Why I Left Bollywood... The Real Reason | Shivani Bafna

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  • Опубликовано: 28 янв 2025

Комментарии • 205

  • @kingoftrollers2822
    @kingoftrollers2822 3 года назад +141

    I lost my father few days back just a week before he was arriving to meet me and this video really hit me hard. Life is unpredictable. Spend most time with the people you really love and care

    • @mohit6jain
      @mohit6jain 3 года назад

      More power to you!

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 3 года назад

      Yall r lucky u got nice parents 🙄🙄

    • @ShrutiSharma-nu1sg
      @ShrutiSharma-nu1sg 3 года назад

      Hope you are doing well !!! ♥️
      More love and strength to you !

  • @sanj_satheesh
    @sanj_satheesh 4 года назад +86

    Being with family and living each moment with them is a priceless feeling and a gift! ❤ So happy after watching this video..

  • @tanyaahmed4801
    @tanyaahmed4801 4 года назад +7

    My thinking is the absolute same!! Everything you said. Especially the part about you, your in-laws, parents and your brother's family living close to each other.

  • @theexplorer66
    @theexplorer66 4 года назад +42

    Shivani Bafna, you are really a genuine person with a pure heart who shares the things honestly.... May God bless you and your family 💛

  • @emilydas3095
    @emilydas3095 4 года назад +12

    I feel exactly the same, I just can’t think about living far away from my parents. Everyone in college comments that you’ve got to be away, you’ve got to detach from them, it’s such a lame excuse to not be in the hostel and I’m like NO... I have to come back to them hug them and see them everyday. Yup I do put my family over anything and I’m proud of it. 🌟❤️♾

  • @indiramitra4824
    @indiramitra4824 4 года назад +92

    You are soo damn brave shivani. Proude of u❤️.Bollywood doesn't deserve a gem 💎 like you.You can do way better❤️❤️❤️

  • @sudeshnakhaddar2850
    @sudeshnakhaddar2850 3 года назад +7

    I have always believed that we are made up of our choices! Being a woman it sometimes become even more crucial and critical too. Thank you so much for sharing your insights! Full of positivity and love... Loved it.

  • @IshaanyaR
    @IshaanyaR 4 года назад +23

    You're a really sweet person and this shows. Really rare to find people who prioritize their family ❤ You are so down to earth and you inspire me so much 🥰

  • @Lerisha23
    @Lerisha23 4 года назад +37

    Hi Shivani, I'm so glad that you have shared your experiences. I relate to you so so much. I moved to Mumbai in 2017 to also begin a career in the Indian film industry. I lived there for 3 years and honestly was the best 3 years of life!! I'm from South Africa and I'm 3rd generation so when i moved I knew absolutely no one. I'm also super super family oriented but being back home this year in South Africa due to corona virus made me realise just how much I need to be in Mumbai to grow. Sometimes you've got to make sacrifices and make the most of what you have. But I'm glad that everything worked out for you! and thank you for sharing once again :)

    • @hitesh8782
      @hitesh8782 2 года назад

      How difficult was it for you to live in Mumbai after living in SA for ur entire life?

  • @sweedaldsouza4449
    @sweedaldsouza4449 4 года назад +14

    well spoken !! 👏👏❤
    Totally agree with this, we hustle throughout our 20s trying our best to make a wealthy living but in order to win something we lose so many things ...parents , friends , Relatives ..there exist no Heart and soul connections , every1s in a rat race.
    we need to Be Grateful for all we have and Keep living in the moment.
    kya pata Kal Ho na Ho ❤🤘
    #Bollywooddiva
    #BeKindSpreadLove

  • @devanshijha1550
    @devanshijha1550 4 года назад +8

    You're so young but still you're such an intellectual kind of a person! And I really appreciate your this thing!
    You're my inspiration...really!♡

  • @chakshusharma6655
    @chakshusharma6655 4 года назад +14

    This video just hit me to another level. I really want exact things like my family to be around. I'm gonna make it like you did. Thankyou for each and everything you are doing. I really love watching you.

  • @pragyasaini5310
    @pragyasaini5310 4 года назад +21

    this was so heartful and emotional video shivani!! big fan of you!! pls bring shyam to in more of your videos!! we love to watch you together!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @komaljoshi3574
    @komaljoshi3574 3 года назад +2

    I am watching this video after one year of when you posted this and every single word you said is true.. I moved to the US in 2017 and every single day I miss my family, my cousins, my parents.. Every single fun we used to do together back in the days is still v close to my heart and I don’t know if my kids could ever experience that family warmth in their life if we decide to live here forever.. I love you girl, you are an inspiration!

