Weekday Routine of the worst Japanese husband｜Lonely Night after work in Cold Winter｜Japan VLOG
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025
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After watching all your videos, I’ve noticed a pattern in the titles and thumbnails-dramatic phrases and poses like:
• Miserable Christmas/New Year
• I’m an ATM to my wife
• Near divorce
And now, I’m the worst Japanese husband 🤔 What’s next?
I didn’t pay much attention to the titles before, but they’re becoming more and more self-pitying without any context. I’m not judging your struggles with loneliness or whatever else you’re going through-I used to defend you. But now, I understand why some of the comments are harsh or losing interest in the same cycle for the past six months.
I know change takes time. However, if nothing changes and you’re still unhappy, you can’t keep going like this forever. Ultimately, though, it’s your decision.
Unless it’s a scam, like some viewers have assumed. Who knows?
So what if it does? One piece has been going for 25 years, recycling the same plots. Everyone still loves it. He's free to do what he wants.
@@Alfred-u1w and people are also free to share their opinions or criticism (not pure hate), especially when he uploads videos on social, public platform
To me his titels sounds werry childish !!!!Its something fishy about this so called man!!!Blaming his wife every single video and still its him never going home ,until its nigth!!!!!!
@@Alfred-u1w lmao be quite this isnt one piece, its real life boy
It's either a scam or just self pity. He has everything someone can dream for, a family, kids, a job. Find some hobbies, drink with friends, play with your kids. Dont tell me a japanese wakes up, goes to work, comes home, sleeps, repeat.
You re not the worst husband in the world. You just have some difficulty in communicating with your family which is the main factor leading to other issue. And you are stuck in that situation for a while until you can work it out. Behind difficulty is a lesson we need to learn to make ourselves better day by day. I believe you can make it. And you need to believe in yourself as well.
Between, I love your video. I admire your ability to express you trauma via such a peaceful video.
Before you say this, how about making an episode where you go home straight after work and have dinner with them? Just one episode, don't tell me you'll miss out on your snacks.
You are absolutely correct because up to now I haven’t seen the wife and son in any episode how do I know if they are existed
@dinahamer3480 Actually, they do appear in his earlier videos, about 5- 6 months ago. It has really deteriorated since then. Maybe it's the winter blues.
Probably nothing to watch but a cold shoulder
He stated on earlier video his wife doesn’t want to be on RUclips. I did briefly see his son.
@@dinahamer3480 Months ago, there was a video with his son playing or doing homework.
I went back to your very early videos and things were quite different then. You showed your son and wife, and more of your life at home. I can now understand that something has definitely changed in your life between then and now. But I also recall things you said, such as how you’d like to travel, and how you enjoy sports - you even took viewers with you on some of your runs. It’s very apparent that you’re not happy now. I hope you work things out so that you and your wife can build happier lives, whether you stay together or not.
It is all fake for views, tons of Japanese channels that do the same thing for money.
Have you watched his videos from beginning? Go check down down his video before coming here to judge him. Please go
@@Corvus-Moongo and watch his old videos first before you talk
@Thymarhbint I have watched his videos from beginning, he is following the same script as many other Lonely Japanese RUclips channels and Tik Tok channels follow. Happiness, then sadness and loneliness and then each thumbnail is how horrible their life is, the amazing thing, they never fix anything as long as their views are up and revenue is up. I followed AskJapan for years, and he got caught by his job scamming. His wife and child could not read English, but someone at his job could, and reported him. Turns out his life with his child and wife were fine and he went dark. Samurai Daddy is following the same script. Last month he made $1400.00 from RUclips. Pretty good chunk of money. If his life gets better his views go down, he has no incentive to get better, it will actually hurt his income from RUclips. After AskJapan scandal, I did deep research, turns out there are quite a few of these scamming sympathy for views. What is sad is that there is a loneliness epidemic in Japan, and now You can't trust anyone for the bad actors.
@@Corvus-Moon agree
Hola, Samurai Daddy sé que las palabras de otros pueden herir profundamente, pero quiero recordarte lo valioso que eres. Tu esencia no pueden ser definidas por comentarios ajenos. Eres una persona única, con talentos y virtudes. Estoy aquí para apoyarte y recordarte lo especial que eres. Sigue con tus lindos videos, eres un ser valioso que se levanta todos los días temprano a trabajar por el bienestar de su familia, lo demás lo resolverás en pareja con comunicación asertiva y sincera. Saludos y por favor siempre sonríe porque el sol sale todos los días y es el símbolo de que siempre podemos volver a empezar.
Συγνώμη αγαπητή Καρολίνα7904,αλλά δεν νομίζω ότι υποτιμάμε τον φίλο από την μακρινή Ιαπωνία,αλλά δεν πρέπει να του πούμε ότι πρέπει να πηγαίνει στο σπίτι μετά την δουλειά και να τρώει βραδινό στο σπίτι,ώστε να βλέπει και να μιλά ,τουλάχιστον,με το παιδί του?
