my friend.. dia x pernah period langsung and hormone dia x balance. dia dah kawin for almost 5 years and dia nak sangat sangat ada anak sampai dia ada makan ubat hormone and dia ada buat juga ivf tapi most doctors said “ you memang x boleh pregnant. impossible.” and guess what… she proves the doctor wrong! Dia baru je melahirkan and sekarang tengah berpantang! so pls, do not give up. Rezeki ni semua datang dari Allah. Nothing is impossible 💕
Ada satu cerita from my circle of friends. Anak 4orang. Alhamdulillah smua kerja bagus dn sudh berkahwin. Takdir Allah SWT. Suami mninggal.. dan si ibu jatuh sakit selepas beberapa tahun kemudian. Harta bnyak. Tapi.. beliau trpaksa tnggal di rumah orang tua sbb anak2 sibuk kerja tak ada siapa jaga. Takdir Allah SWT jugak..si ibu mninggal di rumah orang tua trsebut baru beberapa bulan lepas. … Moral of the story: I always said to sape2 yg blom allah kurniakn rezeki zuriat kturunn… Sntiasa sebut “Alhamdulillah” sbb kamu tak ada dosa dgn anak2. Meanwhile, kami yg ada anak2 kami bnyk dosa dgn mereka dan mereka juga berbuat dosa dgn kami. Semua terletak pada ujian yg allah berikan. … Kepada yg sudah jadi ibubapa..Alhamdulillah Tahniah..didiklah anak2 dgn ilmu agama, adab & akhlak. .. Kepada yg blum dikurniakan rezeki ada anak. Saya doakan kalian akan diberi rezeki zuriat keturunan soleh&solehah pada masa yg tepat seperti janji Allah. Allahumma Aminn.
I've only been married for 1 year plus (this year will be my second year). At first, we wanted to hold first on the child as we want to have our own honeymoon phase, and I was not thinking of having a child so soon too. But then, at the end of last year which was on November. I wanted a child soooo bad. So, me and my husband has been trying to conceive ever since and I was quite surprise that... getting pregnant is actually not easy 😟 I started to feel so down. Felt so bad abt myself, and the topic about having kids is a very sensitive topic to me. I'm glad i listened to this podcast, thank you so much for sharing. I know Allah is still testing us, and because of that i know Allah really do care for us. In sha Allah one day, Allah will give me that rezeki. I start to put this sentence "selalu bersangka baik dengan Allah" as my everyday note and believe. Thank you again for the sharing and inspiring me to keep moving and trust the journey. Love from Malaysia 🥰
Masyallah… resonate sangat2 with todays topic. We have been TTC for 11years now. Agree sgt2 we TTC couple is truly happy for those who is given the rezeki but at the same time, the turmoil in us is also something truly difficult for us to go through! more of this should be shared and spoken out about. TTC is a topic that is rarely talked about in our community. May Allah swt give both you couples and all other couples who are TTC kekuatan to go through the challenges ahead.
Ya Allah. This podcast really meant something and really did change my perspective in seeing things. Just so you know that i've been listening to your podcast about marriage before i got married. You two even noticed me in TikTok live & comments and even wished me tahniah & goodluck for my wedding haritu. My husband & I got married young, i recently lost my job just right after i got married because of the airline that i worked with suddenly shut down. But Alhamdulillah, my husband still has a stable job. We don't even have our own house yet, currently living at my mom's house. And we've always talked about how we want to wait until we're financially stable enough to start planning for a baby. I am now married for 3 months already, lepas kahwin, i terus pergi buat lesen kereta because i still don't have one yet & i still don't know how to drive, so that i am able to find a job and is able to drive myself to work once i dah ada lesen kereta. But then, baru je lepas lulus ujian computer lesen memandu, i found out i was pregnant, of course we're both happy but deep inside i am scared and a little part of me says that i am actually not ready for this, i had plans but i have to pause every plan that i've had in my mind. I am two months into my pregnancy, of course hari2 i bersyukur & berdoa supaya baby ni sihat, and i know i will love this baby so much but there are times where i think about how much my life would change after having a child and how much responsibilities there are, and i fear that i might not be ready. After listening to your podcast, All of you ajar i untuk lebih LEBIH lagi bersyukur, sebab betul lah rezeki datang dalm banyak bentuk, some dah ada rumah sendiri, ada stable jobs, dah kaya, etc. And for me, even when i tak dapat lagi rezeki yang i plan in my mind, Allah masih limpahkan rezeki dalam bentuk2 lain, syukur Alhamdulillah. Thank you guys, semoga korang sentiasa tergolong dalam orang2 yang beriman, dipermudahkan urusan & dimurahkan rezeki. Podcast macam ni lah yang netizen kat Malaysia perlukan, beneficial for everyone.
Ya Allah… thank you so much for supporting us till now. Terharu nya kita dari sebelum kahwin sampai dah kahwin you masih dengar kita!! And alhamdulillah you dapat belanja banyak from our podcast. Thank you tau! Kita doakan yang terbaik untuk you🩷🩵🩷🩵
Ive met a mom that had tried and waited for 11 years for her first. I also have a cousin that tried for 9 years to finally have their first. They told me that they just had to keep trying, keep having faith in Allah and redha. May Allah ease your affairs and may you be blessed with many2 children insyaAllah.
