Steven Crowder Fight With Pregnant Ex-Wife LEAKS... Exposed As A POS?
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Four things:
1. The whole Steven Crowder vs Daily Wire thing did a number on Steven's credibility. His initial claim/reasoning as to why he was doing this as opposed to how it seem later on into the conflict made Crowder come off as disingenuous. Because of this, because of Crowder's "I chose wrong" and this uploaded video, people are using this clip to solidify their confirmation bias on Crowder being disingenuous and shady. And maybe that's fair.
2. This clip is clearly the middle of a conversation, not the beginning. Naturally, I question why Hilary's family would release part of the conversation and not the entire thing. Context does matter. Additionally, I've seen articles where apparently Hilary's family claim Steven intentionally chose not to be with Hilary when she gave birth to their children. But from what I remember, media outlets reported Steven missed their birth due to him getting elective surgery at the time. Which is true? Not trying to dismiss Hilary entirely, but if you guys are going to bring this out to public light, we need transparency. Not slanted narratives and clips.
3. A lot of people are saying she set Steven up with the Ring camera, talking about she knew it was there. No shit. That's their house. Steven knows it's there too. Besides, if a spouse is allegedly abused and divorce their abusive spouse, typically what they do is try to gather evidence showing that they were being abused. This is a nothing burger statement "She got em".
4. Regardless of the fact that this clip does not show full context of the conversation, in my opinion, Steven Crowder is eating a whole ass L for his behavior. He's way out of pocket. First starters, who the fuck actually speaks like that in real life? Men this, man that, wife this wifely things that. A sociopolitical discussion is one thing, but speaking like that in real life is weird. Especially when we're talking about people married for a decade.
You want your 8 month pregnant wife to walk the dogs? You're a multimillionaire. Hire a temporary dog walker.
Even if your marriage is on the rocks, is telling your 8 month pregnant wife you don't love her really the best idea given that she's 8 months pregnant and shouldn't be stressed out in any way?
Watch it. Fucking watch it. Bruh. Who the fuck talks like that to their spouse. That shit is weird.
Steven released a clip on Twitter saying he will be releasing sealed legal documents next week so we have to see where this goes. Not taking Hilary's side per say, but Steven acted like a fucking lame in that clip. If nothing else, he's a chump for that.
Yeah he came off as completely unreasonable in this clip HARD. However, I will say, he was 100% correct aobut the Daily Wire, and what happened to Matt Walsh literally proved Crowder's point about WHY he was warning others away from them.
This this this this
Based
Also, if it truly was an elective surgery, that means he CHOSE to have dangerous invasive surgery for cosmetic reasons. Or at the very least, he could've scheduled it later. That means his surgery put him in a position to miss the birth of his children. That's on HIM.
common pin of shame L
Is it just me, or is letting your pregnant wife go to the grocery store alone while you’re on the outside patio smoking a cigar fucking insane?
it's not just you.
What insane about that? just normal dude
Trying to stop her can be seen as controlling and abusive nothing you can do than just let her go.
It's just you. There's nothing wrong with a pregnant woman going to the store alone while her (probably tired) husband relaxes at home. What's "insane" is the rest of his behavior.
Edit: It seems half the population is too stupid to tell the difference between someone talking in general and talking about someone specifically. I'll make it clear for those morons here: I'm not talking about Crowder specifically as neither was the OP. I was talking about his behavior which could apply to anyone else.
The most sane behavior I've ever seen
'You want to use the car to get groceries, then I CAN'T HANG OUT WITH MY FRIENDS'
isn't that what all full grown men say to their pregnant wives?
He demands she performs chores and errands that are risky to her health, but whines like a toddler when it might impede on his leisure. Like gtfo of here
All about himself.
He said he can't call his friends like somehow taking the car means his phone won't work
Crowder doesn't even have friends he has sycophants. Guaranteed he is that guy.
@@D_McGeezacks Putting dishes in the dishwasher isn't risky.
NEVER idolize a person you dont know, you can support their message and adopt it for yourself, but never idolize someone you dont know. Just cause theyre on our screens, doesnt mean we know who they really are.
He makes some good points but I dont think hes a family man anymore...
My policy online people don't exist. They're Bots, so don't believe or look up to them lol I don't know these people how do I prove they are not bots.
or just dont idolize anyone.
He already was an uppity piece of work prior having his video surveillance footage leaked-- Aba & Preach made it a point to remind us about it, a couple times over.
You already have some low standards, if you put such type of person over a pedestal, to begin with.
It's not about him or her. It's about casting judgement and believing what you see is the whole story, and then believing you would never be tempted to go off the deep end. Pride is dangerous.
You know what actually happened here... he wanted her to put medication on the dogs that was dangerous to pregnant women and to walk the dogs. When she said she was concerned about doing that for the health of the babies (she's 8 months pregnant with twins)... he said to use gloves. When she still refused, he punished her by not allowing her to use the car until she became a "worthy wife" but submitting to his "authority" and use gloves, then walk the dogs.... 8 month pregnant with twins
Religion is a disease. My dad was quite a bit worse than this guy but they both say very similar phrases. They cherry pick all the parts of the bible that benefit them but ignore the parts that benefit other people.
Huge red flag for me was when she said Ill have someone come pick me up and she then says... who would you like me to ask? Asking him who SHE can call as to not piss him off with WHO she calls and then the best part of that...he is taking it as a threat.
Good for her getting out!!!
That stuck out to me too. Who would you like me to call? That’s how controlling she’s used to him being.
Give someone 10 years of marriage and they'll show you who they really are. And sometimes it's really really ugly.
That's a good point! I didn't even catch that
He treats his wife like an employee and himself like a manager. He thinks he's still in the studio even at home. Cruel and sad to see
You only see 2 mins into their life, not enough time to raise an accurate conclusion on their home life
@@TheAlexSmith17 In this case it was just like that.
If you have a pregnant wife and act in that way, you are shit human being.
She tells him several times she loves him and doesn't engage and he has the gall to say he doesn't love her unless she "picks up the gloves" and does errands, while at the same time carrying and developing his LITERAL CHILD.
@@jurgenkuka7962 what I previously said I'll say again, can't raise an accurate perspective on their everyday home life out of a 2 min clip on a cam that she knew was rolling
@user-et2ng1qb2m for all we know she could've been acting in such way because of the camera and he might not of been thinking camera and oh maybe I should act different here. Don't know
@@TheAlexSmith17 ill give you a freebie.
When people say things like "that's shitty"
"He's shit" "its a shitty thing to do"
They're using infantile language, which is common among the progressives that view politics as a religion and lgbtq (emphasis on. The T) community.
I believe it's use to avoid "problematic" insults.
The person is not trying to be rational.
The fact that the pregnant wife was trying reassure him verbally and he could even do the same…instead he did the opposite and continued to fuel the argument.
He is obligated to say he loves her but she can file for divorce... Stop and think a little...
@@troypasulka1368 Are you slow? Read the comment again and watch the video NPC.
Nothing you say to narcs or abusive men matter man, they just want control/power over you, their idea of having a relationship is controlling people. Their idea of loving women is possessing & taking advantage of them.
@@prizethought he literally said everything was fine when she simply agreeed, temporarily, to walk the dog… then she divorced him… he was not in control, and just wanted basic cooperation, it appeared
@@troypasulka1368 don’t get married
The way he said “I don’t love you” and she grabbed her stomach just breaks my heart
Does he not realize that causing your wife stress can cause miscarriage? Or brain damage to babies. Did you know that maternal stress can cause autism or other developmental problems?
Yeah 😔 she covers herself at those words
And he doesn’t even flinch when she does that😢
Marraige ending leads to 2 people saying bad things to each other shocker...
@@leeofdoom4452 oh look, an incel has arrived. Two people you say? When did she say anything bad to him? What exactly are you defending him for?
“I am committed to you.I love you.”
“I don’t love you,that’s the problem.”
That shit hurt me too when he said it lol
Before you go into your weak feelings ask yourself why he said that. She is just talking aimless words. She does not love him as she does not show any actions to prove it. So out of hurt aka him actually loving her and doing everything for her aka providing her a nice life etc and not getting it back he said that. If she loved him, she would follow discipline and show him respect. She does not. If she loved him and was committed, she would not walk out. NOTICE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SAYING SOMETHING V ACTIONS TO PROVE IT? Females are the greates liars, deceitful narcissists. Do not follow what they say, WATCH AND TREATE THEM BASED ON WHAT THEY DO.
Ikr, like I’m not even in the relationship and I felt that.
@@ThinkAboutElephantss luckily the world does not operate based off your delusional feelings. Try operating on facts if you know the difference
Divorce was already in the works. It's weird to act like they were supposed to be a loving couple here - they were not, they were ending their marriage before this exchange. That definitely matters.
@@johnlennon6790 She was loving, he was not. He wasn't acting like this is out of the ordinary for him or that there's something fundamentally wrong. He's talking as if this is just a normal expectation for a pregnant wife
He had the nerve to weaponize scripture about a wife being worthy... Which is what a lot of wolves in sheep’s clothing do.
