Sama kyak gua banget keluarga ditta. Gak ngucapin sayang bukan berarti gk sayang. Kdang melalui tindakan sudah membuktikan kalau sudah sayang sama mereka.
I think Indonesians are generally not used to saying love to their parents. although in our hearts we feel love, but we feel shy and reluctant to say it. I think this is due to the cultural factors we grew up in.
I think not just indonesia, but in Asia. Cuz what I see from another Asian countries, not all Asian learned saying 'I luv u' to their parents. It's hard to say actually. :((
@@nanamikento56 Yes, you're right. Lea in the previous video was also shy when she had to say aishiteru to her mom. But Denise said it naturally with ease.
in Indonesia, when a child says "I love mama, papa" .. surely the parents immediately think their child is facing a problem and tired about life.. that's why her mother asked if everything was okay.
Yes I can relate to this. Saying “I love you” is not a regular habit in Asian family culture. Asian parents often live in such a way where acts of service are the proof of their love. Cooking for us, providing for us, clothing us, doing everything they can to make sure we are better off than they were. Pushing us to study so we do well in school, so we get good jobs, so we don't have to starve, so we can be healthy, so have a roof over our head and a bed to sleep on. I know this because the question is always, "Have you eaten? Are you healthy? Are you getting enough sleep?" I am biased, but Asian parents are the embodiment of "actions speak louder than words."
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Plus most of indonesian languages dont even have the word to express love in a less-romantic way, such as 'sayang' in standard bahasa. Like in my language we only have the romantic one ('cinta' in standard bahasa). Saying 'sayang' would be really awkward as I only speak my mother tongue to my family and saying the romantic one would be weird af. lol
as an indonesian, i think all indonesian or maybe asian children are like that, i might cried if i said "aku sayang mama"(i love u mom) or stuff like that, ofc all children love their parents, but it's really hard to just say "i love you"
Agree. We prefer "I miss you" instead of "I love you" to our parents. Although we feel like even it doesn't have a deeper meaning than "I love you", we usually proof and show it, because actions speak louder than words, right? 😆
Ok sekarang aku tau hampir semua orang Indonesia tu susah banget bilang "aku sayang mama" ku kira cuma aku aja I don't know why it's so hard to say "aku sayang mama", bukan nya gak sayang 😭😭
Kayak kata "aku sayang ... " ke ortu lebih berbobot, seakan² pas ngomong gitu, semua kejadian dr kita kcl smpe skrg flashback smua.. Kan..siapa ni yg naruh bawang dpn mata gni 😭😭
Saying "I love you mom" is more difficult than saying to friends, I don't know why that is but our love for our parents is not necessary in words, It is only by seeing her and doing her that we love her so much... At that time I had participated in activities at my school about learning motivation, there was a condition the motivator told me as a student to say that I love my mother, When I wanted to say it was really hard, but in the end it was a relief...
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Who's crying after watch this?? Dita is really strong, hardworking and humble person, hopefully Dita and the girls (Secret Number) soon will be the success girl group in the World
I'm indonesian. Actually english is not commonly used in indonesian. But some people use english to each other, they often use english words while speaking. For me it's not cool, but I have to say that in Indonesia if you speak english, you'll be considered cool and sometimes smart too.
I'm really really sorry. I'm not that good at english and I forgot how to write Indonesia. I LOVE DITA I LOVE INDONESIA AND AGAIN I'm really sorry *saya minta maaf*
Itu sudah menjadi ciri khas orang Indonesia malu mengucapkan sayang ke ortu,tapi kasih sayangnya melebihi dari yg bisa di ucapkan. Semangat buat mbak Dita,semoga sukses🤲
Bener bgt, kebanyakan nggak berani bilang sayang sama ortu. Sekalinya ngomong ujung2nya nangis duluan ... Kayanya ucapan sayang sesuatu yg serius juga di moment tertentu.
Yupp bener, sy pun demikian smpai pd saat kuliah. Tp dimulai Semester akhir kuliah dan sampai saat skrg udah kerja dan berumur 30, selalu pd akhir telfon sy bilang sy sayang mama. Bahkan jika teman sy mnertawakan saya krn ucapan itu. Paling sy bilang ga ad yg salahkan, kapan lagi cuy. Kesempatan bs bilang klo org tua msh ada. Jgn smpai org tua ga ad baru nangis bilang sayang mama. Salah satu cara membuat mama tersenyum dan bahagia ialah paling gampang cukup bilang "aku sayang mama"
its feel so awkward when you wanna say it so. tapi bener deh kalian coba blg sekali aja ke ortu kalian, krn gue ngerasain penyesalan yg amat sangat ketika udh ga bisa blg kyk gt krn mama udh ga ada.
OMG I'm not yet familiar with Secret Number, but like this girl right here seems very sweet and pure. Plus she's so cute and pretty and she's very adorable. Must protect her at all costs.
Nggak cuma orang tua kak dita kok... Aku orang Indonesia dan banyak orang Indonesia lainnya jugak dukung dan sayang kak dita😭😭 Semangat ~sehat terus kak
I can feel that her mom was kinda worried when she could hear that Dita was crying. I now really miss my mom so bad. it is also hard for me to say I love you to my mom because it's kinda an embarrassing thing for me to say because I'm not used to saying it. And also I want to avoid crying when I say I love you to my family.