  • @diyaarora8730
    @diyaarora8730 4 года назад +17

    Hey
    I'm Diya from India
    I really like ur content and was eagerly waiting for your upcoming video..
    No matter what career u choose but you are a nice human being is what will make u achieve much more..

  • @thrfu3169
    @thrfu3169 4 года назад +14

    I can imagine how hard it has been for you to quit your dream job but it was worth it.
    Love your reason AND you 💖.

  • @richtelltales
    @richtelltales 4 года назад +3

    Absolutely second you and thats why me and my husband got back from Michigan to Mumbai !! To be close to our fam

  • @itsjustart24
    @itsjustart24 3 года назад

    Thats so true..you are lucky to have a supporting and loving family.. touchwood

  • @AJ-kb9hf
    @AJ-kb9hf 2 года назад

    I agree with you wholeheartedly. Family is everything. Spend time with those that you love, grow together and make special memories. Before you know it a key member can be taken. Love and laughter with those that matter is the most important.

  • @ritunwitasarkar5266
    @ritunwitasarkar5266 4 года назад +43

    No matter what u do in ur life, you will always be an inspiration to a lot of ppl♥️

    • @shivanibafna2183
      @shivanibafna2183  4 года назад +15

      Thank you so much!!

    • @antrec361
      @antrec361 3 года назад

      @Shivani Bafna For you, it was your dream which you kinda lived. But for many of us it's a necessity to go out and work and earn and live... Though we also love and value our family and simply wanna spend our rest of the lives with them only. But, not everybody have this privilege and luck!

  • @snehakc__
    @snehakc__ 4 года назад +6

    m first here today
    eagerly wating for this one❣️

  • @janhaviunfiltered
    @janhaviunfiltered 4 года назад +6

    Absolutely trueeee❤️❤️ My heart lies with my family and i guess I’ll be the happiest when I’m building my career as well as being with them ❤️ love to you shyam and THE BIG BAF FAMILY❤️

  • @khushikaur1076
    @khushikaur1076 3 года назад +1

    I literally pull so much inspiration from you, Shivani! That was so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your experiences and reminding us that, life's too short to follow a conventional path. Do what makes you happiest!

  • @pragyasaini5310
    @pragyasaini5310 4 года назад +1

    super proud of you!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ghanashyamsha6873
    @ghanashyamsha6873 4 года назад +2

    Good job 👌. I can totally understand your feelings and your emotions. Live with your family and you will do something else better than bollywood. Because you are that much of capable 😎💪

  • @saurabhslays
    @saurabhslays 3 года назад

    Shivani u did just the right thing. Be proud. Inner satisfaction and peace of mind is the new success

  • @brain_stroming
    @brain_stroming 3 года назад

    It's actually such a good point cauz in order to make our career we forget the people who have always support us and we're w/ us the whole time so it's also important to bulid ur future but also to spend time with family and that's why we say always make a balance not just in relationships but a balance is important in everything.

  • @himanshichauhan2814
    @himanshichauhan2814 4 года назад +1

    It's like I am hearing my own self from you..❤️❤️

  • @mihikachitre1750
    @mihikachitre1750 4 года назад +6

    Clicked on the notification as soon as I saw it....Love u Shivani di❤️
    Ur such an inspiration...and this video really taught me how much it is imp to value family😊

    • @shivanibafna2183
      @shivanibafna2183  4 года назад +5

      Love that, thank you for watching!!!

    • @mihikachitre1750
      @mihikachitre1750 4 года назад

      @@shivanibafna2183 Thank u for giving us such grt content❤️❤️

  • @kreata
    @kreata 2 года назад

    Best decision u took..be ur own boss..u will make big..u r lucky u have a lovely family..i lost my mom when I was 9yrs old n no siblings

  • @foramshah9693
    @foramshah9693 4 года назад +4

    You're doing really great Di and I'm sure you'll achieve all that you wish for and you deserve!!! All the best 👍❤️

  • @prarthanamehta4671
    @prarthanamehta4671 4 года назад +1

    You are soo beautiful inside and out! This shows that you are so real and strong! Lots of love to you and your family!❤️

  • @manalkalola8096
    @manalkalola8096 4 года назад

    I love how you are fiercely optimistic.