Anyone who defends this is insane. If nothing else how do you justify telling your very pregnant wife with twins that you don’t love her 😭 I can’t even fathom that terrible gut wrenching feeling of hearing that while carrying his children.
maybe the wife was very verbally abusive before and the camera didnt just show that?? and that Steven just swallowed his pride and waited for this moment??🤷♂🤷♂
That is your problem? That he expressed his true feelings? This comment is indicative of the real problem...
And then in his video he says he didn't want the divorce acting like he's the victim. So a man who doesn't love his wife didn't want the divorce? Meanwhile she's telling him "I love you" looks like he drove her to leave him.
@@troypasulka1368 what exactly is the "real" problem troy? That a man can't simultaneously say he doesn't love his wife, AND won't let her leave his presence?
She should have to stay and take it while he expresses his "true" feelings?
What's the real problem? I'm dying to know Troy
@@qxtoi Not sure. Technically, there's probably more than one. But the idea that a guy cannot express deep dissatisfaction is definitely part of whatever real problems exist. He did NOT force her not to leave his presence (that is, there was no clear indication that that actually occurred.)
He sounds abusive af and she sounds scared to make him mad.
That and fed up. Like its not even worth it at that point because he’s a pos!
Petty arguments are abuse in 2023
@@leeofdoom4452 when you are telling her you don't love her and don't intend on letting her use the car, and she's saying I love you over and over that's probably abuse.
@@bozzy7946 he also references how she uses words and not actions. He literally says 'you keep saying you love me, put on the gloves, walk the dogs but no'
So nice words and no actions.
And that would be the first time in history a woman used language to get the upper hand.
@@leeofdoom4452 lolol that seems inconsequential compared to "I gotta discipline you" type of nuttiness. He got her pregnant so maybe he shouldn't be stressing her out unless there is a more heinous goal in mind for him.
I have a pregnant wife and I couldn't imagine putting her through this much mental labor. The way she cradled her belly after he said I DON'T love you, man that shit made me cry
That was beautifully written and bought a tear to my eye. You and your wife are lucky to have each other.
lol go on softy
She hasn't had to work in 15 years all she has to do is take care of the house and dogs😮 so she has to make sure she's there when the maid gets there😮 put gloves on to put flea medicine on a dog oh no that's too much to ask😅
@@charliecostella So that's excusing his dogshit behavior in the video or something? :^)
@@charliecostella she’s pregnant, you cretin.😒
"i don't love you"
To his 8-month pregnant wife of 10 years? Damn.
So he’s not allowed to tell the truth clearly, he is tired of the situation
@@tak2ulata lmao, he’s asking her if she’s committed but then he’s not committed. That’s fucked up to tell a pregnant woman, that amount of stress can literally cause issues for the his kid.
@@tak2ulata I hope someone treats you like this like you want her to get
“You’re not doing your wifely duties, we have no groceries.”
“Okay, I’ll go get the groceries.”
“No, you can’t take the car then I can’t go anywhere, why are you trying to box me in?”
That’s abuse, no matter what she does he’ll belittle and berate her.
He's being INCREDIBLY unreasonable.
I bet he never planned on leaving that couch either, talking about “boxing him in.” SMH
Definitely control and manipulation! He should be ashamed of himself so embarrassing
Seriously. He kept flip flopping his arguments to give himself the upperhand on her
That’s not abuse dummy.
If the dozens of people who've work with you / live with you & arent connected to each other all say you got a bad temper, you engage in snaky business & you're controlling... Maybe you're the problem. The common denominator in all of these accusations is crowder & there are too many to count.
If we add your wife to that list, it looks exponentially worse. But who knows, maybe crowder will drop information that will change his public perception.
Incoming incels with the “it’s none of our business” or “we don’t know the full story” comments
@NBA CryptoBoy Common cryptobaby L
@@ItsJJECC they already started lmao like at least don’t make it so obvious bias mfs
I always got bully vibes from him. He seems to be someone who's filled with anger.
Tbh, at some point, I believed he was gay and couldn't express himself.
@NBA CryptoBoy why come watch then? You obviously don’t agree and don’t like them why keep coming back?
Things my husband wouldn’t let me do while pregnant:
1. Get into a car with a stranger.
2. Walk or even pet a dog.
3. Go grocery shopping in my 8th month.
This woman was 8 months pregnant with twins! She was already exhausted just standing. Yet he wants her to show him respect by walking their big azz dog. Exactly how easy does he think it is for her to bend over and pick up anything off the ground, let alone dog sh-t? 🤬
Nah, you dont get to litearlly do nothing just becase youre pregnant, youre in fantasy land. Many women work up until their due date.
If shes okay enough to go driving and go places shes good enought to pick up grocceries.
I agree isn't a man supposed to take care of his wife? Then again you are going off an out of context situation maybe before this she said she was going to do these things walk the dog or take an uber etx and then changed her mind last min we just do not have enough info to make a informed statement and again your relationship is not their relationship.
@@mememachine5244 Many women work up until their due date? Are those women usually wealthy women?
This is such a weak and cowardly move dude. I thought real Men take CARE of their women? Provide, protect...?
Now, I don't give a shit if you touch your dog and you can go Grocery shopping(it'd be weird if you literally meant he wouldn't LET you)...but a women shouldn't be working up until their due date. That's not healthy for anyone.
@@ShxpxRok Seems pretty unlikely as he brings up over and over that she "won't even put on gloves," and that's not part of the discussion until he just starts bringing it up.
Sounds like you're REALLY stretching for excuses here...
@@avastone5539 She should not be driving at 8 months pregnant what if she goes into labor behind the wheel . Why couldn't he just go with her? It's obvious that he is doing nothing but running his mouth.
I was in a relationship very similar to this. The reason (I think) he doesn't want a friend to pick her up is because it would make him look bad. Getting an uber is basically having a stranger drive her. He can't risk having his image ruined. Because any normal person would ask her why her husband wouldn't let her drive their own car, and if she told the truth, it would threaten how he wants others to perceive him. It's all about control.
Another thing he does is tells her that she doesn't really love him. That she has to prove her love to him by doing certain tasks. Like giving the dog a medication that is potentially harmful to her babies. So instead of doing it himself to protect the babies, he wants her to potentially cause damage in order for her to prove her love. Its honestly sick. He's a pathetic excuse of a man.
"Like giving the dog a medication that is potentially harmful to her babies." - What does this mean? Did he ask her to give the medicine to the baby...??
@@troypasulka1368 are you serious? He says put on glove bc obviously the dog medicine can be absorbed through the skin?
@@troypasulka1368 why are you giving me the fourth degree for tryna answer your question dude? If you don't trust others information find out for yourself damn lol
@@olympiadreamer6992 for real LoL
I understand your perspective and points. However, a woman who is 8-months pregnant should not be driving behind a wheel that could deploy an airbag at 200 mph towards her belly.
He doesn’t believe in abortion but he’s all for his wife doing activities that will cause harm to their unborn child. The irony.
So her going out alone pregnant during covid is of less threat than walking a dog in the safety of their home which is better for a pregnant female?? Can you engage your brain.
@@Gchild2k6 they mentioned on this channel and others that the issue was the dog was taking a medication that is harmful to pregnant women.
@@AB-bc9tf dont fall that bs. If that was so why would he have the dog in the video around her? Use your brain. Stop falling for these lying females. Remember Amber Turd.
@@Gchild2k6 given how he was all for her Ubering to the grocery store by her fully pregnant self without any company, I’d say he wasn’t too worried about the pandemic either
@@dagm1498 the uber bit was a sarcastic response to her rudeness and disrespect. She was the was insisting of going out during the pandemic whilst pregnant to endanger her life and his child. Typical of females who dont think of anyone but their feelings.
1. Telling her to handle dog medicine toxic to pregnant woman.
2. Telling her to walk the dog whilst she is 8 months pregnant with twins.
3. Also she only applied for divorce AFTER he started contacting divorce attorneys.
How she's just trying to de-escalate the situation and not even fighting back yet he just wants to pick a bone, makes me think this isn't the first time this has happened. That alone was alarming. Just yikes.
@@thevoid7765 Oh did she? Show us that she was yelling at him.
And Jonny and Amber story also seemed one way at first.
It's clear that this is the middle of the conversation. Who can tell what happened before that?
She leaked the video. That means she made sure that this portion was shown, and not others.
If she really was the victim, she would have shown the whole thing.
Weird because he could of released the footage of what happened before in his response to this leak. He didn’t. What he did do is double down being the victim.
Some men are kind when you first meet them and then turn evil after you commit to them (some wait for exclusivity, some for marriage, some for kids). It’s weird how when you see this in action you deny it. Cognitive dissonance much?
Yes, he definitely has been bullying this poor lady for some time…
Do you know how hard is for a woman to restrain herself in that situation and just "play it for the camera"?
What see acts come as natural so I would put it on the top 5% when it comes to deescalation among women.
And this is why women initiate most divorces...
I recall many conversations like this with my ex fiancé. Complaining about me not doing my “duties” and what not I was just hospitalized for 2 weeks at 26 weeks pregnant and was diagnosed with multiple stress related complications. Ultimately I gave birth and survived but unfortunately my son didn’t survive. That experience was a wake up call to finally leave his abuse. Despite the pain and grief, somehow I have the most peace I’ve had in years.
That's horrible. I pray you find your peace and not blame yourself.
Men like that should never have kids, because they lack empathy and ultimately aren’t even men, but boys.