@@johntofalos9314 Estimado amigo
Es válido lo que sugieres pero todos tenemos diferentes visiones y perspectivas de la vida, por ello es importante considerar los múltiples factores que influyen en cómo una persona y su familia llegan a una determinada situación o rutina.
Cada uno de nosotros es el resultado de una combinación única de cómo fuimos criados, los valores y creencias que nos inculcaron, nuestro contexto familiar, la cultura en la que crecimos, el entorno cercano y nuestras propias experiencias de vida.
Por eso, creo firmemente que nadie puede realmente conocer a fondo la situación de otra persona. No estamos al tanto de la verdadera realidad de su círculo íntimo, y eso nos invita a reflexionar y ser empáticos.
Saludos desde 🇨🇴✨✨
Good morning to you Samurai Daddy. I know you are having difficulties. You will manage and come through. I am pleased to see you. Try to have a lovely day. 🙏🙏🙏
When a couple gets to this state of zero communication, and avoidance to see each other, it is such a sad situation. There may be some accumulating issues or underlyimg differences. As one of your viewers who has no knowledge whatsoever of the cause(s) and how and why it has come to the way it is, I am in no position to critiize or blame anybody or take sides. But I wish that for the wellbeing of both of you, it's time to take steps and sort things out. To let a silence battle drag on is not going to solve anything - and it's hurting to both! Both of you deserve a happier life than this. Please keep posting your videos. With Best wishes.
Naaahhh you're not the worst. I'm not married, but at my age I don't really have a career. I'm still trying to rebuild my life after got burned out from my previous job, and recovering from my depression. You're still much bettter than so many people despite your hard situation. I grew up in a difficult house, and it's true for some people, family can be very haaard. Hang in there man!
me too, finding a job is not easy😢 i keep up on applying but still
@@leelee-lk3hhoh wow i Change my Job too but in my Country we have a hart time at the Moment. All thing cost really a much Money and to have a carrer it’s hart. I have Talent but sozial Media is so important. It’s really hart
Family really is not a very easy thing I get you man I grew up in a difficult house as well and currently 19 year old will start looking for job
@ pls don’t think thats normal. Family can be you Ruth and Helping Hand. This is Not normal
Continue making these videos because there are a lot of us that like them, even if it’s the same routine everyday :) Take care of yourself and your family!
It is fake, ha ha. Can't believe you believe everything you see on social media. Everyone is scamming everyone.
サムライダディさんへ、
私はただ、あなたが最悪の夫だとは思わないと言いたいだけです。あなたは毎日家族のために真面目に働いているようだし、それは家族から感謝されているはずだ。
私はしばらくサムライダディさんの動画を見てきましたが、RUclipsを始めた当初から現在に至るまで、あなたの動画のトーンか雰囲気が劇的に変化していることは明らかです。以前の動画では、フットサルをしたり、家の掃除をしたり、息子さんのためにダイソーのブロックペンギンやレッサーパンダを作ったり、ほろよいを飲んだり、大好きな唐揚げのお店に行ったりと、とても幸せそうで、好きなことをたくさんしているように見えました。
しかし、この5ヶ月の間に、あなたの動画の雰囲気は劇的に変化した。視聴者は、あなたの結婚生活がどうしてこんなに早く悪くなったのか、ただただ心配し、気になっているのだと思います。
私たちはみんなサムライダディさんを応援しているし、あなたとご家族の成功を願っています。私も石川県から応援しています！幸運を祈ります！頑張ってください！諦めないでよ！🤗
A few things I do see common is when you get home, fix your shoes and put them away properly and finish cleaning/ putting away the toys and things that didn't get cleaned up before bed. If trash is full, take it out. Any dishes or domestic things that can be done before you sleep to make her morning easier would be much appreciated. 🧸
Obviously the wife and him probably don’t have anymore feelings but treat him like an atm machine. How can a full time wife not even cook breakfast and dinner for the husband
初めてコメントを残します。
一週間前、初めて接したSamurai Daddyさんの映像を見ましたが、心が重く、心からSamurai Daddyさんのことが心配になりました。
どうか、良いこといっぱいであることを心から願っています。 天気がとても寒いです。 元気でいてください！
It’s easy for people to criticise, they are not living your life. In another video you said your wife draws out money from your account so I’m sure your wife and son don’t go without. Only you can live your life. I love your videos and look forward to them. Take care of yourself .
This comment 👆
Thank You for saying this! You hit the nail on the head! People need to mind their own business, they are not living this man's life!
