OUTSIDEIN Podcast
OUTSIDEIN Podcast
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"Aku Kena Sepak on Our Wedding Night" & 3 Tools For A More Effective Communication
Hi guys! Today on top of sharing an #INSIDER's submission, we are going to share about what we have learnt from our recent talk with Casa Raudha 'The C in Marriage- Consent & Communication'. We appreciate all your submission, keep it coming! To submit a story, you can scan the QR code in our episodes or visit our website at www.outsideinsg.com/ -- 'Submit A Story'
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Aku Anak Luar Nikah with Alcoholic Mom & Abusive DadAku Anak Luar Nikah with Alcoholic Mom & Abusive Dad
Aku Anak Luar Nikah with Alcoholic Mom & Abusive Dad
Просмотров 3,1 тыс.6 дней назад
Hari ni episode berat you guys. That's why we need Ustazah Hidayah back again with us to help Hani out. She has been through a lot from being stereotyped anak luar nikah, an alcoholic mom & an abusive dad. Banyak persoalan yang dia ada selama ni. InsyaAllah this episode might help some of you guys out there too. This podcast is brought to you by Sri Kandi Associates. Selling solutions, not prom...
"Breaking Ties With My In-Laws" Kenapa Masalah Mertua Menantu Selalu Ada?"Breaking Ties With My In-Laws" Kenapa Masalah Mertua Menantu Selalu Ada?
"Breaking Ties With My In-Laws" Kenapa Masalah Mertua Menantu Selalu Ada?
Просмотров 7548 дней назад
Salam guys! We have received lots of submission from you guys regarding issues with in-laws. So we thought we would bring over Ustaz Haziq to discuss some burning questions! Speaking of, on the 19th October, 2-6PM- we will be moderators for Pertapis Forum Kasih Antara Usia! Where we will dive into a thrilling discussion aimed at deepening the bonds between married couples and their in-laws 💚✨ W...
Harris Baba Singaporean Pakistani & Sabahan Wife Love StoryHarris Baba Singaporean Pakistani & Sabahan Wife Love Story
Harris Baba Singaporean Pakistani & Sabahan Wife Love Story
Просмотров 79113 дней назад
This week on the podcast, we’re thrilled to welcome Harris Baba, former artist turned entertainment mogul behind Jeeharris Entertainment! 🎉 Join us as we dive into Harris’s inspiring journey of marrying into a different family and how it’s shaped his life and career. With three beautiful kids and a thriving life in Sabah, he shares heartfelt insights on family, culture, and the magic of blendin...
"My Partners Wants to Delay Our Wedding Another 6 Years" & "MuzMatch Gone Wrong!""My Partners Wants to Delay Our Wedding Another 6 Years" & "MuzMatch Gone Wrong!"
"My Partners Wants to Delay Our Wedding Another 6 Years" & "MuzMatch Gone Wrong!"
Просмотров 57815 дней назад
Pillow Talk time! First submission is by a young listener asking for advice. Korang dengar cerita dia and tolong comment your thoughts on it jugak tau! Second submission is about how listener kita kena tipu dengan not just one, but 2 married men! Aduh.. scary jugak dating nowadays eh. You can submit your stories too via the QR code on your screens or visit our website at www.outsideinsg.com "Su...
Anniversary Trip Gone Wrong Near Fatal Jetski AccidentAnniversary Trip Gone Wrong Near Fatal Jetski Accident
Anniversary Trip Gone Wrong Near Fatal Jetski Accident
Просмотров 56020 дней назад
Hi guys! Today we have Kak Dian with us to share about a harrowing experience that not only affected her but her entire family. We left the recording feeling inspired. We hope you do too! Semoga bermanfaat insyaAllah. This podcast is brought to you by Sri Kandi Associates. Selling solutions, not promises. For your property matters, contact them at: 📞 8788 3559 @ @srikandi.associates Follow us o...
Would We Date Each Other In Sec School? & Submission "My Sperm Has Low Mobility"Would We Date Each Other In Sec School? & Submission "My Sperm Has Low Mobility"
Would We Date Each Other In Sec School? & Submission "My Sperm Has Low Mobility"
Просмотров 38822 дня назад
Hi guys! We just thought it would be fun to discuss the topic of whether we would like each other in secondary school. You can ask your spouses this question too and have fun with it! We also read one submission from our #INSIDER about his infertility issue. Want to submit your own story? Scan the QR code in the episode! This podcast is brought to you by Your Reno Works If you're looking for a ...
I Regret Blaming My Husband For My Motorcycle AccidentI Regret Blaming My Husband For My Motorcycle Accident
I Regret Blaming My Husband For My Motorcycle Accident
Просмотров 77527 дней назад
