Man Tells Toxic Manager - My Personal Time is None of Your Business | Anand Vaishampayan

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024

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  • @samirbhalerao5579
    @samirbhalerao5579 4 дня назад +71

    Hats off to this employee who was able to take such a bold step in such a dirty atmosphere glorifying overwork.

    • @trkartik7633
      @trkartik7633 4 дня назад +2

      without any other offer in hand, such an act can be counter-productive as well.

    • @samirbhalerao5579
      @samirbhalerao5579 4 дня назад

      @@trkartik7633 that is true in absence of passive income. If the person has some source of passive income like rent / gold / real estate / land / investment in shares and/ or MF, Fix Deposit, recurring deposit, emergency funds for six months etc than they can easily survive the situation. I speak from personal experience.

    • @Neeraj-fw7ck
      @Neeraj-fw7ck 4 дня назад

      ​@@trkartik7633 may be he comes from a family having good financial background.

    • @combinedstudy6427
      @combinedstudy6427 3 дня назад +1

      Why can't all employee leave office at 6 PM. No one will point at you.

    • @samirbhalerao5579
      @samirbhalerao5579 2 дня назад

      @@combinedstudy6427 now a days going out at 6 pm is implicitly a corporate crime. Employees need to break such myths by going home in time.

  • @akashsrivastava262
    @akashsrivastava262 4 дня назад +53

    That's very normal, in case a person has already worked in good working conditions, he/she can not tolerate the toxic environment at all. It's better to leave and move on, than to hate your workplace 😊

    • @CS-qz3vs
      @CS-qz3vs 4 дня назад +2

      I left Infosys in 2013 because i was fed up of these kind of things.

    • @sathishkumar-wy7tk
      @sathishkumar-wy7tk 2 дня назад

      @@CS-qz3vs Infosys i heard my Relative said , its like a School, u have to then & there write Test like Mid -Term Test

    • @mamtakrishna2901
      @mamtakrishna2901 2 дня назад

      True...

  • @333Stan
    @333Stan 3 дня назад +9

    I resigned in just 2 months without any backup job. You can imagine how toxic it would have been.

  • @RR-zb2rg
    @RR-zb2rg 3 дня назад +22

    I too did that😂 way back in 2016, for almost similar reason., reached offfice at 9 am very first day
    , manager expected me to stay for night shifts too. completed all 3 shifts and gave id card to security while returning.

    • @krishnaparida007
      @krishnaparida007 3 дня назад +1

      Tell me more about that
      Company name ??
      How you get the next job afterwards

    • @RR-zb2rg
      @RR-zb2rg 3 дня назад

      @@krishnaparida007 it is big company with number of *eleco* projects,
      found a job within next 20 days, though at the same salary.

    • @krishnakumar-pp8ie
      @krishnakumar-pp8ie 3 дня назад

      Why did u complete 3 shifts

    • @RR-zb2rg
      @RR-zb2rg 2 дня назад

      @@krishnakumar-pp8ie well manager asked to have a introduction call with US folks, around 6, which he rescheduled to 7.30 then to 9 , and kept me waiting, so i decided to stay back till last available cab and return the assets and live peacefully

    • @RR-zb2rg
      @RR-zb2rg 2 дня назад

      @@krishnaparida007 i got next job within 20 days, ,

  • @arun_4871
    @arun_4871 4 дня назад +28

    Previously, I joined a job where I felt cheated in -60 days.
    I joined a job in the recent past where I felt cheated because after one year they changed 180⁰.
    Life is not fair

    • @CS-qz3vs
      @CS-qz3vs 4 дня назад

      I left Infosys in 2013 because i was fed up of these kind of things.

    • @LuckyIndian7
      @LuckyIndian7 3 дня назад

      ​@CS-qz3vs what do you do now ?

  • @AkshayChandelVlogs22
    @AkshayChandelVlogs22 3 дня назад +8

    Even I have left companies in less than a week due to toxic owners and managers.