  • @sumedhahahaaa
    @sumedhahahaaa 4 года назад +14

    0:51 Marry a boy in Bombay...
    Shyam be like:-😒😒😒
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    We love you a lot...you are truly a great inspiration for many...🙌🙌

  • @timepassmovies1
    @timepassmovies1 3 года назад

    You are way too matured than of your age… millions of people don’t prioritise things like this and run behind money. This video is so clear of how one should be with the relationships. Thankyou for the video.

  • @anushkasharma1253
    @anushkasharma1253 4 года назад

    when shivani uploads....
    i am like....click on the video with speed of light...

  • @anusha_soman
    @anusha_soman 4 года назад +1

    Omg I am just going to cry as soon as I saw the notification I came here ASAP to watch your new video ....
    Missed those regular uploads ❤️
    When I watch your videos I just see genuineness and kindness pouring out of you it's very rare to find people like you and I feel fortunate enough to have found you on (at least virtually )RUclips ❤️

  • @aarushichopra6633
    @aarushichopra6633 4 года назад

    And yes again as always and my comment just same as always but appreciation is always needed. And this being said before too,the industry i guess is not for people like us who always are into making happy choosing this above all and more of all being faithful and fun loving but cautious too!
    So indeed bold step! Hats off!😊♥️

  • @Sakshi-or8sl
    @Sakshi-or8sl 4 года назад +2

    Ohmygod! Girl you are having such a beautiful heart. Not everyone in this generation think of living n growing with family, but you do. Such a good thoughts. Aw i am huge fan🥰😘

    • @antrec361
      @antrec361 3 года назад

      @Shivani Bafna For her, it was a dream which she kinda lived. But for many of us it's a necessity to go out and work and earn and live... Though we also love and value our family and simply wanna spend our rest of the lives with them only. But, not everybody is as privileged and lucky as her!

  • @nazifatasnim5899
    @nazifatasnim5899 4 года назад +2

    This video is so so amazing!you described all the facts and your point of view so clearly..❤️

  • @user-bb3rr1hf2m
    @user-bb3rr1hf2m 2 года назад

    I have so much respect for you now! Such a wise girl ♥

  • @riddhisingla8247
    @riddhisingla8247 4 года назад +1

    Shivani, I have never seen a girl like you in my life. Definitely not in today's day and age. I am glad that you think this way and you showed me a other way of thinking and other way of looking at life when you talked about the number of years left in our parent's life and hence with us. That really hit me. May you have a life surrounded with your loved ones the way you have imagined it and a lot more beautiful. Loads of love to you from India💜

  • @shreyaj6858
    @shreyaj6858 4 года назад +1

    Can't tell you how similar we think!!!😊

  • @ramya3987
    @ramya3987 4 года назад +1

    People like you are so rare, Shivani❤ May God bless you 😍 This video made my heart smile

  • @aarusheeshukla1241
    @aarusheeshukla1241 4 года назад +1

    i need to hear this. thanks shivani!!

  • @shivangijoshi3772
    @shivangijoshi3772 3 года назад

    Did anyone mentioned? Clarity looks so gorgeous in your head!

  • @yachnnarsethi
    @yachnnarsethi 3 года назад

    This is my favorite video on youtube! 💚

  • @jaemaxx
    @jaemaxx 4 года назад +1

    2:04 Your value system is so on point and inspiring! You value your family and relationships above everything else and you'd rather choose them over any amount of fame and money and that just shows what an incredibly beautiful and wholesome human being you are! Much love to you and wish you all the love and success for your future endeavors!

  • @sumedhahahaaa
    @sumedhahahaaa 4 года назад +2

    This was a very emotional video...🥺🥺

  • @Jasmine-en8kk
    @Jasmine-en8kk 3 года назад

    Could relate to this so so so much!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ananyasinha8828
    @ananyasinha8828 4 года назад

    omg Shivani! u are so genuine and honest! love ur videos!
    I can completely understand, being away from your loved ones is extremely difficult!! family is the most important in one's life! it is so heartwarming to see that, you value your relations more than anything else!❤️❤️

  • @suketushah6686
    @suketushah6686 4 года назад

    Superb thinking at a young age.Congrats.In a few months you wl be so happy why you gave preference to yr family to Bollywood dream in India .Wait and watch.Cheers and have a great week.