It all started with a major hit and run motorcycle accident before their wedding. Putri lost so much- her career, her mobility. On top of that, Putri and husband was tested once more with their son's condition and more external factors. It all felt too much for Putri that she even asked for divorce. Lots of lessons we can learn from her experience. We hope this episode will be a beneficial one ...
Can Secrets Break A Marriage? "My Husband Likes To Wear Diapers & Baby Clothes"Can Secrets Break A Marriage? "My Husband Likes To Wear Diapers & Baby Clothes"
Can Secrets Break A Marriage? "My Husband Likes To Wear Diapers & Baby Clothes"
Просмотров 2,1 тыс.29 дней назад
Can secrets break a marriage? We have Ustazah Hidayah with us this episode to nagivate through this topic. We also will be discussing about a submission where a listener shares how her husband likes to wear diapers, bangun tidur diaper basah, suka pakai baby clothes. Alhamdulillah Ustazah Hidayah also shares dimes of reflections that we can think about for our marriages. Nak tahu apa? Tune into...
Unspoken Feelings & Thoughts of A Divorcee & Single MotherUnspoken Feelings & Thoughts of A Divorcee & Single Mother
Unspoken Feelings & Thoughts of A Divorcee & Single Mother
Просмотров 1,1 тыс.Месяц назад
Korang pernah tak ada kawan atau ahli keluarga yang going through something tough in their life. Pastu you tanya dorang "How are you doing? Are you okay?" 9 out 10 times they will answer, "I okay je alhamdulillah. Biasalah Allah nak uji but I'm okay." But today, Sheila will give us a peek into her inner feelings and thoughts about her experience of going through a divorce and having to raise 2 ...
"My Wife Got Pregnant With Another Man's Child Again While We Were Married""My Wife Got Pregnant With Another Man's Child Again While We Were Married"
"My Wife Got Pregnant With Another Man's Child Again While We Were Married"
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.Месяц назад
#INSIDER's submission! You'd think these kinds of things only happen in movies or dramas. But these are real life stories some of you guys are going through. Kita akan selalu doakan your rumahtangga akan dilindungi & diberkati hingga ke jannah amin amin! This podcast is brought to you by Your Reno Works If you're looking for a trustworthy, dependable and responsible interior contractors for you...
Kakak Dah Tak Sayang Kita Ke? Kalau Tahu, Tak Kasi Kakak KahwinKakak Dah Tak Sayang Kita Ke? Kalau Tahu, Tak Kasi Kakak Kahwin
Kakak Dah Tak Sayang Kita Ke? Kalau Tahu, Tak Kasi Kakak Kahwin
Просмотров 752Месяц назад
When you're a caregiver for your 9 & 7 year old siblings, macam mana agaknya nak handle lepas dah kahwin. Budak2 ni masih kecik lagi, masih lagi mengharapkan kita 🥺 This podcast is brought to you by Your Reno Works If you're looking for a trustworthy, dependable and responsible interior contractors for your home, contact YOUR RENO WORKS at 📞 83837879 @ @yourrenoworks 🌐 www.yourrenoworks.com YOU...
"Suami Suruh I Keluar Rumah Sebab Depression""Suami Suruh I Keluar Rumah Sebab Depression"
"Suami Suruh I Keluar Rumah Sebab Depression"
Просмотров 590Месяц назад
Kalau your partner have obvious depressive symptoms tapi tak nak open up. Lepas tu dia suruh you keluar rumah pergi rumah adik you. How would you feel? What would you do? This podcast is brought to you by Sri Kandi Associates. Selling solutions, not promises. For your property matters, contact them at: 📞 8788 3559 @ @srikandi.associates Follow us on all our socials: IG: @outsideinsg Tiktok: @ou...
Step Father Molest Aku Tapi Mak Aku Tak PercayaStep Father Molest Aku Tapi Mak Aku Tak Percaya
Step Father Molest Aku Tapi Mak Aku Tak Percaya
Просмотров 1,8 тыс.Месяц назад
Trigger warning. Today 'Nina; will be sharing a traumatic experience from her childhood. We thank her for her courage and vulnerability. Ada ke happy ending to this dark childhood? Tune in to find out. InsyaAllah this episode will benefit us all. And if anyone who has gone through something like Nina, we encourage you to please find help. We are here for you 🩷🩵 This podcast is brought to you by...
“Ex Gunakan Aku Untuk Duit” & Post Pregnancy Tips“Ex Gunakan Aku Untuk Duit” & Post Pregnancy Tips
“Ex Gunakan Aku Untuk Duit” & Post Pregnancy Tips
Просмотров 488Месяц назад
We're taking this opportunity to read on more submissions! Thank you for submitting guys. Hari ini kita share 2 kisah. The first one kita share tips dari #Insider untuk semua new mummies and future mummies! Second story pulak.. cerita hangat, #insider kita dipergunakan untuk duit dia. Tapi ada happy ending tak? Nak tahu? Jom dengar sama sama! This podcast is brought to you by Sri Kandi Associat...

