I lost my brother too. I have no other siblings. He was 4 years older than me, and he died suddenly from heart problems, when he was 47.It was a shock. I always thought we would have each other when we got old. I have a husband and 2 children, but still I struggled from time to time for a few years ,with grief. He had always been in my life. I expected to lose our parents one day, but I never thought I would lose my brother. Not so soon. He was so funny, so kind and empathetic. He newer had children . I'm happy he was my brother, I don't grieve him anymore now, after 8 years. Now I remember him with fondness. Love you brother. See you again one day❤
My sister, the closest person to me in this life, died after being diagnosed with Ovarian cancer while pregnant with what would have been her first child. Unfortunately we were alone and i took care of her to allow her to die at home. It took me years and years before I finally transformed this loss into a more open heart than I’d ever had. Grief is indeed a great teacher.
Thank you for sharing Mary, I appreciate it. I'm heartened to hear your experience brought you to a more open heart. How beautiful. Yes, a great teacher. Much love to you. ♥
I know that when someone passes, we hear he/she is gone, but on the other side of the vail there are shouting here he/she comes. They are celebrating the coming! 🎉 There is no such thing as death! We just move on to the next phase of our existence! ❤
In my experience, when we love someone who is dying, we are with them, rowing out into a big open lake together, until one day they start to row out beyond us alone. We can try to follow them but they are now on the solo part of the journey. I’ve lost enough people I have loved to cancer, and the kind of journey toward death that represents. Ultimately we all die alone, i think that’s my point.
Many of those who leave us at a young age are old souls who came here to accomplish their final work. The energy of this world is overbearing for them and their soul longs to go back home. Regardless, their absence and departure from the physical world is devastating for us.
Thank you for sharing, my dear. My sister had 18 months of melanoma battle, it was the hardest thing ever and at the end she cut everybody out , her relationships suffered , we were all devastated.
The algorithm brought me here and I’m so grateful it did. Thank you so much for sharing your story about Mikey. My younger brother, Eric, passed away very unexpectedly in February 2022. A heart attack at 44. I have considered whether it would’ve been easier somehow if we had had time to say goodbye. I’ve never let myself dwell on that much, and then at the end when you said you wouldn’t change a thing… That’s just it. Neither would I. Not even to have my brother back. It all feels like part of some sort of divine plan. The ankle in the artwork behind you is wild! As though to say, all is well now. Seems this video is Mikey approved. Much love. 💙
@@teresazube Well I’m honoured you are here and I am glad you shared your story with me. I am really glad to hear you feel a similar way about acceptance. Thank you for your love and kindness. Lots of love to you too Teresa. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story Malise. My heart is full of many emotions and I honour and cherish the expression of your vulnerability. Sending you much love and blessings of peace.
Thank you for sharing your story I’m in such sorrow grieving my beloved daughter who had a baby and was diagnosed with stage four cancer ,my world fell apart as she was my only daughter and as I watched her grow to accept her faith I was so proud of her we could only give her hope,she fought a brave battle to stay it wasn’t to be and she died last Christmas,I feel her with me every day but the physical part I miss ,her hugs and kisses and her lovely smile,but in time I know I will be ok,I’m sorry for your loss your brother was a beautiful soul ❤
My heart goes out to you, beautiful soul. ❤ Losing your own child must be a pain that is indescribable. Thank you for sharing this with me. I am honoured you felt to share. Much love to you! 🤗💕❤️
@@deborahjaffe It’s a painting I did in 2018 of a woman dancing in the grass. Isn’t it weird how it lights up in the video. Whilst I assume that it’s related to how the camera wants to focus on people in the video and is confused by the skin colour, I also like to believe it’s a sign of synchronicity. 🥰
Thanks so much Malise for sharing your story. I was 'hanging on your lips' (as we say in Dutch, I don't know if this expression is also in other languages...) because, although I have a total different life story, I recognized so much. I know Anita Moorjani's story (I read her book 'Dying to me' many years ago) but her podcasts don't inspire me that much as this one of yours, because you tell so much nuances of your process and it came right into my heart. I recently feel joy again about me being alive in this body (although I need an operation of a heart valve and went through a lot of emotions, especially fear of dying... I am too, a good thinker and loved to analyze...) and I try not to believe the voice in my head that wants to put me down. Your story was SO inspiring for me, thanks from the bottom of my heart!
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment. I was moved to tears 🙏and I am sad to hear of your current struggle. My heart sees your heart and there is sooooo much love. I am quarter Dutch in my roots. Much love to you beautiful soul. 💕
@@BoostOfJoy and thank you very much for your response. Wow, a quarter Dutch, that is something to be proud of... ;-) I forgot to mention I loved the pictures of your beautiful brother, but I can really understand that you stepped away from him in the end because you wanted a real connection and not superficial. That is exactly what I want with people. Maybe we are both highly sensitive... what a beautiful quality, isn't it?!. Much love to you!
I lost my brother too. I have no other siblings. He was 4 years older than me, and he died suddenly from heart problems, when he was 47.It was a shock.
I always thought we would have each other when we got old.
I have a husband and 2 children, but still I struggled from time to time for a few years ,with grief.
He had always been in my life. I expected to lose our parents one day, but I never thought I would lose my brother. Not so soon.
He was so funny, so kind and empathetic. He newer had children .
I'm happy he was my brother, I don't grieve him anymore now, after 8 years. Now I remember him with fondness.
Love you brother. See you again one day❤
Yes death is so true and grief is so true
But more powerful than that are memories that last forever and ever
I wish all souls get peace
My sister, the closest person to me in this life, died after being diagnosed with Ovarian cancer while pregnant with what would have been her first child. Unfortunately we were alone and i took care of her to allow her to die at home. It took me years and years before I finally transformed this loss into a more open heart than I’d ever had. Grief is indeed a great teacher.
