Trying on 90 Dresses I Kept Until I Was "SKINNY" Again (7 years later...)

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024

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  • @heyitsfeiii
    @heyitsfeiii  Год назад +369

    PSA: I just got notified multiple times that my TWITTER IS HACKED. We're trying to figure it out on our end. Thank you for letting me know and for all the concerns :( Please DM me on IG any updates/tweets until we get this resolved. I appreciate it Linda 😭

  • @vsprsgdby
    @vsprsgdby Год назад +300

    The way dress 51 AGED the ever loving heck out of Fei I was like if she doesn’t get rid of that dress I’m sneaking in and doing it for her 😂

  • @skylaann3492
    @skylaann3492 Год назад +293

    I’m just saying ladies, the look of the tatas parting is in so many beautiful pieces of art through history for a reason. We are so stunning and only our minds hold us back. Proud of you for all of your honesty and growth chica!! You’re doing amazing things for so many people. ❤🎉

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  Год назад +48

      This comment made me appreciate the art of my tatas more!

  • @marialouise3450
    @marialouise3450 Год назад +83

    Aside from me being 5'11, we have the exact same bodytype and I've never seen someone who looks like me before. Your videos are just so uplifting and I loveit sm.
    thank you

  • @theamarkussen2300
    @theamarkussen2300 Год назад +160

    Watching your videos has helped so much. Last week I went trough my closet and got ride of 50+ item I kept until I was "skinny" again❤

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  Год назад +8

      IM SO SO SO PROUD OF YOU! ❤️

  • @alii2132
    @alii2132 Год назад +42

    I've been bingewatching your videos specially the "Until I was Skinny again" and it helped me not only with decluttering my closet and getting rid of clothes that I never use, but it also made me realize that if something doesn't fit me it does not equate to me having failed in any aspect, and I was able to try on clothes and look at them on me without crying in front of the mirror, which is a first in a very long time, so thank you for not only being utterly entertaining but also very helpful with something that is a very real struggle to so many people. Sending love your way

  • @AVALT-sq3wq
    @AVALT-sq3wq Год назад +113

    Fei I ain’t even gonna lie you been getting me through this week girl I saved some vids and I’ve been catching up 🏃‍♀️ LOVE YOU FR😭🫶

  • @rosealysse3936
    @rosealysse3936 Год назад +38

    Fei I love you so much! I literally started watching you like 8 years ago for your contact lense videos. You have grown, shifted, and melted into such an amazing woman. So happy I've been along for the ride!

  • @OddAndAbout
    @OddAndAbout Год назад +4

    The light blue sheer overlay at 9:44 is so cute

  • @Jxreann
    @Jxreann Год назад +18

    I've been watching your channel since like beginning of middle school to now me being graduated and in college! So, I love to remember some of these dresses and see the healthy comparison, just your mindset with these dresses is completely different from when you got some of these dresses! I love to see the development and feel like as a girl from the chubby committee, I got to grow with you! Keep it up fei, love you and your videos!!

  • @peachfuzz7813
    @peachfuzz7813 Год назад +8

    I've been dreading cleaning out my closet from all the clothes i've never worn and hoarded until i was skinnier, you are my best motivation to actually go through it all and clean it up! Thank you Fei

  • @shipofdreams7089
    @shipofdreams7089 Год назад +6

    2:41 this part made me so happy for u bc ur literally gorgeous no matter what 😭❤️❤️

  • @mauxw
    @mauxw Год назад +3

    You helped me clean out my closet and get rid of stuff i thought i would still wear now I’m starting fresh and growing into my own style.

  • @reloreo2899
    @reloreo2899 Год назад +15

    Watching your videos makes me feel so much more comfortable when I try on clothes. I am nonbinary and lean a little more on the masc side. I have trouble finding masc or femme style clothes that I feel good in. Mens shirts are often slim fit and tight in all the wrong places. Women's shirts and dresses are often way too tight on my biceps or have a weird neckline that is not flattering on my broad shoulders. Now when I go thrifting I use your mantra of "this clothing isn't right for me" instead of my usual thinking of "I am not good enough for this clothing"

  • @ItsAllLifesJourney
    @ItsAllLifesJourney 10 месяцев назад +1

    I'm so glad I found your RUclips channel. I really needed it. I put on a lot of weight in the last few years and I'm currently working on accepting myself at this new size and body shape. Honestly it's been really difficult and I have to restart therapy because the body dismorphia is too much but your videos really have helped me. Please keep up the great work on these platforms and thank you so much for your vulnerability and honestly on here. You are really making a positive impact out here.