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It hits when she was trying to hold back her tears, but she's still forcing a smile to sound okay ;-; I hope SN gets more popular. Even my mom who doesn't like Kpop said Dita is v cute and she's doing a great job >
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I'm crying as well! As Malaysian, same like Indonesian we hardly saying "I love you" to our parents especially in our own language. For me saying in english is much okay but when saying in malay the feel totally different. It must be a while since she met her family so of course saying those meaningful words when she also miss her family must be so hard for her. Her mother also sounds surprise to hear "aku sayang mama". You did so well Dita ❤
@@الأحمدسليمان yeah, I know. I never said she's Malaysian. I AM Malaysian and I said we Malaysian also same like Indonesian hardly saying "I love you" in our own language. Got what I mean?
I think it is not only Indonesian children who have difficulty saying "I love You" to their parents but our parents also seldom say it when we are growing up. Showing affection between us is usually replaced by saying "are you healthy?" "have you eaten?" "How is today?"
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Bisa ngerasain apa yg kak dita rasa, jauh dari orangtua emang menyakitkan tp demi cita2 apapun harus dijalani. Semangatt kak dita, kami akan selalu mendukungmu.
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Dita eonni has to be strong, we always love you and support you, watch all the content of secret number ,always support secret number no matter what happens .. Don't cry our princess ❤️❤️❤️❤️ stay healthy and take care your self .. we love you dita eonni ❤️❤️ always ✌️
for Dita, Lea, Denise and other Secret Number members (Jinny, Soodam), we all know how hard your struggle to be an idol, and how hard it is to stay away from your family, keep fighting girls, never ever listen to those who are jealous of your success and those who will keep trying to bring you down, we know you are strong girls and will never give up, and we know you are capable, we all of your fans will continue to always try to support you with all our abilities, and we will continue to wait for your next comeback, really can't wait for you guys to become a big group someday later, Keep fighting.
*sees Dita cry* *try not to cry* *cried a lot* _that's her and some of us i guess_ *_semangat terus, mbak dita. you are the pride of Indonesia in kpop and Korea_*
As Indonesian, we can't really say i love you, "Aku sayang papa/mama" easily Not because we don't want, but it's too hard to say. It has deep meaning for us and our culture. We usually say "jaga diri baik-baik"(take care), to ends our facetime, call or short meeting. When it comes to "i love you", trust me it'll come with tears along... When a daughter or a son cries, we don't wanna show it, even if we had bad day, situation. we don't wanna make our parents sad and crying too.. For if it does, we really think twice to say 'i love you'. Dikiranya mau ngapain kan amit2 :(
People who dislike this video dont have a heart at all...Thank you so much NADOL for trying to protect them from bad comments or haters. We all appreciate your program. THANK YOU SO MUCH AND STAY SAFE ALL
@@sunnyprtwi266 lebih tepatnya keturunan bangsawan , untuk orang Bali biasanya namaya lengkapnya ada Gusti atau I Gusti , keseringan atau kebanyakan keturunan bangsawan , ini sepengetahuan aku karena aku orang Bali 🙏🏻
In Indonesia, it's so very difficult to express, even just to say "I love you mom/papa" it's really hard, because when we say that. there are various kinds of extraordinary feelings that enter our hearts. tears will come out by themselves, because it is the most sincere expression in the world
It honestly must be so hard for her to leave her family at such a young age to do her dream. I understand why she is crying, sometimes it’s hard to be away from the people you love the most
She literally is trying hard every day, in a land foreign to her in language, blood, culture and everything else in between. Of course she'd miss home. This was a beautifully touching moment.
I can't imagine being away from my family for so long, and it seems Dita has been holding back her feelings to break down in front of the camera. I can't even hold back my tears watching her, love and support from all of us, Ditaa ❤❤
I'm Indonesian, the words "I love you" and "I miss you" is always making me cry so I often avoid to say that directly 😂 Instead of that I express those words as "How are you?" "How do you do?" and things like that. If I really want to say I love you or I miss you, I write it in the letter. TO AVOID THE TEARS YES HAHA
Dita..Sayapun ikut mendukung karir bermusik kamu di Korea..Doa dari keluarga..teman dan fansmu akan semaki menguatkan langkah kamu..Jangan menyerah sekalipun ada angin yang bertiup kencang..Buatlah bangga keluarga dan semua fansmu khususnya di Indonesia..
in fact that i understood their conversation makes me cry more. cheer up sis! we all know you have been through hard time, but you are doing great! too great for 23 years old girls........ proud
I almost burst in tears too when she said 'Aku Sayang Mama' as Indonesian myself, we so rarely saying that to our parents, we say 'I miss you' more to replacing the words or just simple ask caring words like 'Are you eat yet?' or 'Don't wory too hard go rest. ' or just act it, like bring them food or cook their favorite, like Dita we might crying lots if we say that haha 😅
or we would just say 'i love you' but in english bcs its easier to say it. "aku sayang mama' hits different tho, even tho both words are meant the same
Yes exactly, when we’re saying to our indonesian parents i miss u, it means a lot like a lottt, it’s lit bit awkward to saying i love u, cuz we’re can’t describe how much our love to our parents🥰
My eyes already teary just to think about saying it. I wish I had the time to saying it before my mom passed away last year, got heart attack in her sleep, too sudden. Now I saying it in whisper, in her grave.
ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ I LITERALLY CRIED!!! THIS IS SO HEARTWARMING knowing that dita is pursuing her personal dream but her family are always there supporting aww they're so sweet!
Saya bukan penggemar kpop, saya mengenal Dita baru baru ini, dan munculah video ini di beranda saya.. Dari sini saya memahami bahwa kebanyakan orang indonesia sulit untuk mengungkapkan rasa sayang atau cinta kepada keluarga dengan kata-kata namun bukan berarti tidak sayang atau tidak cinta. Menurut saya pribadi kata-kata untuk mengungkapkan perasaan sesederhana "aku sayang mama" bagi saya begitu besar beban yang dibawa dalam kata-kata tersebut, karena selain menyampaikan perasaan sayang, juga menyampaikan rasa terimakasih untuk semua yang telah diberikan orangtua kita untuk membesarkan kita dan juga menyampaikan permintaan maaf untuk semua kesalahan yang pernah kita perbuat kepada mereka, oleh karena itu kata-kata ini menjadi begitu sederhana namun menjadi sangat sulit untuk diungkapkan karena besarnya makna yang ada dibalik kata-kata tersebut. Yang kita lihat disini sebagai contoh adalah Dita, dalam keadaan kangen dan terpisah dengan keluarganya membuat kata-kata tersebut menjadi semakin besar maknanya karena mewakili seluruh rasa yang ingin diungkapkan Dita dan membuatnya menangis, saya juga jadi ikut menangis karenanya. Bagi saya yang masih tinggal bersama orangtua dan masih belum sedewasa Dita saja begitu berat untuk mengatakan "aku sayang mama", bahkan hanya memikirkanya saja membuat saya ingin menangis, apalagi Dita yang terpisah jarak dengan keluarganya, betapa dirinya adalah wanita kuat. "menangis adalah hal yang menunjukkan bahwa seseorang sudah berjuang dengan baik, mereka adalah orang yang kuat"
Sayang Ditaaa...❤️❤️❤️😍kamu hebat sekali.. hati kamu baik.. Indonesia Bangga memilikimu.. Dunia juga Bangga.. teruskan cita citamu.. rasa haru ini biar menjadi doa yang tulus.. semua karya dan cintamu sampai di hati kami.. doa tulus kami Indonesia untuk Dita💞🇲🇨
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I'm not Asian but it is probably bc languages that aren't English usually hold more weight. Aku Sayang mama probably has slightly deeper meaning than just "I love you". it's so weird bc I grew up with French in my household so I know about difference in language and stuff like that.
I believe that's because as Indonesian, we don't say "aku sayang kamu" that much, and from what i've learn that when you speak english , "I love you" is something that everyone can say to everyone. It's not "literally" everyone but from that example we know that english speaker having the "parabole" habbit that sometimes make a word doesn't sound/feel as deep as it should be specially when we compare the english word with the litterally translation word in other language. It's only my opinion, and sorry if there is anyone who disagree with me
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Terkadang kita memang malu untuk mengatakan cinta, tapi bukan berarti kita tidak mencintainya. aaaa so touching 😭😭
Kebanyakan org kita sering dengan perbuatan nunjukin rasa cinta bukan dengan perkataan..
Yey komen indo👍🏻👍🏻
Sama kyak gua banget keluarga ditta. Gak ngucapin sayang bukan berarti gk sayang. Kdang melalui tindakan sudah membuktikan kalau sudah sayang sama mereka.
ak dari kecil juga keknya gaperna bilang cinta ke ortu ueueue
Sama😭
I think Indonesians are generally not used to saying love to their parents. although in our hearts we feel love, but we feel shy and reluctant to say it. I think this is due to the cultural factors we grew up in.
so true!
I think not just indonesia, but in Asia. Cuz what I see from another Asian countries, not all Asian learned saying 'I luv u' to their parents. It's hard to say actually. :((
Exactly
Thats true
@@nanamikento56 Yes, you're right. Lea in the previous video was also shy when she had to say aishiteru to her mom. But Denise said it naturally with ease.
The phrase "AKU SAYANG MAMA/PAPA" in Indonesia, is really hard to say it and it's rare in here too.
right
@@2days1nightindonesianfansc61 tbh, i am a little embarassed to do that lol
Setuju banget ! I am agree as Indonesian. It just so weird to say to our parents or siblings cause it's just awkward.
@@nazkiaaa why do u not asleep yet? It's 1:30 AM already😂
@@7plus8makes1brain4 I am Indonesian but i live in Norway not in Indonesia 😁😆. It still 9 PM here. Aku orang indo kok
Indonesia People Yang Malu Saat Mau bilang Sayang Ke Mama Dan Papa Mana Suaranya
👇🏻
Pasti ada maunya ini
Ad mau ny wkwkwkwk
Lu di setiap konten sn cuman komen indonesua people wkwk.
Mana ga ada suara blok
Kita lebih diajarkan menghormati org tua kl syg y syg tp kan g peelu ky bule,,,klmkita pk ingris mmg gmpg ilu imu tp kl pk bahasa indonesia kan aneh
in Indonesia, when a child says "I love mama, papa" .. surely the parents immediately think their child is facing a problem and tired about life.. that's why her mother asked if everything was okay.
well, it's true. gue ngomong gini udh agak lama juga sih bilang "aku sayang semuanya." ggra inget neraka 💀 dahla
Hahaa iya bener
Oh right? That’s makes more sense now, thank you for explaining
ya ya.. I feel the same thing too
Yep that's right.....