You said exactly what I was going to say. It’s so easy to cast the stones without knowing the whole picture. The way I see it is that he tries to live so frugally so his wife and son can have more. I would love to live in a country where people don’t think my kids and I are off because I’ll make them a bowl of udon for breakfast. 😂😂😂🍲🍜
She shouldn't be taking any money out of his account she does sod all for him she earns her own money so she can use that
@ My hubbies ex was like that and my ex would yell at me and threaten divorce if I spent money on one of our kids and to get back at me would spend everything he could buying drinks for his buddies. Sometimes it’s good to leave toxic relationships and let the children see what a good relationship should look like.
It takes great courage to share one's private life with total strangers, I would assume this channel is probably an outlet for you to share feelings that you are not able to do so with those around you. Please stay strong and hope things will turn out great for you and family. ❤
Could you please explain the reasons why you don't have dinner at home?
Probably because he don't want to be there because his wife and son aren't there
Paying for Breakfast, Lunch, Dinner and nightly snack must be very expensive on a daily basis.
Not in Japan, I lived there for a year and found buying all the need ingredients to cook was more expensive than buying ready made food.
Yes shes stealing off of you change your account your intitled to your money you earned it not your wife no wonder she doesn't want to be seen on your channel
부부사이는 어느지점부터 잘못된건지는 알기힘들지만
아내분도 늦게오는 남편분을 기다렸다가 말을거는 시도를 하지 않네요.
너무 혼자 자책하지 마세요 .
행복의 모습은 정해진게 아니더라구요.
다른 형태의 행복이 또 있을수 있어요 .
Hi Samurai Daddy! I have already watched your channel for several months at this moment. It is great to see real Japanese life from inside. Right now me and my wife are on vacation in Tokyo and we are very happy to visit many places to eat which you described in your videos. Maybe this information will make your mood a little bit better!
Ciao! Sono una moglie e madre italiana. Vorrei dirti che non devi abbatterti così tanto, non sei di certo il peggior marito al mondo. Secondo me ti senti molto solo...hai un lavoro impegnativo e stressante e quando torni a casa devi dormire da solo e mi sembri un po' triste. Io sinceramente non potrei dormire in un' altra stanza lontana da mio marito. Purtroppo quando ci si allontana e non c'è la convivialità giornaliera, si alzano dei muri fra marito e moglie e diventa sempre più difficile essere riprendere la confidenza. Io spero che vi prendiate un giorno a settimana solo per la coppia, per ristabilire l' intimità tra di voi , vedrai che i sentimenti riaffioreranno. Ci vuole un po' di pazienza, specialmente quando ci sono i bambini piccoli, ma sono sicura che potete riuscire a salvare il vostro matrimonio. Un abbraccio dall' Italia, in Toscana.❤
La cultura giapponese è nettamente diversa da quella italiana. Sarebbe bello avere l'opinione di sua moglie, capire perché non dormono insieme. Lui fa la vittima come la maggior parte dei maschi.
Σωστά τα σχόλιά σου, αγαπητή @debby2389 Ιταλίδα,από την πολύ ωραία Τοσκάνη!! Τα ίδια του έγραψα και εγώ!! (Γιάννης από Αθήνα/Ελλάδα)
Hi sir,
I am a big fan of you. Your videos are very amazing and relaxing please try to make more videos sir.
Sir please don't label yourself as a worst husband. You are working very hard to take care of your family and fulfilling your responsibilities as a husband and as a father.
You are truly an respectable,lovable and valuable person.
Take care of yourself,your physical health and mental health.
Please try to overcome from all your heartbreaks,sufferings and be happy,healthy, peaceful and always keep smiling 🎉😃.
I've been married before, I know what it's like lol, relax, you're not a bad husband, I think you're a really good person, and you even help with the housework... 👏👏
Your videos are amazing and so relaxing ❤
Please don't think you're worst 🤧, you're the bravest and strongest person I've seen! You've been able to face all the struggles and that's amazing 💗, you can do it ✨
All people face hardships some day or the other, so, please don't be think much about it and think about the positive side 😊
Please don't ever think that you're worst because you're awesome the way you are and I believe things will work out and hope things will get better 🤍🫂
I always love watching your videos, they are so relaxing and calming 😍
LOL! He's playing all of ya. Manipulated the masses.
That’s sooo true ☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼
it's all clickbait. just want comments. He doesn't even answer when in the videos without those titles, he did. when he realized that people asked him why he doesn't have dinner at home ... boom, clickbait and silence. This way he gets more comments, from the people who encourage him and from those who no longer believe him
Don't let the comments get you down. People have the right to their opinions. Their opinions doesn't mean you're a bad person. Keep your head up, I enjoy your videos!
Yes its called freedom of speech and the negative comments are because people care about you
my brother, you're not the problem! and you're not the worst. I see you work hard for your family, if things don't go well with your wife, then try to start something new
please try to be happy, you're not the problem
you seem a good man! =D
Вітаю Samurai Daddy! Дякую за чергове цікаве відео!