  • @MacktheWack7345
    @MacktheWack7345 Год назад +5

    okay but 10, 21, 41, 42, and 66 i loveeeee and need. i know we will never get the links to all of these but i loveeeeeee

  • @letyv9071
    @letyv9071 Год назад +1

    Fei that blue romper makes you look so elegant and elongated!! It flatters your complexion as well!!!

  • @kabliaxyooj300
    @kabliaxyooj300 Год назад +3

    Girl, tell me why i felt every "ugh" when you said it. I had a wedding i attended back in may and we had to wear dresses. I have not worn dresses in years because i just dont love my body that much like i did before. Tried on so many and finally settled on one from amazon prime only to have on an apron over it the whole day 🤦🏻‍♀️.... hmong weddings are something else, lol. Had so much fun though at the wedding! We girls had matching color dresses so i felt super girly... Slowly starting to love my body again, though. I feel you and applaud you for doing this haul for us! I love these and am so thankful you share your journey of self love, so we know we are not alone either. Much love fei! ❤

  • @gogontlesetlhare
    @gogontlesetlhare Год назад +3

    I remember fitting my clothes after gaining weight (intentionally) and I should have expected it but I couldn't help but be shocked and sad that some didn't fit. Sometimes you get so attached to clothes and letting go for the new phase you are in can be hard

  • @fatimahlovesjoon6190
    @fatimahlovesjoon6190 Год назад +3

    appreciate the emphasis you put on your explanation of why you had the hanbok!

  • @Alien142011
    @Alien142011 Год назад +4

    I didn’t even watch the whole video yet and I relate so hard to your title already. I also have a ton of dresses I bought that I liked the style of but I didn’t ever have the occasion to wear it, dresses that I thought I would eventually wear but didn’t, just having pretty dresses cause they pretty.

  • @FireflyonaRadish
    @FireflyonaRadish Год назад +6

    😍 Yas thank you for helping me let go of those “just in case” clothing

  • @adgmiyou
    @adgmiyou Год назад +2

    I love watching your videos about clothes.. you helped me to love my body shape and wear clothes I'm scared to wear confidently! Continue to be an inspiration to every ladies who lacks confidence. Love you!❤❤

  • @kidcaptainwembri
    @kidcaptainwembri Год назад +3

    Thank you Fei, I can't say how much these videos have helped me
    These videos must be exhausting but I really appreciate it 💛

  • @wassupwe2ne1xbigbangxbtsxBPxG7
    @wassupwe2ne1xbigbangxbtsxBPxG7 Год назад +3

    I remember some of these dresses from the old videos!!❤love you linda

  • @stonersiren
    @stonersiren Год назад +6

    "my asian boo phase... i mean i am asian" lmao

  • @fascienneskytten5497
    @fascienneskytten5497 Год назад +2

    Feii and I have a complete different body type but it's still relatable for me to watch because eventho she hardly wear or get to wear the dresses she at some point had them and confident enough to wear some. i hardly ever wear dresses in my life and i only own like- 2/3 dresses i wore out once each. I want to wear them so bad i just- idk why i couldnt. i dont feel like they look good on me but DRESSES ARE SO PRETTY I WANNA WEAR THEM TOO 😭

  • @Fluffy_Bunny420
    @Fluffy_Bunny420 3 месяца назад

    You look beautiful in all the dresses but I think all the shades of purple are defo your colour 💜 so prettyyy

  • @user-yg3il4zm5j
    @user-yg3il4zm5j Месяц назад

    The yellow slip dress looked great on u don’t throw it away!😢❤

  • @mathildataylor7108
    @mathildataylor7108 9 месяцев назад +1

    Don’t even get me started on Urban Outfitters, I’ve gained weight recently and they’re large sizes barely fit me. I love the designs, they’re really cute clothes but they do NOT fit anyone above a M. On the other hand, I appreciated this video so much! You looked amazing in these dresses and it gave me so much more confidence knowing I’m not alone. ❤

  • @TheMushuCorner
    @TheMushuCorner Год назад +1

    Time for me to get rid of those few shorts I been holding on too 'just in case'. Needed this video! Thank you! the shorts aren't that cute and kind of old anyways. haha.