Bener banget tuh......
Yes I can relate to this. Saying “I love you” is not a regular habit in Asian family culture. Asian parents often live in such a way where acts of service are the proof of their love. Cooking for us, providing for us, clothing us, doing everything they can to make sure we are better off than they were.
Pushing us to study so we do well in school, so we get good jobs, so we don't have to starve, so we can be healthy, so have a roof over our head and a bed to sleep on.
I know this because the question is always, "Have you eaten? Are you healthy? Are you getting enough sleep?"
I am biased, but Asian parents are the embodiment of "actions speak louder than words."
I cry more while read this 👍👍
THIS HOW I FEEL
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can relate
Plus most of indonesian languages dont even have the word to express love in a less-romantic way, such as 'sayang' in standard bahasa. Like in my language we only have the romantic one ('cinta' in standard bahasa).
Saying 'sayang' would be really awkward as I only speak my mother tongue to my family and saying the romantic one would be weird af. lol
tangisan dita menular pada semua penonton. walaupun berulang kali nonton tetap membuat keluar air mata ... siapa yang setuju?
aku juga
aku
Akuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
iya berkali kali pun
Hiks ;")
I'm Filipino and I never knew that she is an Indonesian K-pop idol like OH MY GOD!!!! This is the first time I've seen this. 😱😱😱😱
Ours just debuted, she's chanty from lapillus
Karna ada yang dari insonesia temen temya yg segrup jadi gaul gak laya boneka
What kind of primitive country do you think Indonesia is?
as an indonesian, i think all indonesian or maybe asian children are like that, i might cried if i said "aku sayang mama"(i love u mom) or stuff like that, ofc all children love their parents, but it's really hard to just say "i love you"
fahirah k yea...im indonesian and i can relate....I never said ily to my family..😭 idek why..
In indonesia if you suddenly says “i love you” for our parents, they would be worried.
Lintang Ramadhani TRUEE LOLLL A
Ikr:”(
Agree. We prefer "I miss you" instead of "I love you" to our parents. Although we feel like even it doesn't have a deeper meaning than "I love you", we usually proof and show it, because actions speak louder than words, right? 😆
I think her mom also want to cry, but she doesn't do it because she doesn't want to see her daughter being sad even more
it must be so hard for her mom. ㅠㅠ
I can't imagine how proud Dita's mother is and how much she misses Dita's❤️
So.... Dita's mom misses herself???
aight what do u mean ?
@@gunwnws1204 wkwk
Wait... what??
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Satu hari pasti kita bakal kesini lagi dimana secret number bakal lebih populer di masa depan dan kita nginget masa lalu❤️
Aamiin ya rabbal alamin 🤲🏻😇
AMIN 🙏🥰🌹🤍🤗
Aminnn
Ok sekarang aku tau hampir semua orang Indonesia tu susah banget bilang "aku sayang mama" ku kira cuma aku aja
I don't know why it's so hard to say "aku sayang mama", bukan nya gak sayang 😭😭
Belum apa apa nangis duluan .. heran iyah ....
Kayak kata "aku sayang ... " ke ortu lebih berbobot, seakan² pas ngomong gitu, semua kejadian dr kita kcl smpe skrg flashback smua.. Kan..siapa ni yg naruh bawang dpn mata gni 😭😭
Kalo gw sih mungkin jg nangis dikit, dan selebihnya ke malu,༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
Bukan hanya lndonesia sih, negara asia tenggara lain sama asia timur kayak china, juga gitu
Betul tu, kek nya ngucapin kata sayang dan cinta kepada orang tua sulit sekali, berasa sedih karena banyak kali kesahalan ke mereka
She’s literally a baby, the way she was holding her tears.. and the way she bursts out crying..I’M CRYING 😭😭
Same...i want to cry😢
@Safy safy what's with u and that youtube video because u can't get views doesn't mean put it under the most popular comment
Saying "I love you mom" is more difficult than saying to friends, I don't know why that is but our love for our parents is not necessary in words, It is only by seeing her and doing her that we love her so much...
At that time I had participated in activities at my school about learning motivation, there was a condition the motivator told me as a student to say that I love my mother, When I wanted to say it was really hard, but in the end it was a relief...
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@@biggo1038 itu udah final? Berarti bukan cuma region indonesia?
Kemarin sudah menang mewakili indonesia. Sekarang dari masing2 negara d adu.
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She's got me crying with her😭😭😭 I love how the language sounds though❤
It's because I'm from indonesia, when Dita say "aku sayang mama" I can't hold my tears too. It's so difficult to say that sentence.
Sama~
I know right,Susah gitu loh yang mau ngomong
@@svtnaila8029 iya, kelihatannya gampang tapi sebenernya..uhhhh
hampir hidup 20 taun, saya juga blm pernah ngomong itu ke keluarga sayaa☺
Alisa Azzahra sama susah buat nyatain syang kita lewat ucapan apalagi w cwo. tpi isnyaalloh udah diwakilkan sma sikap ku yg slalu nurut sma beliau berdua ❤️❤️
In the beginning of the video: okay, I won't cry
A minute later: *cry a river*
SAME GURL SAME
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Who's crying after watch this??
