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  • @claireetally
    @claireetally 3 года назад +1388

    I love how real she is. She doesn't pretend like her life is perfect, and she is so honest and wise. I see Jesus shine through her so much ❤️

  • @tytyblondie7
    @tytyblondie7 3 года назад +1298

    I can’t even imagine having to get through a breakup that was public. Proud of you for getting through it

  • @kc-ft5xv
    @kc-ft5xv 3 года назад +424

    my boyfriend of a year and a half and i broke up last night. this is a sign. thank you.

    • @Saraxjoy.
      @Saraxjoy.  3 года назад +132

      you are so strong and you will get through this girl 💗💗💗

    • @alyssageline293
      @alyssageline293 3 года назад +4

      im so sorry girl. you deserve so much more and better! ur so amazing

  • @gosiacal5533
    @gosiacal5533 3 года назад +525

    Sara, don’t forget that we love you and you’re a QUEEN just by yourself!

    • @Saraxjoy.
      @Saraxjoy.  3 года назад +73

      thank you so much!!!💗

    • @YoursTrulyKK01
      @YoursTrulyKK01 3 года назад +6

      @@Saraxjoy. hi Sara ilysm ur a queen 👑 🤍

    • @adrianarafaeltercero8949
      @adrianarafaeltercero8949 2 года назад

      @@Saraxjoy. but you’re a strong woman you’ll be okay I know it ☺️

  • @nadiaboogie974
    @nadiaboogie974 3 года назад +67

    so unexpected yet so proud about your openness

  • @tricia2343
    @tricia2343 3 года назад +112

    oh wow I can’t believe they broke up. I used to watch them together but I am all for her single life! you are gorgeous best of luck!

  • @abigailmathew3015
    @abigailmathew3015 3 года назад +336

    If you guys broke up it is for a good reason and just know that there is better things for you. Just know we are with you throughout anything and just now your amazing . May God bless ❤️

  • @alyssageline293
    @alyssageline293 3 года назад +8

    oh my god- i just saw this while scrolling and my jaw DROPPED. omg

  • @terapolo1177
    @terapolo1177 3 года назад +166

    my best advice is to completely unfollow/block ryan- the worst thing is to check on his page randomly throughout the days/years as you grow and prosper. I am so happy to hear you're doing great!!

  • @varshinianupalli8079
    @varshinianupalli8079 3 года назад +139

    how to get over a heartbreak
    1. get a bunch of candy and cry
    2 . listen to the sour album and sing along
    3 . get some help from ur friends
    i really hope u feel better sara. you deserve someone who loves you so much. and i hope you find them.

  • @charleyava267
    @charleyava267 2 года назад +57

    my boyfriend of 2 years and i just broke up and my heart literally hurts. After 2 years they become your best friend so it’s like losing a bestfriend as well. I’m heartbroken but this is really helping.Thank you for sharing. We can be independent besties!! 💕

  • @alhamduliallah2166
    @alhamduliallah2166 3 года назад +55

    Please do a podcast your voice & energy is so “podcast-able” 🥺🧡🧡🧡🧡

  • @deblinabaral7116
    @deblinabaral7116 3 года назад +180

    Sara is a queen . So real and honest with us .😍

  • @emilyprenticex
    @emilyprenticex 3 года назад +137

    My boyfriend also broke up with me because of University in May, and everything you’re saying in this video is so true! We’ve got this!

  • @user-ge8uv8rs8w
    @user-ge8uv8rs8w 3 года назад +131

    I’ve never had a boyfriend but I experienced this like I was so dependent on my friends but for now I’m so independent and do things on my own! So proud you you Sara 💓

  • @gwenythsamantha3128
    @gwenythsamantha3128 3 года назад +186

    i was waiting for a video like this. thank you for being open to your fans! we really appreciate the honesty❤️❤️

    • @Saraxjoy.
      @Saraxjoy.  3 года назад +31

      💗💗💗💗💗

  • @gosiacal5533
    @gosiacal5533 3 года назад +23

    i’m so proud of you for having the courage to talk about it online!