Комментарии

  • @ayliz8153
    @ayliz8153 День назад

    Apa jadi dgn mamat yg langgar tu? Tak report ke?

  • @sorayasaff4282
    @sorayasaff4282 3 дня назад

    Thank u for honouring our precious sister by totally darkened her silhouette. Saw many interviews where they merely blur the person’s face and the person’s face and identity is still clear. It upsets me when mainstream media dont really respect the interviewees. Ps:// If you are reading this sis, pray that you are able to have your own house and feel peace in it with people who make u feel safe, secure, loved, respected and that they make u feel at home❤ May All the pain you go through in this life be a reason you enter jannah without hisab/questioning. And may your state in Akhirah be eased and may you feel at home in jannah where you will live therein forever in bliss.

  • @13meztupkid
    @13meztupkid 5 дней назад

    My favourite ustazah ❤❤❤

  • @RinaAbuBakar-z1d
    @RinaAbuBakar-z1d 5 дней назад

    *Hugs*

  • @lamalifmim
    @lamalifmim 5 дней назад

    PERMANENT SERIES WITH STAZA YAYA

  • @wansolehah2256
    @wansolehah2256 6 дней назад

    Okay permanent ustazah!

  • @zawakhirmohamedshaharoun4965
    @zawakhirmohamedshaharoun4965 6 дней назад

    Allah SWT is the most forgiving and more gentle than a mother towards her toddler.Whatever happens in the past Allah SWT will always forgive His servant .So never never lose faith in Islam .A prostitute was forgiven and entered paradise for helping a thirsty dog to drink using her slipper to scoop water from a well.How merciful is Allah to all His creations.So.Hani, heed the advice of the Ustazah and insyaallah You will be fine throughout this journey in life.aamiin.

  • @lunastarr1925
    @lunastarr1925 6 дней назад

    u were a most precious baby....don feel inferior bcoz Allah swt loves u.....❤❤❤❤

  • @fair_re
    @fair_re 11 дней назад

    wow lama tak nampak harris🌷

  • @lunastarr1925
    @lunastarr1925 14 дней назад

    Miracles happen.....Miracles are from Allah swt.....dont ever forget that, my sister in syahadah❤❤❤❤❤

  • @MstRima-f7r
    @MstRima-f7r 15 дней назад

    U need a professional RUclips video SEO expert?

