them when/if they choose to marry is that they are truly happy and that the bride feels like the most beautiful woman to ever walk this earth in her wedding dress, as well as their partner seeing them the same way. All you have to do to know when the dress is right for the bride is to watch their face when they come out as well as when they look in the mirror. When the bride radiates a happy glow that out shines the sun... that's the dress she belongs in.
The first dress was just too tight. The third one fitted her just fine.
If you come up with a modern culture that doesn’t do this let me know - I’ll be the first to sign up.
Girl, you are a healthy weight. Don't let others dictate your body. You are a beautiful lady.keep repeating that.
Unless you know her height, weight etc you can't possibly know if she's at a healthy weight. You can certainly say she looks good though!
@@amnakhan9241 she’s fine, she’s not going to have a heart attack anytime soon
@@AWKWARDCONFIDENCE you can't know that... many factors contribute towards heart disease, not only bodyweight...Stress, for example, is a major contributor to heart disease... and having a mom like that, do you seriously think she is stress-free?
Hello lovely people. In reference to brides weight: I am assessing several things...no temporal wasting, no bulging belly, no shortness of breath appears with position or activity. Her collar bones are not extremely chiseled, nor are her wrist/ ankles (en) large. Her color remains consistent through video clip. Yes to determine " true health" you need a series of tests. I am referring, in this instance, to her family's continuous comments and comparing her size to other women in family and culture. As women our support of each other, especially in these times, is crucial. Hoping your lives are enriched with love, compassion, health and joy.
@@lisablack9634 No need to explain, 376 people understood what you mean. Some people choose to be ignorant.
2:39 the way her dad is happy seeing her...melts my heart❤️
SAME !! 🥺❤️
fr😭
Definitely a daddy’s girl ❤
It made me sad that he mother is so critical of her beautiful daughter. The bride is absolutely stunning! I know they want her to look beautiful but I doubt she could ever look anything but beautiful. God bless!
Probably jealousy.
Wow, that mom is so critical. Glad her friends are so supportive.
No show without drama... It's all acting... Believe me
@@pjasmine My mother was just like this. It's not an act for a lot of daughters with critical mothers.
@@pjasmine its sadly very normal to see a mom comment on her daughters body shape/size, weight, and overall appearance. A lot more girls are closer to their dad than their mom for that very reason
My mom just like her too
Her mom reminds me of my o wn mother
Some moms, like my own, think they always have to express their mind but they don’t. Just shut up and accept us as we are
Haha😂😂😂
I agree.
Mums should stay right out of it its not there day
How awful are the comments from her mother
You are gorgeous Sarah you may be outdoors girl but you are lovely
My mother always body shamed me as well.
@@janececelia7448 shame on her!
Some parents think that just becouse they are your parents they don’t need to respect you.
I'm so happy for Sarah. She found a dress that she felt beautiful in. Her mother was a little too 'honest' which obviously has affected Sarah's self esteem. But it was nice to see her get up and hug her daughter and tear up at the end.
The mother wasn't "honest" she was cruel
@@sweetnsalty4728 Exactly!
@@sweetnsalty4728 that's the thing ..she isn't even fat bro 🙂
She doesn't need to lose weight wtf is wrong with her mom
@SweetnSalty Modern women can't handle brutal honesty. That's why we're policed about using the word 'obese'. The bride is carrying some extra pounds and if her own mother won't bless her with that honesty, no one will. Thus, the individual can't improve if they think they're fine as they are.
This girl is so strong to be so beautiful and strong despite the mother's narcissism
That "mom" fails to qualify as a "mom" - inner and outer ugliness is so jealous of her daughter's beauty.
Boutique Love
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If the bride is reading this- you mother is a classic narcissistic personality disorder.... please please read about this!
Many things will become clear if your life. You are clearly beautiful with a gorgeous figure!! Your mum is miserable and cant stand seeing you happy-- she is jealous. Please please read about narcissism.
All the best and lots of blessings!
Oh yes let's diagnose based on a video. More likely different age and culture xD
I agree Jessica.
@@BunnyFoooFoo there are supportive mothers who come from other cultures, and that are the same age as this mean mom.
Bruh she's not big , she looks healthy... like the beauty standard these days🙄
Exactly mann those are so frustrating!
She would probably be kicked out by the fat acceptance community for being too thin, if she tried to join in. She’s not ”big” at all.
yeah. she's not even fat
Those days? Really?? We live in times that are THE BEST for body standards cause they are being fixed.