  • @itpro-m8ttelugugirl
    @itpro-m8ttelugugirl 3 дня назад +7

    the toxic manager of mysore wipro backup team currently enjoying harrasing employees and he is on trip everyday and leaves are taken so much but never applied in portal. Never worked in his life just had assistance to work for him. He is getting free salary and all benifit

  • @karthikbalasubramania1549
    @karthikbalasubramania1549 4 дня назад +34

    THAT MANAGER MAKING A JOKE ABOUT WORK-LIFE BALANCE IS SHEER STUPIDITY

    • @tanmay1704
      @tanmay1704 4 дня назад +2

      Stupidity or god sent. Lucky employee got signs of things to come on first day itself.

    • @CS-qz3vs
      @CS-qz3vs 4 дня назад +1

      I left Infosys in 2013 because i was fed up of these kind of things.

    • @moolavar9452
      @moolavar9452 3 дня назад

      Yes it is of they pay 1cr per month. 😂

  • @ravindrasinghr69
    @ravindrasinghr69 4 дня назад +9

    ये खुद जब मैनेजर बन जायेंगे तब खुद भी toxic बन जाएंगे 😊.. Toxic मैनेजर पडोसी देशों से नहीं आते, सभी यही से हैं... सास भी कभी बहु थी

  • @pruthvirajcreations9083
    @pruthvirajcreations9083 4 дня назад +7

    The employee did the right thing also one should have plan B either to go back to previous company or have prospective offers,my Manager when I had resigned he said not to be dependent on one company have atleast two offers, in case if the new company is not suitable it is a opportunity to immediately switch,it might be loss for the employer but safe zone for employees

  • @animeshanjan181086
    @animeshanjan181086 3 дня назад +18

    Post COVID world has changed....no one is going to tolerate any bull shit from such toxic managers...sooner they understand better it will be for them and the organisation

    • @itpro-m8ttelugugirl
      @itpro-m8ttelugugirl 3 дня назад +2

      But toxicity has increased a lot nowadays. Expecialy mysore wipro backup team

    • @amarnaamtohsunahoga
      @amarnaamtohsunahoga 3 дня назад

      Narayan murthy is responsible for toxic
      He is njoying old life killing youth

    • @mamtakrishna2901
      @mamtakrishna2901 2 дня назад

      Nothing will happen with them as they have the power, that's the sad part and how they misuse it. Things are getting worse day by day.

  • @RBsI7
    @RBsI7 День назад +1

    Nicely put sir
    Always choose cutlure over brand
    Always choose respect over money

  • @mamtakrishna2901
    @mamtakrishna2901 2 дня назад +5

    Lucky are those who don't have to work because their financial condition is ok though not super rich etc. Not because they can rest or do anything they want but to stay away from the toxic people and their politics. I feel corporate politics is worse than real politics.

  • @sapbangalore04
    @sapbangalore04 4 дня назад +8

    The - Sr manager / Directors in Domestic IT Companies are masters in Politics ; Recently a Dometstric IT Co got revnue dip of 3 percent but maged to show net profit .........How ....... They fired people without notice / v short notice ...what employee did is absolutely right if this a domestic IT co

  • @dharmareddymittapalli4299
    @dharmareddymittapalli4299 3 дня назад +1

    I experienced similar suitation in 2007. Quit my job on 4th day. Toxic work culture sucks your health and well-being.

    • @ankitbinjola
      @ankitbinjola 2 дня назад +1

      Is there any action taken by the company and how you tell them that you are not continuing?

    • @dharmareddymittapalli4299
      @dharmareddymittapalli4299 2 дня назад +1

      @@ankitbinjola I politely notify the management that I won't fit for your company work culture.

  • @inflowchetan8337
    @inflowchetan8337 3 дня назад +2

    Agree even i have done once in my life before joining the Manger promised something and after joining the KRA was some thing else rather than absconding i updated him politely and resigned the day i joined by evening.

    • @diauser3327
      @diauser3327 2 дня назад

      were you relieved same day or had to wait few weeks or month as per formality ?
      which country was it ? IN ?

