Can You Leave Your Lover for Success? [OPENMIND] EP. 04 (feat. Model, Influencer, Fashion Show)
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- Опубликовано: 23 сен 2024
- "A relationship requires conditions, and considering conditions is part of love."
Whether we like it or not, our relationships have been fulfilled by conditions. People's relationships require some conditions, whether we want or not. But somehow, considering conditions became snobbery, and people are stuck with the "platonic love", that does not care about any conditions.
Through this experiment, with a common man and woman, we would like to discover "conditions" required for a relationship, and how those conditions function in a new relationship, like an algorithm.
We ask to you, what condition do you wan to meet, when you are looking for your lover?
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He would rather choose success than his lover while she still removed the wall hearing his opinion, yet she still rejected him after his looks.
Its a crual world that we live in
LMFAO
Ikr... looks CAN make or break you in your chances of finding love... unfortunately
Tbh i would have done the same like the girl...
안젤리나 why would you done the same like the girl? Im just curious
She talked about how her ex dated her only based on her looks but she rejected him because of how he looks? The irony kills me 💀
설마 but it could’ve been bc of the question about him going to the show
huh? dont shame her for not being attracted to him its completly normal it wouldve been worse if she dated him only because of how he looks which was her ex boyfriends case dont confuse between the two and act like an "angel" that doesnt judge people by their apperence. They didnt have chemistry anyways
smilylaugh everyone has a preference when it comes to the outter appearance of a person especially when they don’t know them well enough to judge any other characteristic. My only problem with how she reacted to his looks is that she talked about how much she hated her ex for judging the way she looked yet she did the same thing to him? I don’t have a problem with her having a preference but she shouldn’t be a hypocrite about it. They didn’t have chemistry but she seemed pretty interested in him until the final wall was pulled up. She shouldn’t complain about something if she’s gonna do the same thing to another person 🤷🏽♀️ anyways that’s just my opinion
Hes cute af
Oof Oof he really is, he lowkey reminds me a bit of Jin from bts?
Aaah yes girl I can totally relate... Choi San is the standard periodt.
Miss. Girl said that her ideal type when it comes to appearance is Choi San...I would've quit so fast if I was that guy😭
I came here after watching that tiktok video hahaha. Well it's choi san we are talking about 🤣
@@syarraexo909 me too😂
Yeah
She rejected him because of his looks but I find him to be quite attractive lol. I guess beauty is the eye of the beholder. But tbh I could see them not being a match after the life or death question
Same I find him rlly cute
I hope she finds someone who values
true love
as much as she does ✨💫
Yeah he's attractive the way he is
Girl your ideal type CHOI SAN is an extremely high standard rn , he’s everyone ideal type 😭
when she said she wanted someone like san from ateez i died, same girl same
Makes me sad that the last question is based off looks :(
south korea my friend south korea, but some of them might not based shit on looks..? who knows
I think it was the long hair...i admit i would have also rejected him
안젤리나
Yeah I’m pretty sure it was the hair as well
I think that is a intention of this video🤔
안젤리나 i would be kinda offended as well (?) i don’t support the idea of liking people only because of their hair,,
The lack of taste she has damn that boy is actually so cute wdyfm
Ikr he is extremely cute
@@smd2455 same would have ended it at that also
indeed:(
he is not
@Krueshi Tiger You are far more wise than Hhazzhvxx Mm ever will be
when she said her ideal type of look was san from ateez i screamed
Same tho ! I literally yelled 😂😂
I feel u ;-;
AYEEEEEEE SAN IS MY BIAS SOOOOO
little mix are the standard for ggs OMG SAMEEE San amd WOOYOUNG are my bias lol
Funny thing is i just searched Ateez on youtube then this recommended i oop--
글램 제발 들어주세요 ㅠㅠ
질문 목록이 너무 똑같은 것 같아요 ㅇ ㅠㅠ ㅠ좀 만 다양하게 ㅠㅠ
Guy would leave his Dying lover, for success. I think it should have ended there. Explains the ending though
Bran Ly U cant say that just because the society thinks its right. Let me put it in perspective. You think business people get rich by doing the right thing. Nooo. They do what hads to be done.
Im not saying not to have a heart. But it varies on person, people say money cant by you happiness. Thats a lie. We were taught to see thru that and accept it as how it is. B/c wat we want is hard to comeby so we dont put our thoughts much to it. Ex. I say I want to be a billionaire, but i say its okay if i dont cuz money isn’t everything, in a way you are comforting yourself.
