Friday Night Routine of a lonely Japanese father｜A Cold Winter Day before the Holidays｜Japan VLOG
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- Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
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Thank you for watching my video! I'm reading all the comments. I'm reading them in chronological order, starting from the oldest. It's taking a long time because I'm not good at foreign languages. I put a heart mark on the comments I read. Some of them are harsh, but I appreciate all the comments. I want to thank everyone who wrote a comment. It's going to take a while for me to read your comments, but please wait.
@@samurai-daddy that's nice of you
Ignore the harsh comments they obviously haven't been there and lucky theynever had to experience loneliness in marriage and family
My heart goes out you @samurai daddy
I just came back from Japan, I noticed Japanese people are introvert. I saw working people they spend time time alone after work rather straight away go home and spend time with their family. To @samurai-daddy no need to feel lonely since you have wife and son, spend as much time with them while u can 😊. Sometimes we just need to break the ice for our own happiness. Happy holiday to you and family
@samurai-daddy I will be your friend so you whont be lonley. 😂❤
those who say not good about how you feel, just let them be.The way you express yourself is way better than them l.And your just being yourself and being real human on earth.Keep it up and wish you all the best 👍🏻
In America 🇺🇸 people are rushing to go home after work. Some of the happiest moments of my day is when I go home to be greeted by my two kids and wife. Regardless of the time of night my kids would wait for me to get home so I can do their bedtime routine. Knowing your family is waiting for you at home just to spend that little amount of time each night, gives me the sense of urgency to get home. Thanks for making these videos and Merry Christmas!!
No everyone.It is the same problem everywhere.
Really my country Typical
In America. You mean Mexico? Argentina. Colombia Peru Cuba? Oh yeah. U mean USA. All around you
Spending more time with your family is the most important thing you can do as a man. Remember to love those around you because they wont be around forever
Maybe in your culture. In understanding Japan it’s important to understand their value system does NOT come from the Judeo-Christian ethic although in many cases their conclusion is the same as ours their logic path is very different.
Eat deliciously 😋 Thank you for putting the price. I am deaf and enjoy your videos by reading prices and subtitles...a loyal subscriber 😊
You got tricked into thinking he is broke
Thank you for watching my video! I'm super grateful for your support. I also have a video about the prices in Tokyo. It's a popular video that has been viewed over 60,000 times. Please watch that video too. I hope you have a fun trip in Japan.
@@tanthamanHe isn't broke. But the life of a salary man in Japan is no joke
😊@@samurai-daddy
I've been wondering about disability in Japan. I haven't seen any obviously disabled people in his footage. I'd love to know more about disability in Japanese culture.
Thanks
Let us not be hasty to judge him not wanting to go home. Maybe he is very unhappy at home but there are two sides to every story and it would be appreciated if the wife could also explain her own side. Thank you for your videos. Please try and communicate with your wife, leaving her little notes before going to work to say "I love you" or a simple "thank you for taking care of the house and our son". I am sure she would appreciate that little note. Sending you hugs. Keep your chin up, life is too short!
Thank you for watching my video! I appreciate your thoughtfulness. I am reading all the comments. I will do my best to make things better for my family.
If you want your marriage to improve, when your workday is over, get on the first train you can to go home and be with your wife and child while they are still awake. Talk to her, be with your child. Do something simple like asking how her day was, offer to help with something like helping to prepare or clean up after dinner. Perhaps pick up a small food item or treat on the way home you know she enjoys and something for yourself. Try to start doing some "together" / "family" things versus your current pattern of choosing isolation and not coming home til they are both asleep. Things will not change or improve until you try to do something different. Blessings to you all...
His wife doesn't like him, when someone doesn't like you they reject your kindness
Hope you have a nice time with your family this holiday season !