Мабуть, дарма Ви звинувачуєте себе і кажете, що Ви - найгірший чоловік! Можливо Ви і зробили якісь помилки у своєму подружньому житті, але ще не пізно щось виправити. До того ж Ви матеріально забеспечуєте свою родину, потреби Вашої дружини та Вашого сина задовільняються завдяки Вашій важкій праці. Тільки з однієї цієї причини Ви вже не можете назвати себе найгіршим чоловіком!
Як завжди щиро бажаю Вам та Вашій родині усього найкращого!
This will sound so dumb but watching your videos reminds me so much of my time spent studying in Japan. Thank you for the warm nostalgic feelings.
I think this guy just plays a role that he thinks it sells
I have the same feeling too
The whole thing is a click bait scam.
Відверто кажучи я бачу перед собою не зрілого чоловіка який постійно ниє як йому важко живеться
на даний момент 3 роки йде війна в моїй країні ми не спимо ночами ми не можемо працювати вдень ми чуємо прильоти наш будинок хитається за 2 місяці до війни у мене вмер чоловік та свекруха але розумієте я тримаюсь за свою сім’ю я люблю своїх дітей я стараюся зробити все для нас щоб ми жили хоть приблизно нормально під час війни
а я бачу як у великому розкішному місті у мирному японському місті Живе чоловік який не зміг знайти контакту зі своєю дружиною який не уділяє часу своїй дитині який плачеться на своє життя і навіть не старається з дружиною поговорити аби вияснити відносини чи розвестися тому вибачте ви нас на жалість не схиляйте до вас ви постарайтесь зрозуміти про що ми вам пишемо у нас у кожного свої проблеми і свої гористі да я розумію щоб зрозуміти вас треба пройти життя у ваших чоботях але ви так стогнете неначе ви маленька дитина а не дорослий чоловік батько та чоловік вибачте якщо образила але це правда Саме так ви виглядаєте збоку
You are so right
@@EffyKaiдякую це ж усім тверезомислячим людям зрозуміло.. а він все себе жаліє
@Анна-МарияПикколо exactly. Like I commented, he works, but his wife works, she is raising a child alone and is taking care of the house alone. But he is the one complaining and now fishing for sympathy. Imagine being his wife and finding this channel. Also I'm sorry for what you are going through, I can't even imagine
@@EffyKai дякую вам люба- російці з їх нелігітимним страшний нелюд- та я тримаюсь!
Дякую за підтримку та апівчуття!
А стосовно автора цього каналу я повинна сказати що аби я була його дружиною і дійсно віднайшла оці всі страждання і безконечні туги то я скажу вам відверто в наступний раз він прийшов додому двері булиб замкнуті а всі його речі стоялиб за порогом без розмов подолав на розлучення і таке інше адже якщо вона з ним посварилася і не хочу навіть йому годувати це показник того що вона чекає від нього чоловічих вчинків що він підійде що він помириться а він за течією пливе і нічого робити не хоче бідна дружина відверто кажучи оце отаке ми народжуємо дітей😢
I am a new viewer and I love your videos. Watching your daily routine helps me get through my daily routine. Please keep making videos.❤ You seem like a fine person, not a bad husband.
You're not a bad husband, you provide for your family and even clean up at yourself with your snacks.
Many people don't realize that the life of a Salary Man office worker is exactly like yours. Their showing of love to the family is to work long hours for many years. They come home to a quiet house. I hope that you have time together on the weekends. This is similar in America for executives in big companies.. Late hours.. long days.. maybe a golf game on saturday.. church on sunday. The father will do things like make repairs to the home or care for the car.. the mother raises the children and takes care of other things. It is a Partnership and it works.. but for other people they choose to run a small business like a Grocery store.. the hours can even be longer than office work.. there are no days off.. but you can work with your spouse and your children can be at the business.... I think people that complain about your hours live in families that do not have the same commitment or responsibilities. Maybe some day you will choose a different path but the one you have is not so bad... Then again I am not sure I believe you have a wife and child.. I think you just bought some shoes and left them at the door and pretend you are married.... that is fine too.. I wish you the best.
What I see is a man who complains about being lonely, but with a wife and son at home , he always eats alone, buys snacks only for himself never for his wife or son. So in reality his doing this to himself.
It's all clickbaits..at the end...you didnt explain at all
Pretty sure it’s a put-on. First few videos are showing Japanese lifestyle. Now it’s boo hoo poor me videos. This guy is a scammer.
Yeppers it is all fake. He won't show face because none of this is true and his job would fire him.