Bran Ly take a hard look at your room. More than 90% of stuff are bought from using money. Money cant buy you health thats correct but can definitely help you with treatment and what not.
You can keep a balance. But your point isn’t valid. Based on solely on what he said. I dont think its right or wrong. Hes stating his honesty.
How bout vise versa, she dreamt of a fantasy inside, having a Kpop boyfriend. Is that realistic. Based on them having conversation, they had more positive over negative. Yet she chose No for an answer. She cared to much of being with a good looking guy who is identical to a Kpop star.
I understand the borderline between realism and fantasy. Clearly she didn’t.
Logic over Love
@@BM-nh9kd How about thinking about the perspective of the dying person? Your last moments will be your lover abandoning you for a chance at success. Success can take many forms later down the road but you will never bring back the dead.
We are emotional creatures and casting away love when it's inconvenient is deceptive.
@@bran3276 wouldnt you want to preserve the best image possible of your lover in case he died his last moments wont be his best ones and you will probably put him under emotional tool by being there as well
When he said he would go to the show over seeing his dying lover for one last time I knew I didn't like his character. When she accepted his answer and then saw his looks and rejected him I knew I didn't like her character either.
Totally agree
Sis has a taste that she chose Choi San as her ideal type
서로 말하는게 뭔가 무뚝뚝함
came from that choi san tiktok and OMG when she said san i was like oh poor guy he has no chance
여자분 상대랑 생각 달라도 소신있게 말하는게 멋있으신데 왜 다 외모평가 뿐인건지..
왠지 외모보고 안선택할것같다는 생각들긴함..이미 서로 키크다, 모델이다, 얼굴때문에 만난다는 말들었다 등등 외모기대 키우는 말 넘 많이함 하지만 실물은..쩝
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ아 속시원해
이래서 소개팅 할 때도 사전에 사진 최대한 그지같은거 보내서 기대치 낮추는게 좋음
실물은.. 그러게요 모델이라니..
@@Bk-oc6ix 워워 인신공격은 하지말고
맞아요. 칸막이 내리니까 남자분 엄청 실망한거 다 티났음;;
Choi San is my ideal type too
He’s really so handsome and charismatic
His hair looks really nice
여자분 굉장히 토끼같으심 ㅋㅋ 말투나 목소리 마저도 너무 귀여우셔ㅋㅋㅋ 자격증 11개 ..대단..
근데 진짜 연인이 안오면 서운할것같다.. 죽을수도있는데..
If like me you came for Choi San 7:26 is your destination ✌️👍
Y'all talking bout how he's cute and shit this man would deliberately go to a show instead of being by his lovers side in a life or death situation. AND Y'ALL STILL TALKIN BOUT OOH HE CUTE. This why y'all havin whack relationships
sushi koi
i would go to my lover, but watching someone die is extremely traumatic, and he could have been in a situation where he saw someone die
@@jerika8694 yeah sure whatever maybe penguins will be flying tomorrow. Its a dick move regardless. You know what's also traumatic? Dying while ya mans at a fashion show. This was a reach
sushi koi HAHAHAH fck why did this sound funny
P R E A C H
People arent saying they're going to date or marry him they're just saying he's good looking lol it's not that deep
YES CHOI SAN BEST
she has taste in men: ATEEZ San is just a sight for sore eyes
Omg I had to PAUSE THE VIDEO when she mentioned San from Ateez...😭🙏🏾❤ I love him soooo freaking much!! But this dude was cute why reject him?! I haven't seen one episode so far where the people get together sheesh!
my girl said san well get in line w the rest of us 🙄
서로 확고하게 말해서 좋넹 여자분 귀여워요ㅋㅋ
둘 다 좋은 짝 찾길~
How can anyone leave their dying lover???? Whether you should leave them or stay with them shouldn't even be a question.
ikr?! when watching the vid, that's the part i assumed would dominate the comments, but so many people here are just like 'gurl, i'll take him if you won't & btw her voice is annoying!1!' 😒
@@GreenGretel right, like damn aigh
Thats so true. How can you even be in a relationship if you aren't there for your lover when they need you the most?
I understand what he said about fashion industry not having a second chance but after getting all that success when you look back,wouldn't you spend a lifetime regretting not being their for your lover if they died ? If they didn't die,how are you going to face them later on ? Also,will your mind be at ease and will you do your best on that show when your heart is burdened?