My wife and I are currently in our six years in marriage, still waiting for our first. What a journey we had, been filled with happiness and emotional turmoil. Draining our savings and even sell the house just to afford treatment and unfortunately went through depression. Despite it all, alhamdulillah for this journey. Thank you so much for your podcasts, I’ve been following your podcasts for quite some time. I find them inspiring and uplifting, keeping me moving forward. Thank you and thank you so much. Love from Malaysia ❤
I have been married for almost 4 years. for us both of us have a problem.. we are both the youngest in the family & rapat sangat dengan anak2 buah, anak anak buah even called us mama & papa T__T we have been go to a few doctors & many told that the only solution is ivf, but we are not ready to going through it emotionally & physically. but deep inside we believe that our baby is still in heaven & waiting to go into our life T_T Saya nak minta tolong doakan saya dan suami agar kami juga dikurniakan rezeki zuriat
We're in the same shoes n im crying so much. This is not an easy journey but i believe Allah Maha Baik. One fine day. After we go thru frustration of unsuccessful ivf, we took a rest. What im trying to do now is to live my life to the fullest and i want to prepare myself to be ready. "Barulah Allah yakin nk bg kita tanggung jawab"(I don't know if it is good or not to say this) but this is what im telling myself. I need to be a good version of me by not focusing on zuriat only but my connection with Allah, manusia, sedekah n with other form of nikmat yg Dia bg. We need to change our point of view of this test n we will see the beauty of it. insyaAllah ❤
I also have 1 friend, her husband just like raihan also kena makan ubat doktor and husb dy ada makan madu khalta .then they go spend money for ivf then before the last step kuasa Allah, my friend got pregnant naturally. Alhamdulillah, bila kita redha and just follow the flow Allah terus bagi. Allah bagi di waktu yg tepat. While me still not yet, ttc 3 years. Sy doakan untuk semua para ttc just like me dikurniakan zuriat anak yg soleh dan solehah. Yakin dengan Allah
InsyaAllah one day u guys will have it. I myself, face it as im having problem with menses just come once yearly or never come at all but after 5 yrs waiting, Alhamdullillah i was given not 1 but 3(1-2 yrs apart) even without menses. Even dr says tht i cant have but dengan kuasa Allah, Alhamdullillah. Saya doakan u all out there who go thru this akan dikurniakan jua suatu hari nnti.
This podcast makes me look this life into different perspective. I'm reading the comments here, too. Not yet married, but I wanted too. Just like you guys said, Yakin dan syukur itu susah. Selepas banyak kali mencuba, berapa banyak peratus keyakinan itu tinggal? Syukur itu paling susah. Dengan pelbagai nikmat yang Allah dah bagi, cuma bila Dia tidak memberikan perkara yang paling kita inginkan, terus, segala nikmat yang diberi itu, ditolak ketepi. Allahu! Sayalah tu. Mendengar podcast dan membaca komen-komen, terus membuatkan saya tersedar! Buat Fara & husband, Raihan & wife, dan mereka yang menempuh ujian, semoga Allah kurniakan kesabaran yang tinggi. Semoga Allah mekarkan kasih sayang antara kalian dan sampai saat Allah membenarkan, kuatkan yakin. Amin Ya Allah.
The bestttt episode so far . Selalunya , kita x nampak perspective of man . What they are truly feel when they are broke inside . Btw, pleaseee provide a tissue kt atas mejaaa tuuu haahaahah i mcm nk bgi je tissue tu dekat guest !! 😂
Mashallah, my heart goes to all of u especially Fara. I may not be in ur predicament but ujian kita berbeza-beza tapi matlamat dia cuma 1, that is to 'yakin' with takdir Allah. And kalau dia rasa it is good for us, Allah akan beri pada kita. And if it is not, then either blm masanya, atau ditunda or Allah nak gantikan dgn yg lagi baik. And blajar untuk bersyukur dengan segalanya, even the little things. Inshallah. Saya doa Allah akan kurniakan Yanto and wifey zuriat di tahun 2024. Begutu jugak Raihan and wifey, semoga Allah kurniakan cahaya mata di tahun 2024. Inshallah Allahuma ameen 🤲🥰
I love the amount of vulnerability is shown in this video. I cried through this podcast all the way. I can't imagine how tough this must be for you guys. May Allah grant you all ease and happiness in building a good family one day. Ameen ❤️ Bless you❤️
Allahurabbi. Banyak ye airmata aku turun tgk content ni. Moga Allah hadirkan rezeki zuriat yg soleh dan solehah utk kita para ttc pada tahun ini. Aamiin ya mujib 🤲🏻🤍. Kite semua kuat 🫂. #ttc3years
This podcast had me crying at " Alhamdulillah anak kau sakit".. im been TTC for 2.5 y++ before...lama jugaa nak tunggu tu. Tapi skrg bila ada anak, sakit pun kadang questioned takdir kenapa anak aku selalu sakit? Kenapa asyik aku jek EL?Kenapa laaa tak bersyukuur.. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.