In a relationship, it takes 2 to bridge. When no one attempts to cross the line, separation becomes painful and lonely. The common ground is your son. He is your string across both ends of the bridge. Both sides needs to meet and compromise, otherwise the string cannot carry the weights of the heavy ends.
Good day. Go with the flow, Gambadeh Samurai Daddy San 💪🏻
Please don't think you're a worse husband...never because you are not. You are trying to live a normal and simple life like others. You provided for your family, your income goes straight to your wife and she only give you an allowance. You work very hard and trying your best. If your wife wake up at 5am every morning, she should have at least 5-10 minutes to make you a simple breakfast. Same thing with making you a simple dinner. But it's obviously that it's not the arrangement in your household which is understandable. Let people throw you some negative comments and don't let those bad comments affect your daily life. Some people are not happy with their lives and they just want to take it on you. There's still a lot of people here who believe that you are doing your best to survive. Be happy and enjoy life, as the saying goes, 'there's a light at the end of the tunnel. And you deserve to be happy...with best wishes
Hello Samurai Daddy, Watched your videos for the first time, very interesting. You are a good, very keen hard working man. I wish all men here in Germany would be as athletic, well groomed as you are.
Iam divorced too, you will cope with it and start a new life, as I did.
Do not hear critics, you are providing for your familiy with a lot of sacrifice. I admire that from you.
Thank you very much for giving me the chance to see your life in your beautiful country Japan (I still have Japan in my bucket list of places I want to visit). Sending you regards from Munich, Germany.
The only thing i wonder about why do you hang out all nigth in restaurarants and shops why dont you go straigth home and eat with your family??????And when you arriwe home its in the middle of the nigth and your family sleeps!!!!
Coz he is not actually with someone and he is lonely living alone..it’s all a make believe vlog so he can gain subscribers
Hola Samurai Daddy. Esta es la primera vez que comento en tus videos realmente no se si puedas entender al 100% lo que quiero decir por espero que mis palabras ayuden un poco . Tus videos son realmente buenos me encantan ver lo que muestras y estoy agradecida de formar una pequeña parte de tu vida diaria del tiempo que dedicas a tus videos apesar de tus problemas personales .No escondes los error que tu y tu esposa cometen en su matrimoño y muestras la realidad de las familias japonesas que no todos se animan a mostrar solo espero que no dejes que "criticas" mal intencionadas bajen tu animo o pueda influir en algo en tu vida diaria . Espero que puedas puedas seguir con tus videos y no te dejes influir por comentarios asi . Nadie que no sea tu esposa puede decir que eres un mal esposo . No solo por lo que muestras youtube eres un mal esposo. Espero que me puedas entender un poco y que no hagas caso a esos comentario ...
Y cuidate mucho no te resfries y come mucha comida caliente
Te apoyo ❤Te mando un saludo desde Argentina 🇦🇷 una fan que le encantan tus videos ❤😊
كلام جميل
In my Opinion you are a really good man, you work hard to take care of your family. Beside that japanise women are difficult to satisfied, they have a high expectations and not always supportive.. the most important think is your happiness and let the world flock itself. Respect
You have to be enthusiastic in living your days, I always wait for your next video.
I enjoy your videos. Never mind the negative comments. There will always be negative comments. You work and provide for your family. Good for you.
You're videos are not offensive at all, they show your perspective of things. Your wife could do the same, nothing's in her way... but everytime I watch your videos I can't help but wonder if you like your job or if you are satisfied with your life. Maybe if you and your wife had at least a day a month just to be together to enjoy each other, maybe you guys could start working things out. It's a general thinking, anyway, people criticise a lot every single human being in this world... but in the end, we're all only worried about our own lives. So... don't worry.
I love your videos and enjoy watching them whenever you upload them. No one is perfect, but at least you are striving to be better. Live your life...!!!
Dont be discouraged by the comments! They dont know and understand what goes on off-camera. I can see that you are going through something, and just remember that it will pass. Life isn't Life without it's turmoils and constant human mistakes! I believe in you! 頑張って!!!
Yeah he goes through it every few years and when views dip he starts another channel following the same script. This is all Fake, he has no interest in fixing his life, because nothing needs fixing.
いつものように動画をありがとうございます。毎日お疲れ様です。Samurai Daddyさんはそう思っていないかもしれませんが、できる限りのことをしたと思います。状況を正確には知りませんが、大変でしょうね。状況が良くなることを願っています。
Consider this your wake up call. Stop making you tube videos and focus on your family.
