Hey guys. Those of who who follow insta/twitter will know already but for everyone else I've been pretty ill for the last week and a half, so just wanted to say apologies that this is a little later than usual. Thought I'd get better sooner so was waiting to feel good enough to film but the day never came so just decided to brave it; apologies for the voice and any slightly lower energy but hopefully you guys still enjoy the video as I still had good fun making it. Let me know what you thought of it all! Looking forward to more drama in part 2 of the tell-all which will be out very soon, so feel free to subscribe if you want to catch that one! And as always, thanks for watching :) p.s. Come say hi in between uploads! Instagram instagram.com/arthurtv Twitter twitter.com/arthurtv More links on my new very cool website arthur.tv/links
his entitlement to young women is insane. i wish tlc would hire a naked 70yo man to 'pursue' big ed romantically. like no matter how many times big ed says no, the naked old man will start crying, brings up how hes 'going to THeRapY' etc
I caught on to that too right away. Even though what he said afterwards calling himself out...but he still said what he said....and if you put that leaked conversation on the phone into perspective.....this relationship is quit scary. Even though I think theyre meant for each other....this is toxic if they dont get their shit together or we will be seeing the end of the story on the I.D. channel.
Yeah I have a hard time balancing frustration and sympathy for Liz because the way she talks about her last relationship it’s clear that she trauma bonded to Ed as soon as they got together and was never really willing to break that bond
She's just like the female leads in After, The Kissing Booth, Twilight, and Fifty Shades of Grey and 365 Days. She is disgusting, with zero self-esteem or selflessness (but I mean, hey, guess that means she's a perfect woman for Ed, right?)
Yeah I used to be that girl and I feel real sorry for her. A lot of times this comes from a place of self-loathing and trying to live your life through another person. When you love yourself, you respect yourself enough to not deal with pricks like Big Egg. I'm glad I grew out of that mindset early
I was like "what's the reason they're telling this?" I'd be so confused as to what face to pull if I was there to pretend I was still in the conversation. 😂
Omg my jaw was on the floor thinking.. WTH, this isn’t a a positive Liz maybe you might not want to mention that, hahaha. WTH is wrong with these people???? 🙄😆
Liz gives me MAJOR 'abused and brainwashed' vibes, but honestly, my sympathy for her is now spent and all my sympathy now just goes to her poor little daughter. God knows how that kid is gonna grow up in this toxic mess.
Sadly Liz is an alcoholic who is co-dependant on any man who stays with her at this point. Her self esteem is so low due to the alcohol, we all know this marriage won't last three months.
For real. It would be one thing if she was just being fed Ed’s lies but all the shitty stuff he does is immortalised on film! I don’t know how she watches the show and stays with him
@@gaia-papaya8772 Colt(e) showed that he was by no means a good partner... but I don't think he's on the same level of trashy, vile and horrible as Ed.
I feel so bad for Liz. She's got a history of abusive relationships, and this one is no different. We've all heard the phone call. He's such a manipulative disgusting lump. I hate that her daughter will be exposed to that toxicity as well.
If Liz wants to ruin her life, that would be her problem - IF she didn't have a young daughter to raise. Dragging her daughter through all this drama and being this example makes her as terrible a person as Edward/Eddie/Ed. The friend is right, they're a perfect, insecure, selfish match made in a psych ward.
"You don't love anybody except yourself" Finally someone said it to him! Finally! I am not happy it had to be Debbie because now I have to agree with her. But at least someone said it
Honestly Debbie always fills that role on the tell all lmaoooo. Just when you think you can’t stand seeing her and colt another second she serves Ed for dinner during the tell all and I give her another chance
it frustrates me beyond words because I also was abused and so was my mother. and she never left my dad, even tho he threw so many verbal abuse and actual physical kicks and punches to her. Always told me, Oh your father changed. he will be better. Nope. NOPE. they never change.
@@charliec7853 I will be willing to bet that Ed's marriage with Liz won't last. And besides, what does Liz even see him? No one else does. Every woman was heartless to him and left him. So why should he even deserve a woman with a beautiful face? She's too beautiful for him anyway!!!
People can absolutely change (both for the better and for worse)... You can't project your personal feelings about the person who abused you onto every single person on the planet. While I no longer have any direct contact with the person who used to abuse me (both mentally and physically), I can say with some certainty that several years later they have indeed changed. Saying that "he's changed " is ALWAYS a red flag is just ridiculous. Claiming they've changed without demonstrating it can definitely be a red flag, claiming someone who actually has changed has changed is just stating a fact. Ed obviously falls in the first category, and I'd wager most people do, but not everyone does.
Notice how Liz has become much more aggressive since she's been back with him. She's not standing up for herself, she's being ignorant. Comments like "use your f*cking ears," "I wanna kill that b*tch," are unnecessary, and show what kind of influence this man has on her.
I actually think this has always been her true self. Just that before, she wasn’t well known yet, so she was trying to “behave” or “impress” for the cameras. Plus, apparently, Liz has mentioned that she drinks a loooot, because that’s one of the ways she bonds with Ed. It’s possible she was drunk during the tell all too.
personally, I think her name-calling that woman was appropriate. they both said it about each other. one started the badmouthing and got caught liz got mad and used the same insult karma.
@@ethanjupiter4955 ppl don’t act the same when drunk. Functioning alcoholics can be drunk and have drank a lot and you don’t know. My neighbor drinks a ton ,I never knew until we got closer . He seemed normal just bolder . That’s how Liz acts now, just like the OP said. She is bolder ,her impulse control and inhibitors have went down. She never talked or looked at ppl the way she does now. Ppl on the Tell all notice she is acting different I would bet money she was drinking. You can tell,she doesn’t have to slur or be sloppy . Although,neither of us know for sure and we are making assumptions. I agree with this person Liz is drunk.
um the other women were badmouthing her first and then called her a bitch when she was still in ear shot, she had the right to be upset. especially when they were literally talking about the thing she already said she'd do
Lol. Debbie is not protective over Liz. she just hates Ed. Lmao. If you don’t believe that, just watch how fast a Debbie turns on anybody that disagrees with her or criticizes her that she was ones complementing or nice to. That is signature Debbie.
@@rhiannabrittany13 oh idk, i mean she acted the same towards rose, calling ed out on how badly he treated her, i know she's spiteful and two-faced but i can't help but feel that there is something maternal coming out there
I never thought I would ever agree with Debbie… but she is 100% right, Ed should NOT be giving relationship advice 😣 Ed is the most repulsive human being!
@@yilz123 Hmmmm, you talk of potatoes rolling around on the bed and "assholes in all forms" but I'm thinking of rolling potatoes and all of those "eyes" looking pretty much the same from any angle.
If Ed’s as abusive as he seems, this actually, tragically, makes a lot of sense. Survivors of domestic abuse leave an average of 7 times before the split is final.
@@Overseer2579 Mainly because it would indicate that she's impetuous and too quickly gets deeply involved with men who are not reliable or compatible long-term. And after the way he yelled at her on the phone, it's s red flag that she would ever even consider taking him back. That wasn't just a fight - that was hateful and abusive language on his part. Anyone who is capable of speaking that way to someone they supposedly "love" is deeply disturbing.