I love your podcast ! This episode really make me in tears 😢 Its so hard for being a TTC for 2 years . Memang senang cakap, suruh yakin dan sabar. Tapi nak act tu memang susah. Thank you for the podcast ! I feel so relieved 😊 Feels so comfort like friends talking about the same problems ❤
Takde anak mmg ujian. ada anak pun ujian sebenarnya.Sy meroyan lepas bersalin anak kedua.bersalin czer kerana rahim nipis.sakitnya sampai sy serik. Dari mroyan sy jadi depression sbb Sy terpaksa berhentti kerje. Sy tak tahan sabar dgn anak2. Anak2 sangat mguji kesabaran,mental, rohani, ekonomi. Masa anak demam,jaga anak siang mlm, bila anak dh baik, sy lak demam, letih bila start jadi suri rumah. Dengan pelbagai ancaman zaman modern ni. Kita takut apa nk jadi dgn Anak2. Kita jadi paranoid n overprotective. Dengan anak2 akan ikut seketul2 Kita ckp n buat. Ujian utk jaga kata2 n doa terutama ibu. Anak tak pandai, org kata. Anak tak lawa, org kata, manjakan anak Salah, garang dgn anak pun Salah. Belikan mainan bnyk Salah, tak belikan main pun Salah. Ajar membaca awla Salah, tak ajrar lgsg Salah. Bg susu ibu dh sememangnya bagus, dtg pula dtg susu formula bgs. Sbb tu ada mama yah yg marah n pukul anak la apa sbb tu ujian ada anak. Mungkin Allah nk awak bersabar n belajar tentang parenting supaya nanti ada anak ,U dh ready. Kita tak tahu. Don't worry, Kita ni Ada bahagian ujian masing2.
Terbaik…good sharing..just yakin dengan rezeki Allah SWT.. The day will come.. just dont stop usaha doa dan tawakal…ive been through this situation for the past 5 years with my wife..and finally this year my daughter was born… rezeki Allah tu akan tiba x lambat, x cepat tapi tepat pada masanya…Semoga dipermudahkan urusan dan dimurahkan rezeki utk menimang cahaya mata..aminnn
This podcast reminded me of Ali Imran 3:35. Where the wife of Imran (Maryam AS's mother) was praying to Allah, to dedicate whatever was in her womb to Allah. An ustazah used to share, actually she had waited for so long and she did not know that she was already pregnant at that time. She just made the dua, with full reliance on Allah, that she really wanted a child and she would dedicate her/him to Allah. MasyaAllah! May the moment of grief that all the TTC couples are experiencing would be rewarded in abundance. May Allah grant you guys beautiful children. Aameen ❤
semoga kita semua yg menanti zuriat di kurniakan zuriat yg soleh solehah one day hug 🫂 each other now 🥹 I nangis the whole vd 😞 I feel you guys so much & baru I faham kenapa husb I excited & always expecting a pregnancy every month 😞
I totally agree with them.. Its actually very easy to say and its very hard for those individuals going through this.. I work in this line for close to 20 yrs and I see loads of similar cases.. Every time i have patients like this, i will always give them encouragements... It will nt work easily instantly but you really have to have faith ,patiemce and keyakinan.. Its very hurting at times when we see cases that dont succeed. But miracles happen... I have patients that only after 10yrs even 15 yrs to get a baby... The main thing is nvr give up and support from each other is crutial .. Insyallah i doakan you guys have miracles happen insyallah soon... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ always stay positive guys!!
I always tell myself "Allah knows, Allah listens, Allah sees". He will give at the right time. I have my 1st at the age of 25 now he is 12 and wanting to have brother/sister. Trying for 6years now, went for all sorts of tests, injections, really took a toll on my mental & emotional health. I have a friend who have been trying for 12 years now and still trying. ALLAH KNOWS BEST. Teruskan usaha, doa jangan putus, solat malam, mengadu pd Allah, solat hajat, sedekah inshaa Allah, Allah akan hadirkan permata yg dinanti❤
Sy dan suami pon masih TTC after ank prtama kami mninggal dlm kndungn thn 2021. Sometimes at that point dtg trlintas, if Aku xdpt bg suami anak redha ke Aku utk bg suami kawin lain. Tapi suami slalu positif dn bg kata2 smngt utk Terus cuba
Really love this topic atleast can relief my feelings towards how badly i wanted a kids for my marriage. This month we both already 7years of waiting & still waiting & YAKIN. Rezeki Allah sangatttttt luas ibarat laut yang penuh dengan ikan. & we both will never choose to die because of lapar. Semoga ALLAH MAHA BAIK beri kesempatan buat Yanto & Fara. Raihan & Wife. Myself & husband untuk merasai nikmat sebagai parent in this world. Keep strong, We cried a lot already. Big hugs for you guys & all ttc couple. Love you guys. I will keep support OUTSIDEIN. Love from malaysia 🥰
Is not like we not happy for others, kita just feel jealous and asking ourself why.. why org lain senang je ada baby and yet we trying we not giving the chance yet😢
May both of you and raihan-doa for you all..May allah make you become parents one day as I also experience the pain..I and my wife got my first son after 5 year iui den after 7 year later we tried 3 time ivf to get second daughter..dont give up hope and stay united with each other for this marriage journey..may Allah ease your worries in this life.
episode ni best sangat dengan guest dan host yg sama ii feel the urge to get kids tu 😢 i yang belum kahwin pun ikut nangis sekali, terima kasih outside in 🎉
It is my first time to see this podcast and I am crying also sebab rasa benda yg sama tpy myself berada dlm posisi bila nak kawin. Why i still belum ada rezeki nak berjumpa dgn jodoh. Tapi i am okayyy 😢😊 semoga allah kurniakan kalian zuriat soleh dan solehah. Doakan saya juga semoga dipertemukan dgn jodoh yg soleh ❤
Mulut jahat biasanya datang dari si ibu² ( tak kisah la yg ibu muda/tua). Sampai hati sakitkan hati wanita lain dgn lisan dan perbuatan mereka walaupun punca tu datang dari para suami yg tak bekerjasama/ tidak subur. Lain penerimaan masyarakat terhadap wanita tak subur dengan lelaki tak subur.kalau dua2 sihat dan hubungan suami isteri tu baik je, cari lagi isu untuk sakitkan hati pasangan ttc ni. Contoh: "Untung la takde tanggungjawab, nak buat apa pun tak de yang ganggu. Ada duit je". Mungkin la kan si ibu² ni fikir, rezeki yg tuhan pinjamkan kepada mereka tu ,kekal milik mereka . Saya ttc tahun ke 6. Semakin lama keinginan tu makin tiada.