Stop attention seeking when you refuse to go straight home from work. Spend some time with your family in the evenings instead of eating out, then stopping to have a snack and then stopping again to get extra snacks. Have dinner and snacks with your family. This is getting ridiculous it is just an act to get views to get monetized on RUclips. Scripted drama 🙄
I don't believe it is scripted. I do fear he is that terrible of a person. What is sad is the kid growing up without a father
Sending you a tight embrace 🤗, keep strong, God bless you. 💐✨
Força, siga em frente! Você é um bom marido! Tente agradar a sua esposa, compre flores para ela!
i dont know if it is an act for clickbait or what but other people like seeing other people misery, i understand what kind of crowd hes targeting.. but i bet he and his family are laugh watching this video and having wholesome moment together hahaha
Ever seen ‘askjapan’s channel (before he changed it)? He did this method and gain huge following.
@IamaNewCreature yeah i thought the ask japan was the other channel lol i never thought it was the same guy
@ lol no, not the same guy as this guy. Just saying AskJapan 'revamped' his channel. I think he may did it for the sake of not losing his job or his wife, since he said his wife didnt like him complaining about his own family. Now this guy is mimicking him and many others are doing the same.
От я подивилась багато ваших відео і що я з них зрозуміла як розібратися:
працюєте ви але й працює дружина - тобто обоє!
далі за дитиною дивиться дружина - ви не дивитись
вашою білизною опікується дружина -ви не опікуєтесь
прибиранням квартири опікується дружина - ви не опікуєтесь
пере вам речі дружина - ви не перете
готує їсти дружина дитині та собі- ви тільки купуєте собі та потайки цсте й знищуєте залишки аби влни не бачили що саме ви їли
купує продукти для дитини та займається з ним дружина - ви ні
ви працюєте на роботі , втікаєте з дому пораньше й приходите по пізніше - аби не зустрічатись з ними а потім робите все що вам заманеться тільки ніяким чином це не торкається спілкування з дружиною та дитиною- все пізнається в порівняннях- й вони не на вашу користь…
А якщо ви ще й вважаєте нормальним ніяк не зростати не шукати як почати жити краще чи підробітки
не займатись своїм розвитком- тут зрозуміли будь кому що дружина ваша надто потерпає від такої безнадійності(
His wife also works
@@EffyKaiтак я саме про цей кажу вона також працює та щей все на собі тягне- а цей лише ниє як підліток…
Japanese men are known to be immature and selfish
why are you exposing your family life to the people ?
Because he wants to earn RUclips incone
What do you do at weekends and annual holidays? Walk the streets to keep away from your wife?
I was thinking you may stay in the city for dinner so the train station would be quieter for a more enjoyable ride home. Nope lol, I'm hoping you and your little family do well with the routine you have anyway. I used to stay up until my husband came home from the afternoon shift. Nice to at least sit with each other for a little while before bedtime.
You don't have breakfast or dinner with your family. It's no wonder, that your marriage suffers.
Seguro sos un buen marido. Tus videos son ingeniosos. Las filmaciones son una novela y tu esposa esta contenta de que ganes dinero con youtube. Incluso te apoya. A mi me encantan tus videos. Desde Argentina.
I think you that you should go home after work immediately, otherwise you won't be communicate at all. Yes maybe your wife is also wrong but you're not going home is completely block everything.
I'm wondering why you got married? You appear to live a life of a single man, sleeping alone, eating alone, is this by choice? If so, then I don't understand the complaints about your wife, since you have a clean home and laundry to come home to. Do you wish to be single?
I still don't understand why you don't go home after work to eat with your family.
Unless your marriage is completely unsalvageable, or you are having mental issues you should be home asap, I feel you not being home is secondary to any other minute detail, women are typically patient but hate being alone.
That's my two cents, I won't comment again.
Would you go home if you lived like that its hell on earth poor man wife isn't making any moves to make things better
I’m sure you are doing the best you can so please ignore the criticism and negative
comments
I enjoy watching your vlogs, it’s realistic and calming 🌷🌷
May I ask how old are you?
The only thing that changes in your vids are the self pity fest titles ,same routine of waking ,going breakfast,work,meals ,convenient store ,snacks,snacks,going home late at night ,more snacks ,watching tv ,going to sleep,thinking of new pity clickbait titles,snacks.
You know, when you're not happy with your life and daily routine becomes boring with you, then it's time to do something about it yourself. Yourself... as nobody else can do this for you! If you're not happy in your job...find something else. Break with your daily routine and do something nice for your family..just little things at first and notice their reactions. Try to make a change to- and for them and yourself, and find an opening to have a good conversation with your partner. Who knows maybe she finds herself in the same situation and you'll be able to open up both to burst out of those created "safe personal spaces" and have a decent talk about hope, wishes, ideas for the future of your family. We're all people and make our mistakes in life and when it's okay we learn from them as we're never too old to learn and change. Don't stay in this self-pity depressing mode which might feel easiest and comforting for you to do now...but is not going to solve anything for you on the long run! I hope to see more happy- moments- vids in the future and wish you and your family all the wisdom and happy life.
I visited Shimbashi, the location of this clip,last year as a tourist and had stayed there for about two weeks as a retirement treat.