Thanks for sharing your daily life. Hope everything works out for you and your wife. 😊
I pray you will find peace and happiness in your heart so you will no longer feel lonely. Whatever that is for you, you deserve it. Have a good evening 🙏
Even though I too suffer loneliness I hate to see someone else suffer from it 😢.. I hope you can have a nice Christmas together as a family at least I send you a warm friendly hug ❤❤❤❤❤💞
I think that, from my very limited knowledge (I’m sorry for that), Japanese people tend to be more reserved about their own feelings, but I still hope you’ll find the courage to express your feelings to your wife, you both deserve to hear them, I wish you a lot of happiness during this time.
The place you went after hours for work was beautiful! Not the cafe, but the streets of the city. Don't you ever go out with " the boys"- your friend group? My husband has lunches and dinners with friends. He goes on cruises with his friends. I guess I could understand if your wife would be upset, my husband's friends wives get jealous I think sometimes. You guys don't even acknowledge each other in the streets. I'm always smiling and greeting people in the streets. I talk to people in all of the stores I go to! Are you friendly with anyone from work? For an after office drink? I love that you watch anime, I'm forever watching Adult Swim late at night! I'm so sorry that you are lonely when you are surrounded by people!❤
I like the variety of food at the groceries 👏🏻 especially that cake 🧁
Please forgive me, for I am ignorant. If you are lonely why do you not spend time with your wife? I know that I do not understand the dynamics of relationships or marriage in Japan. I feel that a good relationship requires work from all parties. Perhaps you could bring your wife home a snack instead of staying out all night? Or spend time playing with your son? I treasure the time I get to spend with my kids, as they will be grown up and not like me soon enough.
His wife doesn't take care him😢
issue maybe just for views..
To me he sounds like a spoilt child!!!!Mememe I AM SOOO LOONLEY!!!PITTY MEEE!!!!Whats wrong with you man!!!! Take care of the situation for gods sake!!!!
I dont know either but some cultures view marriage as a contract to procreate, to continue the family. But as we know what suffers is self fulfillment, friendship and just an overall quality of life at home. It's a thing...
@@welcometosusansmukbang9215 That seems wrong. There are videos of this man eating his wife’s leftover food, such as rice. His wife definitely looks after him by doing cooking, but he *chooses* to eat out constantly instead.
Nah. There’s definitely something this man is doing wrong. I don’t doubt the wife as innocent and perfect, they both seem just completely incompatible.
Hey, it's nice to see your videos. I sincerely hope you are doing well. I wish you and your family wonderful Christmas days. I hope the tense situation between you and your wife has improved. Greetings From Germany.
Thank you for showing the beauty of your country.
Excellent content! 👏
I wonder how you managed to get down the stairs in the café with your tea tray in one hand and your videocamera/phone on the other. 😂😂😂
Hello Samourai Daddy, thank you for the video. I hope you will have good moments with your wife and your kid during Christmas. I hope you can feel a little less lonely with us. I wish you the best 🙏.
find a friend and go camping together, enjoy the nature
I really feel bad when you mention that you are lonely but you have a wife and child. I never felt lonely even when my wife has always worked 12 hour days from 5:00P.M to 5:00A.M. 5 days a week and I always work 3:30 A.M to 3:30 PM. We see each other on days off and before my wife goes to work. I always try to eat lunch together even on weekends! I prepare our meals for the whole family during the weekend! I go out only once in a while and eat together with my family. I made this habit since we got married back in 1993 and since then still try to eat together and be together! She is Asian and even though we’re from different cultures I need to do things together!!
For everyone leaving comments about his lifestyle : Welcome to Japan. Salaryman lifestyle has been like this for a century.
Doesn't make it right in 2024
@@MikeTheGamer77 strange comment, bud. Not everything has to be like the U.S.
What a toxic culture
New subscriber, I enjoy your videos keep making them please, best wishes from Glasgow Scotland 🙏🏻
This is only the 2nd video from Samurai Daddy that I have watched. It does seem a lonely lifestyle. I am struck by how soulless the coffee shops and restaurants are. Nobody is talking to anyone. Everyone seems to be on their mobiles and my or laptops. I can understand the need to decompress after work, before going home. The long commute means an early start to the day. Life is not easy. I enjoy your videos and I look forward to watching more about you, Tokyo, your family and work. Take care. Happy Christmas to you (all).