  • @lunastarr1925
    @lunastarr1925 18 дней назад

    Subahanallah...Allah kan ada...coming frm a taatooed lady😢😢😢😢... that tells us that Allah swt is not judgemental

  • @riniyannie5452
    @riniyannie5452 20 дней назад

    😭😭😭😭😭 MashaAllah. Sedihnye!! U all stay strong k? I will always doakan both couple to get a chance to be a parents soon

  • @lunastarr1925
    @lunastarr1925 20 дней назад

    a word of advice....jet skiing is very dangerous

    • @thenurispunk
      @thenurispunk 20 дней назад

      thats not an advice. thats just a fact. 🤣

  • @dablackink5484
    @dablackink5484 25 дней назад

    Sebagai seorang isteri yang mendapati bahawa suami mempunyai hobi memakai pampers, perkara ini mungkin akan menimbulkan pelbagai reaksi dan perasaan yang bercampur-baur. Pada mulanya, ia mungkin sukar diterima, kerana hobi ini adalah sesuatu yang jarang dan luar daripada kebiasaan. Isteri mungkin akan merasa terkejut, malu, atau keliru kerana hobi ini tidak selari dengan norma yang biasa diterima oleh masyarakat. Namun, adalah penting untuk isteri mengambil masa untuk memahami situasi ini dengan lebih mendalam sebelum membuat sebarang kesimpulan. Dari sudut emosi, isteri mungkin tertanya-tanya mengapa suami memilih hobi ini. Adakah ia sesuatu yang dia lakukan untuk keseronokan semata-mata, atau adakah terdapat aspek emosi yang lebih mendalam di sebaliknya? Ada sesetengah individu yang melakukan perkara-perkara yang dianggap luar biasa oleh orang lain sebagai cara untuk menguruskan stres, kegelisahan, atau untuk mendapatkan rasa tenang dan selesa. Bagi suami, memakai pampers mungkin adalah cara dia melarikan diri daripada tekanan dunia nyata atau satu bentuk escapism yang memberikan ketenangan. Dalam hal ini, penting bagi isteri untuk mendekati situasi ini dengan penuh empati dan cuba memahami latar belakang emosi suami. Selain itu, isteri mungkin risau tentang bagaimana hobi ini akan menjejaskan hubungan mereka, terutamanya dari segi keintiman dan penerimaan sosial. Hobi yang luar biasa seperti ini boleh menimbulkan kebimbangan tentang persepsi orang lain jika ia diketahui secara umum. Isteri mungkin bimbang tentang bagaimana hobi ini mempengaruhi imej keluarga atau pandangan masyarakat terhadap mereka sebagai pasangan. Ini adalah reaksi yang wajar, kerana kita hidup dalam masyarakat yang mempunyai jangkaan dan norma tertentu. Namun, adalah penting untuk diingat bahawa hubungan perkahwinan adalah antara dua individu, dan setiap pasangan perlu menentukan sendiri apa yang terbaik untuk mereka tanpa terpengaruh sepenuhnya oleh pendapat luar. Di samping itu, isteri mungkin juga berfikir tentang bagaimana hobi suami ini akan memberi kesan kepada keintiman dalam perkahwinan. Adakah ia akan mengubah cara mereka berinteraksi secara fizikal atau emosi? Ini mungkin merupakan isu yang perlu dibincangkan secara terbuka dengan suami. Jika isteri berasa tidak selesa, adalah penting untuk dia menyatakan perasaannya dengan jujur tetapi penuh kelembutan. Komunikasi terbuka antara suami isteri adalah kunci dalam situasi seperti ini, di mana kedua-dua pihak perlu berkongsi perasaan, kebimbangan, dan keperluan masing-masing tanpa merasa dihakimi. Walaupun hobi ini mungkin sukar difahami atau diterima pada awalnya, ia bukan bermaksud bahawa perkahwinan mereka tidak boleh berfungsi dengan baik. Ramai pasangan berhadapan dengan cabaran atau perbezaan yang tidak dijangka dalam perkahwinan mereka. Apa yang paling penting adalah bagaimana mereka menangani perbezaan tersebut. Dalam kes ini, jika isteri mampu mendekati suami dengan sikap terbuka dan ingin memahami, dan suami pula bersedia untuk berkongsi perasaannya serta mendengar kebimbangan isteri, hubungan mereka boleh menjadi lebih kuat dan lebih bermakna. Akhir sekali, sebagai isteri, adalah penting untuk menyedari bahawa setiap individu mempunyai cara unik untuk menghadapi dunia. Hobi suami yang luar biasa ini mungkin kelihatan ganjil pada mulanya, tetapi dengan perbincangan yang jujur dan terbuka, pasangan boleh mencari titik persamaan yang memastikan kedua-dua pihak merasa dihargai dan difahami. Perkahwinan yang berjaya memerlukan toleransi, kompromi, dan, yang paling penting, rasa hormat antara satu sama lain. Hobi suami tidak semestinya sesuatu yang perlu mengancam hubungan mereka, asalkan ia tidak menjejaskan aspek-aspek penting dalam perkahwinan, dan kedua-dua pihak bersedia untuk berkomunikasi dengan penuh kejujuran dan kasih sayang.