Kalau ditakdirkan tiada anak pun, itu lebih baik. Allah tahu kita mampu hadap ujian tiada anak, berbanding ujian ada anak. Antara ujian jadi ibu bapa,jadi ibu bapa derhaka ( atur anak ikut kehendak sendiri bukan ikut aturan tuhan dan akhlak buruk kerana status ibu bapa tu)
Im ttc 8 my at 2024, pernah keguguran time 4y marriage, so now saya masih mencuba mencuba, dan now i have diabetis so doc kata susah sgt2 nak prgnant, lagi hancur remuk, mohon semua doakan saya😭😭😭,
I have been married for 12 years. Alhamdullilah. Had many pregnancies but all resulted in miscarriages. Just keep faith that Allah is the best planner of all. I keep telling myself it is ok - Allah knows best even though I am broken. But yes He knows and come what may, it will eventually work out. In shaa Allah.
Berair mata… Teringat cousin dah 10 tahun kahwin and adiknya pun dah masuk tahun ke 5 masih belum dikurniakan anak. Semoga tahun 2024 ni mereka dikurniakan anak. Aminn..
MashaAllah....me and my husband went tru same journey. We married at 33, same age on 2017. Yes a bit late. But its jodoh..alhamdulilah.. since then we been trying. After 1 year we went to see Doctor get consult and do tests . We been to 3 Dr from 2018 , and did our first IUI on 2020, alhamdulilah, got positive results, but only last for 8weeks. Sad but feel happy at same time cause we know we can try again and it is possible for us. Apr 2021 we tried again, alhamdulilah he is 26month now. What I can share is, be supportive with each other. Share our thoughts with partner. Get understanding ,and be on same page , even just 2 of us until end, we will cherish it. Most improtant....husnuzon. bersangka baik dengan Allah..Allah know when is the best time ,when is the right time. Just have faith and husnuzon. Be happy to others, and keep praying. Of couse I always pray for anyone and everyone who is on TTC journey. ❤❤❤
awhhh, just see notification on my email. Thank you for pin on my comment huhuhu..i watch 2-3 times already and cried again and again huhu...just to keep me grounded and sentiasa bersyukur dengan semua kurniaan Allah. sekali lagi saya doakan semua pasangan yang masih menanti diberikan keteguhan hati dan kesabaran dan kegembiraan. Buat yang belum berkahwin, jaga kesihatan masing2 and just be happy in your life, jangan kesah sagnat ape orang kate, kawen lambat ke cepat ke..just be happy with your life...cherish all the time.
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my friend.. dia x pernah period langsung and hormone dia x balance. dia dah kawin for almost 5 years and dia nak sangat sangat ada anak sampai dia ada makan ubat hormone and dia ada buat juga ivf tapi most doctors said “ you memang x boleh pregnant. impossible.”
and guess what… she proves the doctor wrong! Dia baru je melahirkan and sekarang tengah berpantang! so pls, do not give up. Rezeki ni semua datang dari Allah. Nothing is impossible 💕
Masyallah… Kuasa Allah tu. Selalu nak kena yakin!!
Ada satu cerita from my circle of friends. Anak 4orang. Alhamdulillah smua kerja bagus dn sudh berkahwin. Takdir Allah SWT. Suami mninggal.. dan si ibu jatuh sakit selepas beberapa tahun kemudian. Harta bnyak. Tapi.. beliau trpaksa tnggal di rumah orang tua sbb anak2 sibuk kerja tak ada siapa jaga. Takdir Allah SWT jugak..si ibu mninggal di rumah orang tua trsebut baru beberapa bulan lepas.
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Moral of the story: I always said to sape2 yg blom allah kurniakn rezeki zuriat kturunn… Sntiasa sebut “Alhamdulillah” sbb kamu tak ada dosa dgn anak2. Meanwhile, kami yg ada anak2 kami bnyk dosa dgn mereka dan mereka juga berbuat dosa dgn kami. Semua terletak pada ujian yg allah berikan.
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Kepada yg sudah jadi ibubapa..Alhamdulillah Tahniah..didiklah anak2 dgn ilmu agama, adab & akhlak.
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Kepada yg blum dikurniakan rezeki ada anak. Saya doakan kalian akan diberi rezeki zuriat keturunan soleh&solehah pada masa yg tepat seperti janji Allah. Allahumma Aminn.
Allahu.. thank you share story ni. Banyak yang boleh dipelajari 🩵🩷
I've only been married for 1 year plus (this year will be my second year). At first, we wanted to hold first on the child as we want to have our own honeymoon phase, and I was not thinking of having a child so soon too. But then, at the end of last year which was on November. I wanted a child soooo bad. So, me and my husband has been trying to conceive ever since and I was quite surprise that... getting pregnant is actually not easy 😟 I started to feel so down. Felt so bad abt myself, and the topic about having kids is a very sensitive topic to me. I'm glad i listened to this podcast, thank you so much for sharing. I know Allah is still testing us, and because of that i know Allah really do care for us. In sha Allah one day, Allah will give me that rezeki. I start to put this sentence "selalu bersangka baik dengan Allah" as my everyday note and believe. Thank you again for the sharing and inspiring me to keep moving and trust the journey. Love from Malaysia 🥰
Eh sama lah bunyi cerita kita.. 🩷🩵 in shaa Allah you akan dapat! Kita rancang but Allah is the best planner 🥹
Masyallah… resonate sangat2 with todays topic. We have been TTC for 11years now. Agree sgt2 we TTC couple is truly happy for those who is given the rezeki but at the same time, the turmoil in us is also something truly difficult for us to go through! more of this should be shared and spoken out about. TTC is a topic that is rarely talked about in our community. May Allah swt give both you couples and all other couples who are TTC kekuatan to go through the challenges ahead.