As a tourist , I enjoyed the area as it is the 都心 of Japan with many good restaurants and within walking distance to many interesting locations. However, one striking observation to me were the well dressed blank faces of the salarymen there and some of them should be my age above 60 plus. As a just retired, I was pleased that I was no more one of them but I respected all those hard working souls behind those blank faces. Make up vblog or not, my dear friend, you honestly recorded the live of a hard working man of our generation before this was replaced by all AI stuffs and don’t know whether it is better or worse. Wishing you all the best both of your work and family.
Moments gone in the blink of an eye there comes a situation when we need to lower our pride and be mindful thats one of our duty as a man, Communicate with your family they need you and you need them, Stop building walls.
I married my husband very young. We were married for 25 yrs then he died far from his retirement age. He worked very hard, got up at 4a.m, at work by 5a.m, 6 days a week, came straight home by 5p.m - always. No matter what. He didn't go out to eat all meals by himself. He ate his meals with me. He made sure I knew he loved me first. He never whined or complained. Maybe, just maybe if you made more of an effort to go home and spend time with your wife and child things would improve. Stop whining and self-pitying yourself and make an effort to improve the situation. Your titles are pathetic and weak. Frankly you should feel embarrassed. Your son is basically fatherless.
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You’re not the worst Japanese or any other kind of husband! I’ve had my fair share of bad husbands and you are a saint! You work hard for your family, I could never do what you do everyday, that commute alone would drive me crazy! 😊
hey bro, you ain't no samurai. you might be having a laugh at the international audience but it's an insult to our culture and essence that you confound samurai with hollow and insincere self pity. just click bait. shame on you.
I had the exact same thought! A samurai should be a fearless warrior, not someone who keeps knocking himself down, repeatedly calling himself a lousy husband (many times!) and then off to a gourmet breakfast like it’s all perfectly normal. It’s hilariously contradictory!
Oh dear another sad video, while making money from it. Scam alert
Скажіть дорогий це гидко виглядає все а він ще всіх і хоче схилити до жалості до нього щоб ми його пожаліли бідненька ого а це що його жаліти що він уникає відповідальності і все що на що здатний це ходити на роботу мені цікаво він що цілими днями відсутній вдома чи це просто click Бейт?
Fake scam videos.
we are the ATM so we should be kind to ourselves too . 😊
Of course our family do come 1st most of the time. 😊
The culture is so different over there. I watch ALOT of Japan videos & learned Japanese men especially have a hard time expressing their feelings. The culture itself is very *keep it to yourself*. You could be suffering depression which is nothing to be ashamed of. Being stuck in a rut can be very difficult to get out of. Your videos are very informative & interesting.
Do you mean suck it up buttercup
Wracając z pracy proszę wstąpić do kwiaciarni. Czy zastanawiał się Pan nad tym,jak poczułaby się żona gdyby rano w kuchni zobaczyła bukiecik kwiatów i kilka ciepłych słów od Pana na ładnej kartce? 🎉
您好，武士爸爸，我來自台灣，一個月多月前我開始看到您的影片，最近發現您的婚姻發生了一些問題，同樣身為一個上班族，我與您不同的是我是一個下班趕回家煮晚餐的爸爸，我享受家人們吃我煮的飯的感覺，我比您早下班，下午四點半下班，五點半到家，大約晚上六點半就會把晚餐準備好，全家人一起享受一段時光是家庭很重要的部份，希望你能和家人多多互動，太過孤單會生病的，祝福您能和家人們好好相處....平安喜樂。
Marriage is a "balanced" partnership between two people. You have to work together to make it work.
things will also improve once the weather gets better....spring/summer
Don't take the criticisms to heart. You are not the worst husband in the world. You need to take a step back and be kinder to yourself. Please keep doing your videos if it helps you feel better. We don't know what life is like when you do go home for dinner, but I hope you will try and play with your son and talk with your wife.
Seems like you really drag your feet getting home after work. Is that so you don't have to interact with your wife and child?
In the end it's you who will suffer. Those magical years of childhood go by so quickly and if you miss them that's your fault.
what time do you usually arrive home? and what is your line of work?
You could make an attempt to change things if you wanted to. I don't think you're a bad husband or father but you are a very absent one and this will ultimately affect everyone around you. You and your wife should have counselling or something at least, if you want things to change only you can start that change.
You have left your wife already, you just don't know it yet. But your actions betray your state of mind - Depressed, resentful and fearful of the future. This inaction is torturous for the both of you.
For me, the worst thing is the slurping..... 😢
Slurping for example noodles is considered polite and is a sign of appreciation in Japan. Cultural differences.
@ thank you for the explanation.....I didn't know that.....glad it's not considered polite here in the USA as it's not attractive in my opinion
@@Kaeteymae it is not polite or pleasant in Europe either, but having lived for +10 years in Japan I got used to it :-)) Note, not all Japanese slurp.