This mother is OLD FASHIONED so its OLD WORLD problem.
“She comes to me rarely” I wonder why 😂
The truth hurts that's why
She was so pretty and the way her dad beamed when he saw her, said it all.
She is perfect, her Mom needs to tone down the negativity.
In their culture the mom isn't being negative but is honest in love. The words of the mom are heavy. If she doesnt approve then it's a definite no. To disregard the mom and her opinion is like the ultimate disrespect in their culture.
I don’t think the mom is being negative. Her mum and mine share the same personality… too similar if you ask me and they usually give honest opinions.. they’re not projecting nor mean.
That’s true, mothers in our culture are blunt in honesty. They do mean well, but it’s sometimes a stab to the heart when it comes to their choice of words.
Well, honesty could come with a little bit of respect and mercy. You don’t always need to be honest in that rude way. That is not honesty in love, come on!!!
@@luciatat4084 You don’t understand some Malay moms are like that. It does cause some frictions but that’s just how it is.
Man this episode was emotional for me on so many parts. I’m not Asian but in the Caribbean culture parents are the same in bluntness. It’s hurtful coming from your parents about something you cannot control such as shape and the way weight is being distributed. Her still wanting to please them despite it and finally her expressing what alot of us single women feel. She is a beautiful woman let her union be blessed .
Her mom calling her fat makes me SO angry OML
Says the brainwashed American that probably thinks 200 pounds is “healthy”😂
Her mom is giving her genuine feedback
@@babita9190 Honesty is not easy to hurt others, she should have said it in a nice way.
First dress was very pretty but it was too tight.
In my country, this is normal...we say things as it is.. and honestly most people don't take hurt as long as it's the truth.
A stranger can come up and comment on how fat or skinny or messy you are...
However, in other countries you have to be politically correct and tread carefully...
That first dress fit her like a glove. It was beautiful on her.
"shes a daddys girl she comes to me rarely" not surprising 💀
She's such a lovely girl, shame on the body shaming from her family 😤
More like brainwashed Americans where 200 pounds is “healthy “
No in our culture we aren't allowed to wear tight clothes, which show proportion of our body.
@@hussukhan1125 true
@@hussukhan1125 the mother literally said she would like the tight dress if the bride lost weight… it’s not about the tight dresses, she’s bodyshaming her
@@aleenashahzad2880 because she then wouldn’t be so curvy…that’s why it wouldn’t be too provocative
I grew up with my mum always pointing out and hating my hips. And my "lack" of chest. My bony collarbones. It made every day really hard. I never wore shorts in my life until 22. It was hard wearing a simple t shirt and slim jeans because her eyes would always go to my bottom. Forget dresses. I wasn't one of the kids that wore revealing clothes - I was never bought such clothes haha. But my mum would only buy me jeans that were way too big ("oh you'll fit into them later you'll grow!!") Etc. Baggy. Would always wear sweaters even in the sweltering summers because of the body shaming ("you look like a fat man!"). It took me years to get rid of the severe body acne I developed - and even longer to accept myself and love my body. I feel bad for this girl. She's 39 - she's not a baby..
she's 29 btw
The Mother: "She comes to me very rarely"
Well.. no wonder why!
If your child's confidence is always put down because you are the cause you shouldn't be surprised.
And also the Bride has a BEAUTIFUL Figure and there's no reason for her to hide it
It just shows what other cultures views are it’s so sad that in their culture she is big but she looks perfect and her body is amazing that first dress suited her amazingly ❤
I dunt think it's about culture but more to religious. They are muslims and the parents are religious. Thus wearing tight especially at the buttock area is a big no to the parents 🤭🤭. Unless they are non muslims. For them not too tight, no exposed esp at butt and cleavage area, no sexy.
Agreed
That "mom" is not an icon for the entire culture - please don't give her credit for being a narcissist.
She's about a size 12, and probably was 10 a few years ago... that's why her mother is saying that.
@@brockreynolds870 The bride's mother knew her words were being recorded for all the world to hear - and she did it anyway - because she wanted to shame and embarrass and humiliate her daughter - because of her 20 lbs of weight gain - even though the mother admitted it was because she was working instead of enjoying her life - the mother is despicable.
She has a lovely figure. She looked beautiful in the 1st dress.
I can relate this to my core. Her mother is the classic Asian mother who always doing 'what they think' best for their daughter.
I think that first dress looked beautiful on her.