It's an unfair question.
He is such a soft cutie !I don’t understand 🤷🏻♀️
She is pretty but not that exceptionally pretty tho (don’t take this as an offense)
Especially her voice I couldn’t stand it
👍
he is definitely not a soft cutie lol, picks a show over his lover smh
Well she has her taste just like you do lol
One Piece is lifeu right lmfaooooo soft cuties don’t leave you for dead 💀
A soft cutie is a man that leaves you to die in the hospital while he goes to a show he dreamed of😂😂 Funny, if the girl said that, instead of him, she would get super hate😂
7:26 I understand it ... I also fell in love with San the first time
서로 확고 하게 말 했고 특히 여자분은 진짜 말 잘 한듯
자기 주장 확고 해서 멋있다👍
여자분 의견이나 표현 확실한데 말투는 귀엽고 솔직하구 볼수록 매력 있는 스타일 ㅠㅠ 입술도 너무 이쁘세여
입술은 붕어입술인데
RUclips바다랑 님은 뇌가 붕어일듯
당사자 어서오고~
별생각 없었는데 이글보고 오니 입술 이상해보임. 술자리에서 일부러 멕이는 타입
@@jaeung 그르넹
Ateez San!!! I'm about to yeet myself!! He is handsome af!!
sis has a taste and has very high standard huh as she should.. Choi san the Standard
we all want a choi san 😭❤️
She wasn't his ideal type either yet she turned her light off while he turned his on 😒
He tried to keep her heart and not hurt her. Cuz questions of look can disheart people specially models as both of them are.
When did he turn his on? Didn't he turn his off as well??
@@christineh5712 he turned off his light too! Lol
여자 뭔가 무뚝뚝하게 말하면서도 귀엽도 따뜻한거 같고,,ㅎ 같은 여자지만 호감이당
He is handsome. I can see how gorgeous he is with another hair style.
This guy is a crush
I think they’re still a little childish and young. They’re all about looks and success in career. So true love isn’t a priority. I hope this doesn’t make him insecure about his looks or obsess at making him look better just because she wasn’t attracted to him. I hope that her high standard of someone good looking won’t stop her from getting in a relationship with someone genuine. Him too, on career. I hope he learns that losing a career opportunity is nothing compared to losing your one true love forever.
뭔가 여자분 말투가 애니많이보실거같아 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
people hating on that girl in the comment section is crazy. commenting about her looks, voice, taste, and etc. can ppl think before actually commenting
the fact that he said in a calm manner to definitely pick the show over his lover's life is freaking scary and also that she did not adhere to her own values I find odd, that would be an immediate deal breaker
남자가 저런머리 소화하기 쉽지않음 ㅋㅋㅋ 잘어울리네요
choi san is the standard fact.
She has Choi San as her ideal.....Sis already has too high standards for a boy lol! Can't blame her tho nobody can help falling for san.
Never in all my born days did I expect to hear a grown man say to woman on a blind date that he'd choose a job event over seeing a lover on her death bed, dying from an accident. Even those selfish & horrible enough to do something like that knows they can't SAY it to someone.
the guy is so cute omg 😯 why did she turn off her light):
I think its a sign that she rejected him for his looks :(
Because he is unattractive 😂
her ex bf texted him to....
If someone knows his insta, let us know ㅠㅠ 💙⭐️
the real question is why didn't she turn off her light after he said he'd leave his dying lover for a gig
It was fun seeing you------
*Lights off*
Just imagine an anime with that scene
I always wanted to visit south korea!! But LOOKS scares me always !! And after this episode i couldn't help myself to think that they only judge on the basis of looks !!!
영상들 질문 수준이 참 그렇네요..
He considers a career more important than human life. Game Over.
*It's totally immoral to leave anyone dying on the street let alone a person who trusts you and that you say "I love you." to.*
You don't love them and you abandon your humanity the moment you leave for your own glory.
시간은 돈이고 돈은 행복이다 이건 내 인생 철칙이다
난 부유한 집에 살고 나 또한 부유하게 자립했다
연애도 행복.결혼도 행복.가정도 행복 행복할려면 돈이 필요하다 가정을 빨리 차리기 위핸 돈이 필요하다
인생의 몇 없는 기회를 이해못하고 실망할거면 평생을 함께하기에는 너무나 불행한 삶 일거같다
행복이 극으로 치닫으면 억지로 불행을 찾게 되어있음. 즉 행복행복 말하는 사람중에 진정한 의미의 행복을 느끼는 사람을 본적이 없음.