Dita is really strong, hardworking and humble person, hopefully Dita and the girls (Secret Number) soon will be the success girl group in the World
Me😭😅
MEEEE OMG 😭😭
Bawang
Me too
From the news I know it's really hard to become an idol at korea, so dita is really strong, really proud of her.
Not knowing much about Indonesian culture, I am surprised by how much of the conversation between Dita and her mom was in English.
I'm indonesian. Actually english is not commonly used in indonesian. But some people use english to each other, they often use english words while speaking. For me it's not cool, but I have to say that in Indonesia if you speak english, you'll be considered cool and sometimes smart too.
Ahh, Dita looks like a very soft.. She also could not resist her tears while receiving support from her mother😭❤️
She Just Really like commonly Indonesian girls when far from ther fam
Everyone say: dita's fans is just from Indonesia
Like if you not from Indonesia....
Several who like that,is indonesian too
Lmao 90
Oh i mean 101
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The language sounds beautiful. I just wanted someone to get up there and give her a hug!
Hansol Korea Reomit :
Kamera ini gak sanggup menunjukkan kebaikan Dita..
UWU ❤
parah:> awokawok XD
My angel is very beautiful
Fighting Dita karang and secret number, and thanks u 나돌 _NADOL Already invited our daughter.
Aww our Rapunzel, don't cry Dita. Secret number future world tour will be in Indonesia :)
Indonisia?bruh
Sorry, Indonesia not indonisia:)
Indonisia?
Indonesia not indonisia.
@@desvhopebangtan149 orang arab dan sekitarnya bilang indonesia itu indonisia, sama kayak kita nyebut japan itu jepang.
I'm really really sorry. I'm not that good at english and I forgot how to write Indonesia. I LOVE DITA I LOVE INDONESIA AND AGAIN I'm really sorry *saya minta maaf*
Itu sudah menjadi ciri khas orang Indonesia malu mengucapkan sayang ke ortu,tapi kasih sayangnya melebihi dari yg bisa di ucapkan.
Semangat buat mbak Dita,semoga sukses🤲
butuh sejuta keberanian dan 1 milyar ketegaran untuk mengatakan aku sayng ibu .. auto nangesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
Indonesian persons have a unique relationship with their family,so near and deep
Sorry but not for a broken home or unhappy family 😢
@@tinyman1171 :') unhappy family :'). yeah you're right :')
@@tinyman1171 don't be sad
@@racheldug2446 aww just hope we all have a happy family tho 👐
All Indonesian child is like that. Mostly never say i love you to family.
Bener bgt, kebanyakan nggak berani bilang sayang sama ortu.
Sekalinya ngomong ujung2nya nangis duluan ...
Kayanya ucapan sayang sesuatu yg serius juga di moment tertentu.
Why is this so relatable 🥺🥺🥺
Yupp bener, sy pun demikian smpai pd saat kuliah. Tp dimulai Semester akhir kuliah dan sampai saat skrg udah kerja dan berumur 30, selalu pd akhir telfon sy bilang sy sayang mama. Bahkan jika teman sy mnertawakan saya krn ucapan itu. Paling sy bilang ga ad yg salahkan, kapan lagi cuy. Kesempatan bs bilang klo org tua msh ada. Jgn smpai org tua ga ad baru nangis bilang sayang mama. Salah satu cara membuat mama tersenyum dan bahagia ialah paling gampang cukup bilang "aku sayang mama"
its feel so awkward when you wanna say it so. tapi bener deh kalian coba blg sekali aja ke ortu kalian, krn gue ngerasain penyesalan yg amat sangat ketika udh ga bisa blg kyk gt krn mama udh ga ada.
Kayanya hampir semua anak di semua negara ,rada susah bicara i love you ke family.. 😂
👇🏻The people who crying here😭
who's slicing the onions here guys
Me
Me to 😭
me too :')
Me,, omg 🤧
OMG I'm not yet familiar with Secret Number, but like this girl right here seems very sweet and pure. Plus she's so cute and pretty and she's very adorable. Must protect her at all costs.
Nggak cuma orang tua kak dita kok... Aku orang Indonesia dan banyak orang Indonesia lainnya jugak dukung dan sayang kak dita😭😭
Semangat ~sehat terus kak
DITA KARANG TETAP SEMANGAT, NKRI MENDUKUNGMU PENUH. KIBARKAN MERAH PUTIH DI KORSEL DAN DI DUNIA. TUNJUKKAN KITA BISA!!!
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we all will always support the secret number🤗
Ooh, who else cried? Dita is so cute, and her reaction when all her family said that love her ... ❤️❤️❤️
I can feel that her mom was kinda worried when she could hear that Dita was crying. I now really miss my mom so bad. it is also hard for me to say I love you to my mom because it's kinda an embarrassing thing for me to say because I'm not used to saying it. And also I want to avoid crying when I say I love you to my family.
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It hits when she was trying to hold back her tears, but she's still forcing a smile to sound okay ;-; I hope SN gets more popular. Even my mom who doesn't like Kpop said Dita is v cute and she's doing a great job >
Uwwww
I really appreciate Nadol's last statement. It is needed for people to know these facts. Stop throwing negativity and baseless hate, spread love.
yash!