I’m so sorry
Do you think the stress from the relationship had anything to do with your miscarriage of your son? I’m not sure how it works. Sorry for your loss. ❤
OMG thats heart breaking.
She gave birth and he bought a townhouse, moved out, cut his family off financially and hired a divorce attorney. He abandoned his family. And he knew if his fans found out they’d dump him because they care about family values. So he lied to them and said he didn’t want the divorce. He even tried to act like he is so against divorce and believes so much in family values that he would force his wife to stay if he could. But the reality is he abandoned his family, lied about it, and some of his fans fell for it.
Best Response! 👋👋👋
This is what I have been trying to tell people all along.
Do I think he's an abuser? No.
But he's definitely a manipulative, narcissistic, habitual lying fraud who wanted 'out' of his marriage, but tried to paint a different story to the public.
Steven was trying to protect his 'conservative' brand.
Plain and simple.
I wish there was more information to prove he went to a divorce attorney instead of the word of his wife’s family. Context and proof would be nice to make an informed decision.
Where's the proof of this, people keep saying this information is public but I can't find it. Can you link the evidence?
@@joshfly210 that’s the lovely thing about it now being public. The attorneys gonna need to be making statements.
Is this true though? Like, I don't know. I got no clue about Crowder.
I went through horrible stress in my pregnancy. My husband’s uncle stole from us and screamed in my face every day. Awful. My son came 6 1/2 weeks early bc of the stress. My son is perfectly healthy but had to spend 11 days in nicu. Now he’s 4 1/2 in preschool and doing really well. My husband’s uncle is cut off completely from me and my child. You DONT stress out a Pregnant woman like this. Poor girl. It’s probably best they’re divorcing
I'm happy that everything is sorted out now, wish you the best of luck.
This makes me wonder. If a woman cant have an abortion because roe fell, will the extreme stress she will be in harm the baby? I am also guessing she will engage in risky behaviour and substance abuse. Welp, this is what pro lifers wanted I guess...
@@hahahaaha7208 So being abuser or a killer, or both? Still not the baby's fault. We are the who failed the innocent soul.
@@NurmaBP can’t be a killer if the baby is dead and needs to be aborted from the mothers womb.I swear you dead head pro lifers don’t get what abortions is and why it’s needed
Why is his surgery not taken into account. Whatever it may be extracting money in millions from him shows who is abuser.
"the only way ...is discipline and respect" she's not your child???? ugh my blood is BOILING.
My husband would NEVER let me go out the house without him (besides seeing my family) when I was pregnant out of concern for someone might see me as a target and try something or in case I went into labor. He would pick things up for me that I asked for but if I wasn’t going somewhere he already knew was safe, he was going with me.
The thought of me getting anything like an Uber (which is getting in a strangers car, even if you’re paying them) would’ve been OUT OF THE QUESTION. His family wouldn’t even let me do that. They’d take me places too bc they wanted to make sure I was safe.
The lack of love in this BLOWS MY MIND
So are u on crowder side or the wife as im crowder side even if I do t know the dude. The fact he cares about her safety shows people don't know the struggle pregnant women go through. I have lot of women in my life get pregnant and yha they need help just to get up from the couch. Plus what if her water broke then what specially when she's driving. It's best if she just bring crowder along as he said he'll come and help
That was what i was thinking too, pregnant with twins at 8 months still driving..HELL NO. My husband would take me anywhere i need to be.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 did we watch the same video? It doesn't look like he gives a single shit about his wife. He was only worried about himself and how he felt being left at home, meanwhile she's stressed tf out.
@@ZedoBlackshould he be worried about the wife or the unborn child?
@@Macheako The simple answer is that he should be equally worried about everyone in his family. This includes his wife, his 2 kids, and the unborn child she is carrying to full term. This clip shows the EXACT opposite of that.
Her saying "I love you" is to soothe herself, and him at the same time & de-escalate the situation. It is very sad. 😔
Yes, it's called fawning.
@@joanna0988 Thanks for the proper term
Depressing. And soon after he says he doesn't love her. He's sick. Very sick.
Totally agree. It seemed like she had to calm herself down and tell herself that she loved him. The word is affirmation. Saying the same thing over and over, and willing it into existence. Almost like she had to trick herself into staying with him.
Yeah and his response “i dont love you because you’ve never shown me love” shows why it cant be deescalated so easily because these are clearly deep seeded issues that have existed for a while.
That was an ego fight with a 8 months pregnant woman. I’m pregnant right now and I can’t even imagine how she felt, my husband would never talk to me like that.
Yha but man are always taught the issues women go through when being pregnant so I don't think he's in the wrong. As if my wife who's is pregnant has to go somewhere ill go with her even if she doesn't want me to as anything can happen when she leaves the house
Congratulations on the baby!
Yeah, but no offense man your projecting your personal feelings onto the situation especially so since you're pregnant so there is a lot of bias there.
@@ahsoka6807 and you’re not?
So ONLY the pregnant woman can be emotional???!
Bruh 😂😂 y’all wild ❤
you better not use the car, preggy😂😂😂😂
Yeah stress is really bad for pregnant women. My mom was pregnant when she was going through a divorce and her family was also not helping at all and were all up in arms saying it’s not the Christian thing to do, and it was a lot for her.
Her baby ended up dying right before birth. She’s no longer a Christian.
As a kid I didn’t really know how to understand what was going on and how to feel about it.
So sad for what happened to your mum😢😢 and so sad that the behavior of her family that are sinners like everyone else in this world, stopped her from being a christian - which means a follower of Jesus Christ, that loved us and paid the price for our sinners, in order to reconcile us to God. I looked at people from church and I was disappointed and I left church and God…. But after many years I realized that my salvation is personal and I have to look at what Jesus did for me. The church is like a hospital, full of people that need help and a change ( of heart). We are never meant to put our trust in man 100%, because they will surely disappoint us 100%. Only God can be our idol, our perfect model that will never let us down…. otherwise we are not perfect none of us, but we have a life that the spirit of God is trying to change us, to make us better and better …. till we’ll die . Be blessed!!
I attempted to walk my 2 70lb dogs while I was 6 months pregnant when my husband was at work and he sternly advised me not to do that again because he was so scared for me and our sons safety and reminded me that they're dogs and can wait for when he gets home. Ironically that month in 2018 I introduced my husband to Louder with Crowder. We are very disturbed by his actions.
In retrospect do you think this is a red flag in your own thinking? To me Steven has obviously been a dishonest POS the whole time, and while I’m on the left I don’t think that shapiro or many others are this dishonest and cruel but I always thought he was. He seemed clearly like a closeted bi or gay, narcissistic, delusional, grifting scumbag w daddy issues. Not to mention a Canadian 😅
Same. My husband specifically walked MY dog when I was pregnant. He didn't want me taking chances even though Hiro was well trained. He also cleaned up after the dog and took over grooming when I couldn't manage it anymore. He hates doing that stuff but he did it. I didn't even ask him to do it.
Yeah i said this outload to myself that's a big dog! I work with mainly women they pull their weight even when pregnant but a big dog waling it ! No if my partner insisted i would walk with her! That wa s 50KG dog at i would guess! She wouldn't weigh much more.
@@Freya1412 this woman was a Steven crowder fan since 2018 how is that not the most obvious problem here??? Even most conservative women aren’t Steven crowder fans!!
@@JWSoul this woman was a Steven crowder fan since 2018 how is that not the most obvious problem here??? Even most conservative women aren’t Steven crowder fans!!
Hearing Crowder say “Watch it. Fucking watch it.” Told me everything I needed to know
There is no possible way here in which that was not meant as a threat of physical violence. It's literally the only logical conclusion. He sure as hell wasn't threatening to ground her or take away her electronics.
I know that if my partner said that to me during an argument, I would be worried for my safety.
@@AngryReptileKeeper The only logical conclusion, eh? There are zero other logical ways to read that? It's not a good look, but don't be hyperbolic.
Tbh even if we take away the pregnancy, chasing after your wife when she asked for space is crazy
Crazy?
This is all very typical behaviour lol
What the fck are you talking about. He didn't chase her. You people are insane.
@@leeofdoom4452 your outing yourself. Be careful ☠️
@@myme8208 outing myself as someone who has seen evidence of a couple arguing, and saying this is a couple arguing.
Wow
You making your own situation up now. You can't take away the fact that's she pregnant if she's pregnant. Have you ever dealt with a pregnant woman? They are very emotional and unreasonable/unstable alot of the time. Thier hormones are all over the place. The body is changing constantly. Thier blood levels, energy levels, and brain function drop dramatically. How can he keep his pregnant wife safe if she saying ill be back when ill be back. It don't work that way and is unfair. If something happens to her and the baby then everybody is looking at him like why didn't you prevent it. Having a baby on the way is extremely stressful for men also! Idk these people and can't judge either from a 3min clip with no context. From this clip they both are in the wrong and extremely stressed. Him telling her to take an uber is CRAZY! Him telling her he don't love her while she has your baby in her stomach is CRAZY! Asking her walk the dogs is CRAZY! Her being unreasonable saying I'll be back when I'll back is CRAZY! Her trying to use this 3 min clip with no context that starts in the middle of the conversation is 100% manipulative and CRAZY! This whole situation should of been kept private! I'm not taking any sides because idk these people or what is even happening here. They are both childish is all I took from this.