Communication is key . . . also why my marriage failed since he would not talk. Keep trying to talk to her!
東京をたくさん見ているんだね。 私は神楽坂に住んでいますが、毎日こんなに見ることはありません。
You reminded me I must go shopping for a camera this winter break . . . thank you ;>
much respect for Japan and her people
I can kinda relate to you in a way , I feel lonely also but at least you can get outside and do things . I can’t because I have very severe depression and anxiety . I feel a lot of sympathy for you and I know some people will talk shit and say oh he’s doing this for pity or donations or views . No fuck that. I relate to your videos , it’s relatable. And they are nice to watch . Day in the life content is the easiest to make because it just shows what you go through in a day to day basis , like a little piece of your life that we get to see. You’re not alone though . Some of us are in the same boat or at least in a similar scenario.
Feeling lonely sometimes is normal.You have to improve your self-esteem.For that it is good to do something new every day..Good luck🎉
Hi, Samurai Daddy! Love your videos for calm and nice amosphere. I prefer speechless videos much more to noisy, and sometimes annoying detailed ones! Thank you for sharing with us your thoughts and beautiful views and food of Japan! Like and subscription!
Ordering food around the world:
"WTF is this??? It looks nothing like the picture!"
Ordering food in Japan:
"WTF is this??? It looks exactly like the picture!"
I am single, no wife or girlfriend, not many friends, but I find that I often feel more lonely when I’m with others than when I’m by myself. So I can empathize with your loneliness within your marriage. A loveless marriage would be the worst kind of loneliness for me.
😮 wuao verdad en tus palabras dejé de sentirme sola cuando aún sola hay personas que se sienten más sol estando cerca.
Du sagst es eine Ehe ohne Liebe und Zuneigung macht ein krank und man fühlt sich wirklich einsam,diese Erfahrung hab ich selber gemacht und mich befreit, jetzt geht es mir super ,aber ich hab viele Freunde.und ja, in Japan wird nicht über Gefühle geredet oder wirklich gezeigt.
This is a lonely daily routine for a father and husband for real, as if you're living alone 😕. Anyways, thank you for sharing us your videos, i really appreciate learning anything about living in Japan before i travel next year. I was really happy when you showed how to order meal in English 😄.
What is a vater?
@DK-210 Oh, 😅 sorry, i didn't notice i wrote it in German. It means ( father).
I appreciate the subtitles 😊
Please appreciate the fact that you even have a family in the first place. Not everyone has a family.
These vlogs are so relaxing and the food looks so good I'd love to try japanese food someday
Thank you for your videos. They make me feel less lonely. I just went through a breakup and know what it’s like to feel alone in a relationship. I didn’t have children, or was not married, so it was way less complicated. There is no easy solution for loneliness. I hope you find connection along your journey. Love from the internet!
Edit. Also, Coco Curry! When i was in Japan i worked my way up to level ten spicy level. The staff were so nice. Thank you for the trip down memory road! I hope your curry ruled!
Edit2: Then you turned the tv on to Kaiji?! Man, let’s be buds!
Thank you for taking time to do your videos, me and my children are enjoying learning about daily life in Japan. We especially enjoy the pudding selections you show and we are trying to decide which to try for ourselves first when we make our first visit to Japan in 2026. Look forward to watching your next video. Merry Christmas to you and your family from London UK.
Good good to see how normal Japanese people live. It's funny how our lives are much alike.
Anyhow, enjoy your Christmas 🎄
Thank you, I enjoyed your clip. Good wishes to you.