OMG Arthur! What a precious picture of you and your little sisters! they are blessed with an awesome big brother! Keep shining! keep doing what you’re doing and I wish you all the best!! You’re the best!!
“I forgave Liz for everything”. That’s called gaslighting. He isn’t in love with her. He’s a narcissist and they are extremely adept at sniffing out a vulnerable, codependent, broken person to become their emotional supply. Liz is now his codependent, emotional supply. She will now spend her time defending Ed because he rewards her emotionally when she does.
Yep. I was gaslight just like this. They always turn it around making their actions your fault so you apologize for their bad behavior. They say you imagine that I said this. You start to doubt everything. Gaslighting is hell
@@jessicabell8838 yes, I spent many years married to a narcissist. And watching Liz, I saw the same pattern of behavior. I can’t tell if their relationship is real or just for their 15 minutes of fame, but it’s really disturbing either way. TLC used to be an educational channel. Now they do nothing but make money exploiting the most toxic train wrecks they can find.
@@afgal9726 anything for money. Got rid of Alina but big pred makes money like Angela. Watching season 2 now. Liz looks terrible from her first time on to the tell all that just happened.
Arthur every time you say "unfortunately that's all we have time for today" it gives me the same feeling as when the teacher would be reading a good book to the class and left us off on a cliffhanger for the following day lol. I hope you feel better soon and don't push yourself too hard for us!!
First he used a freaking trauma bond brought by a SHOOTING to lure a girl into his bed, now out of desperation he uses the trauma of his dog's death to lure a girl into his life 😭 this man is not looking for a wife, he's desperately looking for a flatmate just to not die alone
That's gross. My cat died about 4 and a half months ago. I'm single. I could not imagine ever using my cat passing to try and get a man. I still can't talk about him without crying. That's so gross.
@@marye3974 well yes but big Ed is a different breed his built different and he will use anything in his advantage to manipulate people. I’m just very supprised Liz came back
It’s usually a sign when so many significant family members don’t support a marriage. They see the mess. It’s typically a toxic relationship if family members are willing to disconnect. I’m not sure about his daughter, but his mother seems to be genuinely caring
It actually takes victims of abuse 7-8 times sometimes more to realize the situation they’re really in. Liz looks to be trauma bonding especially with her continuously making excuses for his behavior and with her history of DA, it makes sense. They do that because it becomes a normal for them to be treated that way. I hope she can break the cycle and come to her senses. Ed is feeding off her vulnerability like the manipulative pos he is.
But most abuse victims cant watch and rewatch their abuse happen in real time on television. She can see the dysfunction, she is just a weak clout chaser, end of...
Liz for sure has deeper issues. Again, when they first went on a date she'd recently gotten out of an abusive relationship. I don't know the details from her case, but friends of mine that have been in such a relationship can very, very easily fall into another bad one after getting out. It's really sad to see. Whatever her ex did to her, I think scarred her to the point that Ed's "lovebombing cult tactics" is what she might feel is "real" love. The woman is smart, but she does need help. That he caresses her leg when she speaks is standing as a red flag for me, with the abusive relationships I've seen. That might very well be conditioning.
You get what you strive for, these weak ass womem get on my nerves and yes, i have been abused before as well. That mfer tried to get an order of protection on me once I was done, ladies get it together
I'm sorry to hear you had to go through that. I wouldn't say she's weak per se, depending on the level of trauma, it could be that her way of rationalizing has been damaged enough or she's become conditioned to not be able to tell what she should or shouldn't accept. I believe someone mentioned she had a drinking problem as well, which won't help either. Some people who've been hurt enough, their brains can come up with the strangest, and unhealthy, things to feel "protected", if that makes sense. I think that what Liz would benefit greatly from is CBT to realize that she can be an independant person, and having the needy tick that is Ed around is going to cause more damage to her mentally. I may have dropped out of psychology, but even with the basics we learned this relationship won't last, and Liz will come out of it in an even worse state than she was after her abusive ex. It's sad that because Ed is damaged, don't get me wrong, I don't care about the gremlin at all, he seems almost hellbent to get his way even if he causes harm to the other persob with no remorse. By now I doubt he's even seen a therapist, most likely he went online and searched for things that would ne easy to remember that he could use.
@@purgetheXYs I'm happy you were able to leave, you most certainly don't deserve to be mistreated and abused. Putting down Liz isn't helping anyone though. It's obvious that Liz has some serious issues related to abuse and trauma. Adding to this, it sounds like she's also been isolated from others. Until she realises that she needs help, she won't be able to leave anytime soon. That's not weakness, that's her brain being all effed up from trauma. This girl needs a therapist yesterday.
@@TheEmeraldLady youre right in a way but honestly, I think Liz is a clout chaser. And she seems to have more love for noneck than she does for her own daughter, moving in with a man who is an essential stranger and is very predatory. And unlike most of us, she can go back and watch the dysfunction to remind herself of how she was treated. What was the point in outing him to everyone just to get back with him? I aint got time or sympathy for her, Im sorry. I think she's beyond pathetic
The saddest part of Liz and Ed is that through all this NOBODY mentions her poor daughter being dragged along with her mother into this mess. Talk about an unstable childhood! Thanks Arthur 💜😊
That's what I keep wondering about. Where is her daughter? Ed is such a douchebag. Goes to Mexico and tries to bully poor Kaory into a relationship, or at least get laid. Then comes home and in two days is engaged to Liz. I feel so sad that her daughter is gonna think their relationship is how a relationship is suppose to be.
This whole "he completely changed on the drop of a hat, he used to be abusive now he's perfect" storyline is really perpetuating dangerous myths about abuse that abusers can just change easily if you wait long enough and are forgiving enough. Abusers *can* change, but not without a LOT of inner work and time and there's no guarantee it will last. And the likelihood of them changing is very low. So falling for the grand apology, or the expensive gift, or the fact they know some therapy buzzwords to excuse what they did - it's dangerous. Trust should never be given back easily to an abuser. It takes a LOT OF TIME to see if what they say and do is genuine now or not.
The fact that he was practically proposing to Kaori, openly dating with serious intend, telling Kaori that she was the one and devastated when she rejected him, less than a week before he proposed to Liz should be enough of a red flag to see how much he haven't changed. But Liz looks like a wounded person trapped on the abuse-abused cycle... or it's all just for the attention/money, that could be too.
Actually bad therapist exist. A friend has one experience when a therapist like literally a mental healt professional told her to hold on to her boyfriend because he was her only salvation of the other problems in her life.
Actually bad therapist exist. A friend has one experience when a therapist like literally a mental healt professional told her to hold on to her boyfriend because he was her only salvation of the other problems in her life.
@@NadiaS8394 yeah. They got rid of Alina but big pred brings in ratings just like Angela. If a man did that to a woman he'd not be asked back. This whole thing is okay with abuse and sa as long as it brings in more money
Liz shows a lot of the characteristics of an abused and damaged woman. It would not surprise me at all if both her previous marriages were abusive. In fact, it would explain a lot. Her getting defensive and stuff on the tell all is a telltale sign to me of being victim of manipulation. None of the things they are saying to her are getting through to her because she is so brainwashed
And his smug face when she said she defended him against the other two cast mates. He knows she’s pushing away any sort of companionship from friends/family/co workers, thus pulling her into his arms further.