Congratulations to the bride for moving away from constant bullying from ur own mother and I can see her man is very much a gentle man. I can understand this a bit. Family cultures creating childhood trauma...but I can also see there is love. Anyway wishing all the happiness to the bride. U r beautiful.
Sarah looked beautiful in this gown. Her mother was mainly concerned with the sleeves. I think this is because their culture values modesty in the way people dress. I respect all people and all cultures. It worked out well in the end. I wish this bride and her groom every happiness now and always.
Her mom does not realize she has a women's body. Still sees her as a child.
Just imagine how critical her Mom is going to be when she is pregnant and how she chooses to raise her child.
She is beautiful and has a woman's body. She should have not brought her family if they weren't going to make it a magical experience. She will always have a tainted memory. Shame on you Mom.
As an Asian, that would be typical of our mothers.
@@whatevergoesforme5129
That is so sad. If that is true and their mother did that to them, why would they do that to their own kids?
@@sunflowerbaby1853 We are used to it. Some are truly abusive but some are just tactless but love their children and only Asians can understand this trait which Westerners see as alien to them. For example. Asian parents would provide for their children and pay for their education even until college or med school or law school. Asian parents don't want their grown kids to leave their house unless they are getting married so many Asian grown children are able to save money. This Asian culture is carried over to Western countries so you see a lot of successful Asian individuals in the US, for example.
Asian children are also expected to take care of their parents (who should provide for them well when the kids were young) when the latter get old and this cycle continues to the next generation. This cultural trait is also alien to many Westerners because the Western culture is more open to home for the aged which many Asian cultures frown on.
I am not saying it is perfect, just different. But since I am Asian, I also don't want to die in a home for the aged (if we have one in my country).
@@whatevergoesforme5129
Hi. Yes, I get it. However just because you are used to it doesn't mean it doesn't hurt your feelings or effect your self esteem. They probably don't even know how much it traumatizes you. Or they say we are just being honest or the world is a hard place. Or your too sensitive.
My mom used to use harsh words until one day I told her those were going to be the last critical words she ever spoke out loud. If she ever spoke to me in that manner again she would forever lose me. I told her if she loved me she wouldn't verbally be negative to me. It's okay to critique or whatever, but its the manner in the way you say it. She knew I was serious. The next day she had a new attitude.
I am American and come from Italian descent. I have been caring for my bed bound, Alzheimer's Mom all on my own for 7 years now with no help. None. I had to stop working because she cannot be left on her own. My life is on pause. She did not want to go into a nursing home. Who would. But I also don't think she would be happy knowing how this situation has stalled my life. I do it because I love her. Not all westerners put their parents in nursing homes.
@@sunflowerbaby1853 I am not saying that ALL Westerners put their parents in nursing homes. When people use generalizations, it means what is the norm and there will be exceptions. It just like when people say Asians parents are dragon parents, it does not mean ALL.
Sure, there will be children who are traumatized and I mentioned about abusive Asian parents (the ones who are truly harsh and not just tactless), but being tactless is something we are used to by now. That is why in many Asian cultures (which Westerners find shocking and rude), asking personal stuff even if the person is just an acquaintance or even a stranger is ordinary. Examples are questions about salaries, marital status, family issues etc.
It may be hard to understand in Western culture because individualism is the norm in the US. And with the PC culture now, some behaviors have become unacceptable even though these behaviors are more nuanced.
And even South Americans and Africans will say their culture is similar to Asians when it comes to parenting. That is why for us we find it weird when it is the norm to ask 18 year old children to move out of the house so they can be independent (individualism) because for us, many have extended families and moving out is more acceptable when one gets married (even though some do not move out, hence, the extended family phenomenon).
Now, talking of abusive Asian parents, I am actually one of those who have suffered from this reality. And it is not about saying that I am fat but a lot more traumatizing like making me the maid from 11 years old onwards because I am the eldest daughter. And there is favoritism until now because my mom prefers her boys over her girls and yet now that my mom is 81 years old, her abused girls are the ones taking care of her and not her boys who both migrated to the US.
My sister and I have forgiven our mother for her past treatment as well as her current treatment of us because she is actually mentally ill but I know what trauma truly means because my peers had/have better treatment from their Asian parents.
Curvy is good and she looks beautiful in all the dresses!!