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I'm crying as well! As Malaysian, same like Indonesian we hardly saying "I love you" to our parents especially in our own language. For me saying in english is much okay but when saying in malay the feel totally different. It must be a while since she met her family so of course saying those meaningful words when she also miss her family must be so hard for her. Her mother also sounds surprise to hear "aku sayang mama". You did so well Dita ❤
That is Indonesian, not Malay !!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@الأحمدسليمان yeah, I know. I never said she's Malaysian. I AM Malaysian and I said we Malaysian also same like Indonesian hardly saying "I love you" in our own language. Got what I mean?
@@الأحمدسليمان pft you can't understand english huh ? poor you
yes you right 😭
@@الأحمدسليمان apa sih?kan dia bilang as Malay..bkn ditanya yg Malay..
why am I crying from the first she practice “aku sayang mama” before she call her mom :”)
I love mom
I think it is not only Indonesian children who have difficulty saying "I love You" to their parents but our parents also seldom say it when we are growing up. Showing affection between us is usually replaced by saying "are you healthy?" "have you eaten?" "How is today?"
That's right
Do they cut fruit? Because mine do.
@@fushim5510 😂😂 Mine cut a lot of watermelon and cheese, not a fruit, yet they cut it a lot also
@@fushim5510 yes they also peel the chicken off the bones for you so you dont have to bite the meat off
Yep,bc i feel it kinda disgusting 😭😭
Kebiasaan gue, apapun berbau SN belum gue tonton udah dilike duluan. Ada yang sama?
Jangan kebiasaan gitu, ntar kedetect bot. Aturan RUclips sekarang aneh²
sameeee
Biasanya kalau langsung di like itu gk di hitung like nya. Karena dikira robot. Tunggu video mulai 30 detik atau 1 menit baru like
Dan...q nonton ini kembali skrg ...masih aja ikut nagiss.... 😭😭😭😭Good luck Dita dan SN ...smoga sukses dan tercapai impian2 kalian... Aamiin
how could she say "i'm ok" when there were THAT much tears running on her cheeks??? god i'm ugly crying rn, she's too precious fr ;-;
aren't we all? 😷
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Bisa ngerasain apa yg kak dita rasa, jauh dari orangtua emang menyakitkan tp demi cita2 apapun harus dijalani. Semangatt kak dita, kami akan selalu mendukungmu.
Dita has such a big, soft heart. Bless her and bless Secret Number!
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디타 사랑해요 ♥♥♥ 부디 한국에서 대박나길 기원합니다
Stay healthy there Dita ,, we here will always support SN fighting
Dita eonni has to be strong, we always love you and support you, watch all the content of secret number ,always support secret number no matter what happens ..
Don't cry our princess ❤️❤️❤️❤️ stay healthy and take care your self .. we love you dita eonni ❤️❤️ always ✌️
for Dita, Lea, Denise and other Secret Number members (Jinny, Soodam), we all know how hard your struggle to be an idol, and how hard it is to stay away from your family, keep fighting girls, never ever listen to those who are jealous of your success and those who will keep trying to bring you down, we know you are strong girls and will never give up, and we know you are capable, we all of your fans will continue to always try to support you with all our abilities, and we will continue to wait for your next comeback, really can't wait for you guys to become a big group someday later, Keep fighting.
YESSS!
it's so sweet, I really like how their fans really support them, hope they read this comment
i’m filipino but this touched me cos filipinos don’t really say i love you as well :,)
Yea
*sees Dita cry*
*try not to cry*
*cried a lot*
_that's her and some of us i guess_
*_semangat terus, mbak dita. you are the pride of Indonesia in kpop and Korea_*
As Indonesian, we can't really say i love you, "Aku sayang papa/mama" easily
Not because we don't want, but it's too hard to say.
It has deep meaning for us and our culture.
We usually say "jaga diri baik-baik"(take care), to ends our facetime, call or short meeting.
When it comes to "i love you", trust me it'll come with tears along...
When a daughter or a son cries, we don't wanna show it, even if we had bad day, situation. we don't wanna make our parents sad and crying too..
For if it does, we really think twice to say 'i love you'.
Dikiranya mau ngapain kan amit2 :(
yesss bener bgt
Yups setuju..
Seolah2 ucapan tsb adalah kata2 terkahir kita buat orang tua..
@@twelvehalo2929 wkwk
Kamu di indo??
@@keisya2065 wkwkkw setujuu
People who dislike this video dont have a heart at all...Thank you so much NADOL for trying to protect them from bad comments or haters. We all appreciate your program. THANK YOU SO MUCH AND STAY SAFE ALL
nadol also give nice coment in the end, thank you nadol
Dita cried, I cried even louder... Be strong Dita Oenni...
"promosiin anakmu ya ma" is the cutest words to say from the cutest girl to her mom
Dita calling her dad "Ajik" is the closest Balinese lineage i've seen from her, fellow Balinese support you Dita
"Ajik" itu bahasa Bali untuk "papa" ya?
Iya.Pak/Bapak
I'mThatGirl iya, biasanya ajik itu panggilan untuk mereka yg berkasta/ keturunan kerajaan kayak kak dita
Owalah utk yg keturunan raja aja
@@sunnyprtwi266 lebih tepatnya keturunan bangsawan , untuk orang Bali biasanya namaya lengkapnya ada Gusti atau I Gusti , keseringan atau kebanyakan keturunan bangsawan , ini sepengetahuan aku karena aku orang Bali 🙏🏻
So sad, i miss my family too. Dita Fighting
it's really more emotional if you say i love you in your mother tongue compared to when you say it in other language.