It is almost like Steven thinks obedience/compliance = love/loyalty.
It is for a man. We are not females, well you can't really tell these day with some guys acting like they are.
@@Gchild2k6so if a man says jump off a bridge and I don’t I don’t love him and I’m disloyal
When he says "I don't love you. That's the problem." And she sucks in air, shocked, and immediately covers her stomach with her shirt and holds on, just like instinctively shielding her unborn babies from his contempt and anger... honestly I felt that through my screen. He cuts her off constantly, controls his narrative by not allowing her to call someone even HE knows for a ride, blocks her from walking away to cool down. This is not how a man treats his wife and mother of their children. This is not love.
*I'm editing to add that when I said, "This is not love," of course I know he's just said he doesn't love her. I was speaking more on the line of if anyone is currently in a relationship that sounds like this, just know that there's something and someone better out there who will treat you well. And love you. It just struck me as sort of odd how often she needed to reassure him that she loves him, but how quickly he jumps to cutting her with "I don't love you." It's not a snapshot of a healthy relationship, even if they're having an occasional argument like this. And just like anything we ever consume on the internet, of course we don't have full context. That's the nature of the internet. Anyway, thanks for reading! :)
A monster.
We need to know if this was a common thing or a one time occurence, sometimes people get frusterated and illogical
@@d0giem no 'we' don't. He's unhinged with his desire to berate and control, that woman- he's not even making sense, just babbling while, she tries, to capitulate.
So you mean to tell me that steven crowder is an asshole. Colour me shocked.
he wont let her speak, he knows her words have power and he is afraid of that
“I picked wrong”
He literally abused her mentally and emotionally, he didn’t pick wrong, she picked wrong
He made it sound like he chose a pet that went astray.
I would that the normal way to talk about it would be "These things happen and unfortunately it didn't work out between us."
And now she is suffering for it.. as she should.. his character is well documented and she still decided to align herself to him.. not sorry for her
No he did. He should have looked for someone who respects themself less and is more traditionally submissive and breedable
@@Jeansy1290 has it been well documented for over 10 years?
@@kezzykizzy5386 yes, maybe going to college as a grown ass man to try and "verbally destroy" college kids should have been her first sign lol. But i still don’t blame her, he’s just an irredeemable pos.
"The only way out of this is discipline and respect" What is he talking about? and he's speaking to her like a child! I'm glad she got out of that.
Sounds like manosphere ish...always asking for submission
He talks to her like she's a dog that has to be trained or something. It's disgusting
@@PuriantarticaYou ever think she might act like one in the past? Hence, why he is checking her? We don't know these peoples full history to judge either based on one leaked argument. For all we know she can be a piece of shit too. Just not in this video.
He sounds like a prison warden "the beatings will stop when morale improves"
But it looks like she does not have a job because that is the only way you can financially cut a person, basic shore is the only thing she does, i have few coworkers pregnant till 2 weeks before labor, again we dont know in a 10 year marriage what is happening ussually the argument is about something else that is been happening for a long time, the dog is just a excuses to have the argument or a tipping point, we dont know their couple dynamic. But if in a week you just have to walk the dog, do groceries 2 times and cook, clean 2 times a week, while tne other person runs a bussines thT is ussually 12 hours work day, he might have a reason to be mad. He might be crazy too, we dont know
Preach sniffs out the shady people and has extremely accurate moral and emotional judgements and awareness. He sees the abusive people and mentally ill people much more clearly.
I think it’s hilarious that Dave Landau leaked the contract Crowder wanted him to sign was going to force him to move his entire family to a different state, had a 5 minute late policy, wanted him to do a whole other show for no extra money and only would give him 1 Saturday off every 6 weeks.. The audacity of Crowder calling that DW term sheet a “slave contract” while pulling this shit with his employees is crazy
He's clearly a major control freak. One incident can be explained away but there's a pattern of behavior from multiple sources all painting the same picture. That his wife doesn't even have her own car to come and go as she needs when they can can clearly afford multiple vehicles is a statement in itself. He's burning down his own empire for no good reason.
yeah. lol. When I heard Dave describing all of that I was kind of amazed. The hypocrisy and lack of self awareness is so over the top I almost had to respect it. lol.
YOOOO! So THAT'S why Landau is no longer on the show?? I had no idea it went down like that....this whole thing sucks ass. (smh)
Yea the divorce shit is bad but it's his own shit. Bitching over contracts is the real hypocrisy.
peak entitlement
She has her belly exposed and she is telling him she loves him and then he says well I don't love you and you see her shoulders sink, she takes a breath and pulls her shirt down and puts her arms protectively around her belly. Her body language is telling. So freaking sad her and her babies had to experience that.
I cried at that part honestly…a woman should never hear those words especially from a man whose kid u are carrying😭
@@cindychelsea784 Never? Even if its true?
@@jrich5682 some things are better left unsaid.. can’t he wait and communicate with her in a respectable manner?
He says this with the knowlesge she's high risk for miscarriage and after her having miscarriage prior
At 8:16 he says “listen to me” in this condescending way. Right before that you can tell she tries to turn to walk away and she catches herself. Almost as if she KNEW she could not walk away from that conversation without repercussions. 😳 He wants her to endure this abuse. I’m sick to my stomach
I was married to a man like this. He was cruel and controlling. He wanted to fight with her. It was never about the car. Notice how he didn't even want her to call a ride. No. He wanted to punish her with the Uber. Then when she didn't want to engage and instead chose to deescalate and walk away, he got more animated. His language got more cruel. He began to taunt her and try to provoke her into reacting. He then gets up and blocks her path. That is extremely confrontational. He boxed her onto that patio and when she chose to walk past him, he threatened her. Then he's talking about how women shouldn't be allowed to divorce, smh. Pos.
My ex was like that. I miss her crazy ass.
Something tells me that kid ain't his. Bet money she cheated.
Hence why when she said "u want me to call for a ride? Who you want me to call and he said "is that a threat?". Bet money he's too prideful to let it get out that his wife got pregnant by another man. Maybe they were going to work it out and he's too disgusted with her to even care.
Between Instacart and the many other grocery delivery services why did she need to goto the grocery store herself? She could have alternatively gotten a rental and either option they should theoretically make enough money but IIRC they live in Dallas which is rather expensive place to live. It's not Austin, TX expensive but it's getting up there.
I absolutely agree his reaction was improper but she didn't propose an alternative as far as my attention span was actually listening to be honest. 😅
@@Cerberus984 She did propose an alternative...to call someone to pick her up. Also, I believe going to the grocery store was her way of getting away from him
This isn't about a car. It's 100% about control.
Someone pointed out that it's already suspect and controlling for a man as rich as him to only have one car for his household. It's odd. Especially knowing his wife is pregnant and they already have kids, how can a pregnant mother, possibly a stay at home mom, not have access to a vehicle? It's actually kind of dangerous.
Yes seems intentional as use of control in this case
I wouldn't say dangerous considering that's how most people on this planet live, but yes it is weird to be that rich and not get another car for your wife.
@@cheesemuffin8129 I don't know a single person with kids that doesn't have a second car. That's just me tho. I don't even know a couple without kids who share a car. I'd think if you're pregnant or have kids it's dangerous to not have the ability to get supplies or go from a to b without help or permission. Just my opinion.
Yup! It’s also a sign of his control. He only has one car because he controls where she goes.
Yeah, that is weird. I grew up middle class and we always had at least 2 cars at all times. There are people in my neighborhood that have so many cars you would think their driveway is a freaking parking lot and I know couples who are broke af but both partners have descent used vehicles for commuting to work. A married millionaire father with only one car? Nope, that is super sus.
I was married to a guy like this. They absolutely break you down especially when you're weaker. She is nearly full term with twins and look at him. She needs to never be with
I'm sorry that you went through this. I wish you all the best :-)
Twins ?! Omfg 🤦🏾♀️
This why I never call anyone my idol because you never know how their life really is off social media
You're one of the sane ones. Cult followers online don't care how much a POS their idol is revealed to be, they continue to defend their idols even harder.
Same
@@Thiago_Alves_Souza Bingo 🎯
If you ever thought of him as an idol that’s on you bro lmao
14 year old me would be embarasing himself defending steven. Me now is used to Thais cr@p.
It's a control thing. It's not that he needs the car he just needs to feel in control. It's a narcissistic thing to do for him to throw his own insecurities and project them onto his wife. It's crazy, I actually thought I liked Steven crowder but seeing this just reminds me of the way my dad treated myself, my siblings and my mom. His name is also Steve funny enough lol
Hope you are doing well now
Yes I have to wonder. It seems like he had a very spoiled upbringing. It’s a family business and it seems he doesn’t speak to his mother always kindly when I have seen clips of her. You have to wonder how he became this way.
He probably paid for the car.
Why does it matter if she takes an Uber if he pays for it?
@@Zach-sg5uu Missing the point. Just don't get involved with women if this is confusing to you.
A pregnant woman should not be behind the wheel of a car with a belly that big.
this isn't "having a temper". this is controlling, cruel behavior towards his wife who is 8 months pregnant WITH HIS TWINS. No, just no. No "context" will make this ok.