She is beautiful and she is NOT big at all. Keep your head up and know that you are perfect in the skin your in. Shame on that mom for putting her down😞
Beautiful bride!!! Malaysian and Hispanic parents are SO SIMILAR! I remember my own wedding dress fittings with my mom critically addressing how pudgy I was and how to best hide it. In the end, I do acknowledge my mom was right and had my best interest at heart, just like the mom in this video. They love us, are blunt when they have to be but love us dearly. Her parents do love her ❤. I lived near Malasia for 3 years, got to know many wonderful people from there and they really are very loving and family centric. Congratulations to this beautiful bride!!!!!
She’s so beautiful and smiled the entire time! You can tell she’s beautiful on the inside too ❤ hope she has a beautiful marriage 🙏🏼
Well said!
The way her dad said wow ..he saw his baby become a woman ❤️
She looked beautiful, and her dad was adorable! Her mom, like most, is more honest than most need to be, but I hope they can work on their relationship a bit and communicate more.
Honest and hypercritical are two different things.
He mom wasn't honest she was cruel
I do think not shaming her for her body is anything but cruel and heartless. They act like she is pretty 'in spite' of being 'big'. How horrible. She is beautiful and her body is fine. People are so mean.
She's a lovely gal inside and out. Glad her mom gave her a hug at the end.
Malaysian people just won my heart during my 6 years living there. I wouldn't say that mother is saint giving such comments but she isn't pure evil how some nasty commentors are describing her. They have their cultural barriers and her mom is just quite straight forward in that. I had more straight forward lecturers in my uni like her but they all were so sweet actually when it come to support and helping when I needed it. And I believe they just made her look like evil here just to make up something.
EXACTLY 💯
Well said
These are not Malaysians i believe...singaporean
@@SoftSpeakin6 they Are Malaysians. Bride herself already said that in first 3 minutes intro. Plus Singaporeans have different English accent than this.
She is not evil but if you see it’s hurting your daughter or has caused the relationship to not be as fruitful you should filter your mouth.
Auntie cakap apa ni... she's not big. She's just has a round sexy behind she must grateful for, since some people dying to have it & must do operation to have one. She's perfect in her own way.
I really liked her final dress and happy the family liked it too. I'm surprised her family was okay with some sheer details and didn't require something more modest.
As a muslim, I totally agree!
It was very modest tbh
It is MODEST!
for me this counts as modest too😊 (muslim here)
@@Apricotblossom5555 that last dress without a bolero would have been seen as modest by my parents (muslims), no cleavage shown and the light fabric is softly covering most of her shoulder... this us the "usual" stuff mor most muslims, only fundamentalists won't agree to it unless the marriage ceremony isn't mixed.
"It reminds me of a Dervish dancer", LOL! Her father is hilarious and very sweet with her.
People defending mom’s rudeness because “that’s their culture.” Is it also their culture to not have feelings? That’s why she likes her dad more.
These dresses are STUNNING😍😍😍😍 this bride looks beautiful in every single dress, such a lovely woman❤️
She is SO Beauutiful ! And a real special beauty that's inside and out.
I Really hope she has a happy long and Fun marriage! ❤️ Her mum doesn't know at ALL how to appreciate someone outside of a certain "expected" shape ,.This lovely girl needs to be appreciated for the Beauty she is! ❤️
I agree she is absolutely beautiful. Unfortunately in their culture slim and skinny is the standard. Anything outside of that the girls get rejected.. not necessarily by men men perse but by the mom, aunts, grandma and future mother in law. If they dont accept the lady and what she wears it's a no
Mom,it’s not your weeding 😂
A bride's reaction shouldn't be " It feels nice. It feels comfortable". She seemed more relieved that everybody agreed on the dress than she seemed to love the dress. It seems like she settled. She is so stunning, so statuesque. She looked beautiful in all 3 dresses. But, she didn't seem to have her moment. She deserved that. I wish her a wonderful life.
Instead of criticizing her daughter, she needs to check that gaudy shade of red lipstick she is wearing. Her daughter look beautiful in every dress!
Welcome to Asia folks. I struggled my whole life with this. Im only 48kgs but have a curvy body. I ran to America for my education and have not had a single comment on my body❤
The west is wonderful
She has a BEAUTIFUL body and the first dress looked amazing on her. I'm glad she found a happy medium.
Every Mom should see her daughter as Beautiful. What a shame. The Bride is stunning.
Hi pretty lady. How are you doing today? And how is the weather over there?
She looked stunning in the third dress! Her comfort was never mentioned by mom until the she tried on the last dress…..it was about covering her plump body.