SEMANGAT KAK DITA 💘💖💖💖💖
SALAM YA DARI FANS KAK DITA YANG ADA DI INDONESIA💖💖💖💖😊😊
I’m crying too 😭😭 i know how hard it was to say “i love you” to family’s especially to our mom
hope dita and SN not just popular because of "indonesian" things. fighting!!
In Indonesia, it's so very difficult to express, even just to say "I love you mom/papa" it's really hard, because when we say that. there are various kinds of extraordinary feelings that enter our hearts. tears will come out by themselves, because it is the most sincere expression in the world
let's gather here who join in the cry to see Dita crying, like guys
I wanted to like your comment. But when you say "like guys" i started to thinking twice hahaha
Aaaaaa i can't see dita crying :'( fighting dita we always support you :'(
Denise easy to say "i love you" and she cry
+
Lea Shy to say "i love you" and she laugh
=
Dita Shy to say "i love you " and she cry
so sad...
+laugh
also laugh
It honestly must be so hard for her to leave her family at such a young age to do her dream. I understand why she is crying, sometimes it’s hard to be away from the people you love the most
She literally is trying hard every day, in a land foreign to her in language, blood, culture and everything else in between.
Of course she'd miss home. This was a beautifully touching moment.
Stay happy and healthy Dit, we are always support you and miss you so much, we are waiting you and other member SN in Indonesia
I can't imagine being away from my family for so long, and it seems Dita has been holding back her feelings to break down in front of the camera. I can't even hold back my tears watching her, love and support from all of us, Ditaa ❤❤
Yup..it seems she has been holding back her feelings for too long.
Yes, me too
I can't imagine if I live aboard which means I have to live far far far away from my family
Recalling all the memories of togetherness
Org yg nangis tp di tahan itu malah makin sedih 🥺
Smangat Dita kita selalu dukung dan bangga sm kamu.
Don't cry don't cry don't cry DON'T CRY
I'm tryin not to be emotional but i rly cant wth👁👄👁
no women no cry but no mom no cry. i hope mbak dita always strong.
Secret Number, we love u...
I'm Indonesian, the words "I love you" and "I miss you" is always making me cry so I often avoid to say that directly 😂 Instead of that I express those words as "How are you?" "How do you do?" and things like that. If I really want to say I love you or I miss you, I write it in the letter. TO AVOID THE TEARS YES HAHA
Hahaha same with me! I think all Asians are like that 🤣 we just grow up without saying that words hahahaa
Iya kaya ga biasa aja gt XD blg i luv u
Let's Smile! RELATABLEE OMGGG
Sama..kek gk berani mau bilang i love you ke ortu karna ada rasa malu2 gtu😅
Bener, yg ada malah canggung gtu :')
Dita..Sayapun ikut mendukung karir bermusik kamu di Korea..Doa dari keluarga..teman dan fansmu akan semaki menguatkan langkah kamu..Jangan menyerah sekalipun ada angin yang bertiup kencang..Buatlah bangga keluarga dan semua fansmu khususnya di Indonesia..
in fact that i understood their conversation makes me cry more. cheer up sis! we all know you have been through hard time, but you are doing great! too great for 23 years old girls........ proud
I almost burst in tears too when she said 'Aku Sayang Mama' as Indonesian myself, we so rarely saying that to our parents, we say 'I miss you' more to replacing the words or just simple ask caring words like 'Are you eat yet?' or 'Don't wory too hard go rest. ' or just act it, like bring them food or cook their favorite, like Dita we might crying lots if we say that haha 😅
or we would just say 'i love you' but in english bcs its easier to say it. "aku sayang mama' hits different tho, even tho both words are meant the same
Yea that's true 😢
Yes exactly, when we’re saying to our indonesian parents i miss u, it means a lot like a lottt, it’s lit bit awkward to saying i love u, cuz we’re can’t describe how much our love to our parents🥰
My eyes already teary just to think about saying it. I wish I had the time to saying it before my mom passed away last year, got heart attack in her sleep, too sudden. Now I saying it in whisper, in her grave.
@@NurmaBP Stay strong k
please don't cry DITA, we all love you
They dont deserved haters, we are here to protect you girls 🥺
ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ I LITERALLY CRIED!!! THIS IS SO HEARTWARMING knowing that dita is pursuing her personal dream but her family are always there supporting aww they're so sweet!
Im not crying its you.....
.....
Noooooo Im Crying so hard here😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Okay, you're not alone.
Her mother called Dita's father as Aji. It proved that Dita really comes from a royal family in Bali.
Is she Bali - Javanese ?
@@billinglumbalumba nope. dita asli bali but, dita and her family live in yogyakarta
Apa cuma royal family yang boleh manggil father as aji?
Ajik lebih tepatnya kak hehe^^
Beatrix Mahani Angsar bukan boleh atau engganya si kak,tapi emng tradisi kaya gtu,kaya yg punya marga gtu^^
Saya bukan penggemar kpop, saya mengenal Dita baru baru ini, dan munculah video ini di beranda saya..