Ya Allah. This podcast really meant something and really did change my perspective in seeing things. Just so you know that i've been listening to your podcast about marriage before i got married. You two even noticed me in TikTok live & comments and even wished me tahniah & goodluck for my wedding haritu. My husband & I got married young, i recently lost my job just right after i got married because of the airline that i worked with suddenly shut down. But Alhamdulillah, my husband still has a stable job. We don't even have our own house yet, currently living at my mom's house. And we've always talked about how we want to wait until we're financially stable enough to start planning for a baby. I am now married for 3 months already, lepas kahwin, i terus pergi buat lesen kereta because i still don't have one yet & i still don't know how to drive, so that i am able to find a job and is able to drive myself to work once i dah ada lesen kereta. But then, baru je lepas lulus ujian computer lesen memandu, i found out i was pregnant, of course we're both happy but deep inside i am scared and a little part of me says that i am actually not ready for this, i had plans but i have to pause every plan that i've had in my mind. I am two months into my pregnancy, of course hari2 i bersyukur & berdoa supaya baby ni sihat, and i know i will love this baby so much but there are times where i think about how much my life would change after having a child and how much responsibilities there are, and i fear that i might not be ready. After listening to your podcast, All of you ajar i untuk lebih LEBIH lagi bersyukur, sebab betul lah rezeki datang dalm banyak bentuk, some dah ada rumah sendiri, ada stable jobs, dah kaya, etc. And for me, even when i tak dapat lagi rezeki yang i plan in my mind, Allah masih limpahkan rezeki dalam bentuk2 lain, syukur Alhamdulillah. Thank you guys, semoga korang sentiasa tergolong dalam orang2 yang beriman, dipermudahkan urusan & dimurahkan rezeki. Podcast macam ni lah yang netizen kat Malaysia perlukan, beneficial for everyone.
Ya Allah… thank you so much for supporting us till now. Terharu nya kita dari sebelum kahwin sampai dah kahwin you masih dengar kita!! And alhamdulillah you dapat belanja banyak from our podcast. Thank you tau! Kita doakan yang terbaik untuk you🩷🩵🩷🩵
Ive met a mom that had tried and waited for 11 years for her first. I also have a cousin that tried for 9 years to finally have their first. They told me that they just had to keep trying, keep having faith in Allah and redha. May Allah ease your affairs and may you be blessed with many2 children insyaAllah.
Yupp last week my cousin just had their first after 12 years of their marriage. Feel so happy for them.
MasyaAllah in shaa Allah amin amin!!
My wife and I are currently in our six years in marriage, still waiting for our first. What a journey we had, been filled with happiness and emotional turmoil. Draining our savings and even sell the house just to afford treatment and unfortunately went through depression. Despite it all, alhamdulillah for this journey. Thank you so much for your podcasts, I’ve been following your podcasts for quite some time. I find them inspiring and uplifting, keeping me moving forward. Thank you and thank you so much. Love from Malaysia ❤
Ya Allah.. sending you lots of love!! Thank you so much for supporting us 🩷🩵
I have been married for almost 4 years. for us both of us have a problem.. we are both the youngest in the family & rapat sangat dengan anak2 buah, anak anak buah even called us mama & papa T__T we have been go to a few doctors & many told that the only solution is ivf, but we are not ready to going through it emotionally & physically. but deep inside we believe that our baby is still in heaven & waiting to go into our life T_T Saya nak minta tolong doakan saya dan suami agar kami juga dikurniakan rezeki zuriat
We're in the same shoes n im crying so much. This is not an easy journey but i believe Allah Maha Baik. One fine day. After we go thru frustration of unsuccessful ivf, we took a rest. What im trying to do now is to live my life to the fullest and i want to prepare myself to be ready. "Barulah Allah yakin nk bg kita tanggung jawab"(I don't know if it is good or not to say this) but this is what im telling myself. I need to be a good version of me by not focusing on zuriat only but my connection with Allah, manusia, sedekah n with other form of nikmat yg Dia bg. We need to change our point of view of this test n we will see the beauty of it. insyaAllah ❤
I'm not even married but your story make me sobbing bad, my dooa the best for you, INSHALLAH ❤
Aww sodeh 🥹🥹 but masyallah thank you so much! In Shaa Allah amin amin! 🩷🩵
I also have 1 friend, her husband just like raihan also kena makan ubat doktor and husb dy ada makan madu khalta .then they go spend money for ivf then before the last step kuasa Allah, my friend got pregnant naturally. Alhamdulillah, bila kita redha and just follow the flow Allah terus bagi. Allah bagi di waktu yg tepat. While me still not yet, ttc 3 years. Sy doakan untuk semua para ttc just like me dikurniakan zuriat anak yg soleh dan solehah. Yakin dengan Allah
Masyallah alhamdulillah! Terima kasih in shaa Allah! Kita doakan you jugak 🩷🩵
😭😭😭😭😭 MashaAllah. Sedihnye!! U all stay strong k?