  • @daydreamerm
    @daydreamerm Год назад +1

    5:50 omg this one looks so pretty on you ♡

  • @PrettyPlainLife
    @PrettyPlainLife Год назад +3

    You are so gorgeous. Glad you’re deciding on clothes you look and feel good in. Seriously it’s okay to not look good in something. All body types look good in some clothes and not as great in others. It’s all about personal feelings and confidence. Love your attitude in this video. Love you

  • @maiseelee016
    @maiseelee016 Год назад +1

    I just let go of 3-4 trash bags of clothes and i cant be happier. To finally let go of clothes that i hope would fit me if/when i get skinnier is the best feeling.

  • @tayibahahmed33
    @tayibahahmed33 Год назад +6

    Love your videos sm they always manage to pick me up❤❤

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  Год назад +3

      Besties lifting each other up 🥺

  • @nangamsonana6395
    @nangamsonana6395 Год назад +2

    The first dress is REALLY beautiful on you 😍😍 and giving it up is just💔💔 how about making the part that doesn't close like a tie up(like a corset)

  • @annapark9516
    @annapark9516 Год назад +1

    Yea something I’ve been trying to learn is that everyone has their own body shape, I will never look like Lisa 😭😭😭 but I can always use her as motivation to embrace our similar body structure and be happy with the body I have, I think princess Mae and you are similar but definitely different styles of fashion

  • @niki_bbb
    @niki_bbb Год назад +4

    «I’m on my 40 year old goal. And that is to be a milf» - gurl, I chocked on my protein ice cream 😂😂😂

  • @jennycubs
    @jennycubs Год назад

    ahhh i super needed this video omg! thank you so much for helping me finally have the courage to get rid of my clothes that no longer serve me!! 💜

  • @beccagleee
    @beccagleee Год назад +1

    "I look like a pickle" OMFG I nearly spit out my drink 😂😂😂

  • @angellinafosse1936
    @angellinafosse1936 Год назад +1

    Okay but the sleeves on 30 are from my dreams!!!

  • @Kaeldra3
    @Kaeldra3 Год назад +1

    “It’s like a snake swallowed up a rat up here” took me outttttt

  • @gemusical29
    @gemusical29 Год назад +3

    Wow i love you feii ive been watching you for a very long time i remember the first video ive watched it was your skin care videos when you had really bad ance it was maybe before you got into treatment ❤

    • @gemusical29
      @gemusical29 Год назад

      You're doing such a wonderful job. Keep reaping away the things that no longer serve you ❤

  • @lucythecookiequeen9757
    @lucythecookiequeen9757 Год назад +4

    Hey fei love your videos and I look up to you a lot and I love your content ❤❤❤ keep it up 😊

  • @2mangamonsters
    @2mangamonsters 9 месяцев назад +1

    I wished I remembered that you could cut holes into the back of the dress and thread through ribbon or laces to turn a dress into a lace up back if it's doesn't zip up. I passed on a couple of super cute dresses I owned. D;

  • @Sam-ni2ef
    @Sam-ni2ef Год назад +11

    Idk if anyone follows her in Twitter but I think she’s hacked. It keep getting hundreds of Twitter notifications by her of the same tweet and @ ppls accs

    • @ednalucas2462
      @ednalucas2462 Год назад +1

      i had to turn off my twitter notifications

  • @linag1
    @linag1 Год назад

    This was an inspiring video for me. Like why am i giving clothes that aren't fitting me power over my mood and self-esteem.

  • @kyeoptawerk93ah
    @kyeoptawerk93ah Год назад +2

    Yo rip drama fever i had so many kdramas on my watch later list before they shut down 😭

  • @Aurora-lj4gu
    @Aurora-lj4gu Год назад

    10:15, keep it you can mop the house while wearing it because of the sleeves.

  • @1015SaturdayNight
    @1015SaturdayNight Год назад

    Fit and flare really works on you!

  • @veroniwiwa
    @veroniwiwa Год назад

    I want to see a closet organization video so baaad! love these videos ❤❤❤

  • @Lady-Bug3
    @Lady-Bug3 Год назад +3

    My whole closet has stopped fitting so my whole closet is now until I and skinny again because I hate throwing away money

  • @triptripp1873
    @triptripp1873 Год назад +2

    The white bribal shower was cute nooooo!