The fact that she thought the ring was for someone else, screams true love. And if 13k was the “biggest ring” in the store, it must have been a Claire’s in Beverly Hill’s.
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The faces of everybody else in the room is gold xd I love how they can't even hide that they think Ed and Liz are a trainwreck xd
"hes changed" really suprises me because before liz always had to tell ed that he was moving to fast but then we got him proposing to her the second day of seeing each other again
yeap, that sums it up pretty well.. its like watching a trainwreck in slow motion knowing that whats gona happen, but u just cant look away for some reason... hes so full of shiet thu
Liz trying to act like she wasn't calling Ed a predator and all that stuff. That's not just "being mad", she was sharing some pretty sick shit, and now she's going back on all of it. I feel bad for her daughter, because she refused to Dodge this really, really big bullet.
Liz either lied about some extremely serious allegations about Ed, or she choose to get back into a relationship with the same guy she 'exposed' publicly. Either way, the scenario is concerning.
Sooo true!! I don’t even bother to watch it anymore knowing that Arthur will bring us up to speed! And btw, I love Puerto Rico! I’m there every summer and wouldn’t have it any other way! What part are you from?
Liz was discarded by Ed once and in a very humiliating manner after he broke her down and made her up to fit his ideal . It’s very hard for her to sum things up or follow her own voice especially she is very emotionally damaged from previous realationships . My heart truly breaks for Liz 😰🤦🏿♀️
OH.MY.GOD. When Ed was trying to say someone else was texting Liz when he would break up with her was the SCARIEST red flag yet! He’s basically admitting he’s a manipulator by trying to completely avoid blame and responsibility for breaking up with Liz, and thus hurting her and causing her grief. To absolve himself of any wrongdoing in their relationship, in turn spinning it to making everything her fault, another reason he confidently said he “forgave her” and she didn’t argue back, and also him saying all they did was talk during dinner and didn’t even eat, shows the puppet strings he has over this girl that he set up in the dark away from prying eyes. HE IS AN ABUSER and PREDATOR. All the signs are there and we shouldn’t have to wait til down the road when Liz finally spills it , this girl is CURRENTLY being abused by a narcissist. HELP HER.
Eff that, she needs to help herself. I know trauma can affect a person but as someone with quite a bit myself, I cant fathom letting someone do that to me. Its preposterous.
Days before they got engaged he was literally in Mexico hitting on another woman he claimed 'Could Be The One' 🤦🏼 You can smell the desperation through the god damn screen.
@@lisalavigne8146 like Ed’s now former friend said on the tell all, “They’re both insecure, and they’re both selfish.” It’s a match made in hell, I guess
Liz is simultaneously like “I’m gonna change him” and also like “I’m gonna make sure everyone knows how shit he is, so if we break up he’ll never score a ten like me again” 😭
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I got broke up with one time over text and the fact they broke up with me over text alone made me realise how much of a bullet i dodged. Liz needs to realise someone who cant even give you the respect to break up face to face (8 goddamn times) will never give you respect in a relationship
What has actually appalled me through this is the fact that Ed's friend Laura, actually hooked him up with her friend Kaori. What friend does that to another friend? Laura must have known what an arsehole Ed was so why on earth would she want to put a friend of hers through meeting and getting involved with him? If I was Kaori, it would be the end of my friendship with Laura.
She honestly might not have known if she had only gotten Ed's side of the story on everything. Sounds like that's the case with his friends and family who allegedly think Liz is bad for HIM. He is pretty good at spinning victim narratives with backup tears 🤷🏽♀️
If she's Ed's friend, she probably doesn't see him like that. I mean, if two of my friends who I loved were dating (which has happened to me), I'd be super happy for them. I think she probably just has blinders on because she cares about him.
Liz is like Heidi from South Park and Big Ed Eric Cartman. She doesn’t necessarily hate being with him but she doesn’t want everyone to feel the satisfaction of everyone around her being right about their relationship.
''I've chosen Liz over everyone''...yikes! There are toxic families where it's fine to choose your partner, but here Ed is the toxic one. If my dad talked like Ed, I'd be done. In my eyes Ed is far worse than Eric was (the guy who kicked his daughter out of HER apartment) and that says something.
The same irked feeling I used to get when my abusive dad would sneak a seemingly teasing comment about my mum in front of people who didn't know what he was really like is exactly how I felt when Big Ed said that polar bear comment. It's so easy to spot when you're used to seeing nasty people act nice in front of company.
Liz just happened to be available. There’s no real love there. If any other woman besides Liz gave him the attention he needed so desperately at that time , she would not be there. He’s a narcissist.
Ur 100000% correct , this relationship reminds me a lot of my ex an I. I was liz in this situation, total simp, whipped over a man who wasn’t all that lol I’m just glad he left me again , I ain’t taking his ass back
The more Ed talks about counseling, how counseling has helped him so much, and recommends others to seek counseling just shows how he's NEVER gone to counseling and NEVER will.
Or he perceives it as positive because it's not unusual for narcissistic people to go to counseling and what they actually hear is affirmation and what they take away is an education in how to be a master narcissist
I feel no sympathy for Liz and her enabling, clout chasing ways. I hope the dad gets the daughter full time and she lives miserably with Ed for putting him over her and her childs health and well being. Edit: Liz sounds drunk, is it just me? She also looks terrible now
Other than all of the obvious problems and red flags, it stuck out to me how she said they have got rid of 'negative people' in their lives. While disconnecting from genuinely toxic and draining people from your own life is often best, I worry that this is another abuse tactic. Abusers isolate their victims so they have nobody else to turn to and nowhere else to go, usually under the guise of other people being 'negative' or 'toxic'. So this is potentially a dangerous situation.
I've tried some other people's takes on 90 Days Fiance Recaps but yours are definitely my fav, Arthur. You're doing a great job, you're funny and really entertaining to watch, yet calm and not mean in any way (and if you are then it feels deserved lol). Love that, keep up the great work 😊 Greetings from Germany!
Do we really live in a world where people like Ed becomes millionnaires from being toxic and a creep on tv ? What the hell hapened. I cant believe he did not get cancelled already.
Yeah, unfortunately they're not going to cancel him unless he says a racist remark or something bc he brings in alot of ratings and money for the show. Can't lie, even though majority people don't like him when he's on TV people will watch just to see what he does next.
Pressure needs to be put on TLC for supporting a domestic abuser. They need to explain why they are employing an abuser and why they support domestic violence.
@@kaylovekayGIRL How would you know ? He as his Merch, Cameo and all. I am just responding from what it says on this video. Let's say he isnt a millionnaire, he still has way too much "fame" from being the person he is from this show.
@@canilin6030 girl , he ain't a fucking millionaire. People love to hate Ed but trust me his cameo and tlc per episode don't pay a lot. He is more than likely making more $ due to the show which is obv, but if you think Ed is in the TOP percentage of money makers in America from REALITY TV you're stupid. He is no Kris Jenner.
I would honestly love a video of Arthur where he just gives relationship advice! He seems so wise and intelligent when explaining how people's behaviour reflects them...
Liz: "I didn't have a backbone back then like I do now" Me: Does you backbone only kick when other women say something about you? Because you took shallow ed back after her treated you like trash. So where is your backbone in reference to for ed 🤔.
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"I forgave her..."
This line says a lot about him.
I was still asking that question like what??