I haven’t fully finished watching this video from Aba and Preach, but from the video I saw it definitely left a pit in my stomach, it was so weird. However, I could definitely tell that they have been arguing a lot in that time period, and we don’t know what could have caused this level of frustration. People tend to isolate instances, when this could be a build up of different things that wouldn’t make his reaction reasonable, but make it understandable. As a man, I know I’ve said things I regret in bad arguments during turbulent times. He shouldn’t of acted this way, and it makes him look like a hypocrite, but context is always important.
Yeah fuck this guys context... hes said alot of other vile ass shit veiled in joke and comedy bout sick of listenin to him...
I disagree. I do think the video doesn’t do him any favors, but a 2-3 minute long video of some random video occurring in his private life is not hard evidence or proof of what you’re saying.
I won’t defend him past saying more context could change things since there’s many possibilities we may not be considering, as this has been the case far too often for many incidents similar in nature to this.
I may dislike the dude as well but it’s important to be charitable especially to the people you usually wouldn’t be charitable with. I’ll await more info before making a final conclusion, but it doesn’t look good at the moment for him is all I will say for certain.
Ya the whole we need more "content" BULL...he couldn't control his TONE, ANGER and CHOICE of WORDS while she is 8 months pregnant???!! No red flags pure red flags.
How you going to say no contacts will make this okay... Context is everything you moron
He says kids should have both parents but according to the wife's family he literally dropped her at the hospital to give birth then left and bought a townhouse to move into, and got a divorce lawyer to cut her off financially.
I mean smart move at least, not honorable tho
idk, I want to see some receipts. People say stuff all the time.
I'm pretty sure he had surgery at the time the kids were born, and people elective surgery doesn't mean cosmetic or unnecessary
Yeah, look at how she was treating him
@@Captain_Insano_nomercy if it’s true, that ain’t smart. It shows he doesn’t care about being a father so hinor the marriage but lies about it online. Not gonna fly in a marriage court.
He is absolutely pathetic. A grown ass man is telling his wife she’s making him feel boxed in if she takes the car, so he’s crying about being a victim and making her the oppressor in a situation he constructed bc he probably doesn’t allow her to have a car. He’s super manipulative and blind to how unreasonable he is. He doesn’t love that woman and it’s a damn shame how he treats her here.
You don’t know the inner working of their marriage. Maybe he’s pissed that she never does anything. Maybe She should have already gone to the grocery store. Maybe her car is in the shop. Maybe he’s sick of supporting a wife that does absolutely nothing. You don’t know, what’s going on in that marriage but you sure are quick to have an opinion.
@@baronwolfgang9368 1-she’s 8 months pregnant
2- there is a better way to confront those “problems”
3- defending a pos is sad
@@baronwolfgang9368 because a 8 month pregnant wife is extremely vulnerable, THAT ALONE he should of control his temper, hey after the kids are born divorce her if he thinks she's useless 🙄 😒
@@baronwolfgang9368 my response is based off of the scenario depicted from this video. Obviously I don’t know these people. This video is evidence he is unreasonable, manipulative, controlling, and abusive. To your point, I don’t know what happens before this or after it so it’s not logical to say what if this or that. It’s unknown what happened so I can’t have an opinion on the unknown. It’s also not logical to assume she mistreated him. Maybe she did, maybe she didn’t. But I would argue that just bc someone wrongs you, does not justify wronging then what kind of childhood logic would that be. I have an opinion on the known quantity here and that’s the video and he’s shown himself to be pathetic.
when my girl was pregnant I done my best to make her life easy, because I love her. I know it's a small clip but it's enough to accurately diagnose crowder as a POS.
When my wife was pregnant. Much to her annoyance i insisted on doing everything. Not because i had to. But because i wanted to.
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he's the reason why we want our daughters to be educated and have their own money... she did not have her own car, he talked to her like a dog...
Exactly! For guys like him feminism was a thing
@@smileyface1956 yep, men forget what created feminism from the start, controlling men who were abusive. Over time feminist have become that too now, so then red pill movement, which is turning toxic as well. But everything is created by something.
Well abuse doenst stop just bc you have money
@@watamutha but it will be easier to leave the abuse right?
@@watamutha No, it doesn't. But it's a hell of a lot easier to leave when you're not financially dependent on the person abusing you.
Steven in his yt video: I care so much about my family ESPECIALLY my children and only want the best for them
Also Steven: puts immense mental pressure on his pregnant wife
: smokes cigars in her presence while she's pregnant
: tells her he doesn't love her
: throws a hissy fit over something that he could have easily done himself using the time he spent on arguing
: doesn't listen to his wife's concern over the chemical that's toxic to her and her babies
Deep down he resents her for being pregnant. Didn't want the financial burden and now has to behave Christian at home
I’m Religious Christian myself but I don’t believe being a tyrant controlling asshat and being abusive dick is never good
@@TheFaro2011 He's just mad he's obligated to larp as a heterosexual husband/father for the sake of his rightwing Christian grift.
@@rabd3721 Just because you're gay doesn't mean straight people don't exist. Stop projecting your homosexuality on everyone else.
@@rabd3721 i swear you can find him skulking around public restrooms where alot of men meet
Crowder only having 1 car seems like a way for him to exert control over her
He was the only one out if the 2 of them that could afford one. Why should he buy her a car?
@Check The OR because he has the money and is a husband, you subhuman
@@TheAlexSmith17 because otherwise his schedule would keep her trapped at home or Ubering everywhere, and I think it's safe to say they were happily married at some point if not then I'm even more inclined to say he kept her car-less to exert control over her.
The fact that they only have one car is such a red flag. It’s a huge mechanism of control.
He claims she needs to respect him then proceeds to say that at 8 months pregnant her not doing 1 chore means she’s not worthy of being a wife and then when she says I love you and I’m committed to you says…
“I don’t love you” , then restricts her from even using their car to pick up groceries , all this because she thought the dog medication could be toxic to pregnant women, he not only is disrespecting his wife , he is manipulating her , and on top of all of it his 8 month pregnant wife (pregnant with twins) is way more emotionally mature than he is. Notice she never escalates once. He even sent her messages about splitting up the day before his kids were born
Edit : AND HE HIRED THE DIVORCE LAWYER A MONTH BEFORE SHE DID
Dude has serious anger/ control issues and needs help.
So basically, he believes only men should have the right to divorce. If women want to divorce cause a man is abusive the that's a problem but a man can abuse his wife and still want a divorce and it's okay, woww
From an edited video?
@@Real_Name_Jim what explanation can à man possibly have that would make him look good and validate how that man treated a pregnant woman, his wife. That vidéo can't be made to make the man look good
@@Real_Name_Jim where’s the split dude ? Where’s the cut ? It’s 3 and a half minutes long
@@i_am_thebatman it starts in the middle of the argument
Not only he puts his wife under bad stress but hes smoking while she's there?? How much worse can this get
Technically he's sitting smoking outside his own home.
She's the 1 who went to him to ask to take the car, personally I don't particularly care about who's needs the car more but is it really worth her arguing about refusing to just get an Uber to the store & back? If he needs the car then i don't see any difference between her getting the Uber or getting picked up by someone else 🤷
It's pretty easy not to like Crowder but at least be fair to the guy 😂
How much u wanna bet his wife smokes too while the baby is In her 😂
How dare a grown ass man enjoy a cigar on his own property he worked his ass off for. She’s nothing but a succubus. I’ve been pregnant and I used Ubers constantly. If she wants a car why doesn’t she just go buy her own. I’m sure she must have saved a fortune from never having to pay for a single thing for a decade. And you do remember that this is days before or immediately after he had major surgery. Much more stressful much more painful and much more dangerous than giving birth. Which she didn’t even bother doing anyway she went with the elective C-section. She should have been worried about him. I’ve been with my partner since I was 19 and yea it’s obviously assumed that if you leave the relationship you don’t get the perks or free access to his money anymore. She knew that before she left. So why’s she delusional enough to think she has any right to his money. Time to get off her lazy crazy ass and get a job. She thought she was going to get half that 50mil and now she’s going to be left with nothing. Exactly as she deserves.
Yall didn't read the article. She says the fight started because she didn't want to give the dogs their meds because she wasn't sure if it was toxic for pregnant women...that's why he says just put on gloves and she isn't doing her duties. That's the backdrop. Honestly to even talk to your pregnant highly emotional wife like that is crazy
That's why she said okay I'm taking the car to basically get some space. That is why he says she isn't committed and all.... male or female conversative or liberal I don't think these are any values any one should have. 8 months pregnant is not a joke a good number of women even have to stay in bed most of the time , you can't even tell them serious things for fear that their blood pressure might skyrocket and you are berating her and she's crying infant of you
Making your 8-month pregnant wife go shopping by herself, making her walk the dogs, meanwhile he gets to sit in his backyard and smoke his lung killers doing nothing? He is like the literal definition of a man-child!!! Absolutely disgusting
Yes she should leave him and go work a full time job while pregnant like most women all over the world lol
He literally didn't want her to go. That was the argument
@@acurry722 Been living in Thailand for 5 years now. It's a 3rd world country and I've literally NEVER seen a pregnant Thai lady working. They actually rarely leave their homes until the baby is 2.
@@namewithheld7835 Then he should've done the errands himself, so she could stay at home. it's not that complicated.