  • @miamayle
    @miamayle 3 года назад +22

    God knew what he was doing. i love how positive you are about things. you are honestly just an amazing person

  • @adriannarose8997
    @adriannarose8997 3 года назад +9

    i love how you can talk to us about what’s going on in your life and not keep it all to yourself your so real and i love you so much you have such an amazing soul and i’m so sorry that you went through this tough breakup

  • @beautyforlive
    @beautyforlive 3 года назад +42

    Independent besties! I’m so proud of you Sara, you’re glowing:)

  • @deblinabaral7116
    @deblinabaral7116 3 года назад +15

    You're such an inspirational women stay strong we love you QUEEN .

  • @angelica.aponte
    @angelica.aponte 3 года назад +9

    im not in a relationship nor have I ever been in one but I feel like i’ve gained sm information that I can imply into my life! thank u and im glad that u are working on urself keep on doing that

  • @sohanahvi
    @sohanahvi 3 года назад +17

    I’m sure you both are mature enough to get the decision which is the best in the long run for yourself ! Proud of you, you’re such an independent girl

  • @deblinabaral7116
    @deblinabaral7116 3 года назад +4

    THIS VIDEO IS ACTUALLY SO HELPFUL

  • @rrreagan.gibson1846
    @rrreagan.gibson1846 2 года назад +5

    I love how everyone is now so open and isn't afraid to share how they feel!

  • @greenmileyfan97
    @greenmileyfan97 2 года назад

    Thank you for continuing to make candid videos for your followers! It's a nice breath of fresh air to hear someone talk about what they truly feel!

  • @marieaviless
    @marieaviless 3 года назад +23

    Wow Sara I’m so proud of u handling everything well and not mourning for a long time. You even grew to becoming a strong and confident woman. And you knew your actions that needed to be changed and u changed them. Great job Sara I’m proud. Also independent besties! :)

  • @abigailmolander51
    @abigailmolander51 3 года назад +31

    Wow girl! That's so crazy. You two looked so happy. But yes, things change and people change. You should be very proud of yourself for taking the opportunity to grow and not stay down and out. 💯

  • @Zoe-ir4nj
    @Zoe-ir4nj 3 года назад +17

    This got me so motivated to work on myself! So proud of u! 💕

  • @victoriahenderson4679
    @victoriahenderson4679 2 года назад +2

    this was so so so helpful, not even for a breakup just life in general. sara's so gorgeous

  • @thegillmachine
    @thegillmachine 3 года назад +4

    Going though a similar thing and it’s been helpful to see you thriving and posting great content! It’s a good reminder that life goes on

  • @joviharmon7654
    @joviharmon7654 3 года назад +11

    all i have to say is im so proud of you, Sarah. i was off and on with a guy for four years and i literally thought we were gonna get married. it takes a lot to get through it and you did it❤️

  • @wiktoriajakubiak7028
    @wiktoriajakubiak7028 3 года назад

    I definitely can see that you're GLOWING girl! I'm glad to see you happy!

  • @loveesiaa
    @loveesiaa 3 года назад +6

    adore her eyes! her smile always makes my dayyy 🥲🤍

  • @SitamGovekar
    @SitamGovekar 3 года назад +1

    I really love how you talk to us so freely ❤️ you are actually a goddess

  • @racheloom
    @racheloom 2 года назад +1

    I’m so proud of you for getting through this. Thank you for being so real with us. 💕

  • @estheragha2575
    @estheragha2575 3 года назад +6

    Im so proud of she talking about this online she is so pretty

  • @aleahapplin
    @aleahapplin 3 года назад +7

    Thank you for being so open and honest, this is not easy to talk about but know that you have a strong group of independent besties supporting you all the way!!!