😊❤ 🙌
I do enjoy seeing what Japanese restaurants serve, realizing we have no such places here in my home state in America. The convenience stores look fun too, but I'd never get out with only a couple items in my basket. The streets and transportation are full of people, yet I understand people dont tend to talk to each other much. It always made time pass faster when I talked with people on buses or trax while I went to work. Maybe it has changed here too because once I got a car, I never used public transport. Samurai Daddy, do you have friends at work you can spend time with to keep from feeling lonely, while still remmebering you have a family at home?
Thank you for watching my video! I appreciate your comments. I hope to post a video about my friend someday.
I’m a Taiwanese living in Taipei,
All foods on your video look delicious and not expensive. That’s nice ~
ここのコメントの中には、厳しすぎたり共感に欠けているものもあります。サムライさん、ごめんなさい。都会の生活、日本の文化や料理についてシェアしてくれてありがとう。日本食は本当に美味しいです!! 日本に行って、しばらく子供たちに英語を教えたいです。2025年が幸せな年になることを願っています!! 幸運を祈ります。前向きでいてください!! 🎄
أتمنى لك وعائلتك السعادة 🌹
Espero que no te sientas sólo y sobretodo en esta Navidad disfruta muchísimo más de tu hijo y de tu mujer, en vez de comer fuera proponerle planes para hacer, llévate a tu hijo a ver las luces por la ciudad o invita a tu mujer a comer espero que pases una feliz navidad o al menos lo intentes 😢❤🎄
Thank you for your video. I will waiting for the next video. Eat delicious. I send you a big hug.
She doesn’t want spend any time with him. She hates men!
New to your channel and it's lovely. I subbed and hope this brings you more time with your family as your channel grows. Cheers from NYC.
I would have told them right away to get me a coffee. Tea is no substitute for coffee, lol. Although it's probably less dehydrating.
Thank you for sharing, just found one of your recent videos by accident. I also see some... interesting comments here but hey, this is your content. Trying to reach assumptions outside of it is really their problem and the downsides of sharing content online (with others outside your culture) 😅 Anyway. It does spark discussion and commentary so it works lol.
I'm still not sure what gift to buy my son yet either 🤣 Hope you and your family take care and happy holidays!
that's a long commute ever day,.then dealing with crowds. Glad im working home now.
I really understand your life and situation
please enjoy your daily life and food. just do yourself. at least you are lucky, you have a good job
That’s the life. You are never alone but at the same time You can be lonely. Greeting from Poland.
I am truely ..alone..I lost my partner of 24 years to cancer in 2017..Even though we worked together (she was my boss)......I still wish I had spent more time with her at home...Even though she sat just a few feet away from me when were were home..I spent a lot of time sat at my pc..when I should have been sat next to her...I could have done what I did on my pc anytime...But spending time with her is now no longer an option...I miss her immensely....We didn't have children ..and I no longer have friends or family to turn to...Life at times is unbearable...I spend all my time alone...day in day out , week in week out, month in month out, year in year out.
It's tough I know....dark thoughts....But I know she would never forgive me if I did something stupid...So please...try to find out the root cause of the problem....and fix it (if you can).....Making your wife happy will make you happy (if you still love her)...And think of your child...Because my own parents divorced when I was 6 and It has affected my whole life. And as my late partners birthday was on the Dec 26th..This time of year is real tough for me...All the best.
I understand you well, 😢
@@marago711 ❤️🌈
@@Zkrolik322🙏
My God, this is heartbreaking, especially now, but at least you had such a partner, it is a luxury to have this kind of love in life, I wish you the best, now and in the future. You might have lost your partner, but you’re alive, celebrate that until you’ll meet her again in a long time.✨
Hello Samurai Daddy hope everything is going well with you hope that you and your wife work things out to find out what’s wrong I’m praying for you that things will get better soon 🙏🙏🙏
Share cream cake with me😋
Thanks for samurai daddy’s wonderful video 🎉
Spending time with my family is what prevented the loneliness & depression that I had. Why would you intentionally stay away from your wife & son? If you don't love them, then man up and get a divorce. You're being a coward and hurting your son. He's already learning that his dad doesn't love him enough to spend time with him. Children have to feel & know that they're loved. How can he feel that his dad loves him if he wanders around the city for youtube videos instead of being with him? You'll never get these years back with kids. Now he'll grow up thinking that it's ok to ignore your wife & child and pretend that you love them.