I will always doakan both couple to get a chance to be a parents soon
We’ll get our angel this year. Keep believing ❤️🌸
In shaa Allah amin. Yes! Don’t lose hope
InsyaAllah one day u guys will have it. I myself, face it as im having problem with menses just come once yearly or never come at all but after 5 yrs waiting, Alhamdullillah i was given not 1 but 3(1-2 yrs apart) even without menses. Even dr says tht i cant have but dengan kuasa Allah, Alhamdullillah. Saya doakan u all out there who go thru this akan dikurniakan jua suatu hari nnti.
This podcast makes me look this life into different perspective. I'm reading the comments here, too. Not yet married, but I wanted too. Just like you guys said, Yakin dan syukur itu susah. Selepas banyak kali mencuba, berapa banyak peratus keyakinan itu tinggal? Syukur itu paling susah. Dengan pelbagai nikmat yang Allah dah bagi, cuma bila Dia tidak memberikan perkara yang paling kita inginkan, terus, segala nikmat yang diberi itu, ditolak ketepi. Allahu! Sayalah tu. Mendengar podcast dan membaca komen-komen, terus membuatkan saya tersedar! Buat Fara & husband, Raihan & wife, dan mereka yang menempuh ujian, semoga Allah kurniakan kesabaran yang tinggi. Semoga Allah mekarkan kasih sayang antara kalian dan sampai saat Allah membenarkan, kuatkan yakin. Amin Ya Allah.
Awww! Thank you for watching. In shaa Allah amin amin!! 🩵🩷
The bestttt episode so far . Selalunya , kita x nampak perspective of man . What they are truly feel when they are broke inside . Btw, pleaseee provide a tissue kt atas mejaaa tuuu haahaahah i mcm nk bgi je tissue tu dekat guest !! 😂
Alamak tu la!! Lupa pulak sediakan tissue. Kira ingat kuat la takkan nangis. Tapi last2 satu2 semua banjirrr 🥹🥹🥹🥹
Mashallah, my heart goes to all of u especially Fara. I may not be in ur predicament but ujian kita berbeza-beza tapi matlamat dia cuma 1, that is to 'yakin' with takdir Allah. And kalau dia rasa it is good for us, Allah akan beri pada kita. And if it is not, then either blm masanya, atau ditunda or Allah nak gantikan dgn yg lagi baik. And blajar untuk bersyukur dengan segalanya, even the little things. Inshallah.
Saya doa Allah akan kurniakan Yanto and wifey zuriat di tahun 2024. Begutu jugak Raihan and wifey, semoga Allah kurniakan cahaya mata di tahun 2024. Inshallah Allahuma ameen 🤲🥰
Ya Allah thank you so much. Betul.. Kita hais yakin dan terus usaha. 2024 eh in Sha Allah amin amin!! 🩷🩵
I love the amount of vulnerability is shown in this video. I cried through this podcast all the way. I can't imagine how tough this must be for you guys. May Allah grant you all ease and happiness in building a good family one day. Ameen ❤️
Bless you❤️
In shaa Allah amin!! 🩵🩷
Allahurabbi. Banyak ye airmata aku turun tgk content ni. Moga Allah hadirkan rezeki zuriat yg soleh dan solehah utk kita para ttc pada tahun ini. Aamiin ya mujib 🤲🏻🤍. Kite semua kuat 🫂. #ttc3years
In shaa Allah amin amin! 🥹🩷🩵
This podcast had me crying at " Alhamdulillah anak kau sakit".. im been TTC for 2.5 y++ before...lama jugaa nak tunggu tu. Tapi skrg bila ada anak, sakit pun kadang questioned takdir kenapa anak aku selalu sakit? Kenapa asyik aku jek EL?Kenapa laaa tak bersyukuur.. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.
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I love your podcast ! This episode really make me in tears 😢 Its so hard for being a TTC for 2 years . Memang senang cakap, suruh yakin dan sabar. Tapi nak act tu memang susah. Thank you for the podcast ! I feel so relieved 😊 Feels so comfort like friends talking about the same problems ❤
Takde anak mmg ujian. ada anak pun ujian sebenarnya.Sy meroyan lepas bersalin anak kedua.bersalin czer kerana rahim nipis.sakitnya sampai sy serik. Dari mroyan sy jadi depression sbb Sy terpaksa berhentti kerje. Sy tak tahan sabar dgn anak2. Anak2 sangat mguji kesabaran,mental, rohani, ekonomi. Masa anak demam,jaga anak siang mlm, bila anak dh baik, sy lak demam, letih bila start jadi suri rumah. Dengan pelbagai ancaman zaman modern ni. Kita takut apa nk jadi dgn Anak2. Kita jadi paranoid n overprotective. Dengan anak2 akan ikut seketul2 Kita ckp n buat. Ujian utk jaga kata2 n doa terutama ibu.
Anak tak pandai, org kata. Anak tak lawa, org kata, manjakan anak Salah, garang dgn anak pun Salah. Belikan mainan bnyk Salah, tak belikan main pun Salah. Ajar membaca awla Salah, tak ajrar lgsg Salah. Bg susu ibu dh sememangnya bagus, dtg pula dtg susu formula bgs.
Sbb tu ada mama yah yg marah n pukul anak la apa sbb tu ujian ada anak.
Mungkin Allah nk awak bersabar n belajar tentang parenting supaya nanti ada anak ,U dh ready. Kita tak tahu. Don't worry, Kita ni Ada bahagian ujian masing2.