  • @abhishekn3911
    @abhishekn3911 3 дня назад +8

    No toxic manager will tell that in interview

  • @Jargal200
    @Jargal200 3 дня назад +5

    Usually this kind of courage comes when the very common person has another offer in hand.
    Outliers will do whenever they want.

  • @abhishekshukla2745
    @abhishekshukla2745 3 дня назад +1

    I took lot of time - 1 month. After my joining my manager was not supportive. Doesn’t wiling to arrange any KT sessions or documentation, no intro about the project or work road map. Just wanted to me to magically figure out everything. And one day he asked me to send an excel sheet of how I spent each hour since my joining. Instead of being an enabler he was blocker.

  • @MG-Creations
    @MG-Creations 3 дня назад +3

    Never do that without another offer in hand, in short temper. Though that manager is very bad but it's too early to take a decision just within a day and resign the same day....

    • @karunakarareddy979
      @karunakarareddy979 3 дня назад +1

      I think you also that type of Manager😂

    • @MG-Creations
      @MG-Creations 3 дня назад +1

      ​​@@karunakarareddy979 Not a manager.. Your opposite person may be worst fellow. But never take any decision in short temper..thats the message..

    • @SelvaM-u1d
      @SelvaM-u1d 3 дня назад

      @MG creation: First do you realise in india the work force is been exploited than any other country, for the past century Indians though working hard they don't get proper salary as per iinflation , so no improvement in their life standards except for the ones who do political lobby

  • @senthilkumar-b2v
    @senthilkumar-b2v 4 дня назад +2

    Thats absolutely right. Well said

  • @jubair404
    @jubair404 4 дня назад +11

    Isliye manager and TL ko kabhi apna personal WhatsApp number ya fir insta , fb mat do , warna har ek status ka reply office me milega 😢 .

    • @arun_4871
      @arun_4871 4 дня назад +2

      😅😅
      Number de sakte hai lekin status ko hide karke rakho ya phir number save mat karo 😅😂

    • @jubair404
      @jubair404 4 дня назад

      @@arun_4871 good idea

    • @CS-qz3vs
      @CS-qz3vs 4 дня назад +1

      I left Infosys in 2013 because i was fed up of these kind of things.

  • @PraveenJakkannavar
    @PraveenJakkannavar 3 дня назад +1

    Anand that’s very very important video from your list.
    Thanks bro 😊

  • @amarnaamtohsunahoga
    @amarnaamtohsunahoga 3 дня назад +5

    Narayan murthy is responsible for such things
    You should shut up when you are public figure
    Ruined so many young lifes

  • @farrukhfida212
    @farrukhfida212 4 дня назад +10

    i did the same on 2nd day of my remote full time job

    • @razak-attar
      @razak-attar 4 дня назад

      Hey one question, lets say your package is some 10lpa and when u joined a new company you got CTC of 15lpa or anything. My question is if you resign on day 2 itself what CTC you will be having for further? Old or new one? You will serve notice period or you will be released immediately?

    • @farrukhfida212
      @farrukhfida212 4 дня назад +1

      @@razak-attar when i left 2nd day, i email them and put a question on them that why they hire me because the work they are doing is mismatch with my profile. so i decided to leave without taking a single penny from them

    • @CS-qz3vs
      @CS-qz3vs 4 дня назад +2

      I left Infosys in 2013 because i was fed up of these kind of things.

    • @AkshayChandelVlogs22
      @AkshayChandelVlogs22 3 дня назад

      Even I left many bad startups in less than a week due to toxic owners and managers.

    • @diauser3327
      @diauser3327 2 дня назад

      @@AkshayChandelVlogs22 but was it like absconding case?
      or did you get relieved officially ?