결혼안한상태에 암묵적이면 성공이 우선이지 않을까..?
하지만..길고 긴 휴우증에 시달릴꺼 같아..
평소에 챙겨보던 모델님인데ㅠ 너무이쁘구 확고하게말씀하시는거 멋져요👍👍
애인할 사람은 많고 다시 사귈 기회도 많지만 커리어 찬스는 일생에 몇번 안오는데 당연히 일이지
솔직히 애인이라고해서 다 사랑하는건 아니지않아요??
쉽게만나고 쉽게헤어지는경우도 다반사고 그냥 좋아하는거랑 사랑하는건 아주 큰차이라 생각함
정말 사랑하는사람이라면 당연히 병원으로 가겠죠 그게아니라면 커리어를 선택하겠죠
@Jenna 애인이 죽는다는 설정은 너무 극단적이라고 생각하는데요
남자도 애인이죽으면 그래도 일을 재끼고 여자한테 오죠
좀 비이성적인 생각이신데 애인이 죽는데도 커리어를 우선시한다고 생각하시는건
교통사고가 나서 구해야하는 상황이면 갈것이고, 이미 수술까지 마치고 내가 손을 쓸 수 없으면 갈 수 있는거 아닌가?...
내 생각이 이기적인 건가?
후후 사랑하니까 연애를 하는 거고 애인관계인거죠 안 사랑하는데 왜 연애를 합니까
tbh I don't find her as good looking as him but everyone has different tastes
ya she not very good looking to me either.
Lol for real, I think he is better looking than her
yeh she's very average looking in Korea. trust me.
I don't think she's attractive at all tbh. Don't get the whole fuss or why she would be chosen as model, to be honest with you... Her mouth and teeth in particular are kind of off-putting.
I actually totally understand his answer for the life or death question. If I were the lover I wouldn't want him to miss out on such a great opportunity for his future and for his dream. The couple would already have lived beautiful moments that matter for both of them and 'my' situation in the hospital wouldn't change wether he was actually there with me physically. I think while being in a relationship we should think about both people and their goals and work towards them together, so that's why I wouldn't want him to leave his dream behind for me. He would be back after a while and we could have the chance to say goodbye if that were to be the case, if not, then I would leave knowing that he still has something to keep him somewhat grounded after such a loss.
A little bit of a stretch, but just so some people could see the other side a little bit because I saw many people judging him for that answer.
Why does the guy remind me so much of Jin from BTS? Like his face and the his expressions when he talks is soooo Jin I can't even wow
YES! Jin with long curly hair.
@@OdielLeonescu yess! Like a mix of Jin and long haired Jungkook
YES FINALLY. I thought the same its crazy how much they resemble each other
y e s
Jin+jungkook
I won't be fooled, that's Jin from BTS with longer hair
Oh fuck yeaaahhhhh🤣🤣 but Jin would've been more svaage than this dude
But 1:17 he looks like Namjoon though n the way speak also resembles rm
THANK YOU. I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING
Wha- you have to be joking
he looks a little bit like Heechul
우주소녀 설아요...
둘이 잘 맞고 분위기 되게 좋았는데 왜 안 됐을까ㅜㅜ 너무 잘 맞아서 친구처럼 느껴졌을려나..? 여자분 내가 봐도 러블리하고 매력 쩌는데 아쉽다
D Big ? 왜 뜬금없이 제 댓글에다 악플을 달죠ㅋㅋ 희안하신 분이넹
희안 >희한
남자 머리짜르고 하면 ㅈㄴ잘생길거같은ㄷㅔ 피지컬도 좋고
프사 보니 그럴만도 해 보여
남자분 뭔가 오묘하게 연정훈 닮으신것같아요..!
내가 여자였으면 커리어에서 정뚝떨... 하하
사랑하는 여친잌ㅋㅋ 죽을 수도 있는뎈ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 커리어를 쌓는다니ㅠㅠ
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 그니까요..
영상안봤냐? 뭔병문안이야ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 생명이 위급한 상황이라고
답이 없는 문제임 근데 부모님이였음 커리어 포기함 여친이면 딱히 슬퍼도 커리어 선택할듯
난 솔직하다고 생각했는데 그래도 없는 말은 안하는 사람이라 신뢰가 감
is that some kinda crazy honesty...honestly I can understand the hard decision but to say you prefer success over someone's life is a very bold statement for a first meeting :0
Oh jeez.