  • @jimberry2297
    @jimberry2297 Год назад +1

    Just seeing you is better than any morning cup of coffee:)

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  Год назад

      You are so sweet!

    • @jimberry2297
      @jimberry2297 Год назад

      Truly your brown eyes put the stars to shame and your face and smile should be on t.v. You're a very talented videographer.@@heyitsfeiii

    • @jimberry2297
      @jimberry2297 Год назад

      Sadly I got like a virus from your video. I guess warm glowing sunsets and sparkling stars in the night sky will have to suffice not seeing the most incredibly beautiful and gifted videographer:)@@heyitsfeiii

  • @AnimeFreak-dn6zt
    @AnimeFreak-dn6zt Год назад +1

    I been losing a lot of weight and most of all my clothes are way too big but I decided to keep two things when I cleaned out my closet last year. In other words, I need to get rid of most of my clothes and start all over.

  • @bunny1392
    @bunny1392 Год назад +2

    FEIIIII I’M HERE BESTIE

  • @zzoa.
    @zzoa. 6 месяцев назад

    coochina 🤣 needed that laugh.. thanks fei❤

  • @alexnik5132
    @alexnik5132 Год назад

    Loved the video! Felt like a hang out with girlfriend😄
    Fei is adorable)))

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  Год назад +1

      Always a bestie hangout ❤️

  • @Louiza-06
    @Louiza-06 Год назад

    This is me yesterday when I was with my closet and getting rid of clothes I wouldn't wear anymore

  • @zindagiwithpeeku3513
    @zindagiwithpeeku3513 Год назад +5

    I love your videos ma'am

  • @PeopleAreRealWeird
    @PeopleAreRealWeird 7 месяцев назад

    I absolutely love dress up content lol

  • @ayoits_elyssa
    @ayoits_elyssa Год назад +1

    Feiii please restock the ivy skirt soon 😭

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  Год назад

      We’re working on it! 🤍🤍🤍

  • @dami2459
    @dami2459 11 месяцев назад +1

    Slayyy bestieee

  • @simp51
    @simp51 6 месяцев назад

    I love ur videos ❤❤❤ i loved all the ones u kept! They all look so good on u, but i feel like #45 also looked pretty good on you (in my opinion) so i was sorta suprised when u didnt keep it. Does anybody know where she bought dress 45 from?

  • @CrazyCatzMom
    @CrazyCatzMom Год назад +1

    I definitley cleaned mine out lol

  • @jessa6463
    @jessa6463 Год назад +2

    "I look like a 🥒" took me out

  • @N0AMI_
    @N0AMI_ Год назад

    I need to know where’d u get number 66 romper it’s so cute!

  • @bananachachen8068
    @bananachachen8068 Год назад

    21 was so flattttterrrring on god

  • @sanrakzalia623
    @sanrakzalia623 Год назад +2

    I'm earlier than morning birds lol!!!

  • @chitravi77
    @chitravi77 7 месяцев назад

    Ooh she got legssss I can't 😭

  • @fatpanda5801
    @fatpanda5801 Год назад +1

    tell me why i got so sad when she talked about kpop like she grew out of it :´)

  • @KateMorganStyle
    @KateMorganStyle Год назад

    Definitely my sister at all those anime cons here. Okay. This is where you get proper shapewear to clean out your closet and eat some legumes rice and veggies

  • @Jocesuh
    @Jocesuh Год назад +3

    5:15 omg where is this dress from?

  • @carrolltee5906
    @carrolltee5906 Год назад

    hanbok cool

  • @melaniesa2225
    @melaniesa2225 Год назад

    Hi Fei, the Girls Night Out Corset is sold out, will it be restocked? I love it :) greetings from Germany :)

  • @jelly__cat
    @jelly__cat 4 месяца назад

    Ok where’s the dress at 7:50 from? It’s cute

  • @michelledd8423
    @michelledd8423 Год назад

    Yes let it go

  • @KateMorganStyle
    @KateMorganStyle Год назад

    Okay, this might be where I actually get the terms of my streaming contract up and see it May Liu at superstar art wants to do a thing and you want to come. Body positive is learning how to wear the right undergarments and blazers sometimes

  • @KateMorganStyle
    @KateMorganStyle Год назад

    This is where it needed to be black bean burgers, unsweet tea and pizzas with vegetables on blue zone from whole thirty diet and you needed to move 30 minutes or more. Right? Also once you are at 50 pieces you live it’s accessories and shoes.