Smoking his lung killers 😂
So she can’t take the car because she is “putting him in a box”?? That seemed like total emotional abuse
She said, you want me to have someone pick me up and he said, is that a threat...it's really not about a car
Steven treats his wife with contempt, exactly how my ex treated me before we divorced. I’m so happy we’re both out of these miserable marriages now.
The fault with the red pill community. As soon as this came out, (just the divorce) the take was " Bruvs! doesn't matter how goo lookin' or rich you are, she will pulll the rip chord and die-vorce rape you!" The missing point- sometimes men are real douchbags in a marraige, and women just have to get out. The evidence AFTER the divorce news here shows that. Many comments on red pill response videos post divorce " That traitor btch!" " Yeah this is how the modern woman screws us men". The whole story, and all sides argument is always important
My exhusband told me "you are unattractive and undesirable, and I don't respect you, but I love and trust you and we have to be together for the rest of our life". I cheated on him because I knew he wouldn't give up if I just left. Mind you he had the year earlier had an (allegedly one sided) romantic obsession with a woman and told me that he loved her and "didn't do anything because of his marriage vows". Why I didn't leave his sorry arse when he was laying on our marital bed crying hyperventilating that he would "miss her so much" because she moved back to Italy is a testament to 12y of emotional abuse !
@@bisiilki sounds like you deserved your worthless husband. "I cheated on him because he made me" really? You sound extremely toxic yourself. Even more given that you see no problem posting that on the internet
Your ex probably treated you with contempt because you were worthless. Ever think about that?
@@Death-999 Ah, someone getting their jollies the only way they can. Hope the high lasts for more than a millisecond; must be hard work to scrounge so deep in the muck for a fleeting moment of faux superiority
How he smokes a cigar in front of his pregnant wife, tell her to "fucking watch it", it is absolutely despicable. Whatever, preceded this video would not have any context. He is abusive. Period. This is what happens when the "red pill" community thinks that they "deserve" a "submissive wife."
exactly. there’s nothing “traditional” or even conservative about treating your pregnant wife like this
ong bro shit sucks
Context doesn't matter? LOL, whatever
And when the fuck was Crowder ever part of red pill? You dudes be associating anybody with red pill, crowder's just an grifter asshole.
@@JoeMama-dy6op in what situation would you warrant someone being emotionally abusive and smoking in front of your pregnant wife?????
"I can have someone pick me up"
"Is that a threat?"
What?
Not only is he being a spoiled abusive man-child but is he actually SMOKING around his PREGNANT wife.
I don't even have words
Raise your kids well so they don't end up this way unfortunately
I heard someone say that when he kept saying “put on some gloves”- Apparently their dogs get medication, and his pregnant wife’s doctor told her that she shouldn’t handle the medicine because it’s toxic to their unborn child. Steven thought it was part of her “wifely duties” so rather than do it himself, he told her to put on gloves and do it anyway. That’s what the story is anyways. Yikes, who would want to be married to THAT.
Wow, I didn't know that the doctor told her not to handle that medication. That makes the story more wild.
Vet tech here, yes there are indeed medications that pregnant women shouldn't handle gloves or no gloves.
Shouldn't even handle the box.
I have been around people who have been thru stress over and over but try to deescalate the way she did.
You can hear it in her voice. This isn't the first time and it's breaking her heart.
Unborn children. I believe she was pregnant with twins at the time.
That's sad he doesn't give a ish about is own unborn baby safety 😢
Why didn't she tell that?
Only context saying "I will fuck you up" to your partner is when you're playing Mario Kart and one of you just tossed the blue shell.
Lol me and my husband. Outside of that? Neither of us would ever utter something so ugly in a serious tone
yo him saying “i picked wrong” about his wife after she left him implies that he expects his wife to put up with that kind of behavior from him. absolutely no accountability
haven’t heard this guy’s name in a hot minute
This just reminded me I was subbed to him from like 5 years ago lol
Diesel papa
Diesel!
Haven’t seen you in a hot minute lol hope you good 💯
Finally, I've been waiting for my milk, papa.
He said “I don’t love you”…..That should have settled this entire thing
Get a divorce and marry someone you would never say those words to
This argument happened after she filed for divorce. Why would you say I love you to someone who didn’t take their vows seriously.
"It's no one's fault but my own... in that I picked wrong." Look at that self-accountability, wow what a real man
You dudes obsessed with another man's failed marriage is high bytch mode level stuff. Internet has made everyone want to get into everyone's business
Did you even watch..?
@@FelixMuk he's saying it sarcastically
He is not being accountable he is blaming her for their marriage failing
@@nsovofargo9114 Seems more like he's the cause for it. It's the husband's job to do some extra lifting when the wife is pregnant. He just showed that not only did he not really care about his wife, he also does not give a damn about his upcoming child that she is carrying.
Abusive men hiding under conservative value of life style are foul.
You can tell she's terrorized.
This was released AFTER HE announced the divorce on his channel sighting he had "picked wrong". She RESPONDED to his video with a statement contradicting a lot of what he said. The emotional abuse and tape wasn't spoken of publicly until he publicly said what he did on his show. Also she is 8 months pregnant with twins in that video.
What does being pregnant matter?
@@Na_bruh how does it not matter?
Who’s the father?
Why give birth to kids if your marriage sucks?
Then it was an economically stupid move. She just lost millions for what? That triggered her. Then that is both stupid and weak. Every dollar that was plead is now discounted.
@@robertmyers6488 No, I think the "weak" and "economically stupid" move is emotionally abusing and controlling your partner (along with staff and many others). He had already cut them off and moved out right after she gave birth two years ago, and while being nearly a decade married. He could of taken anger management and counselling, as recommended, but chose the "economically stupid" decision not to.
Abusive partners can become more aggressive and abusive when the other is pregnant. The pregnant partner has to think more about themself and the baby, routines change and the abusive partner is expected to take on a more responsibilities to help out and might also get less attention/not be the main focus anymore for the pregnant partner. I’ve even heard cases were some men will even be jealous of the baby.
"Abusive partners can become more aggressive and abusive when the other is pregnant."
There's a reason why a woman's risk of being murdered by her partner gets significantly higher when she's pregnant.
There is a reason pregnancy is the most dangerous period for a women. That is when many get killed by the partners.
@@AngryReptileKeeper why is that? I've read that the abuse becomes more violent if the woman in the relationship is either sick or pregnant.
@@NerdyMichii96 bc vile ppl become more vile the weaker their victim gets. True evil.
As a husband and a Father this is sickening and I really feel for people who are in relationships like this. This is a sad.
For real man ! I can’t imagine so sad
this is nothing... was even better a 100 years ago. Steven goes mild. His wife is pregnant, she needs to stay home and safe.
@@savagegtalks5912 He seems to have a temper and gets mad when she wants to distance herself from him for a moment so he can cool off that's controlling behavior.
@savagegtalks5912 it sure isn't nothing if she left. Continue coping
@@savagegtalks5912 bruh he's a man child, a man is supposed to know restraint. Acting like a bickering child to ur pregnant wife isn't manly or appealing.
When he said "Is That A Threat?" Thats when I knew what he was doin had malicious intent... Why the fuck would her asking for a ride from somebody after u said she couldnt take the car, be a threat?! Lmao smh He dont want nobody outside to know how manipulative he's being towards her smh 🤦🏾♂️
I can tell it’s an abusive relationship due to how many times she felt the need to reassure him that she loves him and is committed to him. That says enough for me
Yep. This. Those other comment chains where everyone goes on and on about ‘he’s doing nothing wrong’ a) could very well be abusers themselves and/or b) have never dealt with this kind of behavior.
It’s done over years and years - so often insidiously. And it’s further done to the children as they get older. She stuck to a script that normally makes him happy. He kept poking at her to continue and prolong the fight. Awful.
(I’m one of those kids - now grown and still struggle with it all.)
She’s knows what she’s recording though so you will say the right thing when the cameras on
The fact they only have one vehicle is a red flag for me. Of course there is a chance I'm wrong, but it sounds like controlling behavior to imo. We all know that abusers will use things like thar to trap and control their spouse or significant other. In addition to the way he spoke to her, the no car thing is just sus to me. I've been there myself and I've seen it many times before. Js
So anything that women doesn’t like is automatically “abuse” smh, what a wonderful get out of jail free card for women to play and never be held accountable for anything
@@MackJoseph dude that's clearly a security camera that Steven very well knows is there. Steven was clearly being a jack ass and she was trying to deesculate the situation and he kept pressing. Even if the camera was planted by her, why would he continue to act that way while she was being reasonable?
It gets me when Steven says "she wanted something else for her life" ... Yeah, she did, she wanted a good Christian husband and thought she'd found one!
He wanted a good christian wife and SHE WAS NOT ONE. Which part of being the proverbs 31 woman is not following your husband's discipline, disrespecting him and not doing wifely duties?? ERR ERR. Spoke like an 304 demanding a traditional man which he was [He did his bible christian duties..she was well provided for and didn't work] whilst she didn't do any traditional wife duties.