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Absolutely true!
He mentioned previously that he started this channel for alternate income so he could spend less time at the office and more with his family.
Dude the guy works a LOT! ...and travels an Hour and a Half Each Way going to and From work so they can have a roof over their head. How can you say he doesn't love them?
@@FreeRiver_Plays I don’t know the actually statistics, but I would guess that a good 80% of people who work in Tokyo commute more than 1.5 hours one way. This is life in Tokyo. It’s completely normal. Millions commute up to 2 hours one way. This is how I and all my colleagues and friends and family live too, averaging 1.5 hours commute.
However, we all go home after work and eat at home with our families, unless, on rare occasions, there is a dinner with colleagues, clients, or friends. Some single colleagues who live alone, may eat out more often, but even they sometimes cook at home too.
This way that he is living, is entirely his choice.
Totally agree.
GO HOME AND BE WITH YOUR FAMILY. My god, some people would kill to have a family and you're actively ignoring and avoiding them.
Man up. Go home.
Glad someone else said this too.
My sentiments exactly!
This guy fools us!
@@michelineverret2871 i think he's just engagement farming with a clickbait title. Would you have clicked the video if it was called "POV of man going to store and having a meal in Japan" ?
@@Cargo_Bay You'd be surprised what people will watch these days.
I really like your videos and how you show the processes for ordering food in restaurants. I am planning on visiting Japan for the first time in August with my family, I also have a son who is 5. Could you make a video with your family on a typical day out? Maybe in the countryside?
Watching this video, it makes me sad knowing that in Japan, you got to travel an hour and a half in the morning and an hour and a half at night just to have a job and keep your family happy but in the long run that’s a long way to travel you know it’s about time in Time that you need to spend with your family and that’s sad so everybody’s got to look forward to that in Japan because they’re not wealthy. That is really sad here in Orlando. We try to work not far away and now we have to drive everywhere so it’s a little different. Wow that is sad. I’m so sorry. I love watching your videos and stuff in my heart just goes out to you and I’m so sad for you and your wife and you have a son. Do you ever plan on having more kids? I know it’s hard. OK thank you for reading my comment love watching your videos. You have a great day.
Friday night why you don't invit your family to spend the time together watching tv, eat potato chips and cake together this would be so much better than alone
Hi again Samurai Daddy, another great clip. I will not preach about your family, enough people already do that. I used to like Pronto a lot during the years in Japan, especially their egg salad sandos. I learned to love Japanese curry at Cocos, (Good smell, good curry!). Level 3 or 4 of spiciness was enough for me. It is a totally different animal from Indian, Thai or Seychelles, very good. Now back in Romania I cook it often with S&B roux, mainly with beef, lamb or keema or a pork tonkatsu. Plus many other Japanese foods I learned. Why do I start to sweat when I see people eat curry on RUclips? The body is a mystery. Yagen cartilage delicious! In Nigeria we used to eat cowleg - beef cartilage/meat cooked tender with colourful sauces. My favourite snack in Japan was Cheeza by Glico, crackers with 53% cheese, absolutely superior! Ok, have good days and arigato!
Boys need their fathers...trust me. Even if the relationship with your wife is beyond salvaging, make sure you are part of your sons life!
Is it a normal thing for husbands to get up, go to work (not eat breakfast at home), eat breakfast on the way to work. Then work all day, eat lunch at work. Then, after work, you don't go home to see your wife & children. You eat dinner out. Then, after you finish being out at night, you arrive home when the wife & children are sleeping.
So, where is the family life?
This type of Japanese salaryman married only because it was expected by society that’s all. They treat their house as a ryokan, and their wife as a free maid. They hardly know their kids, and in their minds, they are single men about town. They don’t think of themselves as married with kids at all.