  • @lesleyaslue04
    @lesleyaslue04 3 года назад +3

    girlie you are so strong💘 thank you for making this video

  • @arielochoa4478
    @arielochoa4478 3 года назад +2

    You are so strong, for some people, it is so much difficult to focus on themselves, because like you, they depended on that person. You inspire a lot of people 💕

  • @peyton._.31
    @peyton._.31 3 года назад

    i love how real and open you are to all of your fans. i’m so proud of you for getting through this and you should know that i will always love watching your content no matter what. ily sara!!

  • @vivienlee3492
    @vivienlee3492 3 года назад +3

    so happy for you for posting this online! stay strong 🤍

  • @SalomeaCarmen
    @SalomeaCarmen 3 года назад +3

    I’m so happy you’re happy now🥰 I love your vlogs and your energy. I watch your videos for a long time because I feel like I resonate to you❤️ You’re such an inspiration for me. God bless you endlessly🤍😇

  • @ashley-zt9ob
    @ashley-zt9ob 3 года назад

    Love how you show that life is not perfect and that everyone goes through things love you !!!!

  • @ofricohen1625
    @ofricohen1625 3 года назад +2

    Such a real and honest video!! I must say that maybe because I've never had a boyfriend before I am all of those things you mentioned now, like I fully agree that you need to find ways to "have fun" and be happy on your own and there are certain things I'm enjoying a lot more doing alone than with my friends. So important you brought this up!! Love you ❤️

  • @natalietay75
    @natalietay75 3 года назад +7

    Take care sara ❤️ Thank you for being so honest and open, sending love

  • @lifewlexa
    @lifewlexa 2 года назад

    She gave really good advice!! I'm happy you've gotten to grow through this!

  • @ashyy5
    @ashyy5 3 года назад +3

    u r so strong girly! i love how confident u r now! keep bein amazing 💜

  • @addisondunkel5398
    @addisondunkel5398 3 года назад +1

    SO PROUD OF U SARAH !!! thank u so much for this and i am beyond happy that you’re happy! love you girl

  • @meghanodonovan2031
    @meghanodonovan2031 2 года назад +1

    I AM SO PROUD
    Your change is so obvious and i can definitely see how confident and wise you've gotten

  • @chloestevens4607
    @chloestevens4607 3 года назад +2

    I am glad you are opening up about it you deserve to be happy ily so much!

  • @anu_1233
    @anu_1233 2 года назад

    OMG, I REALLY REALLY NEEDED THIS. Thank you for sharing this with us. I hope everyone, who is going through a tough breakup finds their old, but new improved versions of them again and love themselves to the fullest

  • @mackenna.christon5736
    @mackenna.christon5736 3 года назад

    sara thank you so much for being so real and so genuine. we all really appreciate it !!

  • @elisalaporta
    @elisalaporta 3 года назад

    Im so proud that you talk about this and how real you are and I love it so much❤️✨

  • @loveesiaa
    @loveesiaa 3 года назад +6

    awww sara! you're so strong that you're talking it online and we are proud of youu! we love you alots ☺️

  • @dinglanghita
    @dinglanghita 2 года назад +4

    i'm so proud of you for always being yourself and show us that your life is always 'perfect.' love you so much

  • @michy7359
    @michy7359 3 года назад

    So proud of you Sara, i’m also in this situation rn but i’m not totally over him which is such!!!! Thankyou for making this video btw it feels like you’re my bestie who gives me a great advice. Love lots

  • @fabbyvargas6548
    @fabbyvargas6548 2 года назад

    Thank you for being like a big sister and being so honest and being so real

  • @juliatingey9234
    @juliatingey9234 3 года назад +1

    i am so happy you’re the happiest you’ve ever been AWW🥺💖💖

  • @itsnatalyy
    @itsnatalyy 3 года назад +1

    Yes girl your really strong for making this video.Love watching your vids❤️

  • @agushvv
    @agushvv 2 года назад

    Hi Sara, I started following you like a year ago and I love your content and your attitutde. It’s okay to not be okay all the time and I love that you expand that through your social media💘. I hope you get even better that what you are right now and I really wish you the best🙌🏻✨ You are a queen and are going to get better❤️