Thank you for sharing Mary, I appreciate it. I'm heartened to hear your experience brought you to a more open heart. How beautiful. Yes, a great teacher. Much love to you. ♥
I know that when someone passes, we hear he/she is gone, but on the other side of the vail there are shouting here he/she comes. They are celebrating the coming! 🎉
There is no such thing as death! We just move on to the next phase of our existence! ❤
@@Yaya7773 That is so beautiful!!!! ❤️
Amazing, thank you so much. So needed to watch your video. God bless you. You are an inspiration ❤
@@Aroha016 I’m glad this blessed you beautiful soul! Sending love ❤️
In my experience, when we love someone who is dying, we are with them, rowing out into a big open lake together, until one day they start to row out beyond us alone. We can try to follow them but they are now on the solo part of the journey. I’ve lost enough people I have loved to cancer, and the kind of journey toward death that represents. Ultimately we all die alone, i think that’s my point.
That's a wonderful metaphor to explain the feeling of losing someone terminal. I felt the same. Thank you Mary. 💕
Many of those who leave us at a young age are old souls who came here to accomplish their final work. The energy of this world is overbearing for them and their soul longs to go back home. Regardless, their absence and departure from the physical world is devastating for us.
@@METAMORPHIC_Healing888 Yes, I feel this truth. 🙏❤️
Thank you for sharing, my dear. My sister had 18 months of melanoma battle, it was the hardest thing ever and at the end she cut everybody out , her relationships suffered , we were all devastated.
@@ninakuznetsova7746 That sounds like it would’ve been so hard. I hope you have found some peace now. Sending love. 🙏💜
Beautiful 🌸⭐️🌺❤️🌷🌈
The algorithm brought me here and I’m so grateful it did. Thank you so much for sharing your story about Mikey. My younger brother, Eric, passed away very unexpectedly in February 2022. A heart attack at 44. I have considered whether it would’ve been easier somehow if we had had time to say goodbye. I’ve never let myself dwell on that much, and then at the end when you said you wouldn’t change a thing… That’s just it. Neither would I. Not even to have my brother back. It all feels like part of some sort of divine plan.
The ankle in the artwork behind you is wild! As though to say, all is well now. Seems this video is Mikey approved.
Much love. 💙
@@teresazube Well I’m honoured you are here and I am glad you shared your story with me. I am really glad to hear you feel a similar way about acceptance. Thank you for your love and kindness. Lots of love to you too Teresa. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story Malise. My heart is full of many emotions and I honour and cherish the expression of your vulnerability. Sending you much love and blessings of peace.
Thank you Amy, I appreciate your love and support. Lots of love. 💞
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Thank you for sharing your story I’m in such sorrow grieving my beloved daughter who had a baby and was diagnosed with stage four cancer ,my world fell apart as she was my only daughter and as I watched her grow to accept her faith I was so proud of her we could only give her hope,she fought a brave battle to stay it wasn’t to be and she died last Christmas,I feel her with me every day but the physical part I miss ,her hugs and kisses and her lovely smile,but in time I know I will be ok,I’m sorry for your loss your brother was a beautiful soul ❤
My heart goes out to you, beautiful soul. ❤ Losing your own child must be a pain that is indescribable. Thank you for sharing this with me. I am honoured you felt to share. Much love to you! 🤗💕❤️
A lovely piece. Thankyou ❤
@@PadraigHannon-e2j ❤️🙏
I can’t help noticing the ankle in the painting that is behind you as you are speaking. 🥰
Oh wow! Now that's an interesting synchronicity. Thanks for pointing that out! Hmmmm. 💕
The ankle keeps lighting up during the video. Anyone else notice that? Is it lit from behind?
@@deborahjaffe It’s a painting I did in 2018 of a woman dancing in the grass. Isn’t it weird how it lights up in the video. Whilst I assume that it’s related to how the camera wants to focus on people in the video and is confused by the skin colour, I also like to believe it’s a sign of synchronicity. 🥰
Synchronicity, without a doubt! 🥰💕
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Thanks so much Malise for sharing your story. I was 'hanging on your lips' (as we say in Dutch, I don't know if this expression is also in other languages...) because, although I have a total different life story, I recognized so much. I know Anita Moorjani's story (I read her book 'Dying to me' many years ago) but her podcasts don't inspire me that much as this one of yours, because you tell so much nuances of your process and it came right into my heart. I recently feel joy again about me being alive in this body (although I need an operation of a heart valve and went through a lot of emotions, especially fear of dying... I am too, a good thinker and loved to analyze...) and I try not to believe the voice in my head that wants to put me down. Your story was SO inspiring for me, thanks from the bottom of my heart!
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment. I was moved to tears 🙏and I am sad to hear of your current struggle. My heart sees your heart and there is sooooo much love. I am quarter Dutch in my roots. Much love to you beautiful soul. 💕
@@BoostOfJoy and thank you very much for your response. Wow, a quarter Dutch, that is something to be proud of... ;-) I forgot to mention I loved the pictures of your beautiful brother, but I can really understand that you stepped away from him in the end because you wanted a real connection and not superficial. That is exactly what I want with people. Maybe we are both highly sensitive... what a beautiful quality, isn't it?!. Much love to you!
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❤Thank you so very much for sharing❤
@@cocojumbo2323 You’re welcome! Thank you for visiting. Wishing you peace and lots of love. 💞
Thanks so much for your life experience i can feel you 😢
@@roz7836 Thank you for your warm message. Sending love ❤️
You've helped me a lot. Thank you so much for sharing. ❤
@@amandapedder5635 Thank you Amanda, that makes my heart sing. Sending you much love in whatever life is presenting. 💕
I did listening and cry he was same as my brother soul and act hon
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