  • @zulaikhaxo
    @zulaikhaxo 29 дней назад

    Can't help but to highlight that you approached the ABDL topic with so much more empathy and understanding towards the writer, compared to another podcast who shared the same story but laughed at the issue instead. Appreciate how you approached this topic and your insights!

    • @ZikriToji
      @ZikriToji 29 дней назад

      Yeahh

    • @satinaig
      @satinaig 29 дней назад

      cannot agree more!

    • @tssnmm
      @tssnmm 28 дней назад

      That other podcast yg irritating is when one of them laugh at inappropriate timings. All the time. I enjoy their podcast but sometimes I switch off

    • @yatiyati83
      @yatiyati83 21 день назад

      agree...👍

  • @NK-nb1zp
    @NK-nb1zp Месяц назад

    Love from Malaysia <3 keep up the good content. Jazakumullahu khairan kathira

  • @lunastarr1925
    @lunastarr1925 Месяц назад

    Lets make a doa for the husband to bounce to health....miracles do happen by Allah swt 'kun'

  • @lunastarr1925
    @lunastarr1925 Месяц назад

    the step-father has a resemblance to the famous M.sian ;caster, Mahadzir Lokman He has a golden voice..... May Allah swt bless this fmly...with inter-respect, tolerance, happiness

  • @lunastarr1925
    @lunastarr1925 Месяц назад

    i just cant u.stand this blind filiality to a devIl of a husband! goodness!!!!

  • @lunastarr1925
    @lunastarr1925 Месяц назад

    pls forgive me for my comment this lady shld alrdy have filed for a divorce after the first abuse.... don have to put yr life at steak to make him turn into a new leaf the soft boneless tongue can ive endless of promises...

  • @lunastarr1925
    @lunastarr1925 Месяц назад

    be strong....and be close to Allah swt❤❤❤❤ bcoz Allah swt knows whats best for us

  • @fareezaizat8684
    @fareezaizat8684 Месяц назад

    The guy yg masih nak on dgn wife yg curang dan mengandung anak lelaki lain bukan ke dikira dayus dalam Islam, ikut hukum Islam, hukum rejam isteri tu, so si isteri berhutang nyawa dgn Tuhan atas dosa tu, utk kata boleh terima just make you a simp and maybe DAYUS.

  • @afizanuranis783
    @afizanuranis783 Месяц назад

    Seriously adds so disturbing. Masuk tiber xkene masa.

  • @chiisaikodomo1387
    @chiisaikodomo1387 Месяц назад

    i wish not much add like before.

  • @AzharSinga12
    @AzharSinga12 Месяц назад

    Alhamdulilah 🤲

  • @kalsomkarim8153
    @kalsomkarim8153 Месяц назад

    If only I was there to give you a hug…

  • @insyirahnuri
    @insyirahnuri Месяц назад

    All the love to you Nina <3

  • @ariana7511
    @ariana7511 Месяц назад

    I hope she is okay...

  • @AzharSinga12
    @AzharSinga12 Месяц назад

    Itu semua sudah tertulis dalam kehidupan berumah tangga kamu

  • @FebDee
    @FebDee Месяц назад

    masa mula-ii tengok yt ni .. ingatkan malaysian .. pastu tengok makin banyak vid , baru perasan singaporean .. i love your content and im malaysian .. lot of loves

  • @waniahmad8470
    @waniahmad8470 Месяц назад

    It's heart wrenching hearing her stories. But lesson to be learnt is you can never change someone, even with marriage. And, if someone had shown you so many redflags, being abusive even before marriage, please run away girls!