  • @sambitmohanty1904
    @sambitmohanty1904 2 дня назад +1

    The fact is if you utter the word life balance in the managerial rounds, they are gonna straightaway reject you . They might assume that you are a lazy person and so. This happened with me and it was painful as I really had a good technical round. But I mentioned in managerial round regarding work life balance.😒

  • @Blitzkrieg-XXIII
    @Blitzkrieg-XXIII День назад

    I am currently in a project with a MNC who is one of the top money makers in semiconductor and believe me , my manager here is toxic. Assigns work late evening Friday and immediately asks for an update on Monday morning and says “It’s been 3 days since we’ve started this and this is not what’s expected ! “ . I strictly am against working in the weekends because I want to use that time to relax and upskill myself.

  • @venkatn8262
    @venkatn8262 3 дня назад +1

    The fact is that people always lie on both the sides, recruiters to get the best candidate at lower CTC and the candidate to get the best paying job even though they lack the right skills and attitude required for the job

  • @diauser3327
    @diauser3327 2 дня назад +1

    but wasnt there an offer letter or something this guy had to sign on day1 of joining formalities etc ? which normally says notice of 1month while on probation and then 3 months after completing that initial probation period of 6months or so?
    so ideally as i understand that even if you want to quit after day 1, you need to wait 1 month post that to officially get relieved , else might be marked as obsconding..
    is it any different now ?

  • @gaddipatiprabhakar2889
    @gaddipatiprabhakar2889 3 дня назад +1

    Now a days.... "Cignity" Company Also .... having same issue.....

  • @milinds26
    @milinds26 3 дня назад

    lakh fate ki baat , same i experienced 1-2 times , mangers use to beg again and again after resignation to rejoin.

  • @abhi9029
    @abhi9029 3 дня назад +2

    That employee made the best decision of his life. I couldn't do it in my first job and still to this date I am regretting my decision. I wasted 3.3 years on that stupid job. I did quit after 6 months but somehow I again entered into that same job. To this date, I regret it.

  • @levelfuel3650
    @levelfuel3650 День назад

    Another scam from companies is the term called CTC. They always talk about your salary per year, which when u see seems at once like a LOT. 15 LPA, but if you see your in hand salary its just peanuts. Nowadays i never even mention the word CTC in interviews. I only like to talk salary per hour or per month.

  • @surajpatil6924
    @surajpatil6924 3 дня назад +1

    I think the way things are happening now (atleast after the CA Anna Sebastian case) ...a job ; howsoever attractive the position given is, has lost its traditional importance and value...!
    Now, everyone is thinking about work life balance, family time, health and fitness management, hobbies and sports...etc
    I think ; freedom and stress free healthy living is the new "currency"

  • @jacksparrow2067
    @jacksparrow2067 4 дня назад +1

    Job कोई भी और कैसा भी हो पर वर्किंग hours specific होने चाहिए । वर्क life balance होना ही चाहिए । मानव अधिकार भी कोई चीज होती है । ओवर टाइम भी अपनी मर्जी से होना चाहिए ।

  • @jmjgroups1578
    @jmjgroups1578 4 дня назад +2

    Very true ❤

  • @Someonner
    @Someonner 2 дня назад

    I have a new project starting in next 15 days and with just one interaction with US counter part who thinks he is my manager i am fed up already. Will be quitting in a month.

  • @prabhasuresh775
    @prabhasuresh775 4 дня назад +1

    Thanks . Very valuable inputs .

  • @automationeducation
    @automationeducation День назад

    जेब भी मै खुद किसिको हायर करता हु डे वन बता देता हू मेर एक्सिपेक्टेशन तो मुझे भविष्य मे प्रॉब्लेम नहीं आता, ❤ लाइक व्हीडीओ सर जी👍

  • @im4320
    @im4320 3 дня назад +1

    Its easy to say leaving JOB, but those who have rich family or good backup, can do easily, what about not good financially? They have to :(

  • @kishoCom
    @kishoCom День назад

    He didn't need to give any justification why he can't work more than 9 hours

  • @ARNABOSS
    @ARNABOSS 3 дня назад

    this type of negative experiences are way too common in indian corporations

  • @SOLOJASDG-o1j
    @SOLOJASDG-o1j 3 дня назад +2

    Situation will be in favour of employees in coming few years , people are now getting to much evolved than previous years. They can easily handle their financial decisions from past decade.