  • @bellac8414
    @bellac8414 2 года назад

    independent besties!!! i'm learning a lot from this THANK YOU SO MUCH, this was the push i needed to finally help get me through my breakup!!! all of the negative feelings you said you had were happening to me as well, except its 6 months later and im just starting to realize now that it's not worth my time to keep stressing over it lol

  • @mikaylat5597
    @mikaylat5597 2 года назад +1

    Independent besties 💕!!
    Breakups aren’t at all easy for many reasons. I remember how devastated I felt with mine but when you come to the point of being over it and letting go, it’s a good feeling.
    You’re stunning too!!

  • @marianamelara5589
    @marianamelara5589 2 года назад

    I’m so proud of you girly you are so beautiful and you are glowing !!

  • @riddhimehta3108
    @riddhimehta3108 2 года назад +2

    So much power to you!! Happy that you're realising everything about you and around you!!
    Love you!!
    You're gorgeous btw!! 💗💗

  • @marysolmunoz118
    @marysolmunoz118 3 года назад +1

    Wow thanks for keeping it real! Wish you the best… your fashion & vlogs make my day and inspire me to be productive

  • @owamistanley
    @owamistanley 3 года назад +1

    I am so sorry to about your breakup but I am happy to see that you talking about it and are expressing how you feel because that is super important!!! I love you and I hope that you doing okayyy 💗

  • @sandy374
    @sandy374 3 года назад +1

    Girl I really love how real you are and, telling this it’s a little bit hard but I’m so happy for you that you are better now and I hope you the best ever.
    Independent besties 🤍

  • @alexagarcia7916
    @alexagarcia7916 3 года назад +5

    I loved this so much. It let me know that I am not alone, I have been feeling really down and hurt. But God really spoke to me, and he isn’t worth my pain. Sara you are such the example and light, God Bless you girl💕independent besties🌹

  • @dareensiam4758
    @dareensiam4758 3 года назад +1

    ur so strong i love you and im so proud of you queen always put ur head up bestie

  • @x1003
    @x1003 3 года назад +2

    so proud of you!! 🤍

  • @herdessystudio
    @herdessystudio 3 года назад +1

    You’re so positive!! Love ya

  • @emerygraf1323
    @emerygraf1323 3 года назад

    I'm so proud of you for doing this!! I know it's really hard but I'm so proud of you and happy that you grew from this!!!♡

  • @alimasiva1802
    @alimasiva1802 2 года назад

    Love this 🥺❤stay healthy saraa

  • @ceydayildizhan5660
    @ceydayildizhan5660 3 года назад +2

    I love your honesty ... 💗you are so strong and such an inspiration💕sooo proud of you and so happy that you are doing great... we love you QUEEN❤️🥺

  • @brooke6598
    @brooke6598 3 года назад +1

    your so strong for talking about this online ik its not easy!

  • @mariasaeed3080
    @mariasaeed3080 2 года назад

    U don’t understand how much I needed this thank u!❤️

  • @kaelynearl8335
    @kaelynearl8335 2 года назад

    i really appreciate you sharing about you hard times!! thank you ❤️

  • @esperanzacabrales5170
    @esperanzacabrales5170 3 года назад +1

    we love you Sara!! thank you for shining your light and speaking your truth!!❣️❣️❣️

  • @lauratscheika3814
    @lauratscheika3814 3 года назад +1

    love you girl!! so proud of you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @faithmarie874
    @faithmarie874 3 года назад +80

    i love you so much pretty girl ! so proud of you and how far you've come. thank you for making sure your platform is real, raw, and unedited at times. life is not even close to perfect, and you showing the reality of that is so brave and so appreciated. xoxo ps. independent besties !!