I know...what a POS!!!
Right?! Forgave her for what ?!
his entitlement to young women is insane. i wish tlc would hire a naked 70yo man to 'pursue' big ed romantically. like no matter how many times big ed says no, the naked old man will start crying, brings up how hes 'going to THeRapY' etc
I caught on to that too right away. Even though what he said afterwards calling himself out...but he still said what he said....and if you put that leaked conversation on the phone into perspective.....this relationship is quit scary. Even though I think theyre meant for each other....this is toxic if they dont get their shit together or we will be seeing the end of the story on the I.D. channel.
"He's changed" is a classic line from a woman who is trauma bonded to her abuser.
couldnt have said it better
Every time I've heard that line in my life, that person is deeply entrenched in their own delusion and stockholm syndrome for their abuser.
Yeah I have a hard time balancing frustration and sympathy for Liz because the way she talks about her last relationship it’s clear that she trauma bonded to Ed as soon as they got together and was never really willing to break that bond
I kinda wanna dm her an abuse hot line but I know she would just block me 😂
All jokes aside she deserves better and is being love bombed
Or either man/woman saying, "I'll change, I'll change" (just don't leave me-no change)
Liz is literally the "I can change him" girl. The "he's good deep down inside" kind of girl.
I've been that girl.
I was an idiot.
Fortunately, I learned better.
FR
Evidently she has daddy issues.
She's just like the female leads in After, The Kissing Booth, Twilight, and Fifty Shades of Grey and 365 Days. She is disgusting, with zero self-esteem or selflessness (but I mean, hey, guess that means she's a perfect woman for Ed, right?)
Yeah I used to be that girl and I feel real sorry for her. A lot of times this comes from a place of self-loathing and trying to live your life through another person. When you love yourself, you respect yourself enough to not deal with pricks like Big Egg. I'm glad I grew out of that mindset early
I can’t help but die inside when liz mentions that she was unsure if the ring is for her, that to me says enough.
I was like "what's the reason they're telling this?" I'd be so confused as to what face to pull if I was there to pretend I was still in the conversation. 😂
$13K is an expensive ring... but not for a millionaire. It is expensive enough to be convincing.
@@justanotherviewer4821 i dont think a 13k ring is worth going through all that 😂
Omg my jaw was on the floor thinking.. WTH, this isn’t a a positive Liz maybe you might not want to mention that, hahaha. WTH is wrong with these people???? 🙄😆
‘We both got rid of negative people’ = ‘we’ve socially isolated ourselves and increased our codependency’
That's what i heard lol
Liz gives me MAJOR 'abused and brainwashed' vibes, but honestly, my sympathy for her is now spent and all my sympathy now just goes to her poor little daughter. God knows how that kid is gonna grow up in this toxic mess.
Sadly Liz is an alcoholic who is co-dependant on any man who stays with her at this point. Her self esteem is so low due to the alcohol, we all know this marriage won't last three months.
@@AnneOhn123 Liz has a drinking problem?!? Crap, where did I miss this!??
@@AnneOhn123 wha when did i miss this
For real. It would be one thing if she was just being fed Ed’s lies but all the shitty stuff he does is immortalised on film! I don’t know how she watches the show and stays with him
@@ashleighsaunders3939 she and Ed are both the same they depend on “love”
"shut the fuck up you fake piece of shit" wow that was vicariously cathartic, idk who that is but he's damn right
That’s Colt(e) we saw him on an early series of 90 Day Fiancée as much as I hate to agree with Ed Colt(e)’s relationship was a car crash too. 🤣
that was the most menancing i've ever heard colty
One piece of shit saying that to another 😂😂
@@gaia-papaya8772 Right 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@gaia-papaya8772 Colt(e) showed that he was by no means a good partner... but I don't think he's on the same level of trashy, vile and horrible as Ed.
His therapist NEVER said that he will never get over her. BS.
Exactly.
Lmao exactly! Wth no therapist says that 🤦🏻♀️🤣
@@rarceliarys8733 a bad one?
But she helped him forgive Liz for him being an asshole.
I don’t think 🤔 this “therapist “ exist 😂
I feel so bad for Liz. She's got a history of abusive relationships, and this one is no different. We've all heard the phone call. He's such a manipulative disgusting lump. I hate that her daughter will be exposed to that toxicity as well.
If Liz wants to ruin her life, that would be her problem - IF she didn't have a young daughter to raise. Dragging her daughter through all this drama and being this example makes her as terrible a person as Edward/Eddie/Ed. The friend is right, they're a perfect, insecure, selfish match made in a psych ward.
i agree , but the psych ward comment wasnt necessary !!
@@toastttttttt stop being overly sensitive🙄
@Sabir Lucianno not overly sensitive. its a reasonable thing to comment abt
@@toastttttttt no it not
The psych ward comment was kind of harsh. As someone who's been in those, that's kind of effed up to say imo
The way he keeps stroking her leg is really creeping me out. It almost looks like a mind control tactic on Liz.
Agree.
Its even weirder she’s like his daughter age 🤢
To me, it’s like a possessive gesture which is equally as bad 😬
Good I'm not alone I felt uncomfortable 🤮
I’d be swatting that hand away immediately.
"You don't love anybody except yourself"
Finally someone said it to him! Finally! I am not happy it had to be Debbie because now I have to agree with her. But at least someone said it
Honestly Debbie always fills that role on the tell all lmaoooo. Just when you think you can’t stand seeing her and colt another second she serves Ed for dinner during the tell all and I give her another chance
It takes one to know one 😂
Agree 😂🤣
And Why Can’t Debbie See how toxic she is to the relationships of her son???? 🧐🧐🤔🤔🤔
@@Arrow-wv9ww It's way easier to see the full picture of a situation from an outside perspective.
The biggest joke is that he don't even love himself. He only love the idea of him beeing adored by multiple, young women.
As someone who was abused mentally, “He’s changed.” is always a huge red flag.
Agreed, it’s just ignoring everything they have done and because you believe they did you continue to ignore the flags
it frustrates me beyond words because I also was abused and so was my mother. and she never left my dad, even tho he threw so many verbal abuse and actual physical kicks and punches to her. Always told me, Oh your father changed. he will be better. Nope. NOPE. they never change.
@@charliec7853 I will be willing to bet that Ed's marriage with Liz won't last. And besides, what does Liz even see him? No one else does. Every woman was heartless to him and left him. So why should he even deserve a woman with a beautiful face? She's too beautiful for him anyway!!!
People can absolutely change (both for the better and for worse)... You can't project your personal feelings about the person who abused you onto every single person on the planet. While I no longer have any direct contact with the person who used to abuse me (both mentally and physically), I can say with some certainty that several years later they have indeed changed.
Saying that "he's changed " is ALWAYS a red flag is just ridiculous. Claiming they've changed without demonstrating it can definitely be a red flag, claiming someone who actually has changed has changed is just stating a fact. Ed obviously falls in the first category, and I'd wager most people do, but not everyone does.
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‘You’re desperate’
*Incredulously* : ‘Who’s not?!’
That right there speaks absolute volumes
Notice how Liz has become much more aggressive since she's been back with him. She's not standing up for herself, she's being ignorant. Comments like "use your f*cking ears," "I wanna kill that b*tch," are unnecessary, and show what kind of influence this man has on her.