@@mikaellarsson7932 😊 Thank you for your response. I'm glad to hear that not all Japanese slurp! I would not be able to dine with someone who was always slurping.
This reminds me of those silent movies of yester years. I remember also seeing several of such silent Japanese vids before, one was a channel by a guy who obsesses over his expensive shoes and each episode was him polishing a different pair of shoes. The kind that is interesting to watch when you have nothing to do. 😅
You are a good man. Believe it. Know it! 🙏🏻👊🏻🌸
Don't be too hard on yourself. We all encounter hardships in life. Life isn't about how many times we fail, it's about how many time we rise up, every time we fall. Never look back on what you have done wrong, that already happened. We learn from our failures but it should never be a reason to make us stay there forever. I always remember what my uncle used to say, their are people in far worse situations than you, look at people in Africa who have been struggling all their life and are often experiencing famine, starvation, and encounter threats from extremist, how about those in the MIddle East that have never known peace and have been constantly reminded of the sufferings their ancestors experienced and are taught hatred and vengeance. Always be grateful for what you have because other people are in a much worst environment than you.
I try not to judge the way people live their lives. We see soo little of your life, so it's impossible to know what really happens at your home. You do you and keep posting your videos!
You are not worst. Try to change something. Life is only one. Don't lose your family. You are can be happy together.
I miss you coming home to Pokémon cards and your kid, rice balls frozen ready… this isn’t you and we see it. I cheer for you
I'm a bit confused. You have told us what you don't do and shown us what you do in fact do. ???? What are you saying? You refuse to do housework and help to bring up your son? In previous videos, I genuinely wanted to help, but this video is just self-centered bullshit.
Looks like he does everything
For the heck of it, I checked the internet asking, "Do Japanese men make good husbands"? RUclips has videos warning Western women not to marry Asian men, but I see some who have married Japanese, Chinese, and Korean men, and seem happy. One article said its habitual to work late and not go home until 10pm. And that's after getting done at 6 or 7pm. One man had an 8 year marriage doing that, He decided he wanted more. He remarried a woman and became what he called aisaika (adoring husband) to make his second wife happy. He came home early, and did what he could to show her he loved her. They are both very happy after 15 years, and now work to help other couples stay together. I find it interesting when so any people anywhere in the wold say I cant find anyone to marry. Maybe they don't really want anyone. Maybe insudem they really enjoy being alone. Anyway, Samurai Daddy makes me curious as to life in foreign countries. Relationships, work, leisure time, food, housing. Is it better than here in America or not? I will not say Samurai Daddy is a fraud. He may be pulling topics from his everyday life for us to see. I hope he finds happiness no matter what happens. We all want that, right?
No eres el peor marido, todos nos equivocamos pero hay en cosas que podrías mejorar, desayunar con tu mujer, llevarle un dulce de la tienda de conveniencia a tu hijo, llegar más pronto para disfrutar de tu esposa y comunicarte con ella y jugar con tu hijo o interesarte por como le va en su escuela, y contarles como fue tú día 😊
Merci pour ta vidéo !!! Courage à toi😊 ne te rabaisse pas!!! Écoute pas les haters!!!!
Ce n’est pas une question d’être un hater, mais de ne pas accepter aveuglément tout ce qu’on voit dans une vidéo.
Il y a déjà eu des cas d’escroqueries. Nous avons le droit de nous interroger et d’avoir des opinions différentes.
Gracias por los subtitulos en español, antes de que te arrepientas divorciandote deberías hablar con tu esposa y resolver los problemas que tengan, un abrazo
Ya bro you are the worse .who goes saying I feel lonely I my family,my wife thinks of me as an ATM. It's like why don't just divorce ,leave the job and make a vedio I am a lonely divorced guy
重點你還是沒解釋你為什麼是差勁的丈夫！
He's not
Maybe he secretly cheats on her.
I wouldn't blame him if he was@@saltshakerrefill6087
We’ll hang out when I’m in Tokyo! I think it will be fun and I need a guide!😊
Regarding some negative comments: As the famous Russian writer and diplomat Griboedov (1795-1829) wrote in "Woe from Wit": 'And who are the judges?' People who are also far from perfect themselves.. I truly appreciate your content - both your videos and the kind, thoughtful way you engage with your audience. Stay strong, and keep going your own way 🌌
I am trying to imagine the shogun making a video - or maybe writing a book (no videos at his time) - like this. It is very difficult. Then again, maybe the shogun was an excellent Japanese husband...
You're not the worst. We do want you to have happiness. Maybe surprise your family and take a day off to just have a fun day with them.. A mini vacation day in the middle of the week
I have to stop watching these videos...they are so depressing...