Unfortunately there are millions of them that live this way.
It's such a sad existence. @@dragonbone5000
@@dragonbone5000 Horrible lifestyle. I only feel sorry for his wife. While he is having fun and filling his stomach, his wife is taking care of the child and the house. They probably don't even have sex.
@@dragonbone5000 That’s how it looks like as I’ve never seen him buying a Yen worth’s item for his wife or son. It appears that his wife and sons are total strangers to him. If that’s a normal thing, it’s not nice at all.
@@dragonbone5000 Horrible lifestyle. I only feel sorry for his wife. While he is having fun and filling his stomach, his wife is taking care of the child and the house. They probably don't even have sex.
Es tan lindo como te refieres a tu mujer y a tu niño pero 😢 esa distancia entre ustedes no es lo mejor.
I understand you so well!!!❤
あなたが孤独なのは、家族と一緒に時間を過ごしていないからです。誰もが家族を持っているわけではありません。それを当たり前だと思わないでください。
That's ture
Oj,tak.
Perhaps it's married remorse?
Oh wow that cream cake looked lovely
Wish you and your family happy new year 🎍 Gambadeh Samurai Daddy san
I havejust watched your videos for the first time. I have a friend who is Japanese, marriedvwith a child. On a recent visit to us in NZ I was shocked to see he slept
Cseparately from his wife, she shared the bed with their daughter. While this maybe a cultural norm, relationships will never grow, be nourishedif this lifestyle continues, and obviously doing little for your mental well being.
I understand the commute time is long. Instead of having your dinner in the city, make an effort to get home 1-2 in the week, to join your family.
Time passes too quickly. Only you and your wife can makea conscious effort to change thevstaus quo. No wonder you are sick, your immune system not coping with the stressors it is under.Be kinder to yourself, see to make new changes in 2025, to make you a happier, less lonely man. Wishing you all the best.
당신은 家族 있으니.. 最小 夕食은 with your family.....
Desde mi humilde opinión y sin ánimo de ofender, Me parecéis más compañeros de piso que un matrimonio.
Me sorprende que tu esposa no te deje cena preparada.
Según tú, no tenéis comunicación.
Te propongo una cosa. Desayunad juntos, entablad una conversación. Puede que al principio la situación sea fria, pero con el tiempo intercambiareis más cosas. Háblale de tu día y que ella te hable del suyo.
Os deseo a ti a tu familia, lo mejor.
응원합니다!! 좋은 저녁 되십시오
When you get home what time is it?
Thank you for watching my video! On the day of this video, I think I got home around 9pm.
The curry soup looks yummy. I’m sure your son will love any gift you will get him for Christmas. 🌷🌷
May I ask is it very cold in Japan right now?
I appreciate your comment. Thank you! It's getting cold in Tokyo. I think the maximum temperature is 10 degrees and the minimum is 0 degrees.
daddy SAMA
You mentioned you spent. Some time in New York. Where exactly ? Doing what? For how long? This will give me a better understanding of how well you understand American business culture. BTW I am American but when I retired I was a director for Bandai/Namco.
Thank you for watching my video! I went to New York for about five days in 2010. I came back to Japan without knowing how to enjoy New York. Were you really a director of Bandai Namco? I'm surprised. What kind of work did you do at Bandai Namco?
We are all lonely, and, as a species, always have been. But is a rare privilege to be alive and if the price we must pay is existential angst, then so be it. Lean into your solitude and embrace the uniqueness of your life. It is up to you to give existence meaning.
Why are you lonely bro? I think you are doing well for yourself and family. I wish you and your family the best in life!
I'm praying for you.
Sou inscrita nova aqui no canal e li alguns comentários, e acho que essa não é a rotina diária e sim somente quando ele filma para o RUclips.
Hi samurai,
Restaurants in Japan are good, but why not show us some of the food your wife cooks for you as well?
This will make her feel appreciated as well.
We only need to see the food.
Remember, those making harsh comments do not understand Japan.