I actually think this has always been her true self. Just that before, she wasn’t well known yet, so she was trying to “behave” or “impress” for the cameras. Plus, apparently, Liz has mentioned that she drinks a loooot, because that’s one of the ways she bonds with Ed. It’s possible she was drunk during the tell all too.
@@dhglowlightblue after being around alcoholics all my life, it's obvious she isn't drunk if you know what drunk actually looks and sounds like
personally, I think her name-calling that woman was appropriate. they both said it about each other. one started the badmouthing and got caught liz got mad and used the same insult karma.
@@ethanjupiter4955 ppl don’t act the same when drunk. Functioning alcoholics can be drunk and have drank a lot and you don’t know. My neighbor drinks a ton ,I never knew until we got closer . He seemed normal just bolder . That’s how Liz acts now, just like the OP said. She is bolder ,her impulse control and inhibitors have went down. She never talked or looked at ppl the way she does now. Ppl on the Tell all notice she is acting different I would bet money she was drinking. You can tell,she doesn’t have to slur or be sloppy . Although,neither of us know for sure and we are making assumptions. I agree with this person Liz is drunk.
um the other women were badmouthing her first and then called her a bitch when she was still in ear shot, she had the right to be upset. especially when they were literally talking about the thing she already said she'd do
I do like how protective Debbie is over Liz, she almost treats Liz as though she were her own daughter, it's quite cute to see
Lol. Debbie is not protective over Liz. she just hates Ed. Lmao. If you don’t believe that, just watch how fast a Debbie turns on anybody that disagrees with her or criticizes her that she was ones complementing or nice to. That is signature Debbie.
@@rhiannabrittany13 oh idk, i mean she acted the same towards rose, calling ed out on how badly he treated her, i know she's spiteful and two-faced but i can't help but feel that there is something maternal coming out there
I don't see it like that at all. I just see Debbie looking out for her as woman to woman, not really mother type....
It’s cringe as hell. Liz is a whole grown ass women over 30.
Liz deserves Ed 100% both hungry of fame and money. Go!
The way Colt looks into the camera like he's on an episode of the office.
Man he’s just over it all😆😆😆
I never thought I would ever agree with Debbie… but she is 100% right, Ed should NOT be giving relationship advice 😣 Ed is the most repulsive human being!
He IS a pig.
I imagine him in bed trying to roll around like a potato. Well assholes can appear in all forms lol
Keyword: repulsive.
@@yilz123 Hmmmm, you talk of potatoes rolling around on the bed and "assholes in all forms" but I'm thinking of rolling potatoes and all of those "eyes" looking pretty much the same from any angle.
@@yilz123 LOL DEAD
It is so surprised that Debbie is so woke and clear about everything except herself.
If Ed’s as abusive as he seems, this actually, tragically, makes a lot of sense. Survivors of domestic abuse leave an average of 7 times before the split is final.
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She’s never left though. He always dumps her😂
Omg, when Debbie is the voice of reason, things are BAAAD! You tell him, Debbie!
Fr bruh😂 like that’s really straight up sad🤣
hahahaha right?!
The fact that Liz has already been married and divorced twice at such a young age is a RED FLAG. Being with Ed is so unhealthy for her.
Yeah, isn’t she a victim of abuse? It makes more sense why she sticks to big Ed if this was the case.
And then think of her daughter…
Why would you want a manipulative weeble looking thing as a stepdad
Can you pls explain further how this is a red flag? I haven’t dated that much so I’m genuinely curious for more info
@@Overseer2579 Mainly because it would indicate that she's impetuous and too quickly gets deeply involved with men who are not reliable or compatible long-term. And after the way he yelled at her on the phone, it's s red flag that she would ever even consider taking him back. That wasn't just a fight - that was hateful and abusive language on his part. Anyone who is capable of speaking that way to someone they supposedly "love" is deeply disturbing.
@@wombatnumbat989 gotcha. I totally agree
I honestly love Stephanie for calling out on Liz about the leaked phone call
True! Whatever happens from now on is Liz’s responsibility
I can't stand his daughter
Yassss
I disagree. Even if they’re together, informing people that he’s been abusive is never wrong.
Right?!?!
OMG Arthur! What a precious picture of you and your little sisters! they are blessed with an awesome big brother!
Keep shining! keep doing what you’re doing and I wish you all the best!! You’re the best!!
I’m tired of Liz. She’s insufferable at this point. If she likes it, I love it.
Exactly. Can't stand women like her
I feel bad for her daughter she doesn’t have a choice her mom keeps getting into these toxic relationships I’m sad for her
“I forgave Liz for everything”. That’s called gaslighting. He isn’t in love with her. He’s a narcissist and they are extremely adept at sniffing out a vulnerable, codependent, broken person to become their emotional supply. Liz is now his codependent, emotional supply. She will now spend her time defending Ed because he rewards her emotionally when she does.
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Yep. I was gaslight just like this. They always turn it around making their actions your fault so you apologize for their bad behavior. They say you imagine that I said this. You start to doubt everything. Gaslighting is hell
Definitely gaslighting.
@@jessicabell8838 yes, I spent many years married to a narcissist. And watching Liz, I saw the same pattern of behavior. I can’t tell if their relationship is real or just for their 15 minutes of fame, but it’s really disturbing either way. TLC used to be an educational channel. Now they do nothing but make money exploiting the most toxic train wrecks they can find.
@@afgal9726 anything for money. Got rid of Alina but big pred makes money like Angela. Watching season 2 now. Liz looks terrible from her first time on to the tell all that just happened.
Arthur every time you say "unfortunately that's all we have time for today" it gives me the same feeling as when the teacher would be reading a good book to the class and left us off on a cliffhanger for the following day lol. I hope you feel better soon and don't push yourself too hard for us!!
That’s the perfect way to describe it
New drinking game. 🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺…….☠️👻👻👻
It’s heartbreaking honestly.
First he used a freaking trauma bond brought by a SHOOTING to lure a girl into his bed, now out of desperation he uses the trauma of his dog's death to lure a girl into his life 😭 this man is not looking for a wife, he's desperately looking for a flatmate just to not die alone
That's gross. My cat died about 4 and a half months ago. I'm single. I could not imagine ever using my cat passing to try and get a man. I still can't talk about him without crying. That's so gross.
@@AmandaS-nc9om I did not know this. Thanks!
@@marye3974 well yes but big Ed is a different breed his built different and he will use anything in his advantage to manipulate people. I’m just very supprised Liz came back
@@marye3974 sorry girly :( I've never experienced the death of a pet, or having a pet in general. it'd break me. stay strong x
An opportunistic pig. Thats what big pred is
It’s usually a sign when so many significant family members don’t support a marriage. They see the mess. It’s typically a toxic relationship if family members are willing to disconnect. I’m not sure about his daughter, but his mother seems to be genuinely caring
It actually takes victims of abuse 7-8 times sometimes more to realize the situation they’re really in. Liz looks to be trauma bonding especially with her continuously making excuses for his behavior and with her history of DA, it makes sense. They do that because it becomes a normal for them to be treated that way. I hope she can break the cycle and come to her senses. Ed is feeding off her vulnerability like the manipulative pos he is.
But most abuse victims cant watch and rewatch their abuse happen in real time on television. She can see the dysfunction, she is just a weak clout chaser, end of...