  • @syaikhhusin09
    @syaikhhusin09 2 месяца назад

    Sebelum setuju nak kawen tu, check dululah family bakal tu. Tengok jugalah siapa kawannya. Biasanya bagaimana keluarganya dan kawannya macam tulah dia.

  • @syaikhhusin09
    @syaikhhusin09 2 месяца назад

    Kalau seseorang tu tak boleh jadi anak yang baik, maka semakin tipislah harapan untuk jadi suami dan ayah yang baik. Sebagai anak menantu pun dia dah gagal kotakan amanah, apatah lagi nak jadi suami dan ayah. Kepada wanita di luar sana, sayangilah diri anda dulu sebelum menyayangi yang lain

  • @syaikhhusin09
    @syaikhhusin09 2 месяца назад

    The ones who introduced the ex-husband to Maya did a huge dis-service to her. Pity Maya. May you find someone far better.

  • @nadiaathirah26
    @nadiaathirah26 2 месяца назад

    May I know the Ustazah name at 24:38?

    • @outsideinsg
      @outsideinsg Месяц назад

      Ustazah Shameem. You can follow her on Instagram @shameemsultanah 🩷

  • @mohammadhakim-b3u
    @mohammadhakim-b3u 2 месяца назад

    IM GLAD YOU LEFT THIS WORTHLESS MAN. Dia yang tak layak dapat isteri. Perangai lagi buruk dari binatang. Listening to this pisses me off. There’s nothing he can say to justify himself why he hurt you in this marriage.

  • @fadhlinaam6455
    @fadhlinaam6455 2 месяца назад

    Dear Afifa.. may your children grow up well n take after yours n your husband's kindness n generosity.. Amiin...

  • @hani67429
    @hani67429 2 месяца назад

    May i knw didnt d family warn u abt him as he is their son or whre r they??

  • @noelle0312
    @noelle0312 2 месяца назад

    Why does he need the 3k?

  • @noelle0312
    @noelle0312 2 месяца назад

    😭😭😭 huggggggsssss sis

  • @wansolehah2256
    @wansolehah2256 2 месяца назад

    😢😢😢

  • @SteffiAmani
    @SteffiAmani 2 месяца назад

    maya second third child story? hmm

  • @CalmSpaceship-pb9pz
    @CalmSpaceship-pb9pz 2 месяца назад

    I harap syurga buat this sis. Kepada suami yang perangai jenis macam ni. You know what?? Allah tak pernah tido. Suatu hari balasan pasti ada

  • @SolehaAbdullah-o8e
    @SolehaAbdullah-o8e 2 месяца назад

    May Allah protect you Maya, may you always love and be loved another in return. My mum went through exactly what you went through, I exactly understand how you feel genuinely because I have witnessed how she suffered throughout her marriage. I am so happy that she's now no longer in the marriage. Remember that there are always a support system around you, Allah loves you genuinely Maya. How I wish I can hug you tightly, sending my hugs from afar.

  • @yatinordin857
    @yatinordin857 2 месяца назад

    waah so good to hear ade programme untuk so call 'Tiri' I married and have 1 anak tiri 8yrs and anak tiri I always be protected by his opah till now he's 30yrs old and to my mother In-Law, mak tiri ni ade lah yg paling jahat. 😢 tak diperlukan mak tiri ni org luar, mak mertua selalu nk control anak tiri I (mak dia dah meninggal) walaupun I dah kawin 23 thun. honestly sekarang ni I rasa emosi I sngt koyak 😢 kerana mak mertua & anak tiri (baru kahwin) skrg I cuba ketepikan org² yg toxic ni.. untuk tenangkan hati sendiri😊

  • @Masrahim0508
    @Masrahim0508 2 месяца назад

    Kak Haryani...U DA BEST !

  • @murniraffi8420
    @murniraffi8420 2 месяца назад

    Hi Mira!! Love this episode!

  • @fiyaboo
    @fiyaboo 2 месяца назад

    This was such a heartwarming session. Bless you guys <3

  • @izzatizamricute227
    @izzatizamricute227 2 месяца назад

    invite him with his wife(after he got married)