  • @PearlM38
    @PearlM38 3 года назад +4

    TLDR: she missed her family and wanted her future fam/kids to be closer to her family in the US.
    You’re welcome 👍

  • @Harsh_Singh_325
    @Harsh_Singh_325 4 года назад

    Hey Shivani Dii😍
    I think I'm first here! Love uhh so much
    Waiting for ur video....❤️❤️❤️

  • @Biophile118
    @Biophile118 3 года назад

    The reason I subscribed was I can relate to you so much ❤️

  • @poorvatrivedi4453
    @poorvatrivedi4453 4 года назад +7

    Currently what is your profession or what you are going to do in future?

  • @FM-my5vh
    @FM-my5vh 4 года назад +1

    Love u Shivani sis. You are such an amazing girl and such a great inspiration. I'm an Afghan girl living in Sweden and love u as my sister ❤❤

  • @azmiyaaroufe6483
    @azmiyaaroufe6483 4 года назад +1

    That's what corona tought us .
    To nvr take life fr granted!!!

  • @rupeshbaniya520
    @rupeshbaniya520 4 года назад +3

    Huge respect from Nepal 🇳🇵 🙏totally agreed..You will do great wherever you dive in 🤘Best wishes

  • @ritjai5482
    @ritjai5482 4 года назад

    You proved values are more than above everything.

  • @potterhead2690
    @potterhead2690 4 года назад +1

    Just love love and love for you ❤️

  • @richa5505
    @richa5505 3 года назад

    Much love to uhh...❤

  • @saadagimore9377
    @saadagimore9377 4 года назад

    You are a great inspiration Shivani.!! You are full of positive thinking and totally sweet!! Looking forward to more such inspirations. Keep Going..!!❤

  • @Tokyomeow09
    @Tokyomeow09 4 года назад +1

    It’s important to choice that what's our priority in life.
    While doing ur job after years maybe when u will become a superstar,eveyone knows u,loves u.
    But when u look back u could feel that what u had missed.Till then It's too late and u r feeling alone. So i think it is a mature decision that u have taken🥰
    Anyway, i like ur bf and seems like he really loves u.And be happy, be blessed.
    #never lost ur family

  • @niharikapandey4784
    @niharikapandey4784 4 года назад

    I know...I can feel all that u said.... I m a single child... luckily I got a big joint family.... really big...from both my mom's side n dad's side too.... I do have a lot of family members living in US like in new Jersey , Beverly hills California..... Arizona Chicago etc. N u r absolutely right about that difference part.... Some cousins from my mom's side can't speak Hindi ..n that's why they don't feel any connect with their grandparents well one girl is there...well aware of her culture n everything.... But they are all kinda separated. To be honest I don't feel any connect with my very own masi living in Arizona. But on the other hand my dad's side of family are like...we can't live without each other no matter what ... finally after 10yrs of living in US my dad's cousin or chote chacha moved back to India sacrificing all the perks n enjoyment...just for us...for our family.... We travel world together....but can't live anywhere else.... We are still able to catch up on the difference between cities.... But country noooo...... 🤣🤣

  • @nairanjanamukherjee
    @nairanjanamukherjee 4 года назад

    I always like you.. Inspiration to new generation.. always try to work hard towards ur goals..

  • @yashvibhatt1585
    @yashvibhatt1585 4 года назад

    Great move .... really appreciate it 👍👍💕

  • @impk070
    @impk070 4 года назад +3

    Shivani, I by chance watched your "modelling agency threatening video" and really admired your courage. But I am disappointed. I expected more honesty from you in terms of the reasons. We all have heard stories about how getting exploited is almost a necessity in Bollywood for getting a break in big films. you shud share some stories. and tell people the reality. Good Luck for your future.

  • @devanshirunthala1329
    @devanshirunthala1329 4 года назад +1

    More videos with Shyam......love them❤️💕

  • @nirjaparekh7584
    @nirjaparekh7584 4 года назад

    Best decision!❤️❤️❤️

  • @hibaazeem513
    @hibaazeem513 4 года назад +1

    Hello Shivani I am your biggest fan from Pakistan❤️❤️

  • @dishadugad8675
    @dishadugad8675 3 года назад

    That's such a good reason!