Ed's always feeding off something...
"you're damn right you're not that smart." i love how debbie never misses a chance to tell ed he's shit lmao
Loves it 😅👏
Yup I love it, even if Debbie is a piece of trash herself 😂😂😂
the way he caressed her leg was definitely a crime against humanity
Was a bit awkward wasnt it like a robotic hand running out of battery's lol x
“I forgave her”
………..wtf isnt he the one who messed up???
I caught that too
Liz for sure has deeper issues. Again, when they first went on a date she'd recently gotten out of an abusive relationship. I don't know the details from her case, but friends of mine that have been in such a relationship can very, very easily fall into another bad one after getting out. It's really sad to see. Whatever her ex did to her, I think scarred her to the point that Ed's "lovebombing cult tactics" is what she might feel is "real" love. The woman is smart, but she does need help.
That he caresses her leg when she speaks is standing as a red flag for me, with the abusive relationships I've seen. That might very well be conditioning.
You get what you strive for, these weak ass womem get on my nerves and yes, i have been abused before as well. That mfer tried to get an order of protection on me once I was done, ladies get it together
I'm sorry to hear you had to go through that.
I wouldn't say she's weak per se, depending on the level of trauma, it could be that her way of rationalizing has been damaged enough or she's become conditioned to not be able to tell what she should or shouldn't accept. I believe someone mentioned she had a drinking problem as well, which won't help either.
Some people who've been hurt enough, their brains can come up with the strangest, and unhealthy, things to feel "protected", if that makes sense.
I think that what Liz would benefit greatly from is CBT to realize that she can be an independant person, and having the needy tick that is Ed around is going to cause more damage to her mentally. I may have dropped out of psychology, but even with the basics we learned this relationship won't last, and Liz will come out of it in an even worse state than she was after her abusive ex.
It's sad that because Ed is damaged, don't get me wrong, I don't care about the gremlin at all, he seems almost hellbent to get his way even if he causes harm to the other persob with no remorse. By now I doubt he's even seen a therapist, most likely he went online and searched for things that would ne easy to remember that he could use.
@@purgetheXYs I'm happy you were able to leave, you most certainly don't deserve to be mistreated and abused. Putting down Liz isn't helping anyone though. It's obvious that Liz has some serious issues related to abuse and trauma. Adding to this, it sounds like she's also been isolated from others. Until she realises that she needs help, she won't be able to leave anytime soon. That's not weakness, that's her brain being all effed up from trauma. This girl needs a therapist yesterday.
@@TheEmeraldLady youre right in a way but honestly, I think Liz is a clout chaser. And she seems to have more love for noneck than she does for her own daughter, moving in with a man who is an essential stranger and is very predatory. And unlike most of us, she can go back and watch the dysfunction to remind herself of how she was treated. What was the point in outing him to everyone just to get back with him? I aint got time or sympathy for her, Im sorry. I think she's beyond pathetic
Debbie is no saint herself, but she’s spot on when it comes to Ed.
Debbie: “You are desperate”
Ed: “Who’s not”
Me: HE JUST ADMITTED IT 😳🤦♀️😂
Yeah I caught that 🤦♂️😂☠️
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And Stephanie with the shoulder shrug and nod in agreement 😹
@@JemIsMyName-o Yesss that was the best part of it too 🤣
I know lol. But not everyone is desperate, I know I’m not LOLLLL😂
The saddest part of Liz and Ed is that through all this NOBODY mentions her poor daughter being dragged along with her mother into this mess. Talk about an unstable childhood! Thanks Arthur 💜😊
The daughter doesn’t even know what’s goin on she’s a child 😏
The daughter lives with her father according to Liz she gave the father full custody
That's what I keep wondering about. Where is her daughter? Ed is such a douchebag. Goes to Mexico and tries to bully poor Kaory into a relationship, or at least get laid. Then comes home and in two days is engaged to Liz. I feel so sad that her daughter is gonna think their relationship is how a relationship is suppose to be.
@@valeriefuentes6376 trust, they know and get traumatised 🙃
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This whole "he completely changed on the drop of a hat, he used to be abusive now he's perfect" storyline is really perpetuating dangerous myths about abuse that abusers can just change easily if you wait long enough and are forgiving enough. Abusers *can* change, but not without a LOT of inner work and time and there's no guarantee it will last. And the likelihood of them changing is very low. So falling for the grand apology, or the expensive gift, or the fact they know some therapy buzzwords to excuse what they did - it's dangerous. Trust should never be given back easily to an abuser. It takes a LOT OF TIME to see if what they say and do is genuine now or not.
exaaaaaaaaaaaaactlyyyyyyy!! 100% on point here!
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Bump!
The fact that he was practically proposing to Kaori, openly dating with serious intend, telling Kaori that she was the one and devastated when she rejected him, less than a week before he proposed to Liz should be enough of a red flag to see how much he haven't changed. But Liz looks like a wounded person trapped on the abuse-abused cycle... or it's all just for the attention/money, that could be too.
Took my dad 23 years to do that.....I'm 26
ED STROKING HER LEG! Things seen can't be unseen ... 😱😱
Ed: I think it’s time Colt get off the nipple
Also Ed: I think it’s time Colt support his mom more
I love how it’s always Colt’s fault lol
I can't understand how anyone can stand being married to Ed. He is so creepy.
Fame and money hungry…
@@user-ey9uj6vp9s Sadly that is probably all that it is.
I couldn’t imagine being touched by him at all. It would make my skin crawl.
@@chelsiemilstead7329 urghhhh, now i can't get that image out of my head....🤢
@Krystal Marie aaaaand now I'm a lesbian.
That therapy Big ED keeps rattling on about makes me think he's not going to therapy. His lack of self reflection continues to shock me.
“My therapist told me I’ll never get over her”…
No therapist would say that. I agree he’s definitely not going.
@@jessknight456 that statement exactly. No good therapist would say that. He's such a liar 🤣
Idk I think he has actually gone to therapy but for guys like Ed therapy doesn't help it just gives them more tools to help manipulate young women.
Actually bad therapist exist. A friend has one experience when a therapist like literally a mental healt professional told her to hold on to her boyfriend because he was her only salvation of the other problems in her life.
Actually bad therapist exist. A friend has one experience when a therapist like literally a mental healt professional told her to hold on to her boyfriend because he was her only salvation of the other problems in her life.
Friends don’t set friends up with Big Ed.
Facts 💯
That ring was sure as hell NOT the biggest in the store, let alone worth 30K 💀💀💀💀 got me fucked up
Arthur your voice, accent and description of events are always spot on. I really enjoy listening to you. 👍🏻
“I forgave her for everything”. Isn’t it supposed to be Liz’s line?
"I was such an asshole. But I forgave her." 🤔🙄
It's a gaslight response. They turn it on you making you look bad or crazy. Makes you feel guilty for feeling bad.
@@jessicabell8838 and the fact that TLC is giving him the platform to do so is just wow
@@nineteenfortyeight how what why is she still with him for? Is the clout worth sacrificing your mental health?