    • @Saraxjoy.
      @Saraxjoy.  3 года назад +16

      you are the BEST! love you so much 💖

  • @keigoiwao3808
    @keigoiwao3808 3 года назад

    thank you for being so honest with us 🤍

  • @italynatalia2189
    @italynatalia2189 3 года назад +4

    Wow, I knew something was going on!!! I love you so much I'm so glad you are doing better.

  • @alirae7148
    @alirae7148 2 года назад +4

    Im 25 watching this, and the same situation happened when my 2 year high school boyfriend left to another city far away for University. They go to the dorms and see the newness of life and realize that it's a completely different chapter.& then the same thing happened to me as I went into Uni :) It's just life. My advice I found helped me, having gone through this, is to always give this relationship the credit it deserves and look back at it in a good light, but in more of a fairy tale light. Because in a year or so from now in your adult life, it won't have any relevance to adult relationships, which are entirely different.

  • @alexisstoll5430
    @alexisstoll5430 3 года назад

    I’m sorry Sara 😓 I love and appreciate your honesty with us! I can definitely relate to being too attached and kind of finding your identity in your partner. I hope you grow and become more confident in who you are!!💕

  • @Anna-in3je
    @Anna-in3je 3 года назад

    I’m proud of you for getting over it and being able to say everything out in public :)
    Also, you’re so pretty and I love your eyes 💕

  • @stephanieordonez3458
    @stephanieordonez3458 3 года назад +8

    Sara we love and care for you so much, fighting!

  • @tanyasingh9490
    @tanyasingh9490 2 года назад +1

    Sara you're a QUEEN my love !!!! You truly deserve all the happiness we all love you.💖💖

  • @carolinadomingues2301
    @carolinadomingues2301 2 года назад +2

    Really really proud of you , thank you for sharing this with us 🤍
    God knows what he is doing ✨

  • @janellebarbarossa5813
    @janellebarbarossa5813 3 года назад +1

    Could you do a back to school outfit inspo video? Also I’m so sorry 😢!! Your literally so amazing!!

  • @lizaz9850
    @lizaz9850 2 года назад +2

    thanks for the advice sara! I have never been through a breakup or even been on a date lol
    but this advice so helpful and I will be saving this video for the future ❤

  • @averyrose8997
    @averyrose8997 2 года назад +3

    This is the healthiest relationship advice I’ve ever listened to and I wish I would’ve seen this two years ago .

  • @chloecook4186
    @chloecook4186 3 года назад

    I hope you're doing okay independent bestie! Also you are like so inspiring to me and ily.

  • @ceceliakueffner430
    @ceceliakueffner430 2 года назад +6

    Independent besties 💖
    This has been really inspiring and I'm glad you're happy!

  • @chrisha_4
    @chrisha_4 2 года назад +1

    I am so happy for you!!! Thank you for openly sharing this to us. We love you, we are proud of you, and we are always here for you Sara!❤️ Independent besties!!!!

  • @sydnee9668
    @sydnee9668 2 года назад

    I’m very proud for you to be comfortable enough to talk about it online. And I love that you have got thru it in a more healthy way! Love you so much Sara 💛

  • @anacanycordova9296
    @anacanycordova9296 3 года назад +9

    "Independent besties"... Thank you for talking about this Sara💕 I know this video will help so much people.☺️ You are so strong and I'm happy to hear you are the happiest you've ever been 💖

  • @torischneider7310
    @torischneider7310 3 года назад +1

    thank you so much for this video, im getting over a breakup and this video helped me find things to do. and i love how you are so real in all your vlogs that makes my day. independant besties

  • @fairy-jz8wy
    @fairy-jz8wy 2 года назад

    u‘re so strong u got this queen 👑

  • @mannatkhan9546
    @mannatkhan9546 2 года назад +1

    This was pretty helpful girl! 💖💖