Dari sini saya memahami bahwa kebanyakan orang indonesia sulit untuk mengungkapkan rasa sayang atau cinta kepada keluarga dengan kata-kata namun bukan berarti tidak sayang atau tidak cinta.
Menurut saya pribadi kata-kata untuk mengungkapkan perasaan sesederhana "aku sayang mama" bagi saya begitu besar beban yang dibawa dalam kata-kata tersebut, karena selain menyampaikan perasaan sayang, juga menyampaikan rasa terimakasih untuk semua yang telah diberikan orangtua kita untuk membesarkan kita dan juga menyampaikan permintaan maaf untuk semua kesalahan yang pernah kita perbuat kepada mereka, oleh karena itu kata-kata ini menjadi begitu sederhana namun menjadi sangat sulit untuk diungkapkan karena besarnya makna yang ada dibalik kata-kata tersebut.
Yang kita lihat disini sebagai contoh adalah Dita, dalam keadaan kangen dan terpisah dengan keluarganya membuat kata-kata tersebut menjadi semakin besar maknanya karena mewakili seluruh rasa yang ingin diungkapkan Dita dan membuatnya menangis, saya juga jadi ikut menangis karenanya.
Bagi saya yang masih tinggal bersama orangtua dan masih belum sedewasa Dita saja begitu berat untuk mengatakan "aku sayang mama", bahkan hanya memikirkanya saja membuat saya ingin menangis, apalagi Dita yang terpisah jarak dengan keluarganya, betapa dirinya adalah wanita kuat.
"menangis adalah hal yang menunjukkan bahwa seseorang sudah berjuang dengan baik, mereka adalah orang yang kuat"
Dita don't cry,fighting
I clicked this video with teary eyes already 🤧🤧🤧🤧
The second her mom said "hallo", I just, I don't know. I'm crying.
i swear to god i cant stop crying....becoz i know the feel when u alone in other country without your family around....its so sad....
@@emelldayanis3926 you're right. I think being away from family is kind of hard
@@mellyfransiska1758 yes even im in other city becoz of work its still hard....
Hope you'll meet your family soon and stay safe
@@mellyfransiska1758 thats my hope too....thanks so much...
I swear i cried , it must be so hard for her being an idol in korea Alone 😭😭😭😭😭😭
I love u dita
As Indonesian, I agree that saying "I love you" to parents is hard because we never talk about our feeling. Kind of awkward
This is so true, i always feel like crying everytime I say it
True :((
This is so true
YEAH,so truee
Sooo truee!!
english : love
indonesian : saYang
korean : saRang
bentley (trs) : saYang
sama ae kek indo😭🙏
Korean bknnya saLang? dilirik2 lagu tulisannya salanghae bkn saranghae
Dita: kaRang
Korean Sarang heo
Indonesia Sarang beo
@@piriri1162 awokaowkoakwok itu beda
my bias don't cry...
we love you 😭😍
😭😭😭
Sayang Ditaaa...❤️❤️❤️😍kamu hebat sekali.. hati kamu baik.. Indonesia Bangga memilikimu.. Dunia juga Bangga.. teruskan cita citamu.. rasa haru ini biar menjadi doa yang tulus.. semua karya dan cintamu sampai di hati kami.. doa tulus kami Indonesia untuk Dita💞🇲🇨
She’s cried because she just realized that all of her families member gathered.
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I do not know why, it's much easier saying "I Love You Mom" rather than "Aku Sayang Mama"
Those words feel too heavy to say
I'm not Asian but it is probably bc languages that aren't English usually hold more weight. Aku Sayang mama probably has slightly deeper meaning than just "I love you". it's so weird bc I grew up with French in my household so I know about difference in language and stuff like that.
i agree
@@samcarmen this is so true. somehow using our own lang felt more intimate and as you said, it holds more weight than other language
I believe that's because as Indonesian, we don't say "aku sayang kamu" that much, and from what i've learn that when you speak english , "I love you" is something that everyone can say to everyone. It's not "literally" everyone but from that example we know that english speaker having the "parabole" habbit that sometimes make a word doesn't sound/feel as deep as it should be specially when we compare the english word with the litterally translation word in other language. It's only my opinion, and sorry if there is anyone who disagree with me
@@karisah7510 no I totally agree. I say I live you all the time wether it is to my sisters, parents or friends
디타 언니 울지마세요🥺❤
Kita semua sayang ka dita dan secret number❤ Makasih udah berjuang❤ Semangat terus ka dita & secret number❤
I love her so much, i hope i can see her grow in the kpop world :) she really is a gem. Love you Dita ❤️
Finally full video , who cry after watching this proff ur like
Oh no our rapunzel don’t cry you are strong.
Top koment tros lu bro wkkww
My Rapunzel
Morning ndezz,yok smgt vote
I also cried when Dita said "I sayang mama" because I'm also from Indonesia and somehow those words are very difficult to say
Rana Sabila jarang gasi, kita lebih sering ngomong “kangen” dibanding “sayang”
@@ariiqakbar2149 iya sih entah mengapa kek susah diomongin aja klo ngomong kata sayang
나는 Sis Dita가 가족을 그리워하는 것을보고 감동 받았습니다 😭 내가 Dita의 여동생이라면 나는 정말로 부모님을 만나고 싶었습니다 😭😭