  • @kromation
    @kromation 2 дня назад

    I did it in january with a mumbai mnc. IMO other markets are also vulnerable wrt stability in income no matter the amount of time you put in so called self employement. However if he finds something better then its good. One can always say grass is greener on the other side.

  • @saurabhsuman4960
    @saurabhsuman4960 День назад

    And u think it can be avoided by simply asking these questions? As per my experience of 11 years in IT this is unavoidable, u need to be inside to know the story. This guy is amazing who resigned on day1, generally it takes months to understand

  • @ankitbinjola
    @ankitbinjola 2 дня назад

    I also joined a mnc but I don’t like some of their policies is it better to leave ? Please suggest ?

  • @richagaikwad4661
    @richagaikwad4661 4 дня назад +1

    मैनेजर को क्या फ़रक पड़ता है, एक गया दूसरा आएगा तुरंत, जनता लाइन में खड़ी है.

    • @anup68027
      @anup68027 4 дня назад

      मैनेजर का भी कोई मैनेजर रहता है...... प्राइवेट जॉब का यही हाल रहता है

  • @kirankishore9934
    @kirankishore9934 2 дня назад

    It is usually much easier to quit on Day 1.

  • @Sunny-wp4fd
    @Sunny-wp4fd День назад

    Employer nor behave as boss , but landlord, and employee as slaves

  • @sriramh
    @sriramh 3 дня назад +1

    Majority of interviews won’t be that transparent to be honest

  • @saa442
    @saa442 14 часов назад

    In my experience some people in Manager role is just childish with no maturity. It is nothing to with their training

  • @siddharthbansode1369
    @siddharthbansode1369 День назад

    Same here, i resigned in just 4 months due to job profile mismatch

  • @dineshm4368
    @dineshm4368 3 дня назад

    I ASKED ABOUT MY WORKING HOURS AND SHIFT PATTERN BEFORE JOINING MY CURRENT FIRM , AFTER A WORST WORK LIFE BALANCE FROM 1 OF THE BIG 4'S

  • @ameyapatil2424
    @ameyapatil2424 3 дня назад +2

    Yeh araam kaa maamlaa hai,
    apun ke choice kaa maamlaa hai

  • @mohitgoel6067
    @mohitgoel6067 4 дня назад +9

    There is nothing to make fuss about this topic. Quit if you don't like and find a place which is conducive.

    • @abhinandanrocks
      @abhinandanrocks 4 дня назад +2

      ohh really ? then how can we expect system to improve ?

    • @humblepawn873
      @humblepawn873 4 дня назад

      ​@@abhinandanrocks We can't afford that luxury.... The Unemployment issue is way bigger than these small issues.

  • @viswanath660
    @viswanath660 3 дня назад

    People keep hopping companies hoping that they see good managers in the next company. Reailty is different. 😊

    • @rajmohansg
      @rajmohansg День назад

      At least by hopping jobs we can get some hikes like 40% we can get instead of working with toxic managers with no benefits..
      Show your skills for one or two years ..if it's not recognized then Keep hopping job guys. That's the right solution..
      These managers will never promote the people who really work good..
      They will help the people only who is close to them.. Understand and move on...
      The more we work for those bad managers, only they will grow up leaving us to work more and more Endlessly..

  • @sandip6130
    @sandip6130 3 дня назад +1

    Typical service based work culture

  • @sanujitroy6830
    @sanujitroy6830 3 дня назад

    it days are over with layoffs and resignation

  • @Raja-tt4ll
    @Raja-tt4ll 3 дня назад

    Good Video

  • @JobsHorn
    @JobsHorn 3 дня назад +1

    😂😂 hiring by giving all employment conditions and signing the acknowledge paper also same kind of behavior in GenZ guys. Its shift of working ethics. No work will be performed and 1 hour work is portrayed as 8 hrs work. Why it took so long? They keep quiet 😂😂.
    One employee leaving a company dont hurt much, there are plenty of fish in pond.