  • @drradska8107
    @drradska8107 8 месяцев назад

    "Pathway to MILF" 😂😂😂 That's an honest and achievable goal. You'll get there for sure. I actually liked some of the dresses that received ❌. But hey, you do you. ❤

  • @christineworrall
    @christineworrall Год назад +4

    Hiii idk if you’ll even see this but I think ur Twitter got hacked? I’m getting like 100 notifs and when I click ur whole profile is changed?

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  Год назад +5

      OH MY GOD. I just checked and it seems like my twitter is HACKED OMFG. Thank you for letting me know.

    • @christineworrall
      @christineworrall Год назад

      Ur welcome, hope everything gets figured out 🤍

  • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
    @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Год назад

    Hi there! I really like the dress at 2:34, but I don’t see it on your Poshmark. Did it already sell?

  • @allykirschner8216
    @allykirschner8216 Год назад +1

    Ur so funn

  • @KK-hc5oo
    @KK-hc5oo Год назад +1

    loveeeeeee u in the black and white slip dress

  • @layse2603
    @layse2603 10 месяцев назад +1

    girl why did u keep so much stuff that dont even close

  • @brinny8965
    @brinny8965 Год назад

    A wise woman did say "Piss off". That was me. Lol. Jk.

  • @uncletea5632
    @uncletea5632 Год назад

    14:15 other mother dress

  • @hey_yu07
    @hey_yu07 Год назад

    Fie, i'd be happy to receive the clothes you don't wear anymore... 😁

  • @KateMorganStyle
    @KateMorganStyle Год назад

    You want to be a milf at 40. That was me not with big John on Brazzers because it just became a confessional for his crimes before the shoot. A lot of these are also just shape wear. That wavy chain shoulder is definitely Spanx.

  • @kristie3592
    @kristie3592 6 месяцев назад

    I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but having kids actually changes your bone structure. That didn't bother me too much. What bothered me was how it changed my feet. All my amazing vintage 90s shoes didn't fit any more!!@😢😢😢

  • @mayastraea2611
    @mayastraea2611 Год назад

    waittt but #20 was a vibeeee🥲

  • @thenaillife4466
    @thenaillife4466 Год назад +3

    The more flowy and /short or long with a high waist will compliment your shape the best. Tight fitted clothes DO NOT.. your beautiful hunni. Sometimes we need to compromise our style a little bit to compliment our body shape. .. go short girl but you need clothes that flow around your hips, with slit’s in skirts/dresses etc.. lots of cleavage is great for you with the girls. Stay away from tight fitted clothes ❤
    The style you like does not work for you hunni. I’m sorry. You like tight fitted dresses but they just don’t work for you. Get rid of all those tight dresses nooooooowwwwwww… you need to train your brain to stsy away from thst style babes 😢❤

  • @Kpopjpop638
    @Kpopjpop638 Год назад

    Yay I'm early

  • @jaspreetkaurjuneja7636
    @jaspreetkaurjuneja7636 Год назад +1

    Clothes can be toxic ?

  • @brandinstephens9933
    @brandinstephens9933 Год назад +1

    White girlfriend marry Brandin Stephens

  • @stonersiren
    @stonersiren Год назад +4

    this isn't hate at all, but a lot of the things "society does to us" are actually our own narcissism

  • @marchelaquisado5243
    @marchelaquisado5243 Год назад

    i got skinny back in second year, by not eating for 4 days, you should try it makes ya skinny fast

    • @imsheep123oinkoink
      @imsheep123oinkoink 5 месяцев назад

      That's unhealthy. She looks fine and she said she's trying to loose it in a sustainable way.

  • @Jo_gurll
    @Jo_gurll Год назад +2

    Second!

  • @jaspreetkaurjuneja7636
    @jaspreetkaurjuneja7636 Год назад +6

    It's not healthy to keep growing and keep getting more fat 👀

    • @abby9435
      @abby9435 Год назад +2

      It’s not healthy going on unsustainable diets that make you yo-yo and make your mental health shit ❤
      She is at a good mental place and you shouldn’t comment on anyone’s body when you don’t know what they’ve strived for or gone through
      Keep it to yourself 💕

  • @madi7051
    @madi7051 Год назад +1

    These “Keeping ___ until I’m skinny” videos are getting old. Stop talking about weight and do something else.