„She is very much a daddy’s girl …“ guess why Mum?
The parents don’t realise that in other countries women will pay thousands to get a BBL for a bum like that. Her figure is stunning and her husband to be is obviously happy with her too.
Their culture is conservative where women aren't seen as sloots parading themselves half naked like in the Western world
This bride is gorgeous! What a beauty! Even though her parents were critical of her body, I still loved the episode. Her friends are sweethearts. She looked beautiful!
I have a serious question: do they not make wedding dresses in multiple sizes??? I know alterations are standard but they act like these dresses literally only come in one size.
this was so emotional. I have experienced the same and still do coming from a similar culture that values petite bodies and no curves. I have always had a woman build since a young age, literally her exact body shape, tall and curvy. In Western standards, it is seen as normal but whenever I visit overseas Im labelled as 'fat', over something I cannot even control. My curves cannot disappear on their own, I've struggled with eating disorders and even when I was at the point of starvation and anorexia, my curves were there.
What a gorgeous bride!! She makes you root for her immediately👏🏾 Praying she and her husband a lifetime of love, joy, and family🙏🏾🫶🏽
I just wanna say she looked absolutely stunning in every single dress she tried on!
I understand the mother being conservative, but her words were so cutting. It's unsurprising that she and her daughter didn't have the best relationship. I mean, who wants to be body shamed by their own parent?
I thought Sarah looked great in all the dresses. She's a very pretty girl and her body is perfectly fine the way it is.
It's moms like this that are part of the reason a lot of women struggle with body dismorphia and have a negative view of themselves and their bodies
Yes ,my mom did this to me.
The last dress is perfect on her. She's a beautiful young woman and this dress highlights her figure in the best way. ♥️
There is a difference between honesty and downright mean. It wouldn't surprise me if the Mother's Mother did the same thing and she's now carrying the torch.
I love that this fashion stylist built up her body, she's beautiful
A few years ago, I would have been this girl. Trying always to please my parents, every decision shadowed not only consciously but also unconsciously by my parents and whether they would approve. My mother has said my butt is too big to my face many times and I believed a good long time I was unattractive. I am asian too, the thought of going against your parents is anathema and it wasn't until I had years of gentle counselling that I was able to see it. I am only just slowly understanding what my own preferences are without always having mom at the back of my mind dictating everything.
I wish you all the best Sarah, you're completely gorgeous and your body is amazing. It will still be amazing if you lose weight or gain weight. Lots of love from singapore.
Dress #2 has such a lovely neckline! Shows off her elegant neck and is very feminine.
The third with the bolero is the most flattering, and has the bling the friends are looking for. But the best part is that the bride loves it and feels beautiful in it!
Asias body standard compared to Americas is crazy. They think her hips are “fat” but she literally is considered the body standard here. Like she’s not overweight or considered fat or anything.
73% of American adults are overweight, so yeah, it makes sense that she’s standard here.
@@nxzeerxh The Asian body standard is a petite woman with a skinny S line, and let's not even mention the pale skin and double eyelids. As a fellow Asian, this kind of standard is harmful to the self esteem.
Asia is a whole continent lol with very many variety’s of standard size . In Middle East it’s different to let’s say norther Asian countries
@@aznmochibunny u forgot to mention that this standard only applies to east and south east asia only, asia is diverse and big
Right, i’m asian, short with her body type, i’m in overweight category…until i moved to a western country, where everyone is bigger and taller than me. i’m tiny. Salespersons would suggest me trying size xs or xxs. I’m shocked 😂😂
What in the world? She's got a rocking body, she looks beautiful in all the dresses.
The mother is rude. This girl is very pretty,looks nice in everything
I feel you my Malaysian sis! Being happy for others while you wait is challenging. Congratulations on your wedding and marriage 🎉
Good on the dress maker for supporting her in her body concerns. She's beautiful. I wish I had her shape (I have a large behind but I'm getting older and it's not as perky anymore!)
The bride is beautiful. The bride will always remember her mother's careless words and unkind criticisms.
Happy to see more countries being represented, but damn, all the body shaming feels so familiar. She's not big at all, she's beautiful
My mother was the opposite! It didn’t matter what I was wearing she always found something positive to say.
Hi pretty lady. How are you doing today? And how is the weather over there?
@@thomasanderson9196
My man you took a half court shot 🗑️🏀⛹️♂️
This girl is very modest. I wish her all the best in her life. Good luck girl.