Aww thank you for supporting us!! 🩷🩵
Terbaik…good sharing..just yakin dengan rezeki Allah SWT.. The day will come.. just dont stop usaha doa dan tawakal…ive been through this situation for the past 5 years with my wife..and finally this year my daughter was born… rezeki Allah tu akan tiba x lambat, x cepat tapi tepat pada masanya…Semoga dipermudahkan urusan dan dimurahkan rezeki utk menimang cahaya mata..aminnn
Alhamdulillah! Thank you so much🩷🩵
This podcast reminded me of Ali Imran 3:35. Where the wife of Imran (Maryam AS's mother) was praying to Allah, to dedicate whatever was in her womb to Allah. An ustazah used to share, actually she had waited for so long and she did not know that she was already pregnant at that time. She just made the dua, with full reliance on Allah, that she really wanted a child and she would dedicate her/him to Allah. MasyaAllah!
May the moment of grief that all the TTC couples are experiencing would be rewarded in abundance. May Allah grant you guys beautiful children.
Aameen ❤
Masyallah… thank you sharing 🥹🥹🩷🩵
semoga kita semua yg menanti zuriat di kurniakan zuriat yg soleh solehah one day hug 🫂 each other now 🥹 I nangis the whole vd 😞 I feel you guys so much & baru I faham kenapa husb I excited & always expecting a pregnancy every month 😞
i’m not even married or ttc but this podcast made me cry. semoga Allah SWT permudahkan urusan for you guys.
I totally agree with them.. Its actually very easy to say and its very hard for those individuals going through this.. I work in this line for close to 20 yrs and I see loads of similar cases.. Every time i have patients like this, i will always give them encouragements... It will nt work easily instantly but you really have to have faith ,patiemce and keyakinan.. Its very hurting at times when we see cases that dont succeed. But miracles happen... I have patients that only after 10yrs even 15 yrs to get a baby... The main thing is nvr give up and support from each other is crutial .. Insyallah i doakan you guys have miracles happen insyallah soon... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ always stay positive guys!!
In Sha Allah amin!! 🩷🩵
I always tell myself "Allah knows, Allah listens, Allah sees". He will give at the right time. I have my 1st at the age of 25 now he is 12 and wanting to have brother/sister. Trying for 6years now, went for all sorts of tests, injections, really took a toll on my mental & emotional health. I have a friend who have been trying for 12 years now and still trying. ALLAH KNOWS BEST. Teruskan usaha, doa jangan putus, solat malam, mengadu pd Allah, solat hajat, sedekah inshaa Allah, Allah akan hadirkan permata yg dinanti❤
Betul! Allah knows best 🩷🩵
Sy dan suami pon masih TTC after ank prtama kami mninggal dlm kndungn thn 2021. Sometimes at that point dtg trlintas, if Aku xdpt bg suami anak redha ke Aku utk bg suami kawin lain. Tapi suami slalu positif dn bg kata2 smngt utk Terus cuba
Ya Allah.. alhamdulillah you ada suami yang sangat sangat supportive 🩷🩵
Saw someone repost this podcast on twitter and it really touched my heart❤
Oooh dari twitter.. Thank you for watching!!
Really love this topic atleast can relief my feelings towards how badly i wanted a kids for my marriage. This month we both already 7years of waiting & still waiting & YAKIN. Rezeki Allah sangatttttt luas ibarat laut yang penuh dengan ikan. & we both will never choose to die because of lapar. Semoga ALLAH MAHA BAIK beri kesempatan buat Yanto & Fara. Raihan & Wife. Myself & husband untuk merasai nikmat sebagai parent in this world. Keep strong, We cried a lot already. Big hugs for you guys & all ttc couple. Love you guys. I will keep support OUTSIDEIN. Love from malaysia 🥰
Masyallah thank you support kita!! 🩷🩵🥹🥹
Is not like we not happy for others, kita just feel jealous and asking ourself why.. why org lain senang je ada baby and yet we trying we not giving the chance yet😢
Bedek la cakap kita tak affected la kan.. kita doakan you akan dapat zuriat one day. In shaa Allah amin amin!! 🩷🩵
May both of you and raihan-doa for you all..May allah make you become parents one day as I also experience the pain..I and my wife got my first son after 5 year iui den after 7 year later we tried 3 time ivf to get second daughter..dont give up hope and stay united with each other for this marriage journey..may Allah ease your worries in this life.
Thank you so much! In shaa Allah amin amin!
i feel u but keep doa..insyaAllah..Allah know us better..
In shaa Allah amin amin 🩷🩵
episode ni best sangat dengan guest dan host yg sama ii feel the urge to get kids tu 😢 i yang belum kahwin pun ikut nangis sekali, terima kasih outside in 🎉
Terima kasih support kita tau!! 🩷🩵
Pleaseee do the next episode for this topic with raihan wife also...
Isteri Raihan orang nya pemalu.. 🥹🥹
Hi. Just a suggestion probably you guys could invite Dawn Prima Ria couple to share her IVF stories 🎉
In shaa Allah kalau ada rezeki!!