  • @abhishekpriya7386
    @abhishekpriya7386 2 дня назад

    I also did this in the current month 🤣🤣

  • @tilakkalal8135
    @tilakkalal8135 3 дня назад

    Same to me, I don't want to work extend hrs, once or twice in a week is ok but still I was falling short of monthly targets, and every one we're like no big deal, I quit

  • @altafattar8502
    @altafattar8502 4 дня назад

    True❤

  • @Experiances
    @Experiances День назад

    He was able to quit because he might not have serious responsibilities and high chances of having financial support, Otherwise he will be still threre.

  • @Ks-oj6tc
    @Ks-oj6tc 3 дня назад

    Actually it is 13 hrs job which the manager cant reveal before

  • @swagatnayak9146
    @swagatnayak9146 3 дня назад

    I resigned in 24 days....after knowing the work culture....

  • @vaibhavrane9979
    @vaibhavrane9979 23 часа назад

    sir, please make a video on ghost hiring or ghost jobs....

  • @sanujitroy6830
    @sanujitroy6830 3 дня назад

    layoffs and resignation moving up daily as seen

  • @rajmohansg
    @rajmohansg День назад

    The guy should have got a better offer or else some managers should have played politics on the first day itself.
    These managers always tries to overload the employees who works good.. That's the problem, right people are leaving the job.
    Because Managers wants the employees to act like working without actually working..
    If all the work is done properly on right time then they will be out of the project very soon..
    Those managers will create a problem if there is no problems just for their own benefits..
    Most of the Managers somehow get into high positions just because they sit in the company for long years. .
    These kind of managers will help the employees with a similar mindset.
    Keep changing the job guys.. The hard work we do will never help us to grow.. It will only help the bad managers to grow up..
    Managers are the real bad people in any company who wants to get high salary just by doing nothing except speaking blah blah blah.. Or by doing politics.

  • @2883priyesh
    @2883priyesh 3 дня назад

    So the manger should say during the interview that you will be joining an idiot who will screw your life

  • @vishnupatil1855
    @vishnupatil1855 3 дня назад

    The candidate would have got another good offer

  • @SelvaM-u1d
    @SelvaM-u1d 3 дня назад

    Why India is still not developed though the Indian work force always worked hard, what problem is that even now they wanted us to work nine to twelve hours a day

  • @nikhiljain5887
    @nikhiljain5887 3 дня назад +1

    Chat chat ke chamche manager ban jate hai. Aise manager honge to Aisa hi karainge 😅

  • @chidaraboinabhargavgopal6475
    @chidaraboinabhargavgopal6475 3 дня назад

    Seems he is inspired by ashneer grovers story on his experience with EY🤣

  • @anup68027
    @anup68027 4 дня назад

    इंडिया में प्राइवेट जॉब का यही हाल है....... बक्कवास

  • @paragdas8719
    @paragdas8719 3 дня назад

    Your thumbnail is misleading.... Please don't make false thumbnails to attract people

  • @Secular_Indian
    @Secular_Indian 4 дня назад

    Use these jobs interview lile nirodh 😅

  • @ArunKumar-vd6tk
    @ArunKumar-vd6tk 4 дня назад

    In my opinion, the person who leaves the job on Day 1 is an immatured idiot and not good enough even to do menial jobs. If am an employer, I would be more than happy to give him a perfect send off to save the organization atleast not wasting time and money on him

    • @johnnyt9022
      @johnnyt9022 3 дня назад +8

      Nonsense fellow. Mind your words. Do you think job seekers are your slaves 😡😡

    • @nuhmanhanif288
      @nuhmanhanif288 3 дня назад

      Dei para kirukka onaku idea iruka panni payale

    • @itpro-m8ttelugugirl
      @itpro-m8ttelugugirl 3 дня назад +4

      You are not knowing there are sycho path managers out there. They disrespect and power of abuse is too much to handle for any person.