@@NadiaS8394 yeah. They got rid of Alina but big pred brings in ratings just like Angela. If a man did that to a woman he'd not be asked back. This whole thing is okay with abuse and sa as long as it brings in more money
Liz shows a lot of the characteristics of an abused and damaged woman. It would not surprise me at all if both her previous marriages were abusive. In fact, it would explain a lot. Her getting defensive and stuff on the tell all is a telltale sign to me of being victim of manipulation. None of the things they are saying to her are getting through to her because she is so brainwashed
She did say at one point that one of our relationships was abusive in the past so you’re right there
And his smug face when she said she defended him against the other two cast mates. He knows she’s pushing away any sort of companionship from friends/family/co workers, thus pulling her into his arms further.
@@Lourollll it's terrifying
It’s really sad people suck big Ed sucks a lot.
I heard she was physically and emotionally abused in her previous relationship
The fact that she thought the ring was for someone else, screams true love. And if 13k was the “biggest ring” in the store, it must have been a Claire’s in Beverly Hill’s.
The faces of everybody else in the room is gold xd I love how they can't even hide that they think Ed and Liz are a trainwreck xd
"hes changed" really suprises me because before liz always had to tell ed that he was moving to fast but then we got him proposing to her the second day of seeing each other again
Big Ed is insufferable.
I can't stop watching him though
yeap, that sums it up pretty well.. its like watching a trainwreck in slow motion knowing that whats gona happen, but u just cant look away for some reason... hes so full of shiet thu
I'm more than a year into watching big ed but I'm still not sure if he is playing a character or actually like this
@@frankthetank8216 or maybe both
Yup LOL big snowflake
I’ll tell you how, turn the channel 😏😏
Liz trying to act like she wasn't calling Ed a predator and all that stuff. That's not just "being mad", she was sharing some pretty sick shit, and now she's going back on all of it. I feel bad for her daughter, because she refused to Dodge this really, really big bullet.
I don't think it's fair to say she dodged a bullet. She dodged a missile.
Liz either lied about some extremely serious allegations about Ed, or she choose to get back into a relationship with the same guy she 'exposed' publicly. Either way, the scenario is concerning.
@@christinakinch girl has no self worth
@@christinakinch where did she expose him?
Also note, he thinks it's normal to tell a lot of elaborate, slanderous lies about someone because you're 'mad'.
Funny how Arthur’s commentary is so much better than the series itself!
Love from Puerto Rico🇵🇷
Sooo true!! I don’t even bother to watch it anymore knowing that Arthur will bring us up to speed! And btw, I love Puerto Rico! I’m there every summer and wouldn’t have it any other way! What part are you from?
Good to see a fellow Boricua here! 🇵🇷
Arthur's commentary makes the show more interesting!
Aahh a fellow boricua!! Saludos!!
Wheepa 🤙🏽🇵🇷👨🏽🌾🐸
Congratulations Liz, on your engagement, how's it going?
Liz - Ugh 😩, she sounded repulsed 😂
you have soft kind eyes and are very introspective.. I wish you the best! Ty for the video
Notice how when the other cast members are telling Liz that Ed is with her because he's desperate etc... He never denies it at all🤦♀️
He even said "who isn't?"
No, he basically claimed that everyone else was desperate too, like it’s normal.
@@hermionegranger6405 nice observation, Ms. Granger, lol
Either the Ed and Liz drama is fake....or....Liz needs some help. Colt telling Ed to STFU was very nice.
Yessss🙌🏼
The one time I completely agree with colt😂
Pretty much the most satisfying moment.
Ed just wants to be married to anybody who will have him. He was literally going to propose to Kaory. Liz has no self-worth
Ikr imagine if Kaory hadn't dumped him (im glad she is smart and dumped him )
Liz was discarded by Ed once and in a very humiliating manner after he broke her down and made her up to fit his ideal . It’s very hard for her to sum things up or follow her own voice especially she is very emotionally damaged from previous realationships . My heart truly breaks for Liz 😰🤦🏿♀️
Harsh, but true. No denying it . Perfectly said
OH.MY.GOD. When Ed was trying to say someone else was texting Liz when he would break up with her was the SCARIEST red flag yet! He’s basically admitting he’s a manipulator by trying to completely avoid blame and responsibility for breaking up with Liz, and thus hurting her and causing her grief. To absolve himself of any wrongdoing in their relationship, in turn spinning it to making everything her fault, another reason he confidently said he “forgave her” and she didn’t argue back, and also him saying all they did was talk during dinner and didn’t even eat, shows the puppet strings he has over this girl that he set up in the dark away from prying eyes. HE IS AN ABUSER and PREDATOR. All the signs are there and we shouldn’t have to wait til down the road when Liz finally spills it , this girl is CURRENTLY being abused by a narcissist. HELP HER.
And bragged about breaking up with her 8 times over and over 😒
Eff that, she needs to help herself. I know trauma can affect a person but as someone with quite a bit myself, I cant fathom letting someone do that to me. Its preposterous.
7:44. Awe. That was nice of you. Thank you. Very cute picture - beach looks awesome
Days before they got engaged he was literally in Mexico hitting on another woman he claimed 'Could Be The One' 🤦🏼
You can smell the desperation through the god damn screen.
I agree 10000000% desperate just to be loved they're both a big joke
@@lisalavigne8146 like Ed’s now former friend said on the tell all, “They’re both insecure, and they’re both selfish.” It’s a match made in hell, I guess
@@Overseer2579 I couldn't agree more
I usually don't agree with Colt but MANNN hearing him put Ed in his place had me ascending to heaven, that was amazing lol
hahahaha ya someone who can't let go of his mama's apron strings either.. hahaah hilarious!
No sane therapist or counselor will tell you, "you'll never get over her," omfg. Ed, stahp.
Liz is simultaneously like “I’m gonna change him” and also like “I’m gonna make sure everyone knows how shit he is, so if we break up he’ll never score a ten like me again” 😭
Just found your channel by accident. Goodbye ANY form of productivity for the next 24 hours. Great channel though, bro. Hope you see you continue growing and becoming even more successful. With love from London x
I got broke up with one time over text and the fact they broke up with me over text alone made me realise how much of a bullet i dodged. Liz needs to realise someone who cant even give you the respect to break up face to face (8 goddamn times) will never give you respect in a relationship
She needs to get therapy to deal with her trauma.
It's bad enough being broken up with over text, it's worse when your own boyfriend couldn't write 'em on his own.
Plus the fact that he claims “it wasn’t even him” who wrote it -that makes it even worse 🤦🏻♀️
She doesn't want respect
I never understood why breaking up over text is bad? Can someone explain?
“Life is short” that’s Bid Ed’s perspective lmao
It is for him
And so is my neck and body and legs and …. 🤣
Waiting for him to murder Liz, just wait. It's a foreshadow
What has actually appalled me through this is the fact that Ed's friend Laura, actually hooked him up with her friend Kaori. What friend does that to another friend? Laura must have known what an arsehole Ed was so why on earth would she want to put a friend of hers through meeting and getting involved with him? If I was Kaori, it would be the end of my friendship with Laura.
If she's Ed's friend, she likely got a financial thank you for the hook up!
She honestly might not have known if she had only gotten Ed's side of the story on everything. Sounds like that's the case with his friends and family who allegedly think Liz is bad for HIM. He is pretty good at spinning victim narratives with backup tears 🤷🏽♀️
If she's Ed's friend, she probably doesn't see him like that. I mean, if two of my friends who I loved were dating (which has happened to me), I'd be super happy for them. I think she probably just has blinders on because she cares about him.