I cried badly during this podcast😭😭😭 even my hingus keep keluar😭😭😭😭 i also ttc for 3 yearsss
Alamak hingus tuuu 🥹
It is my first time to see this podcast and I am crying also sebab rasa benda yg sama tpy myself berada dlm posisi bila nak kawin. Why i still belum ada rezeki nak berjumpa dgn jodoh. Tapi i am okayyy 😢😊 semoga allah kurniakan kalian zuriat soleh dan solehah. Doakan saya juga semoga dipertemukan dgn jodoh yg soleh ❤
Aww thank you for watching! Yes kita doakan you dapat jodoh yang terbaik untuk you
aamin aamin thankyou!@@outsideinsg
Im not even married yet but when i saw this, i keep on cry. May allah grant you a beautiful son and daughter, aamiin aamiin ❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭
Awww thank you! Kita nangis sama2. In shaa Allah amin🩷🩵
Mulut jahat biasanya datang dari si ibu² ( tak kisah la yg ibu muda/tua). Sampai hati sakitkan hati wanita lain dgn lisan dan perbuatan mereka walaupun punca tu datang dari para suami yg tak bekerjasama/ tidak subur. Lain penerimaan masyarakat terhadap wanita tak subur dengan lelaki tak subur.kalau dua2 sihat dan hubungan suami isteri tu baik je, cari lagi isu untuk sakitkan hati pasangan ttc ni. Contoh: "Untung la takde tanggungjawab, nak buat apa pun tak de yang ganggu. Ada duit je".
Mungkin la kan si ibu² ni fikir, rezeki yg tuhan pinjamkan kepada mereka tu ,kekal milik mereka .
Saya ttc tahun ke 6. Semakin lama keinginan tu makin tiada.
Kalau ditakdirkan tiada anak pun, itu lebih baik. Allah tahu kita mampu hadap ujian tiada anak, berbanding ujian ada anak. Antara ujian jadi ibu bapa,jadi ibu bapa derhaka ( atur anak ikut kehendak sendiri bukan ikut aturan tuhan dan akhlak buruk kerana status ibu bapa tu)
I am crying. 😢
Im ttc 8 my at 2024, pernah keguguran time 4y marriage, so now saya masih mencuba mencuba, dan now i have diabetis so doc kata susah sgt2 nak prgnant, lagi hancur remuk, mohon semua doakan saya😭😭😭,
it's okay babe, Allah yang bagi rezeki kat you. Semoga you diberikan rezeki anak secepat mungkin ❤
@@mrly4 tq babe 😭😭🥰🥰🥰
Kita doakan you in shaa Allah amin!
Understand so much 😢
Thank you for sharing this tender moment with us. May Allah ease your journey and give you hikmah n barakah in everything you go through.
Thank you.. in shaa Allah amin amin 🩷🩵
Allah know when d time is right. We've been waiting 6 yrs. n now we have 2 kids. Alhamdulillah ❤
Alhamdulillah! 🩷🩵
I have been married for 12 years. Alhamdullilah. Had many pregnancies but all resulted in miscarriages. Just keep faith that Allah is the best planner of all. I keep telling myself it is ok - Allah knows best even though I am broken. But yes He knows and come what may, it will eventually work out. In shaa Allah.
Assalamualaikum. Mohon semua doakan untuk saya juga yang masih belum dikurniakan anak. perancangan Allah hebat. Mungkin ada hikmah yang menanti.
Waalaikumsalam! Kita doakan you 🩵🩷
Berair mata… Teringat cousin dah 10 tahun kahwin and adiknya pun dah masuk tahun ke 5 masih belum dikurniakan anak. Semoga tahun 2024 ni mereka dikurniakan anak. Aminn..
mulut ckp yakin,redha tp klu da ddk kt tmpt TTC smua tu x mudah..
Sedap lah bunyi mic semua, mcm smooth. Mic apa tu?
MasyaAllah thank you.. biasa2 je hehe. Kita pakai Rode Podmic and Shure MV7 ☺️
Im crying 😭
Smg Allah mengurniakan kalian zuriat yg soleh dan soleha.. aamin ❤️
MasyaAllah terima kasih in shaa Allah amin amin🩷🩵
crying😢..
For the ending of the podcast - InshAllah may Allah give the rezeki at the perfect time ameen ameen ameen
In shaa Allah amin amin! 🩵🩷
❤ semoga Allah mengurniakan rezeki zuriat
In shaa Allah amin amin.. Terima kasih 🩷🩵
whats an emotional episode 😭 full of tears.....
i cried
What if the problem actually from your wife? Would u stay or find someone else?
tiktok brings me here ❤
Siapa Ya guest ni?
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MashaAllah....me and my husband went tru same journey. We married at 33, same age on 2017. Yes a bit late. But its jodoh..alhamdulilah.. since then we been trying. After 1 year we went to see Doctor get consult and do tests . We been to 3 Dr from 2018 , and did our first IUI on 2020, alhamdulilah, got positive results, but only last for 8weeks. Sad but feel happy at same time cause we know we can try again and it is possible for us. Apr 2021 we tried again, alhamdulilah he is 26month now.
What I can share is, be supportive with each other. Share our thoughts with partner. Get understanding ,and be on same page , even just 2 of us until end, we will cherish it.
Most improtant....husnuzon. bersangka baik dengan Allah..Allah know when is the best time ,when is the right time. Just have faith and husnuzon. Be happy to others, and keep praying. Of couse I always pray for anyone and everyone who is on TTC journey. ❤❤❤
awhhh, just see notification on my email. Thank you for pin on my comment huhuhu..i watch 2-3 times already and cried again and again huhu...just to keep me grounded and sentiasa bersyukur dengan semua kurniaan Allah. sekali lagi saya doakan semua pasangan yang masih menanti diberikan keteguhan hati dan kesabaran dan kegembiraan. Buat yang belum berkahwin, jaga kesihatan masing2 and just be happy in your life, jangan kesah sagnat ape orang kate, kawen lambat ke cepat ke..just be happy with your life...cherish all the time.
I'm crying so bad rn. Banjir sudah 🥹