@@Gchild2k6 ..... disgusting. If you think it's okay to talk to ANYONE like that, you don't know the Bible and are not a real Christian. You will be judged more harshly than I am judging you
@@Gchild2k6 also what part of "wifely duties" includes handling TOXIC DOG MEDICATION while you're 8 months pregnant with twins? I need a scripture to prove that one please
@@lifeasrini my guy that is such a lame excuse. The majority of that edited clip was focus on him saying I have done my manly duties in providing you a lavish lifestyle for 10 years and you have done nothing in return but disrespect, no wifely. You say you love but have not shown it (another tactic females use thinking saying x but not doing it is the same as doing x). He mentioned groceries aka steak etc. If the dog/medication was suggest a threat, neither him or her would have it around. Wake up and stop being fooled. You weak people are so quick to defend useless abusive females.
@@Gchild2k6 you're psychotic christian. there's plenty of them. they're definitely not going to heaven, btw....keep dreaming.
As a conservative, there's too many people making excuses for him stating that marriage is ugly sometimes and the video was edited or taken out of context. I would hate to have my extremely rare marital fights put online. There's a problem. What abuse is essentially is using power and control over another. If you take away the way he's talking, threatening, and gaslighting her; having one car when you're a multi millionaire is indicative of control.
My current partner is more classic Liberal, and I assure you, self-discipline and respect have nothing to to with one's politics, but rather, personal ethics. Yet, she loves and embodies traditional wife values. Unfortunately somewhere along the lines it became defacto standard to associate traditionalism with Conservatism, and while true in the broad sense, I've met a few Conservatives who believe in accountability for everyone else, except themselves...
Lmao as a person with an actual brain that doesn't fit in one box I can only laugh at conservative people.
@@ohsnapsonbro4260 Irony abounds.
Sending a marital fight to a journalist is indicative of control also, control of a narrative.
Shit like this hurts the conservative narrative more than any other. Revealed always is the hypocrisy and fragility.
I used to work in upper middle class neighborhoods as a behavioral therapist. Some of these people have the most interesting family dynamics. They just master how to hide it. Having money is nice not going to lie but at what cost? He definitely has a control issue based on how he spoke to her. He uses his money as leverage against her. He’s an abusive narcissist.
Dude is absolutely wild, he must be really insecure to keep her locked down the way he does. Not letting her have her own vehicle is wild.
Where did you see that in the video . Not letting her have a car?
@@JT-bt6jy that is clearly what is happening, I mean ... what ever if you don't see it I don't care
@@zakadams762 dafuq so if you don’t know but still came to a conclusion. You still stuck by that belief. That’s like saying “I believe the earth is flat , I can’t prove nor do I care to explain”. Lol
They're millionaires but for some reason they only have one car
@@JT-bt6jy that's why he's getting mad. She wants to take the car and he won't let her.
"The only way out of this is discipline and respect" that gave me chills.
YES! he says it more than once I think. Something like the only remedy is more discipline. I was thinking wait, more discipline? She's a grown woman, what is he talking about.... makes me wonder about the rest of the relationship. I think her and the family only released this to keep her name clear because of what he said on his show. I wouldn't be surprised if things got worse than this. This guy acts like a fucking child. Not even close to being a real man.
That's code for control.
This kind of abuse is wild. And I feel like unfortunately very common
That bit was definitely weird. She's a grown freaking woman, but she needs "discipline" because she's not doing things in the exact way he demands? I found it disturbing how he was talking about how she wasn't doing her "wifely duties" while simultaneously trying to limit her ability to get groceries he wanted... boxing her into a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation.
@@justacoginthefkery it's about control. Though no necessarily a damn if you do, damn if you don't. Apparently if she just put the dog medicine in the dogs (that could effect her pregnancy), and walk then he'd be happy with that. Don't worry though Steven really though through the safety of his two unborn kids, because he was gonna have his wife wear gloves while applying the medication. Just think about that, she probably only told him no because the thing he was asking has a high chance of harming the children in her belly. Actually sick to think of the crap she's put up with up to this point
As someone who grew up with a mean spirited, manipulative, malignant narcissistic mother, who put on a great church face when outside the home but was diabolical at home, I learned one important lesson; never comment on what goes on in other people's houses unless you live there. You really never know the truth because things arent always what they seem.
You too huh?
Agreed. People act like they’re saints when others have their dirty laundry out there.
@@pantsenfuego9986 In my case, literal dirty laundry 😂
Ha, yup
"...do wifely things... respect THE man... *watch it* " ?? These are not the lines victims use, I'm sorry - they're just not.
I would say he’s a narcissist. He definitely has control issues. And you never can win. Any kind of argument or conversation with a narcissist. I can feel this woman’s fatigue. He actually needs her personality for fuel. Watching this clip. It’s almost PTSD for me. I lived it for 30 years. This type of person will actually kill you, because you will become sick.
How did you survive? I have a family member who is a narcissist and I am constantly on edge when I'm at home 😢 I hate it..
@@fruitytarian
Narcissism is a mental illness so to say. You have to separate yourself from the person. You will never win an argument with a narcissist, your point will never come out on top.. narcissist don’t take responsibility, and they live in their own alternate reality. . That’s not sustainable for any …I divorced my narcissist, being out of his space my health got better, my mental state of being got better. I’m still healing, and it will take time, but healing was never going to be an option as long as I stayed with my narcissistic husband.
You are not bound by blood ties or even family ties. At some point you have to put yourself first. And you need to separate yourself from the narcissist, that’s the only chance of survival. Otherwise, you are gaslighting yourself. I had a doctor, a neurologist. Tell me she could help me, but she needed me to consider that my primary relationship was making me sick. And that unless I changed or considered that, I would stay sick. She was right, but it took me eight years to pull the plug after she said that. Thank you for your comment, and God bless you, may you find the courage to put yourself first above the narcissistic relationship, and keep on moving forward, don’t look back. You are worth it.❤️
@@fruitytarianThe only way is to get out ASAP and go no contact.
@@jessp8238 I'm working on it..
The fact he was smoking too while she is pregnant and stressing her out like wtf yo.
Traditionally controlling and insecure husbands will insist on one family vehicle to insure that their partner is not “out and about” and can then domestically hold their partner hostage. This is a way to know exactly where your partner is at all times (home) and what she’s doing (sitting at home). This is also a way to make sure your partner will never catch the eye on someone else who will treat her better, no matter how badly he is treating her. This was my grandmother’s entire life.
Nobody made her be his wife.
Exactly the one car thing is all about control.
My dad STILL does this to my mom (I’m in my 40s) and it is very frustrating to watch my mom just roll over and accept that. Watching Crowder do this brings back rough memories.
@@braheme1260 Exactly… which is why she has left fool.
@@braheme1260 Unfortunately, you don't always learn that someone is abusive until they think they have you "locked down." People can hide a lot of shit for a long time.
This is literally what covert narcissism looks like. He plays an excellent role on his show, but behind closed doors is controlling and abusive. She needs to leave him and show all the things he's done to protect herself.
Change my mind .
This isn’t very covert. He’s an overt narcissist who takes the redpill shii too seriously. Wants his wife to fulfill duties when she’s doing the ultimate duty of carrying his child. He’s always a closed-minded arrogant a-hole.
Lol what’s covert about it? It’s overt narcissism. Covert would be a guy who’s very shy and meek on the surface
He’s an unbearable arsehole on his show and he’s an unbearable arsehole in private
Complete imbecile. That’s all you could decipher from that video?
How could he miss his children being born? Was he serving overseas in Iraq? That was one of the greatest moments in my life. I almost passed out on the first baby. And that's just because I looked over the curtain and all that blood. Looked like nevermind c section but I heard their first breath I was crying like a bitch. My kids are the greatest gifts in my life. Precious cargo . If we only had one car I'd be the one taking the bus or whatever. I've never taking a Uber before. I've taken a taxi before similar but it's not the same. I've rented a limo and that's definitely not the same.
She is tired and uncomfortable. My belly was nowhere near that big and the amount of energy it takes to stand there and take that and not just snap or just lock yourself in a room to get away from this is tremendous.
It's crazy to me that he can literally sit there and ask her to do those things while she is clearly and audibly tired is crazy to me.
Yeah he was acting more pregnant than she was XD
And mind you he's a multi millionaire that basically works an office job. Not some blue collar worker killing himself 12-16 hours a day. Not only can he do it he could literally hire an entire staff to take care of any of his needs and hers
@@williamcollins2360that's the part that's killing me 😂 everyone making excuses for him, like. He's from the family values party and is a multimillionaire! He could and should hire some private attendees for his pregnant wife, a temporary dog walker, and just order food and groceries from door dash or go to the store himself!!! Tf is going on here 😂
@@lavellelee5734 tf is going on here, is right! This is some utter bullshit. How he can treat his wife like that is so severely lacking in empathy, I truly feel bad for her. I actually hope that she's just as bad as he is but is hiding it cuz that would mean that they're just in a toxic relationship in general. But this here in the video, the difference in temperments and how they talk, he's abusive.
She is literally going to birth two human beings in like 30 days and he's treating her like that. I could feel how exasperated she was. He was relentless. Like, dude, what are you doing with your life, treating your wife like that, for what? I don't even care what the context is, it doesn't change his behavior.
The way he talked about his divorce kinda shows what kind of person he is. He said nothing about what he might have done wrong to make her want to leave him, no he instead just said that what he did wrong was choosing the wrong woman.