You need to go home and spend time with your family. Talk to your wife, plan time together with her and your boy. Time goes by fast, don't wait. Bring her flowers for no reason. Let her know that you still care. She's probably just as lonely as you are.
Hello Samurai Daddy! I am very impressed your ordered your curry in English. 😃 I just discovered your channel and have been 'binge watching'. Please keep your videos coming. I feel such sadness from you and want you to know you are not alone. 💙 Perhaps you can invite your wife and son to meet you for dinner? I don't know the details, but I know if my husband of 26 years makes an effort I REALLY appreciate it. Just a thought.
I can truly sense your loneliness. I hope and pray you find happiness and joy
a mi parecer los juegos de mesa son mejores que los electrónicos para la mente amigo
We hear just your side of story all the time. I fail to understand that how do you afford to eat out three times every day. Both you and your Mrs might have to make a few compromises. You should be going home after work and spend time with your son and wife. Whatever time you have left after work, you spend that in restaurants for dinner. Why would you not have dinner at home? You have always said that your wife looks after the son and house and cooks for you.
+1😢
He has mentioned that he only eats out on days when he films videos, so I would assume he usually goes home? Not sure what he does back home though.
Well, I need to agree with teevlogs, sorry Samurai, but I think you do it wrong. U talk about your wife and your pivacy, ur wife could be sad and this is normal behaviour. When ur in shops, I see always snacks for u - not for your family, wife, son, but ONLY for you. You spend your free time after work alone, without family.
You are alone because, well, you want to be alone. It`s only your choice.
Please, look at your screen here - "I have a family, but I`m lonely". I think it`s humiliating for your wife and son, this kind of words in public. I don`t know your situacion, but I can see a man, who doesn`t want to spend time with family.
Please, talk with her, do something, but don`t run away, it`s the worst.
I@@nata231I have the same thoughts too. The shopping for treats especially. Why is it just for himself. I bet the son would like to get a surprise from his dad once in a while. I don't understand 😢
@@zwiebster63Si, pero un regalo siempre es agradable!
My japanese brother...maurice here from miami, florida..the U.S. dude you gotta fight for your wife and child..break the routine...go straight home from work, tell your wife you both will go to counseling to help the marriage..try to listen to each other..get a 3rd person to moderate the session..this will help both of you. Dont avoid the problem by stay away from home. Come home early eat at home..Tell your wife you want to be part of the family, if she loves you she will also work at the marriage and hear you out. If she doesn't want the marriage and doesn't work on the marriage well you have your answer...she does not love you anymore...but at least you will have finalization...versus endless nights of just wondering will you have a family and spouse.
Interesting videos but go home straight from work and cook for your wife and son. At the weekend take your son out so your wife gets a break.
You ask what we would like to know about Japan. How are disabled people treated and looked after? Are families with disabled children supported?
Support for people with disabilities in Japan is improving, with laws promoting accessibility and inclusion. However, compared to countries like Sweden or the U.S., challenges remain in rural areas and fostering full societal inclusion.