I thought the guy was VERY attractive, so was shocked over her decision, which happened to be ironic as she complained about her ex boyfriend only being it for the looks.
And the guy's attractiveness seemed to fade after he decided on leaving his lover to die because he wanted to attend a modeling worldwide show
This one was a ride, lol.
I saw a lot of people comment that he looks like jin from bts and honestly i didnt see it at first but....DAMN he kinda do!
Yeah, I think mostly the lips.
남자분 말 예의있게하시고 두분 매력 있으신데 성향이 약~~~~간 안맞을것같은 느낌..?!뭔가 두분다 확고(?)한 면이 있는 것 같아서!!근데 두분 다 좋은사람 인 것 같다
I think that she was disappointed with the “broadcast question” but it’s normal...
Although they are different, the way they think is actually quite similar. I think they could have made a good couple.
He kinda looks like jin
I see it now!!
내생각엔 머리땜에좀그러지않았을까싶다
2:37 여기 보면 여자분 정면 모습이 되게 이쁘신 것 같아요 ㅎㅎ
He really said he’ll go to the show. I used to have the same mentality I would say the same thing I really regret that. I truly do If I could have a do over on that day I would do it so differently. Anyways appreciate everyone in your life right now tell them you love them give them a hug because you’ll never know when it’ll be the last time.
난 성공욕구가 정말 강하지만, 사람보다 중요한건 없다고 생각한다. 누군가가 힘들때, 죽어갈때 옆에 있지 못했다는 후회를 해본사람은 절대 커리어를 선택할수없을것이다. 난무조건 사람이다. 성공은 다시 노력해서 하면된다.
Fuaaaa me encantó! Vine noms porque la chabona es Atiny! ❤️
they would've been such a cute couple im T_____T
엥 지민님 평소에 되게 좋아하는 모델분중 한분인데 이번 영상 너무 못나왔다.........그래도 말 똑부러지게 하시고 귀여워요ㅠㅠ!!
지민님 인스타 아이디 여쭤봐도 될까요 ㅠㅠ 안 나오네요ㅜ
He is so handsome, i love his hair 💜💜 What happened girl?? :""v This is so ironic
I literally clicked on this video bcz the dude in the thumbnail was cute af. She should have ended it when he said he'd leave his dying lover for a show.
왜 난 저런 남자 좋은데
She's ok with him maybe leaving her to die for fashion fame but rejected him for his looks?? wow xD
yes girl yes, san is every girls ideal type
Sooo they didn’t end up together?😞
I hope not
can you please add english subtitles i would love to watch this!
Update: Thank you for adding eng subs
They're already added
@@yasminetouileb8027 Thank you for telling me
여친 1톤 트럭에 친 걸 안 고른다고..??
이해가 안 가는데
그냥 표정부터가 소시오패스같음
꿈에 미치면 그럴수도? 대부분을 사고난 연인에게 가죠..
@@jll142 그냥 일이 최우선적으로 생각하는 사람이 있을수도 있는건데 그걸 표정만 보고 소시오패스같다 ㅇㅈㄹ하네 수준 개떨어진다
@@kimjintae9034 표정뿐만 아니라 소시오패스에 관한 인지심리학영상에서 저런 내용이 비슷하게 나왔었음
@@jll142 쌉소리하지마세요 ㅈ문가님
i loved his outfit and he looks really handsome, the long hair doesn't fit him tho but
여자 목소리에 거침이 없고 소신이 뚜렷한 듯. 이라고 썼는데 보다 보니 이해심도 갖춤 멋있다
VIXX Leo and ATEEZ San... girl... that will be hard to find ngl.
Am i the only one who think that he looks like bts's Jin?
Jisoo and jin jajaja
나만 남자분 그 이효리 남편 상순님 닮은 거 같나...? 썸네일 보자마자 그렇게 생각함 ㅎㅎ...
I clicked thought it was lee sung hoon from winner
Omg an inseo
Of all places i find one HAHAHAHA
It suddenly appeared it my recommended videos, i was like since when did hoony had this kind of hairstyle? Lol
Choi san yeahhh😚😍😘🔥🔥
They are awkward.. But cute
Es porque tenía el cabello largo, verdad!!!??
No mames morra, se veía súper lindo, greñudo pero lindo y tierno. 💕