She doesn't need to lose weight! She's gorgeous! The dress once altered to shorten the waist that is too long for her, it will be perfect for her.
I would KILL to have hee figure!! She's lovely. The mom is literally wearing a Hefty bag, passing judgment.
There's no need to insult her attire. That "hefty bag" is as a traditional attire in Malaysia.
That was rude ,you didnt need to say that you no different than her mom
All I can say is that this is a different culture than what I’m accustomed to. I’m glad everyone could get in board with the last dress. She looked good in all of them.
The first dress was a size or two too small for her. They should have explained this to the family. She could look great in a fitted dress, it just needs to be the right size.
She’s absolutely stunning, such a kind soft soul and she has the physical figure of what is considered classically beautiful. Such a sad thing that the mom is so mean and worse she says such awful things while smiling. That’s so evil.
Yeah, it's not about body positivity, it's about being modest as Allah SWT says.
Islam says we should be modest: not showing our parts. We also need to lower our gaze (if someone is immodest: showing their parts). Personally, I would feel uncomfortable if a boy stares at my private body parts. Men and women are distinct in their nature. (But, we are equal.) This is why guys don't understand girls sometimes, and girls don't understand guys.
Men are hardwired to be attracted to women. (Women are hardwired to be attracted to men as well. There are a couple of women who are extremely attracted to men too). So Islam has a solution: the men and women can cover up their parts. If someone isn't covered up, we lower our gaze.
The Quran says to dress modestly; women should cover up her "charms" (trust me, don't get offended by this word. It is referencing the scientific sexual nature of men being attracted to women's bodies). Honestly, I’ve heard and seen lots of scenarios and occasions where women stare at the male body too.
And I’ve heard in Islam that a lot of the rules applied to us are also applied to men.
So the mom must have been really worried and fearful.
As Yoda says, "Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger . . ."
As a Muslim, the mom should've been holding back on her fear and turning it into being more kinder and explaining, because insulting others is also bad in Islam.
It’s funny how people think the mum is ‘judging her culturally’ when THEY. ARE. MUSLIM.
@@kxtie69 no, there’s a difference between you need to cover up for modesty and you need to loose weight.
@@yvonne3582 Her mum didn’t say she needed to lose weight lmao💀 Even if she did, she meant it in a way so she could wear the dress. If she lost weight then it wouldn’t be as tight.
This young lady is gorgeous and it should have been her choice on which dress she felt comfortable and beautiful in.
Family and friends are there to support her not to body shame.
" when she started working she had no time to exercise " does her mum want her to get up and start doing star jumps?!!
Seriously SUPPORT your daughter!
Haha you think that’s bad, you should hear what my parents say to me. Makes this mum look like an angel 😂
My heart breaks for this bride. She is gorgeous and has a great figure!
I wish I was as “big” as her! 🤦♀️ She does not need to lose any weight. Such a beautiful woman ❤❤
She looks great she’s got a great shape. I don’t know what her mother sees as big.
She’s crying because she realizes how messed up her mom has created her and is happy to finally get her approval. This is so sad and a frieneme dynamic, I would never do that to my daughter, You can give you opinion without tormenting her she is sweet…for now Til she learns to bite back and then the mom will learn not to over step herself.
What a beautiful woman she is so happy and grateful to have found the love of her life and so should it be .... moms tears at the end so full of feelings for her ♥♥♥♥
Goodness, making her feel self conscious when she has an amazing body!! Also, she's the most beautiful daughter. I wonder if these people have problems with their eyes.
There's nothing more beautiful than getting married with your parents' blessings. No matter how the dress fits - I wish her all the best❤
Dress 3 awesome. Despite negativity a bit from entourage, the dress is now SPOT ON.
That is so rude of her mother and father!! She is built beautiful...well I hate to say it this way but she's 39 she needs to do what she wants and just not worry about her mom and dad they will get over it!! This is her day!
They made the mom the villain but she was right. The last dress was the most beautiful.
I loved how the dad hold his tears till the end
She is not fat!!!!! She is gorgeous 👏 please don’t think that you have to hide anything
The problem is in Asian culture the mom is simply called "Honest"
When in reality it's just rude
I actually agreed with her mom, the first two dresses were OK but not the best. The bottom of the third dress flattered her so nicely!
This bride is STUNNING! She does not need to lose one bit of weight. In fact, she could be a model 💗
She looks beautiful just the way she is!!! Her mom and dad need to keep quiet if they have nothing nice to say!!
She Is so beautiful.