@@samurai-daddy same as here in England
Każda samotność boli,ale w rodzinie tym bardziej. Myślę o Pana synku,jaki on ma wzorzec rodziny i ojca? Na pewno ojca mu brakuje. Czy powtórzy w życiu dorosłym Pana rolę? Pewnie tak i nie z Pana winy. Trzy tygodnie temu obejrzałam film dokumentalny produkcji japońskiej pt. KSZTAŁTOWANIE MŁODEGO JAPOŃCZYKA. Ngdy nie ośmieliłabym się napisać Japończykowi tego,co napiszę,bo byłoby to bardzo nietaktowne,GDYBY nie fakt,że powiedział to japoński sensei. Film dotyczy edukacji szkolnej w Japonii. Patrzyłam na te śliczne dzieci i serce mi się krajało z bólu nad ich cierpieniem w szkole. Wizytator/kurator starszy stażem i wiekiem sensei stwierdził:" Jesteśmy dumni z sukcesów Japonii,są rezultatem naszego systemu szkolnego,ALE KAŻDY KIJ MA DWA KOŃCE. BĄDŹMY SZCZERZY SUKCES OSIĄGAMY STOSUJĄC TERROR PSYCHICZNY WOBEC DZIECI. PORA TO PRZEMYŚLEĆ" tymi słowy zakończył. Potem dwóch młodych nauczycieli rozmawiali o swoich wątpliwościach dotyczących sposobu wychowania i kształcenia. Mam nadzieję,że Pana nie obraziłam. Sama byłam kilka lat nauczycielką,bardzo wymagającą,ale dzieci i młodzież mogły się pośmiać,zażartować,dbałam o ciepłą atmosferę. Często zwierzały się mnie a nie wychowawcy. Patrzyłam na smutne japońskie dzieci,ciągle pod presją nauczyciela i grupy.😢 Pana synek niedługo pójdzie do szkoły,proszę wykorzystać ten czas dla Was obu,by wzmocnić w nim bezwarunkowe poczucie wiary w siebie. Może warto poszukać pracy w Jokohamie a zaoszczędzony czas spędzać z synkiem i żoną. Pozdrawiam.
Dude, we all have our life’s work, struggles…but PRIORITIES are a must, and my family is a priority in my life. Life is never too busy for family, life IS family, be with yours before it’s too late.
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Hombres y mujeres por igual sufrimos situaciones similares en familia, espero mejore la situación de usted en casa. Todos debemos empatizar con los sentimientos de otros sin juzgar 😊 Gracias por mostrar algo de su vida privada en este vlog! Saludos desde México 😊
You seem to eat all your meals outside your home
Is this usual in Japanese society? Do you have meals with your family on the weekends?
I enjoy your channel
Thank you
Thank you for watching my video! It depends on the family. I spend the weekend with my family.
@@samurai-daddy Thank you for your reply. I will continue to enjoy your videos. Have a Happy Holiday season and good luck in 2025!
I think you just enjoy your loneliness. You enjoy commuting, working, eating out alone, beer and sweets late at night...... You are lucky. You have a job, can afford eating out everyday, Who is doing cooking, cleaning, taking care of your son...... Please do not eat those unhealthy stuff after dinner. It will damage your health.
É solitário porque quer. É só ir pra casa e marcar um jantar em família ao invés de comer na rua sozinho. E não leva nada para esposa nem para o filho.
As far as I know, a Japanese husband wants an agreeing wife, a wife who always tells her husband: “Yes, you are right”. Because the wife’s job is to make the husband happy, and husband is happy if wife never say no or argue.
That is very sad and a very old way of a marriage. Marriage does not mean this nowadays. And Japanese women dont want to get married, I see why.
I think that Japanese men are not taught how to handle feelings, how to cooperate in a marriage. 😢
More illumination parks too!
It’s not easy to maintain your connections with your family while you are already exhausted at work. You don’t really have the mental and physical strength to even say “hi” to the other person. I have been there, done that. Hope your wife can understand what you need and you two can work things out together. How about see her as another “ yourself “? A female version of yourself who is a stay at home Mom, who also needs connection from her very busy ( spend all his time at work) husband. What would see like to hear? She might also need her husband can hear her and see her.
What do you do on a weekend?
Hi samurai daddy
How are you and family doing and nobody is perfect in a relationship we are all learning but I do hope you can understand to work on a relationship you need to talk to your lovely wife because you don't know how she feels with working part time and still doing all of the house work and looking after your son and maybe she has been a bit different because she is by herself even tho she work as well and yes you work longer hours but if you make more time to spend time with your family you will see a different but it won't be over night job to fix your family problem but if you all work together and make time for each other you will see the difference but please don't be like the other Japanese men where they don't work on the relationship because your culture please make your lovely wife smile again because i know you love your family please show them
Do you ever really wanted a family? If yes, you have to work at home as well to keep it going