  • @dancewithdhriti2169
    @dancewithdhriti2169 4 года назад

    So thoughtful! Loved the video 🥰

  • @srishtiramaprasad8030
    @srishtiramaprasad8030 3 года назад

    Really appreciate this video

  • @musharathabibdolon9298
    @musharathabibdolon9298 4 года назад

    I'm really like your thinking...it's not just like... I really support ur decision... y I'm going to struggle for 20 years to lead a good life for nxt 20 yr....what if the nxt 20ys i haven't and the person also

  • @vinaysharma3871
    @vinaysharma3871 3 года назад +3

    As if you've ever worked in bollywood, c'mon stop click-baiting. Neither anyone has even heard about you nor seen in any of the bollywood content. I know my comment sounds rude, because you need to stop associating yourself with bollywood. You might have appeared in ads, but please that's not bollywood and you know that, grow up!

  • @Anione111
    @Anione111 3 года назад +1

    Was Shyam her boyfriend when she decided to go to Mumbai? I am confused. At 0:50 she said she planned to "marry a boy in Mumbai." Why she say that if she was in a relationship with Shyam?!

  • @diyashah6997
    @diyashah6997 4 года назад +1

    You literally inspire people in such a positive way .. you just made it easy for me to take my career decision .. So thank you ❤️
    And also you are a beautiful soul ❤️

  • @harmitakaurathi1440
    @harmitakaurathi1440 3 года назад +3

    Which all Bollywood movie has she worked in , I have never noticed her

  • @ManjushaChandran
    @ManjushaChandran 4 года назад

    Awww! You're so sensible & amazing 🤗

  • @muskanchugh5117
    @muskanchugh5117 4 года назад

    So Heartfelt ❤️

  • @priyadarshinipotdar4318
    @priyadarshinipotdar4318 4 года назад

    You are an angel!!Love how firm and clear you are about your thoughts!!LOVE YOU!!

  • @shrutijain5906
    @shrutijain5906 4 года назад

    hey shivani you inspire me alot and really loved how vocal you are about everything just waiting for shayam and your wedding bells lots of love from my side
    and binge watching your vlogs and post

  • @am1176y
    @am1176y 4 года назад +1

    Di I love this video.im gonna cry realising today I had a fight with my mom

  • @manishaviswaraj628
    @manishaviswaraj628 4 года назад +1

    I eagerly was waiting for a new video ... finally it came... if I missed you in Bollywood with those amazing interviews and influence others 🥺
    Ps... from where did you pick this outfit 😍 its aww- some
    Ur birthday is going to come .. yeee.... waiting for the big bash !!!!

  • @nagpalpriya32
    @nagpalpriya32 3 года назад

    Well said 👌 Life is all Abt Creating great memories. I also want to live in India only

  • @mdhamidusman9097
    @mdhamidusman9097 4 года назад

    Oh my love !

  • @vishakhadarak8412
    @vishakhadarak8412 4 года назад

    Your thoughts are just so so pure💖You are just so so genuine ❤️

  • @Nationalist390
    @Nationalist390 4 года назад

    Shivani ur beautiful , strong and much talented ❤

  • @harshithajain28
    @harshithajain28 4 года назад

    clicked as fast as I could
    Lots of love

  • @hanamodak
    @hanamodak 4 года назад +7

    5 minutes=70 likes=no dislikes=184 views
    Power of Shivani 💥
    Keep it up girl!🥺

  • @sushmitasahay1083
    @sushmitasahay1083 4 года назад

    This is soo heart touching ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sanjanagachke6338
    @sanjanagachke6338 4 года назад

    That's the reason I love you so much❤️

  • @tithi5142
    @tithi5142 4 года назад

    i love your thoughts shivani!

  • @7shakshi7
    @7shakshi7 4 года назад

    Proud of u❤️☺️

  • @shreyaajith1272
    @shreyaajith1272 4 года назад +2

    Hey Di!
    You're so beautiful and inspirational
    Would love to meet you and Shyam Bhaiyaa one day

  • @TheDeepanky
    @TheDeepanky 4 года назад +1

    Hey! I have been following you since quite some time now and I really like your thoughts, ideas and the way you carry yourself. The best part that I discovered lately is that my brother and his wife live in cleveland as well, in fact he checked it online and he told me that he lives just 20 minutes from your place. I really wish if we can meet someday. It will be like a dream come true :)

  • @ishapatel6219
    @ishapatel6219 4 года назад

    Love how you think❤️❤️❤️

  • @the_tangy_squeeze
    @the_tangy_squeeze 4 года назад

    Today, I got to see your new side :)

  • @vyshnavi9586
    @vyshnavi9586 4 года назад

    Love love love ❤️