Imagine being such an arrogant pos that u think ppl r gonna think u're a boss for saying "the thing I did wrong is I picked the wroong woman" he is so delusional
Amd the irony is that he left her. He just says she left him because the other way around makes him look bad
"my beliefs don't matter in this country" Candace Owens was right, he really is always such a victim. He's such a pathetic insecure bozo and he hides it behind his fake tough guy act.
Text book narcissist
@@mpforeverunlimitedyep left her just after she gave birth to twins, whole he ran to a lawyer to divorce her. Pure class
Aba that take on stress during pregnancy is EXACTLY RIGHT. I had been saying that all week since the video came out. So many people who dont have kids and havent been through that think they can understand.... Im trying to imagine telling my mom i let my pregnant wife take an uber by herself. CRAZY.
We haven’t seen the full vid or if there even is one I’m not necessarily siding with crowder but for all we know she could be very well manipulating him, getting him to a point where he “acts out” to say he’s abusing her. There’s no evidence this far of actual abuse according to law enforcement. But there’s two sides here.
Y'all are so privileged. I took taxis at 8 months pregnant because I couldn't walk home from the grocery store anymore pulling all the groceries in my granny cart. I allowed myself the LUXURY to take a taxi, because we don't own car!You guys coddle pregnant women like I've never seen before. Is being pregnant such a rarity where you live?
@@adararelgnel2695 Steven Crowder is not gonna bang you, I promise.
Logic of privileged people. There are women in world who works in the farms on the mid day month june while being pregnant. I dont think he is upset about cars or dogs.....there is something else....which wasnt in the clip....its like guessing the the whole story of a book while reading a single page out of it.
@@adararelgnel2695 it's isn't about her doing chores, it's about him picking at her and abusing ger
He's given me a bad vibe forever. He's always reminded me of my ex-stepdad who is a narcissist and abused us emotionally, mentally, and financially for years. He was very personable and funny in public but behind closed doors, he was a monster. I won't be surprised if his wife's claims are true.
UH HUH who else gives you off this vibe? Let’s see if you’re right one day or just wanna role play that you’re some kind of expert from having experienced it with one guy your entire life.
I thought it was hot 😹
That's not a narcissist, that's a textbook sociopath. My dad was the same way. Said the exact same kind of shit to us and specifically my mom during their falling out, separation and eventual divorce process. They are not just self-righteous, egotistical, manipulative abusers, they also are living a life of a masquerade, swapping out different masks depending on their audience (the people they're around) in order to gain their trust, approval and liking with a totally false front. Some people call them Chameleons. And that itself is part of their manipulation, which often people somehow miss.
My ex-step dad was the same. Changed his spots a lot.
@@dddaaa6965 Just looking at his face and the way he talks on his shows should give you the vibe that he is atleast a dickhead, if some information came out that he was beating his wife i would not be surprised, specially from a big ass dude that says "watch it" to his pregnant wife like he is talking to a child, bitch ass behaviour like every conservative/rich /political content creator
I feel like them having one car is like form of controlling her. By only having one she has to stay at home while he's doing his shows and when he's out.
Right. He DEFINITELY has the money for 2 if not more cars. It’s a common tactic with abusers.
This 😢👏👏👏👏👏👏 soooo true! That’s exactly why they dont have two cars!
So she doesn't make money and can't buy her own car is what I'm hearing?
You may be reading too much into this. Like Abba said, what if they did have another one but it's at the shop?
Typo..
@@jbriggs06 If she stopped being a housewife and worked out of the home she could. If he wants a housewife, he chooses to accept responsibility and be the sole provider; It wouldn't be her job to "afford" anything--it would be all his. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
Having 1 car when you can afford two is a control tactic. Making her take Uber, helps him track her every move. And instead of him offering to run the errands for his very pregnant wife, he pulls THIS?! Oh yea… she’s been married to a complete narcissist. I’m so disgusted.
Agreed! He is sitting there just smoking a cigar. Why doesn’t he pick up the errands? I feel bad for her. My husband is not like this at all.
I was about to say. I am definitely going to jump to a conclusion here so take it with a grain of salt, but with all the money he has, and the behavior in the video... ain't no way the only having one car available is anything less than a means to control. It's one more tool to allow him to instigate and nitpick away at his wife's dignity. It's a controlling narcissists dream to have this kind of manipulative situation set up in their favor.
@@elainecastillo2044 that’s exactly what it is. That’s why he cuts the funds when he feels she is not being “wifely”
Do you know why they only had one car...?
@@jameerobama8951 No. I applied deductive reasoning from what I know about Steven. 1. He’s allegedly worth over 50Mill USD. Some reports say 70Mill… most married people that I know, have more than one vehicle because both individuals will not always have the same schedule or destinations from day-to-day.
Let’s say that there is another car but it is in the shop… no one thought to get a loaner/ rental in the meantime to not disrupt his very busy schedule to visit his parents and run to the gym? See his friends? Something tells me that after 10 years of marriage, and being a multimillionaire that could literally live a more convenient life when it comes to this sort of thing, has chosen to complicate what could be so simple, thanks to his abnormal behavior.
Most couples who willfully share one car, do so because of financial circumstance… financial hardship… is that their reality? A resounding “no.”
Even coming into the conversation midway, while it can lose some context, Steven's obvious arrogance towards this pregnant wife, his entire demeanor (sitting on the lounge smoking a cigar) and belittling her so viciously, is just disgusting. It's amazing the lies that someone can start seeding when they have a captive audience, glorified echo chamber, where Steven can pretend that he is the victim in all of this. I hope she takes him for all she is worth.
That whole "discipline and respect" is what particularly pissed me off because his idea of "discipline and respect" seem to be doing whatever he wants from you all the time. There's a type of people that "grooms" their partners or even close friends into total compliance with everything they say by presenting it as some generally good goal worth chasing or something like that, in this case the idea of "discipline and respect"
I agree. I'm all for discipline and respect, but first and foremost I must enforce it on myself before I can go and demand that others do the same. Basically I'd focus on fixing myself before telling others what to do.
I domt know the context. Does she gave a history of laziness or carelessness that is fueling his language? Is there something that they both know from years together that I cant pick up in an edited video released to make one party look bad? I dont like the dude either but that was a pretty tame disagreement with tons of grey area.
Peep game:
1. They have 1 car so that he can CONTROL how she moves.
2. She’s 8 months pregnant, dude told her to “watch it” and as she walked away he followed her. That is threatening behavior to women and particularly when we’re pregnant. It is VERY vulnerable situation when we’re with child.
3. She was having a high risk pregnancy - WHY do this?! He DGAF about his children, never-mind her.
4. She’s 8 months pregnant, she’s grabbing her belly and showing signs of distress and he’s trying to make her walk a damn dog and administer medicine while he what… Sits on the couch like a Mitch?!
5. Committed = walking the dog and administering medicine to it. This dude wildin.
6. Dude is abusive. Period.
Steven Crowder literally complained about Mattel launching Down Syndrome afflicted dolls. The man is beyond help.
When did Nick Mullen get a job at Mattel?
thats retarded
unrelated but W profile pic
That's insane. Like honestly how is that even a thing to get mad over? It's a kids toy 😂
I noticed Matt Walsh did a video saying how that doll was not woke and there's nothing political about it. I wonder if that was a dig at Crowder because he said other conservatives shouldn't attack disabled kids, which I agree with.
I'm not even conservative but been watching this drama go down for a little while as the liberal RUclipsrs have already had their civil wars and are getting way too weird.
He was about to put up the "Change my mind" sign to his wife..
Narcissistic personality disorder.
Run girl .. run!!!
The little respect I had for the man after listing to how he speaks to his wife is gone. A real man should never be sitting on his ass while his pregnant wife is on the verge of tears.
Sitting on his Ass, smoking cigars in front of his pregnant wife sipping on whisky relaxing whilst telling his wife to put on some gloves to handle dog medicine that's TOXIC To pregnant women because it's part of her "wifely duties" before he sends her alone to do the shopping and carry bags of groceries on the condition that she can't use the car
But the thing is all this video was about is he asked hee wife to stay home while he go out cause he was worried about her safety but she just kept arguing about it like no tomorrow and say it's controlling. I mean if my wife was pregnant I don't want her to do things that can cause damage to her and the baby inside. Like I heard a story years back where the mother wanted to go shopping than hours later died In a car accident while the baby was inside. So don't think that a pregnant lady can't just do anything they struggle a lot.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 okay hold up. He said in the video it is because he could need to go somewhere. And even if you were right about him being concerned for her safety, why isn't he taking care if the dogs and the medicine that is toxic to pregnant women? I think that is a lot more dangerous than her driving a car. And he is doing all of this while smoking a cigar in front of her.
unless its not his child
@@MrBuns-yi2hkomgggggggggggggggggggg you JUST wanna fight 😂😂😂😂
"Steak, wood pellets, my grill..." These are his groceries. He ain't lacking milk for coffee or some shit, he's whining about weekend shit we'd all be thankful for.
Unless you know he is actually on a high meat diet for his health, fair enough on the wood pellets though
@@joshuadalton6063 doesn't make me feel sorry for him. Steak is expensive and a luxury good.
@@pendejo69 but coffee isn’t? Lol
And you just made me think about how heavy a bag of wood pellets is. And he wanted his very pregnant wife to lug it around?
@@dwaynemiller1104 he is a crazy man