It’s easy for Liz to SWEAR she’d sign the prenup when she knows Ed is 100% against it.
"Damn right, you're not that smart"
Her callous, eyerolling delivery of that line made me bust out laughing 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Liz is like Heidi from South Park and Big Ed Eric Cartman. She doesn’t necessarily hate being with him but she doesn’t want everyone to feel the satisfaction of everyone around her being right about their relationship.
Wow just got deep.
Oh shit you are so right
OH MY GOD literally thought this the other day, they get driven back to each other
Oh. My. Gosh YES!!!
It's almost always like that....she want to proove everyone wrong🙄🙄
Wait, Ed kicked his mom out for Liz? Wow. She’s so supportive and loving towards him.
you got hearing problems maam?
Yeah but he can't sleep with his mom so BYEEEE 🤷🏻♀️ the man is garbage
@@rezebombs wtf, it's a normal comment, go eat some ice-cream
@@rezebombs c^#t
Ed's mother Norma was on her way to move out BEFORE this thing with Liz though, like Arthur said in this video...
''I've chosen Liz over everyone''...yikes! There are toxic families where it's fine to choose your partner, but here Ed is the toxic one. If my dad talked like Ed, I'd be done. In my eyes Ed is far worse than Eric was (the guy who kicked his daughter out of HER apartment) and that says something.
Fr😂🤦🏻♂️ Ed the pred is a sad man Who has a lot of karma coming his way
Ed only “chose Liz over everyone” because Kaory rejected his proposal the day before. 🙄
@@anne3067 facts🤣
@@anne3067 my point. This is not a happy relationship based on respect. And then he says stuff like that. Guy is unhinged.
@@anne3067 and just the fact that he tried crawling back to Mia (the first girl before Kaory)and she didn't bite so his only option left was Liz.
The same irked feeling I used to get when my abusive dad would sneak a seemingly teasing comment about my mum in front of people who didn't know what he was really like is exactly how I felt when Big Ed said that polar bear comment. It's so easy to spot when you're used to seeing nasty people act nice in front of company.
Big ed telling colt he's a polar bear when he looks like humpty dumpty.hilarious🤣
When he said " I forgave her " I literally gagged , looking at Liz is really sad and Ed is just all around poor quality human.
he has only proposed to Liz so he can get on another season or a spin off.
Probably. That and so he won’t be alone
Yes theyre both acting
My thoughts exactly!
Liz just happened to be available. There’s no real love there. If any other woman besides Liz gave him the attention he needed so desperately at that time , she would not be there. He’s a narcissist.
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Ur 100000% correct , this relationship reminds me a lot of my ex an I. I was liz in this situation, total simp, whipped over a man who wasn’t all that lol
I’m just glad he left me again , I ain’t taking his ass back
@@mizzcrazygal Right. I felt that, because I was in her shoes too! Dude wasn’t even worth his own shit. I’m glad he’s out of my life now.
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The more Ed talks about counseling, how counseling has helped him so much, and recommends others to seek counseling just shows how he's NEVER gone to counseling and NEVER will.
Or he perceives it as positive because it's not unusual for narcissistic people to go to counseling and what they actually hear is affirmation and what they take away is an education in how to be a master narcissist
Ots very easy to say 'yes I'll definitely sign the pre nup' when the other person is adamant they don't want one.
When colt yelled at Ed to stfu I cheered 🤣🤣🤣🤣
hahaha one mama's boy calling out another mama's boy... hahaha nothing to cheer about here.. hahaha
Debbie may have her own faults but she went off on big Ed and you know it’s all well deserved.
Ed caressing her leg while talking to her is so creepy and so cringe🤮 I swear, everything about this dude is so unsettling.
HE GOT SOMEONE ELSE TO WRITE THOSE BREAKUP TEXTS WHAT HAHAHA
I feel no sympathy for Liz and her enabling, clout chasing ways. I hope the dad gets the daughter full time and she lives miserably with Ed for putting him over her and her childs health and well being.
Edit: Liz sounds drunk, is it just me? She also looks terrible now
Other than all of the obvious problems and red flags, it stuck out to me how she said they have got rid of 'negative people' in their lives. While disconnecting from genuinely toxic and draining people from your own life is often best, I worry that this is another abuse tactic. Abusers isolate their victims so they have nobody else to turn to and nowhere else to go, usually under the guise of other people being 'negative' or 'toxic'. So this is potentially a dangerous situation.
The bloke with long hair that popped off at Ed is hilarious. Just the facial expressions 😂
Big Ed :"Life is short"
Me: Just like your neck, height and relationships.
I reckon something else is short too 🙈
To be fair, his neck is short because of a deformity. But his personality is the problem. He's a desperate, wife-cheating, narcissist.
Dayum!!! 3rd degree BURNS 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Lmao 😂
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I've tried some other people's takes on 90 Days Fiance Recaps but yours are definitely my fav, Arthur. You're doing a great job, you're funny and really entertaining to watch, yet calm and not mean in any way (and if you are then it feels deserved lol). Love that, keep up the great work 😊 Greetings from Germany!
I feel so sad for Liz's daughter. She's just a kid and really has no say in this.
Evil Arthur 2:59 “thankfully, it was far from a peaceful episode” while smiling 😂
Do we really live in a world where people like Ed becomes millionnaires from being toxic and a creep on tv ? What the hell hapened. I cant believe he did not get cancelled already.
Yeah, unfortunately they're not going to cancel him unless he says a racist remark or something bc he brings in alot of ratings and money for the show. Can't lie, even though majority people don't like him when he's on TV people will watch just to see what he does next.
Pressure needs to be put on TLC for supporting a domestic abuser. They need to explain why they are employing an abuser and why they support domestic violence.
Girl he is NOT a millionaire. Especially from this show.
@@kaylovekayGIRL How would you know ? He as his Merch, Cameo and all. I am just responding from what it says on this video. Let's say he isnt a millionnaire, he still has way too much "fame" from being the person he is from this show.
@@canilin6030 girl , he ain't a fucking millionaire. People love to hate Ed but trust me his cameo and tlc per episode don't pay a lot. He is more than likely making more $ due to the show which is obv, but if you think Ed is in the TOP percentage of money makers in America from REALITY TV you're stupid. He is no Kris Jenner.
bruh, TLC should rly be hiring u, ure doing a better job than their current host on the tell all lol
Absolutely addicted to these videos and your cheeky wee smile 😆
I would honestly love a video of Arthur where he just gives relationship advice! He seems so wise and intelligent when explaining how people's behaviour reflects them...
Liz: "I didn't have a backbone back then like I do now"
Me: Does you backbone only kick when other women say something about you? Because you took shallow ed back after her treated you like trash. So where is your backbone in reference to for ed 🤔.
THIS
Thank you, I was saying the same thing
Backbone my ass. The only reason she "stood" up to them was bc they were insulting her master. She's always been Big Egg's pet
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The look on Colt's face at 15:35 when Liz said Ed's mom is no longer living at the house lol
Liz: "He's...completely different towards me."
Me: You hesitated
Now that was the most exciting and explosive yet! Ka-boom💥 What a panel and honesty. Great clip and commentary Arthur. Love it!